Rabbi Hanoch Teller - GOES VIRAL - "How to Treat Your Neighbor" www.yiboneh.com

good evening everybody maybe Tina and I very happy to see you all here is there at everything 11 once again I want to thank the Nets uncontrolled community for hosting tonight's presentation I'm going to thank all those who help promote tonight's evening starting out with Ari Lewis representing Israel sports radio Benji singer from Israel k said Stubb from jag low Dina levinstein from things to do in Jerusalem I don't want to forget to mark zuckerberg as well certain things i want to especially thank Israel pin yummy and the young nadler for technical assistance I would remind all those who are not yet on our mailing list if anybody snuck in past those four very determined women and didn't get over an email just please do so on the way out as well as there will be books for sale red light teller actually came out of the brand new look it's called her own children and I'm sure that tonight you will speak a bit about it that is a downlow unstable on the right outside the exit I would also remind people to please put their phones on vibrate you don't turn them off but please turn on vibrate before I introduce our speakers the evening want to share a few hearts I heard a story last week about our speaker very personal and actually when I pulled it over to a few people I actually broke down i hope i don't do that right now so the story was told by a person who is in the same room as the Radley he was hearing a conversation taking place person who called the other he has the rad life how many children do you have the rabbi responded 18 yes how many children do you intend to have said six million as educators we want our students to pay attention to be engaged and remember the message the key to doing that I tell the science now says in about story telling stories and stimulating motions which has proven to be the key to better learning attention memory and later down the line decision-making in a nutshell neuroscience is discovering that the brain is wired to organize retain and assess information through story if that's true it is then teaching through story means the students will be able to remember what to teach asset access assess the information and apply it more readily the wisdom the wisdom our sages wrote this wisdom our sages were always cognizant of no wonder they recalled so free not only from writing or counting but from the art of transmitting our rich heritage to story this art is sourced within the tour itself beginning with the obligation to retell the collective experience of our exigent regions we're privileged we are privileged tonight to hear first-hand from the modern day module a storyteller really not until we're here firstly for mostly to acknowledge the work of e banana and there's nothing more commendable than from the edge impressive which is what you find out all about I had a really interesting for what I'm going to say it right away because I'm afraid I'll forget it what I wanted to say it at the end but the first says Oh hazuki banana God created the world with lessons kindness and you don't have to be great at merion to realize that you but as a future tense in other words the world that God trade there's the room for creation and creativity and to be a builder to get together with God through has said and I also intersect opportunity to thank all those people that were thanked and most particularly not by yuvan that are they post and thank you very much this organization why do you find that the infest is so critical and how it dovetails with our subject is the rabbi's teach a baby is born with a clenched fist and all hiding growth maturation is opening up the hand and you leave this rule the hands only indeed if it's not only the Hendrick at least subaerial society will open the hand at least you should leave the road with an open hand life and growth and maturation is bridging that we liftin closed fist to movin hand that's done for the vehicle of custody there's a terminator ish it's actually a word its term which we're going to retrying battle against tonight that's called safe zemi in itself and the concept up to the other guy here the other guys are concerned about the other person and these are worth for tonight every talk I've ever attended on child rearing and there aren't many things they all stress how important it is to love your children which personally I think is done but no one stresses an equally obvious that have children are well behaved and courteous and polite and clean up after themselves and not loosen some it's easier to love them is a sharper if you don't raise children be polite and courteous that too is a form of parental abuse but I'm not here to teach about child rearing I'm here to talk about how we deal with our fellow person I want to give a nothing is now we all know this but just in case thrusting a few things to pick up the rust minimalistic Lee good manners needs to not leave a soil tissue on a bench in the shoulder a chair to put in your pocket where'd you come from England can you poke it minimalistic inventors things more just saying please and thank you means not joining a line or jumping a cue that would evenly not jumping the ramp to Brooklyn Bridge not double park and certainly our triple parking thinking you have the privilege take someone else's turn it also means or from your seat on a train or a bus huh laughing your seat and public transport a I was I once walked my seat out of us to a woman and i thought was pregnant when she told me she was no so embarrassed i said i'm getting off anyways that's a double-car fear and things also we're talking about offering a trainer of us it also means this is a better