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Rabbi Eliezer Krohn: A Woman’s Guide to Practical Halachah
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evening everyone welcome to tonight's
very
very special event uh my name is rob
yeah but vancouver from the kazakh
organization such a great honor
to moderate tonight's very special
program a very unique program
where we're going to be greatly honored
to have a great interview with
rabbi eliasa chrome first of all welcome
our viewers to come
thank you very much thank you for having
me once again it's a pleasure to be here
i'm very excited
thank you amazing so tonight we uh first
off uh it's uh being presented by fazak
chickens for shabbos and art school um
and uh tarani timeline
and uh rabbi krona i guess you could
start off i guess first
would uh uh would you be able to just
like just to discuss
just a personal connection to an amazing
organization of chickens for shabbos
yes so uh i i've had the great course of
speaking on behalf of chickens for
shabbos in the past
and chickens for shabbas those of you
who haven't heard
is an incredible organization like
like like no other in regards to
collecting
funds for specifically for rebellion
for people in general that they have
they have expenses that you know it
really
they should be the ones we've always
felt that they should be the ones that
get paid the most money because their
job is is really the most important but
as we know
unfortunately it's really not like that
and their their paychecks
don't necessarily cover the funds for
the great
um expenses that they have and they have
large families many many times
so chickens for shabbos focuses on the
malamdun
they focus on specifically almonos and
gruesos
widows and those that are divorced and
they don't
necessarily have the income that really
they desperately desperately need but
chickens for shabbos is unique that
they don't only collect actual funds but
a lot of times the children
of these malam then and especially the
children of the almanas and the grocers
they need tutors
and that costs extra besides the tuition
but that costs extra
and they don't have the funds for that
chickens for shabbos arranges
and funds many times so many many many
people robbie
was telling me that it's just uh amazing
what they do that they arrange
tutors and that could really change a
child's life
it sets them straight and they can do it
gives them confidence that they're
on par with the rest of of their class
and it's just uh
it's just incredible amazing everyone's
reminded
definitely support the great worker
chickens for shout outs they can
continue strong of their amazing work
there
they have a simple website where easy to
remember the organization called
chickens for showers their website is
called chickensforshaws.com
chickens for shops.com everyone should
definitely go to it's very um
amazing website and everyone should
definitely support it and um
tonight we're gathered here because
because because gabrielle's are cooking
with an amazing new save for
this amazing new book it's called a
woman's guide to practical halacha
um throughout the year and throughout
life and uh
we're gonna talk about different aspects
of this and of this amazing
endeavor and everyone should definitely
uh pick up your copy
um at artscript.com um you can actually
there's actually a special promo code
uh for i think for for tonight and
tomorrow i can get ten percent off and
also free shipping
use the promo code hazak free again ten
percent off
plus free shipping use a problem called
kazak free and um
and i guess the first question um is uh
it's just more of a general question
just about um about we know arts
they're one of the parties in tonight's
very special program and they're one of
the leaders
in putting out amazing jewish works
publishing
these amazing farm and as we know your
father of your facebook crunch
he he he has has everyone knows the
amazing mogad series
and chris mila uh uh safer and so many
other
amazing storm what did it mean to grow
up in the home of your father with all
with his legacy of of uh of all his
amazing books
so okay wow so you're starting from the
from the way beginning backtracking
way before my safer my my growing up in
my parents house my father and
and my mother it was it's it was
incredible
having having and present you know my
father
as as my father you know you you really
touched upon
because we're connecting you know to art
scroll over here but
my father was a phenomenal
dad a phenomenal father at home a great
great great mechanic
and way before he became very very
famous
with the market series and and
and you know the prismila safer was the
first safer that he put out for art
school but he became famous you know
through the maggot series
he he was a great father and he would
spend time with us
and he raised us he would learn with us
he would play basketball
with us um in those days i much more
appreciated when he played basketball
and baseball with me
than when he learned with me we it
depends who you know who got to decide
what we do if he got to the science then
we learned
together if i decided and we play
basketball together but
