Rabbi Yaakov Rachimi - Proud To Be A Jew in the 21st Century

[Music] okay thank you our rabbi for the psalm alaikum I'll be honest with you I've been to a few places to speak random synagogues this place is very warm I walked in here I felt that home you guys should be very proud of yourself into the shore and applause this place intaglio after I spoke to the rabbi both Hashem you both came from the same places I grew up in Los Angeles a beautiful Los Angeles I know what anybody's doing in New York honestly Los Angeles is beautiful warm weather everything just life is just calmer there I then I grew up in New Jersey then I moved to Brooklyn and you don't want to know yeah okay every day is uh is a battle with the parking something you're not used to when it come from Jersey there's a lot of pressure but we'll also sure we know we learned to live at the pressure and we grow you grow from the pressure you utilize time or I start early usually the time or I start appreciating a parking spot a lot more and then the biggest thing I learned is you just know this is not part of the speech but the biggest part I learned from driving in Brooklyn is the banana haha which means the meats about the commandments between men and men men and woman why because luckily reza kent said that the soup tells us very often ethic omocha person shall love his fellow Jew look he loves himself there's a lot of interpretations what that means but he letters a Ken said what it means is whatever you don't like when someone does to you you don't do to other people that's the rule whatever a person doesn't appreciate what someone does that to him even the smallest thing one thing I'm asking from you don't do the same to your friend I learned that big time when it comes to Brooklyn driving you know why you're about to get a parking spot okay now I'm a very bad Parker takes me a long time I have a big car takes me one time to park this sneaky guy Bo Hashem cones over that's a parking spot right away that's frustrating true or not true we don't like if someone does that to us Oh Hashemi sure - selfless idea to other people or double parking Shilpa parking there's so many lessons a person can learn just from driving how to work their work and is amido - when it comes how we treat other people no connection to the speech okay so about this show was very nice very warm welcome thank you so much for having me it's my honor to be here every minute here wherever arrange the speech you should just know it's not a small thing when 10 Jews get together of course how much more so a lot more than 10 Jews get together Hashem has so much nugget he gets so much pleasure when Jews get together to do what to party so Harlem watch a movie to do something else know what are we getting together for Tamika desh sham sham I'm to praise the the Torah the words of a son to be proud the fact that we Jews especially in our generation where society is pulling us in so many different directions and we get together on a random night you know much of a key decision that is you know much that means that shouldn't every second over here and for the person that arranges this shoe is there any shmatte there was a name lien in schmatta a male Luba that's iron it's like I have no doubt that thing just brought us getting together the neshamah the souls are ready going up and up and up in sham I'm when I'm out I'm in where is my sniffer can disperse the safer okay uh but I I'm gonna start off with something that I didn't plan is starting off it always happens in the speeches so just the way it is you never say really where you prepare that's why I'm sick of a parry that's a truth because there's so much to my parents are being you prepare nothing that's really what happens because Torah is so beautiful there's so much information in the Torah there's so much beauty there's so much richness is so much gold is so much fun and awesome joy everywhere at the Torah I can stand here for hours and hours and hours it's not enough so I don't know what to prepare you prepare topic but everything is true everything is beautiful what do you say there's just so much to say but I'll try BCIT this Maya miss a traditional Ibis Hotel Beaman together hopefully their words all will say we'll make it if it's on me there's at the ship I'm here only to change myself by the way that's the role public speak so you got to practice what you preach although I still don't practice what I preach but at least I preach it you guys ever heard that line before before practice the first of the preacher so this whole speech I'm here to change myself and talk to myself yesterday I had the great honor of being with a caver of the lubavitcher rebbe right here in Queens sometimes again in the mood of just going to the bhava Chavez cave you know it's right here you have to grab the moment grand opportunity I drove there and I dive and and I pray that was so beautiful it was so much talk it was so sweet just being there with the team in my hand and a vinegar prank as a meaning to tell him although I read it so many times in my life that Chapel tell him in the Vida Mela King David and tell him he said in the pursuit mia ich Chaka Fattah him who is the person that wants life well via meme Lovato he wants to see his days he wants to have good in his days and it's all the shakaama da person should watch her how he speaks from one another a person should not do sins and do good that's the regular interpretation of the verse of the view the meta but as I was praying their battle above each other but I got this new thought and I want to share with you a new thought and it could be to all of you to most of you it's obvious but to me it was new and it was so refreshing when that funk into my head Mia Ishika FETs claim who is the person that loves life you know a lot of people say oh I love life live life live life you know you go around the billboards all the stories lived life everything is about live life but who's a person that really loves life Mia Ishika FETs ke o EV via meme a person that loves his days what does he mean he loves his days a person that knows how to utilize every day to its fullest not a person that says tomorrow I'll do this tomorrow I'll be a better person tomorrow I'll act nicer to my wife tomorrow we're not gonna get into fights tomorrow I'm gonna agonize it to my friend tomorrow I won't Gina business tomorrow I'm gonna do meets vote tomorrow I'm gonna potentially know as a person that knows that I live the moment that day that he's in right now so who is a person that loves life me Aisha covets Khayyam you know who it is or ever you mean a person that knows that I appreciate actual day every day the dishum gives them then what it's gonna happen to him the verse goes on leave all 12 then he will see good why cuz when a person utilizes every moment he has in life every day every hour if he utilizes it the good things of going meats vote and tow aleck over here you utilize it to give naka talk - em to give satisfactory to certain pleasure tension leave what of those people are going