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He Renewed His Driver's License at 95. (Here’s His Secret)
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this 95 year old renewed his driver's
license recently and he told me in the
options he qualified. He passed. He's
very strong. He's a very special person
in our community. He's strong. He leads
Davening. He loud voice. He sees
clearly. He passed to be able to renew
his driver's license. And he told me
this is al such a like Jewish idea of
faith and optimism and hope in the
options it gives you. He checked off. He
renewed it for 10 more years.
We say in modm, one of my personal
favorite prayers, you have to
concentrate in modm every day. Pause and
say thank you. There is so much to be
grateful and thankful for with all
that's missing and all we need and all
we want and all we wish we had. If you
pause to realize what's there, we woke
up today. I have my faculties, a roof
over my head, a car to drive. I have
whatever I have
the miracles of every day.
and the wonders
and your goodness.
Problem is we don't feel them. We take
them for granted. How many of you, how
many of us
actually pause today to say, "Thank God
I can see. Both my eyes are working.
Thank God I can walk. Thank God I can."
It's when the person needs the knee
replacement or the hip replacement or
the this replacement or the that
replacement. That's when they say, "I it
takes me forever to get from here to
there. I took for granted the ability to
walk. I remember several years ago when
I tore my Achilles playing ball, I had
to have surgery and I was it was
miserable. six months of rehab and casts
and soft casts and hard casts and after
the surgery and I'll never forget like
first morning I got up and I tried to go
with my cup of coffee but I was on this
knee scooter and I couldn't hold the cup
of coffee and go on the new scoot and I
just felt how did I take for granted the
ability to just carry a cup of coffee
from one corner to the next. It's a
small tiny but you know what it is? It's
a miracle on
the ability that your Achilles work your
Achilles work the Achilles the tendon in
the back of the calf that allows your
little foot to hold up your tall big
body in equilibrium and balance. It's
unbelievable. If I give anyone here the
exercise, if I give anyone here the
homework, said go to Lowe's, go to Home
Depot, buy the materials, and build a
golem, build a robot, build something
that is tall and heavy and weighs
whatever it does. None of us will say
ours right now. And the foot, whatever
size you are, 9, 10, 11, a foot, 12
inches long, and have that hold up the
entire body using a tendon in the back
of the leg. It's a miracle. It's really
hard. I couldn't do it if I spend my
whole life on it. I have no idea where
to begin. It's a miracle. And we wake up
in the morning, we put our feet on the
ground, we stand up, we take steps, we
can balance with a cup of coffee and not
spill it on oursel or others. And we
just run and we just go do it. And we
don't think about it. And we never say
thank you for it. And you know when you
realize it? When you tear your Achilles,
when you rip your Achilles, and when you
have to have surgery to put back your
Achilles and you can't walk. And now
you're on a new knee scooter. I fell off
that knee scooter so many times. My
children have a collage of videos from
the sh security cameras from our home of
me falling off that new because you got
to go slowly and I don't move in life
slowly and I couldn't move and you fly
and it's it was miserable and I still to
this day now years later try to remember
and say thank you I can walk I can carry
I can balance these are
these are miracles and wonders in every
moment. But
we don't feel them. We don't notice
them. We don't pause to say thank you
for them.
And the miraculous salvation, the answer
that Hashem provides that sometimes is
revealed and sometimes is hidden.
And when it is a revealed wonder, then
we see it and then it increases the joy
and the happiness of the heart to serve
him. So Iran launches hundreds of drones
and ballistic missiles and they're
knocked out of the sky using a
technology the whole world said was
impossible to build.
It's the it's the open revealed hand of
Hashem. It's a revealed miracle.
these words that we say.
It means let us be gratified and
satisfied from your goodness. Unlike the
hidden miracles that we don't see, we
don't know and we can't be thankful for.
Let us see and know and notice. Let's
appreciate and articulate with gratitude
the good that you are doing. It's a that
we're living with.
It's a whole new
Did I mention we went to his ke this
summer? The great
It's a new a new explanation. Until now,
we understood the word
Hashem. I could walk around hungry with
an empty empty stomach. Or
fill up my belly. Give me a great steak,
potatoes, onions. Give me some good
sabenu. Fill up my bank account. Fill up
my stomach. Fill up my home. Fill up my
life with your goodness.
I want I want the flow of blessing.
That's the simple understanding. Comes
along
and he says no shot is already coming.
Let me be satisfied and gratified by it.
Let me see it. Let me notice it. Let it
register with me. Let me appreciate it.
Let me live a life of amuna. Let me see
through amuna glasses. Let me feel your
hand everywhere. Let me not take
anything for granted. From the ability
to pour a cup of coffee and carry it for
myself to be ability to walk, the
ability that both of my eyes I can see,
the ability that I can drive, the
ability that I can some miracles are
miracles.
A man in our recently turned 95.
We have a million of people 90 and over
a couple over a hundred.
It's we're living in talk about
miraculous times. That alone the
longevity is unbelievable.
This 95 year old renewed his driver's
license recently and he told me in the
options he qualified. He passed. He's
very strong. He's a very special person
in our community. He's strong. He leads
Davening loud voice. He sees clearly. He
passed to be able to renew his driver's
license. And he told me, "This is also
such a like Jewish idea of faith and
optimism and hope in the options it
gives you." He checked off. He renewed
it for 10 more years. [laughter]
10 more years.
10 more years. Halai. Halai. 10 more
years. 10 more years. So, you know,
until in life sometimes someone takes
away the keys. It's a very hard thing
for people when the children or
grandchildren or the neighbor or
sometimes they ask the rabbi, it's time
to take away the keys. If no one took
your keys, you could drive. You can see
you could press on the pedal. When I
tore my Achilles, it was in my right
leg. I had to learn to drive with my
left foot.
You wasn't supposed to drive. I just
learned to drive with my left foot.
Might have been safer though when I
drive with my right foot. When you can
drive with the right with the correct
foot, you could see these are miracles.
So that's
the the is coming either way. I see it.
I don't see it. I notice it. I don't
notice it. It registers with me. It
doesn't register with me. So I ask
Hashemu, please Hashem, help me live and
lead a life that I am filled and
gratified. I'm satisfied in seeing you
everywhere. Thank you, Hashem. This
amazing cup of coffee, this great
parking spot, this flight. No one ever
tells the story of the flight. Took on
took off on time, landed on time, had no
turbulence. I had my drink, I had my
snack, the Wi-Fi was working. It was an
empty seat next to me. No one ever gets
off such a plane and tells such a story.
That's
these are miracles in our time for it
all to come together and work out. That
combination I just told you, we took off
on time, landed on time. There was no
turbulence. I had an empty seat next to
me. The Wi-Fi was working, everything
was good. That combination,
it might be as miraculous as the
hundreds of drones from Iran.
It's a close second, but nobody gets off
the plane. You're just on to the next
thing. Am I taking an Uber? Are you
picking me up from the airport? Where do
I have to go? What's the next
appointment? What's next? Does anyone
ever stop on the tarmac? Stop and say,
"Oh,
I am I am I'm so gratified and satisfied
from your goodness. Thank you. Thank
you. There was no traffic. Thank you.
Corpo worked out on time. Thank you. The
cake came out of the oven and it looks
good.
Thank you. The deal went through. Thank
you. My paycheck was deposited. Thank
you.
Thank you. I can carry the cup of
coffee." says the Moshe
isn't just the ego. I need more and more
and more. Please help me feel satisfied.
More and more and more is we have what
we need. We have what's coming to us. We
have what's right to us. The that's
automatic. The is from the is
the is from hem. What we're asking for
is
let it register. Let me have a huga.