he he raised he always felt that
no matter even if you know he's writing
he's speaking
he's on the phone with so many different
people in regards to shalom bias
and and and and inspiration and
the family always came first the family
always came first
and i'll tell you an amazing story that
happened with me
that years ago uh it was about maybe 10
10 years ago 10 12 years ago
i called my father i had to speak to him
about something and i always called his
cell phone
because he's always around traveling
doing doing grissom
and checking babies and and and speaking
so i don't know if he's home or if he's
not home so i always called the cell
phone
so one time i called his cell phone just
to speak to him about something it
wasn't
wasn't so important but i just needed to
talk to him about something
and i and ends up he was home he was
home and while i'm talking to him
i hear the the home phone ring in the
background
and my father said oh hold on one second
he picks up the phone and he comes back
on
on the phone like 20 seconds later i
said oh who was that
he said i was summoned for maritime i
told them i told them i'll speak to them
later
i said you know i'll call you back later
i'll you know we could talk later it's
not so important he said no no it's fine
i'll speak to him later i'm talking to
you now
a couple minutes later the phone rings
again he says oh hold on one second you
know my father is very busy
and he and 20 seconds later he's back on
the phone i said
who is that he said oh that was someone
from south africa but i told him i'll
speak to him later
i said todd you know really you could
you could talk to them you know
we could talk later it's not so
important so my father said something
that i'll never
forget my father said i'm talking to you
so to now to me you're the most
important person
those other people could wait and and he
said now i'm talking to you
and you know everybody knows my father
as that he's so
so involved in the clown which is true
but
family family was always first and yes
it is true that a lot of times we
you know the family sacrificed um not
having them for shabbos because my
father's speaking in this hotel and he's
going here and he's going there
and he wasn't home and we're not but
that's that's part of our sacrifice for
chloe saw we were raised
at yes family is first but we sacrificed
four claw you saw
you know a lot of times i get phone
calls i answer shyless
hashem i have this close you know to to
try to help people in halacha on the
phone
and yeah sometimes it does interfere
with
you know with family time i try not i
try to put you know family first
but sometimes the phone calls take
longer than expected but that's the way
we were raised that
we we you know on behalf of clyoswell to
help for the cloud
that's something that was just ingrained
in us
both by my father and and my mother as
well
wow beautiful always about about how you
are
whatever's present that that's the
current conduction even though you're
saying the calls from eric cistrell
or whatever it is whatever is the
president that that's what's the most
important thing beautiful
the first responsibility is to your
children that that's that's for certain
and uh
you know it's a great lesson for myself
and all my siblings and for everybody
that the
running around and tested organizations
it's all great but that's it starts at
home right that's what they say so tessa
starts at home that
that's for certain yeah beautiful and
and
and touching up upon you you're
mentioning about
about um about about your father's and
and
and your mother's amazing work for for
the cloud so so what
what gave you the push to to to to put
out
this uh this this amazing uh work that
everyone everyone should get that will
uh they should publish it like like what
was it just like it was just like it was
just a dream and then okay i gotta do it
now like
what happened i i never and i didn't
dream of the safer at first
i've had this list for for 10 years now
teaching girls
and teaching married women and i teach
and i found right away that
women girls are thirsty for
practical clear halacha you know
the men they they appreciate that also
but they like the sugiya
they like to know you know the
background and how how do we
how how do we get to to the to the final
and sometimes you know you you learn so
much
of the gemara and the resha name and and
then
it falls by the wayside okay so what
what do you do what
practically what do you do what do you
do if this happens what do you do if
that happens
when women many times they're more
practical oriented and they they don't
necessarily have to hear
all the background they need they want
to know what to do
is is this allowed is this not allowed
and
i always say that so much of my
preparation
when i give my classes is is what not to
say
what not to say because anyone could
really just open up a mishnabura
and just start reading and just teach
out of the mishnabura but there's a lot
of cases in the mishibura
that are not so common doesn't come up
very often
and it's just gonna confuse people and
it's just it's too much it's too much so
when i was teaching aloha i i saw how
the girls and the women they were
thirsty for them and
