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Okay, good morning, Boca welcome back to
Parsha Perspectives. For today, we have
the privilege of a double parsha, Tazria
Metzora. If you like learning one
parsha, you'll love learning two.
Parsha series is generously sponsored by
our dear friends Becky and Avi Katzin
family in memory of Becky's father. Our
learning should be neshama of David
Menachem Monish David Grossman. This
morning's shiur is also sponsored by
Menucha Hershoren in loving memory of
her husband Marvin Hershoren, our dear
member whom we miss. Neshama should have
an aliya. By Shoshana Elliot Moskowitz
in honor of the special birthday of
Debbie Moskowitz. So, a very very happy
birthday to Mrs. Moskowitz.
That's okay. She doesn't have to be here
for it to be sponsored in her honor.
She's out somewhere celebrating her
birthday. Good for her.
And uh today is also the 40th birthday
of my sister-in-law Shani. She should
have a very happy birthday and her best
year yet to her as well. Okay, parsha
Tazria appears in the Artscroll Stone
Chumash on page 608. Vayedaber Hashem el
Moshe lemor, Hashem speaks to Moshe.
Daber el Bnei Yisrael lemor, Isha ki
sazria, veyalda zachar. If a woman
conceives and she gives birth to a baby
boy,
the tamas shivas yamim kiminei nidda
vosasa titma, she shall be contaminated.
She has the status of impurity of tumah
for seven-day period as she would do
during her regular menstruation. The
Gemara Niddah tells us, melamdim osam
kol torah kulah. We're talking now a
woman conceives, she gives birth seven
days, on the eighth day is the bris.
Biyom hashmini yimol basar orlaso. The
eighth day is the bris. We've spoken
about this parsha many times. Why the
number seven? Why is the bris on the
eighth day? Why is our covenant with
Hashem davka in that place, in that way,
at that time? The days of tumah that
ensue, 33 uh for a boy or the uh 66 for
a girl, days of taharah, of purity that
follow and so on. So, the Gemara tells
us, melamdim osam kol torah kulah, that
when this baby is in the womb, this
woman conceives the baby boy, what is
the boy doing nine months of gestation,
nine months of pregnancy?
The baby is learning Torah with the
malach. The
And once it's time to be born, the
malach comes and gives a little pat, a
little smack on the lip, the indent on
the upper lip, and
and causes the Torah the baby to forget
all of the Torah that he has learned.
And the
Shmuel Bar wonders,
If the baby's only destined to forget,
what is the point of spending nine
months studying, learning,
only to be caused to forget?
What's the point?
Who come
after? When a baby is in a mother's
womb, he's in his own world. He or she
is in their own existence.
Hashem, the almighty creator of the
world, in such a way that the only way
we can exist, the only way we can have
balance or equilibrium, the only way we
can survive or thrive in our world,
whatever it may be, is through Torah.
That is the the energy, the driver, what
balances the world is Torah. The
principles, the values of Torah, are the
blueprint for the world of Torah.
And
in fact, he explained why the world
revolves, why the world, the sun,
surrounds the earth.
You know, there are different times of
the day.
In some places, it's night, while in
other places, it's day.
It'd be much more convenient to be all
in the same time zone. If you have
children who live in another time zone,
you know the inconvenience of trying to
schedule, of trying to connect, of
trying to coordinate. It'd be much more
convenient to all live in the same time
zone. Why do we have different time
zones? Why is it some places day and
some places night? The Rambam blessed
them and said, "K'dei she'ha kol ha'olam
yishushu ha'olam Torah." So, that's
every what time, no matter what time,
24/7, there'll always be somewhere and
someone somewhere learning Torah.
Because she have shalom skaima l'fi
l'egah achas l'Torah. Because if there
would be no one on Earth learning Torah,
the world would cease to exist. The
world exists in the merit,
metaphysically, of Torah, or it exists
the just like physics, just like science
tells us the necessary conditions for
the existence of the world, the right
distance from the sun, and so on and so
forth. You need Torah, that's one of the
necessary ingredients for the existence.
Um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um,
um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um, um,
um, womb. Rav Soloveitchik gave a
different answer. Soloveitchik
suggested, "Why does the baby learn
Torah in the womb if only the baby's
going to of course to forget anyway?
What's the point? What's the purpose?
Isn't it wasted time, wasted energy of
the malach?" Said Rav Soloveitchik.
Because by learning Torah throughout
those nine months, later when we're born
and living life, when we learn Torah,
it's familiar to us. It's not brand new.
It's not yesh me ayin, something from
nothing. It's not that I'm learning
something I never saw or heard before.
We are revisiting something that's
familiar, something that's inside. This
is the notion of the pintala Yid.
There's a spark, there's a holy soul
inside each and every one of us. And
often you see it. You see Jews who are
drawn to their Judaism, Jews who are
connected to our idea, Jews who intuit
something inside them. Why? It's
familiar. I heard this. I saw this. I
know this. I feel connected to this. I'm
drawn to this. Why? Because we've been
there before. Inside us, we've learned
it with that malach in the womb, the
other night Rabbi Leo Dee spoke
and he said that um
he once read a study or a book
that someone had done research online,
crowdsourced, of people who only
discovered later in life they were
Jewish.
It was hidden from them. It was
concealed from them. For whatever
reason, their family had strayed so far,
maybe following the Holocaust. People
who found out later in life they were
Jewish. And something astounding was
that 40%
of those who found out later in life
they were Jewish had already voluntarily
chosen to convert. Had already had their
own interest in a Judaism to the extent
that they converted before they found
out that in fact they were Jewish. In
other words, there's a pintel Yid,
there's a spark inside our soul. And
that's why where does it come from?
Where is it?
Why are there Jews who have a Jewish
soul? They have a Jewish
pintel Yid?
Because we learned Torah with the malach
in that womb, that's how we spent that
time. We therefore come back and we
revisit it. What's the smichos parshios?
When we see a juxtaposition or a
contrast of the subjects in the parsha
last week to this week or within one
parsha, nothing's random or chance, it's
always for a reason. Hashem is
communicating not only through the text,
but through the contrast and the
arrangement, the organization of the
text. So, what was the end of last
week's parsha?
The laws of
Was anyone paying attention?
The laws of kashrus. The laws of what
you're allowed to eat and not allowed to
eat. And what's the beginning of this
week's parsha? The laws of childbirth.
If a woman conceives, she gives birth,
she has her own impurity, she has to
return from the boy as a bris on the
eighth day, it's to precede Shabbos, and
so on. So, the Medrash Tanchuma tells
us, "Tino zeh, ach shelo yatzah me'imoh,
Kodesh Baruch Hu metzaveh alav omer,
"Mizeh tochlo umizeh lo tochlo. Mizeh
lachem tameh." This baby before he's
even emerged, before he's even born,
Hashem is telling him, this you could
eat, this is off limits, this is kosher,
this is not kosher.
And the baby in the womb agrees to only
keep kosher, agrees to the laws of
Torah, particularly in the laws of what
we're allowed to eat. Then that baby is
born. Look at
this as we are. And that's why last
week's parsha the laws of kashrus
contrasted to this week's parsha, the
laws of
the laws of conception, childbirth.
