Rabbi Shalom Yona Weis - What Robs Us Of Our Happiness ?

[Music] who'd we say is happier nowadays which we talked already or or our bubbies are Zaidi's our Savas are softest for sure then they had a lot less in their lives but they were much happier they are much happier there's no it'll fetch about things like silly things like we do like traffic and then they're happy to be life I did a lot of travelling with Asia it was Asia Asia Tora I went to a place called out in Soweto which is in in South Africa it is Ganim on a stick it's the saddest there's no running water electricity whatever the similar that was there I took a group of over privileged white Jewish kids from Long Island 50 or so of them we took about 50 their moms crying they they were saying rabbi how come we don't have them I have a girlfriend that my car I am in college I have my parents I that they have nothing and they were purely the simple become not amongst all these people is [Music] there's either no higher thought process so they don't think themselves into doubts they don't question mentally I think a person doses does this is what it is because that's overthinking things raising questions the child mommy daddy they love me roof over my head good so what do I like they're not always worried about what's not gonna have anxiety and worry robs us of our happiness because it's questions that's what anxiety is it's not being firm with what's the reality of my life right now and when what if this happens and what if that happens so then then you spent your whole life wearing yourself away Soren Kierkegaard said anxiety is the dizziness of freedom this is that again anxiety anxiety which is sadness is the dizziness of freedom the reason why we have so much sadness today because there's so much choices now the now are our young people going around I have a thousand choices my pliosaurus so am I gonna be happy with this person what if somebody's better out there a question the doubts make us not able to appreciate the actual braja that we have in our lives they they rob us and anxiety is in busyness of freedom [Music]