Parsha Perspectives for Today (Korach)

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Amy cats and family in memory of Becky's father David Grossman Lila knishmas doubled the menachem Mohnish and though we hope that our total learning and our timely perspectives from the partial will be Lili knishmas oh and will elevate his beautiful and precious so we have the privilege this week of studying and reading Pasha's Cora Tasha Scott can be found in the article stone Flemish on page 820 and precious Cora continues with the story of the book of Ahmed barb on minbar is the maturation the development the adolescence of the Jewish people we went from the book of braces the birth of the first family to the book of Sheila's the birth of a nation of a people via Cara our special status and the charge to the Kohanim to lead to be an example and then the book of Bamidbar which is our adolescents are coming on to our own really at times and encouraged about moshe struggles to lead a people so unappreciative of people who are filled with complaints now you arm can this onna nimrod been a sham bosnia sham not just that they complained but they transformed themselves into a group of complainers and in that they lost moshe rabbeinu and they lost his loyalty and that continues here in paris cora part of the coming into themselves and understanding their different roles and where they fit is the story of Porsha's code I think OA of course the bulk of our pastor captures the contentious debate the rebellion of Korah of those who he recruits to be his accomplices and the members of the tribe of Reuben who are innocent essentially bystanders who had the poor fortune of being assigned the camping assignment right next to Cara which ended up exposing them and inviting them to be part of kodox rebellion and the fact they suffered the worst casualties they're not even among the tribe of LaVey they have no pony in the race they're not involved in this fight they're not the ones who are elbowing in in order to assert their own leadership why did they lose the most people because they were neighbors our rabbis learned from their a law russia allah shana you see how important it is to surround ourselves with good people and to choose good neighbors and good influence because in a certain degree we are those we surround ourselves with it has an enormous impact on us and on our on us and on our lives okay so let's get started precious Cara when does this begin lady cough cough but it's I've been cast on TV so those who are normally with us our new listeners have joined us we actually go through the whole Pasha and we try to extract nuggets insights lessons from the early medieval commentaries from the person in until lessons of today but all geared towards informing inspiring our lives and the contemporary issues that were going through the parsha is always timeless and the partial falls out always never a coincidence never by chance or randomness but whenever we are reading that week has a message for us for that week and we tried to tap into it extract some of those lessons so there's a fundamental debate that we're all familiar with whether a MOOC time Amukamara or you looked in a MOOC or my Torah is the Torah written chronologically or as the Torah written thematically is the Torah following the order or is the Torah following certain themes rashly the ibanez rrah always maintained or often maintained the positioning booked a limo from a Torah the term is written fanatically not chronologically it doesn't follow the timeline accurately tour is not a historical book or document it is a book of inspiration of values ideas and ideals and therefore it follows themes so if it makes more sense of the themes will be more compelling the message more pursue if we communicated out of order a MOOC Tillamook or Bottari it's not necessary to capture it in the order in which it occurred there unban hold steadfast that yay shoot the mother Mathilde the Ramon hold steadfast to the fact that the Torah is written chronologically and unless rare exceptions where he can't defend that position generally speaking yesh looked at my MOOC about Torah the Torah is written how it's written chronologically and this debate which is consistently runs throughout Hamish finds itself importantly here at the beginning of passions Cara as well lady got Cora let's look inside the ibanez rrah if you haven't mccroskey no loss you'll be able to follow if not I'll read slowly and translate but as I said part of what we do is delve into the text and delve into the analysis of our of our partial name and then part of it is later messages which I'll tell you more on the outside so the ibanez were jumps in via Cora zebb departed amid Barcena cache in this combo collar middle Olivia when did this happen when was Kodak's rebellion when did he assert himself when did he compete when did he instigate this fight this contentiousness says the benezia when did this happen way back at the beginning or safer Bamidbar when the firstborn of the before him were switched out with the love iane originally was the firstborn who at the position of prominence position of esteem they were meant to be the leaders but they participated in a go they conceded they forfeited that distinction and therefore it was given to the lithium instead Kakashi is Raja Moshe Adam may know us and the doctor losses cannula in gallon Takacs and probe may love what happened the suspicion of motion was nepotism he was giving out these great positions to people he's related to sadly we see that in our time certain remnants in certain parts of the world we're in the area of Akaka of conversion relatives are getting positions of prominence distinction better salaries better benefits and that was the suspicion of motion well Adam crushed all done by were yes from you soon Ravana because she doesn't know didn't by what she said before Illuminati Vanessa you know safe and so on and so forth gamma Cora mejor hire Cardiff was a firstborn kicking Carson the dagger event carnival Negev and so on and leave my crib Restless again dr. Marcus why write a fish Murphy Samantha and so on and so forth so what happened if you go back to the beginning of safer by minbar if you go all the way back to parity mo pasa climate in Bamidbar what happens in para give up us a grommet Hersh's by mid bar itself go back to the very beginning of our book para gimel PASOK laminate una see based on the Michigan was like aha see who was appointed than the see the Nazi who was the point that the prints the head of the family of carhops the family that Cora belonged to he was a part of who is the CAHSEE and Lisa Fogg been ozl so the even as rose opinion is when was the rebellion when did Cora instigate this whole episode way back at the beginning of safer by mid bar when when elites a fund that newsy L is given the position over him I wanted to take till now so in looked at matura really it happened then but it's written now because the matically it's more compelling it belongs here they're unbound disagrees that unbind disagrees and says that I'm ban when did this rebellion happen when did Cora instigate when did he start this fight says there Ambani started it right here it's a long run bond will skip halfway through he quotes the even as her I'm gonna be Ohama and then he disagrees my luck on the DRA Shekhar's codify Macias elites a fancam admirable say knew the killer gamba our own the Cora was jealous of Ali Zafar name is jealous of our own he wanted the corner of an imp she wasn't on the army mobile Allah before ax jacoub evolution upon me to be manaslu yo see he wasn't upset about the loss of the Mahal in the firstborn but rather this whole episode happened where says that I'm bad happened here he gambled over hey go sugarcoat they got one force only amazing water you know you're all the most looking option by showing me love the Illinois or other my order mo radar Moshe this man who I am so so clean or so but I faint summer Kafka doulas our lease of one before the mouth Odeon the Hamas Sasha Moshe evolved Ivana minbar Peron Minister suba suba a rotten era who mason bee keepers at I've arrived in the kasha cotton miraculous power mashallah below before exam I am so says the the Rahman the following if really the appointment of all it's a fun happened so long ago but way back at the