There are a lot of explanations offered
in this contrast. Some say last week we
had the laws of what you put in your
mouth. And this week tazria metzora
predominantly are about what laws?
The laws of metzora, tzaraas, spiritual
leprosy. And why does a person get that
malady, that illness?
Spiritual leprosy results from
gossip, slander, speaking negatively,
critically of others. So last week's
parsha were the laws that govern what
you put in your mouth. This week the
parsha governs the laws what comes out
of your mouth. We have many Jews who are
very strict and very vigilant and
correctly so and we encourage it and we
support it. Kashrus is very, very
important. Kashrus can spiritually
it can contaminate the soul. We're
vigilant, we're careful what we eat. Our
ORB hashgacha we're very proud. Our ORB
is mehadrin hashgacha. ORB is the
largest food service hashgacha.
You could say outside of Israel but
maybe even including in Israel in the
world. Hundreds and hundreds of
accounts, food service, not companies.
In Israel it's divided by different
cities are under their own kashrus. ORB
in Palm Beach, Broward and elsewhere is
even larger than that and we strive for
mehadrin standards. We're constantly
raising the standards, the quality, the
professionalism because kashrus is
important, it matters. We have to be
careful, we should be vigilant, we
should check. That's why I get texts all
the time. I'm at Trader Joe's. Here's a
picture I never saw this extra before.
Can I buy it? Can I buy it? People
should be careful where they go for a
Pesach program, what they buy at Trader
Joe's, how we operate our own kitchen.
It's important. It matters. But many
people are super careful about what goes
in their mouth and a lot less careful
about what comes out of their mouth.
Not nearly as scrupulous or vigilant or
strict or stringent with Am I allowed to
say that? Can I share that? Should I
repeat that?
When I was a kid, there was a guy in my
shul. He loved to say, "I don't repeat
lashon hara."
So, listen carefully the first time.
Okay, you can't say the first time you
shouldn't repeat it a second time.
Person has to be careful not only with
what comes in our mouth, but what goes
out of our mouth. But here the Maggid
Yosef or Yosef Seratkin shlita quotes
the Medrash Tanchuma with a different
contrast. Why do we have the laws of
kashrus just juxtaposed to the laws of
conception, pregnancy, and childbirth?
Because Hashem teaches this baby, this
fetus in the womb, "Here are the laws of
what you can eat and can't eat. Accept
it? You're going to follow it? Good.
Here we go. Isha k'ishah raya.
Wonders Rav Yosef Seratkin, wonders the
Maggid Yosef, "Why the laws of kashrus
in particular? Why specifically? Why not
say to the child, 'Here are the laws of
Shabbos. Here are the laws of shatnez.
Here are the laws of lashon hara. Here
are the laws of tzedaka. Here are the
laws of ribbis.' There's so many laws we
could have reviewed with the child and
made their birth, their conception
conditional on accepting it. Why
specifically machalos asuros? Why
specifically the laws of what's kosher
and not kosher, what you can eat and you
can't?"
After all, this child is not only
obligated in the narrow area of kashrus.
Child that will be born Jewish, boy or
girl, is obligated in all Torah, all of
Halacha. So, why specifically do we
enunciate Why specifically do we
articulate these mitzvahs or Halachas in
the womb and tell the child accept it?
Good to go.
So, the first answer the Maggid of
Mezritch gives is, because what is the
first impulse that a child that a human
being has? Among the greatest taivas,
among the greatest temptations that we
all struggle with, I shouldn't say we
all, that most of us struggle with is in
the area of
food, eating.
Arguably, this child, even before they
reach an age of maturity where they'll
notice the other great temptation,
the opposite gender and the drive
towards them, right?
But, much younger than that, that child
has a temptation for Give me candy. I
want more candy. I want to eat a lot of
candy. I don't want to eat what's
healthy. I want to eat what's not
healthy. I don't want to eat when you
serve dinner. I want to eat only after
bedtime, when it's time for put me to
bed.
Long before the child faces or confronts
navigating what is the other great
temptation of man, you could use man
generically or man specifically, but
earlier than that, every child, every
human being is navigating the world of
appetite, temptation, taste.
Hashem gifted us that not only do we
eat, he could have made us just eat
bread and water. That's what we need to
be nourished to live. He gave us taste
buds. What a bracha. Delicious food. He
said, "This is my world. Go enjoy it.
It's delicious food. Make sure it's
kosher.
You should make sure it's healthy. Make
sure you eat the right amount at the
right time in the right place with the
right people. Make a bracha before. Make
a bracha after. Wash if it's bread."
There's all kinds of rules and
regulations that help us elevate the act
of eating. He gave us taste buds. It's
delicious, but now we struggle. We
struggle.
Probably none of you can tell me that
you didn't struggle on Pesach. It's hard
to not overeat. We sit at Yom Tov meals,
delicious delicacies, dips, appetizers,
mains, sides, multiple desserts,
countless courses,
delicacies.
It's a absolute enormous challenge
today. This past Shabbat, we were back
to challah.
If you had blessed someone in your home
or you made it challah, oh, delicious
challah. What do we do now?
What do we do now? We're making it
harder and harder and more and more
challenging. We have a whole course
before we even begin the meal called the
dips course.
Now we bring out expensive, homemade,
incredible dips, incredible dips.
And you eat three loaves of challah with
tremendous dips and garlic confit, I
think that's what it's called. Is that
what it's called?
One of my daughters, oh, delicious.
Garlic and date confit, is that what you
call it? Oh, it's good stuff. Before you
start eating, you're full.
Before you begin the meal, you ate a
bigger meal than you eat any other day
of the week.
It's a challenge to be healthy.
This is a taiva. This is a temptation.
This is a world that we're navigating.
That's why Hashem created it. Because
when we regulate, when we have
self-control, when we exhibit the
godliness in us that's able to say,
"I've had enough.
Shouldn't eat this. I should eat that."
Maybe I have one cheat day, but even
with that, what does it look like?
So, we elevate ourselves. That's our
godly soul over our animal instinct. We
are all made of two parts. This is what
we're learning now in Tanya. Continue
tomorrow morning. We have the nefesh
bahamis, the animal instinct, the animal
soul, the animal impulse, the animal
drive.
And the animal says, "Eat like an
animal. Act like an animal. Act out like
an animal. Live like an animal in a
pigsty." That's the animal in us. Then
we have a godly soul, chelek Eloka
mimaal mamash, and the godly soul says,
"No, no, no. Be in control. Be
disciplined. Regulate yourself. You
don't have to live that way. Get enough
sleep, exercise, eat in control, control
your speech, control your thoughts,
control your behavior. You have the
capacity, the godly soul over the animal
impulse and animal instinct.
That's the the nitzahon, the part of the
brain that we grow every time we do
something we don't want to do cuz the
animal says, "It's 45°. What are you
doing this to yourself? You don't have
to dunk in it."
And then the godly soul comes and says,
"It's good for you." Who's in charge?
Who's boss? Who's over Who's the boss
over here? Who's in charge of who over
here?
How's this going to operate or work?
Who's going to win? That's that battle.
Do you hit the snooze or do you get out
of bed? Do you eat that or do you say no
to that? Do you say that or do you hold
it in? Do you look at that or do you
turn away? Do you go to sleep or do you
doom scroll all night?
