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Good morning, Boca Tov. It's very good
to be together on this special Zion
Adar. Today is the seventh day of Adar,
both the birthday and the Yahrzeit of
Moshe Rabbeinu, a day that we recognize
and honor the Chevra Kadisha.
Zayin Adar, I know some of you are
looking at me, Adar Rishon, Adar Sheini,
is the first Adar or is it the second
Adar? Will the real Adar please stand
up?
We actually spoke about that a little
bit last week
with a luncheon that we gave about
about Kaparas Parsha and the institution
of Rosh Chodesh. So, there's different
minhagim, there are different customs.
Mishna Berurah sounds like one proper to
observe
Adar, Zayin Adar, and honor the Chevra
Kadisha the first Adar.
And for that and other reasons we are.
But anyway, good to be together on a
Zayin Adar. Always good to be together
no matter what. Parsha Shiur series is
generously sponsored by Becky and Avi
Katz and family in loving memory of
Becky's father, David Grossman, l'ilui
nishmas Dovid ben Menachem Manish.
And we're very grateful to the Grossmans
for their generosity. This morning's
Shiur is also sponsored by Sheindy and
Eli Lasson in commemoration of
yesterday's Yahrzeit of Sheindy's
sister, Riva Frankel, Miriam Riva bas
Avraham Ephraim v'Ethel, and in
gratitude to Boca Raton Synagogue for uh
whatever it is they're grateful for.
Thank you so much for your generosity.
And by Sandy and Sidney Goldschmidt
l'ilui nishmas Chaver Ephraim ben Chaver
Moshe Yehuda,
Tzivia bas Avraham, Tzivia bas Avraham
ben Matisyahu, and Moshe ben Simcha. Big
thank you to the Goldschmidts. And all
of our learning is dedicated for a
speedy, complete, and painless refuah
shleimah
for Esther Tilla bas Tzpora,
uh bas Aryeh Tzpora, and for Carmela
Shaya ben Reiza. Okay, page 644, 464.
Page 464 in the ArtScroll Stone Chumash.
Let's begin even before the beginning.
How do you begin before the beginning?
Before we get to the Parsha, as I said,
today is Zayin Adar, and uh if you'll go
to a Zayin Adar dinner event tonight for
the Chevra Kadisha, you'll hear more
about Zayin Adar. The Gemara Megillah
tells us Haman's miscalculation.
He thought the 7th of Adar was only an
inauspicious day and that's why he chose
it to exterminate the Jewish people
because that was the day of Moshe
Rabbeinu's yahrzeit. That's when he
died. That was the day of his demise.
What he miscalculated it was also the
day of his birth.
But who cares? He died after his birth.
So maybe the fact that the yahrzeit, the
death, should be what captures the theme
of the day. Where did he go wrong in
making a mistake in not recognizing it's
the day of his birth? So go to design
another dinner for that. That's not what
I want to focus on. I want to focus
instead on not today, Tuesday, but next
Monday night before we'll get together
again next week because that is
a little holiday called
little holiday.
Tacha's a little holiday. It's called
Purim Katan. It's a little holiday.
See what I did there? It's a little
holiday. The Rama of Moshe Isserles
concludes his commentary on the entire
Shulchan Aruch, the section of Orach
Chaim, the section of daily living, the
six volumes of the Mishnah Berurah that
we have is divided into. The Rama of
Moshe Isserles, Krakow, Poland, 16th
century, concludes his entire commentary
on Orach Chaim with the following words.
Mi kom makom yarbek tzatz seudah kedei
latzeis yedei hamachmirim.
Some people observe Purim Katan, most
neglect, don't even acknowledge Purim
Katan. It means there are two Adars,
which is the real Adar and which is the
extra Adar. As I said, that's an entire
discussion, not for now. We observe
Purim in the second Adar. Why? The
Gamara's conclusion is "We're samchin
geulah l'geulah." We observe one
redemption adjacent to the other
redemption. Nissan, the great
redemption, and please God, what will
bring the future redemption. Nissan, the
redemption of Pesach, so we observe the
redemption of Purim is close to it, the
second Adar. So should you do anything
the first Adar? Should we just let it go
by? Do we allow the 14th, 15th of of
Adar Rishon to pass without even
acknowledging it. So, the Rama says,
"No." The Rama says,
"Yarbech tzas besuda." Uh Jews don't
need much of an excuse to have a meal.
Have a little l'chaim, have a little
meal. Why? K'dei latzei' es yedei
hamachmirim, in order to fulfill the
will of those who are strict. And why?
Tov lev mishteh tamid. One with a good
heart rejoices and celebrates regularly.
One with a good heart rejoices and
celebrates regularly. And those are the
closing words of the Rama in Orach
Chaim.
That tov lev mishteh tamid. A person has
a good heart is always looking for a
good party. Is always looking for a good
excuse to break bread, and to smile, and
to have a good time, and to offer
hospitality, and to enjoy with other
people. Tov lev, a good heart. In fact,
I saw this quote from Rav Aharon
Karliner. Rav Aharon Karliner is the one
who wrote Kah Echsof, the holy holy
Shabbos song that we sing, Kah Echsof.
So, Rav
Rav Aharon Karliner said, "Ha'atzvus
einah cheit."
Sadness is not a sin.
"Aval af cheit lo yachol la'asos es mah
she'oseh ha'atzvus." Sadness is not a
sin, but even sin can't do to you what
sadness does.
Sadness is not a sin, but even sin can't
do to you what sadness does.
The notion of uh of happiness, of the
being joyful. We're discussing this in
our Living with Emunah series right now.
And we discussed last week, we'll
continue tomorrow, that doesn't mean
that there aren't moments of pain and of
grief. There aren't moments of
difficulty or challenge. There aren't
moments that we feel down in the dumps.
It's legitimate. It's okay. A person has
to honor those feelings. But it means on
the whole, or even within those
feelings, to find the simcha, to find
the shleimus, to find Hashem even within
those moments. So, a person makes a
mistake. Cheit is a mistake. If I did a
cheit, you do not veer. It's a terrible
thing. And it's harmful. There's a
negative impact and residual
influence on us. But it can't do what
sadness does. When a person becomes
hopeless and helpless, when a person is
sad, when a person is down and out, when
a person gives up, the negative energy
with that creates for us. It says the
Rama, "Told live mishta tamid." One with
a good heart rejoices and celebrates
regularly. It's very interesting that
the Rama I don't want to spend too much
time on this. I want to get to the
parsha. But, the Rama ends ends Orach
Chaim the way he begins.
Told live mishta tamid. The very last
word of his commentary on Orach Chaim is
tamid. Tamid means
always, consistently, constantly,
continuously.
And he begins Orach Chaim the same way.
How does the Rama begin Orach Chaim? The
Rama begins the laws of Hashkamas
Haboker. How are you supposed to wake up
in the morning? What is the way to wake
up? Zach the Rama, "Shivisi Hashem
lenegdi
tamid." Who called Godol ba'Torah. You
want to know an important rule, an
important principle in Torah? Shivisi
Hashem lenegdi tamid. Hashem, you're
always opposite me. Everywhere I go.
You're not just in shul, and I don't
leave you in the base medrash, and I
don't leave you behind when I finish the
parsha class, and then I go on to the
rest of my secular, profane, mundane
life. Shivisi Hashem lenegdi tamid.
You're everywhere with me. You're in the
kitchen, you're in the carpool, you're
in the courtroom, you're in the
operating room, the boardroom. You're
with me wherever I go. Shivisi Hashem
lenegdi
tamid. Tamid. K'Shvach, you're with me
always, consistently. So, the Rama both
begins and ends Orach Chaim with the
same word.
Tamid. Tamid is the very definition of
what it means to be a a Jew. In fact,
the Shaarei Teshuvah quotes a practice
of writing these words, Shivisi Hashem
lenegdi tamid, on a piece of paper and
putting them in your siddur.
Make it the home screen of your
smartphone. Make it the sticker outside
your laptop. Make it the
It's to be what's on our mind all the
time. Hashem, I'm never without you.
