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Parsha Perspectives for Today (Teruma)
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The Torah and its messages are timeless. Join me as we draw from the weekly Torah portion to extract lessons and inspiration for today from a wide and diverse range of sources and personalities. In this shiur, R. Goldberg discusses a number of topics, including: -Trust in God -Jewish unity -Giving -Integrity -and more... For more content, visit http://www.rabbiefremgoldberg.org. Highlights: https://www.instagram.com/p/CLcr6N6Lp8X/
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back to parsha perspectives for today so
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this morning with the privilege of
studying together parshas truma
page 444 in the arthral stone
hamish parshas truma and parshas truma
is the big transition from the narrative
of the story of the jewish people
leaving egypt
the story of arriving at har sinai and
the experience of receiving the torah
the most seminal event in all of human
history mishpatham the vav we spoke
about last week the va fakhibor
that connection of bringing it to of
bringing it
to this world and into the world of
action civil toward criminal law
how to bring hashem dearer but into
giving a dwelling place down here
and to connect with them down here in
this world and then we transition from
that to
truma the ramban we mentioned in his
introduction to the book of shemos
talked about it being
the transition from golos to goula we
are going from
exile and exile as a place where one is
far from god
unsure about god exile is a place where
you are not as confidential that there
is a god in this world and that you
connect to him
that is exile gaula is living with god
he's feeling his presence his love his
influence
and therefore we have now begun the
second half of the book and the
transition
from the story of gullis of living
without god of thinking we're in charge
and we're in control
to the story of goula of building hashem
a home
of building a place where he can have a
deer bathtub where he can dwell
down here on down here on earth now the
posix says
moshe says god says to moshe speak to
the jewish people and take for me a gift
maize cause shri adventity bow
from anyone who has a generous heart a
generous spirit tiku is true masih
take that gift and so on and so forth
and wonders of druk we're going to jump
right into our first aish tamid the
first will be strong mayor dirk we've
been learning the safer and the parsha
among many
i wanted this myself this year when
being marbus when looking at the parsha
it's backwards who runs a campaign this
way who does a
appeal this way normally you speak about
what it is you're trying to raise money
for
normally you talk about the cause the
institution the organization
the values the vision here's who we are
what we represent we need your help
we need your partnership please give and
yet here in the partial
it works exactly the opposite hear the
torah saying
please give oh you want to know the
cause oh by the way you want to know
what we're raising money for
so shouldn't we first state first we
shouldn't shouldn't we first articulate
what it is that money is being raised
for and only afterwards do the appeal
who's in who's giving go on the website
go on the campaign site and do it on our
own memory
what kind of a campaign is this what's
going on over here wonders
or druk the yes levar so he says you can
explain the following
we find similarly when it comes to
avraham avinu avraham avina what does
have to do with the mishkan have to do
with our storyline here cesar of zhuk
god when he introduces himself or at
least the way we see
or read god's introduction to avraham
leave your homeland leave your home
leave everything you know and go
to the land that i am going to that i am
going to show you.
now when he first reaches out he doesn't
tell him where
he doesn't tell him where he's going to
he just says leave your home leave
everything you know
and i want you to go to the place that
i'm going to show you what do you mean
the place i'm going to show you
guys i think we spoke about it this year
again
we speak about it every year why didn't
god give him the coordinates
avraham had to plug into waze or into
google maps or whichever
i don't know which uh app he used but
whichever one he had to plug in the
coordinates where to go so he knows to
leave his homeland
he knows the departure gate but he
doesn't know the destination
why does god hold back or conceal from
him where is the destination
why not give it up front
because god wanted to give avraham award
on every step and every step
that rather than know where he was going
and how wonderful it would be there
all he knew was you're on this ride
barco says i'm the pilot
i'm the driver you're the passenger i
will get you to the destination you
belong
to the destination you need to be come
along for this ride
and that's our test that's the challenge
are we willing to let go and let god are
we willing to go along for the ride
was avraham willing to drop and leave
everything he knew
for a lachlan to start out on a journey
even without knowing the destination of
that journey
if he knew he was going then the whole
journey the journey wasn't a means unto
itself
and ends unto itself the journey was
just the means in order to arrive at the
destination
but god wanted avraham to go through the
journey of self-discovery he wanted to
go
on this path of figuring out who he was
akopseopsia
that every step and every progress and
every advance
would in itself be transformational to
him
and with the source of great reward
that's why hashem concealed from avram
that's why god did not reveal the
destination to
begin with that's why he didn't tell him
about it up front
yesterday so says now we can understand
similarly
in our parsha why does god first
announce there's an appeal
open your wallet bring your checkbook
venmo zell
however you want to wire the money show
me the money bring the money
oh what's the cause i'll tell you in a
moment and we ask what kind of an appeal
is this
first you explain the cause and then you
ask for the money
says ravdruk no had hashem explained the
cause before the money then people would
have been giving because
they believed in the cause but hashem
wanted to confirm that people were
