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Rabbi Ephraim Shapio PIC 2015
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you
for young if you find three words very
montano me call hawlucha
nice I'm not a hundred percent sure how
to accurately translate those three
words you can look at an English sitter
we are more exalted than any tongue very
montano we call how the shiny noise the
legendary Russia Shiva rib shleimah
Hyman tells us an explanation how to
understand these three words that is
simply beyond I assure you you'll hear
this is an assurance you'll hear a
flamer hymens interpretation of these
words once and it will become part of
your mantra your very being what does
we're right I'm turning we call how the
show you guys really mean how can you
also understand these words there are
many moments in our life that we're able
to qualify with words a person goes away
on vacation it's funny for me to say but
the South Florida they come back and
they tell their family that was awesome
they go to a restaurant the food was
delectable I just spent a week touring
places I haven't been to what a
delicious time there are plenty of
things in life that you can qualify and
quantify with words awesome delectable
delicious but then you have moments in
your life that you can't put into words
no one walks their first child down the
Hopa and turns to their spouse and says
that was great you know no one merits
the birth of their first grandchild with
perfect health and says splendid was it
not the rebuy nishal item gives us
moments in our life that you can't put
into words says the legendary receiver
of Hyneman that's what those
words mean I thank you hashem for giving
me occasions that are very montano me
call halesh I nice very Montano they're
higher and more exalted
me call her a shiny nice there aren't
words no vocabulary no dictionary what
do you want me to use 42 adjectives to
make a dramatic when you walk a child
down a hoofer you have that a knuckle or
you get a successful result from the
doctor you thank Hashem for those
moments that are truly very mom terumi
call how the shiny noise meaning higher
and more exalted nicole hellish a nice
words don't you it justice there aren't
words in the dictionary vocabulary they
don't exist you know what you can say
about those occasions you look at your
family and say this moment is truly very
montano me call Holly shiny nice I think
for the over a thousand people that just
spent the shabbos together you can tell
yourself that being together for project
inspire and the shabbos we experienced
was truly very montano me call Holly
showing noise
you're going to go back to the
communities as you just search so how
eloquently and you're going to want to
tell people in your show when you're
gonna start with the adjectives and as
you get to adjectives 40 or 50 you're
going to say what am i doing you have to
be there you got to experience it
because these are moments that I've
arrived on toning me call how the shiny
nice there are so many people that
created we started a day and a half ago
by speaking about charlize yesh cleaner
loma de shaw r cos find those moments
find those turns to me personally to be
able to thank and i realize that there
are a number of names and i sincerely
apologize if anyone's name is left out I
I am to blame but i'm going back to
florida so you can come there and blame
me I thank reply am Simpson for
everything that he is to be able to be
on the dais with Rob you see Friedman he
doesn't like taking credit that's the
beautiful part his father-in-law should
continue to enjoy beautiful addition our
house his unto hate to be able to get a
phone call from rabbi mordechai trop to
be able to speak to rob Yaakov Guinea
gir even if you wanted to thank our
vehicle of giving her he's all over the
place almost like Where's Waldo where's
her Bianca vinegar saving doing so much
you know what it was like for us to be
able to be able to say we spent the
shabbos with the died and i notice on
Abraham do you understand what a list
that was to be able to hear the life
changing story of rabbi Wallace to see
the magic last night of Rabbi Yaakov
Solomon as he runs a keynote session in
such a magical way to be able to be
followed with rabbi boruch eighth and
rivi schwebel that was a concert comes
it's beyond
we experience the moments when we were
taken into the life of David Winnie ours
is a cathodic larocca followed by the
song and it's a moment we'll never
forget there were dozens and I'm not
exaggerating when I say dozens of
concurrent sessions with speeches that
each one one beyond the other one didn't
know where to run and turn first and
because the thousand of you were thirsty
for the devotion all the names i just
mentioned i just touched upon the last
day and a half hour point is you're
going to go back and tell the item you
want to know what it was like well until
you buy the seventh annual project
inspire convention which will be as
recession be in the crowne plaza of
Yerushalayim until then all i could
really tell you if you weren't there was
very montano me call Holly shiny nice
the topic we have for the next 30 or 35
minutes what's our responsibility as you
just heard so eloquently like where do