to see a lot of good visitation agreed or not agreed wash them not fiducia i got yesterday film and the bhava travis gave her okay Robert Tang we know / all he had a dream his dream was you know there was gonna be a major major famine king power and Egypt King Pharaoh as I say you had a dream in Egypt that he's gonna have a major larva major famine see he says listen Oh shame I got us I got a sign from heaven that this tragedy is gonna happen let's start preparing now let's start saving up as much as wheat kernels or whatever as much food as possible that the Torah tells us the pole was looking for not just any administrator or any CEO he was looking for a dam for a person I was hahaha Vanna von who was smart ven Ivana von literally what it means is a person that Noah's had a look into things he knows and analyzed facts he knows that a look into fact that deeper understanding he knows that a look ahead of situations so king pero says I mean a person that's not only just gonna organize the factories and the storage that I have I need a person that's a ha ha and enough one why do you need such a talented extra-extra genius of a person for something that you don't need such a genius you just need a good administrator that knows how to run things well that's very organized that's smart that knows that a safe time why does he need such an extra genius of a person so tell us the Honam the Mercer Starbucks as an asset for the grab anusha line he says let's be realistic his job was you suffered Sadiq his job was that although right now he has so much wheat in front of his face there was chef ax there was abundance it was so much good his job was although there's good and funny right now but later on there's not gonna be any good this could be a famines could be enough so his job was to save as much food as he could for the years where there's not gonna be any food sounds easy but at the moment when a person has so much good in front of him but chef I yes so much of it it's very hard to think about in 7 years from now oh I got a save I got a save for 7 years from now it's very hard to think like that you save here you set a little bit there a little bit there but he needed a genius of a person a person that knows that look ahead of time Ezra haha I know a person who knows how to see the know loud they know they see the outcome of the situation see neither yourself it's a dick because near the person that although you has so much good in front of him and so much food he knows how to save it and grab it for later the Torah tells us every single Jew by the way has in each sorts of you suffered Sadiq he has a part of him in his soul he has of yourself at Sadiq one of the messages that you suffered said he gave us was this message Jews have it in them to think ahead of time to always put in their minds what's gonna be about the day after tomorrow which means a person in this lifetime has so much opportunities to grab so much toha to learn every 1 min of learning Torah the Talmud is a big Mitzvah so much good Commandments to do to light the candles every end of Shabbat if I pressed to make a blessing before it drinks a cup of water for a person to make a blessing when he goes outside the bath and there's so much means what - watch your mouth to say a good word to a friend to put on tefillin there's so much so much Commandments in Torah and opportunities a prison can grab but if he doesn't grab it while he's alive and healthy bookish Evan manifests in China then after 120 and Olam haba that's it whatever you came with to the next world that's what a person was with call it away a bed of Shabbat or helpers about English whoever cooks on Friday for Shabbat will have something to eat on Shabbat because we know it's about the person can cook so if a present didn't cook before he has nothing to eat in Shabbat so too says the Kamala Kornet Oh a fan of Shabbat whoever works in this world which means he grabs and he grabs another Mitzvah another paternity another good word another moment of Toma he runs and he grabs it and he utilizes his time you hugged Shabbat that's the person that's gonna have something to live with in the next world and that's in every single one of us myself and every single one of us just like yourself at Sadiq had this of a genius of a person then knew although you had so much good in front of him he didn't mrs. edit he didn't like make-believe oh it's gonna last forever who cares about it no he saved every single kernel he saved wheat and he thought about the day after tomorrow next seven years afterwards was gonna be a famine so to every single one of us let's utilize the opportunity that we have there were alive in health you think you're shem and utilized it for good things like right now and do the meats fault in the torah and try to grab as much as you could you know i read an interesting article very random article could be true could be it's not sure whatever it is the messages for sure true there was this lady in thailand very very poor lady very poor lady she suffered so much broken teeth she couldn't of course you can't afford a dentist oh I have a crazy store but the dentist happened to me a few months ago I ran to tell you afterwards socha of course you could afford the dentist she had no money she went begging she was in the train station for months and months and asking for money what happened was this lady this year she wasn't a touch she had a son she wasn't a touch with her son for over 20 years of course he removed that Italian he moved to England Great Britain he moved to England meanwhile this sod aho became such a wealthy guy he did good at business he had a nice apartment in England you know he had his good cup of coffee every morning much better than in dentists he had a nice car everything was going well for for some reason the son decided not to checker and his mother after 20 years who knows what hit him he sends a postcard to his mother okay sent to the address he hopes that she still lives in the same place she gets it and then it start being a touch and then soon after she moves to England and then she goes back to her son there's so much money so this lady went for me poor person that went through so much suffering begging for people for money to a wealthy lady now think about this when I read this article I analyzed it I said you know there's a big message to life that spoke to me when I read this article what's the message the message is you know a person myself always searching to be happy what's gonna make me happy what's gonna give me a happiness this is this Avenue to be give me happiness this path is gonna give me happiness this advice maybe if I'll do this I'll be happier maybe I shall make more money I'll be happier maybe if I get a 2019 BMW I'll make me happier maybe if I'll live in a different place I'll be happier there's always ways to think that's gonna make me happy that's gonna make me happy but meanwhile meanwhile we have a very very wealthy bank account waiting for us what's that wealthy bank account Hashem the fact us Jews are able