Rabbi Meir Simcha Sperling Let's Produce

i would like to welcome everybody for joining us everyone for joining us um for taking time out of your day or out of your night uh to come to a share like we said last time last time we were on this we spoke about a lot of a lot of different things regarding filament sales charm so welcome back for those who are back okay so before we start this let's produce which is what we're going to call it and we're going to talk about the vessel the very holy vessel that should be holy uh the vessel known as the mouth not sure if you're aware but your mouth is how we connect takadesh baruch in many many ways through deborah through tufila through limit and so many other ways and one could also destroy with it like we'll see shortly and we'll try to go through a few stories to explain and bring out the power of words the power of but before we do i just want to use my words to acknowledge a few different organizations over here for their tremendous work that they do with their words and their technology and everything else so the first one is obviously khazak as we all know so a tremendous thank you for kazak for everything that they do for claudius all for everything they do for all the boys in the schools and akadeshwar who should just continuously give them strength and to give them siata the shema to continue making this world a better place and bringing us closer to akholesh baruch which is our goal in this world to bring down the shrina to form a relationship number two i want to give a tremendous thank you to torah anytime for making this world a lighter place lighter what do you mean not weight wise more light bringing more light that shakes that chases away darkness that is torah any time bringing thousands and thousands of sure and bringing the daily dose and so many amazing things so a tremendous thank you for turning time and lastly i would like to also thank the organization called chickens for shabbos which i think at this point a lot of us know what that is because you've been on this risk and reward let's produce this thing so chickens for shabbos is basically just to make it clear it's taking the neediest people in claudius all the people who really really need the most and taking care of them so many children so many women who need help who are alone so many rebellion people that are marbet's terra needy people and they are taking everything that they have all of their kayak all the money that comes in and they are taking care whether it's vouchers whether it's food whether it's chickens for shabbos but the kits are this is something that you you want to be a part of and you know sometimes it's very hard to relate when you're not really a part of it when you don't know the people you don't know the names you don't see the children all you have to do is really tap into your little head and think imagine it was your brother imagine it was your child imagine it was your parent how much more would you help how much more would you daff and how much more would you try to invest and donate so therefore um i would suggest very strongly to daven for their much success and also to donate and it's a little bit of a complex website so just get a pen and paper all right it's c h i'm joking it's chickens for shabbos.com not too complicated chickens at shabbos.com and see after the shimaya we should all help them out and therefore we'll make this world a better place with more light and with all these organizations mr michel will come here thank you very much everybody i have a wonderful night okay all right so here we go yeah you ready to get started over here pen and paper pen and paper let's go again i want to remind everybody that when we when we're by a share it's important to take notes and to you know make sure that you're getting it clear because a lot of times we hear awesome because when we hear great things and there was a hand blown and it's uh i see the world a whole different place now and then corona finishes and we're back to square one hopefully not but if we are then we are and you know it was crazy hadn't we died a few days later we're back to square one and then we're back to square one now it's a good thing in a way because marco gives us the bracha of time like this you know when when we lose somebody close to us which after 120 years we should never have these type of things but when we do when people do when you have scary things time eventually helps uh the healing process so time is a very very good thing but time is also very dangerous thing because with time you forget a lot of the things that you heard that you learned so write things down and try to get it clear and try to be my husband and try to help [Music] it's important to breathe okay so here we go so words it has the power to ruin a business correct does anybody here know of any businesses that were ruined through your mouth you do i also do a few of them breaking a breaking a business tearing the family apart destroying shaman bias destroying a person's reputation totally destroying a rebbe did you hear what happened with your words you have power that is more powerful than nuclear energy what more powerful than nuclear energy everybody say words could take a family could take a city it could take a massive business imagine you had a business that was supporting every single jew in the world and you say some some shinhara something on them and you destroy the entire business so what happens all those people that were supported can't you say something bad about an organization that's helping people and all of a sudden boom we have a rebbe who is let's say uh doing uh whatever it is that he's doing helping different bahram she's giving shirim and you say something bad about him boom all of that because if that was going out there it doesn't happen anymore because what you said so we see that words have a tremendous power to destroy tremendous now there's another side to the coin obviously that we all know and that is that words have the power to heal a broken heart words have the power to brighten a lonely soul words inspire words nurture and teach how many people honestly answer this question if you could in the thousands how many people need not can use need today how many people do you know who survived corona who survived maron who survived the war who survived stalin who survived anti-semitism who survived how many people do you know that need right now they need reassuring they need love they need validation they need you to say listen rabbi say i'm giving a share just on just because we need to know that we're good and we need to know that hashem loves us and we need to know that and you're good and you have value how many people need today how do you do that with your fingers i don't think so with the dance i don't think so you do that with words that same vessel that same cli that you could destroy a person literally rip him apart you could also