example perhaps Manhattan then you shall I humid here will so we're taxis are at a premium offering a taxi to one of us older or weaker and I fold the latter category weaker I'm always stuck in my books which makes me not so olive oil and when you have a taxi you can't just go hey tell the taxi bell ring to it when you get and they have the cap we can't just stop right here it's got to leave its way over to the side of the road so I'm going to tell you a story now you know there's two versions to every story except for this one i hailed the cab in New York it was my cab mom tiger attacks my cat when I we needed to the side of the road i hoisted up the box of books and i made over the cab and a little got in his head that's my taxi and she said that's long i said i'm trying to encourage an optimist and you never know would be for society in case there's confusion and i can say in connection to this and i don't know why this but it is driving brings out the worst character people if someone cuts you on the road I hope that before I came here today the statistics of road rage and I already forgot i looked up but i do remember that in America every year over 100,000 people are made for life consequential to road rage so compare will be the person culture is not a major lot about Sodom and it righteous pine st. but they are not your enemy and my students tell you I teaching machine that of several touch of my way you'll cut nine other people to get the back that's intelligent at 90 miles an hour and people if someone caught you you once unspool such expletives in front of children it's not your enemy you may boston in a second but don't lose yourself okay another rule of caring about the other person sending any special kind is treating other people as if they matter people ask me how you're doing I would take to storage etre stories and I'm to beat agonist I'm not protagonist on throne receptionist that happened to me I didn't do it when it happened to me someone called me up said how's your summer I said my mother died oh good and it's really the same punch line someone said how she truly sorry but we like a good so you're not even listening treat people is if they marry and if you treating pleasant they matter and the keyboard is to be here to me you can have a fair argument you can argue your spouse which is legit as long as it's fair fair means you stand the subject once you dredge up hold it and you always do this and bring in everything that's all over here stay on the other point that would be here okay the weight I've constructed this talk is I have some easy things so far that was easy add some harder things up too hard but I'm not going to give you the hard ones yeah so interspersing nip / up to harm now you may look at me as an old fuddy-duddy even though just 27 but I was not born with a cell phone surgically attached to my ear and Viking created at target would be cell phone to court but there there are times that is inappropriate to think I'm a cell phone I'm going to funerals or cell phone goes off now I will wear the fact that sometimes you forget to turn off your phone but what I'll never get is how do you take the ball and I was discussing this at the shop stables my kids as always at a funeral if your phone off person took the call and my kids said it must have been a doctor said I don't think this 15 year old girl dr. last summer right here shall i unders very tragic I guess it still is tragically young woman from America passed away and the funeral and did you ever notice that the phone which goes off the field was always to jump you stickin the monsters serve Addams Family it's always been so I'm at the funeral and the guy stumbles off and it wasn't on silent and he's talking about his prep blame us to eat he's poking talking hangzhou nautical another corner and finally my mental daggers pierced him a little bit so he was over even turn off the phone we just went over about talking and I said to the guy next to me can you believe can't believe this he said I don't I can't and I will not get was on to us and I momentum but i also don't care that I mean I don't care if your phone goes love this should be a message from the rooftops turn out your phone and not having American muttering every call the home it's a message when I'm going to score I'd gone to a store at my phone rings I asked the clerk and I have a lot come over this just happened to me my last time I still do Stuart my phone rang I asked the clerk at the checkout counter is she willing to my technical and she had no idea was to tell us because of the subject because I wasn't saying in spanish but would you follow me guys but a little kurtistown carrots and then a deal and I'm not treating this only because I don't know how to if you can help me Emile is one of the eight unique garments of the koenkan little high priest ok i know it's translated as a tunic but I don't know what tunicates but what a mini liz is the unique feature of the meal is that it has bills and the rabbi's derived from this the tech home message is you have to be mush vehicle you know enter a home even your own home without knocking first and even a child's entitled to their privacy if you got to make amends to the prince you're not refer your mentor don't catch some of them unawares okay folks another heart really consideration means caring about the other person then consider it is not to waste people's time everyone know yah yah yah yah everyone knows I put my head in your pocket down the thief but there is much less awareness that I delay you I'm also a thief because I've stolen your time if you make a whole rookie people left it's a readiness crime the whole show late a farmer he is crying because money