beginning of Bamidbar why the core awake to the balance now why deneva bell then why did he endure why did he absorb the the insult why did he go with the flow until now what was he waiting for to instigate the rebellion until now sizzlin I'm bonyen Hawaii because way back then Moshe was impenetrable Moshe was untouchable Moshe was on top of the world he was the Redeemer who took the people out of Egypt each day one of them could be providing the salvation to their needs to their complaints in the desert but now now there's a cinch in his armor now there's a dent in his armor now Moshe seems mortal Moshe seems fallible motion seems touchable and Kota plays on that Torah Jim cut off jumps on that he waited for that because now this generation they're not making it into Israel true Hashem forgives them for the hate hammer egwin but nevertheless they're all gonna die in the desert and nothing Moshe can do can reverse that or overturn that and he sees motions as vulnerability is fragility and Cora plays on that he jumps on that and that's when he strikes and that's why he chooses now even though in fact the very reason the motivation happened a while ago he waited until not to jump on it but myself a chicken the wonderful Oh you plug to the oh you the beautiful oh you miss Ernest are not punished which is fantastic quotes the following with my seller Richard first of all the rough points our very poignantly and very importantly that this rebellion we introduced it by saying safer about men parties of the story of the adolescence the maturity the development of the Jewish people coming into their own as a people as a covenant of people as a people who have a mission and a charge in this world and we've seen we've seen countless complaints Moshe Rabbeinu begins to lose patience but Rama Sullivan points out that this rebellion is a unique event prior to it the people complained protested and murmured but always in response to a physical need a biological pressure hunger or thirst a primitive feet of anatomy or a feed like a Moloch or a serpent or the wilderness itself there were no political disagreements with emotion no ideological controversies no rebellions there were only protest complaints and quarrels consequences of the discomfort and hardship to which the people were subjected in the first and second years they said German desert want food they want on water they were afraid they protested even hey ego was not precipitated by idolatrous ideas that corroded the moral fiber it was a precipitated by the primitive instinct to honor that horror that falls a lost sheep and wide open spaces motion was gone he didn't come back based on their calculations they panicked and that's what led to the fate to a go it was biological it was very base animalistic desire appetite fear anxiety but it wasn't ideological this is the first now it's ideological all the previous quarrels were unorganized unplanned spontaneous reactions to situations that quarrels were generated by mob mentality which could easily get excited but also regains its equilibrium and composure but now highiy cough Cora Cora took others with him this is an ideological rebellion this criticism this break the splintering this divisiveness it is categorically more dangerous than what came before and that's why Moshe reacts in the way that he does it's not simply enough to triumph but he has to defeat he has to purchase to eliminate because this is nefarious it's insidious corrupt rebellion in this context poses a formidable threat not just a biological response not just preying on anxiety fear or worry but something so much more fundamental and therefore something so much more dangerous and in this context the rough quotes the core of controversy was a rebellion Matic oral dude won gratified at physical desires more the masses were not involved the album the people demanded water in-feed in the AMA told I want to build a god did not participate in quahogs campaign the leadership of the rebellion consisted of a few individuals and the followers were several hundred at most these people were of the elite the aristocracy representatives of the assembly men of repeat it was a conspiracy premeditated and carefully thought-out their inbound rights that kodox enmity was incurred when I was elevated to the position of high priest but in spite of Zanger koreff did not attempt to come out publicly against no he understood very well with the people not with saying minor incidents were devoted and loyal to their great leader he waited patiently as we just saw in there and bam for the opportunity that would somehow undermine Bush's position of popularity and when did that opportune moment arrived sooner than Kodak anticipated it was the incident the spies perhaps the most tragic incident motions life has shown is decree that all the adults were dying the desert was a hard blow emotions prestige for a short while his influence over the crowds before the children of Israel left Egypt while they were still busy building fortresses for power Moshe promised the short time after his departure they would enter the promised land but now it took much longer than expected and therefore because motion couldn't deliver on that promise and he couldn't deliver on that promise in the timely fashion that they anticipated and wanted that was class opening this was his opportunity so you could see this in a negative sense you could see this in a very negative sense of the fact that motion where's weekend Moshe was fragile and kora jumped all over it but the condition slavey we go from an ibanez rrah Arashi nerim ban and fast-forward many centuries to the collisions lady lady it's a comedy Germans from here a different lesson and a very very powerful lesson for all of us and he says he quotes the hora in him about mama looking to take of a Christian mean emotion I've been on which all my songs have fun why did Cora for a bell why didn't instigate immediately confront Moshe as soon as he felt replaced and surpassed by ELISA fun stand up say something organize a rally on local exams minagawa usually comes me I like striking summer party Lucifer Gloria rocks manhwa Thomas man wouldn't you miss leftist wrong you know why because caught up said to himself I could tolerate it siphons leadership because it will be short-lived it's for a very short amount of time ELISA father he's got a few years until we go into I'm sorry a few days a few weeks a few months until we go into the Land of Israel but soon we'll enter the land and when we enter that land then at that point I will take over at that point I will be appointed for a short time like a tolerate anyone can endure it can be so vel can be forbearing foreboding for a short amount of time he thought he was going to succeed him very quickly but it's after the high time arrived when he realizes this was gonna be for a prolonged period that's when Kodak says uh-uh no more I'm not waiting that's when he stands up and steps up that's when he confronts Moshe and that's when he challenges the leadership in order to take him down but the the conditions later oblivion scope has a second shot very I can fall in a very powerful lesson for all of us and he says look at Cora he bided his time he was ready to jump they was ready to instigate he was ready to fight but he was able to suppress that feeling he was able to conquer it he was able to control and what led to the discipline he was motivated by his ego and by strategic thinking and waiting for the right time but you know what if we can suppress our behavior if we can suppress our acting out or instigating or our sense of conflict for the wrong reason says we believe the intellect then we can do it for the right reason as well if we can do it for the wrong reason if we can wait patiently if we can endure if we can absorb if we can do it for the wrong reason then we have the capacity to do it for the right reason and not to ever give him so you're jealous so you're envious do you think that something's coming to you so you think it's unfair someone else got it instead it so what Cora was able to quiet that voice in his mind he waited at some point he couldn't wait any longer and you know over quieted it we have the capacity to quiet it for even longer how does it tell her capture how does it describe what lead would draw of Cobra in mental