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For Men Only: If Your Wife Doesn’t Respect You, Watch This!

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Rabbi Josh Zebberman

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If you're a husband listening to this and you find that you're constantly being nagged by your wife, and the reason why she's nagging you is because what you do is never good enough, you're not motivated enough, you're not bringing in enough money, and she's not respecting you. And because she's not respecting you, you feel frustrated with her. And it's like, how could you possibly love somebody who's frustrated? Because she's frustrated with you. Because you're frustrated with her, you have no opportunity for closeness. and she's constantly pulling away and pulling back for you from you. The first thing I need you to know is that there is hope. You know how I know there's hope? Because you clicked on this video, which means if you're going through a difficult time in your marriage, you believe things can be better. Otherwise, you wouldn't be searching for help. You would have given up and you never would have seen this video. You're watching this because you believe things can be better. And I believe I can help you channel that faith. Think about when you were first dating your wife and right about that time that you've asked her to marry her. What was it that you liked most about your wife? What did you like most about her? What difference did those qualities make to you in your life? How did they make you feel? How did they make you think? How did she make you act? How did she respond to the way you felt and thought and acted? How did she notice you were feeling the way you did that compelled you to ask her to marry her? How did she notice that something is up with this guy? He likes me. If somehow those qualities had returned, I don't know how, and I'm not saying they yet will, but if somehow the qualities that you liked most about your wife returned, as if the issues were never there in the first place, somehow they returned and you were the kind of husband that appreciated these qualities, what would be different about you? How would you notice these qualities returned? How would you notice you're the kind of husband that your wife respects, looks up to, and wants to be married to that doesn't want to pull back from? What would clue you in that you are the person that you should be to be in a healthy, happy marriage? And if you were to start acting based off of these qualities before you even noticed any change on your wife, what would you do differently? What would be different in how you behave and how you act? Because you might be the person to start the cycle of change. And we'll talk. That's my story and I'm sticking to