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we're looking at ethical dilemmas from a
deeper spiritual view a metaphysical
view uh getting into some of the otherw
worldly Concepts that are behind the
legal discussions of ethical dilemas in
Torah and in Jewish tradition okay so
I'll start off last week I think we
covered like three dilemmas more or less
um I'm not sure how many will cover
tonight but I'll start off with a nice
controversial one and uh I'll present it
in terms of a story because really it's
a discussion it's a conversation between
two
rabbis one of those rabbis is
lab and this discussion took place in
the
laich's office at 770 Eastern Parkway
Crown Heights when he was visited on the
Hebrew
datein me that is June 18th
1980 by Rabbi aam Yakov
fredman otherwise known as the sadur
RAB sadur RAB is if you're into mology
you know the uh the dynasty of ran RAB
raner who was one of the
great uh RAB is of the 19th century and
he was a direct descendant of the mid
many different dynasties come from him
so the
sador is descended from the
raner and he had actually just assumed
leadership of his cidus the previous
year in
1979 and their Community originally ran
is in
Ukraine and they uh were in Central
Europe for a while
in in Austria but uh the this sadab that
we're speaking about in this story was
based
inel in uh
B so a lot of the discussion that he had
with the rebba was
about the situation in the land of
Israel so there's a recording of this
conversation by the way there's an audio
recording of the entire conversation um
in
Yiddish but at one point in the
conversation
the
sad
laments that the Israeli
doctors have been
pushing birth control Family
Planning that uh for whatever reason for
whatever uh agenda they've been using
their position as doctors to push this
idea of small
families you know presenting the idea
that supposedly that's in the name of in
the name of
health and uh
uh you should just understand the the
context of this discussion obviously
from a Torah point of view or maybe it's
not obvious so I'll state it from a toor
point of view you probably may have
figured out the big families are a thing
probably notice religious families are
large families um so from a Torah point
of view purposely not having big
families is an issue but also from a
what we'll call a demographic point of
view if you're talking about in the land
of Israel and Jewish
uh population in the land so it's a
little bit funny to tell Jewish people
to go out of their way not to have big
families and that's where the
conversation basically went and the
debba responded to and said by the when
I say the Reb I mean the because first
of all that's my Reb so I don't need to
like qualify which Reb I'm talking but
when I say the I mean so says
this it's
tragic that the
government will spend and the ab said a
number and I don't know where the figure
is from but that deba said
$30,000 the government will invest
$30,000 to help a family from outside of
the land of Israel make
Aliyah and get settled in the land of
Israel and at the same time they're
doing that they're spending money like
undercutting themselves by having this
campaign where I don't know if it's an
official campaign or it's just sort of
what the doctors were doing but
allocating resources that ultimately are
being used to discourage large families
so it's like a little bit of um
counterproductive not a little bit
counterproductive very
counterproductive so the SBA said well
you know one solution would
be that they could increase
stipend I don't know if it was tax
credits or or stiens actually giving
money but the idea was to somehow
incentivize monetary incentives uh for
children you know they they in the
United States government to some extent
you know they have child tax credits um
and populations countries that are
trying to grow their population they
use economic incentives for people to
have or or or the opposite of if a
country is trying to decrease their
population so they disincentivize large
families and they make it prohibitive so
the SBA says you know the solution would
be that the government can create
monetary incentives to large families
however he
says there's there's a big problem with
that and the problem is and here's the
ethical dilemma I want to present to you
tonight the sbba says if the government
will give mon AR incentives to families
for having more
children remember there are all of these
Arab citizens of Israel and they would
also be incentivized and that would
ultimately create demographic issues as
far as maintaining the Jewish majority
so you know there goes that
plan and the dev says why is that a
problem
and I I'm telling you I listened to the
recording I also read the transcript in
Yiddish but I listen to the recording
because it's a surprising
conversation and I and I'll tell you why
it's surprising it's surprising
because we are used to I I'll own it I
am used to the way that most people
speak on issues
unfortunately is party line and once you
know how somebody holds on one issue you
could pretty much predict down the line
how they're going to hold on every other
issue
so sbba says if they're going to give
money to people having large families
what are we going to do it's going to
also going to encourage the Arabs to
have more
children and the dev says unflinchingly