I can lean on you, and I can count on
you, and I thank you, and I protest you,
and I feel that your presence at my side
all the time, always and forever. You're
always around me. This notion of the
Talmud that the Ramah both begins and
ends Orach Chaim with, one should always
feel that they're in the presence, that
they have the support, the love of
Hashem, that he's aware of and holds us
accountable for all we do, all the time
and always. That's the way we wake up in
the morning, the way that we greet the
day. Scabber Kahari, we jump up and we
wake up like a lion. We don't just
schlep out of day 17 snoozes, we crawl
on hands and knees to go splash some
water on our face, and we're miserable.
We'd rather get back in bed.
But we Scabber Kahari.
We greet the day like a lion with a
roar. We wake up to greet the day. Every
day is filled with promise and
possibility. Every day is hope and
optimism. Every day is sunshine and
every day is is illumination, is
brightness. We jump up and we greet that
day, so glad, so grateful, so hopeful.
Each and every day, but with a sense of
Shehechiyanu. Yes, I'm going to give
something to Hashem. I'm greeting the
day and I'm going to lie and I'm going
to kill it. What am I going to kill it
in? Business? I'm going to kill it in
gashmius, materialism? I'm going to kill
it in feeling you're by my side, living
with you, talking to you, being grateful
to you. The Ramah ends the same way,
Purim Katan. Next week, we don't always
have it. It's only in a leap year. Purim
Katan,
let us have a little seudah. Why?
Because a happy person is always happy.
Have another seudah. Have a l'chaim.
Why? Doesn't matter, l'chaim. Cuz you're
alive, to life. We're alive, l'chaim. To
life. The Ramah opens and closes the
same way. In his instructions to Ein
Yaakov, a commentary on the aggadic
sections of the Gemara, Rav Yaakov ibn
Chaviv quotes a Midrash. It's a Midrash
nobody's found. It's a Midrash we don't
seem to have extant, which means it's
not even really ever a Midrash, or we
lost the Midrash, but we have a
tradition of this Midrash. And many are
familiar with it. I don't want to
belabor the point, but this does connect
to our parashah. The Midrash had a
debate. There's have been a a conference
and convention. If I was going to take
the time, I would paint a picture of how
they were at the Homowack and they
served Chinese food and all the rabbis
were there for this conference and they
had a big debate and a big question of
what possuk, what verse in the Torah
most accurately, most authentically
captures the essence of what Torah is
about.
What is the bumper sticker? What is the
motto of the Jewish people?
So Ben Zoma says, "Shma Yisrael
What's the motto of the Jewish people?
The uniqueness, the oneness of Hashem."
What is the motto of the Jewish people?
What is the mission statement of the
life of a Jew?
It's Kabbalas Ol Malchus Shamayim. To
recognize that we submit, surrender to
him.
How many people these were the last
words on their lips as they were
martyrs, they gave their lives for being
Jews.
This is how I deal with every parent
puts their child to bed every night.
Let's say Shma. Don't forget to say
Shma. So Ben Zoma says, "What's the
motto? What's the bumper sticker? It's
easy. The mission statement is Shma."
Rebbe Akiva, who himself said Shma when
he was murdered by the Romans, but did
not suggest it was Shma. He claims
there's a more important possuk. Rebbe
Akiva learned this
likely after 24,000 of his own students
died because they
covered
because they did not figure out with all
their Torah learning, with all their
scholarship, with all their strictness,
they did not figure out how to just be
nice to one another. So Rebbe Akiva
says, "You know what the motto and the
mission statement of the Jew is?
V'ahavta l'rei'acha kamocha. Zeh klal
gadol baTorah. Love your neighbor as
yourself. That's it.
Now who's the neighbor? Love Hashem,
love
people and both love.
Be a person who loves. Don't be a person
who fights. There are fighters and there
are lovers. Be a lover, not a fighter.
There are people who love to fight. What
the fight is on any particular day, you
could, you know, find another place, cut
and paste. You could substitute. That
day's fight, they have yet to figure out
what it's going to be. All they know is
there's going to be a fight. There are
people who love to fight. They want to
fight, they look to fight, they love to
fight. They get some
cortisol or adrenaline release from the
fight. They love to fight. So, Rabbi
Akiva sees the students are fighters and
he says, "Stop being fighters, be
lovers. Love everybody."
Love Hashem, love your fellow man, be a
lover. But, then there's a third
opinion. And the third opinion is a
possuk from our parsha, it's Tetzaveh.
And it is
bein ha'arbayim. Offer one sheep in the
morning, offer one sheep in the
afternoon, the carbon tamid. The carbon
tamid was offered. The narrative tamid
we read about in the beginning of the
parsha, we read it one moment, the
opening possuk. And the carbon tamid,
the daily sacrifice, in fact, we fast on
shiv'ah asar b'Tammuz. We fast, we
launch the three weeks. The opening fast
that launches the three weeks of
grieving, of mourning. Shiv'ah asar
b'Tammuz, the five reasons that are
given at the end of meseches Ta'anis.
And one of the reason is buttel carbon
tamid. We had this daily sacrifice and
we offered it. Rain, sleet, snow,
Shabbos, Yom Tov, Yom Kippur, didn't
matter. 365 days a year, the daily
sacrifice was offered every morning and
every afternoon.
You know, I got a taste of this Gemara a
little bit
when two years ago we're approaching the
anniversary
of that fateful day. We sat in my office
and we spoke to the hospital,
the head of the hospital,
and he asked us, he beseeched us, "You
got to close down the shul."
Remember the two weeks we closed in
order to flatten the curve?
Two weeks have become two years. But,
the two weeks to flatten the curve, when
we closed down that shul,
it was a Friday.
And shul that Shabbos was desolate, was
empty.
There was a minyan here every single day
since the opening of shul,
every morning and every evening.
Even during the hurricanes.
When we had hurricanes and we were able,
there wasn't a full 24-hour period there
wasn't a minyan.
They make fun of me
cuz I missed minyan during the
hurricane. Rabbi Klein, zichrono
livracha, Holocaust survivor, who was in
his 80s, found his way to shul in the
middle of the hurricane. Okay, he was
built tougher, clearly.
But, even during the hurricanes we had
minyanim.
So, when we closed the shul down, the
significance of something you're used to
tamid every single day, dependable,
reliable, predictable,
and stops.
Gets closed down. It's shuttered.
It's painful. So, we fast every year
shabbos and tamid because we remember
among the five calamities, among the
five traumatic things we still haven't
collectively recovered from yet,
was batel carbon tamid. You could count
on it. You could set your watch to it
every morning, every evening, the carbon
tamid was offered. Every day, it
superseded shabbos yom tov. You could
have it every single day.
And we were prevented, the Babylonians
in the first churban, they stopped it.
Wow.
So, this is the carbon tamid. So, can
you imagine they have a they have a
vote? It's the homework while the rabbis
are there. They each eat three egg
rolls, bunch of lo mein, and now they
take the vote. And what's the vote? Ben
Zoma says,
most important pasuk is shma. Rabbi
Akiva says, "No, no, no, no. Be a lover,
not a fighter. Ve'ahavta lere'acha
kamocha." And the third opinion says,
"I think the bumper sticker for the
Jewish people, the home screen of every
one of our phones, the bumper sticker on
our car, and on our dashboard, and the
bedroom mirror should all be "Es
kevi'acha chadas b'voker."
Are you kidding me?
Shma, ve'ahavta, I get. Es kevi'acha
chadas b'voker, es kevi'acha shni. So,
they took a vote in the medrash relates,
and the vote concluded that which one is
the motto, the mission statement of the
Jew? Of course, it's the third.
Otherwise, I would not be telling you
this if I didn't like it. Es kevi'acha
chadas b'voker. The carbon tamid, the
daily why? Because you know what the
real mission and motto statement of
motto and mission statement of a Jew is?
Consistency.
Continuity. Reliability. Dependability.
Not a fair-weather fan. Not when it
feels good. Not when it's convenient.
Not when it's comfortable.
Tamid. Consistent. Regular. Dependable.
Reliable.
You can't just be a mensch when you have
a mindset.