can always be replaced because time is irreplaceable and people think I'm not prompt first whereas they always say to me on a Yankee I'm not genetic ancestry I'm wasn't a genetic ancestry but everyone I don't want people to wait for me and I do not wish to wait other people nothing will say that's done we all sure I'm allergic to morning so here to tell you the person my family was chronically and acutely simultaneously late and I were say that on her tombstone we're going to write here lies the late so what I'm here to tell you is you don't have to wait with the rosh hashanah with the photo she'll open to rectify activities is all about rectifying repairing improving and i want to give me three or four examples example number one my goodness remember you saw the friend when we were kids everybody spoke loshon nowadays there's a much to everybody gossip besmirch the standard nowadays there's a much greater awareness not too slender not as you might say this many Russian Autobot you don't denounce second there's a different awareness I just think remember second seder Ashima learning to the second set in the afternoon there's a petrochemical oye think malodorous honorific far stinking redolent nowadays if you smoke your parietal out in the cold or need you know smokin them if you watch a movie from the seventies on your neighbors TV everybody smoking the world has changed now your peroneus your smoke throughout the colder lead another table I travel I mention some travel often overseas particularly to America and my host in Brooklyn is a fella by the name of posh cos very sweet man mr. Hodgkiss manufacturers is candy and his core clientele are cocina if you were to look at a rapper of a posh cos candy bar there are more action more rabina chol certifications than there are ingredients actually shocked this because his mom who can lake nicaragua and welcome to the board owner mr. pastors told me is to a couple years older than I am that when he was a kid if you didn't see a picture of a pea gianna candy bar but those days are over you don't just put something your mouth you check ingredients you look production the world has changed and if the world has changed and we can change one last example Oskar Shindler was a dishonest businessman a womanizer ad said nearly 12 under Jews during the Holocaust had it not been for the ladder and he'd be remembered and that's a major if he'd be remembered as a creep and now the nation there is synonymous with heroism bravery courage self-sacrifice compassion synonymous like Vaseline petroleum jelly and kleenex tissues and q-tips means cotton swabs and beyond days means plaster Larry and self-sacrifice changed his name and we can't we're not convinced even if you don't carry punctuality a good character in your sleep we can all change after Judas was all about what a tech to stories about time for a new one is about the fuzz Amish those are not familiar presentation was the undisputed gotta love dora undisputed leader abetik leader of the century of the century with his period that would be the 1950s early 1960s so much so that even the Prime Minister of Israel named after the airport I think major matter of nature's concern for chili is medium Sultan to go to consult with the hose oneish so resolutions wants to put it together a minyan applause mignon with some sama bare-bones minion just ten men and one of the men was having a high is what's the matter said I'd like to join the menu but i have an appointment now if i go to the minion I'll be late to my appointment so the cosmic go to your appointment and he added you can't diamond you can't pray on stolen time and I broke the menu but so cool to fazoli's more canta practiced in my redness aloha mai stinks my single teacher I'm Schultz out a normal he would be extraordinarily great I didn't say that enough emphasizes extra extra extra ward never the grateful if someone would give him a ride because I right meant savings of time now this may sound strange to you if you're not my age 27 but it used to be in Israel 35 years ago it was unusual to a religious person to drive 45 years ago was on a guard up to religious person to own a comer and the person who told me the story he's no longer living was the first car and the Shia has it surely has neighborhood which songs on the left and he told me that he wasn't even on a solid ride to a wedding out of town wherever or about was going to appreciate he was the son of perdition he said what time should pick with the rabbi said environment the wedding he said is called 46 out of town pick me up at four-thirty so 4 30 ish amazon was outside waiting now let me just tell you what happened had he not had a ride had he not had around it would have meant war even Charlie has said to my new go that's a 20-minute war for one good health and a good weather not always for both of these conditions fulfilled and their wager bus and that amount you and waiting for a bus to go to the bus station and then the bus station waiting for us to go to Tel Aviv and then in Tel Aviv waiting for bus to learn empathy and then append to take waiting for bus to go to the home that's four buses on and off squishy women and now telescopically condensed from five and a quarter hours into one and a half hours is it will talk to pick pick number 4 30 now she was out of the bar behind talking as tollywood likes primer disciple of the victor devon Sawa to my own experience any time you make up to pick them up at that time precisely and never circulated her outside of the sake removal waiting few never ever ever would you have to wait for them and he's waiting and waiting and waiting waiting yah yah yah yah 434 40 to 55 o'clock 515 520 52 driver spokesman said covered