well what would be the problem with that
why is that a problem and listen
listen to what theba
says there's a
concept it's actually a verse in yes in
the prophet
Isaiah it was not created
for being void being empty meaning the
worldis to be inhabited it was created
and that idea is that the world was
created to be inhabited I know there's a
discussion about the population bomb and
over population and all that stuff but
the Jewish concept is the world was
created to be
inhabited we know that there is a
Mitzvah one of the 613 Commandments
binding upon Jewish people which
ISU be fruitful and multiply according
to different ways of counting the
mitzvah that could even be the first
Mitzvah because that's the first Mitzvah
that was given it was given to Adam and
Eve and later repeated to
Noah so we have this duty to populate
the
world now watch what the debba
says the non-jews of this world
according to Torah it's very interesting
and I'm going to explain this because
it's it's unfamiliar to many people and
a lot of people make a assumptions about
what this means because they think it
means
what things that it doesn't mean so on
one hand Judaism is not a prati religion
there's absolutely no goal in making the
world
Jewish not it's not considered something
to pursue at all and to the contrary um
prospective converts are discouraged
they're told what do you need this for
they're told what he need this for not
as a way of being exclusive or elitist
they're told what do you need this for
cuz quite frankly I mean what do you
need this for like why do you need first
of all and this is what the Jewish Court
tells any prospective convert why do you
want to join a minority that's being
persecuted like what do you need that
for
also why do you need to take on extra
religious obligations like what's wrong
if if you want to go drive to the beach
on Saturday and you want to go dig a
sand castle and once you become Jewish
you're not going to be able to do that
what's wrong if you want to eat some
bacon it's not a terrible thing for a
non-jew to it's not there's nothing
wrong with for a non-jew it's only
prohibited for a Jew to do it so we tell
non-jews what do you need this for why
do you want to become jewi don't become
Jewish on the other hand and I think a
lot of
people uh don't understand this or never
even heard of the concept there's
something called sh
mitz sh means seven Mitzvah means
Mitzvah like
Commandments are the children of of
Noah now all human beings are ended from
Noah because Noah is the Survivor of the
flood and his descendants are the ones
who repopulated the World After the
flood so everyone is descended from Noah
Noah was given seven
Commandments how to live so the entire
world is
obligated to adhere to seven
Commandments cheva mitzah Benet
no so on one hand the Jewish view is
that we don't try to get non-jews to
become Jewish and then become obligated
in keeping 613 Commandments like why
should
they on the other hand there is a belief
that we as Jews should encourage and if
we have the ability to do so um enforce
that the entire world follows the
theeven no laws as which as sometimes
that's translated which are mostly
ethical principles but it it's not
ethical humanism it's not secular ethics
uh the first Mitzvah of the seven
noahide Mitzvah is the belief in God and
also the probation against blaspheming
God so it's based on belief in God and
it's based that these Mitzvah are of
divine
origin in fact not to get uh too
detailed but technically a non-jew is
supposed to keep the seven Mitzvah of
the children of Noah not because it was
given to Noah but because it was
reiterated again at the time of the
Revelation at sin when the 63
Commandments were given to the Jewish
people in other words the Revelation at
sin is what made it binding in our
present day okay so the rebba says to
the sadur
Reb they are obligated in the Arabs who
live in the land of Israel they are
obligated in following the seven noahide
laws so the debba
says first of
all it's just a general concept that
human beings are supposed to be fruitful
and multiply that's not one of the seven
noide laws but it's a general concept
the seven noide laws you have to
understand also are broader categories
so like for instance like don't steal
but under don't steal there's all types
of different
subcategories like don't kidnap don't
embezzle don't defraud somebody in
business there these are
subcategories
so be fruitful and multiply is not one
of the specific seven noide laws but it
is certainly in the spirit of the seven
noad laws and indeed be fruitful and
multiply was given to Adam who is the
father of all humanity and again to Noah
who again is the father of all Humanity
as we mentioned earlier the the Survivor
of the flood who's the ends are the
basis of all human
population and furthermore the rebba
says they have expressly a commandment
not to take a life not to kill and the
Seven noahide law is one of the one of
the Mitzvah one of the is a Prohibition
against taking a
life and the rebba says
that if we the Jewish people are in a
situation where there's a government
meaning the Israeli government which by
the way let's say very clearly is not a
religious government the Israeli
government is not a theocracy it is not
run in accordance with with Jewish law