You can't just do mitzvahs when you're
home, not when you're on vacation, not
when you're on the road. You don't just
talk to Hashem when you're in the mood,
when you're feeling spiritual, when
you're on a high. Tamid.
So the Ramah both begins and ends his
commentary in Shulchan Aruch the
Halacha, "Shiviti Hashem l'negdi tamid."
Hashem, you're with me always. You're
not only with me when I think you'll be
happy with what I'm watching or saying
or listening to or eating.
You're with me always when I'm choosing
what to watch or listen to or say or how
to fill out my tax return
or what to do with my time or where I go
on my vacation.
And tov l'hodot l'Hashem tamid, Purim
Katan, you're also with me when I choose
to feel simcha.
Happiness is a decision, not an emotion.
Again, we're talking about on Wednesday
mornings. So you're with me tamid,
consistent, constant, reliable,
dependable.
That's who I am. That's how the Ramah
both begins and ends his his commentary.
And that's what we need. That's what we
are and all that's what we are all
about. Vince Lombardi
says the only place success comes before
work
is in the dictionary.
The only place success comes before work
is in the dictionary. You want to
accomplish in life physically,
spiritually,
relationship, in any area of life,
tamid, consistency. All right, so that's
a little Purim Katan and a little
parsha. And now let's dive right into
the parsha more directly with the
opening pasuk, page 464. "V'atah
tetzaveh et Bnei Yisrael v'yikchu
eilecha shemen zayit zach katit l'maor
l'haalot ner tamid."
Command the children of Israel they
should take pure olive oil pressed for
illumination to kindle a lamp
continuously. Tamid. Here we see tamid
again repeated. We also see a definition
of tamid, by the way.
The korban tamid was not offered all day
every day. It was offered the morning
and the evening. And there's a big
machlokes about the ner tamid, the
candelabra. Did it burned continuously
or was it lit daily? But you see that
one definition of Tamid is
daily.
Doesn't necessarily mean all day, but it
means daily. Means whatever you are
meant to do daily, whatever commitment
you made, you show up. You're reliable,
you're dependable, you do it. You don't
break that record. So if you make a
commitment, I'm not going to look at my
phone during davening, you don't want to
break that record. You don't want to
break that streak. If you learn the daf
yomi, 2,711 pages in a row, you don't
want to break that streak. That's the
carbon Tamid. That's the definition of
regularly. Viata, who's Viata? You. You
command Bnei Yisrael, and here's what
you should tell them. Get some olives,
crush them for some olive oil, use it
for the candelabra, for the leichster,
for the menorah in the Mishkan. Who's
you, Viata? And you. Who's the and you?
This is not a trick question. Audience
participation is allowed.
Who's the and you?
Moshe Rabbeinu. So in fact, in fact,
Zayin Adar falls out Parshas Tetzaveh.
By the way, this is why it seems from
Mishna Berurah, it's more appropriate
for the Chevra Kadisha to observe the
first Zayin Adar because it coincides
with Parshas Tetzaveh. And Zayin Adar,
Moshe left the world. Moshe's name
doesn't appear in Parshas Tetzaveh.
Ostensibly, though it's not true,
Moshe's name appears in every parsha
from when we are introduced to him in
Shemot through the end of the Torah.
This is the one parsha it doesn't
appear. Why doesn't it appear here?
Machaneh Efraim Kasha K'seder. Because
next week Moshe will threaten, "God,
erase me from your book." So Hashem
says, "Okay.
Don't bluff
because I will." And he erases him from
the book, and he leaves him out of
Parshas Tetzaveh. Only he doesn't. And
how does he not leave him out of Parshas
Tetzaveh? Where does he appear in
Parshas Tetzaveh?
In the word
Viata, and you.
And the Baal HaTurim Zechuto Yagen
Aleinu
Likutei Sichos explains, we spoke about
this in the past. You can listen to
think last year or two years ago sheer
says in fact
Moshe being referred to as the Atah
pronoun
is an even higher,
deeper, more authentic reflection of who
Moshe is than using his name.
A name limits a person. And you is the
essence.
A name is a description of a person, but
in some ways is a limitation of the
person.
But we rise even above our name. We are
so much more than just our name. Who we
are, our essence. Who we are when no one
is around. The who we are that nobody
sees or knows.
The Kodesh Hakodashim in us.
That we spoke about last week and we
wrote about last week. The Paroches that
separates the Kodesh Hakodashim, the
capacity to still have a private place
in our thoughts.
That the Atah, the and you, is an even
higher, an even holier. We spoke about
it last week. The Baal Haturim points
out that the word Ve'atah is Atah v'lo
acher.
Baal Haturim says Ve'atah, Moshe, you
and nobody else. Atah v'lo shlichacha.
You and not through an agent. You and
not through someone you appoint. You
directly. What was so important about
crushing the olive oil? What was so
important about kindling the menorah
that it had to be Moshe Rabbeinu
directly, Ve'atah, you and not anybody
else?
Didn't Yisro just teach Moshe about
delegating?
Delegating is a key and core
character trait or quality for a
efficient, productive executive. If you
want to be successful, you have to learn
how to delegate. So maybe Moshe will
hear the instruction and delegate. Hey,
you go tell them they need to light the
menorah, crush the olives. Why did it
have to be Moshe specifically?
In Lashon Sivu. The menorah and the
carbon tamid. Shnayim nogim ba'hayom.
V'isha adam chesron kis. L'chaim
l'maspik l'malo al tzarich l'tzavos oso.
So why does it need t'tzaveh, command?
Command is harsh. not request, not
share, not ask, not tell, command. I
command you.
Command you. It's very harsh, very
strong. Why did this require a command
and why did it have to be with directly?
And the answer is because both the
menorah and the carbon tamid have to be
done daily.
And you know what it is, very hard to be
consistent.
It's really hard to be consistent.
We get excited, we get pumped, we get
that high, we get inspired, join the
gym, we start running, we start doing
squats and lunges, we start doing a
plank, we start accepting upon ourselves
not to speak lashon hara between 2:00
and 3:00 a.m., or to say this many to
hell them, or I'm going to start the daf
yomi, the mishnah yomi. Last Shabbos I
attended a beautiful
kudos and accolades to the women of our
community made a siyum on Tanakh. It was
a beautiful kiddush Shabbos morning,
amazing group of women including two
12-year-old girls in our community who
finished Tanakh.
There were many more who started Tanakh.
Many, many more who started Tanakh.
But to get to the finish line of Tanakh,
it's a whole other story. To make it to
the very end,
it's unbelievable.
So tell me, to do something
consistently, continuously, to make it
to the finish line,
Titzaveh requires strong language,
command.
To integrate ourselves. Ram Chal and so
on talks about zrizus. There are two
zrizus. You need a zrizus, you need an
alacrity and enthusiasm to start a
project. That we all know. You hear a
drasha, motivational speaker, you see,
you read, you saw something, it moves
you, it inspires you, that's it. A
project. I'm redoing my home.
I'm starting daf yomi.
Volunteering for chessed.
I'm going to get my health and wellness
in order. Whatever it is, we get
excited. Zrizus at the beginning.
But then there's this proverbial wall
that we run into.
And how do you climb over or through or
around or under that wall? You need a
second burst of zerizus that I'm going
to talk about in this week's parsha.
That quality of when you hit that wall
and most others give up, how do you
persevere? How do you fight through? How
do you keep doing it? And how do you
finish what you started? So, Titzaveh,
these are two things, the menorah and
the carbon tamid, they require tamid.
So, that which requires tamid needs a
little extra mhm
needs a little extra urge, a little
extra encouragement. Moreover, both of
them cost something.
We spoke about this last week.
Got a beautiful donation from somebody
in the New York area
with an email. They chose to remain
anonymous. They said, "I heard this year
parshas Tzumah and I dug deep into my
pocket, even though I had already
allocated all my tzedakah, but
message heard and I made this donation
to Boca Raton Synagogue." So, very
beautiful, very very beautiful. And to
that person, if they're watching, thank
you, deeply appreciated. So, chesron
kiso, when something costs something,
you also need a lashon titzaveh. You
also need a command. You also need
encouragement. You also need urge. So,
you need the two things here. But we
still need to understand that answers
why lashon titzaveh. But why Moshe
himself? Viata, you, not anyone else.
