How to go ALL IN

I'm trying to be the best husband to my wife, father to my children, employee to my team, but I have too much baggage. How can I go quote allin end quote when I have so much healing to do? There is this assumption that in order to go forward, I got to heal first. And if I go forward without healing and without resolving my issues, then I'm sweeping my issues on under the rug and there's this fear that they're going to come back and haunt me in years to come. Just another way to look at this. Despite your pain, despite the what you call baggage, you still somehow muster up the courage to become your best self and go allin. That is healing. In order for this to work, you can't just go allin behaviorally. You got to go all in emotionally as well, despite the baggage that you have. And the way you do that is you ask yourself the following question. Why is going allin important to me? Why does it matter? If I were to go allin, what would the result be? What would that inner change look like? What would be different about me? The moment you discover that you can go allin and that itself can be a very healing experience and really make you the best version of you possible. [Music]