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He Renewed His Driver's License at 95. (Here’s His Secret)

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Rabbi Efrem Goldberg

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this 95 year old renewed his driver's license recently and he told me in the options he qualified. He passed. He's very strong. He's a very special person in our community. He's strong. He leads Davening. He loud voice. He sees clearly. He passed to be able to renew his driver's license. And he told me this is al such a like Jewish idea of faith and optimism and hope in the options it gives you. He checked off. He renewed it for 10 more years. We say in modm, one of my personal favorite prayers, you have to concentrate in modm every day. Pause and say thank you. There is so much to be grateful and thankful for with all that's missing and all we need and all we want and all we wish we had. If you pause to realize what's there, we woke up today. I have my faculties, a roof over my head, a car to drive. I have whatever I have the miracles of every day. and the wonders and your goodness. Problem is we don't feel them. We take them for granted. How many of you, how many of us actually pause today to say, "Thank God I can see. Both my eyes are working. Thank God I can walk. Thank God I can." It's when the person needs the knee replacement or the hip replacement or the this replacement or the that replacement. That's when they say, "I it takes me forever to get from here to there. I took for granted the ability to walk. I remember several years ago when I tore my Achilles playing ball, I had to have surgery and I was it was miserable. six months of rehab and casts and soft casts and hard casts and after the surgery and I'll never forget like first morning I got up and I tried to go with my cup of coffee but I was on this knee scooter and I couldn't hold the cup of coffee and go on the new scoot and I just felt how did I take for granted the ability to just carry a cup of coffee from one corner to the next. It's a small tiny but you know what it is? It's a miracle on the ability that your Achilles work your Achilles work the Achilles the tendon in the back of the calf that allows your little foot to hold up your tall big body in equilibrium and balance. It's unbelievable. If I give anyone here the exercise, if I give anyone here the homework, said go to Lowe's, go to Home Depot, buy the materials, and build a golem, build a robot, build something that is tall and heavy and weighs whatever it does. None of us will say ours right now. And the foot, whatever size you are, 9, 10, 11, a foot, 12 inches long, and have that hold up the entire body using a tendon in the back of the leg. It's a miracle. It's really hard. I couldn't do it if I spend my whole life on it. I have no idea where to begin. It's a miracle. And we wake up in the morning, we put our feet on the ground, we stand up, we take steps, we can balance with a cup of coffee and not spill it on oursel or others. And we just run and we just go do it. And we don't think about it. And we never say thank you for it. And you know when you realize it? When you tear your Achilles, when you rip your Achilles, and when you have to have surgery to put back your Achilles and you can't walk. And now you're on a new knee scooter. I fell off that knee scooter so many times. My children have a collage of videos from the sh security cameras from our home of me falling off that new because you got to go slowly and I don't move in life slowly and I couldn't move and you fly and it's it was miserable and I still to this day now years later try to remember and say thank you I can walk I can carry I can balance these are these are miracles and wonders in every moment. But we don't feel them. We don't notice them. We don't pause to say thank you for them. And the miraculous salvation, the answer that Hashem provides that sometimes is revealed and sometimes is hidden. And when it is a revealed wonder, then we see it and then it increases the joy and the happiness of the heart to serve him. So Iran launches hundreds of drones and ballistic missiles and they're knocked out of the sky using a technology the whole world said was impossible to build. It's the it's the open revealed hand of Hashem. It's a revealed miracle. these words that we say. It means let us be gratified and satisfied from your goodness. Unlike the hidden miracles that we don't see, we don't know and we can't be thankful for. Let us see and know and notice. Let's appreciate and articulate with gratitude the good that you are doing. It's a that we're living with. It's a whole new Did I mention we went to his ke this summer? The great It's a new a new explanation. Until now, we understood the word Hashem. I could walk around hungry with an empty empty stomach. Or fill up my belly. Give me a great steak, potatoes, onions. Give me some good sabenu. Fill up my bank account. Fill up my stomach. Fill up my home. Fill up my life with your goodness. I want I want the flow of blessing. That's the simple understanding. Comes along and he says no shot is already coming. Let me be satisfied and gratified by it. Let me see it. Let me notice it. Let it register with me. Let me appreciate it. Let me live a life of amuna. Let me see through amuna glasses. Let me feel your hand everywhere. Let me not take anything for granted. From the ability to pour a cup of coffee and carry it for myself to be ability to walk, the ability that both of my eyes I can see, the ability that I can drive, the ability that I can some miracles are miracles. A man in our recently turned 95. We have a million of people 90 and over a couple over a hundred. It's we're living in talk about miraculous times. That alone the longevity is unbelievable. This 95 year old renewed his driver's license recently and he told me in the options he qualified. He passed. He's very strong. He's a very special person in our community. He's strong. He leads Davening loud voice. He sees clearly. He passed to be able to renew his driver's license. And he told me, "This is also such a like Jewish idea of faith and optimism and hope in the options it gives you." He checked off. He renewed it for 10 more years. [laughter] 10 more years. 10 more years. Halai. Halai. 10 more years. 10 more years. So, you know, until in life sometimes someone takes away the keys. It's a very hard thing for people when the children or grandchildren or the neighbor or sometimes they ask the rabbi, it's time to take away the keys. If no one took your keys, you could drive. You can see you could press on the pedal. When I tore my Achilles, it was in my right leg. I had to learn to drive with my left foot. You wasn't supposed to drive. I just learned to drive with my left foot. Might have been safer though when I drive with my right foot. When you can drive with the right with the correct foot, you could see these are miracles. So that's the the is coming either way. I see it. I don't see it. I notice it. I don't notice it. It registers with me. It doesn't register with me. So I ask Hashemu, please Hashem, help me live and lead a life that I am filled and gratified. I'm satisfied in seeing you everywhere. Thank you, Hashem. This amazing cup of coffee, this great parking spot, this flight. No one ever tells the story of the flight. Took on took off on time, landed on time, had no turbulence. I had my drink, I had my snack, the Wi-Fi was working. It was an empty seat next to me. No one ever gets off such a plane and tells such a story. That's these are miracles in our time for it all to come together and work out. That combination I just told you, we took off on time, landed on time. There was no turbulence. I had an empty seat next to me. The Wi-Fi was working, everything was good. That combination, it might be as miraculous as the hundreds of drones from Iran. It's a close second, but nobody gets off the plane. You're just on to the next thing. Am I taking an Uber? Are you picking me up from the airport? Where do I have to go? What's the next appointment? What's next? Does anyone ever stop on the tarmac? Stop and say, "Oh, I am I am I'm so gratified and satisfied from your goodness. Thank you. Thank you. There was no traffic. Thank you. Corpo worked out on time. Thank you. The cake came out of the oven and it looks good. Thank you. The deal went through. Thank you. My paycheck was deposited. Thank you. Thank you. I can carry the cup of coffee." says the Moshe isn't just the ego. I need more and more and more. Please help me feel satisfied. More and more and more is we have what we need. We have what's coming to us. We have what's right to us. The that's automatic. The is from the is the is from hem. What we're asking for is let it register. Let me have a huga.