That's that battle that's going on from
the moment we wake up till the moment
we're back to sleep between the animal
impulse and the godly soul. Will we give
in or will we be in charge and in
control? Who's the boss? Who's in charge
here?
The one that's going to make you feel
proud, accomplished, living your best
self,
or the one who's going to be regretful
and miserable and feeling your your
worst self. And one of the areas, if not
the biggest area where this comes up, is
in the area of is in the area of food,
temptation, drive for the physical.
We say
Mizmor David, we say we ask the Kodesh
Baruch Hu, "Torech lefanai shulchan
neged tsorerai Hashem." Spread out for
me a table opposite my adversary. Who's
the adversary?
The dips and the challah.
Who's the adversary? Seven mains and six
sides and 14 desserts and three
appetizers. These are the tsorerai.
These are my enemy.
Torech lefanai shulchan, spread out a
table neged tsor- let me elevate myself
through this test. Let me surpass it.
What's the Hebrew word for bread?
Lechem. It's the root of the same word
as milkhamah because it's a war. It's a
battle.
It's a battle.
Are you going to eat the gluten, the
white flour, the sugar? Are you going to
give in?
Lekhem milkhamah is the same word
because this is the battleground. This
is the battlefield. This is where the
war happens, at the kitchen table, the
dining room table. This is the
milkhamah. So, Hashem turns to this baby
who's conceived in the mother's womb and
he says, "Here's the deal. Here's the
deal. You're a human being, you're flesh
and blood, you're a body, you're an
animal. You have so much in common with
an animal. And you're going to be filled
with temptation and drive and desire and
the seduction of garlic confit and
endless challah.
And someone will convince you it's a
mitzvah cuz it's shlissel challah this
week, you have to. It's going to be
endless, the battle. But, I'm also
giving you a piece of me," says Hashem.
"I'm implanting, I'm breathing into you
the life, a piece of myself, the
capacity to say no, to be in control, to
regulate yourself. Who's going to win?
Are you going to keep kosher? Part of
keeping kosher is are you going to live
healthy?
We make the mistake of thinking these
are two separate things.
You can eat kosher food, but it's
unkosher in the quantity
or the ingredients.
Or all the ingredients can technically
be kosher and it's also kosher cuz it's
healthy and good for you. And you ate
what you need cuz you're eating to live,
not living to eat. So, Hashem says to
this baby, "I'm putting you in this
world. You're made up of a guf and a
neshamah. Who's going to win?
The neshamah or the guf? And when you
say the neshamah the chelek Eloka mimaal
mamash, God says, "Good. Here we go.
Let's go." We shared in last week's
shiur as I was driving this past week,
that's also hinted to. The Beis Yisrael
the Gerrer Rebbe says
that
Pesach we face this, we elevated this.
Pesach is all mitzvahs of eating.
If If Purim Rebbe Yitzchak, we shared
the Kedushas Levi says Purim is all
about hearing. You hear the megillah, of
Mitzvah of listening, the sense of
listening. Pesach is all about the sense
of taste, of eating. Carbon Pesach,
matzah, maror. It's all about the sense
of taste. And following Pesach, the Beis
Yisrael of Gur Aryeh Rebbe said, we are
continuing, we're mamshich, this avodah,
this work of elevating our eating,
elevating our eating. What does that
have to do with slavery and freedom?
What does that have to do with
liberation and emancipation? What does
that have to do with yetzias Mitzrayim,
leaving the Egypt of our lives? Said the
Beis Yisrael of Gur Aryeh Rebbe, and
listen carefully.
Said the body
kidnaps and holds the soul captive.
The body says, "My appetite, my drive,
my desire, what I want. I'm going to
suppress you. I'm going to kidnap you.
I'm going to quiet you because I want
what I want."
And when we are in control, we take the
reins back, we liberate and we free the
soul from the bondage and the shackles
of the body.
And in what area of our life can we do
that best? In the area of eating.
Kedushas Achilah, elevating and
sanctifying the act of eating.
And that's what the Sfas Emes says at
the end of last week's parsha, pasuk,
"Hamaleh eschem me'eretz Mitzrayim." The
word hamaleh doesn't mean I took you out
of Egypt, it means I
I take you out of Egypt. Not I took you
out in the past and history, you're not
commemorating something from a long time
ago. Hashem promises us and tells us
over and over, "Hamaleh, I'm taking you
out. I'm liberating you. I'm lifting
you. I'm taking you out." Why in the
present tense, "I'm taking you"? Because
we have the ability. Every time we're
tempted to look at or eat or say or go
or do or think because the body wants
it, we say, "No, no, no. You're not in
charge. You're not in control. You're
not boss. I'm the boss. You answer to
me. I don't answer to you. I'm in
control. I have the capacity to make
boundaries, to say no, to live within my
rules. Hamala, Hashem has taken us out
of mitzrayim.
The metzar, the narrow place where our
body is holding our soul hostage, it's
time to liberate the soul, to free that
soul, to let the soul flourish and
thrive, to let the soul be in control,
in control of time, in control of money,
in control of speech, in control of
thought, in control of action, in
control of eating. So that says the
Meged Yosef, I'm elaborating a little
bit, but that says the Meged Yosef is
what's going on here. Hashem says to
this uber emo, and that's why we have
the juxtaposition of the end of last
week's parsha and the beginning of this
one. The laws of kashrus and then
conception and childbirth because Hashem
says to this baby, "Wow, when you come
out, you're going to want candy. You're
going to want to eat unhealthy things.
You're going to want to eat unhealthy
quantities and unhealthy times.
Who's going to be in charge? Who's going
to be in control? Your body or your
soul? And when the baby, when the fetus
says, "My soul, the chelek Elokah, the
piece of you you put in me, God?" Then
Hashem says, "Isha ki sazria, good.
Right answer. Here we go. Let's go."
Ulam ner Yisrael me'at, the Meged Yosef
offers a deeper or a different answer.
The Gemara says, Gemara Yuma daf pei
beis,
U'varshi richa machona so achi tachshav
nafsha, peirush asher ulam me'rich
re'ach tachshav mis'av lo. The fetus,
even in the womb, can smell,
can take in the aroma of the food and
desires it. The Gemara tells of two
stories of pregnant women who smelled an
aroma and desired to eat. U'lacha
sh'u'al nashim Yom Kippur hayom, u'lai
tochli safek u'varshi achas kibla,
peirush asher Yatzman Yochana. Rashi is
a posuk u'lam ta'avah so, u'varshi
shniya lo kibla, peirush achas Yatzman
Macha, Yatzman Rasha. The Gemara
contrasts two women smelled it was Yom
Kippur, one felt they had to eat, the
other didn't. The one who was able to
overcome had Rav Yochanan, the great
sage, and the other gave birth to a
rasha, a wicked. I remember Purim eema
u'van mis'av lo Macha.
The fetus, I don't know if there's any
research to support this, but the fetus
already faces the temptation based on
what it smells, what it wants, and
impacts the mother because of it.
Gives that temptation to the mother, and
whether the mother gives in or not will
ultimately affect and influence the
health of the baby. Both and in a third
interpretation, the mother says a very
Thomas Marshall Adam that a person who
does something wrong, when we make a
mistake, it's not some external act that
has nothing to do with who we are in our
essence.