health of Cora the status of Cora Cora was driven by Viacom Cora mieka Cora and rashly famous to hear quotes to opinions lack of assassin without a cure Leo's Network Mitaka Aida what I mean by Iike Cora Murray cough cough beneath certain custom believe it doesn't matter the ROM famously the question what bothered Rashi that led to this answer the question Rashi doesn't put the questions but from his commentary we know that he's providing an answer to an implicit question what was his question what bothered Rashi is it says we cough cough cough took something the tour never tells us the past never says what did he take what exactly did he take did he take his staff did he grab his cell phone keys did he grab the microphone did he grab the social media what did he great mighty he took something and then it never tells these what it took tells us Lily inch core opinions have been constantly V stocks before Yakko plate needs to Santiago but it doesn't come back a comment don't include me in divisiveness don't include me on your resume on your bio I don't want to be referenced as part of a fight so Carl takes what did he take we get his lineage and he also doesn't bother army partnered with them Benelli off and on been fellows been a routine the great unburned palaces wife's there him the great wisdom Hoffman box Odessa it was the wisdom of wife that saved him and Metallica and Viacom and then they stood up so ye Kaffee what did he take so here ah she fills them what did he take lockup as optimal it's an actor he took himself to the other side they were all one side we were unified we were had a sense of camaraderie companionship of people hood we had a sense of patriotism of unity by Iike Cora Cora took himself and he positioned himself he placed himself on the other side Laura Alcona Missouri to him hopelessness what uncle says this plague this plague a plug des is an argument is a debate but plug means half he divided the people and half neck left me shout hurray the Hawks lead the McLucas he took himself out of the equation he took himself out of the unity he positioned himself as the other as the adversary in a position of conflict there should be no there should be no partisanship there should be no splintering or divide there should be a sense of unity not uniformity we can have different opinions and different approaches and different perspectives and different beliefs Judaism absolutely not only doesn't endorse it rejects uniformity we have 12 sluttin long before Korah we already have and we spoke about this in the beginning of partials mahmoud bar you can listen back on about from Gruber org we spoke about the different emblems or logos or insignias the different ways being camped under different flags under different under different logos was to express the uniqueness in the individuality of every tribe we've believed in diversity since we became a nation since our very inception so we absolutely reject uniformity so you could have different opinions and positions you could be different logos different units in the same army but you have the unity of fighting for the same mission fighting for the same cause it's Paul a lady Cat Cora he took himself out of the army he wasn't just in a different unit he was fighting for the other side mieka a splintering and a divisiveness he could have diversity without divisiveness and you could have unity without uniformity but Kobra didn't understand that velika de barajas is a second shot mihika cut off much of russia's on edge remember develop valley cough means how did he win people over how did he draw them to his side how did he recruit more people to his rebellion Vega karate now he took them very car with varam the power of persuasion he was an orator and with the power of speech he was able to draw people to the wrong side Kahoot in Muharram devar him with the power of speech with his oratory skills he was able to draw them to the other side to the other side all all together this is a big danger Marika Cora to be able to fight to be able to fight me salivate rexella Acorah means body cough means in korra took korra was on the take he wasn't in a fight for noble reasons this was not a maloca slashing shamayim this wasn't in order a different perspective a different approach to how best to advance the mission of Hashem in this world and are charged to be his ambassadors this was not on my focus machine shaman will come back to as the mission of famously characterized this as the paradigm where the example the prototype of a mock locusts Shalom the change in mind this is the ultimate example of mock locusts which is not for the sake of of heaven so why don't we fight and what are we argue about says the measure of the root of all my locusts at the center of all unhealthy and damaging conflict and contentiousness is a lack of Emunah mieka Korah the anatomy of mark locusts is that he didn't believe he was ego he put his ego ahead of a head of Hashem that was going on and that's why I Iike you know the Mishna says in all those slow shows värnamo Tina's other minute alone there are three things that remove a person from this world cannot jealousy Korah who is jealous of Moshe tyfa an appetite temptation desire drive which drove Korah and covered the pursuit of honor would the rabbi's get that these three things remove a person from the world they got that we said this at the beginning of Boreas they got that from the first three stories or episodes of the tone itself where the three stories are stories of cannot Cain and Abel and tyfa door hamabo adore adore amiable and covered the door half laga and they saw at a time of a cover hashem resets the world and starts again but similarly here Korra removed himself from the world literally birth Decorah come in kora the earth opened up and swallowed Korah he literally would see Assad's woman ha olam he moved himself from the world and we remove ourselves from our world our equilibrium our balanced lives our relationships our mental health when we are when we are consumed by Kenneth I love a cupboard when we're consumed by Kodak was by envied by dried and desire and by a sense of by a sense of jealousy these are the three things that remove a person from the world and these are the three things that removed Korah from his world the red-bellied sovereign beast realm of much of the debris Israel explains corrupt mistake was that he thought that in life one takes Valley kakora his mistake is what does life had for me what can life give me what are my rights and entitlements what do I have coming what do I deserve I deserve the house in the car I deserve the spouse in the children I deserve the health I deserve the livelihood in the income I deserve the honor Micah if our life is all about what I deserve what's coming to me when I rights and entitlements says the different you surly failed to understand that our mission is where I'm I'm like us calling them he wanted the Kuna the is not about what you get even though we have the madness and our passion the Kahuna is about a life of service it's a life of what you give there on how begins Mesilla susharma mathesar than Balaam oh the most important thing you certainly assume this Ashura Schiavo the the source of a happy a meaningful a productive life is to ask ourselves not what can I take but what can I give not one of my rights and entitlements for what are my duties and obligations maha vas ha ha olam Oh given Who I am and what I have given my Pecola life what is my mission not what can I take but what can I give that was crux fatal flaw his mistake Valley cascara he thought life is about what can I take when Mara Frankie Gaddafi Allah tells us a zoo shelter I'm a big machinist in law who was a full Sun who loses what's given to him but the modules are ever the basis Ross says no a zoo shorter who's a fool ha MA Abed Marshall Nostromo if you lose the awareness that everything we have is from Hashem and we have it not to take but we have it Norman be able to give not as our mission is why we're here it's what we're meant to be doing by ye Cat Cora he was on the take and he took and that was his mistake the a leash or Hershel Nevada has a fast inside here and he sees in kora something that frankly we are all vulnerable and susceptible to maybe some of us have already fallen prey and if not we need to be acutely