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A Leash That We Can't Escape Without Torah

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Rabbi Yaron Reuven

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[Music] the other hand he says if you're not careful you're start making sense but yo the Satan doesn't come to you withb right away he comes to you with small little thing he says listen salad you could buy from anywhere s you can buy from Starbuck this box that box Subway you could buy it anywhere yeah but the rabbi said that there's worms there's worms and you know the green don't have to wash their uh salads like the Jews they don't have to put it in salt water they don't have to put in soap water they don't have to do it so it's going to be worms and it's a sin yes tells you come on you believe it look at the salad looks delicious you think there's worms in it if there's worms they already died yet comes to you with a small little thing looks like it's not a big deal comes to you says no come on you coming to the party come on it's your best friend he's having his vert he's having a celebration just got a z you're not gonna go like no but come on he's gonna be modesty over there his wife is not exactly the most modest person in the world and her mom is's even less modest I'm gonna go see that no come on he's your best friend since kindergarten you're not GNA go see your best friend wish him maal what kind of friend of you small little thing it looks like a small sin what is this like this is like you ever see those circuses circus and this big elephant thousands of pounds bigger than five cars elephant huge giant but the trainer has him on a tiny little dog Le you ever noticed that giant thousands of pounds elephant and the trainer brings him to the circus with a tiny little leash come on little pushy come come come elephant could eat the guy if he really want to he can just go like this the guy flies across the circus he becomes a circus why is the elephant going why is the elephant listening to him why is he listening to him tiny little leash this leash even if the even if the guy is a strong as the guy that pulls planes with his teeth the elephant wants he breaks the leash why is he coming with this tiny little leash same thing like is the same thing as the train he trained us he trained us since we were little when you were born you were only born with didn't come until so that means that since you a baby little baby has been training you with tiny little sin first sin was go slap EMA in the face three years old what she going to do so he goes go and he starts laughing he thinks it's nothing it's cute a little three years old it's actually kind of cute it's funny the father's laughing first thing he slaps em next thing you know ABA gets it also he thinks it's cute every thinks it's cute it's funny says good good good get get used to these small little things everybody's laughing everybody's get get away with it while you can next thing you know no no there's chocolate in the store take it put it in your pocket six years old put a little chocolate in his pocket stole it from the store no one knows knows he knows he's going to remember it 30 years later that he put in the chocolate ABA doesn't know IMA doesn't know yet knows he's training them little by little by the time he's 13 years old yet already has him on a leash by the time he's 20 he's a giant elephant he's 300 lbs but he's walking with a tiny little leash the yet doesn't even have to try anymore yet doesn't have to try anymore go look over there look over there look over there they look at every single woman that walks look at her so that's why you see the guys they walk in the street like one of those Fountains of water they look at anything that moves if it has a body if it has something they it goes even sometimes if it's Ain they'll look at that too everything they look at and wives sometimes ask no my husband you know he's not paying attention to me he's not paying attention to me he's hanging out with his friends he's not this he's not that I don't know I don't know what's the first question you ask you have a TV in your house you have a TV in your house yes is a TV connected to a cable channel or some news network or is connected to computer where you're just watching let's say I don't know uh some uh pre-programmed uh you know Torah or something like that no no he watches cable every day oh he watches cable okay that's why what do you mean what does it have to do with him looking or me not paying attention or something like that no because he's already married to 50,000 other women every night he comes home he sees on the news channel on the HBO channel on the Showtime channel on all these channels he sees all the women that he wants to be with and then he looks at you tab you're in your pajamas he says this is what I have this is what I have he Compares he doesn't want to look at you anymore it's your fault not his fault it's your fault your fault you let them look at other women voluntarily you're even watching it with him oh honey let's watch Desperate Housewives oh a show about IM modest women just say let's watch let's just go to Gomen have fun go to the beach there it's your fault it's your fault he doesn't like you it's your fault he yells at you it's your fault he thinks you're fat it's your fault he thinks you're not there why cuz you're constantly telling him go look at this girl go look at this girl go look at this one you're bringing him the girls what do you expect him to do not look what do you expect you're bringing it to him you're bringing it to him honey let's go watch the show together let's go to the movies watch this new actress that's half naked or sometimes completely naked but she got $25 million and people think it's a good thing Miss pays them to their face to destroy them woman goes naked shows the whole world that she she her body naked for $20 million she's the stupidest person on Earth but you bring him to the movies to go watch her look what did you think of her honey well I thought of her much better than I think of you right now but I have to go home with you and not her that's what I that's what he really wants to tell you and when I'm going to be with you later I'm going to be thinking about her that's what's actually happening but whose fault it's not him he's the elephant you've become the trainer the wife became the trainer the wife became an employee of the Satan himself why she's she's bringing him to to the to the wolves and you you're you're surprised he's looking at other women he doesn't like you anymore he doesn't want you anymore he doesn't this he doesn't that so all these women that are having schlite issues when it comes to that the first question is you have a TV you watch movies together do you do all that stuff if you do that's the reason it's the first reason why it's too much it's too much of a bait for him too much no man can withstand it we're not women we don't think like that women look at a guy and they think about his personality oh wow he looks so nice he's so funny haaha a guy doesn't think about a personality and even if he's married there for 20 years he doesn't want to know our personality well why because a guy is an animal without to he's 100% an animal so now the Satan is training us since we're little babies only weapon we have is tor only weapon we have without toah we're the elephant that's being pulled by a little string and eventually no string he just tells us what to do new lift two legs lift on your head lift on your knee lift on this without a string at all you're already doing tricks you're doing flips you're doing this why trained really well so he says why why did this happen to us because you weren't excited to do mitv it's not because you were excited for the sin it's all started because you were a lazy bum and you didn't chase MIT instead of going to you want to sleep till 11: instead of going to sh T and you wanted to watch it on YouTube you didn't want to drive an extra half hour an extra hour to go sh you want to watch it from the convenience of your couch with the popcorn he says you weren't willing to do for the T that means you didn't have the Merit of Torah and on top of that you had to occupy the time with something says bom leads to sin you do nothing you're going to end up sinning you have to do something now the first sin small sin tiny sin what's a small sin one minute one minute would you say one minute how much bad could possibly happen in one minute what could possibly go wrong with one minute if I told you that one minute and really one second is the difference between life and death spiritually forever would you [Music]