to talk to em to talk to God the fact that we can learn Torah the fact that we can do His commandments should give us so much joy should give us so much happiness that is the best thing in the world us Jews are the happiest people in the world because the most wealth so why beg for other places why think if I go there if I have more money if I have more physical desires if I'll do this I'll be happier no no no let's not think like the that's the way that going think we have a whole different world we have a whole different system all-digital bank account us Jews the sons of Shem daughters of a Shem we have a lot of wealth what's that wealth the fact that we can talk to Shem the fact that we can listen to Torah the connection the connection that we ever the Shem is so beautiful you know a few months ago I teach in this beautiful organization called Kazakh beautiful organization unfortunately in Queens we know of over 10,000 children in public school the we know of Jewish kids in public school so they have this after-school program that's beautiful and you sit down and you learn with the boys girls on with the girls boys alone with the boys there was one boy that told me you know I am so not happy with my life I'm so depressed I don't feel like there's anything that my life I'm not good at sports he told me he doesn't have money to go shopping he doesn't have a car that some of his friends have and as parents are not doing so good with each other people make you fun of him and I told him you know you mentioned so many things that are bad I agree that's hard it's definitely hard but there's one beautiful thing that nobody can ever take it away from you and that's something the some people can live their whole lives not utilizing it then it's a gold it's beauty what is that the connection to God the connection teshon the fact that we can pray that Shem and ask him and speak to him that is the most beautiful thing that gives a person happiness that nobody can ever take it away in a manner where he is in the world they could speak to God you know we just last week okay again nothing I prepared okay last remind me through the paper last week we had Yamaha in Israel the day of the Holocaust every year it's mind-boggling but every year there's new information every year there's so much to learn so much so much to learn from the Jews that went through the Holocaust there was one person that passed away around two weeks ago big ramp at the Calavera bow carve Rebbe he was a Holocaust survivor he survived the Holocaust and he billed himself afterwards in Israel he went through a lot of pain he said there was one night that the Nazis amatis amant visa come told them you see all the animals waste they put on the wagon you made him put in a wagon and he said your job is to take this wagon to a certain place far away and when I telling you how to get there you break your head you don't come back boom so of course he doesn't have a choice he says he went on his journey and he's walking at night oh you don't even think about the pain okay let's not think about the pain but he's walking and walking and walking it got dark he doesn't know where he's going no hope and then he trips everything falls he starts crying he sits in the floor he's like oh god there's borrow who I lost my family I lost my fan of my house I lost my friends I lost my shoe I lost my clothing might fili my Salim I have nothing left and he cried and he cried and he said as he was crying arose in him and his in his soul something woke up they told them Calavera become an actor Mendel's name was Menachem Mendel you don't understand you have me Hashem everything was stripped away for you there's one thing you could not take away from the Jews what's that one thing abot I the fact that we are connected teshon the togetherness that we have a Zalman if as a chosen nation it's something that we're gonna carry with us for generations and generations and something that a person can never ever take away from any Jew he actually said so somebody asked them about the Yad Vashem you know whenever the museum in Israel about the Holocaust which is very important very important but he said my lesson from the Holocaust is not to have a Museum of objects my lesson the Holocaust is to have a living museum what does living museum means like rabba bell skis a whole nother focaccia Steve our book that once said they asked him why is that they're religious Jews and yo ma chuan in Israel you know in Israel when I grew up also for Fears in Israel I remembered the day of Holocaust there's a car alarm like a very very strong alarming everybody SS stand still daddy a car you have to stand still there are some Yeshivat where they learn Torah that don't do that they keep on going then everybody does at the keep on going so one time a person went to the ribowsky and she asked him she says why is it that the learning people don't stand for the Amish wha why is that they don't show respect for the six million Jews that passed away he told her a beautiful line he says we live for what they die for we live not only once a year for one moment for what they die for we live our whole lives for what they passed away for what did they pass away for for the fact that they're Jews from the fact that they keep Torah means fought if an infected Jews are present God in the world that's why they passed away that's what the Nazis imagined wanted to kill them so we as religious Jews as Jew that do meets vote I want to seek good and want to get closer touch em we are the biggest remembrance of the Holocaust survivors you think we're remembering them a lot more than the Holocaust in Israel what a beautiful message to understand the responsibility then the standing what we're carrying on our shoulders every time we learned Torah every time we do me talked we're doing so much good not only for ourselves and for our generation but us listening to a Shem but us getting together do meets what like this we're taking care of the next generation we're passing on the the torch to the next generation were they gonna pass on torch to the next generation I also heard on the radio last week no connection to the speech I heard already on the last week of a son that his father survived the Holocaust he told them says father told them one story he was a very good musician this father so the Nazis Omashu mom made him play guitar piano he's a very very talented guy so be used to make parties that night these evil people and they will make him come play the music now after the Jew played such a good music you know you got to give him something back said we'll give you a supper but of course like the Nazis a mastermind they can't see a Jew enjoy himself so what do they do I'm just giving you an example to understand the situation that happened there they put the food in the garbage can they tied his hands and they made him eat it from the garbage can like a can and I have the other elephant a lot that's the iminium eat from the garbage says son asked of dad I feel bad asking this I have God's asking us I