i was inspired to you know put it down
on paper
short concise practical local every
topic
in my safer which well you know we'll
talk about more i'm sure
every topic could have could be a safer
by itself
in that topic but so much of it is not
so common
it's not so relevant and it's this is
you know the clear
bottom line a lot of times there's a
much locus but this
but clear bottom line just to guide um a
woman
in the in the practical law of daily
daily life
amazing and and and and and now that's
to transition forward
that now actually get into the same fur
so so
it's it's about as as it says on on the
cover of the safe right about
about it that's that that's not how that
it's it's not just like hawaii for like
one time
of the year but it's really throughout
the journey throughout the entire year
so
so um so is there um some alakaz that
that may be um that uh differentiate
this uh this book from maybe
others or what would you say is the
overall flow of the book itself
what would you say um so that's a good
question
so i'll answer that with just a little
bit of a of a background
when i spoke to up to diaz larowicz in
regards to
you know the idea of publishing this
safer i really had in mind
um to have a safer of a halacha a day
of like a short paragraph or two that
women could learn
day after day and i would have 365
different passages
and ragday told me that that's not a
good idea and he's the expert he says
it's not going to sell
it's a it's it's it's not um
you know two halachos a day but but
other than that it's not going to be
successful
it has to be a halacha safer that is
written
in chapter form and going by by topics
another thing um
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told me was that you need to have a rav
look it over
he says nobody knows you just yet mr
sham in the future but nobody
knows you yet you can't just come out
with a safer in
you have to have a ex a distinguished
love who's well known who's able to you
know to look it over
and give his stamp of approval on it and
he said and we thought of
my father actually thought of this idea
of rabbi obam
isaac obama from from queens from hugon
hills that i'm sure you are uh
familiar with um and robert obama guided
me
which topics to do and which topics to
cover
and which topics not to cover and rebel
obama said that
there are some topics that are just like
a topic by itself
so yeah by itself he says you shouldn't
do the llama test malachos
you shouldn't do um cashews in the
kitchen
you shouldn't do you know the brachos
the the beer
about you know shahakal and hamati and
those types of things
that it needs to be the halacha that
comes up
day by day without being a specific
topic so what we worked on and what i
decided and he agreed
was the halal when you wake up in the
morning
for a woman a very very important
we have a whole section of all the yemen
tavern
when it comes to women um
we still for the yamanta we have rosh
hashanah and yum kippur and sukkah
specifically
you think or shabbos you know that it's
all about the llama test
there's so much of the positive habakkuk
i i i i get bored hashem i get hello
questions on how fresh is hollow all the
time
how much dough um what happens if i'm
only doing
half of the the the the batter now and
half later and and and and
let's say um let's say i i how do i burn
the challah do i i'm splitting it up
amongst different families
and kiddish
there's so many different offers in
regards to shabbos and
and and then i have like a separate
section on just all
various alohas but that are real so
relevant
day to day when it comes to ribbus you
know women borrow things amongst
neighbors all the time they borrow
um you know a loaf of bread they borrow
a cup of sugar and then they return a
bigger bag
of sugar and you know women go to the
store they send on the whatsapp chat
um anybody need anything in the store oh
please get me this
so you lay out twenty dollars how much
does it really look at the receipt
really it was 19.72 cents so you come
back to your neighbor
you give back the oh it was 19 and 72
cents okay here's 20
do you have 28 cents change no i don't
know oh don't worry about it just keep
the extra 28 cents it's not a problem
wait a second is that that could be
ribose that could be that could be
interest
so that's a very very practical question
so i'm not going to tell you what the
answer is you have to you have to you
have to get to say i don't want to tell
everybody you have to get the safer to
see what the answer is
women are in charge you know we have
leftovers from shabbos
so i don't know about your family but in
my family my kids complain
when we have leftovers on sunday night i
complained growing up when we had
leftovers sunday night
after sunday night leftovers so there's
still leftovers
so am i allowed to throw it out it's
totally edible
am i allowed to throw it out is that
baltachus is that a pro
so or do i have to like keep it in my
refrigerator until
until it gets moldy and spoils that's a
very very relevant question for women
it's relevant for men also but women are
in charge of the kitchen
we have a whole section on keyboard aim
all section of sheamus
magazines right we have the mishpacha