build him forever and the mention we're going to go through some stories that it is is mind-boggling how one word one sentence one phone call one email one little thing produced so much so when used properly words have unimaginable power and obviously when used improperly it's extremely dangerous there are there are many stories that we know we're going to try to focus on the positivity but there are many stories that we know that the up was broken by the fart right after the var this girl finally 25 years old she thought she had a of crisis they got engaged and one person said one thing and the night of the vert the night of the birth was over and this girl was crushed and her family was crushed and it could be she's not married i'm collecting for i'm kidding but the point is that a few words are now destroyed it's totally destroyed so we need to realize this we need to realize the power of our words and it's our choice it is one hundred percent your choice to produce with the vessel that code sparkle gave you with this mouth with your words that you have with your tongue right life and death in the power of the tongue we all know that it is our choice to utilize our most special and proper gift so the first thing i'm going to talk about is obviously is something that we all need to know the to work on the s we all have to have an awareness because if you do not have an awareness you are going to be in big trouble it's like saying you know people say like oh if i don't know the locals i'm good to go what do you mean what you think it's like saying like you're walking and there's tons of paddles everywhere i'll just close my eyes like this i'm not going to fall in the potholes ridiculous of course you're going to fall in because they're there and we talk all day long you know we all know that shabbos is so important and shemitah's coming up is so important and there are so many alas that are so important and so vital to know because they come once every seven years or once every week or once every twenty eight or one seven thirty once a month we're talking every day every day all day long and for some of you you guys even talk in your sleep something come on you talking all day and all night so therefore we need to know the halals of words because words are so powerful both a good way and a bad way so therefore number one is we need to know that there are halaquahs election and we need to step up to the game we need to answer the call and that would be a great thing to do by your shabbos table to do by your tuesday table or your wednesday table or whatever you want with your children go through some shimmery selection and um hashem you'll be saying okay now i want to start off with this we already started it's not really starting off but i'm just saying it because just go it flows i want to start off with a story this is a famous story oh the truth is you know i don't even know if it's a famous story but i've said the story a few times already on tour anytime and by david sheeram so if you know the story great and if you don't also great but it's something that we need to constantly remind ourselves because it just brings the value and the power of hezek of what you could do to your neighbor you right yeah you who are listening right now your neighbor who you haven't spoken to in at least two hours or two years because of the fight over that flower that already is dead the flower is dead ready it's the next winter you know because of that you guys don't talk anymore you have no idea what crazy could do so i want to share with you a story this is a very powerful story it's a very sad story and a very happy story a very real story there's a lot of lessons we could take from the story but there's one there's one purpose i want to bring in and that is to realize the physique of what one person could do to another person with words so the story goes like this the story goes like this there was a boy who walked into his school and he went to the locker room he went to his locker he emptied out his locker took all of his books you're thinking i know that's starting okay hazardous digger he took all the books and he started heading home you literally just did that thing that is right and he took all the books and he started going home now on the way home he was he was a kid who was a victim he was bullied which is another whole topic which is a very serious thing bullies in school and everything it's a real real thing and he was walking home and a few little gangsters little jelly bean gangsters you know fifth graders whatever it is they walked over to him and they bumped him i'm sorry i didn't see like the road is like that big and we didn't see you knock down all his book like he literally started crying like oh maybe next time be cool and they walked away anyways he's picking up his books his kid's broken apart you know he's been bullied all these years and this one kid who sees what happens and this happens to have been a cooler kid cooler kid he walks over to him he picks up the book he says yo let me help you with that and you know what i want to be your friend let's let's just chill let's just i want to walk home with you and he walked home with him and they developed a relationship and he used to be him he used to say words to encourage him he used to say that you have value and they developed a relationship okay anyways years and years and years later with this friend and with his husband with them growing up and becoming a person who wasn't bullied anymore he ended up becoming a very cluttered person in the school and became valedictorian and he got up to speak he got up to speak by his uh speech and he said i want to thank akash baruch for everything he does i want to thank my parents for everything they do and i want to thank you and i want to think plainly and i did politeness under this school and then he says but last lastly and most importantly i want to thank thank this boy this boy from all those years whatever his name was muli i want to thank shmueli and i want to tell you why and nobody knows this and this may be a little bit embarrassing but i need to bring out a point for years and years i was bullied and there was a certain point i i tried to do it i tried to speak at you nothing was working and there was a certain point i was like that's it i am done i am done being bullied i am done living with this pain and therefore i do not want to live anymore but i also didn't want my parents to go to the school and have to empty out my locker after they found out that something crazy happened because that would be even more embarrassing for them so i decided that i am going to empty out the locker myself and then go home or not really home right go to jump off a bridge or something and as i was walking out as i was walking out the bullies came back and they dug the pain deeper they hit me even harder and there was one boy who came for the first time this never happened