have a question what's it easier to just pass away why let the Germans have this pleasure of torturing you that's what they like doing they like to watch him torturing Jews isn't it better you're gonna beat them better if you just pass the white just let them kill you she says no my son you don't understand the Germans what did they want to do you know he says that the leader your master moretta in his book straight up nobody should read this book but he says in his book straight up his method was that there always has to be superior people and smaller people many people that you have to put down human beings in that equal that's what the leader of Nazi Germany Maximus said there always has to be people that are better than everybody else and the people that are small and that is good shame them put them down that's what Hitler you maximum held and he wrote in his book listen to this powerful man which he were in his book as long as Jews exist my message will never get across why because Jews follow the Torah and the Torah tells them every man is equal the Torah tells them every man has a chance to get close to God no matter what he did his whole life no matter what time in his lifetime how old he is how young is who his parents are how much money has no matter what every man is equal if he picks himself up utilizes his time believes themselves and goes forward with it he could get close to God he can accomplish so much every man is equal and as long as Jews exist my message or never got across not every man is equal kill the Jews that's what Hitler did he mushroom ovz ho so his father told them say if I were to kill myself I want to give them the win in their hands mission accomplished no we wanted to live and we told our friends by the but the camps over there we told each other one day because that the Shem we're gonna get out of here and we're gonna build a family and we're gonna teach him about God and about Judaism about how awesome is to be a Jew and we're gonna pass on the message we're never gonna let the Nazis win that's right that's how we beat the Nazis imagine my music come to me it was a powerful message powerful message what we do means so much to God but not only now for the future the message that we carry is massive you know recently in the news again okay whatever recently in the news do you guys mind I'm doing this no okay please be honest recently in the news if you guys know there was a soldier and the Bibi Netanyahu brought back you guys follow his valley news okay there was a soldier brought back after I think it was 36 years 35 years now there's a story behind this story of small le al the son of our more Natalia the Chief Rabbinate Israel former ones a constellation of us said the story over he said he went to the l'viyah and Bellavia the family of the soldier that they brought back was thinking Prime Minister Netanyahu so much Thank You Prime Minister thank you so much thank you so much over talking you talking he went over to and he said he know what's going on over here what's this overloaded amount of compliments you know why you're thinking so much and I'm praising him so much in an unusual manner so she tells them no Ramba you don't understand what happen here we haven't seen this is the sister talking we haven't seen my brother for a long time 30 years for sure and we always said why is the Prime Minister I am working hard for us why is he not demanding from the Syrians from the Arabs to bring me back to soldier oh he's such a bad Prime Minister I'm not gonna vote for him why is he doing so bad why is he not he's not working hard if all he's such a bad politician we were always negative negative negative negative until we said 360 let's change course this new plan let's be positive let's talk positive let's give the benefit of the doubt to the Prime Minister and talk only good and let's see what happens and that's what they did for a few years they said Netanyahu will do it it's not easy you know Israel unfortunately Thomas shekels gonna come there's a lot of problems we have a lot of enemies we're surrounded by so many enemies every day that where they're alive but Hashem in health is never asleep it's almost America what's going on over there there's so much things to do it's not easy for the prime minister just asked for a soldier that's not alive somewhere in Syria for 30 years come on give him the benefit of that sound easy about what happened we believe in a tenant we believe in him he'll do it I'll do it I'll do it I'll do it listen to what happened after a few years Bibi Netanyahu knew that he has a meeting with the president dictator corner you want of Russia okay now they said we know Putin is gonna tell us asking for one thing I lie on me you know the world says when Putin says on me it means on him it's a famous line so Netanyahu said before I go there let me make with priorities 10 most important things I'm gonna ask him from 10 to 5 from 5 to top 3 things that are most important and most dangerous that we need help for the Israel for the Israel state certain he goes he goes to Russia he sister Putin but this is listen Anthony I'll thank you for helping me out because they help them out with a secret mission what do you want ask you for one thing I'll give you what favor do you want Nataniel said as I was sitting there I don't know why but your brother your soldier the pastor came to my mind his name was bomb well you said I want bomber well Netanyahu said I didn't even realize I said it when the words can hate me like Papa well wait why did I just say that for said and Putin is like who whose bomb was like a soldier Putin is like you have a captive soldier in Syria you guys didn't tell me he's like no he's dead he's like dead what do you guys care about him how many years ago is this over 30 years ago over 30 years ago that soldier that's how you asking me put this that's oh you asking me there's nothing like the Jewish nation if this is why you asked it for Netanyahu I'll get them ask you for another favor Netanyahu said the story over to the family there's two messages Ireland's in the story just happened two messages one message is the importance of speaking positive giving the benefit of the doubt doing good speaking good complimenting giving love saying good words don't put down rise up don't hate hug say good words around that good morning how are you wow what a beautiful shul wow you look so good Wow nice house nice car you did so good you wrote you got a hundred your test unbelievable you did such a good job you look good this morning be positive that's one message second message is look at this there's nothing like the Jewish nation we should get up and dance just in the story look what's going on over here and Netanyahu is that even your religious Jew technically right he's any religious Jew even the non religious Jew has such importance to a Jew that's not even alive that's just has a body for over 30 years if that's a Jew that's not alive how important he is he put it as a priority for this Valdez that there's so much things