willing to give
because he asked them to give he said
i'm hashem you love me you're devoted
you're dedicated
when i say write a check you say how
high
elo is
giving would have been just a means
towards
the result of having the mishkan but the
giving itself
wouldn't have been as impactful wouldn't
have been as
transformational just like the journey
of avraham so god says give
and through that giving you will be
changed and now what are you giving
towards we could talk about afterwards
but just the experience of giving is
impactful is transformational in fact
the rambam
or doesn't quote this but the rambam
writes if a person has a hundred dollars
to give
and they can give one dollar a hundred
times or a hundred dollars to one person
what should they do if i came to you and
asked you that advice
what would you advise one dollar to 100
people or a hundred dollars to one
person what would you advise
so i might have advised the hundred
dollars to one person it's much more
efficient first of all way of giving
but second of all it's much more
impactful way of giving
the hundred dollars can make a real
difference in someone's life the one
dollar to 100 people want
writes the ram-bam one dollar to 100
people
why because each time you give you've
changed yourself
the whole notion of giving we're not
going to spend time on now we've spent
time on in the yaman narayan
when we talk about the three things
chuba tv stuck in my viewers
and we asked i understand repentance i
change who i am i'm deserving of a new
decree i understand prayer prayer i
change who i am and how i position and
talk to hashem
i'm deserving of a new decree but stakka
would i just write a check to the judge
when i write a check to the judge i'm
basically buying off and bribing the
judge
and through that i get a new degree i
just stuck a work but if you understand
that when i take my assets my resources
when i take it and i give it to the
right place i use and spend it in the
right way
then i am transforming myself it's not
an external act it's an act which
transforms
who i am it's an act which affirms my
relationship with
money my relationship with things my
relationship with my material
possessions and my assets
and when i give them away each act of
giving
transforms who i am so says the rambam
100 to one person
is one act of giving there's one unit of
impact
but one dollar to 100 people even though
the one dollar is much
less but there's a hundred acts of
giving
there's a hundred moments of the impact
of transformation
so says that's what god was saying the
ikuli truma
li lishmi lila shmei rashi says
god says lash me do it for me do it
because i asked you
uh what's it going for what's it towards
i'll tell you later
first i want to know that you're giving
for me if you ever had a close friend or
family members
you're raising money for something
important you call them and you say i've
got a cause i'm working on something
that's really important i want to know
are you willing to help me out
so if they say does it matter to you do
you care about it
is it important i'm in now tell me what
it is i'm giving to
to whom do i write the check where do i
address the wire but if they say well
first tell me about it and i'll see if
it speaks to me
so then it's not lash me then it's not
about the person's devotion to you
they're only giving if it's a cause that
speaks to them
says
me i want to know you're giving because
you are connected to me
i want to know this is an act of
devotion to me i want to know this is a
transformational change to you
that you're willing to part with your
things for me because i asked
what's the cause i'll tell you in a
moment and that's why the order seems
out of order
first it's vehicular truma and then it's
a perfect example by the way
at least for me maybe you've noticed
this and know this torah it's obvious to
you
i've read the parsha many times i never
noticed it until this year
i was bothered by this question and i'm
so happy and relieved to see
that he offers this this answer first
it's all about
and only afterwards then does hashem
tell us the
the cause and the reason for it he has a
long essay he develops further ideas
here
but we're going to move on if you have
the safer i encourage you to read
further and to understand
uh more about why it is in this in this
order
okay so the verb is
from anyone who is generous of heart
here's the gift i want you to solicit
here is the appeal you ready
there's no website brsonline.org global
but rather than material things you have
to dedicate
you have to give i said i wouldn't
interrupt the partial but that's part of
the theme of the passion
so that's not called an interruption
here are the materials here's what was
being solicited
from the people zahav unakoshas
gold silver and bronze these are
materials they needed these materials in
order to successfully build
the mishkan and the kalem in the mish
gun and in order to be able to make it
happen
why now why now so i want to first i'm
going to share with you an insight from
her by salvation but before i want to
repeat something i told you before
it comes from the hamra tava hamritava
is the safer of
simchamev uh great sadduce
and he writes the following the medrash
says in tandem
is when the jewish people at the end of
last week's parish
bought them last week we didn't get into
it in the partial class last week
but the end of last week's parsha after
we went through the long list and litany
of laws
then returns to a narrative and that
narrative the word nasa of nishma
we will do and then we will listen
doesn't appear in pasha's israel
where the giving of the torah but
appears at the end of mashpatem and
there's a debate again we didn't get
into it
the end of last week's parashat
chronologically did that really come
before matantara after matantora
if it really came before why was it
placed after maybe an extra mishpatim
will deal with it so the words nasa
nisma are the end of pasha's mishpatim
god says i have an offer and the jewish
people say we're in
we'll do we'll accept we're ready oh by
the way what is it you want us to do
these are the iconic words nasa vanishma
and then you go from that high of nasa
venisma last week to the
truman this week where god says okay
you're in
open your wallet open your checkbook
he says you know we have a lot of jews