we go from here you know of the ten
Marcos the ten plagues cuz I'll tell us
that the ninth one fascia darkness was
the most funeral it was the worst one of
all you could look at cos all yourself
now how do you understand that cuz I'll
it was the worst one of them all in
other mathletes and other plagues there
was a greater loss of life to people to
animals more devastation and destruction
how do you understand cuz I'll saying
that fascia now it's hard I could barely
see my notes but I don't have to worry
cuz it like shining right on my face so
I'll use that to see my notes if one
light happens to be turned on Hamish
magic speaking about clay chef ah that's
why they did it because we were talking
about play chef now I thought barukh
hashem I'm about to talk about are so
I'll be a lot happier why is high shaft
the most devastating in others there was
greater loss to life and animals so what
is it about play chef
open your hearts to begin to what the
legendary magid rip shop see you
deleverage I was privileged to know man
I learned in our Chiefs role we lived
near up shop c on Zaretsky and i was
able to go to him for abdallah and to
hear him you know of shops you to
leverage says and explaining casa y it
was the worst you're right unto others
they lost more life but in clay chef the
pasuk says later 00 ish osipov will I
como ishmeet octave which means that
darkness was so intense and thick we
were stuck in our seats in other words
we went through it alone says of shops
EU de Levitch being alone is the single
most miserable feeling in the world bar
none in all the other ma plates they had
people to commiserate with in all the
other plagues they were able to share
their pain with another family member
employ chef they were alone and when a
person is alone says ribs ops ii in his
inimitable style it is miserable beyond
other people may suffer but they can
share it with someone but ask people who
are alone who no one notices they have
no support that's why chef cuz i'll say
it's the worst we got a little bit of a
glimpse last night when we saw the just
one shabbos video and you saw a man who
repeatedly was passed by he wasn't
noticed to recognize you could say for
him he was alone it was clay shell but
what did that man look like when the
people stopped for just one shabbos to
invite him did you feel the way I did
when you saw him then bench in his own
children years later you know why
because that's light the Gomorrah in
prophase wants to know when can you
start saying the morning priya sharma so
the Gomorrah has a hike as one opinion
says when you could differentiate
between the color blue and white the
next opinion says when you could
differentiate between the color blue and
green purple
obviously going to be later because
that's harder to distinguish then
there's an opinion of a theorem open
your hearts to his opinion Misha gira
Escovedo birdie hook Dalai Lama's via
caetano let's say that the dying is
approximately four hours away from me
about eight feet there about Misha year
asked aveiro when I see my acquaintance
Mariko Tao Aramis I see that it's the
died in the accident when I recognize
it's light enough to see that's the dyin
now you could say the morning krishma
Misha year s cavero burrito gala
Yamazaki renault you recognize your
friend at a distance from about eight
feet there's another shot that simply
stratospheric it's brought down in
Halawa Holly both you know what it also
means it's all about project inspire me
che year de Escovedo when you see a
fellow Jew be regaled alla da mice he's
gone out of the dollar armies he's no
longer involved he doesn't know about
the beauty of yiddish kite of tyra of
shabbos of snails of Casarez he's very
hooked Allah da mice via Keanu and you
recognize him you validate him you take
time to acknowledge him that's the time
for the morning krishma the final
sunrise which is i Reichel mushiya so we
came here it's either fascia or or
what's my responsibility hi chef means
that people are alone we pass them by in
this supermarket i will tell you i
mentioned this friday night in one of
the concurrent sessions i'm actually a
little bit embarrassed to say it not
because i'm repeating it within a day
but for the reason that will become
obvious when my wife and i were getting
on the jetblue flight from Fort
Lauderdale so there's a kosher stand we
were buying some muffins for the plane
and there was an elderly woman who was
selling it and taking the money and at
one point she was talking about another
one of the items that were very costly
expensive and she said oh it's so
expensive you could plots so my wife and
I realized right away I think somebody
in my shul told me that expression means
we were bageled I never heard that
expression until my friend told me that
when someone stops you in walmart and
wants to know what time candle lighting
is they're letting you know I'm reaching
out to you so you were bageled I only
recently heard that expression my wife
and I were bagel obviously she could
plot she wanted us to know she was
Jewish I had no way of knowing I had to
get on the plane it's a little bit hard
to say this story maybe it's an HT b
team maybe I had to be there I turned to