magazine and the ami magazine and the
bina magazine and the yated and the
hamudiya
what's done with those though there's
torah in it right this div ray torah
in it on the parsha is that allowed to
be thrown in the garbage is that allowed
to be
is that allowed to be brought in the
bathroom what is that allowed to be kept
on the floor
someone might step on it so these are
all relevant questions that are just
around the house they i didn't tell you
the answer to any of these questions
but the old so many things that as
i learned them myself i was just
fascinated that how much there is
that's so just so so relevant
beautiful we're definitely in this oh my
god
i'm like hey my head is i think we just
went around the world in like 80 days
or i'm actually 365 days but 365 days
that's right but uh yeah
somebody was such a vast array of topics
and
and would you say that that that uh
would you recommend that maybe there
would there would be a
a little ls constructed thing that may
be uh
couples we should just convert it to
together i know it's geared for women
but when you're saying that
they're saying that some of us they're
there or more general meaning
whether if i have a sandwich supplies
the same thing to me
right so that's a very good question
it's a very good question and
i had more than one discussion with rob
goddard lotto it's about this question
because when we were discussing which
topics to put in so
let's say something like the topic of
keeper of aim or like you said
the topic of baltachnas the topic of
sheamus that's not
only for women um i have a chapter on
the logos of myself what are you
allowed to use money for chinese
auctions for myself or not so a lot of
the halachos are
very very relevant for men and yes
definitely husbands and wives can learn
it together
you could learn it at the shabbos table
just read one or two paragraphs every
shabbos
or every by every dinner table every
supper table so it's definitely things
that are relevant for men as well
and that was a discussion you know what
should we put in
should we only put in things that are
specifically geared for women
so i i went out over abdalia
on a few occasions like let's say the
halachus of maison
i i get so many questions about the
halachus of myself from women
but it's relevant for men also but i'm i
told you guidalia i said
trust me this is these are the questions
i get these are what girls want to know
especially single girls when you know
they they go they have babysitting do i
have to give 10 percent
to tsudako so so the questions that
i i get most common those are the
questions those are the topics i put in
even though it's really relevant to men
after i finished everything
daisodawa said um you have to have a
chapter on avelus
but not a whole save for unavailable
it's just one chapter the basic kalajos
in the kitchen laundry things that are
specifically um you know related to
women but the answer is yes that
definitely
men can gain from it and you'll notice
that there's footnotes on the bottom
but there's small footnotes not long
footnotes like we have in others farm
that are phenomenal
but those footnotes even if they're in
english
they're really meant for men they're
really meant for men because it's just
too
long it's it's too much these footnotes
are
short just a few words
just where did i get it from this way if
anybody has a doubt
hey where did robert cronin get that
from so this way
their husband or their brother or their
son or their father
can look up the sources i don't really
expect women to go
searching in the mishna brewer or in the
pesky chuvas you know
in these types of farm that's not
generally what what they do but
if somebody where did he get this from
so there's the source at least i have
the source and then
anybody who wants to go look it up can
look it up and in the preface i put my
email address
if anybody has any questions or comments
they can email me you know if they have
uh
and if they want to know their sources
for something but but it's mainly geared
towards women
but certainly certainly there's a lot
that men that men could gain from
beautiful and um and as you're
discussing about about
so what would you say that that that
that that there's
less of a of a focus or i guess i'll say
in the positive is there more of a focus
let's say um like like what would you
say your approach is like
i know you talk about you you you
talking about um the jewish laws that
allah throughout the year
what what was your approach let's say
like like
in the the suggest of the of the topics
like
are you just going like okay like like
like straight away okay fine like
oh when you when you have uh which feel
okay fine you
have to do this you can't do that
whatever is or is it just
or are you giving some background are
you going with the concern
in the background what's the it's it's a
very good question
i i really i purposely in the safer
i did not get into the background i
usually did not get into the background
maybe in one or two occasions when it
really made a difference
when i give class um in the schools
where i teach and to the married women
there i do get into the background
because that's part of giving a class