who they go to the daphyomi and they
listen to the partisanship living with
the moon
shear the afternoon kolo they even
listened behind the bhima i don't know
they have to say birka satora and behind
the bhima but there's a lot of people
who love learning
and they dabble with a minion and
they're outside some of you if you're
not in boca
some of you have been bundling up to go
outside in freezing temperatures
with enormous mysterious nephesh
tremendous sacrifice to continue to dive
into davao with a minion
and there are people who are willing to
give up their their comfort to davon
with a minion
their people are willing to give up
their time in order to participate in
total learning
and then you say to them by the way
we're doing an appeal and all of a
sudden they shut down the recoil
they distance themselves and they
disappear monem atma mitsutaka
mammon time they'll give you
their comfort convenience they'll give
you but the money
oh the money there's an allergy the
money they'd rather give you their liver
and their kidneys
than they would rather give you than
their money in kane says
oh yeah you're in oh yeah you love me oh
yeah you're ready to do whatever i ask
okay cough it over write a check
venmo some money shizakari because this
is the core test
there are three ways that a person you
want to know the essence of someone
don't follow their lip service don't
listen to what they say
watch what they do if you want to
understand somebody
don't just listen to what they say but
watch what they do and we know kiso caso
and koso
when a person gets angry first of all
what do they get outraged and angry over
and what do they act like when they get
angry you learn everything about
somebody
becauseo somebody drinks becomes
inebriated and intoxicated
what comes out nicknasa soda you learn a
lot about somebody
but says the gemara the third one is the
kiso the wallet
you want to know about somebody check
the credit card statement
i wrote an article last week imagine
somebody found your credit card
statement you lost it
the mail blew away someone stole your
mail imagine someone went through your
credit card statement
what would they conclude about you if
they followed what you spend money on
what would they conclude about your
priorities
so the notion of getting stuck is it's
mitzvah hashem says give and we say
how much we say how much the truma so
such
i thought a fascinating insight where he
says why is nasa vanishima followed from
the equally truman
it's sort of anticlimactic we go from
this romantic nasa of inisma
love and romance and spirituality and
then god says okay
how much are you willing to give because
we measure the love not by the words
but by the action if you really
appreciate if you're really committed
if you've benefited and you're really
grateful it's nice when you get
beautiful emails
but it's about making the contribution
to be able to show that appreciation
and continue that project and that
effort but
also has a comment here on these words
and says the rav the following
he says you have to understand and
remember who are these people and where
are they coming from
when god turns to them and says cough it
over contribute share we're doing an
appeal
who are these people what's their
mentality what has been their life
experience until now
where are they coming from so writes the
rub the slaves in egypt had no property
rights
slaves are not compensated by definition
if you're a slave you're not paid you're
not compensated
there's no 401k no pension contribution
there's no mileage reimbursement
when you're a slave forget the actual
money health insurance garnished you get
nothing
the jewish people would pass an egyptian
woman instead of beautiful clothing
while the israelites had
all they had were rags so they'd see the
beautiful clothing
and the wonderful spread of food and the
home and the luxury car
and the nice watch and the jewish people
as slaves to the egyptians
had garnished had nothing suddenly they
were liberated
and given so many gifts all of a sudden
the jewish people on the way out
we know the the um the um
the booty the the spoils of the war that
wash up on the shore after the yamasuf
we know they collected it and they got
great wealth moshe ran to get the bones
of yosef but they ran to collect all the
wealth that was on the chariots of these
egyptians
that washed up on the sword sure see
here you have a nation over 210 years
lived in poverty 210 years had
nothing and now they discover wealth
they've won the lottery
now they have beautiful clothing and
gold and silver they have great wealth
when one undergoes privation it is
natural to want to be compensated for
the years of poverty and destitution
when the period of privatization ends so
when a person goes from being a slave to
a free person
they want compensation they want to
collect we all know the debate between
ben gurion
and menachem begin when the germans and
uh paying
the um what was it called retribution
not
paying uh restitution to the jews the
people in israel
there was a big debate in the knesset do
you take the restitution or do you
assume that it's uh
are you letting the germans off the hook
if you if you accept it so a person goes
free and they want to be compensated by
their former
by their former master by their
persecutor but when
then hashem makes an announcement and he
says okay
you've discovered gold and silver you're
now wealthy you've won the lottery
you're landed on money
the people's willingness to give up
these hard-earned possessions that they
receive from the egyptians
is precisely what hallowed and
sanctified the sanctuary such a
beautiful insight
it means that what gave the kedusa to
the mikdash
what gave the holiness to the mishkan
were the contributions of the people who
made it up
and why were those contributions so holy
because they didn't come easy
and it's not just that they didn't come
easy financially you know every time one
does an appeal
every time this is not my timing we
didn't sit down and time brsonline.org
global campaign with parties truma just
happens to work out perfectly
though i'm not bringing it up in the
middle of the parties here but when one
runs a campaign
there are people for whom writing that
check means little it won't impact their
lives
and there are others who go to their
savings there are others who consider