however this is where it gets a little
complicated Jewish people even if the
government isn't a Jewish based
government it's not a Torah government
but the people who make up the
government who run the government are
Jews and Jews are obligated in Torah and
one of the things the Torah obligates a
Jew to do is to encourage non-jews to
keep the seven noide laws so the Reba
says if we have a situation like it's
not just like in America where if you
meet somebody and uh you know meet
somebody who's not Jewish and they want
to hear about your beliefs and you can
encourage them to keep the seven noad
laws that's in America because you don't
have any real authority to encourage or
discourage their personal religious
practices all you can do is suggest the
re says but in Israel where the Jewish
people are in the government and setting
policy that's going to affect non-jews
so we actually the Jewish people who are
in the government have an obligation a
Torah obligation not to do
anything that could facilitate that a
non-jewish
family would abort a
pregnancy because thereby we would be
causing them to transgress one of their
seven laws so therefore the debba says
if we give incentives to large families
in the land of Israel and non-jewish
families also have big families we're
actually doing a Mitzvah we're actually
doing a Mitzvah we're helping those
non-jewish families to keep their seven
noahide laws
now s if you listen to the recording
it's clear that
he's very surprised by this line of
thinking and he speaks about the
demographics what about the
demographics and listen what the debba
says the debba
says look at the end of the
day we're following God's
will this is Jewish law Jewish law is
that the non-jews have seven noahide
laws and we as Jews are supposed to
encourage them to do it and if we have
the authority to help them do it or or
the flip side of the same coin is we'd
be in a position of responsibility if we
were to undermine them doing it so then
we're doing God's Will and therefore you
can tell me from a practical standpoint
it doesn't make sense
but we we have to follow God's will and
if we follow God's will then
somehow it's going to all work out
so
you know benorian was far from a
religious Jew he was part of a very very
very secular not only secular but
anti-religious culture from that that
group of
uh the the the the the ashkenazic
European cultured
left-wing that that that really formed
the early government in uh in Israel
and even he said that to be a realist in
the Middle East you have to believe in
miracles
so from a pragmatic point of view maybe
it would be crazy to do this to
encourage the non-jewish
population to increase and to
multiply but from a Torah point of view
it's the right thing to do and if you
doing what God wants you to do
ultimately how can you how can you
suffer from that can only be a good
thing
now I I
just want to drive home the point I
mentioned earlier that in today's day
and age people follow a party line and
once you know what they hold on one
issue you could pretty much predict how
they hold on every other issue because
things are very very polarized and they
are basic
two choices we have extreme polarized
politics and uh and that's that's the
way unfortunately the internet has a lot
to do with it with the echo chamber the
internet the search engine bubble just
taking whatever it is you're already
into and reinforcing it and reinforcing
it and reinforcing it till it becomes
almost like an absurd reductionist view
of whatever it is you started with and I
said to you that it's shocking because
the Deb
is position on this issue is so not what
you would have
predicted what I I want to drive home
that point because in that same
conversation and it's not a long
conversation I think it's about an
hour in that same
conversation maybe minutes
later the sadur Reb I told you this is
1980 asks the rebba
about land for
peace specifically
land from The Six Day War from
1967 about using it to negotiate deals
with uh with other uh countries with
Arab
countries and that Eva
says absolutely
uncategorically no there's no such thing
as land for peace it does not bring
peace that de said even
discussing the idea of giving away land
invites
violence and what's interesting is and
the dev also says there it it leads to a
loss of life both Jewish and non-jewish
that even putting it on the table the
idea of negotiating land for peace
ultimately causes loss of life on both
sides so there's so much new nuance and
complexity to that point of point of
view first of
all in light of what the rebba just said
that the the is the Israeli government
should basically pay for Arabs to have
more babies and then in the same
conversation to say but land for peace
is not even a discussion but then in the
same breath as that to say and by the
way one of the reasons we're concerned
about land for peace is because it
creates loss of life God forbid from
Jews and non-jews in other words we're
we're also concerned about non-jews
losing their life why should they lose
their life why should we create a
situation that's going to cause a clash
and it's going to cause the deba always
said that when you put it on the table
the idea of land for peace you're
actually inviting loss of life on both
sides that was the Deb's position that
AB was very very very strong in that