her as I took the change and I said oh
you're Jewish let me wish you a good
shabbos she got a little bit emotional
and she said it's been a really long
time it's been a long time since I kept
one now really what I should have done
was been project inspire ESCA nature I
should have stayed I should have made
shabbos and had her over but then I
wouldn't have been here so that was my
dilemma my wife to make me feel a little
bit better said probably she went home
and maybe she lit candles maybe there
was something she was gonna do and she
didn't because you wished her a good
shabbos when people are alone it's
miserable it's clay chef let's leave the
convention realizing our responsibility
is Misha year ask aveiro see a fellow
Jew in the supermarket in the airport on
vacation on your travel your coworker
pitiful dhauladhar mice they don't know
the beauty of yiddish cake via quedando
you make them recognized you validate
you give them their time that's when
we'll see the final sunrise together
with project inspired it's called a
racial meshia and that will eradicate
all the flechette in the world that's
our responsibility
letting people know that we're there for
them people want to know that we care I
have a brother-in-law who lives in
flatbush tributes cook mitnick he should
live and be well for the last many years
amongst being very involved in creating
beautiful sorum he also for 20-25 years
helps families with teenagers that are
having a difficult time I don't know if
the correct word for those teens
sometimes they'll be called at risk or
on the fringe on the fence taking the
scenic route whatever the right
expression is about 20 years ago one of
these families I know the family well
we're not going to mention the name
brought their teenage son will call the
boy Khayyam to my brother-in-law was the
beginning of Thomas the date is very
important it was the beginning of Thomas
and the family Sedra buttes cook work
your magic claims a teenager he really
he needs via Kira no please my
brother-in-law found out that hyams
birthday was the next day bays Thomas he
lives down the block from Landau's land
as I'm sure most of you know a literal
minion factory 21 hours a day hundreds
of minyanim thousands of people and
there are you buy-in our Lea towards the
end of chakras for three or five dollars
he figures that I will do that and that
way I'll show kyon via keyed a new he
brings him to shul base Thomas and when
they start to auction the earlier my
brother-in-law says five dollars
somebody from the other side of Landau
says 10 a little unusual my bro in law
says 20 the other fellow says 30 now
it's starting to become a bidding war 40
50 60 it's starting to sound like it
would have been sika for an eel on Yom
Kippur these are Leah's go for five
bucks somebody came over to my brother
along said rebuke I'll give it up it's a
LaBarbera falsetto kebab hosted
tonight's gimmel tammuz
for the yard side of the river he wants
to buy an Eliot that he's going to hurt
you throw so he wants in the memory of
the yard side of the river he should buy
the Elia my brother here is that if you
know my brother is a large imposing
fellow he takes out his wallet he sees
he has 121 dollars he claps on the Bema
a hundred and twenty dollars Rishi I am
is that's how much you care about me and
and and and I know you're doing at my
birthday to bring me back in till I'm of
the alia he's beyond meanwhile the labov
ature he's a smart man he went to the
next minion and bought it for three
dollars argha dilam seemed to have time
and patience and are able to be there
for everyone I was speaking about this
topic last year during pesach and a
doctor from New Jersey came over to me
the doctor tells me I want to tell you
my sister Masha Feinstein his mother he
tells me she needed to take heart
medicine for a heart condition every
year in erith they saw she would call
red misha and she would ask for my shift
she could take the heart medicine at
relation era pesach would patiently
explained to her why she could take it
and why it wasn't comets and why it was
ok and wish her well and that we know
Eric pesar Bar None the busiest day of
the year for a row of its exponential
for ablation we couldn't live a thousand
years to imagine what a day like that
was like but he has time every year to
patiently react Audino and answer the
lady's question the doctor tells me
after 20 years my mother was getting a
bit elderly and one heir of pace up she
forgot to call ramesha two hours before
lift bench in the phone rings in the
elderly woman's home and on Eric pesach
she picks up the phone and the voice
says on the other end this is moshe
feinstein calling I didn't hear from you
too
a-and I was concerned I hear from you
every era of pace up but I didn't hear
from you today are you okay I just want
to remind you you could take the
medicine I wanted to see how you were to
wish you well into a sugar jumped off'
argue dilam get it ergodyne lim seem to
have time to be able to reach out to
everyone riff zalman arbok was
once presented with the following shyla
it was the middle of the week and
there's a man who is about to bake the
bar mitts for the upcoming shabbos for
his english ii meets his friend and the