going on over there how much more so appetite is alive Jew every single one of us I'll hold you is a whole world how hot worry you know it's so I don't know about you but for me gives me a look we are so important that Shemin every single one of us every Jew you know how come about yourself that's leadership aha it was well known that they would go from place to place that gives you a taught to give classes in his later years we're used to seeing him in the pictures in the videos he had a packed house wherever you went coming by this coming boom everybody shows up but in his young young years even younger than me he will go there was a few people there one of his students in Brooklyn was Arab in Brooklyn told me that he one time went with them from you shall I'm to L act the lattice in the south of Israel right South Ariza yeah it's a TV part of Israel technically but you went to a lot to give a class they traveled it was so hard to travel from do you know the homo Valley was carsick he had a very hard time driving but he wanted to learn every moment he has so many times students say he learned while I was drawing while he was in the car and he threw up but then he kept on learning and then he threw up and he kept on learning and he said no I want to learn but left the cupboard there even one driving no matter what happens it's a famous story basically they go to a lot this student was shocked not even 10 people were there can you imagine provide yourself chief rabbi visceral every moment is so precious to him how dare you bring him all the way to a lot for not even 10 people a student goes to his rabbi tis very common idea he says this is disrespectful it's all what's but to do such a thing like that I'm invited turns to student and he says don't you dare speak like that to Hashem every Jew is a whole world every Jew was worth travelling hours and hours and hours if I'm able to save them and light up the spark of the neshamah even a little bit how do you speak like that 10 people 5 people 2 people hundred people that's not the way we look at things every Jew it's the whole world ok now we're gonna see the speech how much time do I have huh gender I have honesty okay let say a little bit now this thing of believing in ourselves and understanding how important we're attached them let's be honest with ourselves it's hard to believe in it it's hard to believe in it a person to recognize how important is that Shem and how we can live every second with the Shem it's not a easy step to get to it's a fact exist it's alive and kicking this thing but it's not easy to get to that to that moment to that opportunity for example let's say I shut off the lights over here is anything realistically going to change the room no the chairs of the same chairs the beams are the same beams the windows everything is here when I turn on the light turn off the light nothing realistically changes the only in the changes is a seeing what's in front of us says Dali zelicah does God exist Hashem runs the world the Shem is here right here right now Hashem lives with every person every Moniz life even though he's at the lowest of the low he has an opportunity to grow and pick himself up a Sherman is there with him as I was waiting for us to talk to him he's waiting he's listening he wants us to talk to him but it's up to a person to make that choice to see it or not to see it you have a Munna you're working in we're not and you faith the clearer your life will be because the light is on and you see what's in front of you if a person chooses not to take that path rather live the life of the free like the Americans call it no God do what you want no boss party president is systole of that life although it seems fun at the moment uh-uh it's a very hard life and nothing changes realistically in front of the face cut the mid suit reality is still the same reality but it's our choice that we turn on the light and see it or not the more and when a person has the clear vision and everything that's going on his life will be when a person lives with a Shem the happier we'll be you know the Rambam rights people are asking if you take a survey that's a as limiters of Destler if that's what brings down machine the Rumba he says let's see take a survey let's split the world into three different type of people the wealthy the middle class and the poor I feel like a president already won't the way they said all the time well a fee middle class and the poor go to their wealthy people are you happy they say yes now come on are you really happy like there's nothing that bothers you and I start opening up a little bit yes it bothers me a lot I want my friend the business in the city makes a lot more money than me definitely bothers me give me a little more yeah you know me and my wife and I really getting she wants this and she wants this issue and I want this and I was she wants to go to Puerto Rico I'm gonna go to Mexico's major feds going on children don't ask he's never home 20 cars 50 girlfriends I know what's going on he's never home uh-huh you're not so happy no I'm not okay let's go to the middle class are you happy well not yet I am working to eventually be happy I am working to save money in my bank so eventually one day I can have a car I have a house got a vacation E whatever I want but I'm always living to have money for the day after tomorrow we need to always always one day be happy so right now usually I don't have so much money so I'm not so happy average person true or not true true thank you next thing poor person poor person are you happy of course not of course not the ritual was taken away the money for me I can't buy whatever I want I always have to beg people for money I can't afford insurance I can't do this I can't do that says of Dessler a person can come to a conclusion realistic when a person is honest with himself average person is not happy facts an average person that's like called happiness that's like all happiness so how could it be Sylvester God hashem created the world to create a world of beauty of joy of light of happiness so how could it be can have a person ever possessed not happy she says a beautiful lesson to life and they hit me like he shook me when I heard this beautiful lesson he says Hashem created every person perfect exactly what he needs the family that he needs for his mission in life whatever money he needs for his mission his life the place that he lives the job that he has the wife the husband the kids that he has the parents everything is exactly what you need for your mission in life you were made perfect the life I give you is perfect but what happens says loved us not a person chooses to live a life upon his a keen eye at avakov odd matsui matada mandela mid-semester Pirkei Avot three things take a person out of his world out of the good weather shouldn't give them what are those three things kena what a person is jealous of one another I want something else that my friend has I don't want this it's not good enough I want this I want this you just went to pace off to a hotel New