what could we live without this year
in order to make sure sure the shul or
the yeshiva
or the kola or the mikvot or the ayrav
or the kasras
has or our brothers and sisters in
israel in order to make sure that the
soldiers in the israeli army
what am i willing to live without nor
that they have so financially
the holiness of the stucco we give
is proportional to how much it hurt to
give it
but the hurt to give it is not only true
in terms of our bank account
the hurt to give it is not only true in
terms of the number that it goes down
because we've given and shared the hurt
to give is also the mentality
there are people who are magnanimous
they are naturally generous they are
eager to share and
and be generous with others and there
are others who are allergic to giving
away
there are others that it's painful it's
like you're extracting a limb or an
organ to take money and these slaves
were exactly that people
they'd come out of egypt they had
nothing and they were afraid of the
future
what would it bring think about the last
generation the survivors
the survivors who walked out of the
camps as skeletons and they had
nothing and they worked tirelessly just
to be able to have a roof over their
head and food in their mouth
and then it was time to rebuild in
america and they came and said
we need money for the shul for the
yeshiva we need money for the era for
the mikvah
and these survivors who didn't know
where the next meal would come from
nevertheless took the little they had in
order to build the jewish future
that was the same thing as these slaves
that's the slaves that's the holiness
the institutions that we have today we
have to remember where they're from
and the holiness that went into building
them was the sacrifice on the backs of
the people of what they gave up for us
to have
and to live with what we have during
corona in the past 12 months we lost two
of the founding members of brs
two founding members izzy brook and
tamar naui
alayama and you know our shular
community
it starts flourishing it's thriving
barack hashem
hara but not everybody knows the story
of the founders and what they gave up to
be 10 people who came together to dive
in a living room
and start from there so here too
hashem asks it not of a wealthy settled
comfortable people he asks of a people
in transit
a people who are on the run a people who
have not yet discovered
comfort a people who a moment ago were
slaves for two hundred and ten years
he says nevertheless please give zahad
they do so readily and generously
and that is the holiness upon which our
mikdash and mishkan
were built continuing right along
still on page 444 among the materials
that moshe recruits that moshe asks for
are
avne the afname
stones and stones for the melu setting
stones stones that you're going to set
in the breastplate
leftover for the a phone and the ocean
for the breastplate so i want to look at
two pieces by druk
on these words on the notion of the av
shaman of name
says the following
if you looked at all the materials and
you had to assign a value if you were
going to list them in the order of what
they were worth
then amnes should have come first
before zahala khashoggis before the
acacia word
would say why are abne
at the end when arguably they are of the
greatest value
and they should have been listed at
first this is the question
of israel mayor this is the question of
the ishtamin and he quotes
who says the following says
you know why that at the end even though
objectively they are of
more value you know why they're placed
here at the end who gave them
who gave them we know the measures tells
us the naseem the princes
the leadership waited to see what
everyone else would give
there's a campaign and there's you need
a certain number to reach that campaign
so they were waiting let's see what
everyone else gives first
and then we'll fill in the gap those are
heroes of campaigns by the way
a lot of these online matching campaigns
right now you see they have one minute
left to the campaign and suddenly they
fill in the last million and a half
dollars
where'd that come from they had someone
they knew they set aside
we may need you to bail us out to hit
that magic number at the end
but is that right is that righteous
should you be the hero who says i'm
going to come in at the end and help you
meet the goal
or with alacrity and zeal should you be
out front
i'm going to be one of the first ones
you ask to give i'm going to run to give
and not wait to see what's missing but i
want to be among those so the naseem
waited
and what looked like a very noble
gesture to say we will fill in what's
missing
we'll fill in the deficit in fact hashem
holds them accountable
you're waiting you're only going to give
based on the deficit of what's there
you should have run to give you should
have been out front you should be the
first and because of that
hashem spells the name khasir the word
niseim appears without a yud
nin allah viewed me it's missing one of
the youths
why because they're essentially being
punished this is hashem's patch
they're missing ayud because they were
missing the alacrity of running to give
at first camacho is asleep awesome they
delayed
they procrastinated they waited to only
give the deficit
therefore what they ultimately gave were
these stones the stones that listed last
correlated with the fact that naseem
gave last and one deserved druk
i i don't understand isn't this a great
thing that a scene did
i would love it if someone stepped up
right now and said the global campaign
stated a goal of a hundred thousand
they're at seventy thousand i don't know
what people are giving right now during
this year i'm not looking because we're
learning the parachute together
but if somebody stepped up like the
museum and said whatever you're missing
rabbi in the brs global campaign i'll
cut that check
whatever you're missing i'll make up
that difference and get you to that goal
i would give you the biggest virtual hug
a huge yashakah
so why the naseem criticized for this
what did they do wrong
where did they go wrong so cesaro drove
the following
niro lavar
says we're doing an appeal a campaign
it's not a time to start doing bonos
shall it be at first shall we make up
the deficit how much should we get
lost right away you have to say
i want to be listed i want to be counted
among those who give.
