Every Married Person Must Know This

Cuz when you give attention to something, you become intimately familiar with it. So, what version of your spouse do you [music] want to be more familiar with? The version of your spouse that triggers you, or the version version of your spouse that you had originally married? What version of you do you want your [music] spouse to be more intimately aware of and connected with? The version of you whom she or he >> [music] >> is fed up with, or the version of you whom she's proud or he is proud of? Because what we put [music] attention to is what we're going to feel more connected to.