aware and mindful in order to avoid the same ends that happens to kora says revolving the following this is in le jour page koh-sama a leash or train like Aleph it's in cage cuffs on back 160 it says the flower may I'll tell illegal Islam made my network Mesa hello Chicago showing us man I've shaken shots was pretty much of my Co tell appalled what happens see we have to use our judgment each and every day from the moment we wake up in the morning until we fall asleep at night we are using our judgment we have questions we have dilemmas we have conflicts we're trying to navigate our way through this world and we'd like to think that we are using an objective analysis we'd like to think that we're using objective thought in order to come to the conclusions about what's right and what's right to do and how is right to be however says Rev Oba the great mesh here it's so important to realize that in fact we have many ulterior motives that we are not objective that we are not looking objectively but in fact the biases that we have within ourselves actually cloud our judgment and they are a filter which can distort our thinking and we need to be aware in order to be able to combat it the Fela house kanae's don't need the people to care banal and that's Kate said mister I came my so we need to understand what are the ulterior motives and what is clouding our thinking nothing is a show as big mozi says let me let me bring you three examples Kate said octodad's Manila madness or son of Mohammed Matheson how we can understand do Mary Shawna Pasha Skoda will only look at his first example but of course it's our story the story of Korah the hidden motivations that underlie our actions don't just look at the external actions and defend them as if they have merit or value or virtue by definition but understand that our behaviors are often driven by ulterior motives and motivations and the first example he has is Cara number one code after three four things within Cara number one call a cool on kiddo she was so - Michelle - nice and walk across them we'll come back to in a moment oh yeah one of the things you learn when you learn those who will continue to join us Tuesday mornings 9:30 is every week I would actually complain how much I have prepared and how little we got done and I fast the time flies so we're about halfway done there's a lot to talk about so we'll get to what was Crocs argument he instigates this rebellion but he doesn't get up he's too suave he's too smooth he's not gonna say it's all about Milly I want the power and I want the honor I want a revote he's not gonna say that it's way too smooth his handlers haven't covered exactly what to say instead he gets up but he says it's all about you kool-aid on Commission everybody's equally holy and if everybody is equally only you should be denied you should be deprived who has anyone to assert themselves over us we're gonna study and see in a moment what exactly was Cox argument what was he trying to advance what was he trying to say but what do you see what did he do so the metrics famously tells us Tyler should cool it Amos protects out some entities by smallest one put down mezuzah they either should cool the condition but there's a slimy manic so what did Cora argue what was his argument that he advanced he says to moshe let me ask you if you have a Tallis and it has a string on each corner that's Kahless ru yo takes it sis of course so if there's a string on the corner where yo Tate's famous if it's blue what if the whole garment is blue doesn't even need success at all and moshe said yes it does - what she said that's absurd if one blue string can accept the garment certainly the whole garment bleeding being blue should exempt it next he asked him if you have a room that's filled the Torah scrolls doesn't need a mezuzah Moshe said of course every room with the proper doorway needs a mezuzah correct says that's absurd it's ridiculous what do you mean he needs a mezuzah if you have only the mezuzah a little parchment with a simple extraction of the Texans are going to exempt the whole room so if you have a room filled with tourists of course it doesn't need a mezuzah and what he concluded from these two arguments falsely but what he wanted to conclude was and similarly if you have a nation whose entirely holy it doesn't need a mezuzah it doesn't mean that it sis it doesn't need a Manny it doesn't need a leader Moshe you fired yeah out of a job we don't need you so Zoe she Tamaki feh amano-san mitzvahs the tank IDO shell manic successor Abobo what do you see from here Couric had a philosophy and his philosophy supported the conclusion that he wanted to begin with this was not a cogent argument this argument had Hannibal flaw to it it was inherently flawed and yet corrupted by it why because sometimes there are lifestyles or there are agendas that we subscribe to and then we craft and create a philosophy which will support the philosophy or the agenda it's not that we've arrived at our philosophy because the philosophy is correct and now the philosophy drives the agenda were the actions sometimes there are actions on lifestyle or agenda that attract us so we craft a philosophy that will that will support it that was fatal for number one of Cora but we think we have these external actions and we think that we can objectively defend them but the truth is they are biased there are hidden motivations and the biases underneath and that's what leads to our philosophy number two says revolver correction peacock I am I wrong mr. seracote's cockpit Cornish was no fool it wasn't a Cornish was a pecan he was a brilliant charismatic man so my raw oysters they're having to get caught up in the stress ain't no he toss of his I led him astray Russia shows you duly Oates's main menu she more shoe shock cooking in much of an iron I'm officially ending in luck he saw his I led him astray how did his I'd lead him astray because he saw in a sense of vision who was meant to descend from him his progeny included none other than Shmuel small are lovey small the great cause I'll tell us was as great as Moshe and arum soch rule who was as great as motion Aram was destined to descend from him that's evidence that Cobra himself should should be the chosen one not Moshe Sony kudasai kedusha bone F has to be too much about Sasha Ashura booah ha kodesh so number two you know what led him astray Karass says I have proof I have proof I'm right we what we do is we ignore the evidence were wrong and we disproportionately emphasize and collect the evidence that were right that was fatal for number two of korah something we ourselves are vulnerable to as well we ignored and we dismiss and we neglect the evidence that doesn't support our conclusion and we overemphasize and we only accept the evidence that supports it number three maverick our flock locomotion is coming see also show itself and that is the ocean emotion our motto llama owner Minuit Hanasi number three it was already it was all rooted in the negative attribute of jealousy miss can I sure shall Pasha the source of all passions cannot jealousy and envy it drove Koda and you see that when your jealousy and envy when you have this attribute and trait it clouds your judgment it makes you see things incorrectly it distorts your sense of vision and you think you're doing things that are good for you you're actually sabotaging your own success so revolve the hair not ashore and then he quotes the same thing was true in the episode of the Marah Glen he goes through two three episodes or the same phenomenon occurs and what is the phenomenon the phenomenon is that we think that we're thinking clearly and objectively we think that we have cogent conclusions maybe there is lifestyles agendas philosophies but the truth is there are all kinds of ulterior motives and biases underlying them and unless we have Torah as our guide and our compass unless we have people who are around us righteous people to whom we turn to for advice and who can guide us then those underlying biases and motivations will cloud our judgment because maybe there's a philosophy or maybe we even only support ourselves with the proof and ignore the evidence against what we want or we're driven by this negative attribute of jealousy of kena which leads us very far very far astray so it's important to be aware of