I couldn't bear the thought if I would have come on time the ramen we arrived the wedding as the Busboys of setting up the table as the photographers take his equipment out the case sexual exam don't worry about me the pork room is so much on his mind is the remote is that is the rabbi coming is he coming on time don't worry about I reflected to do with my time but if we make up a time he was king of time and I think if you never give me a ride again at a time that was very hard to get a ride but we make up the time mosquito little thing that's not my nature so we've already made this point already booked diploma bail right Sandra kind of Usher rights are a very introduction of old letters that what you do some is all about rectifying and pairing and rest it on the gun and this ties in so well do so because of the point me by now if you don't become a better person if at the age of 40 you're not more compassionately kind you can see it then you were at the age of 21 then you failed failed in life that's pretty consequential but as we all know you can flunk a test and not feel divorce falling down science that will notice staying down some stats the failure a plane which flies from New York to Los Angeles eighty-five percent of the route it's constantly dynamically professionally vector back on course but the bottom line is a lands on the runway in the right here part in the right City Sun percent success following that is not a mistake staying down at stake the gym I work out herein shall I mean and his staff by Russia's that are Hebrew challenged so it's trying to go from a squash court to the pool that can change the dressing going outside the one of them Courtney they said to me on top talent which translates you aren't mistake I'm still thinking about that but when I objectified and the rectifier is to try and constantly dynamically control ourselves not the way to Russia in the world to come they're not interested in checks they want receipts part of to the other guy we all know that happiness is contagious and a happy person but to the good mood it works well country or sour puss as the same thing but there is a delicious inverse relationships and expectations and gratitude the more you expect bless gracious will be and the less you expecting more greatly which is why it is not a good idea of expectations and goals it's not a contradiction get the shoes with the Stars is that clear goals are important but not to expect should I give an example or you gotta I'm a teacher and I do this whole time I never happen because they were just applying it to attacks okay here i was nominated for privacy in israel and out of 227 other candidates it's been narrowed down with someone else and myself unhappily I think I'm deserving of this prize but that is my goal yet not my expectation not to mention the fact that Judge is the uncle of the unfair candidate so those are very important but not to expect because the most important components of being a happy person is to appreciate it doesn't matter how much you have it matters how much appreciate and those of us printers to be raised to religious household or how religious education I think we have the edge because we're torture entire children to make a blessing what about how about I say provided you paying attention it's about appreciation every Friday night take home guesstimate hotel we closed the walnuts and one friday night many years ago we brought out a girl awesome well Nora for meals you stayed a little bit longer true story and after five interceptor and later you'd like to go to finish line good seminary with classes and ruined lecturer said no no I like it where I am I said nonetheless and I took her by taxi tune of a and the end of the story is today so is married a religious woman has a couple kids she later confessed to me her very first day in the venue Shania she walked in the dining room so everyone talking to the food before they aided tip of the really spaced out so now most of that blessing to have I ever had an appreciation it's my full contract I was flying to America and on my flight went through the great rabbis me Rasheeda where I learned rubbing our chodesh Marcia hwy Sheila and I are you think one of the Russia shivers of the mirror and rabbi are they single is we call him but sapphic of a mere the saint of emotion and neither note that here in this title the manna so righteous time isn't about if we the thing is over here they be trippin with God's holy presence he works trailer after care of it when these rabbis learned that I was on their flight they asked if I was it next event obviously some traveler fortunately they are not but my policy is never i travel i prefer to sit next to someone who is not yet religious i thought about what i'm doing a life many people or not person stuff next week 11 that's a chance compact I said I'll be juxtaposed with rope equity but not totally adjacent okay so 900 the window everybody think of the bedside leak in the middle next in israeli i SAT behind him and next to me was a middle-aged Israeli couple I introduced myself to my neighbor and he tells me that they are Heidi she'll only meaning not only now not only are they not that religious they are Cassell's I'm not that religious as why these things adore schnee need you shall we dinnae generation crystallite whose grandmother grew up in button garmin-sharp she was close erith wish a lot first time I ever heard that expression that is the antenna system a loser but you Russian kick the fold and they're very proud of her needless to say had a work cut out for me so I thought to my feel punished like water duck's back made no impression whatsoever we fall into a fifth of sleep after about four hours