Don't delegate. Don't hand it off. You
and not through an agent, not anyone
else. Why?
So, the sefer of the Sifsei Chaim,
beautiful sefer we've been going
through,
which is the collection of baalei mussar
on the parsha,
he quotes here and says the following.
He says, "Moshe Rabbeinu was an enormous
role model in this area. It took a Moshe
Rabbeinu asking and encouraging them to
do it because he had done it themselves
and they all saw it." When did Moshe
When did he show a selfless mesirus
nefesh, a willingness to forego
financial gain to serve Hashem?
When? Where? Where did we see it?
Parshas Beshalach. Who said that?
Shkoyach. Parshas Beshalach.
They crossed the sea. The sea
miraculously closes on the Egyptian
chariots that are
laden with gold and silver. They're
ornate with all kinds of jewels. They
wash up onto the bank of the sea, and
every Jew is stuffing everything they
can into their pockets. We spoke about
this Parshas Beshalach. In Mitzrayim,
they hesitated, they didn't want to
take. Now, they can't get enough. What
happened between? We spoke about that
Parshas Beshalach. So, everyone's
stuffing their pockets. Everyone's
collecting in their arms as much as they
can. They needed to be pulled from the
edge of the sea. They just wanted more
and more and more. Security, financial
stability, wealth, after 210 years of
slavery.
Moshe Rabbeinu, he's not collecting one
thing for himself. You know what he's
busy collecting?
Atzmos Yosef. The bones of Yosef. He's
fulfilling a promise that had been made
years before. He is carrying not only
the atzmos, the bones of Yosef, he's
carrying the atz- mos Yosef, the essence
of Yosef. And the essence of Yosef is,
in a moment of temptation, desire, and
lust,
to overcome.
Yosef had proved that and put it in us.
That is the atzmos, the essence of
Yosef. And Moshe Rabbeinu chooses to
carry the atzmos Yosef, the essence of
Yosef, the perseverance and the tenacity
to overcome temptation, desire, to do
what's right. That's what he's carrying,
rather than the wealth, rather than the
gold. So, we see from here, the common
denominator
From here, there's an incredible lesson
for all educators, for anyone who wants
to have influence over others.
You can't just lecture and give lip
service. You can't just dictate and
tell. You have to practice.
You have to be a living example.
What we say has to match what we do.
Ralph Waldo Emerson,
"I can't hear what you're saying because
your actions are speaking so loudly."
Our actions have to reinforce what we
say or what we say rather has to
reinforce what we do. So, Moshe Rabbeinu
had proven he had lived this and now the
taught it says that when he says, "It's
going to cost you. It's not going to be
easy. You're going to have to be
consistent. You're going to have to find
the tenacity and the resilience." Moshe
was in the position to be able to tell
them and to lecture them because he had
also lived it.
The Hashem and Zayis Zach, you have to
take to yourself
Shemen Zayis Zach.
I saw the Imrei Chaim
the Imrei Chaim the Vizhnitzer says
"Titzaveh Lashon Tzavus means to
connect, Kesher, a bond." The Hashem is
telling Moshe here something. You
Titzaveh bond, connect as Bnei Yisrael
connect with the Jewish people. How?
Yikchu Lecha, draw them close to you.
You Moshe Rabbeinu are up here.
You Moshe Rabbeinu, you're Moshe
Rabbeinu.
The greatest human being that ever
lived. It's one of the 13 principles of
faith to believe that Moshe is
categorically different than all others.
So, you Moshe, you're up here.
But you know how you get close to the
people? The Yikchu Lecha.
Come down to them.
Be close to them. Be connected with
them. The Yikchu Lecha, bond with them.
Titzaveh Lashon Titzavus. The Yikchu
Lecha Shemen Zayis Zach, pure olive oil
Kasis Lamor or that has to be crushed
for the purpose of illuminating you're
going to use it in the in the Mishkan.
The Medrash Rabbah tells us
Zayis Ra'anan Yafah Pri To'ar Karas Shem
Shem Chaim Ki Lo Nikra Yisrael Ela
Kezayis
Hazeh Bilvad. The Jewish people are
likened to this olive.
Jewish people are likened to the olive.
Mah Zayis Hazeh Atzilo Be'ilano Bigargo
Mesulo
Acharkach Moridino
Shemeino.
olive
takes a beating.
The way the olive first grows on the
tree, and then the way it's harvested
and plucked, and then you smash it and
smoosh it, and then you put it into the
press, and then you put an enormous
stone, you roll it over it, you press
it, you smoosh it, you kick it, you beat
it, and only then do you get the
delicious, the beautiful olive oil that
flows.
The nations of the world, the
anti-Semites, they mash them, they
come, they crush, they beat, they step
on,
and then we, the Jewish people, we
repent from having been stepped on and
smooshed and creamed and squeezed, then
we do teshuvah, and we say,
"That's not who we want to be. We have
to live better, earn more, earn more
merit, not earn more profit."
And God answers,
So, the question because the Mashgiach
of the Ponevezh wonders, "I don't
understand. We started out and it
sounded like Hashem loves us, and we're
like the olive that we're beautiful and
radiant in the tree, and then we get
squeezed and squashed, and but a
beautiful olive oil comes out. It sounds
like what is worth more?
I don't know if that's the gardener or a
blender or what's going on back there.
But anyone can feel free to ask them to
zoom at 10:30. Thank you.
Someone's going to thank you. Deeply
appreciate. So, which is worth more? You
go to the store, what costs more? Olive
oil, pure olive oil, or olives?
Olive oil. Olive oil is worth more. Pure
olive oil.
We use olive oil in cooking, olive oil
is used in skin care, olive oil is used
in written fragrance, olive oil is used
in all kinds of important things.
So, it sounds like the Mashgiach was
telling us that when you squeeze and
crush and step on and smoosh, the olive
oil that comes out is more precious and
more valuable. So, too, with the Jewish
people. Those anti-Semites, they're
trying to exterminate and destroy us,
but you know what happens? You become
better, stronger, more resilient, more
focused, more faithful. It comes out as
even stronger. But then the measure ends
by saying, "So to the Jewish people who
do chuva and realize that they're lowly,
crushed, good-for-nothing." And then
they do chuva and they're worth proven
worthy and now they're like olive oil.
So, what happened?
What happened?
So, he says he's throwing them shmuel
zaisel mednu
to teach us.
To teach us
shakasham shazaisel marosha pirosa
naimem shibacham ushmen meshubach on
them zalam magiya bekalos. It's a lot a
lot of lessons that we learn out of the
olive in the comparison to the Jew.
Number one is you do not get the olive
oil out of the olive easily.
You want some lemon juice on your fish?
You squeeze the lemon and you got lemon
juice on your fish. You want some orange
juice? Give a shika squeeze to the
orange, you have some orange juice.
You want an olive oil?
You don't squeeze the olive.
Anyone make their own olive oil at home?
People make orange juice.
Like grapefruit juice, like lemon juice.
But olive oil?
You got to squeeze and crush and step on
and press. Takes a lot of work. No
magiya because it doesn't come easily.
The dress is again to assume as much as
we can assume on kaki stroll and begin
the malas to mush shakash barak shish
madrak kala. So, too we don't realize
and recognize the incredible potential
and power, the potency we have within
ourselves without being pressed without
being pushed.
This is the idea of a nissan we spoke
about this many times before as well.
That I from a vino and all of our others
underwent nissanus. They underwent
tests.
Because through a test, we bring out, we
take it from the potential into the
real. It's only when we're pressed
against the wall that we're forced to
realize within ourselves
possibility we never knew.
Many in this room, many we all know have
gone through very very hard times.
We wonder, we ask, and we wish it didn't
happen at all. That is true.
And all of that is true.
But afterwards, we realize and discover
things about ourselves
that if we're honest, we admit we never
ever would have discovered or realized
had we not been put through that
situation to begin with.