the show cut just like a judge has to be very very mindful and careful to never accept bribery because it will make them bias so - there are lifestyles there are behaviors there are agendas which can make us bias to only see the things that will lead us to that conclusion and a person has to do all they can in life to try to remain as objective as they can and not to fall prey to that possibility simcha bounnam has another perspective ie Cat Cora we've been talking about vodka the first reported two opinions of I Iike we saw the basis show the budget sir valley cocky thought life is about taking not about giving so the rubbery kaki was on the take he thought that is all about myself my name my ego I can advance myself the greater be some come over Mariska has another interpretation Micah Cora says of simcha boom Cisco says that Sonic he had many Milas Korra Harada malice if you were the shotgun representing Korra and you had his resume Shh he'd be impressed what did he have it useless the needs are then Caston LaVey Ben Yaakov look at the EFA's Caracas atomic haha Torah was an usher whose wealthy Caracas ipecac he was bright perfect corners SATs could've gone to Ivy League yet all the mindless in the world yet all the mindless in the world and what happened buddy cough Korra says her simcha Wilma Kiska but Iike means he took it before its time Korra you'll have your day in the Sun you'll have your 15 minutes of fame you'll have your opportunity to lead to contribute to make a difference but you know what you cannot expedite ahead of its time you can't make it happen before it's meant to happen you have to wait patiently sometimes we feel that we're overflowing with the desire and the skills and the talents to give and we have to find the balance between us serving ourselves and making a difference but also waiting for the opportunity when it's our moment and when it's our time Cora tried to supplant others he tried to steal from the time that was for others he tried to grab the mic before it was his moment to shine before it was his time and says her sister says the great sound like neither can they give me de the earth opened up my tips are hard to SPEA by tomorrow some before it was his time just like he tried to advance his leadership prematurely he died prematurely and it was me that kanigan mean them it was measure for measure because exactly in the way that he made a mistake exactly and what he did wrong was exactly his demise of what brought him down says her simple poem but I'll share with you another perspective and this comes from I'm drunk I've been sharing over the last several weeks or months beautiful set of farm ash tumin when he saw mayor drunk a great rush Ashima in your jaw line today gave me his set of some very beautiful and he's very beautiful ideas so it's a quite a few in them he's bothered as many over the Michelin Turkey of us and the fifth chapter perky of us quotes comma flunky Sheila shay-shay minus F of a scallion any mark locus of the shim sham I am a mock locus which is really virtual of North locus which is virtuous which is righteous will last mine ain't selfless kyuman but it was not virtuous if it's a knock locus which is self-centered which is egotistical which is driven by all the wrong reasons then it will not last what's another locus the sugar mine says the nisshin everybody knows that's enough locus between Holman Hillel and Shammai are you understood and what's the muffle okay sure Lola shame shame I am kora and what should be the end of the sentence the motion violin just like you had two teams today Booker Thompson you got youth department is taking on youngmee's real Woodmere color war north meets the South Yungas rule of wood Mirek in Long Island Boca Raton Florida color war begins we have this week our youth departments are going at it with color war so who would you say is competing with him Young Israel Woodmere and Boca ratone synagogue shamayim Ferrara's the two teams color war blue and red so you have two sides Hillel and Shammai is enough Lucas that's l'chaim Shimane so you're trying to communicate there's a math Lucas shallow shame shame I'm what's an example of a mock locusts which is not virtuous or righteous it should be Korah and who was the other protagonist who was the other side of the McLucas with Cora it was motion Adam why does the mission of say instead it was the my focus in the example of my focus lelache mine is the buffalo kiss between Cora the whole does oh hey mr. question makes no sense so I've drug quotes a few opinions and gives his own testers yontiff the octave Lippman Heather the Great Houses octave says the following quote zoom out look his car Mohammad Ahsan Louis kid satchel mouth Lucas Shayne motion band commercial FM FM the kir'shara should the can enough show the motion curve on a solution I'm Lisa hi Sam I'm Shin Berkeley National Egyptian I am successor the aunt of Lippmann Helen Texas yontiff she Shama in hello Shama and hello were equal in their maka Lucas they're both Lachey Shania both of them had a noble reason so therefore we project them we include them as two sides of the mat locus Shamai and hella but here Cora who is driven by ego by arrogance by envy you cannot possibly position him as being opposite motion our own because motion are winless shame shame I am so when you're giving an example of the maloca Association I am how dare you got bid include the names of motion our owner they should never be listed in the context of not localization I am and therefore the only participants in the McLucas that was civilization I am were Caravaggio so I emotion Island they were in the mock locust they were according to this answer but their attitude in that my focus was the shame I am therefore they cannot be included in the Mishnah in that way the malbim may why this has a different interpretation and he says the foul but he got caught up in the Americas I've almost got my own shame shame excellence kaien and so on and the SR question will cause I won't do so my focus really shocked us machine it's done the muffle looking his head cousins batsmen keep cool on the scotland takasaka station line ulama loca shame the shame shamanic Nieves are covered I was at mo you schmuck look is any good Gambon and Russia's after laminate sci-fi collector now you feed them a woman to us out some star get the Camaro I love this shot listen carefully you know what the malbim says when you have a mock locust flushing shaman each side of that much local shame shame on him each side of that ma hello guess is unifying why because they driven the Shan Shan I am so nobody says it's not fair you got to speak at the last rally you got to publish the last stop edit your listing is the president of the vice president that all the way down a letter in it because the two sides of the Shan Shan I am so when what drives you motivates you as the shame shame I am each side is unified young Israel it wouldn't matter not that I'm telling you it's color war I hopefully she'll change her mind I'll find out later this week but Yogi's were near their unified as a team but you're telling said I gotta get Department unified as a team but when it's enough okay she launched a sham im1 what drives you is not to advance Hashem's will to repair his world but what drives you as your own ego what drives you as your own arrogance which rises your envy as was the case like aura Canada so so you know the my focus was between not correct a DA so and motion are on the Moluccas was between Cora Vanessa even within his side Cora had contentiousness and debate and conflict even within his side Cora had infighting within his own team whether muhfucka solution shaman the team operates as a team but when the whole institution when the whole effort and agenda of the mock locust is not wishing shimmer I am then there's infighting and discord even within the team itself Kodaka watts of Mukunda gaedola Cobra who wanted to be the coin guard oh right but does some nonzero own been callous had different reasons for joining the fight and roofing got recruited for a different reason to the fight everyone I caught oxide were fighting for different reasons so therefore that's how the Malbin explains the National coma focus Liu Shan Shan I am selfless guy and what's an example my shaman hello this whole team were unified shammai his