It contaminates, it compromises, it
corrupts our very essence. It closes off
and it seals off
and closes off and it seals off the
pathway to wisdom. The
don't read you become contaminated, read
it as you become sealed or closed off.
By a
gives a different answer. All right, he
goes on and on and he explains that
when we make a mistake, it seals and
it closes off our capacity to access
wisdom and truth, to absorb Torah, and
that is through eating the wrong things.
That's why we're so careful.
Particularly with children who are not
yet even the age of mitzvahs, because
just like if your child had a peanut
allergy, you go to the end of the earth
to ensure that they're not exposed to
it.
You ever fly and they tell you don't
nobody open peanuts on the plane, M&M
peanuts on the plane? There's someone
here who has a peanut allergy, and even
the smell circulating in the air
conditioning system could send them into
into uh
anaphylactic shock. So, you can't even
If you have someone in your family, if
you had an allergy that was
life-threatening, you wouldn't go to
someone and say, you know, is are there
peanuts in the recipe? And I don't think
so. Okay, that's good enough. You never
said it's good enough. Yeah, there are a
little bit, but it's not a
You'd never say it's good enough.
Kashrus? It's not good enough. That's a
spiritual poison. It's a spiritual
allergy. It has the ability spiritually,
metaphysically to do to us spiritual
anaphylactic shock. It can destroy us.
And therefore, we have to be so careful.
And that's why even Uber the may emo, we
are so careful. Or turn it around, Rashi
quotes another reason. So, we said we
said so far two reasons why we have a
contrast or juxtaposition last week's
parsha and this. Either just be just as
careful not only with what goes in your
mouth, what comes out. It's number one.
Number two.
Number two, we just saw because
the body and the soul, the body's
holding the soul, and therefore we want
to experience the existence of time of
the soul. How is that in the area of
lechem milchama neged ayin in the area
of eating? A third reason. Rashi quotes
Rabbi Simlai.
In the creation story, Breishit,
Genesis, who's created first? Man or
animal?
Animal.
The Breishit story tells us all about
the animals, fish, creepy crawlies, the
animal, the birds. And then, the
pinnacle of creation happens on the
sixth day, and that is
man.
Women like to point out it's not the
pinnacle of creation, that there's still
one more creation, which is the most
superior and the ultimate pinnacle, and
that is
women. Cuz the Torah has a gender bias
towards women. Anyway, so the Medrash
tells us that just like the description
of the creation of man is after animal,
so too the laws governing man come after
the laws of animals. Last week's parsha
were the laws of animals, so what you
could eat is what you can't eat, and
this week are the laws of people, the
tuma and tahara when it comes to man,
contamination based on childbirth and
the like.
Why was man created last?
If we were the priority, maybe we should
have been created first.
The Gemara Sanhedrin lamah has tells us
because you can tell this rasha, if
somebody's a rasha, wicked person, you
could say, "You think you're so special?
You think you're so special?
The gnat, the fly, the ant was created
before you.
You think you're something special?
The gnat, the fly, the bee
came before you."
So, it benefits both for us to be the
last creation. If someone's a rasha, you
say, "You're a you think you're so
special?
Even the lowly lowly iguana was created
before you." And if somebody's a
tzaddik, you say, "You know why
everything was created before you? Cuz
the whole world is for you." So, Hashem
created everything because the whole
world is special, is just for you. It's
just for you.
The ain tam d'Shabbos d'parshas hekham
Simlai k'shein.
So, how did Rabbi Simlai say k'shein?
Just like in the creation man came last,
so too k'shein, so too here man comes
last.
Ikar Torah of the maxum of parshas dinim
metzora sheb'Mishnah Lashon Hara
What are these laws all about?
Tazria and Metzora are predominantly
about what laws?
Gossip, slander, speaking ill, tsaraas.
Why does a person gossip? Why do we
slander? Why do we speak negatively?
Why do we speak and repeat lashon hara?
Why do we marginalize and judge and
hyper-criticize?
Where does it come from?
Gaiva.
Arrogance. I think I'm better than, so I
speak, I judge, I call a name.
This arrogant person who thinks they're
in a position to speak negatively and
critically and gossip and slander we
say,
you know,
the lowly gnat, an ant, and bee, and
lizard, and iguana was created before
you.
That's the kashaim. The same way man was
created last so we can say to the rasha,
to the arrogant person, that the lowly
gnat preceded you in creation. So, to
the person who slanders or gossips
because they're arrogant, we say, "What
are you so arrogant about? The lowly
gnat was created before you." Ad rabba.
Find several beautiful insights from the
Maggid Yosef. Perek bet, pasuk hey.
So, Torah tells us the eighth day you
give the bris, 33 days the woman is
pure, no matter what she sees, no matter
what discharge she has. On the And she's
allowed
And the cave of saylaid, and if it's a
girl she gave birth to, then she's
impure for two weeks, 12 14 days, and
then 66 days that she is to make tahara,
no matter what she no matter what she
sees. Says the Tiferes Shmuel.
Yish lion. Map shat the kishnola ben
abbas mikaim mitzvah of Torah shavuah
puruvu.
The guy mitzvah of mitzvah kedusha, give
mushit the guy over him. Shav am shav
akash baruch. If he talking about this,
maybe the day to
Why is it? Birth of a boy generates 7
days impurity. Birth of a girl generates
14 days impurity.
First of all, why the disparity? Lots of
reasons are offered, one of which is the
boy also should have been 14 days
impurity, but we want to make her pure
in time for
the bris. And that's why it's lessened
and shortened for the boy. Whatever the
reason is, but in both cases
a woman conceives and gives birth,
and what happens?
She's impure. Impure? What she do wrong?
Ordinarily, normally we think of
impurity resulting from a mistake,
from an indiscretion, from poor
judgment. Here, this couple fulfilled
pru ur'vu.
Adiraba, this couple fulfilled the
mitzvah to procreate, to have children,
to populate the world. They became
partner with the Almighty. The Gemara in
Kiddushin says, when a couple conceive
and give birth, they become partnership
with the Almighty. So, where did the
tumah come from? Why should they be
impure? Why should she be impure?
In potential, we could be the greatest.
Potential to be the highest. Potential
we could be greater than an angel. But
in reality, we're born with temptation,
desire, weakness, failure, shortcoming.
And a person who doesn't pursue their
potential, a person who doesn't try to
live their best self, their best life,
can be lower than an animal.
So, the choice is ours.
When we come into this world, we come in
with enormous potential, pregnant, pun
intended, with possibility.
We can be higher than an angel or lower
than an animal.
So, where does the tumor come from in
this moment? The father and the mother,
the way they need to run the home in
this time in this time.
When a person is a child, they bear
awesome responsibility.
Because no longer are you living for
yourself. No longer are you only
impacting yourself. When a person is a
child, they bear responsibility not only
to shelter and feed that child, but to
be a role model and example to teach and
communicate that child.
Why does it say "teshave"? She dwells in
the days of impurity than purity. "Ayn
teshave"
Essentially, what this results from,
says the Tiveres Shmuel, he elaborates,
is a reality. When parents give birth,
there's a reality check. You're no
longer a child. You're no longer
consumed with what you want. You're no
longer going to sleep through the night.