Still doesn't necessarily mean we're
grateful for it, we want it or wish it,
but we grew and we realized in ways we
never otherwise would have.
So, when we go through those hardships
and those difficult times, we have to
look for and extract and capture
and then
advance whatever it is that we learned.
Moreover,
moreover,
another connection.
This is brought by Reb Baruch Sorotzkin,
the Rosh Yeshiva tells.
He says,
uh
Sakh Lavin,
Ma dimyon ben Shemen l'Yisrael? Why are
the Jewish people likened to oil?
Hashem likavod tishrei v'tish'in
y'cholas l'sarev mashkin.
You know, oil can't mix with any other
liquid.
Oil always stays separate.
Mashken can be srov umos um nishpakach
iser.
Ma dimyon l'shemen? So, Reb Baruch
Sorotzkin says, advam k'pshutam, Yisrael
may atzam tiv'am einam y'cholas l'sarev
b'goyim.
Sh'keinain b'nuyam m'tzius ruchniyus
einam n'yusl'i nibasav it. V'gam ilu
sh'chalila ad v'einam izdakim zeh v'zeh,
rak nish'arim b'olam nifradim.
What was his question? His question was,
you can shake up the salad dressing,
but when you set it down and it rests,
the olive oil is always going to
separate from the water.
It's nature, science.
We believe in science. In science, the
olive oil is always going to separate
from the other liquid. So, why are the
Jewish people compared to olive oil?
It's over 70% intermarriage rate.
Rachmana l'tzlan,
outside the Orthodox today, it's over
sev- more than seven out of 10 Jews are
not going to marry a Jew.
How can you say we don't mix?
We have an issue not to mix, but there
is a mixture.
So,
the tells says, it's as inherent, it
should be as natural within the Jew to
stay separate and to realize that we
have a different responsibility and
we're here for a different mission. It
should be as natural. It should be as
scientific. It should be as built into
the briah as olive and and water as oil
and water not mixing.
He doesn't mention this, but this is
what we say in Havdalah every Motzei
Shabbos. Ben Yisrael Amen.
On the one hand, we participate and we
contribute to, we take from a society
around us.
We've said it countless times. Avraham
Avinu Ger V'Toshav Anochi Imachem. We're
a Ger, we're a stranger and a Toshav at
the same time, simultaneously. But
really in our essence and our core, when
we say Havdalah every Motzei Shabbos, we
come out of Shabbos and we remind
ourselves here are the core principles,
here are the core values.
A Jew needs to distinguish between holy
and profane.
A Jew needs to distinguish between
Shabbos and the rest of the days of the
week. And a Jew needs to distinguish
between the Jewish people and the rest
of the world.
That even while we contribute to and
take from, but we have to remember we're
different. And our differences are not
superimposed upon us. Our differences
are natural. They're built into the
briah. They're programmed and they are
and they are real. Okay. What is the
purpose of the bigdei kehunah? So, we go
from here.
I'll just pose a question you can think
about and come back to another time that
this section that began about squeezing
the olives, the olive oil, the
candelabra doesn't belong here.
Doesn't belong here. Where does it
belong? Parshas Tetzaveh.
Here we're hearing about the
materials and the designs for the
utensils last week's parsha for the
bigdei kehunah this week's parsha. What
is this doing here? Doesn't belong. The
whole first two Sukhim of our parsha do
not belong here.
Why were they put here between Trumah
and the beginning of Tetzaveh? Why are
they here? They don't belong here. What
makes much more sense is should start at
from Pasuk Aleph.
And you even see that in the break of
the Prakim. Really, the parsha should
begin perek of ches, pasuk aleph. The
attack
and now bring yourself out on your
brother with his sons and from among the
children bring them close to me. Aaron
bring Aaron and his sons and then we
again list Aaron and then we list his
sons.
Nadav and Avihu, Elazar and Itamar, Bnei
Aaron, the sons of Aaron.
If I've ever seen redundancy, it's here.
Moshe is told bring Aaron your brother
and his sons close.
Who are they? Aaron, Nadav and Avihu,
Elazar and Itamar, who are the sons of
your brother Aaron.
This pasuk makes no sense. Does it
bother any of you? You don't look like
it bothers you. Come on, show me a face
like it bothers you.
So we're not going to give an answer,
but I want you to think about that. Why
the redundancy? Why do we repeat? Why is
the pasuk structured in that
very bizarre way? But why is Moshe
supposed to bring them close? Vi'asisa
bigdei kodesh l'Aharon achicha. It's
time to make clothing for your brother.
L'chavod
u'ltif'eres. And what is the purpose of
this clothing? Purpose of the clothing
is l'chavod u'ltif'eres. L'chavod
u'ltif'eres. So we'll go from one tells
her to another. We quote Rav Sorotzkin
and now we go to the Meged Yosef. Now we
go to Rav Yosef Yehuda Leib Sorotzkin in
his Meged Yosef. And he says the
following. Not only is there a question
of what does it mean that the clothing
is l'chavod u'ltif'eres? What does it
mean that the clothing, the purpose of
the clothing is for wisdom and splendor,
for glory and splendor, but moreover,
fast forward. Go to pasuk gimmel. Now
the pasuk says
Yehi adas
b'leiv. tailors and seamstresses
and what's the
they're going to make the clothing that
I just told you about. And a moment ago
I told you that the purpose of the
clothing is what?
It's a good brand. Someone should make
the brand.
Brand of clothing, cover all the
Sephardis.
And now he says, "But what's the
purpose?" "To cut all of it."
To sanctify and to serve me. So which is
it? Wonders the Megid Yosef.
Is the purpose of the big day
the purpose of the priestly garments are
they the Sephardis? Are they for glory
and splendor? Or are they for the cut
all of it? To sanctify and to serve me.
Which is it?
But yet the may live and stuff she also
cut all of it.
So he says he goes to the Zohar.
The Zohar says
can be cut all of it.
Who should be
it tells the tailor you think you're the
only one operating the sewing machine?
You think you're the one making the
clothing? I'm writing it with you. I'm
your partner.
I'm your partner. And the master in the
Zohar total of the Zohar.
It means that
the
master of the Zohar totally of the Zohar
the
master of the Zohar is the cut all of
it.
You the producers the manufacturers of
this
holy and sacred clothing, you need to
know while you're doing it that you're
doing it to advance and serve a holy
purpose. The master of the Zohar master
of the Zohar master of the Zohar.
We're physical beings and we value the
aesthetic. We see the beauty and we
appreciate beauty. We appreciate beauty.
We appreciate quality.
The Zohar
the Zohar the Zohar. We talk the Zohar
the Zohar the Zohar
the Zohar the Zohar.
There's nothing wrong with appreciating
the aesthetic. We appreciate beauty. It
has value. There's godliness in beauty.
It's one of the wisdoms is aesthetic
beauty.
That's why Zekel V'naki beautify God.
Why does it matter that my esrog is
beautiful? Why does it matter that my
filling my safer Torah that I light my
candles on a beautiful candelabra? Why
does all that matter? Cuz we appreciate.
The king had to get a haircut daily. The
kohen gadol had to dress in fine
clothing that is majestic, it's royal.
Why? Bless you. Because people
appreciate when they see, they honor,
they understand. It's godly, it's royal,
it's majestic.
And
this is what This is the answer to the
question. Says the Megaleh Amukos,
So when it comes to the people wearing
it,
when it comes to the people wearing it,
they have to know I stand for God, the
kohen gadol, in a position of
leadership. I represent God, I represent
Hashem, I represent his wisdom. And one
of the ways to bring people closer to
them to see and admire and appreciate
the aesthetic and the beauty.
However, to the people who are
manufacturing it, to the people who are
making and producing the garment that
will later be worn in order to represent
and elevate, they have to be focused the
kavod, the kedusha.
And to have other machshavos people
have some extraneous thought, "Ooh, I'm
the one making the clothing of the big
of the
kohen gadol.
Ooh, isn't it beautiful and majestic?