friend says I can't wait this shabbos to
hear your son Lane the special Huff
Tyler I don't remember like yesterday we
had five tyra first column instead of
for the partial i don't remember which
one it was but it was a special of Tiger
the man turns white what I spent the
year teaching my son the regular half
tiger i forgot it's a special one as it
is he had a hard time how am I going to
go ahead and teach him in two days in
New haftorah the man doesn't know what
to do the mangos syrups llamas al manara
bak explains the Shaolin two days is the
bar mitzvah taught him the regular of
Tyros reminded as a special after Russia
Shiva what should i do if zalman
said I Paskin that he should lane the
regular haftorah in this situation and
tell people that's my sock shabbos
morning the father and son enter the
shul and sitting there before Dominic is
already ripped lay musalman are Bob in
his 80s a walk that was approximately an
hour they walked over to him is almond
Russia Shiva what are you doing here and
if zalmen says I knew you had my
sock but I was also afraid maybe there
would be three or four tumultuous
moments where you would say my sock but
that got volume and a little bit of
talking and those moments will cause you
a little bit of eating I did a little
bit of aggravation maybe a little bit of
anxiety I wanted to remove that so I
decided to be here myself so that it
will quell any conversation when they
see it's my
sock that's a my son and that's what it
means to emulate our gedaliah my
responsibility is to realize to let
people know that we care that we're
there for them to reach out and to find
these people Rob voice I want to tell
you about that I heard this past summer
from one of my Rob am the gebo dying of
montreal i see some montreal is here
they could surely tell him it's a shot
that a shame has allowed me to say in
many cities and different countries I
found out I realize now what it is about
this shocked that grabs people around
the jugular and why it's a life-changing
shop the topic is what's my
responsibility here it is you can go
home and take a look at the first ball
out to room in partial vas con on my
char Bane who wants to go into her to
Charlie Dobbins 515 three lights we know
he wasn't answered for different reasons
but he attempted homage 515 three lights
and then that ball at orem says this is
what my show Boehner said in thought
he's act esea sorrow I gave strength to
a fellow Jew oye Rahim a lie perhaps
Hashem will have rock honest and allow
me to go in terraces row that's the end
of the ballot orem the gebo dyin in his
inimitable style says let me tell you
what the ballot or means my Shura
Boehner says to the Reeb initial item I
want to go in and have my Felix answered
he's act the SEL who are you knock him a
lie I strengthen the fellow jew so in
that merit can I go in rebel I said I
don't know about I would assume all of
us if any one of us had answer the
following question that i would call on
you spot on in what merit could my share
of a new say i want to go in territory
stroll the resume would look something
like this my Cherie Bane who could say
or we could say he was the macabre
hapara he got the tire on her scene I
Mount Sinai he was the nice ain't
hatorah he gave the tyra to the Jews
there was no profit no nothing in the
world like my sure my Shura Bane who
spoke to Hashem by the snare face to
face
charmaine was closer than anyone and the
list goes on and on my Shura Bane who
doesn't say any of that he turns for the
revenge lohman says he's octi sul i
strengthen the fellow you'd all i eard I
came all I maybe might feel ice will be
answered because my sure ave no
understood says the G ba dyan of course
we can't even comprehend all of the
other things I mentioned the macabre
Latoya the nice st. hot toy were
receiving it on Mount Sinai giving over
the Tyra speaking to Hashem having a
revelation at the burning bush being the
greatest prophet ever but at the end of
the day the ticket the ticket in capital
neon letters please act ESS row I was
there for a fellow Yid that's it Oh hiya
doc a mall I says my Shara Bey know in
the merit that I was there for a fellow
Jew hola akumal I the list could go on
and on but at the end of the day that
end all be all please act esea sorrow
and so I can't tell project inspire what
to put on their stationary or to make a
logo or their mantra or their subtitles
or even but one thing I know when I
speak about project inspire under that I
have this title exactly su sorrow being
there for everyone and after mentioning
this talk this vort many times I asked
myself what is it about it that people
so relate to what is it that people find
so life-changing about this vard and i
realize what it was i gave this over in
our shul shabbos shoot i realize what it
is it's a vort that everyone can
accomplish and everyone needs and let me
tell you what i mean by that sometimes
you'll hear something that applies to
ten percent of the people eighty percent
of the people 9416 percent let me tell
you something everyone can be mahaa sake
another person I don't mean most people
I mean
everybody in different ways whether its
financial psychological emotional mental
everyone has the ability and the