especially when it's in a school
as a rebbe i don't just jump in i don't
just jump in right away to the practical
but in the safe air yes in the safer it
is
just the practical straightforward we
mentioned about um
you know we have the cash ring the
kitchen for before pesach
so there's a lot of background hagala
libun
but i just it's just practical tavi last
caleb right
title and caitlyn when a person buys a
new utensil from
a non-jew a non-jewish store so it has
to go to the calendar
so there's a lot of background when it
comes to that but
the chapter in my savior is just
straightforward what needs to have
tavila
what doesn't what needs a barakah
you know taking off the stickers and
it's really i focused
just on on the practical with you know
with
with the footnotes um um you know
if anybody wants to look whatever wants
to look into into the background
you know i've said many times because
you know the safer took
so much work if i would have known in
advance
how many hours this it would take me
and how much time i spent on on the
safer
i never would have written the safer i
never would have written to say for
there's no way i would have written this
if i would have known how many hours of
my time
it would take up but then i always add
that
and therefore i'm happy that i did not
know how many hours it was going to take
because i never would have done it but
of course now that i did it i'm so
so so happy i'm running on adrenaline
today i went to art school you know to
pick up a few boxes
and i made a shakianu um and my father
was on the phone and he said amane and
one of the sponsors
of the safer was was on my phone and and
somebody else and we had two phones
there
and they said amane to the to the
shahianu and i have a chapter
on the halals of saying amane are you
allowed to say a main over the telephone
so i mean now i told you the answer that
we've asked and the answer is yes
but um but that's also so you know such
relevant alohas
but i and it took so much of my time you
know not just with rabbi obam but there
was another of robert leschwitz who went
through it i was on the phone with him
for so
many hours going through things
fine-tuning
and every time any time we had a
disagreement that we couldn't
decide between each other so then we
went to rabbi obama to decide
who's right sometimes i was right
sometimes he was right
and and that fine-tuned it and then art
scroll sent
four women at four different times mrs
eisner mrs dick
mrs finkelman and mrs stern that went
through the safer from a woman's
perspective editing and a woman's
perspective and sometimes they said
well you can't write this i never heard
of this i said
just because you never heard of doesn't
mean that it's not correct i said this
is the
and and but they really all four of them
did such a phenomenal
job taking out what's not supposed to be
there
adding things with my permission of
course what really should be there
making it clear making it crystal
crystal clear
beautiful and before we get to the to
the last question for tonight you were
mentioning about about rav obama
as you're mentioning we definitely have
a personal connection i'm saying kazakh
we have that he's the urbanites you know
for so many years um and and um so
you're mentioning a little bit about
them i guess if you could just delve
into you were just mentioning what was
the other rabbi's name
that you were going through so you're
saying that
the process the process was that you and
robert lester's that you would like
you would like uh come together and then
is that is that how it went and then and
then you went through album and say
is this is this uh presentable so first
so first robin obama went through it
artichoke wanted him to go through a
second time and when they asked him to
go through it a third time
they eventually they he said listen i
went through it twice already it's great
you know
but so first of all obama went went
through it twice
then they had robbie lesquez go through
it and there was a little bit of a
different job rabbi leschwitz
was like really like tearing it apart
and looking up all the sources
um that was necessary and he came back
to me and he said okay we have to talk
on the phone i was on the phone with
rubble squids for
many many many many hours and there were
things that he was right
i admitted right away a mistake that i
made and something that i missed or
something that he added
and he was phenomenal i have such a
curious attitude
to him and there were times where he
said wait
this is wrong and i defended myself and
i explained no no no this is
so sometimes he agreed to me sometimes i
agreed to him
sometimes he just clarified you know the
way to write things
and yes there were times where we had a
stalemate where i said no
no i'm right this is the and he said no
no
you're wrong this is and we we agreed
that we're going to go to rabbi obama
you know we'll go to rabbi alba and see
what he says
and some of the time rabbi said no you
could leave it the way it is it's fine
you could leave it the way it is
and then sometimes robert said no you
should switch it you're right you know
this is you should hack a switch it
and and um and and