Isn't it valuable and priceless?" No,
the kavod v'l'chvod Hashem only. When we
manufacture, when we do it, it has to be
for the purpose of the kavod v'l'chvod
Hashem only. And then when we use it, it
has to be the kavod v'l'sifarah. And
this insight of the Megaleh Amukos I
would apply not just to the difference
in the way the bigdei kehuna are
depicted, but you can extend it beyond.
When you go by that beautiful majestic
kiddush cup, couple years ago I bought
myself a new beautiful kiddush cup. I'm
very into Shabbos, if you don't know.
And the Shabbos table, they're beautiful
beautiful items. The whole Shabbos table
is elevated. And I'm not saying be
ostentatious, and I'm not saying show
off, and I'm certainly not saying
buy beyond your means and go into debt
with what you can't afford. There's a
beauty to simplicity also. There's a
beauty to that which is ornate and
beautiful, that which is shiny,
that which is valuable. Shows what we
value. We elevate, we transform. So,
when you go buy that kiddush cup, it has
to be the culture of Ali. I'm going to
buy it not to show off. I'm going to buy
it not to flex. I'm going to buy it not
to
be ostentatious. But when I lift that
kiddush cup to make kiddush
out of a beautiful beautiful kiddush cup
which is so heavy I can barely lift it
in my hand,
that's the cover of the forest. Shh. You
want to be beautiful, look at how
majestic, look at how amazing Shabbos.
Shabbos is what's amazing. And whether I
have a packed full table, whether I'm
home all alone, I still use that same
kiddush cup because it's the cover of
the forest.
I'm turning and transforming that
material into that which is holy for
you. The cover of the forest. So, I
thought this was a brilliant insight of
why the difference are the big day
Kahuna. Are they
the cover of the forest or are they the
culture of Ali? It depends. One is
addressing the Kahuna who would wear it,
and the other is addressing
those who would manufacture and produce
it. Okay. But Reuven Feinstein I also
got in the mail my good friend Lenny
Friedman sent me the latest of Reuven
Feinstein
the Ohr Shalom, his commentary on the
parsha on safer Shmos. He sent me
Vayikra also, so
you rest assured. I don't want anyone to
worry. As we're finishing up safer
Shmos, he says the big day Kahuna
of the cover of the forest he quotes,
"Torah says big day Kahuna which sons of
Aaron the Kohain would wear must be the
cover of the garments of glory and
splendor. The Rosh Yeshiva said he comes
with bracha. I assume when Rav Reuven
Feinstein refers to the Rosh Yeshiva
he's talking about his father of Moshe.
He didn't say my father of Moshe, Avi
Mori, the Rosh Yeshiva. Asked if you
think about it, the four garments
mentioned here, the pants, the tunics,
the sashes, and the turbans, that Hashem
said should be made the cover of the
garments are four basic garments a
person always wears.
These are not extra things. This is not
a description of the additional layers
that we don't normally wear.
So, why if these are basic garments that
people often or always wear, in what
ways are ordinary clothing the shame of
the garments?
According to the clothing was also
functioning to protect the kohen from
being naked. Not only the cover of the
garments. Now, it's
men who wore pants here today, why are
you wearing pants?
Why are you wearing pants? Everybody
knows it's a horrific nightmare to wake
up and
you had a nightmare that you were in a
public place and you forgot to put your
pants on.
Would you say I'm wearing my pants the
cover of the garments?
Do you know these are Lululemon pants?
These are
You know what I spent on these pants?
Special pants, custom-made pants the
cover of the garments. I'm wearing pants
cuz it's a busha to be seen in public
without pants. It happens to be that a
lot of society today didn't get that
memo.
Happens to be.
They never got the memo that it's a
nightmare to be naked in public. For
many they think it's a dream, not a
nightmare, but it's a nightmare.
It's a nightmare to be naked in public.
We should still should still be a
nightmare. I give us all a bracha for
ourselves and our children. It should
remain a nightmare.
So, what do you mean the clothing is the
shame of the garments? The cover of the
garments?
The clothing is so it's not a busha that
I'm naked.
As I said earlier to Moshe, this was the
question that the Rosh Yeshiva asked.
So, the answer he gave was that we need
to understand the whole idea behind
clothing.
Before the sin of eating the fruit of
knowledge, Adam and Eve could walk
around unclothed without feeling any
shame whatsoever.
The notion of being unclothed in public
and not noticing or feeling that's a
dream,
that is a
reserve for the period of the of the of
the Gan Eden.
When we were first created and the
yetzer hara was not intrinsic, the
yetzer hara was not internal, the yetzer
hara was manifest in the nachash, in the
snake, external, was a voice outside
ourselves, but we were pure and all we
had was the yetzer hatov and we were
destined to have immortality, to live
forever.
So, a person didn't notice they were
naked because nakedness and the
temptation that comes with it are all
part of the yetzer hara.
Freud argued and he wasn't wrong that it
is the most
the strongest, the most fundamental
yetzer hara that man struggles with
is the yetzer hara for
licentiousness, for promiscuity, for
this area of life, which is where
awareness of nakedness or unawareness of
it comes from.
They were perfect in every way and their
behavior was as well, so they had
nothing to hide and no reason to feel
shame. On that level, appearing
unclothed is not embarrassing, doesn't
call attention to anything negative.
When doing the avodah, a cohen must
ideally be on the level of Adam Harishon
kodem achit. He should be so elevated
and pure at that moment he could come
before Hashem even if he were not
wearing any clothing at all. His entire
physical body, his makom amila would be
viewed only leshem shamayim, perfect and
flawless, immortal. If a cohen would be
on this level, regular items of clothing
that Hashem commands him to wear are
unnecessary to prevent embarrassment.
The only reason to wear them is why?
The kavod leshem shamayim.
Therefore, therefore, it it is only
shame born of using our bodies the wrong
way that creates the need for clothing.
Now, the yetzer hara becomes part of us,
a great potential exists for us to sin.
To appear naked is to expose us to the
embarrassment of this potential
corruption. We were thus embarrassed to
be in this state, forcing us to walk
around clothing clothed. So, in other
words,
in Gan Eden, by the way, right after in
Gan Eden, right after the sin, the hate,
they eat of the us. The Lord says, "What
did you do?"
All of a sudden, what's their first
reaction?
Adam and Eve turn to one another. What
do they say?
They say, "Did you feel that breeze?"
Something feel a little off?
And the
clothes them it's a great act of
kindness.
Why were they not They weren't aware of
their nakedness before? Only now do they
feel shame and modesty and cover up.
What happened? The answer is the was
external and all became internal. So,
it's a beautiful insight he quotes from
his father.
So, Reb Moshe,
the clothing that we ordinarily wear and
that we wear to cover our nakedness, not
because of the forest. Why is it called
cover the forest?
Because the idea is that the God
the serving in the bush the should be on
the level of
the forest.
The are supposed to be back to that
point of no sorrow.
They are supposed to be living in that
highest plane.
So, they have no need to wear clothing
for anything other than
the cover of the forest. The celebration
goes on inside here on these words.
So, the
king of the forest the cover of the
forest
He says, "People appointed by the public
such as government officials have always
worn uniforms.
The post office people wear a uniform,
the police wear a uniform, the army
wears a uniform, uniforms. Uniform
indicates that one wearing it holds an
office is endowed with authority. Even
an absolute monarch wears a uniform to
distinguish himself from the ordinary
citizen. Leadership and distinction
express themselves in distinctive
garments. The dignity of man lies in his
or her dress. Dignity, unlike other any
other capability, must be planted into a
person. If dignity is not part of his
educational process, he will never
possess it. Dignity does not come on its
own.
In a king or ruler, personal
capabilities or lack of them often go
unnoticed. But lack of dignity is
noticed. And a ruler that exhibits it is
punished that
is punished by the people.
Clothing is an expression not of the
intellect, but of the dignity of man.
And uniforms imply that those donning
them are specially selected by the
people and are given certain privileges
that others do not receive. There's a
special aspect of humility that's
indispensable to positions of power.