position all the years which again all
the more so makes it so surprising what
that deba said about the incentives for
large families and I just want to point
out my my really my point here
is we are all I think really really
locked in to partisan thinking and we
all just basically get to a point where
the algorithm learns what side of the
political aisle you are on and then just
starts reinforcing that more and more
and more or sometimes it rage baits You
by showing you what the most extreme
absurd version of the other side is
saying which probably does even more to
indoctrinate people than showing them
what they already believe as you show
what the other side is is saying but you
show them the most reductionist absurd
version of the other side and and this
is polarizing us to the point where we
cannot have
discussions and what what happens is we
just label each other and even nowadays
it's crazy not only we label each other
we label ourselves and the beauty of
this conversation that the Deb is having
with the S is that it shows you that a
discussion that's based on
Torah defies these
categorizations I had a a clip a short
on YouTube where I made a
statement that Torah is not right-wing
or leftwing I said for example if you
would take the Torah stance on abortion
it would not fit into either the
pro-life or the
pro-choice point of view
it doesn't fit neatly into either of the
of those pre-made sides anyways my team
who edits my videos they took that clip
they put it on the on YouTube shorts I
can't tell you how many comments I got
from people just angry comments it's not
pro-life but it's not pro-choice it's
neither of it's none of the above it
doesn't fit neatly into those categories
do you want this or do you want this and
the problem is people are so so ready to
snap they want to know in half a second
who side are you on which one are you
who are you there's an old joke I'm
going to butcher the joke but a Jew is
walking in
Belfast in
the80s and he gets
stopped and uh by a group of uh young
toughs in the middle of the night and
they say uh are you Cath Catholic are
you protest I'm not going to try my belf
Fest accent but yeah are you Catholic
are you
Protestant and the Jew
says I'm
Jewish and they
say Catholic Jewish or Protestant Jewish
that's the joke okay it's an old joke
whatever you can Google it and see how
it's actually told
but it really is today
like if you try to explain something
that does not fit into the pre-existing
pre-existing default positions people
don't have time for that that's it they
brand you the enemy they shut you
down
and it makes it impossible for us to
learn from each other so I'm bringing
this up even though I do not relish the
fact that when I put when I upload this
video by the way exactly what I'm
describing right now is going to happen
there's going to be an on lot of people
who are going to decide my position
they're going to decide exactly what
side I'm on on every single other issue
in the entire world and because that's
that's current political discourse but I
just want to point out to you that the
Torah position cannot be predictably
categorized as right-wing or leftwing or
any of the other categories that we use
today
okay really the truth is that we could
have a whole course just on abortion but
I think because I mentioned it and
because I got so much outrage on that
YouTube short where people wanted to
nail me down well what is it which way
do you hold are you a what do you
Catholic Jewish or Protestant Jewish
which one pro-life or
pro-choice so let me let me
just give like a five minute
background in the most complex and
controversial and emotionally charged
issue in the world five minute
background
okay so the actual Source the biblical
Source in case you're interested in case
you are into the Bible which we call the
Torah
okay the source for abortion as being a
prohibited
action is in
T that's Jewish talk for Genesis
96 and there this is par this is the
story of Noah and the
flood and these are the rules remember I
talked about the seven noahide laws so
these are the rules that Noah is getting
for a civilized world so it
says
a person who sheds the blood of a
person his blood shall be
shed because God made man in the image
of God so our sages in the
talm 57b explain what is that
verse if you know a little Hebrew so
that
preposition B he who SP spills the blood
of a
personam really means in a person that
letter base as a preposition it means in
so if you read the verse really really
literally it means he who sheds the
blood of a person in a person meaning
inside of a person in other words
causing the loss of a fetus that's being
carried buried inside a mother's room
that's the scriptural verse for it
according to the talmud okay so there
you see that this is prohibited and this
is considered this is considered a
sinful act okay how so then you're going
to simplify oh it's murder it's murder
just like uh you walk up to somebody on
the street and uh and murder them okay
but then later
on
in
which that's Jewish talk for Exodus
2122 it discusses it yeah it
says when men are
fighting they're
brawling and they they bump into a
pregnant
woman
and she loses her
pregnancy so in this
context it's speaking about monetary
damages this is in Mish mishpatim
literally means uh civil law in other