donas crack and he was my flight they are you tickle chokes up here is the very first opportunity to hook a shot of the morning blessings it jumps up puts on the jacket for some his hat goes into the windup and by no means the pike voice begins bajo na couple next to me are freaking out it's at least one of yours you get into quiet down I was not prepared to cooperate although the steward and stewardess said get him out to play I tried to explain this highly practical emphasis on the highly is they called the captain after 23 minutes felt like an eternity least now they single sits down couple resumes breathing and then remember table gets up and goes to get into the bathroom and then once again puts on his jacket and puts on his hat was back into the windup all this tree onyx gesticulations but a time when you're now is he doing I said sir I not explained this to you but there's a blessing you made when you come out of the bathrooms give me a break some now all we have to go to hospital someone's it's are a leading and their houses are Allen the rupture blockage they're miserable terrific pain is pain oh so this ignited we changed turn turn three said today about you know what yes there's a mushroom kind of point the next six hours talking religion Aloha wait to America a young painter me speak for both traveling Los Angeles maybe since our bicycles bathroom blessing that turned them around that's what means to make a blessing that's what it means to appreciate there's an uncle moishy song and to be honest with you one more time I kids went too far with this one and it goes like this bara flash em or the sky so blue whatever you do I'm a happy to cha cha cha cha cha so it's awfully corny but it's also true if you appreciate your happy person there's a kid I see every day it's not a powerful story the way outside the mirror Sheila base is wrong I see the skin every day kicking your plastic bottle you know about plastic bottle the kid is that happiest kid on earth his smile goes into the stratosphere and he once told me that is not even his bottle it once was it and the king is so happy and then he had kindled island whose basin is an annex of toys r us miserable that's not what you have to appreciate and we're blessed we have so much we have to be happy people and appreciate particular good points more okay the governor says him to houghton feds what's a good guest with the badness where's the good guesses look how much they've done to me know how much they care for me how much they troubled me and amanda says here importing for Bentham they only gave me one cup of wine and the only gave me one of these of meat and they only gave me one slice of bread and they didn't do it for me all the ones who pressed her wife and children we don't want to go through life as bad guests and now to get this attitude my friend Herr Joseph Pushkin he said a very good point he go to someone's house for silica buta said abre Haute or high in engagement party and these people worked hard to shout at the time maybe four hours maybe even days what happens as you drive home the post morning salads atrocious I'm decorating a pork home Tiger welcome to the head kids very misty 8 shall i buy it so my suggestion and you don't have something good to say the people work so hard for you get on something good to say then we tried that already have a new suggestion and jealously good to say wait 24 hours we can't say that either but little cold but if don't be an ingrate little tops that worked hard to you wait 24 house don't be ungrateful that's a good list ok one more thing ok I keep saying that it's very linic to end several times i think is really too many things maybe three let's go I want to suggest a little protocol maybe you can call it etiquette when you visit someone who is ill decor column this works anywhere meaning in someone's has how much more so in a hospital so my first suggestion is when you come to visit them also time drama collision when you come to visit then knock on the door the doors open not going to bed because their pricing is so violated by caregivers and janitorial staff and phlebotomist doctors social workers it's empowering episodes products now when you visit sit down if you stand up it's that sense of you know you just want to get this bits over and on to the next we ought to be even plain and I think we all know that it's impolite to look at your watch so what people do they try to at all thats wrong dr. night one more point that your influence over fight this is that people don't know why it I don't want to say the about to Iowans Holly look after the last two power shield but it's really much more prevalent initial that I've ever seen anywhere else in the world that's because maybe it is what we just saw image but it's amazing i mean i don't know if you've ever been asked who I have I mean I on the other hand as a patient so doctor comes with prescribes medication and then what happens in the ward there's a symposium should you take it sugar to take it you know and people come guess commons in there they just always talking about so if you feel that something's been done incorrectly and you really think you're right and investigate but don't cause alarm to the poor patients that's not appropriate something is wrong investigating but don't people bellyache you don't want to you matter they just walk away I believe that of that oh it was if you sometimes just can't visit someone is sick you should visit that but you can't you're far away there in London there Cincinnati there in their shadow so if you call i think it's a matter of etiquette the first thing you should ask is is a good time to talk taking into account of people taking the trouble to visit