One's authority comes not from within,
but from without. Hashem wanted the
Kohan Gadol to realize that he was
undeserving of his position. When he
wore his uniform, the Kohan Gadol
recognized that he filled his role not
due to his own merit, which were
insufficient for anyone to assume such a
high office. The same was true of a
king. Without donning his royal
garments, he would not have the
authority to act as a king. Mosha, on
the other hand, required no special
vestments in his position of leadership.
His greatness was earned and not
bestowed. So, very, very interesting
insight the Rav says that when we wear
clothing, we're wearing a uniform. And
the purpose of a uniform, first of all,
is to identify.
Everyone wears a uniform.
When we lived here many moons ago
in Captiva, for the home we're in now,
we had a neighbor across the street who
no longer lived there,
who uh
the Jewish, not observant, and very
eccentric.
Had crazy tattoos and piercings and
holes and all kinds of
and often preached, we'd talk, we
interacted and schmoozed about
individual expression, not conforming,
not needing to belong, being independent
in her thinking, in her dress, in her
everything. Until one day she had a
party.
And I noticed that everybody who came
over was also so independent that they
all had the tattoos, the piercings, the
whole
So, they were wearing a uniform, and the
uniform was independence
and anti-establishment, and everyone
wears a uniform. Everyone wears a
uniform.
Question is, which one of uniform you
wear? So, the uniform reflects who we
with whom we want to identify.
With whom we want to identify.
Clothing do make the man.
In many ways, the clothing does make the
person.
And you'll say, "Well, don't judge a
book by the cover and just because I
dress that way, why should you assume I
am that person?"
The answer is, if you don't want to be
assumed that way, then don't dress that
way.
We identify with Now, they say dress for
the job you want, not the job you have.
Dress for the job that you want, not the
job that you have.
Who do you want to be and how do you
want to be perceived by others?
So, on the one hand, the uniform is a
point of identity. But Rav Soloveitchik
is saying so brilliantly the uniform
also has another purpose. The other
purpose of the uniform is
that we show, the uniform of power at
least, that we show that the power is
external, it's bestowed, it is a
responsibility. It's not internal, it's
not intrinsic, it's not necessarily
earned. So, by putting on the uniform,
you're essentially putting on the power.
When you take off the uniform or you
lose the uniform, you have lost that
power. It was never yours altogether, it
was bestowed upon you. It is borrowed,
but never fully but never fully owned.
Okay, moving right along. The choshen
and the ephod.
All right, this is where we begin to
triage.
10:25. We have to enter the triage stage
of our shiur. The choshen and the ephod.
But I don't want to triage.
But I have to triage.
Ela began the choshen and the ephod to
make
These are the vestments you make, the
breastplate, the ephod, the robe, the
tunic of box like knit, turban, sash.
One of them is the choshen and the
ephod.
And the ephod. This is what you have to
make a breastplate and an ephod. What is
the ephod?
Zocher Rashi, what is the ephod?
What does Rashi say? How does he define
the ephod?
I lost the place.
I felt that I never
I never found it described or elucidated
exactly what it looks like. The libi
omerli
But my heart tells me, says Rashi,
shulcha gola me'acharav, that this is
the way it's tied, this is what it looks
like, and here's an example, those who
ride horses, they wear it. Libi omerli.
Am I allowed a libi omerli that I don't
want to keep Yom Kippur this year?
Libi omerli that I don't have to fast on
Tisha B'Av this year?
Libi omerli that I could have the
cheeseburger?
What is Rashi's libi omerli? I don't
know, it doesn't say it anywhere. I
don't know exactly what it means, but
libi omerli, my heart tells me that this
is what it means. What do you mean my
heart tells me that this is what it
means?
What do you mean my heart tells me that
this is what it means? So, the answer is
What does it mean libi omerli?
Libi omerli, as Rav Soloveitchik says,
means
that
when you have an intimate relationship
with another,
when you have an incredible closeness
with another, when you are two halves
who have become a whole, and your heart
beats together with another,
you can finish their sentence.
And even when they're not around and
someone says, "I wonder what they want.
I wonder what they would say. I wonder
what they would think."
You say, "Oh, nobody knows them like I
know them.
We're two halves of a whole.
We think alike. We feel alike. Our heart
beats as one, and I can finish that
sentence. I can tell you what they
want."
When a person has earned that their
heart beats with Torah and with Hashem,
then you qualify as libi omerli.
There's a Torah intuition to know the
ratzon Hashem.
Rav Soloveitchik gave a hesped for his
uncle, for the Brisker Rav,
and he talked about the two
relationships you can have with Torah.
You can have erusin and nisuin. You can
be engaged to Torah, and you can be
married to Torah.
Now, the engaged couple,
depends what community you're from.
Some community, the engaged couple knows
the other party fairly well. In some
community, you're lucky if they still
remember how to spell the other person's
name.
But there's a big difference between how
well you know the person,
how much you could finish their sentence
when you're engaged versus when you're
married.
And there's an enormous difference. It's
always so cute under the huppah. I do a
lot of weddings. The hassan and kallah,
they think they're in love under the
huppah. It's so adorable that they think
that they're in love.
So adorable that they think that they
know what love is. They think they know
who they who they are.
You don't know what love is until you've
been through challenge and success, till
you've celebrated, till you've mourned,
till you've fought and had to reconcile
and work it out, till you've navigated
and compromised, till you've lived, you
don't know what love is.
But then you can finish the other
person's sentence. In a healthy
relationship, in a beautiful and
functional marriage, you can finish the
other person's sentence.
So the Rav developed this idea that
there are those
they're barely dating Torah.
There are those who never met Torah.
There are those who even engaged to
Torah.
But there are very few who are married
to Torah.
And he said his uncle was married to
Torah.
His uncle had an intuition and an
instinct. When his uncle spoke about
this is the ratzon Hashem, he spoke with
authority.
And you can't begin to compare
someone who has a casual relationship
with Torah who says, "I think this is
the the truth." with somebody who lives
and sleeps and breathes 24/7 Torah. You
can't begin to compare somebody who's
married to Torah, somebody who lives
Torah.
So that whole notion of libi omreli, and
who's qualified to say libi omreli, "My
heart tells me."
We live in a generation. This is true in
secular topics,
and all the more so it's true and
dangerous in the world of Torah. You
know, you Google and somebody had an
internet connection internet connection
and a keyboard, so they wrote an
article, "This is my opinion."
Or this is the halachic conclusion.
And someone else finds that article and
says, "Oh, I follow this halacha." Who's
that person? I don't know anything. Are
they qualified, competent? I have no
idea. Is it peer reviewed, so to say? No
clue. Did you ever hear of I don't know
who they are, where they are, I know
nothing, but it says it on the internet,
it must be true.
Who qualifies as libi omerli? Who are
our gedolei Yisrael? Who are our
rabanim? Who are our poskim? Who are
those who are married to Torah? They're
not just engaged to Torah, they're not
just dating Torah, they didn't just hear
once about Torah, but they're married
and they breathe and they live Torah.
Who are the libi omerli? Who are the
libi omerli? Rebbe Nachman
Rebbe Nachman says "V'nasa Aharon es
shmos bnei Yisrael b'choshen hamishpat."
Skip the pasuk of "fast." The same
choshen that we just spoke about. So,
Rebbe Nachman says
page 470
Aharon puts on the names of the Jewish
people on his breastplate and he wears
it on his heart when he goes into the
kodesh.
He wears it on his heart, the names of
the Jewish people when he goes into the
kodesh. Rebbe Nachman Likutei Moharan
he writes the reason that people are
distant from Hashem, they're down and
out, they feel
helpless and hopeless
is because they're disconnected from
Hashem. When a person feels that they're
a creature of they're a a consequence of
nature
when a person feels it's all to them,
they can feel sad, despondent, down and
out.
Lo shamah moshe mikotzei ummah me'al
ha'aretz kasha. So, the way to get close
again is to feel a connection to Hashem.
Is to feel happiness and joy, to know
that everything's for a reason,
everything's for a purpose, there's
meaning and order to the universe. Mai
ya'aseh hayehudi shemagish ein lo Torah,
ein lo tefillah? What should a Jew do
who feels I don't have Torah, I don't
have tefillah, I don't have anything?