Jersey how beautiful no next year I want Mexico I said enough you have a good car that works no I want the 2019 car 2020 car jealousy I don't have to see too many examples every person could apply it himself but when a person is jealous he never lives his life so it takes an ED of his good life out of his all ambition give him a tire via the desires what does desire mean desire is a big chapter but what it means is that a person desire something that he doesn't need to live that's basically what it means you come home okay I'm talking to myself if more fuses ok whatever I come home no supper is not ready Oh yo yo he comes a big test you know you come home from a hard day of learning hard their work what do you mean there's no supper ready no no this supper she takes eggs puts in the fire boom boom boom here's your supper oh yeah that's a big test because I could go down the block and order me a nice schnitzel sandwich right now I don't have to go through this but that's called a desire yeah cool that's called a desire talking to myself if you go have that sandwich and you don't just be quiet and enjoy the fact that you have eggs and bread you're going after you this oh you're not gonna be happy like that that's not gonna be a happiness that's kapha wanting something more than you need then there's a kavod there's a respect respect something that everybody has two small something to have small measure bigger measure everybody has a certain type of respect that they want to pursue that they don't deserve and that they're not getting and if they don't get it they're unhappy so says of death soshim created a perfect world every person has the happiest life ever exactly what he needs but a person decides and it takes a choice to step out of it go out of what God told him I am better than you I want this stuff a world that is unhappy then he asked him why you're not happy - mean - yeah and mash em ilakaka a person has to live with God not outsmart God Hashem knows exactly what he's doing you know I just learned that the earth goes around the Sun right we all know the earth goes anta son do you know how many miles listen to this do you know how many miles a year earth goes around the Sun over on earth a time exactly it was over a hundred fifty million miles now let's think about it every day that goes by that means we're getting closer and closer that amount of miles do we feel it as every minute of the day goes by do we feel it no are we realistically moving isn't happening yes and I thought to myself for a beautiful message every day we wake up in the morning we pay attention we wake up we say more day Annie you think of something mistake you for a minute phonetic amela havoc I am we wash our hands we say anything at the time we get dressed put on seat seat with Kissimmee Zoo so we bless such a moment but hot before we eat and after we eat we'll make a distraction wherever we go we don't we do so many meets lot but we're looking at like small meets foot yeah when it comes to court we put the sukar and love that's a mitzvah when it comes perimeter Mankulam you that's a mitzvah young people we fast that's rabbi that's what I call a mitzvah no no no no Shem says straight up it doesn't work like that mitzvah column it's raha moi person doesn't know what the small metal it's a big Mitzvah ever emits it makes a big difference in the Shem so the message is that just like we move around the Sun every second we don't realize it but eventually we end up so many miles around the Sun the whole year and every day that goes by it's more miles so to every day that goes by person there's so many myths what although at the moment he doesn't feel it but after that year you look back we're in accomplishing year I did so much meets what so much TOA i did so many good things I held myself back from saying bad words I gave so many compliments to people and it's I sent abroad before I ate and after eight although it becomes common to us so we got used to be got immune to it but every time we do it we are moving further and further closer and closer to God and that's a major thing there's a big rabbi in some Israeli l'épée on Zef consiglio serviço he said over a story oh I just remembered at the nuts a show yet sound when I went out of the bathroom why cuz I want to say it publicly so I'm gonna sachet it's alright now okay and every please answer amen okay Oh denial and America I'm a shame because Monica Felicia had barakatuh deny affair holder some real I thought now why did I say publicly and there's a reason the reason why I'm going to say pop-y so I wanted to say publicly recently last week there was a story in Israel a couple in Petach Tikva they had a daughter Mossad Tabo Hashem very good the daughter couldn't see well her eyes were a working mom they weren't from doctor the doctor from surgeon to surgeon listen this is what she is she has to go to a special school when she goes all day nothing you could do about it I said are you sure Tinley not know if you could do about it but the parents were champions the parents were strong people they said no no no no no we know that ashen gave us the power of prayer the power of asking a Shem for whatever we want just have to believe in it and you have to keep on going keep on going never give up the mother took upon herself that fair - three minutes a day she's gonna go to the corner of the house nobody's watching and she's gonna talk tension personal relationship ask Hashem to hear her daughter think Hashem although it's awkward the first couple times try it at home if a person takes that upon himself it's a life-changing thing speak tension a few moments a day it gets awkward but it's a life-changing thing and when and she did that for a couple of months that's what she did and the father took upon himself the Fernan one when he says the pecan when he leave the bathroom of a sugared sow he's not gonna say it anymore as he's drying his hands or as he's walking in his business with all the things he's gonna stop and he's gonna see the book harvest show you sow slowly with cover now that's he took upon himself and Bosh Emma but I good news for the Jews the daughter is better she can see and the doctors are shocked happily-ever-after story that just happened two small actions talk to God two three minutes say that show yet I'll be cover now it looks like two small things but no major major major things like the famous Mark Twain once said he happens to be he's a Jew to us it should be understood by him Mark Twain said that big people know how to make small things into big things what is the big people mean people that know how to analyze like Yousef it Siddiq that we learnt the person knows how to look deeper into things a person touches tick thing matters as they are facts as you know they look deeper into things person knows how to see the future AHA Martineau loud big things Nanami small things into big things small actions are really big actions small people which means physical desired worldly people that don't really think about the future and only live the moment