but that that's when that's art scroll
for you because
if i would have printed the safer by
myself then you know i just would have
had my own perspective on it
but halacha is not like that you need to
speak it over with other people and
there's nothing to be embarrassed about
one of my rebellion
who's a rebbie and landers in in kugan
hills or si soko
so yeah i was his talmud for two years
so not in and i went to landers once a
week and he was my rebbe
and he told me something great he said
as a rev and as a pasik he said
you have to discuss halacha with other
abundant he said it's just like a doctor
if you if a person goes to a doctor
doctors
always speak things over with other
doctors and other surgeons
maybe they have another idea maybe they
have a better idea they get advice from
them
that's that doesn't mean that they're a
bad doctor that means they're a good
doctor that
they're not embarrassed and you know
they're not too
hoody to talk it over with others he
says a rav
also has to do that you don't have to
know everything all by yourself
you have to go and and and art scroll
gave me
you know robert obam and robert
lescott's and they were phenomenal they
were
they were mama's phenomenal amazing and
i guess
i guess if um maybe he'll just uh to
to wrap us up for tonight would you be
able to just it may be uh
an idea maybe something that that we
didn't speak about or something that
that that uh either from the safer or
or maybe just from from hawakkas just
that that we should touch upon over here
uh i'll give you two two examples that
in my safer hashem anyone who buys it
you'll see it in the safer
that um that are are so important
because
that that a lot of people don't realize
number one
a woman again it's a chapter for te fila
for women so the the brahmos
of krishna what are the brachus of
krishma which means
after yeshtabach in the morning twila
does there's a r and avaraba
those brachos and the bracha after
krishna right barakata shamga
so women are not obligated to recite
those brachas they can and they're
encouraged to recite those brachas but
they're not obligated because it's only
at
a set time so if it's only at a set time
the mitsubisha says non-grammar so
they're not obligated to recite those
broncos
what happens and this happens very often
you have a girl
she's in high school it's a sunday
morning she sleeps late she doesn't have
school on sunday and she wakes up late
and she davens after samantha
after his mansfield which means after
four hours into the day
do you know that many poiskin
rabbusner absalom azam and erbach they
say
that after four hours into the day a
girl should not say
those brachas of krishna they should
skip it they should skip it now the
truth is the shochonara does say that
already
but the beer allah over there says that
that's all that
that's that if it was an anus if it was
a mistake you overslept
then you are allowed to so these places
are saying that that's only for men
and not for women so right there that's
like a little bit of background
that i leave out of this 80 frame
because that's already too confusing i
just said it very quickly because
you're a man so you know you could
follow and a woman could also follow but
it's too much for the safer
so i just practically i tell i write in
the savior that
many plays come home that they cannot
save those brahos they go from ishtaba
and they skip and they skip straight to
krishna and then after hashem
ms they go straight to shema esri that's
a mind-boggling
that a lot of people don't realize and
that's something that's food for thought
that a girl certainly needs to know a
lot of times a woman is busy with
her children and she's getting them off
to school she packs their lunches
she gets them dressed and then she has
to get dressed and then she has to run
to work
by the time she gets a chance to diamond
it could be after his mansfiela it's a
very very important aloha to know in
regards to
hohastrila besides everything in are
they obligated
are they obligated and halal
and all those types of that's just one
halacha that
i felt was such an eye-opener um in in
the in the
in the safer another halacha that i
spent
hours on just two lines in the safer
hours and hours and hours and anybody
who reads it maybe you'll appreciate it
now
what happens we know that when a person
wakes up in the morning
they have to wash neglect right they
wash nithilatya
right left right left right left to get
rid of the the
the spiritual impurity on their hands
so what happens if somebody wakes up in
the middle of the night
you know two two o'clock in the morning
and they use the bathroom
this happens to a lot of people all the
time it it it happens very often
two o'clock in the morning you go to the
bathroom and then you go back to sleep
when you wash your hands you have to say
ashiyatsan you have to say the
brachavasiats are two o'clock in the
morning
do you have to wash megelvasar before
you do that
now you have to wash your hands but can
you just open up the faucet and wash
your hands
do we say that listen it's in the middle
of the night you have to wash
nithilatyadayam with a cup on the right
left or do we say
no no no you don't have to do that until