whole team are unified so it was hill over sash MI and what's an example of McLucas Cholula sheesh excuse me sir Liu Liu Shan Shan I am Korra no sir not carajás either against Moshe but the mass Lucas solution lion is Kaurava ah da so the fight between Korra and his followers who are each elbowing and positioning for the leadership for the title for the money for the power when you're driven by instance your motive then you have infighting in this court even within your side even within your team and then Roderick gives his own interpretation and he says the following he says the following he says nyaka sha sha martial arts version of Korra immediately when Moshe heard a chorus argument Rachel emotionally palapa Moshe fell on his face and then a man says why did he fall on his face the lovely blue Chiara Muslim Cajal solo on a dollar before McLucas a zoo but he came a fresh remote the shimmer let's cockadoodle me my Lhasa MOOC you their emotional kind is their son Noah aaron said you know maybe chorus right only Hashem can say who's really deserving who's really superior who's really more excellent than the other maybe chorus right Cora has Jesus and well PKF aya is brilliant is genius his charismatic Kirov's got it all maybe he's right so motion are with their humility entertain the possibility that maybe chorus right and said it's in a shams him to determine who's right so the math locus was Cordova ah da so you can't say is correct and is ADA against motion Aaron because motion are entertained the possibility chorus right they just said let him decide so therefore the Marcus was Kaurava and us but not with motion arrow because motion Aaron even entertained the possibility that Korra was right three interpretations three billion doses yontiff the malbim and rev jerk himself about why the mission it talks about Hillel versus sham I and doesn't it's not the parallel it's not consistent then it should say Corran da da da da da so against motion our and doesn't Cisco da so we saw three inches tosses out of the malbim and Rob drove himself all this was in my kneecap kora so what scoffs argument go back to the foolish chorus says : the column Kenosha because everybody's holy it was so Hashem and in them is Hashem coleg Coulomb pollution we're not going to go into we discussed in previous years feel free glycerol a premium or on our behalf and go murderer Oregon the parsha we discussed where my celebrations interpretation of Coulomb Kenosha democratized religion everyone is equal this was coax attempt to dissolve centralized authority there are no post Kim and there are no experts and there is no business and there's no Sun Headroom and there is no Cassius and there is no organized Gabrus centralized authority should be dissolved and disbanded everyone's equally holy everyone has the equal opportunity correct says everybody is equal the great equalizer and he tried the air of Judaism what was his mistake he thought that Judaism is that what the rub coined the common sense rebellion the whole argument about if there's a whole room is filled with Toros wedding in the mezuzah if the whole garment is blue what do you need Texas that was an argument of common sense but you can't apply common sense to a discipline you don't apply common sense well if I let go of my glasses they should remain here gravity doesn't make sense common sense tells me that they shouldn't fall and learn to become a physicist learning some physics and you can have an opinion about it you can't apply common sense to these great areas most among them the total ha kadosh itself if you want to see more about how am i selfish a coin the common sense rebellion weirding cannot go wrong and in what ways do we similarly go wrong it's worth looking at but i want to share with you the great image hi and then behind the vision said ever the visions remember that mankind says the following what does it mean coulomb condition cora township coulomb Kenosha car said everybody's equally home okay sure sure Dushasan you're lying so they said tecora your argument why motion and should not have positions of distinction of prominence of leadership what does the community need a rabbi for what are we need a thousand what do we need to rough what do we need to post sake everybody is equally holy let everyone draw their own conclusions so says the mcian said the ESCO Rock'em everybody is equally holy why aren't they behaving equally holy if everybody's equally holy shouldn't they be living equally holy lives say hey you know what his answer is who is so Hashem in house Kadosh a main believer can therefore porque Oshima - wa salaamu some omen yes l'm a Yiddish our hearts just like the people if you say to them you know Hashem has expectations Shabbos Castro's honesty in business not gossiping there's a certain life and lifestyle that's demanded of us that we're supposed to live up to why aren't you behaving why are you living that way you know what they answer I'm a good person in my heart I have a Jewish heart that's what co-op was answering to cool uncle ocean we all equally have the potential for holiness but where's the holiness will be so Commission the Jewish art are you gonna show heart maybe not maybe it's not manifesting itself right now maybe I'm not living that life on the outside right now but will the Siham a Shem I'm a Jewish heart inside and therefore because every Jew is a Jewish heart and every Jew is equally Jewish potential therefore Cisco da most sexualized Authority no motion Aaron nobody should position themselves as better as greater as more superior as more authoritative over the other everybody is and should be considered equally holy that was his rebellion argues argues the division of Cerreta but I want to tell you in two days is gimel Thomas today is the 1st Atomos are getting quite dish to everybody in two days is Kimmel timeless and giemo Thomas is the earth side of the rebus that sorrow Menachem Mendel Schneerson they could tell them colors lebra ha whether you are technically alabama church or not i've always said we're all about matures remember the days when you traveled you traveled from business you traveled for pleasure you needed a minion you want to kosher food you needed a mikvah you could thank the red man who dispersed an army across the entire world he was a transformational leader arguably unpowered having built an armored army and a Zama sisterly love of the Jewish people and is absolutely sending them around the world and this week is his yard site so whether again you count yourself among the villain amateurs AAHA badnik or whether you agree or believe everything or accepted but there's our car so Tok we should have why am i mentioning the red bow because I want to mention them in this context of coax argument Coulomb condition because there ever has a beautiful insight we typically think of Caracas this scoundrel as this villain but the truth is he was a holy rebel he was a holding level if you think about it for a moment what was wrong with his argument he kool-aid that Coulomb Kadosh Baruch Hashem isn't that true don't we really believe that we're different but equal Kohanim Lavine mr. Allen men/women Methuselah's Barnett Scott's Lawrence yes there are different myths to us that speak to different people in the different roles the different rules but isn't that argument the one that we always make different but equal it's other than religions that talk about a human being as being a son of Kozma shell on the Son of God but for us call a that Coulomb kid ocean there's a caduceus Israel and all Jews have inherent holiness and we're all inherently equal we are charged with being better with being greater gonna write an article this week that privilege is not a dirty word we believe in privilege we embrace privilege not a privilege that we're entitled to but the privilege of the responsibility that we have to be better rats are cousins Barbara's a closest Israel God wanted to give the Jewish people privilege how did he give us privilege I feel like it belonged or omits us we're gonna talk about that so we're all equal calling the coulomb condition it's a pretty compelling argument Cora was advancing where was he wrong and why was he wrong and why didn't we portray him and as this villain as the scoundrel as this lowlife the interpreter never says in fact that