You're no longer going to be on your
schedule. You're no longer going to only
care about what you want to eat, you
where you want to go.
You now bear an awesome responsibility.
And there's an adjustment. There's an
adjustment. It's very important. Our
kids are getting married very young. In
many cases, they're getting married
while still very immature. And they're
playing house, and they think life is
fun and games. Fun and games.
Rav Moshe said recently, particularly in
seminary with girls, but really with
both, we teach them, you know, school is
fun. This color war, it's fun. And camp
is even more fun. And you go off to
seminary, and then it's more fun. And
all that is to learn, and you You ready
to get married, cuz that's going to be
the most fun.
No, it's not.
It is amazing and there's nothing more
gratifying and satisfying. There's
nothing more beautiful and pleasurable
in the world than connecting and meeting
your other half and becoming whole, but
it's hard work. It's compromise. It's
sacrifice. It's work. It's being on
someone else's schedule. Sfas Emes says,
we have a minag
when a couple get engaged, when a boy
becomes when a young man, I should say,
we do a disservice cuz in the world of
shidduchim we talk about, "Oh, I have a
girl for that boy. I have a boy for that
girl." Is it a boy and a girl? They're
not boys and girls. If they're ready to
get married, they're young men and young
women.
But why do we get that young man that
chasan a watch, a zaiger? The minag is
to get them a watch.
Why do we get them a watch?
I said this to each of my three
sons-in-law
when they came to ask me permission.
Yeah, that's right. I told them they had
to come and ask me permission. I'm old
school in that way.
When they came to ask me permission to
marry my daughters,
I had a big speech prepared for all
three.
Big speech for all three. But all three
I told this inside of the Sfas Emes. You
know why the Sfas Emes says you get a
watch when a young man gets engaged? Cuz
he needs to know his time is no longer
his own.
Young man,
until now,
you want to learn all day and night,
learn all day and night. You want to go
out with your friends, you want to you
Whatever time you want to wake up,
whatever time you want to go to sleep,
whatever you want to go, whatever you
want to do, your time is your own.
Here's a watch cuz now you need to know
there's someone waiting at home. And
when you said you'll be home at a
certain time, you better be home at that
time.
And when you're deciding how to spend
your time, it's not your own. You need
to figure it out with the other person.
We buy a chasan a watch not so we can
show off in shul or under his chuppah
his fancy watch. Today the son-in-law
chasan has a nicer watch than the
father-in-law. But let's leave that
aside. But
it's a separate commentary. It's a nicer
watch than the father-in-law will ever
afford or for himself, but it's what he
has to buy. Whatever, we'll leave that
aside. What's happening in our world
today? So much we have to fix and
improve and repair and make better. But
anyway, the young man, not the boy, we
buy a watch because we say, "Your time
is not all no longer your own." So,
getting married is hard work. You know
what's even harder work that we also
don't prepare them for?
Having children.
The mitzvah of not everybody does and we
doubt from the bottom of our heart for
all those who are trying to have
children that Hashem should bless them
with health and children who give them
nachas.
First of all, we should educate our
young couples
that 1/3 of pregnancies end in
miscarriage, that it won't necessarily
happen easily or on your schedule. Be
ready, be prepared not to scare you, God
forbid, but to prepare you for the
bracha, but also get ready because it's
not fun and games.
And you may not get a baby nurse and if
you do, you won't have her forever.
It's not the world we live in. So,
you're going to have to wake up in the
middle of the night. You're going to
have to change a very messy diaper.
You're going to have to afford to pay
yeshiva tuition.
It's not fun and games. And says the
fair shmuel, that's tayshave
the tahara. Tayshave, stay home,
chinuch, get ready, bear responsibility,
grow up, mature, understand what it
means to be a parent and to take that
responsibility. Perek gimmel pasuk hey,
turn to the next perek. Hashem, now we
turn to tzaraas. Adam ki ya'avur b'saro,
if a man
Now, we have a lot of words to describe
man. Adam, gever, ish. We have so many
words and yet we use the word Adam. Why
do we talk about Adam?
We've shared before.
Adam is the name of
the first human being. And why was he
named Adam? Because he comes from
adamah. The adamah is a place that you
plant and you grow. It's a place of
potential and possibility.
It's a place where you can grow. This
person could have used speech to build,
to construct, to grow. He used speech
negatively to destroy. Adam, he
forfeited that possibility, that
potential. He violated what he could
have been. He's Adam, the Adam
More than that, what distinguished, what
made Adam unique, what made Adam
different than animals?
Uncles says
he
God breathed life into us, into man. And
Uncles says he filled them
and gave them the power of
the power of speech. Animals don't
speak. I know they have code, they
grunt, they bark, they meow, they all
the noises when I walk around the lake
with my grandchildren and we the duck,
they quack. They have all these noises
they make. They do not speak in a
sophisticated manner the way human
beings do. They can't communicate their
inner world and their inner thoughts the
way human beings can. Speech is uniquely
human and speech is godly. And that is
the power, that is what God gave us. By
the way,
why?
When Adam was created and God breathed
life into him, to whom was he meant to
speak? Why did he have to be endowed
with the power of speech? He's all
alone.
Who is he meant to speak to?
You see that the core
of the gift of speech is
to speak to Hashem. He wasn't all alone.
There was someone to speak to, namely
Hashem. Before Hava, Eve comes along,
there already is someone to speak to,
namely
So what was the original purpose of
speech? To talk to Hashem. So many
people talk all day, talk talk talk talk
talk, chirp chirp chirp chirp chirp.
They talk all day and they never talk to
Hashem.
Which is the original reason, the
original intent, the original purpose,
the original gift of speech was to talk
to Hashem before we also can use it to
speak to other people. Too many
mistakenly use it to speak only to other
people and never talk to Hashem. That
was the original purpose, the reason
that that got it. So what distinguishes
and differentiates man? What makes us an
Adam?
The power of speech. And this individual
abused it. They misused it. And that's
why the Torah employs that word, not
another. Adam ki y'vor b'sar o se'so
s'pachas, we have the beginning of these
laws. So, perek pasuk hey, v'ra'ah
ha'kohen b'yamim sh'vi'i, this person
has to be sequestered, quarantined.
Until 5 years ago, that was a word that
we only ever used, parshas Tazria
Metzora.
Quarantined. Whoever heard or used that
word any other time?
Then 5 years ago, we started to use it a
lot. Baruch Hashem, we don't have to use
it, and please God, should never use it
again. V'ra'ah ha'kohen b'yamim sh'vi'i
negah amadah einav, the kohen
re-examines on the seventh day, and he
sees the negah, the blemish, is still
visible. Lo pasah negah ba'or, v'siger
ha'kohen shiv'as yamim shenis, the kohen
sees it has not spread, he declares him
uh he he says what has to happen, he
quarantines him a second time, and so
on. Says the Amoras, Torah says the
Racham Sh'muel, Rebbe, quoting from the
Basain, the Heiliger Basain,
he heard in the name of Rav Yitzchak
ha'Kohen mi'Koretz, the author of the
Sefer Bris Kodesh Olam, the Zohar
ha'Kodesh tells us,
Ashrei ha'ayin she'ra'asah oneeg
l'negah. The Zohar makes a comment, and
tells us that the
confused people,
the people who are the ones who who
impact us negatively, they mistake, they
flip
oneg and negah.