beautiful part is everybody needs physic
i was speaking yesterday the rebuke of
solomon and others about this concept
don't let somebody tell you now i don't
need any physical everybody needs physic
and everyone can provide it I think
that's why people who have heard this
vard have been so taken by it in fact I
don't mean to get off topic tangentially
just for 30 seconds I landed in eretz
yisroel for my father's yard site on the
day of the h'harn off massacre level of
iras were taking place unbeknownst to me
my schedules actually changed and I had
to end up speaking in many seminaries
and you Shiva's over the next few days
it was just something that's we can talk
about a different time and I xem made me
realize say this vaart and people felt
at that time it's a life-changing Vaart
everyone can give his up and everybody
needs it and that's project inspire
that's our responsibility that's what it
means to remove a chef and replace it
with our that's finding people inviting
them we're approaching now you don't
need me to give you ideas or suggestions
or approaching in a few weeks pour in
boo room is such a young chief of unity
every one of the myths voice shout unity
michelia homeowners maybe we could find
a neighbor a co-worker instead of
walking by them again bring them a mish
lo amo nice do something to reach out to
the people to fulfill the Yaqui renew do
something to fulfill exact the SS rel
follow the ways of ramaya follow the
ways of reps lay musalman everyone can
do it and everybody needs it there was a
year in boro park who after the war he
lost everything and he would walk around
the streets very dejected he needed he's
at the SES role and every day there
would be a year who when he was in vara
mark stop to be mikasa Kim now who was
this year who have so much time for this
other dejected depressed person who lost
everything in the war who wasn't it was
a barren Cutler Reverend did not live in
lakewood the yeshivah was in lakeland
ribera was there on shabbos weekdays or
a baron was in his apartment than
borough park and whenever he saw this
yet he would stop the year to be mikasa
Kim reborn he's octi su sorrow one day
Reverend says to the year there's
recession will remarry you'll have a
daughter and bezar Sasha I'll dance at
her hisana and the man was taken aback
it was the last thing that he had on his
mind it wasn't something that he even
had anticipated but sure enough lycra
Baron said he remarried and he had a
daughter and she became the apple of his
eye when this girl is about 10 the
goggle had or the prince of the tire
world her barrenness niftar and she's
thinking and he's thinking but he said
he would dance at the casana about 10
years later this girl is now a kala it's
our casa na and in the middle of the
first dancer Baron's son of schneur
Cutler walks in and if schneur starts
dancing with the father of the collar
Leba dick when the first dance ends the
father says to rip genera Baron's son
I'm so happy you came what are you doing
here he wasn't invited per se they
didn't want to bother of snare and rips
mayor said years ago before my father
was niftar he called me in and he told
me these words there's a hidden borough
park that has a daughter that I said
vishesh mi with dance at her casa na but
that's not going to happen take down his
name and follow when she becomes a
caller go to the fastener and dance in
my place now you get it now do we
understand he's octi su throw ask
anybody what reb aron was doing and
telling them schneur
the thousands of things for the
continuity of Claudius row but first and
foremost on that list was he's at the
sul there's a year in boro park when you
hear the girl becomes a kala dance at
orchestra in my place it's Rivera
initially musalman etre moisture and
it's our responsibility to find people
to bring them closer via caetano my
father heard of Mordecai Shapiro's out
saw I know many of you know him and we
certainly were able to speak about that
over shabbos my father said so
beautifully did you ever wonder why the
hebrew for the word to be alive is
neshama and the hebrew for the word to
be void desolate is neshama you can look
in the Huff Clara for partials Paro my
father says what the same four letters
Nanshan mem hey one means neshama and
one means neshama one is the ultimate of
life and one is the antithesis same
letters same virtually the same nacoo
dice one is neshama and one is neshama I
don't get it if you look you may
appreciate it a bit more my father said
no there's a subtle difference between a
Sharma and ishyama under the shin of
neshama to be void and empty is a PHA
tok apothic looks like this it's a line
across under the shin of neshama is a
comet's and a comet is when you add a
little support the difference between a
kamata Napata the difference between
neshama and neshama is add a little
support as people who have no support as
people who are alone they're miserable
they don't know from shabbos they don't
know from young if they're never invited
we passed them by their life
neshama but if we add a little support
that word now becomes neshama all it
takes is a little support find the
people they'll feel the love and
sincerity as de Russia Shiva shlita
