I wish I knew how to ask QUESTIONS like this when I was younger (מה נשתנה)

so what happens when somebody asks you a question is they force you to think and when you're forced to think you start noticing things so if I ask you how was your day depending on what type of day you have you're going to start or what type of day you think you had you're going to start noticing things if I ask you what did you notice about your day that was good even if generally the day wasn't good I'm forcing you to notice and this is what we do with the Manana We Begin the Seder with asking questions because when we ask questions we're forced to notice and the questions we ask are difference oriented what is different because when we could focus on the micro details of this night that shows that this is different we can trace back to what this night is all about and get the clarity that we need we begin the Seder the first night of PES by asking questions and noticing the difference and we conclude pesak by commemorating the splitting of the sea seven days later because when we ask questions and notice difference we have freedom we have Clarity and we could see right through the water nothing can conceal the sea splits for us that's my story and I'm sticking to it