This is not an easy question to answer, but I believe in you

Someone had done something inappropriate to me. It was a long time ago, and for the most part, I've worked through it, but it still impacts my thoughts and feelings. Should I be telling my wife? I'm terribly sorry that this happened to you, and I commend you for doing what you can to work through it and remain strong, and for even asking this question. Where do you draw the balance or the line between something that is secret and something that is private? Privacy is very important. Secrecy is very dangerous. Is this private or is it a secret? If you were to tell your tell your wife and she reacted in a way that was pleasing to you, what difference would that make to you? What would that do for you? What would now happen that you got that off your chest? Would you feel more confident? Would you feel happier? Would you feel more trusting? What is the internal change that you're hoping for by sharing this information? Figure out the internal change that you're looking for or by sharing this information and work on creating that internal change beforehand. Then with proper guidance make a decision as to whether it's appropriate to share this information or doing so from a healthy place and making this decision whether to or not to from a healthy place is definitely going to serve everybody much better. [Music]