even if the calculation was noble and
even if the calculation
was accurate but the very fact that you
pause and hesitate to make a calculation
is in itself a procrastination that
reflects poorly when hashem is
recruiting it's listening
when hashem is asking appealing you say
i'm in
and immediately to give everything you
can
and that's why there's a disappointment
and there is a
criticism that they waited till the end
to give and you see this by email
the mercilet and parsha's bow i don't
want to scare anyone about pesach and
how close we are to it
that you have to safeguard the mata we
know this we pay a very hefty price
for shmuramata mata which is guarded
guarded from the time of
what that's a big debate what is the
definition of smart and from when does
it need to be guarded
different homuras and different price
points but our rabbi say don't read it
ushmar te mesamattos reading
mitzvos safeguard the mitzvos
from which hazal understands
when you have the opportunity to do a
mitzvah don't turn it into hammers
just like if you delay the only
difference flower and water
the only difference between mata and
khamenes are not the ingredients flour
and water
the only difference in mats and in fact
are is time
the amount of time it takes if you allow
time to impact the flour and water
hamitz if you move to the lacquered in
zeal
matzah so similarly when you're when
you're presented with a mitzvah
opportunity
don't turn that mitzvah into khamenes
is greater because mata is like
math is the bread of the poor person is
the bread of the rich person
so is what we strive for and crave the
bread of the rich person
who has time for the bread to rise and
who is
prepared for it to spoil because he'll
just get more but the matzah is for the
poor person
who both doesn't have time for it to
rise and needs it to be something that
never grows stale
because he has to stretch it out to last
as long as possible so if comets is
better
then why do we say would be
possible
listen to this kiddish give you a vote
for nissan and pesach so write it down
for pesach already now
listen to this again i never thought of
this is why i love rav druksavaram
i love this farm we're trying to arrange
a special opportunity for a druk to come
on our parshashir
and to introduce him to you to share
some of these div torah live
so please god we'll be able to uh to
arrange that sort of joke says
now we understand mitzvah but wait
hamitz is better than matzah not says
money monster is the bread of the poor
person
comments is the bread of the rich person
what do you mean don't turn into
comments shouldn't i want to turn it
into comments
what do you see from here that even if
you delay to do the mitzvah means you
could do the mitzvah
better still do the mitzvah right now
yahamats is better than matzah
matzo we only eat one week a year the
other fifty to one weeks we're eating
the comments comments is better it's the
bread of the poor person it's better the
better the rich person
yet what do you see from here just like
comments is better but don't wait and
turn something into chametz
even if the mitzvah would be better if
you wait don't wait to do the mitzvah
better
better to do it right now better to do
it right now
and that was the mistake of the bone of
the of the necesem
they shouldn't have made this rajput
just the calculation will come in and
we'll finish and we'll complete the
deficit
and whatever's missing will make up for
it and won't that be amazing
just that bone just was their mistake
why the letter ud is
and why is the punishment of the
necessity and remember that these stones
that after shaman afnelum that they
donated
they come at the end punishing the
museum but the other punishment is that
the nassim is spelled khasir it's
missing the letter
why is it spelled missing the letter how
is that a punishment so listen what if
druk says
you could read the word naseem without
the ud it's just that is the
holiest level yud is a yid yad is a jew
yiddis contributes to the name of hashem
so you could read the word without the
yud even though the yud there would make
it better
and that's exactly their mistake you
could do it without it even though
having it there
would make it better now what a geshmak
shot in this whole story about why the
naseem are criticized
why the abnesham of namilum are listed
at the end why the punishment is
removing the yud
and why atakhmitsana is a bad thing even
the muhammad is better than mata
all wrapped into one namely don't
procrastinate and wait
because even though you could do it
better later the very fact that you
waited and delayed
makes it worse even if it looks better
always do it immediately
i love it what a gishmak shot and then
he has another one sarah biram
again the question why is at the end and
he quotes a second interpretation of the
kadosh who says
where do these stones come from these
precious stones that were placed in the
garments of the quran where they come
from they descended from heaven they
came from hashem
they took no effort from kiss so the
naseem didn't have to actually empty
their bank account
they came from heaven they came from
hashem they haven't soil
and they were no took no sacrifice so
you see from hashem
that that which came without the
sacrifice and effort it goes at the end
it goes at the end what you did with
sacrifice and effort
what you did when you worked harder is
more precious and gets listed at the
beginning
so even though objectively even though
objectively
avne shama nimilum these precious jewels
are more valuable
than the other materials and they should
have been listed first but because the
mechanism of retrieval
because the way that we got them took no
effort and took no sacrifice
they're listed at the end that which we
do without sacrifice and effort
is not nearly as valuable it's not
nearly as valuable that which takes work
i always say with my kids when they tell
me about their grade in school but
hashem my kids get good grades they have
a smart mother
but i always ask them did you try your
hardest does it represent your best
effort
i don't care about the grade so two kids
will report on their midterms
simultaneously
and one got a 92 and the other got an 85
but if the one who got the 85 says yes i
worked tirelessly
i studied harder than i ever did and the
one who got the 92 said you know what
honestly i winged it i didn't really put
in my best effort
then i'll give better feedback i will
be more supportive in responding to the
one with the lower grade but it took
more effort
because even though objectively the 92
is higher than the 85
but the one who had to work harder the
one who put more of themselves into it
that's of greater value that's a greater
value and they deserve the greater
reward
he quotes the great said this of course
when a person makes a see him we say we
toil them they toil
so asks everybody if
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what do you mean we get reward and they
and they don't get reward all rewarders
in the world to come what are you
comparing rewards for
how could you begin to compare sadhus
khan explains
see in this world the reward is only for