the morning once you wake up in the
morning you're up for the day
then you have to wash the tilapia but in
the middle of the night you don't have
to just open up the faucet
like regular that's a great question and
that happens to people all the time
there are people there's some people
that just like sleep straight through
the night my kids do that they just
sleep three through the night
a lot of times people wake up in the
middle that is a halacha that
believe it or not is unclear the the
swarm right
that it's unclear what absalom is
opinion is
on the matter and i discussed this with
rabbi obama what exactly
to write in such a case these are
you know people don't necessarily think
of they just you go through the day and
there's so many things that we just do
by road and even if we one time learnt
these but but you know we we don't we
don't pay attention
to it um as often perhaps as we should
and so much of this safer i wrote in the
preface that this safer
is is not necessary not making it
that you never have to call a rabbi and
ask a question you're supposed to
continue to call your love call your
rabbi
and ask allah questions that we we
encourage
that whoever your rabbi is but but at
least to to get us thinking at least
at the very least against thinking of
these halachos of what am i supposed to
do what am i not supposed to do
can i can i do something different in
tough situations
this is this is how we lead this is how
we run our life we're always supposed to
be thinking of
and the way we think of a cut is boroku
and we're busy we're busy with work
we're busy with our family
we're busy sleeping we're busy eating
everybody's busy
but we have to find time for hashem in
our lives
for our in our busy lives as well and
the way we do that is
the way we do that is because governs
from the moment we wake up
until the moment we go to sleep and the
entire time
and uh that that that's what that that's
what draws me so much
so much to halacha that uh to be able to
think of a kurdish boroku all day long
because you want to make sure that you
follow the correct aloha
amazing it and and i'm just i just had
one quick question just just so just a
practical
question about the practical safeware um
would you say that that that um that
sometimes sometimes you just want to
open up the safe if you want to open up
uh
whether it's an inspirational book and
you just want you just want to sit there
for a whole shabbos and you just want to
go through the whole thing from cover to
cover
and sometimes sometimes you don't want
to do that so what would you say a
practical
once everyone gets this is there how
would practically
should they go through what would you
recommend
one sitting or should we do it like you
said in the beginning and we should just
do it
we should do one on one on luck i like
365 uh
i i i think that you know the gemara
navigator i think it's daffy tess
says that ain't on the loymond alabama
malcolm shall
that a person can learn what they're
interested in
they want to learn what they're excited
to learn if you're not in the mood of
learning
that particular topic then then don't
learn that topic learn something
else so there's some people that you
know they want to start from page one
that's what gives them that's what keeps
them focused from page one
there's some people that they can't they
don't want to do they're not interested
let page one you know from the beginning
it starts with
waking up in the morning i don't know
i'm interested right now when learning
the halal
tavila's caleb or of keeper aim or
ribbus
so whatever a person is interested in
that moment
and i think the beauty of the setup like
like like rav godai's lotto had said
is it could be done in either way you
could just
open up a chapter it's very organized in
each chapter separately
and you can just open up there's some
chapters that are only a few pages
and you can just open it up and read the
everything
that we have to say about that
particular topic but it could also be
done from the beginning
straight and it might be good to do both
it might be good to do both
um you know sometimes you start from
page one but then
you know you have a few minutes here and
there to just open it up and it's always
good to review
i always have to review i don't have a
great memory i don't remember everything
so i have to you have to review so you
can do both have a system we're starting
from page one
i think there's approximately 300 pages
so you start from day one
and but also at the shabbos table you
could just pick a topic you could ask
your kids around the table
okay what topic do you want to learn
about tonight i want to do
the locals of shabbos i want to do the
locals of brahos we have chapters on
the barack of
um and and other you know various
broncos but not the regular brexit
um and what whatever whatever they're
interested in
it's it's set up in a way that either
one they could just you know pop open to
any page at any time
amazing so everyone's reminded thank you
so much everybody else that comes for
years for your tremendous words and how
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thank you so much have a good night it's
a pleasure thank you