Rabbi Jonathan Rietti - Chinuch At Home # 3

come today three of Kanaka bias Kenneth in the home special thank you to you Shiva darnellia for sponsoring this series so comes along deposit machine on table veneer cavity Barrett a bum speak with them it doesn't say to them wasn't going to speak with your children well if it's speaking to them it's a one-way street I'm talking to you you have to listen I've got an information you don't I have the answers you don't it's a one-way street but depart a bum means you're talking with them we know it also means in them in the words of terror but which is greater learning words of Terror with your child or being the actual role model of the terror so according to cuss out go Tyler she must've shall Tara yes Emily muda the first pair of brothers it's greater to be a role model of Tara and apprentice to a true Thomas Holcomb then the actual limit itself because if you were in the tent of mush or bamboo would you learn more for 24 hours studying with him the text and he would give you the answer to every single nuance in the entire Tara where it's hidden in the text itself or would you learn much more by being silent for 24 hours and all you do is watch how he lives listen to how he talks to supera how he deals with a nudnik coming to the tent door for the 15th time in last 20 minutes you're going to learn much more from how he lives so comes along the turn tells me the mitzvah of a muna in Hashem Eckhart and the midst of our session is in the Christmas mice realm and the mist of machine on table vinekappa tea party pampers shifty Habibi circa is all in krishma because that's where chef wants us to deliver amana and have a session in the home also this grand opportunity of all of us being stuck in the ITU no no I see you the ITU the intensive t-con unit which is where we are many of us are in right now is in order for us to have the constant repetitive machine not some repeat opportunities to prove our love baku and to talk with our children not to them with them means talk and ask them what do you think how do you do that well when you're learning Torah and they have a question ask them what do you think the answer is if you have a question and you're asking them the question you are supposing they can't figure this out themselves that's the power of asking questions Vick departure bum means dialogue is going both ways it's not a one-way street the mission ice was written so you can't understand that you're forced to ask questions the gumar is written in a way that it actually is question answer format is problem solution format so the whole purpose of learning is to create this sixer of will come to show terror of a meeting of minds between the parents and the children so the departed bar means speak wisdom be the role model of terror and that's how the children learn from us buddy bar tab um