the result but in our
estimation the reward is for the effort
they give you know example
if you give someone a final on math and
you have to solve math equations
and you couldn't solve them you get a
bad grade i don't care if you spent six
hours on the math equations
if in the end of the day you couldn't
solve them there is no reward you fail
the test
but if you're struggling with a
difficult ptosis you're trying to break
your teeth
on a difficult on a difficult or prime
and you struggle in total for six hours
and you know what in the end you don't
understand it
in the end you still don't have uh you
don't have a grasp on the toast voice do
you get reward
yes because for us the reward is the
effort the toil the sacrifice
it's of course the result we care about
the result not to suggest that we care
about the result
we care about the result we care about
the result we care also about
the effort that went in and since the
abner shaman of namielum didn't take
nearly the same effort
that's why they're listed at the end i
want to share with you another instant
amnesty
a third insight this comes from the
state for oil moshe and the same for all
moshe says
stones shohem stones i know family show
him precious like jewels
name jewel jewel so have they show them
show them our precious stones
what are avne milluem what is the word
mean listen to this if you haven't
listened to anything until now this is
the best shot today
listen to this insight they're all great
listen to this
malay means to fill they fill a void on
the breastplate there were empty slots
and these
stones filled the slot so what do we
call the stone
not a ruby and not a diamond and not a i
just listed all the names of gems that i
know
we don't call them by their name even
though that would really reflect their
identity and their value
their abdemilum what are they oh the
stones that you put in the spot to fill
the spot
kind of a name is that he wonders
is that their only value all you care
about these stones
their only value is that they fill the
gaping hole that's all you care about
what about the inherent or intrinsic
value of anima
it should have said stones for the
eighth and the hoshan what do you mean
we're denigrating we're diminishing
these
uh these stones by saying that their
only value their only worth is that they
fill the slot
omar said
listen to this insight
these gems they are these are stones
are extraordinary and they are
inherently and intrinsically
of inestimable value but gidola
you know what your biggest value is not
who you are inherently or intrinsically
your biggest value is what service you
are to the other
how do you fill a role in someone else's
life what your value is to you
that doesn't impress us but your real
value is
what do you feel what role do you feel
in someone else's life
that's the message of avne millu they're
called
name not avanim of their precious
inherent value
because the greater value is not what
they're worth inherently
the greater value is how are you malay
in what way do you fill the needs of
others
since their whole value rashi says is to
fill the opening
greater than the intrinsic value is the
value
in the role that they play for the other
and that's why they're called avnemilum
so two insights into why the avne millum
are listed at the end
two or haims and a radruck3 insights
and the beautiful insight here of
rashford burnbaum why they're called
milum
which really is in some ways demeaning
to these precious stones
that have an intrinsic value now we get
to the famous possum
nobody made a song out of these words
yet somebody's got to make a song out of
these words
they also mean
hashem says make for me a miktash and
dwell where in them
and everybody knows
everybody knows that the great student
of the villenegon who tells us
about the grammatical shift the mikdash
and the singular the
best in the plural says the nf
the answer is that hashem was not
telling us just to make a building of
bricks and stone
of mourner and that he would dwell there
ultimately where does he really dwell
not in the physical architecture alone
but he dwells metaphysically inside each
and
every one of us in fact the majestic
tells us that the mishkan corresponds to
the creation of man
because man is a world in miniature so
the mishkan
corresponds with gracious the creation
of man because each person is a world in
miniature
and the magic goes on to say the menorah
is the i and the shokhan is the mouth
and the mizbayacha katars is the nose
and it goes on and on and on
each one of us is that mikdash in
miniature and we all know that's the
song
of the 16th century makubul balazar
askari
mishkan evne lahadar kvodo we are all
know this is a magnificent song bovavi
that was
put as a song belvavi in my heart i'll
make a mishkan
an honor and in a sanctuary i'll place
an altar and to serve hashem
we are. and and this beautiful nephesh
in which we all know
takes on particular meaning i think this
year even more than normal
why because this year vyasuli miktus
yasuli miktash in the singular we have
one
shul but there are many people who
couldn't and still
can't go to that shul so they shouldn't
be disheartened
if a person can't dial in shul if a
person can't come to any classes that
are in person
if a person can't yet in to attend live
they shouldn't become disheartened they
shouldn't become despondent
because they have to realize that even
the vasuli miktas in the singular
there's the shul
but vishakhati bis even when we are
denied
the mikdash we still have the bisocham
there is the miktash in our homes
there's the mikdash in our lives
there's the miktash in ourselves we
still have that
within ourselves the shame is
we know that we have the mishkan the
mishkan we have and it takes us through
our journey in the desert and we begin
to enter the land
and then we transition from the mishkan
to the mikdash we we then
the mishkan is disassembled and we move
into when shalom builds the mikdash
shamati says the shame ishmael i heard
from my father
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the edifice each has a different name
now the edifice serves the same purpose
both were to bring carbonus both were to
bring sacrifices
so if the similar avodah is done there
and the same people
serve there why are they given different
names
either even once we settle in the land
shalom should have built a permanent
mishkan
or even while we traveled through the
desert we should have assembled and
disassembled a
transportable mikdash why do we change
from a mishkan to a mikdash
so it says that
a mishkan because of what we're supposed
to feel when you go into the mishkan
is the divine dwelling the intensity of
hashem
being there rabbi lord saks
explained that the nature of the word
shrina is
neighbor it's hashem not as distant and
abstract
not the hashem of far away and mighty
and powerful but it's the hashem who's
my neighbor
who's accessible who i can talk to and
confide in and lean on
hashem who's always there so the mishkan
projected
what this slave nation needed coming out
of egypt is to know
that no matter how challenging or
difficult things got hashrat