words it's considered a tort like if you
damage somebody's property and you pay
for it so all of a sudden it takes it
out of the realm of criminal and by the
way even using these words English words
they don't really fit
but it now it doesn't sound like murder
it sounds like monetary damages sounds
like a civil case still prohibited not
saying it's permitted still prohibited
but certainly not a capital crime
meaning not murder and not punishable by
death which regular murder is punishable
by death when there are witnesses and
warnings and it's with the the high
court and all the different Provisions
that were involved okay so all already
you see there's nuance here that this is
not your regular
murder then on top of it and again I'm
giving the five minute rundown over here
there are
dispensations there are dispensations
what what is the dispensation and this
is this
is
fascinating there is a concept in Jewish
law called
reafe royfe means a
pursuer now now in American discourse I
don't know about other countries I grew
up in America I'm very familiar with
that culture I know that the way that
the right and the left fight over this
issue is they will often say well how
come those Second Amendment guys who
want to shoot somebody for breaking into
their house are the ones who are so
upset about abortion and then like vice
versa like flipping the same argument
the other way so I want to tell you
something
according to the Torah there's something
called a REI it's called reiff literally
means a
pursuer there's a concept in Torah
law that in a very specific case
vigilante justice or
extrajudicial Justice is permitted and
not only permitted it becomes a Mitzvah
it becomes a moral obligation that is if
one person is pursuing somebody else to
take their life so we are permitted to
stop the pursuer by any means necessary
if it is determined it could have been
done by maming them and you went
overboard and you hit them with the
Bazooka so you're not allowed to do that
what the punishment is that's another
complex discussion but you're not
supposed to go overboard okay you have
to stop the person but what you do
whatever you need to stop
them I should also mention by the way
very interesting that this law of
re apply Li not only in a case where a
person is pursuing another person to
take their life but also if one person
is pursuing another person to commit
sexual assault
so if the only way to stop it would be
rapist is by killing them by Vigilantes
killing the would be rapist that is a
Mitzvah according to Torah law okay by
the way standard disclaimers apply uh if
wherever you're watching this your local
government does not allow vigilante
justice you're not allowed to do
vigilante justice yeah I'm not sure any
countries in the world will allow you to
actually follow this Torah law so I'm
just letting you know these are the laws
on the books but you know follow your uh
follow your local uh laws of your
country your state your city and
whatever don't get into any
trouble the point
is a discussion come comes up about a
woman who is having a difficult
pregnancy and a doctor determines that
the woman is going to die because of the
pregnancy either she's carrying the
pregnancy or she's in
labor she's as far along as you're
talking about late term she's as far far
along as in
labor if the pregnancy is threatening
her life
the fetus is considered a
Rea now I I didn't want to say the baby
is considered artive because not because
I'm squeamish but because as you see
you're going to see momentarily there's
a point in which it becomes a baby and
and the Law
changes hold on for one more
minute if the pregnancy is threatening
the mother's life the baby is considered
a rad of the mother and by the way
you're going to say well what the little
baby do the baby's not a it's not it's
not like some Maniac running after
someone with a meat cleaver okay well
hold on a second who says that a rfe has
to always have intent you know what if
somebody's uh with the runaway train you
know the runaway train that nobody has
any evil intent over there right but the
the fetus is considered a RI and so its
life is subservient to the mother's life
to save her life so one is not only
allowed to but it is a Mitzvah to take
the life if necessary obviously this is
not something you do uh unnecessarily
but if necessary to take the life of the
fetus in order to save the life of the
mother however this is why I didn't call
a baby before because
once why why do you say why don't you
say the woman is a RI of the
baby because the Torah considers her
life full-fledged
life and the fetus is not full-fledged
life so in this case where one's
threatening the other one's life the
fetus's life is subservient to the
mother's life if one of them has to die
God forbid God forbid it should never
come to such a situation but if one of
them has to die and you cannot save both
of them the fetus is going to be the one
who's considered the right that's the
one whose life has to be taken if
necessary however once the baby crowns
once the head emerges from the birth
canal now the baby's considered born now
it's even stepen it's an even playing
field you cannot say anymore that you
that you take the baby's life to save
the mother's
life okay at any rate that was probably
longer than five minutes but that just