Couric was not using empty rhetoric or disingenuous argument Couric was a holy rebel says the hey League initiative sir the me Sheila Carla was driven by this lovable juice and the recognition that inherent and inclusive of every Jew is a Penta Li in there wherever you go on the face of the earth whatever the Jews background there a holy Jew then Obama tried to hated he would never use the word hate the momager ever rejected if you talk about someone and say Oh have limited backgrounds oh oh that person they have no background they didn't get a Jewish education that the family wasn't observant they don't have a background the Babak trevor would say really they don't come from alvin eat we can Yakko really they don't come from sort of Kakaako and Leia every Jewish background so that background that every Jew has kool-aid a Coulomb kadosh in bazooka mush em so where was Kodachrome why was Cora wrong so we'd have the rabbit built this argument at the core of his philosophy was exactly this view the attitude of co-leader Coulomb to the ocean every Jews a precious soul a holy spark and we jus as infinite potential and deserves our love and our loyalty and our support in our presence wherever they may be he believed in people and he empowered people that was the ragas argument without giving into the whole history right now of his impact on the world and how close it came to almost not happening although I think that's critical to understanding the insight of the difference between Korra's the holy rebels terrible mistake and the rebel the holy rivers correct vision of crafting and shaping the world now the rempah had worked as an engineer he was introverted and he was extremely private and even shy and when his father-in-law the free thinker ever died in 1950 and the vacuum was created in the leadership they tried to quit the rebel but he rejected he objected vehemently vehemently maybe it's good doom of a Manchester happen to be near at the time and he stubbornly insisted in the red has to accept and their ever like Moshe I've been in before him turned to him and said quote what are you supposed that Mendel Schneerson is a member he felt disqualified the inadequate and it took an entire year Obama chose all no this is nothing in for you but many don't do you know it took an entire year for the rabbit to accept the appointment to succeed his father-in-law it was only the first year outside of the free deck and the previous Trevor then he accepted upon himself to powder the pressure and to accept and the Jewish world is so much better off for it today thank God because he agreed so why is Karaka villain not a hero and why is the Rebbe a hero why is his argument noble if after all was the same philosophy that drove the red and the answer is in the opening passage vodka Cora doctora took himself to the other side Cora took himself to the other side you know conflict begins when luck on someone as we said is AMA take when it's all about them their ego their prominence their power their leadership courts argument may have seen noble on the surface but he was driven by self-interest and by greed and by it's argument the idea that call a doctor Lankan ocean so that everybody is inherently and intrinsically holy it's correct it's beautiful its righteous it's right that part's right what he got wrong was he wanted to make that argument because he felt in the end that would lead him to more power would consolidate his power as in a great contrast there Emma said I don't want to be red but I don't want her I don't want distinction I want to lead a product life I'm an engineer I'm an avid Asha mahasin that's all I wanted a year of recruiting and pushing him cutoff wasn't recruited or pushed or not was pushing and recruiting people to rebell with him so the philosophy the attitude of Kali not : conduction which drove the rebus so beautifully they see the holiness intrinsic and every Jew and to send out his army of soldiers to be able to make that difference for them wherever they are that part is so corrected and so beautiful but what motivates us what drives us that's where the person has to have in check that's what a person has to be so very careful about lastly we saw that Rashi said I in heat a so his I led him astray what does it mean his I led him astray and one eye a nine it should be his eyes in the portal led him astray why do we describe with one I led him astray as opposed to his eyes led him astray so the answer is the answer is the following the supper are the holy czar says that you look at a coach bar who God has two eyes with one Allah God says mechanically strong he looks at us as angelic math we're only about that for three at mallik in were just below God we're angelic we have capacity and potential we are on the one hand accompli strong on the other hand with his other idols are tears because Barker says husband s Taurasi we abandoned Hashem Torah we are so pathetic we're worm food we're so deplorable were just above an animal that's how lowly we are Hashem has two perspectives to look at us and it's the two eyes with which we look at our own lives on the one hand we the godless our doom the greatness of man and then the other hand we had the shiftless autumn the loneliness of men and we all know famously attributed to many people a Jew is supposed to carry in each pocket a little pet duck a little look fit though should say on the one that the shilling of her olam the whole world was created for me God Mossad the mic'd and incredible capacity and potential on the other hand in our pocket the other pocket we should we say her any car from the a fair I'm pathetic I'm unworthy I'm inadequate I'm nothing and we need to know when we're feeling like we're nothing pull out the peptic that says fish me leaning her Ola got the Sodom you're great when you feel that you're so great you're all that you pull out the little note that says your future is warm food your dust of the earth you're nothing and finding that balance between the two is what should drive us to a virtuous and meaningful life but there were characters were described as blind in one eye Carrasco with one eye bilham was blind in one eye who are the people who are blind in one eye because all they see is godless are them all they see is the greatness it's not balanced by a healthy dose of humility and of modesty and it's only the balance between the two that can truly look and truly drive us parrot design passing sign characters an impulsive sign see if we can get past the last few minutes the opening the patient it says rashly your quotes Rob McClendon lav it's too much for you offspring of lately Rob London a leafy and rushing your quotes Rubber Company lady says now she Cora should be care fire Margaret Alice just there Cora was a pacaya so what was he involved in this just in this nourishment and there's nothing nassif are distracted by this core of pacaya hiya what was he engaged in this dose in fact I forgot who says it I saw the word peek at the game at Rhea and a coconut she is a lot so listen carefully the game a tree of the word PKF is twice the game a tree of the word sad sandy dollar 94 is one side the bkf is twice third you see both sides of something when you will only see the merit to one side when you can't even see the other side when you're unwilling to even entertain the other possibility then you're a fool a pig calf is able to see both sides but it be strong love Guerra the basis says what does it mean cara de que haya crock was brilliant Maharashtra's said what do you see the stress he says no you know what the stress was the core of thought of himself as a decayed out some people are too smart for their own good you think you're so smart you think you're so superior you think you see things so much better you think you're so much better Cora pikia hiya Morales sure said would adjust to think you're such a PK off should have the humility to know you know that's part of this coronavirus discovered I think has taken away our pick hosts there's no expert there's literally no such thing as expert when it comes to coronavirus or copan what we knew yesterday is not true today what we know today probably won't be true tomorrow nobody's an expert it has absolutely humbled there should be humbling all of us we have people who know more who are more experts but absolutely