if you needed a neighbor to lean on long
before
progressive is that the one who's the
neighbor like a good neighbor
no i forgot who it is long before like a
good neighbor hashem was there
if you needed a good neighbor a good
shakheen then you turned to the
shrine
the mikdash however connotes something
different the mikdash is
when you are living out there in the
mundane profane base world
of materialism and you strive contact
with holiness
come to the miktash because the mikdash
is all about kedusha
it's about holiness it's about preaching
we're learning in the show now we're up
to the peric
the media of precious the media of how
we can transcend the physical
how we can live with some sense of
abstinence may allah from this world
so here's the thing but why the change
so now is where he says mikdashikri
mishkan
um
it's true that the name changed but both
have both components
the mishkan was also a mikdash and the
mikdash is also a mishkan
and one can use the names
interchangeably because i think both
edifices had both qualities
and therefore we looked to get both from
both
sometimes you needed to a neighbor even
with the mikdash and you treated the
mikdash as a mishkan
sometimes you needed contact with
holiness and therefore you treated the
mishkan as a mikdash
each one is called the other because
both contain both components
and and we in our shul the goal of a
shul the goal of a community
is to strive to provide both as well to
strive to provide a place which is a
contact a portal to holiness and a place
that can to
provide a contact with hashem as the
neighbor when you want to feel a good
reliable neighbor dependable neighbor
to feel connected to hashem that you can
go there as well
now we start to get into the niktas
the first is our own
you make the aran out of acacia wood and
if you go back to listen to previous
parsha shirum
we've gone in depth into each of these
really beautiful the dimensions and the
materials and the names
magnificent clay yuckers on these
partials i encourage you if that
interests you to go back and look
so the iron is made out of and why by
the way the iron is the one
cli that is listed in the singular all
the other klim are described in the
plural
this clearly is listed in the singular
and the dimensions are only
partial they're fractions rather than
whole numbers why all these are lessons
all these are deep
and profound ideas first of all they are
fractions integers not whole numbers why
to tell us that every jew when it comes
to torah you never whole you never
complete you're never done
you finish shas at the seam you start
the next maserta
you're never done you've never done
learning we're never done growing and
therefore it's a fraction because each
of us is a fraction when it comes to
torah
you can never put a check and say i'm
done i'm complete it's over so the aaron
which
held the luchos the arun which held the
original safer torah
the auron which represented torah is in
a fraction not a whole number
because each of us is a fraction not a
whole number it's written in the
singular because it depends on the
entire community
when it comes to torah it is the entire
it is the entire community
so this arun is covered as layered
the tsipiso
you cover it with pure gold from within
it from without and there's a gold crown
that surrounds it again some beautiful
kayakers
about the crown that went around they
are on the crown around the molding the
golden molding
the golden crown around the shulhan the
the beautiful um
symbolism of each of these things so
back to the ishtar bacter of druk
and ravdruk says the following on this
notion of the our own
being layered with gold outside and
inside
says the following i skipped it of druk
okay i'll go back and tell you this is a
drunk boss of the viktor
if the goal is if the goal is for god to
dwell
in and through each and every one of us
then why is it connected to the first
part of the positive vessel
it should be two separate independent
ideas one is build me a home
give me a dear better and one is build
me a dwelling place
make me a mikdash separate and power
parallel and independent from it
god should shave this want to dwell in
it why is it connected and why is it in
this order
and says
there is one capital spiritually of the
jewish people and when it unites us
then the holiness can flow down from it
into and through us
to be that sense of the shakhanti first
we have to be connected to mikdash
and then
first he made us a nation then he gave
us the torah first we have to be united
and then we can pursue our mission first
we have to be connected through
we also make dash and then we can be
that
mission charge driven people of the
shakhanti bisocham okay back to the
aurum so the yard of vitipiso
tahor it is layered with gold me by
sumirts
on the inside and outside you have to
layer it says
what do you learn from here why in the
world is the gold layered on the inside
if i were running this campaign i'd say
save some money
we were interrupted we were in the
middle of a capital campaign for our
shul to expand
hashem we were bursting at the seams
when corona so rudely interrupted
so if we were looking at our budget and
tightening our belts and figuring out
where we can save
and where we can shrink our budget our
expenses i'd say
just have the gold on the outside that's
the part that people see
the inside nobody sees you don't need
the gold on the inside
you only need the gold on the outside so
say the rabbis what do you learn from
here
a righteous person who's outside and
inside don't match
if you have gold if you're flashing
ostentatious on the outside
and yet you're poor and simple on the
inside then you're duplicitous you're
hypocritical
you're a fraud to be a time you're
outside on your inside have to match
if you want to glow on the outside you
better be glowing on the inside
canes similarly
when the great uh dispute between you
become gambling used to sit on the
outside of the
basement and he used to only allow those
inside
taco caboro only those who are
consistent inside and out
only those whose insides and outsides
match are invited or welcomed into the
mikdash you have to be toho kimboro hini
pasha biryani
sonia's kevin sharonville dinner my
kirin son of gossip
so if i ask you what matters more your
inside or your outside not so simple
one might say scissor of druk that your
outside matters more
why does your outside matter more
because let's say in your heart we hear
this from people all the time
i have a very generous heart in my heart
i'm a really good person
yeah that's nice for your heart but in
your actions and your deed and the way
we know you
you're a cheap nasty low life jerk
so i could really care less that in your
heart and in your mind you're the nicest
person you ever met
i don't really care that in your heart
you're the most generous person
anyone could ever dream of i can only
measure you
by what i know of you which is your
hitsonas which is your actions
so you might have said the outside the
external the manifestation of who we are
matters most because that's who we
really are le manure toba inatibor if we
want people to think of us positively
