The best version of you shouldn't go unnoticed

So there's this guy lives in Lakewood, New Jersey, and it's not a well lit place. The streets are not well lit. He's driving in the winter at night, 5:30 p.m. in stitch glass. He turns the corner and he almost hit somebody. Thank God he didn't. But he got very nervous because Lakewood, New Jersey is a very Jewish community, a very traditional community, and people are walking dressed like this in the dark and it's just not not a good idea. So he rolls down the window and he sees that it's a teenager and he's thinking, should I say something? Should I not say something? Should I tell him that he should walk more responsibly, wear some sort of reflective vest, or just let it slide? in his words, "Life and death or get in an altercation with a teenager." He says, "I'm going to say something." He rolls down the window and he says, "Young man, excuse me. I don't know if you noticed. I almost killed you. And you really should be more responsible. You're dressed all in black. It's pitch black outside. There are no lights here. you really should consider wearing some sort of reflective vest or or something like that. You know how the young man responded? He points to the front of the car. He says, "Your headlights are off." Your headlights are off. His headlights are off, but when his headlights were off, he noticed somebody else was doing something wrong. If his headlights were on, that young man was still doing something wrong. But he wouldn't have noticed it. He would have saw the human being.