Both of them are comprised of the same
letters, ayin, nun, gimel. What's oneg?
Pleasure and joy. What's negah?
A blemish. Negah osiyos oneg. K'mochin,
kol ish Yisrael yesh lo negah, Rachmana
l'tzlan, nehpach etzlo oneg l'negah. If
a person gets this negah, this blemish,
because they've misused and abused the
power of speech, it turns and transforms
the oneg, the pleasure, into pain.
Nehpach etzlo oneg
And the person has to be quarantined,
sequestered. They have to be alone so
that they can repair.
So the whole purpose of being
sequestered alone is to learn to
transfer back, to flip the one egg that
became nega, take the nega, turn it back
into one egg.
So they should be deeded
with a hesker until they can you got to
sit alone. You got to be alone, solitary
confinement.
The passage we just saw says the coin
looks at it and behold the affliction
retained its color.
It retained its color. It was omed be
ainav. Be ainav means the nega remains
with its ainav, with its ain.
It's a play on words. It remains with
its ain.
In other words, what's the coin
checking? Is it a nega or one egg? Where
is the letter ain? This individual
who got confused and messed up, who had
poor judgement and misspoke,
they took the ain that should be at the
beginning of the word and they put it at
the end of the word. And so what the
coin is checking is omed be ainav. Where
is the ain?
Where's the ain?
So what's this teaching?
What does that mean?
The individual is sequestered, the
individual who's isolated and
quarantined, the coin goes to check did
they learn their lesson? How will you
know if they learn their lesson? Where
they put the letter ain. The beginning
of the word one egg or the end of the
word nega. Omed be ainav, does he still
have the ain at the end of the word
nega? That's what the coin is looking
for. What in the world is this teaching?
What is the Zohar Kadosh telling us?
What's going on? Zakh ha basar in
Chazal tell us, our rabbis teach us, the
Mishnayos in Avos Pirkei Avos Mishnayos,
Kol mi she yesh lo shlosha dvarim halalu
hu talmidav shel Avraham Avinu. A person
who has the following three qualities is
a disciple, a student of the great
Avraham Avinu.
What are the three qualities that will
distinguish us,
that will identify us as a student of
Avraham? Ayin tovah,
a good eye, a positive eye,
generous eye, ruach nemucha, nefesh
sh'feilah.
Ayin ra'ah, veruach gavoha, venefesh
rechava hu talmidav shel Bil'am haRasha.
In contrast, the Mishna says, Mishna
says, so if you're humble and you have a
good eye, you're a student, a disciple,
you're progeny of Avraham Avinu. And if
you are stingy, you're haughty, you're
arrogant, and you look negatively,
hypercritically at everyone, you have an
ayin ra'ah, then you're a disciple, you
are the offspring of Bil'am haRasha, the
wicked Bil'am. Ayin tovah nikras ayin
yamin. A good eye is called the right
eye. The ayin ra'ah nikras ayin smol. A
negative eye is the left eye. Vezeh
mashma efshar bein nega leoneg. K'she
yesh le adam ayin tovah, einav letzad
yamin. It's on the right. Shenasa tzir
shel oneg, shebo ayin letzad yamin
sheb'teva. Lo kein im yesh le adam ayin
ra'ah, ayin smol. Az ayin osa ayin
letzad smol, venasa nega. Wow, such a
beautiful insight of the Baal Ayin.
You would expect
the one who's known as the Baal Ayin to
have this insight about the letter ayin.
What is the ayin? It's our eye. How do
you look at the world? Do you see the
good? Do you see the positive? Do you
see what you have in common? Do you see
what's redeemable? Do you see what's
admirable? Do you see what you can
compliment? Or do you have the eye of
Bil'am? Oh, you do you see what's wrong,
how bad, how negative, see the
shortcomings and the failures and the
failings of another?
Do you see what's missing? Do you see
how different you are? Do you see the
disagreements and the division?
It's our choice.
Our same eye can choose what to see.
Do you want to see the good?
What you can compliment? What you can
admire?
What's redeemable? What's positive? What
you have in common? Do you just want to
see what you can criticize? What's
missing? What's negative?
Called the missing tile syndrome. When
you walk in a room, do you see all
that's there? Do you see the one missing
tile? Where is your eye drawn? Where is
your eye drawn? There's a lot of
psychology, a lot of deep data and
research on it. Where is a person's eye
drawn? People are made differently. In
this room are people who walk into a
room, they see the positive and the good
and the hopeful and the upbeat.
And other people walk into a room and
all they see is what's missing, what's
negative, what they do differently, what
they're critical, what's bad.
Who do you want to be? How do you want
to be thought of? What's your legacy?
Which eye do you want to interact and
see the world with?
Because the outcome will be is the eye
in the eye at the beginning of the world
word, is the world filled with oneg?
Pleasure and joy and positivity? Or is
the eye in at the end of the word nega?
All you see is the blemish, all you see
is what's missing, all you see is what's
wrong.
This individual had to be quarantined
cuz they don't know how to look at the
world. You need to sit and be alone.
Through gossiping and slandering, by
speaking negatively about others, you
made them feel isolated and alone, you
made them feel apart. You need to know
what that feels like. And in that time
that you're isolated and alone,
experiencing that loneliness yourself,
what you need to focus on is how to
recalibrate, where to put the eye in. So
the coin comes, and what does the coin
check? What does the coin hinneha nega
amad be'einav? If the
eye if the nega is amad be'einav, if the
eye in is still in the same place, if
this individual says to the coin, "It's
about time you came here. Where have you
been all this time? And I can't believe
they did this to me. And I can't believe
anything that's wrong. And this nega,
have you seen this place? The food is
terrible and the pillow is terrible and
that
the the eye in is a mod ba'in of. The
eye in is still a nega. It's still at
the end of the He's still seeing all the
negative.
But if the individual is one egg, "Wow,
thank God you're here. You're so
wonderful. I'm so grateful. Look at all
the good even though this is a hard
time, but I see so much good." So the
person has recalibrated and replaced.
They put the eye in where it belongs. So
the individual is tahor. Now it's time
to take them back. So the Bas Ayin has
this magnificent insight that all of the
tzara'as
all comes down to the contrast of the
one egg and nega. Where does this person
put their eye in? How do we look at?
Where do we see? How do we see the
world? That's up to us. That's up to us.
Do you see what's worth complimenting or
do you see what's worth criticizing? Do
you see the good or the bad? Do you see
what you have in common or do you see
the differences? Choice is ours. How do
we want to see the world? One will lead
to one egg pleasure and the other will
lead to nega, seeing the blemish in
others, which really is revealing the
blemish in ourselves.
And the choice is our own.
Perek Gimmel Pasuk Mem Hey.
Cuz I want to get to Metzora as well.
Page 616.
We have all kinds of tzara'as. Tzara'as
of the body,
tzara'as of the head and the scalp,
tzara'as of the clothing, tzara'as in
the walls of a home. In these two
parshas we go through all the forms of
It's not leprosy. It's not a
dermatological
disease. It's a spiritual malady. And it
can reveal itself
on all these places and all these ways.