if we want to earn a good reputation
it's not based on who we are inside
it's based on how we behave outside
but to be a righteous person it's not
enough to only do the right things on
the outside either
you can't for show shuckle like crazy
when you're in shul
and then be ruthless and a low life and
gossip when you're outside
come on
come on for some of shalom person has to
be matching
what are we saying our daughter in the
morning
sometimes it's easy to be your shamayim
externally
you'll get the accolades and you'll get
the praise and you'll get your
acknowledgement
but to be a year is internally besets
her when no one's watching
to be matching our insights to our
outsides volume
and we learn this from the auran which
was layered in the cold inside and out
yeshua says you can add sugar
sat on its base it didn't have legs the
arun didn't have
a stand it didn't have legs
because if it has legs if it has a stand
protrusions
then it looks like it's being elevated
who also wrote me sergio
it's giving an impression like it's
bigger and more than it is and that's
not consistent that's not humble
and the aron is the model of torah and
the model of torah is our insides and
our outsides matching
it's the model of humility it's being
the same and then he quotes his father
the josh murdoch
why do we say that the inside have to
match the outside
why don't we say the outside of the
match the inside b
because if the timer comes inside's like
the outside
allah
the reason that we aspire that the
inside chemist the outside
is because we can't even the outside
should match the inside rather
is because there are people so great we
can't even begin to imagine inside
ghidola israel kaneos
the greatest people we have we can't
begin to scratch the surface of what's
going on inside
so we say levi if their outside match
their inside
what we would learn and see of them
would be absolutely mind-boggling
would be incredible would be incredible
okay moving right along
still sticking with the arom the iron
had a very unusual feature
the arm
had holes on the side and there were
poles there were stabs that were put
through the holes in order to transport
the arom the iron wasn't unique
or alone it wasn't singular in the sense
the other caleb also needed to be
transported
and had a similar mechanism of transport
poles that would sit on the shoulders of
those who transported them
but the difference of the r on the
orange and outlier
in the tabasa are on you about
the poles in the arrow have to go in and
they have to remain they go in
and they remain and they stay there why
do they have to stay there
rashi says forever liolum forever
forever and wherever
loya suru you can't take them out why
not
once you arrive at the destination and
once they
lower the aron and put it down so take
the poles out
how is it different and why is it
different than the other caleb if the
other calendar you can remove the poles
once you've arrived
why must the poles of the arun be
perpetually present
has a magnificent insight so powerful
for us today
again during this pandemic time much
like the vyasuli miktash maybe there's
one shula i can't get there
but no wherever you are
hashem is still with you so the aaron
contains the sabres the torah and its
messages
the torah and its directives the torah
and its insight
and the first suggests that the presence
of the polls indicates the portability
of torah always
torah never settles in one place torah
is not only relevant ever in one time
torah is not relevant to one
geographical location torah is
portable it's viable it's relevant
wherever and whenever
so the polls remain in the auron to tell
us that the torah never settles down
the torah is constantly ready to inform
and inspire our lives
wherever and whenever it's not that the
uranu when it arrives in the mishkan or
in the mikdash
take the polls out now you're done now
it's set the torah is ready to go with
us wherever we go
it travels with us wherever we travel
the torah is our
faithful companion the torah is our
guide it's our instruction manual it's
our blueprint
it's so powerful now we don't have a
base of mita so we don't have a mishkan
and the bottom of the torah are symbolic
of these calam that
they come with us wherever we go and
again we don't have the mishkan win on
the base of mktash
but the torah is as relevant as
important for us today as it's ever been
we can't necessarily go to shul some of
you some of those with us right now
still can't go to shul can't look at the
arun can listen to the torah being read
but know that the torah never removed
its polls the torah is with you in your
home
torah is with us wherever and whenever
we are it continues to inform
and it continues to inspire our lives it
continues to inform and continues to
inspire our lives
now ravdruk has another comment says
why can't you remove them veneer lumber
is that darn niffle he says i want to
tell you an amazing idea
represents torah
what is the role of these poles the rose
of the poles is to support the aram
it lifts the arom so the torah's
teaching is a very important
lesson
just like the poles are a permanent
fixture and a permanent part of the our
own
and never removed the one who supports
torah
is a permanent part and permanent
fixture of the torah that's being
learned
when you donate to a shul to a yeshiva
when you enter your sacrament
when you give whether it's to our global
campaign
or you give to any torah institution you
are inseparable
just like the polls are not removed to
that which is being supported supporting
it
so too those who support torah are never
separate or apart or never removed
from that whom they're supporting
even when the iron is still but the
polls are still there to remember
the support tamil nisha mahuba love
shalom
allah
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it's a living tree it should say
to those who are supporting it but it
doesn't say that it says
nobody can so arrogantly and
presumptuously say
i support total you support torah torah
doesn't need your help
yes torah needs your financial
contributions but make no mistake
when you give to torah the torah is
supporting you the torah is supporting
you you're not supporting torah
and that's why it's it's it's it's
is supporting them the gemara says in
soto daflamet
no se es nos of the oran is carrying
those who carry
it the aaron is carrying those who carry
it and that's why the polls remain in
place to remind us that when we support
torah
we think we're supporting torah but
through the act of supporting torah
in fact the torah is supporting us so
why were the poles never removed from
the auron even when it got to the
location
according to referee beautiful insight
torus transportable
it's relevant it's timeless it comes
with us as our companion wherever we go
or even when we are quarantined at home
the torah is still there
it has the poles it travels with us
wherever we go and the second instead of
druk that the polls are there to
remember we think we're supporting torah
torah is supporting us the torah is what
is supporting us
so thank you for learning with me again
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