before somebody came and said you have value he said that with his mouth he said let me be your friend i want to be there for you and he helped me pick up the books yeah he saved my life and that's why right now in my speech i want to thank shmuley for saving my life because without you i would not be here today this is a very scary story and a very powerful story and you think shmuel even knew what he was doing no i doubt he did because you never know there you never know where your hazard goes how far your words go how far your limit goes how far all the things all the brachas you make everything that you do with your mouth in a positive light in a positive way you have no idea how far that goes and you can't prove it only hashem knows that's why we say ms what's ms m says hashem is the only one who knows taka how far you went what that did you said for that person to go to a certain school and they went to a school but and because of you that was all because you just said by the way i think you should go to that school a little bit because of that you gave that's a good place to and i think you'll fit in perfect there could you imagine power of your words how much what it could do and we all know the stories during the holocaust during the war years of that person who every morning he walked out of his house and he said good morning to that random german and the next day he said good morning and the next day he said good morning and he was just positive with his words and he got saved because that was the german who was there by the thing and he said oh go that way go out we can have it oh you're the one who was nice to me go that way and now because of that because he lived through these 150 000 children that's a lot of children but grandchildren and grandchildren all because of all those good mornings all those words when was the last time you went to your neighbor and you gave a good good morning last time you went over somebody gave them you said they were down there are so many people that are down now there are so many people that could use now and it doesn't take much it really doesn't take so much so i think if we're able to utilize our words um there's so much that we could do i just want to bring in i think you know for this type of this type of share i i think you know staying in stories is just the way to bring out the power so i want to bring another thing over here that i saw and that is that you're even when it's said incidentally even when you didn't even mean it it has such awesome results so this is a story also it could be it's a famous tear that you know in the winter of 2002 rabbits and sarah mizells sat shiva for her beloved daughter whose name was alton malka it could be that you know the story it's like a famous thing that happened but anyway she was tragically killed in an accident and a woman who came to menachem told her one thing that changed the world forever changed the world not just her shiva not just her family the world and maybe even you or your wives or your husbands she said the first letters of your daughter's name alta nahamamaka spell amen it spells the word amen a flashing light sparked in the rabbits and soul a main what a beautiful way of elevating my daughters in the shama at that moment there was a movement of amine that was spread and the main awareness that was spread and rabbits and mises electrified the world through her speeches and the power of a mane and they were inspired they published a book called the beauty of a maine they uh they published a book it was just it's a crazy thing and we don't understand how far that went and what did she do what did she say she literally just spelled the na the the the neutrique and the the what's it called of her daughter's name the acronym the the el main that's what it's about the first letters like it's it's and because of that there was now there's a savior here called the main that has a uh a rip symbol of calm this is not something that we all know he says it would have been worthwhile for akadeshwarahu to create the world for six thousand years yeah this it would have been worth it for aka to create the world for six thousand years for one jewish person to one time say every star that was created all the animals all the fish millions and billions and trillions of things for one person to say one barracuda might represent would say this the reward for these words are beyond comprehension you can never understand what does it mean to exalt who's name and he says that one barack obama doesn't come close to an amine and one amine doesn't come close to amen yahish so when you're sitting and learning torah when you're sitting and learning if the world would have been created for six thousand years for one barracuda my could you imagine what one word of tyra does what it means you could start a little group with your children with your neighbors with your friends with your chats whatever it is a little bashmere selection thing a little thing on uh you have any idea what the power of that you know what it means to produce when you invest in just it below that's what you're doing you're investing one dollar and you're getting billions and billions and billions in return the power of one amine the power of one word of terror you know we always say like what's five minutes what's five minutes it's five minutes left of seder what's five minutes so you ever missed your plane by five minutes now you're stuck here for the next year and then corona happens so your mom explains the next year what's five minutes of seder if one word of terror if one letter of terror could have made this world be created for who knows how many years so what's five minutes of terror what's one sentence of hezek that you give somebody else one sentence or basically one email one phone call i care about you you know a lot of times i used to say you know be there for them and and when they call you answer the quote get them something for shabbos they just went through a really hard thing let's get them something don't wait for them to call you i'm changing it now i'm being closer don't wait for them to call you you call them you send something to them it's so easy to send things to you just yeah the thing is there's a certain person who uh i remember but every yamtif purim whatever there was always somebody just popped by my door a male guy delivered this thing and i from them i was like wow blown away every single time this family just sent something to me like she's an amazing thing why because one of the children was in my sheer ones and it makes you feel geshmaq so just do that for your neighbor for the person who had a miscarriage for the person who's going through a hard thing for the person who knows somebody in miron for the person who went through karuna for the person who there are so many people who could do this to and it takes so little to do it takes so little and you give his again you have no idea