So the Torah tells us Perek Gimmel Pasuk
Mem Hey. Hatsaru'a Asher Bo Hanega, the
individual who's struck with tzara'as,
who has this
uh
nega bigadav Yafri'ah Rosh Yafri'ah
Paru'a Vechol Ha'atzma'ot
Yateh. Torah tells us his garments have
to be torn, the hair has to be unshorn,
he cloaks himself up to his lips, and
what does he do? He calls out, "Tamei
tamei yikra." He lets everyone know,
"I'm tamei, I'm impure, keep your
distance." In other words,
again,
it's not a parallel at all cuz COVID was
a physical illness and disease and this
is a spiritual one, but I'm I don't want
you to remember, but if you go back and
remember, if somebody took a COVID test
and it was positive, we had all these I
I don't want to remember cuz I'll break
out in hives, but we had our medical
task force, which had its rules and
protocols that if you were test
positive, you need to let everyone know.
Anyone who might have been exposed to
you, we have to send an email, you have
to let them know, you have to notify.
Again, we don't want to go back, it's 5
years later, and remember, tamei tamei
yikra. This individual has to notify
everyone who was exposed to them. Stay
away, keep your distance. Tamei, I'm
tamei, you need to keep your distance.
You need to keep your distance. Says the
Tiferes Shmuel. Says the Shmuel Baron
Bend.
I'm tamei tamei yikra.
Sorkin, Rashi tells us, sorry, mashmia
shehu tamei v'yifreshu mimenu. He lets
the world know, "I'm impure, keep your
distance from me." Sorkin in the Gemara
Maseches Sotah tells us, "Yafah urecha
kemochah bor lo misah yafah." We saw in
the Gemara mentioned several times,
those who learn the daf. Even when we
have to carry out a capital punishment,
we do it with sensitivity and love. We
always try to soften the blow. We try to
even when we have to punish, we do it,
if we can, in a sensitive and loving
way.
Who tzarich leishut badachot tzomachat,
and this individual already has to be
quarantined and isolated. B'filu
eni chamesh bima, and you don't you
can't even quarantine and isolate
together.
Why aren't we worried about protecting
his dignity? That here he or she has to
announce
Keep your distance. Stay away. You don't
want to get too close to me. Are we
going to embarrass them? Are we going to
shame them? Isn't the Torah all about
protecting and preserving dignity, not
shaming people? What's going on over
here?
What's going on over here?
There are external acts we do where
externally we've done the act and we
violated
You ate non-kosher. You wore shatnez.
You're an avaryan. You did something
wrong, but you're you who did something
wrong.
However, there are other kinds of
avayaros.
You didn't just compromise your
Yiddishkeit.
You compromised your very self.
You forfeited your humanity.
If you gossip and slander, if you
mistreat others,
you've compromised your very humanity.
You've corrupted the very dignity, your
very sense of self.
You haven't just violated your rules of
Yiddishkeit. You corrupted, you
compromised your very identity.
Keben Adam.
So, you forfeited your humanity. What
made you more elevated distinguished
from an animal, as we shared, the power
of speech,
the ability to speak elevated us to
build, to connect, to draw bridges.
Through your actions, you reveal that
you don't protect your own dignity. You
don't care about your own humanity. You
forfeited it. You corrupted it. You
compromised it in the way that you
acted, in the way you spoke. If you
don't care about it, we don't have to
care about it. So, it's true. You
violate a Shabbos, we don't want to
embarrass you. You violated eating
non-kosher, we're going to protect your
dignity. We don't want to embarrass you.
But, if you hurt other people in the
power of speech, then you didn't care
about your own dignity, we don't have to
care about it, either. And therefore,
tamei tamei yikra, announce you're
tamei, so others know to keep a
distance, because if you don't care
about your dignity, we don't have to
care about your dignity. Tell everyone
that you're tamei, so they know to keep
a distance. Az yizakdi Tiferes Tiferes
Shmuel.
That is the Tiferes Shmuel. The Maggid
Yosef also has an insight on this.
Maggid Yosef says the following.
Tamei tamei yikra.
The Gemara tells us
The Gemara gives two reasons.
One is, he now tells people to keep a
distance.
It's contagious.
The tumah.
There's a second reason the Gemara might
come and gives us, which is he lets
everyone know
I'm
I'm sick.
Daven for me.
I need your t'fillah. I need your
davening. The Gemara learns from here,
in fact, that if a person's going
through a hard time, they should let
others know and ask, "Please daven for
me. Please daven for me." Don't hold it
in. Don't keep it to yourself. Don't be
proud. Let others know, "Please keep me
in your t'fillos."
Frekta Chofetz Chaim mekashya
es the
How is the metsora different than
Wonders the Maggid Yosef. Ordinarily, if
someone's sick, we put out an email,
"Daven."
We add their name to our Tehillim list.
We add a name to our weekly bulletin. We
announce, "Please daven for so-and-so."
Yet here it seems with the metsora, he
or she themselves have to ask others to
daven. Why? Why ordinarily do we
publicize, we the community announce to
daven, and here it's the individual
themselves who's supposed to ask others
to daven. Wonders the Chofetz Chaim,
what's the difference? The Chofetz Chaim
says, "Because Hashem doesn't listen to
the tefillah of the person who spoke
lashon hara, so this person themselves
needs to ask others for help." But it's
not only the one who spoke lashon hara.
It's hard for someone themselves in jail
to free themselves. You need another to
come help you. So everyone who's going
through hard time needs the help of
others. So why do we differentiate?
Ordinarily, the community announces, and
here this person has to let others know
themselves. So this is what the Maggid
Yosef suggests. He says,
Because
This is the one malady that comes from
speaking ill gossip. If we would say,
"You know, Barrel has tzaraas, everyone
davening for him.
We'd be essentially speaking lashon hara
about him.
So yes, somebody God forbid is going
through a hard time, it's not their
fault, not of their own doing. Somebody
God forbid rachmana litzlan is facing
and confronting an illness, they didn't
do anything wrong. Of course, we take
the responsibility to announce,
everybody daven fervently for that
person. But when the whole malady comes
because the person gossiped, we
shouldn't compound their gossip by being
the one to announce, "Daven for Beryl,
the oisvorf, who has tzaraas, cuz he
spoke lashon hara." He should announce
it.
He shouldn't have too much pride, he
himself should announce it, cuz there's
nothing wrong with needing and accepting
help, nothing wrong with asking others
to daven for you. He should ask for it,
but the reason this is different than
all other cases, says the Maggid Yosef,
is we shouldn't compound or it shouldn't
even look like we are speaking lashon
hara by announcing, "He needs us to
daven for him for the very thing he got
because of lashon hara." Brilliant,
fascinating insight. We have time for
one last one.
Can't believe we didn't even get to
Metzora. Let's just start Metzora.
Parshas Metzora beginning of Parshas
Metzora.
