Who do you want to become?

If you feel like your wife doesn't like you anymore, she doesn't respect you the way she used to, you're looking for better tools, better communication skills, tips and tricks, and how to enhance your relationship, you're probably looking in the wrong space because you're either going to band-aid your relationship or tiger yourself out for looking all in the wrong places. What you really need is not a checklist. What you really need is to discover identity, to discover your most real and authentic self, because that's the version of you she had originally liked. That's the version of you that's most functional. That's the version of you that is going to introduce peace and connection back into your relationship.