Take action from a PLACE OF PEACE.

so your book is incredibly powerful to say take a deep breath be in the moment everything's from God on the one hand on the other hand where's the space for other people's free will the metaphor that I once heard is if a person gets caught in quicksand and they're working on inner peace there are two ways to get out of quck sand one is to be in a frantic state where you are in complete resistance which if you try to do that you're more likely to drown and the other way is to say okay here I am this is happening not I don't resist the reality that in it this is scary what can I do about this and then you take action from peace not for peace when someone comes and they say something or do something against you that is from Hashem that is divine but what's Divine has nothing to do with your response now the Divine element is now what do you do about it meaning it's the opportunity to grow that's the part that's divine