shows you the complexity of abortion
according to the Torah law let's totally
Chang the subject to something a little
bit less
intense okay I'll tell you a
joke one time there
was a rabbi a priest and a minister
playing poker and it was illegal in
their town to
gamble and the chief of police was
cracking down on gambling and he came
into their house I don't know whose
house they're playing at but they're
playing cards for money at the one of
their houses
and the chief of police comes in he sees
them sitting there the town priest Town
Rabbi Town Minister and chief of police
like oh I can't believe it you men of
the cloth I can't believe it the
hypocrisy you guys are gambling you know
them cracking down and
gambling and uh they're like all looking
all guilty they're just you know they're
they throw the chips under the table and
whatever and uh trying to all appear
like they're not doing anything anything
but they're caught red-handed so the
chief of
police says father oi tell me the
truth were you guys
gambling father oi says a silent prayer
he says oh Lord let me just one one time
say this white lie just one little white
lie he looks chief police chief of
police in the eye father Ali says Chief
no no I was not gambling not gambling so
so uh chief of police turns to the
minister he says
uh he says uh Pastor Jones were you
gambling and he says a little silent
prayer oh Lord let me just say one
little white lie one little white lie
one time and he looks at chief police in
the eye and uh Pastor uh Jones says
Chief no I was not I was not
gambling chief of police looks at the
Rabbi says Robie Goldstein were you
gambling Robert Goldstein says with who
with who with who
okay there is a concept in Jewish
ethics
called changing the truth because of
peace that joke wasn't an example of it
they were just lying to get off the hook
but I I needed a joke so as a segue and
okay
what's the source for this the biblical
source so I'm going to go
to
Bas which again is Jewish talk for uh
Genesis
18 12 and yeah if you have your Bible at
home you can look it up there
okay so what do we have yes that's right
Abraham and Sarah that's right so this
is par
V this is after aam I'm going to use the
Jewish name aam's
circumcision and he's 99 years old and
uh so I'm going to read to
you s Sarah
laughed BBA you could translate as at
her insides like she thought about her
reproductive system and she was like I'm
so old how's it possible and she
said
after I'm old I'm going to have this Joy
of having a
child and my my master that's how she
respectfully referred to her husband Zin
is
old my husband is old very next verse
verse
13 now hasem speaks to
Abraham and
says why did Sarah your wife laugh
saying how am I going to give birth when
I'm already old hold on a second the
previous verse when Sarah laughed she
said he's old my husband is old when
Hashem speaks to Abraham to Abraham he
says
hey your wife said how's she going to
give
birth when she is
old and I am old me S is speaking the
first person referring to herself as
being
old so Rashi who our foremost commentary
comes along and he breaks it down for us
a little bit and he
says I am
old
she the scripture changes or Alters
things because of sh Shalom
peace because we all know she just said
my husband's old not that she is old and
that is a passage in the tal discussion
in
B
87a one of the famous
philosophical
discussions ethical dilemmas in
philosophy every college kid who took
ethics
101 if that's a department or philosophy
101 uh survey of
Ethics knows about the
famous murderer at the
door so the German Enlightenment
philosopher said that values must be
categorical if something is wrong it is
always wrong and so his critic said to
him yeah really it's wrong to lie but if
a murderer comes to the door and says oh
by the way Roy dafe here we have a Roy
dafe so a murderer comes to the door and
says hey I'm chasing so and so and he's
holding his axe and he says where is he
and you know where he is what are you
going to do you going to be truthful
you're going to stand on virtue and
you're going to be honest and say he's
hiding in the back over there go get him
you're gonna
lie that's what the critics of CT said
and had a chance for a rebuttal and
he doubled down that actually does sound
like today like a a Twitter war so he
doubled down and he said heck yeah yeah
I would say that you're if you're an
honest person you got to always be
honest and then you're not allowed to
lie to the axe murderer
okay so what's interesting here is we
have this Torah concept of changing the
truth because of
Peace where do we
see an example a Biblical example of
somebody who excelled in this
area because the example we have here
from the story of Abraham and Sarah is
the Torah itself meaning Hashem himself
Torah is Hashem changing the truth or
altering the truth but where do we have
a
person
yeah the famous
Diplomat Arin hen the high priest Ain
Aaron Brother of Misha brother of Moses
he was famous for this yes so where do
we see this in B
midbar numbers
2029 so when Aaron passes away it
says the entire congregation saw that
Aaron had passed
away and they grieved for Aaron
30 days Co
base the entire house of Israel and
Rashi tells us again Rashi our foremost
commentary tells us Co B the entire
house of
israelim the men and the women why was