and not do what's good a hundred percent small people make big things into small things go to that class not tonight next with big deal what's gonna happen it ready okay I missed one Union I'm not gonna put on tefillin okay I'm not gonna have two candles Friday night big deal okay so I'm not going to the Chanukah candles I'm not making one blessing before they make big things into small things that doesn't work like that we are people and we always will be people they know that every act of mitzvah means tremendous tension it makes a big effect in sham I'm in this world and the next world so how did I get there okay sir LLL pee on he said the one time he made a person religious now he made a person a couple people all that a couple idea of soldiers religious you know why because one time he was on a bus traveling and there were soldiers on the bus he had to he was an old man he had to stop by for a bathroom break he goes to the bathroom and his gabbai the person next to him student told them Ashley it's al he's like no no no no no I'm gonna say it son on the bus and I want the idea of sorta answer on me she goes in the bus and he tells them idea of soldiers coming I'm gonna say about how you answer I mean he said the baha was such Cavanaugh such concentration he meant it so much and then they answered our men and believe it or not I remember exact numbers but a couple that became religious just from one blessing of a show yourself I've cover now that this remedy develop young in the power of one Baha my grandfather how much return do I have unbelievable in we said what I said okay my grandfather he was in all the Israeli Wars all the wars he told me to me and I resented religious Jew he told me unfortunately one day he won't be visit to Shimon he's an amazing person he told me an amazing story that happened to his friends as we all know the Sinai Peninsula right now is owned by Egypt but really it was Israel's we took it over and then we give it back there's the Egypt plan that's a peace process that we had so he was there my grandfather's one of the soldiers that was in the tanks people over there fighting against the Egyptians he said there was one tank that the Egyptians ambushed them full of Israeli soldiers they had no chance and he says he remembers by the walkie talkies by the radios of the IDF how these soldiers were screaming for help they were screaming it's so scary just imagine how scary it is and then he had a friend that told them a boat I say a blessing like what say a blessing but what say any blessing that you know think of Shem someone is really searching the other tank that was ambushed with Egyptian says okay I'll set one blessing and everybody enzyme and he goes below Hitoshi and the Kino melech ha-olam i'm not see left I mean outlets that's what he said and all the man said are men and believe it or not whatever happened over there this survived the true story Albert a true story now when you said this story over that's a clear miracle yeah clear clear miracle but what some people take it to say Okuma kind of let's take it God is with us every second a day let's utilize it let's live life let's enjoy ourselves got it how awesome every second is a miracle some people might look at it yeah but it didn't happen to me it happened to him like the famous story of two Israelis then went to to the Philippines and one of the friends as they were going in the forest he started screaming says all the friend turns to see why this friend screaming because he had a huge snake around this foot extremely dangerous can dine a split second he said screaming Satsuki mr. Trent Azam Modi the Gita my sled sayshe my sled and he said SHINee / American Hashem Akkad and the snake went off and he survived so that's friend that the snake when and him became religious open miracle his friend one of the newspapers I writer from was interviewing him ah he friend is religious and how are you doing I'm not religious I'm why you're not religious I'll have the miracle didn't happen to me happy to him can you imagine that answer there's so many signs in life there's miracles all over the place there's goodness the Shem is throwing so much good at all so much but ha so much heffa but we just have to open up our eyes we have to utilize the moment utilize the goodness the joy the fact that we could talk to a sham we recently went on vacation and you know sometimes when you go past the bridge do you realize how big the ocean is do you know how deep the ocean how much water there's a whole world and then you go to the mountains each mountain is huge you look at the Sun the creations are unbelievable the human body a baby is born there's so much things going on do you recognize that we talked to the God that created these massive think three times a day that you have to Davin as men and then you could talk to him it's up to you if you want to utilize the moment you could talk them every moment have you dinner just the thought of the fact that you're talking to the Creator the world who created all the oceans and all the managers that thought you give such happiness the person we're in a petunia the fatty we connect him like that look we're on this exposure shop okay the stream theorem says you Jews have to be holy what is worth Kaddish mean kaduche means separated like I mean hits are random like a gate around the person separated from the nations in the world separated with the actions in a person when a man marries a woman what does he tell her hey at makuu - Jet Li what does he mean are they at Mick who - Italy you are mine no of the man in the world that woman is that man that's it only them together makuu Deshmukh Edition means singular which means you are mine your mouhot you are specialized specifically for this man so we are I'm a Kadosh what does Amica douche mean next to the game go humor also creations they have to praise a Shem and we have to do only good for them but we're Amica - we are separated we're a special we are one we are a lot more connected to God in the are a lot more a lot more connected Bonita Levine we are curvy vertical is boho how do we know Shem loves us he know she loves us because the gamma tells us when the Jew wants to do a novella let's he has in mind to do a sin and he didn't do it Shem doesn't calculate as if he did it but when a Jew has in mind to do a mitzvah he has a mind to give charity he has a mind to go to shul he has a mind to put in Philly and he has a mind to be to do more meets fault but it ends up being it didn't happen something came and intercepted his whole plan and did it happen the math says a Shem takes that thought do you wanted to do that sincere thought or some takes it and makes as if you did it you get a point another Mitzvah but they're going it's the other way since the finish hi the other way what do you want to do a sin and then it happen it's as if they did it one thing when I'm doing beats five didn't happen uh uh you don't get a for effort you want a time um doesn't love Islam Battaglia you know how much a Shem loves us Hashem wants us