Who am I? What merits do I have? What
hope do I have? What future do I have?
Do you know how far I've fallen? And
that's why I feel so down and out and I
can't feel any happiness and joy.
Such a person who's struggling with this
so that Jew needs to know
don't ever forget where you come from.
You're a Jew.
Don't ever forget you come from. You're
a prince, you're a princess, you're
royalty. You're a child of Hashem. And
that's what Aharon would wear. He wore
on his breastplate the names of the
Jewish people. He wore the Jewish people
on his heart.
That even no matter where you go, the
guiding light, the compass that guides
you. Baruch Hashem Belibo.
Aaron
Aaron wasn't jealous of his brother
Moshe.
He was happy for Moshe, even though
Moshe was younger than he. And Moshe
wasn't jealous of Aaron that he got to
be the Kohan Gadol, even though he
wanted that position. He was happy for
Aaron that he got to get it.
And that's where we find happiness is
when we can be happy for one another,
and we can ride the coattails of one
another, and we can see the success of
one another. Then no matter what we're
going through, no matter how we feel, it
can lift us, and it can enrich us, and
it can propel us. Okay, let's just
finish with one last idea.
One last idea. Olam Moed.
One last idea.
Even though we had so many more ideas.
One last idea.
Parshat Tetzaveh
Turn the page.
Turn two pages. 474. Last idea, stay
with us.
If you're watching online or listening
later, I know we're at the end, but stay
with us one more. Parshat Tetzaveh.
We'll make it worth your while. I'm
sorry, Parshat Tetzaveh. Keep going.
It's on page
480. Page 480.
Olas Tamid
and we spoke about the Tamid,
consistency, constancy, Parshat Korach,
the Ramah,
the the most important pasuk, Olas Tamid
Korach. Pasuk A continual elevation
offering
for your generations. Pesach before
Hashem. You bring it to the entrance of
the Olam Moed before Hashem. Why?
Why there?
Asher Eid Shamah.
Where
I shall set my meeting with you to speak
to you there.
What's the root of the word Eid
The same root as the word moed.
Moed, every holiday, moed, moed, moed. A
moed is an appointed time.
We can have a rendezvous place and a
rendezvous in time. And every moed is a
rendezvous in time. It's a moed. As I
said,
I have appointed there to speak to you
from there.
I have appointed there to speak to you
from there.
What happened to Uncle Moishie?
What do I mean, what happened to Uncle
Moishie? Who knows what I mean?
Thank you. Baruch atah Adonai Eloheinu
Melech ha'olam shehakol nihyeh bidvaro.
Hashem is here, Hashem is there, Hashem
is everywhere.
Hashem says, "No, only there." I made a
place for us, that's where we meet.
That's where we connect, that's where we
talk, that's where we go, that's where
we are. What do you mean, only there?
Orach Chaim Hakadosh asked that
question. Frankly, Orach Chaim Hakadosh,
eizen achitos yesh lanu dasha kaim makom
kavu'a min emunim davar kadosh baruch
hu.
Why is that relevant?
Why are we being told this here in our
parsha? That we built it all
and made it functional and Hashem said,
"Good, let's meet in our usual meeting
place cuz that's where I talk to you
from."
So, Shmuel Birnbaum, that's our Rosh
Yeshiva of the Mir in Brooklyn,
explained that this is a raya, this is a
makor for makom kavu'a.
You have to know that if you want to
connect with God, it can't be haphazard.
It's not casual and you don't stumble
upon it, it's not by chance. It can't be
an attitude that we have that right now
I'm convenient and comfortable and where
I want when I want. There's the notion
of a makom meyuchad, of a makom kavu'a.
The preparation, designating, elevating,
of having a special place, of having a
special place. When we have a special
place, when we create rituals and
ceremonies around special places,
then we change our attitude and
atmosphere to what we do there.
The bedroom should have certain rules
and regulations. And the dining room
table should have rules and regulations.
And having a makom kavua, so that when
we enter that space, it's like a uniform
is for our body, what the space is for
our soul. It changes our attitude, our
perspective, our demeanor, and what
we're able to achieve and accomplish
there. So, Hashem says you're not going
to trip upon talking to me. Yes, Hashem
is here, Hashem is there, Hashem is
everywhere. Yes, we do hisbodedus in the
middle of the forest, and we do
hisbodedus by the lake, and we do
hisbodedus. Yes, it's all true. But if
you want to achieve holiness and
sanctity, you have to designate, and you
have to make special, and you have to
have a seriousness to it, order and
preparation to it. It has to be
something which is a a makom kavua. And
we see this in halacha, the Gemara
Berachot daf vov tells us we have to be
kovea makom l'tefillaso, following
Avraham Avinu, we designate a place to
daven. So, what is he talking about
kovea makom l'tefillaso? So, the Rosh
Berachot writes,
kovea makom l'tefillaso means a makom
kavua in shul.
Ma is he? Ma is he?
Now is not the time. What are the
halachot? What governs and regulates
makom kavua? Can you kick someone else
out of the seat? Does the seat mean that
seat or any four amos around that seat?
You draw a circle six feet.
And anywhere six feet within that seat,
that's still part of your seat?
How long are you entitled to your makom
kavua?
If you're late to shul, minyan starts at
9:00, you get there at 9:22. You're
still entitled to your makom kavua?
But all else being equal, and a seat is
available to you, having a general area
where that's my area. When I get into
that space, I'm in my cockpit. I'm in my
space. I'm in the central location.
That's where it all happens. That's
where I make it happen. So, the Rosh
says makom kavua. But what I want to
share with you that was very relevant to
me, beginning of Corona in particular,
is Rabbeinu Yonah. Rabbeinu Yonah, in
his commentary in the back of the Gemara
Berachot, says, makom kavua doesn't mean
in shul. The whole shul is a makom kavua
for tfila.
The whole shul is a place to daven. So,
it's okay. Shacharit sit in the front,
Mincha sit in the back. Shabbat sit in
the side.
Next week you sit over there. Wherever
you find a seat in shul, it's fine. It's
all makom kavua cuz the whole makom is
kavua for davening, says Rabbeinu Yonah.
So, where is he talking about that you
need a makom kavua?
In your house.
In your home.
You can't daven sometimes at the seat,
sometimes the kitchen table, sometimes
the dining table, sometimes the
recliner. Sometimes while doing the
dishes, sometimes while the backyard,
sometimes the
says the Rashba makom kavua, kavua,
Rabbeinu Yonah rather. Says Rabbeinu
Yonah the makom kavua isn't shul, isn't
home. That's where you need to establish
a makom kavua. The whole shul is a makom
kavua. So, how do we pasken in Shulchan
Aruch with the Rashba? The makom kavua
is in shul, not the home. However, it's
brought down by many that we apply it to
the home as well. And it applies both to
men and I think even more to women who
more often are davening at home and not
in shul. But the idea that when we
create a kvius, a consistency,
which is really the theme of our parsha,
when we create consistency and
seriousness, then we achieve higher and
more lofty things.
Then we're able to
transform ourselves and our attitude.
So, Kodesh Boruchu says, "If I am in the
Hashama, it's in our regular meeting
place.
Don't change our location.
Don't adjust. Yes, you can talk to me
anywhere and yes, I'm listening
everywhere and yes, I talk to you
everywhere.
But if you really want to grow, you
really want to elevate, you have to go
to our usual place. So, it's important
to have a usual place and I think within
our homes, it's very important. Very
important. Whether you have a shtender
in your house, or you have a corner in
the house, or you have where you keep
the siddurim in your house, a bookcase
in the house. Where is that place that
when you're there, everyone else in the
home knows don't talk to mommy.
Don't talk or daven right now. They're
davening. They're going That's their
shul inside the house.
Rabbeinu Yonah uses that kind of lashon.
You create a shul inside your house, not
a breakaway from the shul,
and not an alternative to the shul,
but it means in extenuating
circumstances
that you create that within the home,
within the house itself. We'll learn
about that a lot more, but Baruch
Hashem, we'll read Parshas Tetzaveh
again next year. Have a