he so popular you know they do these
demographic studies and they say you
know Aaron is really popular among men
between 40 and
59 that's our demographic no no no Aaron
was popular among everybody why was he
popular among
everyone because pursued
peace he made peace between people who
were litigants or fighting each
other and between a man and his wife and
that's Rashi says but rashi's source is
the
OB where where it explains it at length
does Rashi is just giving us commentary
just to understand the meaning of the
Torah verse doesn't give us all the
information but if you look at the
source that Rashi got it from which is
the off AB n so there it's it explains
like this Arin used to make peace he was
RA of shom right he pursued peace and
how did he do it if he would find out
two people were fighting husband and his
wife or two brothers or two business
partners or
whatever he would go to one and he would
say your friend is so ashamed of himself
he wants to apologize to you but he
can't look you in the eye and he would
go to the other and he would say the
same line your friend is so ashamed he
really wants to make up with you he
misses you but he's so ashamed you be
the bigger one just go over to him
because he really knows he's wrong he
wants to be at peace with you and
somehow he pulled this off without ever
getting busted or maybe by the time
people figured it out they didn't care
anymore the point is it worked and it
worked so well that Ain was enormously
popular and
beloved so that when he passed away the
entire nation was crying by the way when
mhao passed away the entire nation was
not
crying this is in contradistinction to
madeno madeno was uh we
know Moses is truth and sometimes people
don't like the truth teller but iron was
the Diplomat so everybody loved him okay
so there's a from the
re
um
of which year was it now I got to
remember the year of is the's father's
yard site he would always have a fa on
that uh date so there's a of with that
ebba is speaking about this
story and he basically asks a very blunt
question which is so the greatness of
Ain is that he was a liar okay you want
to say it nice you want to say he was a
peace broker but the way he did it he he
played with the truth now you want to
say that you're allowed to change the
truth because of Peace okay yeah but
still this is this is the greatness that
he played with
truth so here's what the Reb explains
and it's such a beautiful
teaching when we're fighting with each
other that's coming from the ego the
ego operates in a world of limitation
the ego is physical and it sees
everything from a physical perspective
which is limitations and a scarcity of
resources and you know if if the the
last piece of steak is in your belly now
it can't be in my belly and everything
becomes
very divisive because here is me and
there is you this is my space that's
your space and and we're all like sort
of in competition with each with each
other that's a physical that's a
physical point of view we're all very
much in competition for a scarcity of
resources and we don't like each other
because of that and we come up with
reasons why we don't like each other
other that's the
ego which is attached to the body or you
can say the ego is the personality of
the
body in we call the neas the animalistic
Soul which is about
Survival on a very physical level then
there's the Nish the soul soul is
godliness and it's altruistic
selfless the animalistic
soul is selfish
it's
basically
self perpetuation that's what it's all
about it's just about keeping itself
going The Godly soul is totally
self-transcendent just wants to
surrender with the one with the
all and it's never at odds with anybody
else so when Ain would go over and tell
somebody hey your
friend he's not fighting with you he
really loves you he wants to be at peace
with with
you he wasn't lying he was actually
discussing a deeper truth he was saying
the truth of that person's Nish that
person's soul in other words Ain was
saying what his ego told you when he
said don't let me catch you on my side
of the street ever again that was his
ego talking that was the
lie but the soul is saying he loves you
wants to be at peace with you even if
he's not in touch with it even if he
himself is not in touch with the truth
of his soul but Ain would testify to the
fact that's what his soul wants that's
what his soul would say I'm representing
the deeper truth in other words I'm not
telling you a lie I'm telling you a
truth a deeper truth and that's how he
would facilitate peace because he would
elicit from
people the love the serenity the depth
the
wisdom that they had within in their
soul and that's why when he passed away
people were weeping and crying not just
not just because he was popular and they
were going to miss him but because he
was always the one that could see past
your shtick and see your deeper truer
self and they were weeping and mourning
what they feared was the loss of their
true selves because who would ever see
and access again their deeper spiritual
Transcendent self if Ain wouldn't be
there to sort of pull it out
eek it out of us it's beautiful teaching
beautiful concept okay anyways I got
more ethical dilemmas but uh this was
this was part two I don't know maybe
it'll be a part three but uh that's what
we got for
tonight