to call me once it's too good he's not here to get us is here to elevate us he's here to bring us closer make us happier I gave you so much just open up your eyes how awesome it is to be a Jew so how does a person become happy when you lose with Hashem when a person lives his life had as a president become happy when he's himself when he does his sport portion in life Ezra sheila's America who's happy a person who's happy with the part of his mission that I shouldn't give him every human being is perfect perfect when it comes to Shem you can say everything does is perfect when it comes to human beings you guys have heard of no son Sherman he did the arts Commerce or publication so he put out tons of books made your editor he said a big line he said the enemy of success is perfection to be perfect that's the enemy of success why because in Judaism we get a for effort when we try that is an accomplishment in Judaism the effort is the accomplishment not the outcome it's a big difference in the goldshire world it's the outcome if you win the Olympics you win if you don't I don't care where you got your loser if you win the football thing that's a cold again Super Bowl if you were in the Super Bowl you win if you're the other team you lose you don't get a for effort nobody cares about you president you can offer president you lose yeah out of the White House don't even get close to the White House no a for effort and Judaism how beautiful it is you get a for effort you sincerely try you really mean to do good you really really do a shun gives you a call a cavour the Shrek ha beautiful a for effort keep on trying like the pursue concealed him says I'm gonna read one thing for the paper so Madhavan the medic says he's McLaren of Accession says AHA vets claim who has a happy heart who is unhappy with myth Akshay a sham for those who know Hebrew then the vocation is to seek to want says a cop it's a notice King David is not saying who's happy those who do let's on a Shem it's those who seek the will of God those who seek the truth will be happy says a huff exclaim why why is it like that because when a person is searching for the truth when a person is constantly once to better to get closer and closer to him he is the person that a Shem loves that Hashem is gonna get close and he will get close to him but if a person his whole life of course he gets rewarded for it and of course it's us who to do meets fought but if he just does it because he has to do it not because he feels it there because you want to get close to God that's no good of course this hearts and it's tied to certain level but someone God wants from us he wanted to be Mavic Shaya Shem seek Hashem run after it search friends open up your eyes I'm gonna end the petition I'm gonna have questions the Rambam says who's the first person to discover Shem Tov I'm Aveeno who was the first Jew Baba vino as a major lesson to learn from Valentino there's a mahaki tanana banham what and what age did have um have you knew find God some say three years old you found God some see 40 some say 48 now one of the rabbit said there's no contradiction three or 40 you know why notice in the words of the Rambam he says that a three years old of rama v new didn't find god he didn't find the Shem a Vivino started searching fresh em he started searching fresh I'm at the age of three he's akka what's going on over here why am i bearing down to these stars I know what's going schist doesn't make sense it's gotta be a creator let's get close to him instead of searching searching he didn't give up he grew up in a society where everyone's telling him no no no I don't worship no God and don't go there idol worship don't do that only physical desires any fought then you search and he searches so you got that the age of 40 so although he found God at the age of 40 but because he started searching at the age of three we already considered that he found God at the age of three what's the message the message is when a person is searching for the truth you're already serving a shame you're already are a stunner you're already ours claim Colson close attention because a person who searches will get there like one of the big psychologist says he says I split the world into two separate sections those who want to learn from what's around them and the who don't want to learn what's around them those who want to learn what's around them and face reality will become better people those who choose not to learn what trend are never gonna succeed two separate types of people and everything goes on to that whether you succeed or not everything goes in those two categories are you a person the face is reality and wants to become betting a close attention or you're a person that says I don't want anything let me live my life the corner the biggest rabbit says there's no such thing as an atheist bring any atheist who claims as an atheist ran onto this room I guarantee you prove him wrong right away there's no such thing as being an atheist what's the biggest proof can't be a person just says there's no creator what's the biggest proof if you would tell that person that claim is an atheist if you will tell them you know believing in God stating that God exists doesn't bring any responsibilities you don't have to keep Shabbat no meats fault no to eat whatever you want do whatever you want no culture whatever it is guarantee you that all the atheist or most will say okay okay there's a god it means common sense I mean if everything has a creation want you to stop at the world if everything has a creator Washington the world have a creator that means any person knows as a creator but it's because he wants to do what he wants he decides to denies it just push it off push it off I don't want to hear about it why cuz he wants to do what he wants but once you take away that physical desire oh come on everybody knows the truth of course is it creator to the world but it's because a person wants to do a physical desires that's what stops them from the truth so every single Jew knows that a sham exists in his here with us every single day and a person has to understand that they're happiest thinking as the life is the fact that he's the son and daughter of a Shem and nobody can ever take that away from us no matter what we did in our lives the fact that we're alive every day or if yamim you gotta appreciate every single day appreciate the light the happiness every time a child smiles every time the birds the grass everything is beautiful think of Shem and look of death so said if you have a white piece of paper with one black dot and you ask a person what do you see most people tell you the black dot so that's what's going on you have a whole white piece of paper what is the first dimension black dots why he says a person has to be careful but human nature is to always look at the bed our job is to see how much good ashram gives us which is true this so much good a lot more than bad which is if the opener prize is utilize it any questions no questions everything was that clear okay [Music]