rebellion he said so eloquently last
night and that was a moment of a random
Tony me call how the show you nice let
them see where the real deal feel the
warmth of love exuded they will sense it
it takes a little support let me ask you
project inspires since they began has
probably created thousands tens of
thousands of anna shamma but what about
us let the thousand of us leave and
create neshama give people a little bit
of support I know there's a mysa that
many people certainly know about a boy a
few years ago in arrow to stroll when
the boy was about 13 he told his teacher
I need a tutor and so the school gets
him a tutor and after a little while the
the tutor says you're like really smart
you don't need a tutor no no I do i do
and i know many people know the story no
you do need a tutor and all of a sudden
a few more sessions go by you're smart
like what why do you have a tutor when
you clearly don't need one at this point
the boy says I don't need a tutor but
let me tell you why I want you to
continue until now there was only one
boy in my class who was called out he
was singled out and whenever he was the
only one who left he felt a little bit
inferior just felt like he was being
singled out so I created an excuse that
I need a tutor this way when I'm called
out together with him it's more natural
he feels like he's part of a small group
so keep calling me out to be tutored so
that he feels like he's not singled out
and the world learned about this boy
this past June because I'm sure you know
when the three is Shiva buckland were
kidnapped and murdered one of the three
was gilad Shire and the boy in the story
was Gil
he's out the SS rail neshama via caetano
who can't do it we have exactly four and
a half minutes together left that's to
the exact time I was given and I want to
keep to it it's four and a half minutes
on the watch i borrowed from yossi
friedman and I asked him ten times you
sure you want me to speak that length of
time he said yes and I just wasted about
a half a minute so I'm going to end with
one var Torah and one story open your
hearts to both hashmi nes coil if he
call a array I'm going to listen to your
voice because your voice is very sweet
it's found in sheer Hoshi rim says
they're a dumpster dead but don't
translate the word arrived to mean sweet
translated from the words coleus rollout
athens Eva's there which means
responsible for one year to another says
the robina shillelagh I'm hashmi Amyas
Crale a you want me to listen to your
tree lights we need our treeless
answered now more than ever with what's
going on around the world the rebuy
nationalism says key Kylie arrived then
have a voice of our Avis one year caring
about another that's the ticket and then
the radomski says so now who taught us
that better than yahoo vivino Yakko had
twelve sons about which it says there
was Sinha and kenna hatred and jealousy
we have to understand it according to
the level of the shot him and what
happened at the end of the day yaha
Shifta Israel they all became one so no
one taught us getting along better than
Yaakov aveeno now how about helping me
out here what's the name of the fila
that Avram established chakras what's
the name of the Tila that you suck
established mincha and what's the name
of the treeless says they're a dumpster
that Yaakov established and don't answer
my riff our this says dura thumbs kid
ever you have to die
arvest co yester hola ravens epithet
might I add I can't say who logically
for halacha speak to the Diane shlita
but might I add that the Gomorrah says
perhaps my rib is not obligatory iturra
shush I'd like to add but arvest is a
favor that's obligatory who has a right
to go to bed at night and say I didn't
dive in our vez and the rebuy nishal em
says to us hush mean es Kyle if you want
me to listen to your voice he call a
horrid then Dhavan arvest every morning
and every night inspire yourself or
project inspire and say did I dive in
arvest that i connected i give out the
books did I invite did I do it every
night make sure you don't go to bed
without saying yes I dive in darvis
let's end with amaya that I was not
actually planning on saying because a
few years ago and I had the privilege to
be on the project inspired video I
believe is the one called the long road
home was am I saying the title correctly
the road home I thought it was a long
road home but it was the road home I
said it then but yet a number of staff
members from Project inspire came over
to me over shabbos and said you're not
gonna say it I said I already used it a
few years ago number one it was five
years ago number two a lot of people
they said don't remember I don't know
that I wanted to hear that but that's
what they said number three the ones who
do let him hear it again and so let's
conclude with what you heard on that
video about four years ago and with that
I wish everyone well about five years
ago i'm sitting in a restaurant to milk
like a restaurant in north miami beach
it doesn't exist anymore it was my
daughter just finished midterms in bass
Iago so we wanted to give her like an
hour to two just quality time my wife
myself I daughter she finished the
midterms we go for a little bit of lunch
our attention is drawn approximately