what you could do who you could brighten what you could save where they were headed you have no idea until he gives that speech and says by the way i was walking to a bridge you don't know let's produce let's produce we could do this we are claudius we are the nation that could do this we're the cream of the crop our father is god the creator of the world so when we're together when we have actus there's nothing that we can't do and it starts with and that's very important okay i want to finish with again this wasn't like a hit of share this is not a it was like this is just a reminder just a little bit of a wake-up call to use our mouths properly because there's so much potential and i want to just finish with a famous another famous thing i think everything we said tonight was famous and i think i settled them already so we really this is just really this one i i really really just said like ramish a few days ago but i think it just it brings out the point so much and that is the story of thomas edison you know the story you told it to me yeah thomas edison yeah so he came home from school as a child and he had a paper from his teacher i'm saying it quickly because i think most of us know the story and heard it already and he said to his mother my teacher told me to give you this paper and only you could say it so what is it saying and she reads at them she looks at it her eyes get all teary and she says this is what the note says it says your son is a genius shh your son is a genius this school is too small for him it's just it's his teachers are pushing blown away he doesn't have good enough teachers here and therefore he can't be here anymore like we have nothing more to offer him nothing more he was probably thinking himself like what oh my god i lit the thing on fire i blew up the bag you know the bathroom was blown because what the mother read to him and we all know that many years later he became one of the biggest inventors of the century he became one of the biggest minds like what haflow what he became and his mother died and years and years later after his mother died he happened to have been going through one of the closets and he noticed that paper folded this is years later and he opens the paper and he sees that the ink was erased he couldn't read it and he looks at the paper and he reads what it really said on it and it said like this your son is mentally deficient we cannot allow him to attend the school anymore nothing more hurtful than that you're not well mentally so you can't come here anymore so go away bye like nothing could destroy somebody more than that the opposite and his mother gave him the epitome of and said look how much value you have look who you are look at the power that you hold you're like a genius your teachers they just see in you that no one could do it like they care they can't and he writes in his diary he says a mentally deficient child he says thomas edison was a mentally deficient child whose mother turned him into the biggest genius of the century the biggest genius i don't know i'm saying no yeah so what do you see from there what do you see when you take a note and you just tweak it a little or a lot you could change a person's destiny how many children do we have how often do we speak nice to them how many times when we put them to sleep do we give them i'm so proud of you there's so many good things you did today yes yes there are certain things that i'm not so proud about but there are so many things you did so good and i'm so proud and i love you so much and i want to sing you a song and i can't wait to see you in the morning and we'll have breakfast again and you give him your teenage child who's going through a hard thing he's going through a hard thing did you ve do you validate him do you tell him that he's so special and yes there are things that we need to work out but i understand you it's a hard thing to to raise i'm saying it's hard to live now it's just a hard time now we could step up to the plate and we could do it but i want to give you that he's like i want you to know yet there are certain boundaries 100 but i want you to know how much value you are to me spouse our parents our talmudim our organizations when was the last time you called up and said you guys saved my life oh you just did that okay fine so not you somebody else tore any time you have no idea you saved my life they also need there are being that speak to you ever called the organ the organizers of chickens and childs email them give them a donation and say by the way you guys are doing an amazing thing everyone needs and you could do it and you have no idea what because it does on my share maternity time i like when people give me feedback because we only because and it's nice it's nice to know that it's appreciated and your share is good and you have no idea what you could be doing for people so basically let us be zaika to step up to the plate of how hush of our nation is and go to your neighbor and go to your children and go to your friends and and and give hezek and look for people who need i mean don't look people who you don't embarrass people you know this one's a story oh my god there was a person who was collecting mice and money so one guy on one side right he's like yo i got master money for you and the guy was like he was so embarrassed he's like that's not how you do meister money you know don't make it awkward and don't make it in pain but when you give somebody a physique do it in the best way possible how our gdelem did it you know you hide it under this or that or you call it privately and make sure that people know that you are somebody who could give because you know somebody once came over to me and said you know why why don't people compliment ever why is it so hard to give a compliment it's just so hard i never get why and it could be the answer is because you've never been complimented because we're just not used to it like wow we're always thinking of the negativity and the bad and the why compliment validate next app it's so important and the more we do it the more they'll do it and then you could just you could change everything so let's compliment each other let's give each other validation let's give the toyota validation let's sit on the entire and be makvid because look how much power it has we'll see that by us supporting chickens for shabbos and torah anytime and khazak and supporting each other supporting each other with words you know it's easy to buy a gift it's easy to do that but what about your time what about your words what about your kazuk by seeing that we're doing it with each other because you know what that's it my children it is time to come out of this galas there is so much actress there was so much love and now it's my turn to validate claudiosville the mashiach should come in here via menu and mia will be so proud of us have a wonderful wonderful night and thank you so much for joining this year