maybe there's other people there is in the life to speak to that first of all other people waiting around it's like I was also very klutzy you call someone up to Menachem to comfort them also asked him I know it's not a good time let me just tell you a few words of conference I said of keeping him on the phone with all houses wedding and the person to get off the phone okay it's not my place to say this which i think is a speaker device to get people's attention but through methods that are either over to cover we have a nature maybe shouldn't be so accusatory I have nature I think its own nature and I'm not proud of this at all and I working very hard on myself to improve this but I think it's human nature I confess it's my nature that we are cause I or rather superficial we judge people that are very influential and affluence and powerful and we are naturally much more cordial and a warm to these people and much cooler to those at a lower social strata if someone is a partner in a law firm 500 lawyers boy boy boy boy boy that's very impressive and someone else I was guys to the filling station that's not impressive then you learn yeah yeah yeah yeah that this fancy shmancy lawyer is a father and abusive husband in your image goes down the fellow thomas gas is a lovely person his children born honey jars up but compounds about that that is our initial impression my friend hassle Chapman lives in boro park and one day he has his house painted by a black panther they were taking all the paintings off the wall that would have been rather ironic ironic to leave the paintings on the wall the techni decks of the 11 of the enlarger was a blow-up of a bump of a ruby and the black painter said to my friend is this your rabbi he said no and the painter said why is Anita Rama is not my rabbi let's get on the job don't whine here yeah my rabbi can we get on with John lying stealing stuff around let's get on with the contact but why is here is no variable he said could you tell me why you so there's a whole bunch of rabbis full beards and very romantic-looking he's very nice looking to weaken on me but while you're out in there my rabbi and then the black paper said he's my grandma said what though I was I was wallet and maybe I'll photograph is above you ready I will tell you then one morning us painting his house and the red became home we said to me did you breakfast I said no said sit down he waged upon me that he said to me I want to tell you something and I don't just was gonna say I heard the shrooms a million times it's going to tell me I'm very good money I want you to do a perfect job and never said we once had the world perfection and everything mostly supposed to be but because of our sins the temple was destroyed and ever since we ever had that world of perfection so I can't ask her to do a perfect job but I would like you something about like you lee try our hardest and you know his people recommend he gave me how does it discussing no one ever offered me no never offered the breakfast but they will tell me I'm thank you good money I want the perfect job and I say today you want a perfect job but there's no temple I can occur we must get a little more not me show cilantro said you couldn't grant that much movement moving to ethical perfection you can speak with our for 48 minutes and is always value it was just one person listens in if the one person is the speaker the two things oratories a Greek and Roman demosthenes and cicero when the Masters we finished they'd say print speech when sister I'll finish they said let's March ladies and gentlemen were enclosed 10-0 wonder we built the candy by tamerica build that you Barnett is wonderful organization engaging you cussin let's March thinking about the other person not zip ourselves all the time and if you'll allow me now I have this is a moment of supreme honor I work I've been a lot of books but never wrote a book like this this company 14 years and then put myself into this it's called terrible children it's about my expertise as it were is how the post and you're going to thank come on there's no dearth of Holocaust literature but the one area that has not been written about is when the war was over the survivors understandably congenitally wanted their stories to be told and people should be aware deadly sound the children could not tell the story then and bass things never consultant and these survivors in the grips of very old age to learn book we have stories of nine children and you read the stories you will know everything most Griffin must dripping building way which is extremely upbeat but something's going to happen you read the book and for greater understanding on the book when you read it cause sudden petty things wrapping so consequential you're not going to catch by each and everything it's a certain maturity that what happened and if I may I'm going to tell you a story which I I was introduced as a storyteller but the story just have judge that just happened then it's sort of blowing my mind I don't have to concede from far back there the cover is a picture of some children taken on the liberation of Auschwitz and i was working very hard to get the book done by a deadline I'm psyched this exciting because tonight is that you the premiere of the book it's nowhere anywhere except for here in this room that's not dis repulsive and the picture was taken with children and I had a hard time as in a rush I didn't yet have a cover picture we worked assiduously to find a picture and I broken the at Michelle monitory value the whole like Patek see and all my connections put in trying to picture then we hope I thought was the ideal picture and the copyright holder is not States Holocaust Memorial