nobody is an expert in this we've all been humbled by the inability to truly understand or predict what's going to happen so PK Afiya stood there thinking you're a PK ah thinking you have all the answers thinking that you know everything is a step it's a total just to think in that way Marsha Levine was so bothered by Korah and when he approaches a Shem he says to mush em we're now parrot as I am posting test but when he tries to shake me says what is going on over here but if I motion my own is everybody my shame I'll take him on the cross some don't accept their their sacrifice look I'm gonna come in now saw COCs run to him I didn't take one of their donkeys I didn't even take a single donkey I haven't wronged even one of them motion what is that there with anything Kauravas challenging my sheet on the position of leadership why should have a distinction where he should have the power he's not accusing you of stealing he's not accusing you of siphoning off your own of inside information so what is this the response what is this the defense locum or Assad why is he saying it listen what the vision is evident says loja more akkad l'homme Arif under hypnosis a manly Ceylon Allah hard bein maja commercial antique aunty low Himura HOD man doesn't mean I haven't taken one donkey it says low himura god I have transformed their home they're not just walnut all the homer you know the morale talks about his languages vocabularies homer and Sewer home it means material substance surah means perform that we give it moshe rabbeinu red road at the Himura the donkey that Avram road to the akkada that was created in the six days of creation Navarro says that same donkey what an optic a donkey this is all documents of creation that Avram rode that motion learned that my ships gonna ride it how old is this donkey already the donkey's got a walker or wheelchair who can ride his back how old is this donkey so the motto says no it's not an actual donkey what it means Kimora's Hamer this materia a world that were meant to be the Monica we should fashion and mold and give it a surah we take the physical world away transformer we elevated says the listener to the neck high/low Himura fat madness ah see you think I not I didn't take one donkey but I didn't just shape and mold one piece of home air now subsidize her baima hungry us Baha'i Ohio State men LaRocco a feminist party a laborious in Robin rails and therefore when he says below how a osseous a fun ma'am I wasn't just a rare a friend to one of them I was a friend to all of them he turns the plastic entirely upside down the inverts it no she's argument from what the simple push up shot sounds like and he says it's not that I didn't take one donkey you think one donkey no I transformed all their home their I didn't just harm one of them I was a friend to all of them he turns the entire thing on its head and he reinterprets it so beautifully Roderick also has a beautiful interpretation we're running out of time so I'll just talk to you outside of joke says what is mush I've been in bringing up here mocha more fun you know what the answer is because he's he's exposing Khoda Khan Rock's whole thing was his ego right we contrasted coat off with the rabbit the same conclusion calling that : Kenosha and the pintle unit but are you driven to that conclusion by ego or by humility Karaka was driven by self-interest by ego so that's what motion says karana Velika he's on the take why is it welcome oricon what does that have to do with anything now says Roderick it's a contrast to Iraq myyy cough Cora Cora was in it know about mieka he was on the take Moshe Nevada says I'm the farthest thing from being on the take I had the opportunity to take all along I never cooked the books and never touched a dollar and never made a Xerox copy made a long-distance call never took a pen and pencil on for my kids when school started I never was on the take whatsoever Valley cough Cora Cora was on the take in contrast Locke Lamora hada I didn't take even so much as a lowly donkey harish about it later well uh so much more so much more but we'll end with this so much more I should have a postgame show of the partial for those who want to stay after maybe we'll start that bonus material but for today we'll end here with the following beautiful in my thing I love the Sigma Chi Moshe suspected Zion pasta hope tessai encompass most famous says by to Oppenheimer you can walk across the whole basa Ishikawa Cola idiotic so they fell on their faces and they say Hashem the God of the spirits of all flesh should one man sin and you be angry with the entire assembly motion hour and fell on their face and they say one person made a mistake you're gonna carry out its my gave up by the way passionate score off is a precedent coronavirus is not the first plague to perform the Jewish people in the world Caracas crashes car comes the story of a Maggie phone the plague so motion I don't fault my face and they say God one person made a mistake and you gonna take it out on the whole world listen listen to have that in reefing who's the one person who made the mistake who's the one person who made the mistake oh you shot God says rashly who are thought a the app then you I'll call a doctor so who's the one person who made the mistake a fatal error so the simple understanding is of course who is that cora coralina mister but moshe Sancta to the rabona shalom one person made a mistake a hope like innocent people suffering know very fine it says read it differently - yes tobacco lead on takes off omar motion i being role of a show on her chef anyatta hello Rocky Horror Hotel she drafty or son must speak they are Cola that ticked off Mahima she named Masha Boehner says one person made a mistake I'm the leader I felt clearly I didn't educate them clearly and inspire them clearly I didn't lead them clearly I can prepare them properly if this rebellion can happen a lie it's on me it's on me so says the vision is a thing they're trying the one person who made the mistake is not Cara Moshe is doing what we call taking extreme ownership they don't have time now we get a shot as a couple of roughly a couple of years ago a book by the great Navy SEAL by the great leader of the Navy SEALs a commander Jaco willing wrote a book a book I highly recommend called extreme ownership and in the book extreme ownership we get I think was a shot machine Pedrosa called extreme ownership this is all Torah all the Torah's about taking a fries other than half are expelled from the garden if they would have taken a fries if they would have taken responsibility I shall want to let them study its kind I've answered the question where's your brother I sure would have forgiven him throughout our history Antonov Hashem is willing to forgive us when when we step up and take responsibility what he can't tolerate is when we pass the buck but we don't take responsibility and that book extreme ownership how do you take extreme ownership this is the board I wish I had seen this in my find when I get shot machine madrasah extreme ownership taking a crisis this is an example products a lot motion Elena says for each occurred after Nikola aid that itself if you read that book or if you just google listen to his podcast Jacqueline tells the story what what precipitated the whole book was an experience he had fighting in Iraq where he was leading his men and something went wrong and there was terrible friendly fire and people died and as his unit was suspended and his higher-ups came to meet with them and he of course none of it was his fault it was his men that had failed but when they got to that meeting he stood up and he said it was all me no one else's fault because he came to realize that if anyone else failed because he didn't prepare them it's because he didn't teach them educate and inspire them and therefore a real leader takes extreme ownership a real leader doesn't pass the buck and that's the story honey chef ed Cole a daunting so it's not the one person who made a mistake and you getting angry when it's correct the one person who made the mistake and you get a very more angry that everyone is motion of a no this is a perfect example and a model of his taking extreme ownership you have a lot more that we left out I'm in session for next year 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