where the Diane is sitting maybe at this
distance there's a table of four women
for recently
for young women for married women the
next part of the story I'm extremely
embarrassed about but it actually
happened the four women our attention
was drawn to them they were yelling they
were yelling and what were they yelling
about I turned to see they're yelling at
the waiter number one you call this we
ordered a dish with cheese this is
there's no cheese on this dish and then
the I via voice had some of the worst
when the country we come from which I
don't want to say the name of the
country I don't want to be russian
in a whole country they said where we
come from our drinks are hot and cold
not hot or cold they were literally
lambasted the waiter I'm embarrassed
because I should have gotten up that I
should have walked over to the four of
them and said ladies I'm a rubbing the
kehillah get out of the restaurant you
don't speak to anybody that way so get
out but I didn't I was so frozen by that
behavior he takes it silently the waiter
does my wife turns to me and my wife
says a fri am you always quote the vort
from a prime Konietzky that if a person
is humiliated but they respond with
silence they have the power to give
Abraha he was silent and he was raked
over the coals ask him for a Bravo now
you should always listen to your wife
and especially when it's being videoed
and so I called him over I said what's
your name he tells me his name is show
aam I said show um as you may remember I
said in the video three words Tenley
bracha give me a blessing he knows I'm a
rabbi in the community he jumps back he
says what are you making a joke out of
me I'm a waiter you're a Rove he want me
to give you a blessing I said listen you
responded with silence I'm serious I
told him over a prime Konietzky says I
want to Brock her now he gives us a
bracha and the three of us answer
resounding on main and he leaves five
minutes later Sean comes back and you're
able to see that he was crying and I
said to him show him are you okay and he
says he says Rob I want to speak to you
he was 23 at the time he starts spilling
out his life story when he was
he grew up his whole life in every to
stroll he was religious at the age of
seven he started to be uninterested
disinterested and at seven he left into
this and at nine and a ten and he gives
me his whole life story and then at 16
he moved to Florida a few years earlier
he mattered a Jewish woman he married a
Jewish woman from Argentina but now he's
23 he has been off for 16 years and he
says to my wife and myself but rabbi now
I'm ready to be hoes Arabic Allah I said
what he said yes because if you believed
in me and called me over that I have the
power for a bracha I want to be Kosair
ova and that point I went ahead
and I found the name of one of the yoga
light in our kylo i went ahead and i set
them up to to learn you could watch the
video yourself better yet watch it
because then you'll see show on say the
story he says it a lot better than me
and then show on tells you he went on
i'm telling you he became with his wife
was eres petrova they became fabulous
fabulous people they started to keep all
the whole office they learned many times
a week they moved to north miami beach i
got a phone call a year ago rabbi
shapiro's it show um i had a baby boy ya
Yin Gila tomorrow's the bris can you
come show i'm turned his life around
because i had the privilege to listen to
my wife because he's at the SES royal
the people are there reach out to them
find them i got a phone call from a lady
to conclude and she says to me I want to
thank you so much i said for what she
said to me because i saw your video and
a little while ago our daughter was
having a very very hard time and should
look him and she told me why at that
point there was air of yom kippur she
heard that another lady was embarrassed
in carpool line in front of a hundred
people the lady didn't answer back so
she found out she tells me she found out
the name of the lady that didn't answer
back i just saw your project inspired
video i heard the whole show I'm story I
called the lady and I said I heard that
you were embarrassed and that you didn't
answer back my daughters having a very
hard time and should look him she told
me the reason why she asked me not to
publicize it and then she said but I saw
the video rabbi Shapiro said you have a
parody give abraha
you were embarrassed give me a bra the
lady sobbing everybody's crying it's
every year areum kipper she gives her a
brothel she'll do a up quickly and
beautifully the lady tells me Arif sukis
the phone rang a fabulous was red
from the Brock of the lady that remained
silent our children started the
worked out the child started our
daughter started to go out with the boy
that she was read to and the reason I
called he was because last night they
got engaged and I called you indirectly
to be thank you for being the shotgun
maybe project the truth is project
inspire was the shot then rabbi sigh the
challenges we know show on part one we
know show on part two leave here and
create show on part three find then
bring them closer via quirino we'll see
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