Museum ush mmm so I request permission to use their picture they wrote back no problem but it'll take three weeks and I had to go to press in six days I did not have three weeks I need a book manufactured in six days and then I thought to myself you know this would be the classic context the turn the picture too low resolution the high resolution doesn't take it three weeks it takes 10 seconds or maybe half a minute but you need the right connection and I know a fellow Baltimore it was very well connected to everything they said that he has in the South Valley every senator and Congressman personal number and it's Elmer's a machine adjacent to my house so I went to the Sun as an arguing mother have any connection with the United States Holocaust Memorial missing he said no he said what my mother was on the board gonna wring his neck so I call the judge Friedman and I said any trail I just a chair and she pulled the right strings and within a day I had the picture now when you apply for a picture you have to sign a voucher I guess it is great disclaimer they will not alter the picture you have a picture of eight children you can't put in six joke again and i wrote i'm going to change this this this this this is this in fact that that this business yeah and i got action then I decide what I wanted to I don't know if you can see at sepia and one voice color because the way I teach about the Holocaust is what's the most famous during the Holocaust it's not a hard question most famous story is and Frank now add story is not a reflective story she wasn't the ghettos wasn't in the camps should he have read is more than food but because its historic invest relate to it and that's the way the minecarts it's easier when the Angelus took place overnight and Porter clean Western Jews ronder do not seal and America they reserved about one more stir in June his name was I feel like a teaching here on earth his name was dr. Sigmund Freud and America they're concerned about the ill treatment than the rest of dr. Sigmund Freud and the way to mine works which is a very unfortunate commonly talking about Floyd is that it's easier to relate to London for Julian and relate to and Frank over six million or six million paper clips on topic loops over six million souls so I'm always talking about the individuals we can better understand so I explained that I want to highlight one person in the picture ok all of a sudden because I wanted to color one picture in the picture one person in the picture I didn't have permission to this and I felt I must request permission so I call the judge treatment I told her that I need your help i need to get one more permission so i'm very sorry triangle I'm very busy now but I'll see what I can do she sent him back an email it's up to them yay yay nay nay and that night we had to go to press I have 10,000 covers the plates are earned their on the drum it's t-minus three hours I get an email nited states holocaust memorial museum telling me that you have an information we spoke to the legal department of the museum they said you can't change the fellow that I colored is a very sensitive person they said he just spoke out and you can't change it there's nothing to talk about either here's the way it is or no picture I can't use academic t minus two and half hours and I go back a little to find her I said let me call it and they told me this is we have to pay attention he said to me we don't know where he is I said look I wrote back but you wrote me you told me that he sensitive yes this year on the anniversary the liberation of Auschwitz for the people this picture went back to Auschwitz they pointed to themselves as children in the picture and he spoke out about the picture so I said so you know he said no we don't know who he is but she sent me a clipping of this picture and these elderly people speaking about the fiction according to this online clipping it's seen it was mashed appeared that his last things worse and his spirit and now I have two and a 40 hours to locate this person so I figured like this Europe that doesn't mean name because they've ever being it does like russia goes Russia's new Russia it doesn't in israel israel israel i only got about 15 countries left and then looking at the picture the kid booked in pretty much good shape so to be must be Murray because I probably wouldn't look like this at the end of the world so I thought Hungarian would never go to France that's never been happy that leaves Belgium Switzerland so I called my friend in serious Bush loser a very clever fellow burst on ganzel you loser I need you to find me an elderly how should survivor and Switzerland whose last night maybe it appeared his made lasting maybe rush he said listen here hello his head I know the religious people in service in sanaya I'm not sure if it's religious but I can't find the guy who's last night maybe Hirsch who survived Auschwitz in Switzerland I said thank you seem hungry I said probably his first names either God for or team or that's not put them to Steven mike geary so he were striving him I here and click click click God were hurt 86 year old engineer here's a stall number and called him up my pleasure he said I'm telling you it would be it's more difficult for the parallel park and he wants to get and I call I wrote back that United States Holocaust Memorial reason they said I have permission if you don't believe me here's his phone number I took this as a known through the book ladies and gentlemen in the back I think my books I think of life enriching and the heichal migration this one is no where we haven't had a special discount and this bill anderson also an incentive to take two hooks the third on the street thank you you