This is the law of the Metzora on the
day that he now becomes purified, his
process of reentering the camp and
reintegrating into society. The Yatzah
Kohen el machaneh, the Kohen goes
outside to see him. V'ra'ah Kohen
v'hinei nirpa negah hatzara'as min
hatzarua, the Kohen leaves the camp to
where he's being sequestered, to where
he's being
he's being isolated, and the Kohen
checks whether the tzaraas has healed
and whether he can come back. Says Rav
Soloveitchik, "The Yatzah Kohen."
When we explore the parsha, we find a
peculiar phenomenon. The Kohen here
assumes the role of diagnostician and
nurse. Only the Kohen has the right to
pronounce the sick person clean or
unclean. This is a task that a coin
would normally not be expected to
perform given the lengths he has to go
to to avoid impurity. Think about it for
a moment.
What category of people, which
demographic is particularly warned,
cautioned, has to remain heightened,
vigilant to avoid ever becoming impure?
Kohanim.
Can't go to a cemetery, don't go to a
hospital, don't be under the same roof
as a dead body. Kohanim has to be
particularly hyper vigilant about
impurity. And yet, who's the one who
goes out of the camp to go check and see
whether this metzora is still impure?
The Kohanim.
So if there's anyone you choose not to
do it, it would be the Kohanim. Why is
it the Kohanim? Why is this job assigned
to the Kohanim? Furthermore, there are
many forms of impurity in the Torah.
Anyone with the required knowledge can
help with purification. Yet, tzaraas is
assigned only to the Kohanim. Let's
analyze the situation with the metzora,
says Rav Soloveitchik. In the treatment
of tzaraas in biblical times, the phobia
related to leprosy in olden times is
similar to the phobia of modern
malignancy. The greatest fear was the
fear of discovery. One took sick and the
outward symptoms caused others to
suspect that he had leprosy.
Immediately, the sick man lost his human
dignity. He became isolated from the
community. People were afraid to
associate with him, even greet him. He
was often killed or at least driven out
of town. From time to time he was
offered a meager supply of food thrown
to him like food thrown to a dog. He was
treated harshly for the sin of having
contracted the disease. What is the
Jewish approach?
The first thing Torah demands is bring
this to the Kohanim. Bring the Kohanim.
The leper was thus instantly removed
from the mob psychosis. The Kohanim
diagnosed him and pronounced the term as
tzaraas. But the leper leper was not
subsequently cut off from society. He
was in communication with the Kohanim as
one of the heads of the community. In
fact, the metzora could request being
seen by the Kohanim Gadol himself, a man
who is not permitted to attend the
funeral of his closest relatives. Yet,
if summoned, the Kohanim Gadol had to go
to with metzora.
Kohanim Gadol couldn't go to the funeral
of his closest relative. And yet, if the
metzora asked to see the Kohen Gadol, he
went. Why? Says Rav Soloveitchik, what
we're trying to communicate is no one's
lost.
Yes, this individual made a mistake, and
yes, they need to rehabilitate
themselves by being isolated, by being
chutz l'machaneh.
But by sending the most dignified, the
highest profile leader of the Jewish
people, what we're messaging is this
individual is not cut off. They're not
beyond hope. They're not beyond repair.
They're not beyond repair. Torah
legislated to prevent the loss of human
dignity. Kohen went with the leper
outside the camp to demonstrate he was
his friend. The leper was isolated from
everyone except the leader of the camp,
who must do everything possible to heal
him and bring him back to society. The
Kohen assures him, "You're needed.
You'll get well. You'll return." The
Kohen acts for the need of the people.
The message of Parshas Metzora is that
even someone who holds the exalted
office of kehunah must not abandon his
fellow Jew. He must have his compassion
for everyone, even someone as
dangerously ill as the leper. Not only
the Kohen, but the prophet as well was
charged with the role of being a friend.
Someone might say, "Rabbi, why do you go
to jail?
The people person who's in jail, look at
the mistake. Look at their crime. Look
at what they did.
It's beneath you, Rabbi. Sends the wrong
wrong message, Rabbi." Says Rav
Soloveitchik, "No. Sends the right
message. You need to be in jail. You
need to pay a price. You did the crime,
you got to do your time. You need to
rehabilitate and be better. But you're
not lost. You're not hopeless. You're
not beyond repair. The Rabbi himself,
the Kohen himself, the prophet himself
goes to visit. Goes to spend time. Goes
to see
person who's in treatment, person who's
in rehab. Why is the Rabbi going? Rehab,
that treatment, that's where they go.
That's where they Yes, 100%. Person
needs to go where they can improve
themselves, where they can come back.
That's where they go. "V'tzivah Kohen,"
continues the Rav, "we've become
specialists in criticism, in searching
out the blemishes of others. However,
we've overlooked one significant point.
The priest who declares a person unclean
must go outside the camp to the
afflicted individual in order to purify
him. It's incumbent upon us to purify
those who are outside the camp, who
dwell in the great camp of ignorance. We
have to go to help the people who dwell
in the great camp of ignorance. We go
wherever they are. That's our
responsibility in order to lift them.
The tonal Rebbe shlita has a very
similar idea. We'll end with this. Torah
says
El Aaron or one of his sons. The Torah
tells us the laws of tzaraas this
individual is brought
to Aaron or one of his sons. Torah could
have simply said, "Bring him to a
cohen." Why does it delineate
specifically to Aaron or one of his
sons? Cuz it's emphasizing the cohanim
are the ones who must descend from their
lofty heights of sanctity and work with
the metzora, who's sunken and fallen to
the lowest depths of impurity.
And he has to go outside the city
because of the machaneh. Torah not only
requires the cohen to leave the sacred,
serene environs of the mikdash, but also
requires that he do so joyfully.
Pasuk says
cohen, vihinay nearpan negah tzaraas min
hatzarua. Vihinay.
The psiktas who trace of the midrash
tells us the word vihinay connotes
simcha.
Hinei is the word we use to connote
simcha. The cohen is to feel such a
level of closeness to the metzora he
experiences joy over the fact that the
person's tzaraas has been cured. Cohen
is not just doing a job. It's not just a
profession. It's not just a career. It's
not just a paycheck. If you're a
chaplain in the prison,
if you're working in rehab, if you're
interacting with everyone, no matter
where they are or how they fall into
what they've done wrong, vihinay. The
love that has to come from love. But the
leader has to come without judgment. I
meet people all the time.
And I always say, there's almost
nothing, I think, I haven't heard or
dealt with. And my job is not to judge.
So, I often introduce, don't be ashamed,
don't be embarrassed. Don't hesitate.
I'm not here to judge, I'm here to help.
I'm here to help and support.
You come back or repair or improve or
rebuild rehabilitate, whatever needs the
work. It's my job. Cuz it's modeled
after the coin and the navi, whose job
it is the hinay, to even feel the simcha
of helping the metsora. The willingness
to go out of our comfort zone mikutz
hamachaneh and to do it even the coin
godol even if it means lowering or
lessening or becoming or exposed
ourselves, because that's the
responsibility and that is the message
to the rest of the camp. We didn't get
too far in parshas metsora, but we got a
good start.
Have a good day, a good week. Please
remain to say all of safe at tehillim.
We have booklets, so if everyone takes a
booklet, we can finish all of safe at
tehillim quickly.
Should we zocheh to the return of the
hostages and the success of all of our
soldiers and the soros tovos, yeshua
venachamas.