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Good evening, ladies and gentlemen. It
is Wednesday night, 9:00, and that means
it's time to go Behind the Bima. Behind
the Bima. I'm your host, Rabbi Efrem
Goldberg, together with my fellow dear
friends and colleagues, Rabbi Philip
Moskowitz and Rabbi Josh Brody.
And we are so honored to be joined
tonight, immediately, off the bat, top
of the show, by one of our dearest
friends, a true hero to the Jewish
people and beyond, our friend Eli Beer.
But Eli, before we introduce you and
begin our conversation, I want to take a
moment to thank our dear sponsors, our
friends Deborah and Larry Halpern and
Dr. Larry Halpern, who sponsored this
episode in honor of two episodes ago. We
uh were able to host their good friend
Larry's college roommate, Mark Wilf.
Mark Wilf at the time was the owner of
the Vikings, he still is, but as of
tonight's episode, might be the owner of
an NBA franchise. He's all over the news
with that. More than all of his sports
ownership, he's a great Jewish leader,
and we love Mark. So, thank you to the
Halperns for their sponsorship, their
generosity, and most of all for their
friendship. Eli, thank you for being
with us tonight. It is extraordinary
that you're with us in general, that
you've given of your time, but for our
listening audience who may not
appreciate, Eli is in Eretz Yisrael,
Eretz Hakodesh. He is in the homeland.
Eli, what time is it in Israel right
now?
Uh 4:00 a.m.
It is 4:00 in the morning. That is
commitment, my friends. That is
commitment to Behind the Bima, it's
commitment to Hatzalah, and it's
commitment to our friendship. What's
amazing is I told Eli, "Listen, you're
4:00 a.m., you're waking up to come on
the show. I don't want you to have to
get dressed. So, do me a favor, just
wear your pajamas, you'll come right on
the show." And you see this, our Eli,
for everyone who's always wondered,
"What does Eli Beer sleep in?" Eli Beer
sleeps in the United Hatzalah vest.
cufflinks. With cufflinks and a cufflink
shirt and a cufflink shirt.
Rabbi sleep in suits, and Eli sleeps in
a Hatzalah jacket. The funny thing is
Rabbi Moscowitz actually does.
I'm always ready to go out to a Hatzalah
emergency.
And if I go help someone, I should
always dress properly, you know?
You are. If you're going to save a life,
you might as well be wearing cufflinks.
So, it's Listen, when you save a life,
the cameras are on you.
cufflinks.
Oh, it's true. It's true. Ellie, let's
begin by wishing you a mazel tov. A
mazel tov first of all, a l'chaim to
life. You know, we start every episode
by making a l'chaim. It's the nine days
we can't have wine. So, I'm having peach
seltzer. L'chaim. L'chaim to everyone's
life. L'chaim to your life. L'chaim back
to life. Literally brought back almost
from the dead. It is amazing to have you
back.
I mean, in Florida.
In Florida. We're going to get to that
in a moment. Ellie, we're so happy
you're alive and well. A big mazel tov.
Ellie became a saba, a zaida, a zaidy.
And this morning was this morning our
time was the bris. Ellie was the sandak.
So, to survive, to come back to life in
time to hold a grandson in your lap, and
to bring him into the covenant of the
Jewish people. Ellie, what was that
like?
It's
the greatest feeling in the world. Look,
I had
the best year of my life today.
And you know, the story is not wasn't
This This year wasn't the best year of
my life. It was the worst year of my
life, but it turned to be today my best
year of my life.
Holding a little baby
8 days old
and they're doing the biggest mitzvah
doing the bris.
It was an incredible feeling holding in
my hands while I was having
the bris. It was It's unbelievable. I
couldn't believe I couldn't believe it
was true.
It's really amazing to have come this
far and to be zocheh to merit being able
to do that. It's extraordinary. Nobody
deserves it more than you. And you
should have a lot of nachas, a lot of
nachas from this grandson. You should
have many eniklach, ureniklach,
grandchildren and great-grandchildren
who should sleep in their Hatzalah vest,
and who should also partner in saving
lives. It's amazing to have you with us,
Eli. So, um let's get started. Tonight
we promised and we pledged to bring you
behind the Bima. I said, "Eli's a guy
who wears his heart on his sleeve." So,
you know, often we take our guests to a
place where people learn things about
them that they don't know. But, Eli,
you're really transparent. Your warmth
and your uh eagerness to let people into
your life is what makes you so so
lovable. Makes you so lovable. So, tell
us something that people don't know.
Tell us something about Eli Beer. Tell
us what are your hobbies? What do you do
to relax? Tell us something about your
life. Tell us something behind the Bima
people don't know about you.
So, first of all, it's great being in
this show and uh I feel at home in Boca
Raton, especially at
at the greatest shul
in Florida,
maybe even in America.
So, uh thank you for having me behind
the Bima.
And when you told me 4:00 in the
morning,
I was you know, I didn't have a question
I would wake up. It's not like question
people worried, "Eli, will you wake up?"
I had, you know, I had a bris last
night. Yesterday, I mean, just a couple
hours ago we got back home.
And uh I was excited getting here and
sharing a little of my story.
But, really, what do I have as a hobby?
Um
I don't have hobbies. I'm sorry. I'm a
boring guy.
Uh I love I love my family. This is my
my real big joy, seeing my children.
And now seeing my grandchild. He's a
little boy. His name is Gabi. Gabriel
Yaakov. That's my biggest hobby now.
Um
and my other biggest hobby is Hatzalah.
That's my life. I'm a
I'm quite a boring guy. Only my grandson
now and uh Hatzalah. That's my That's
what I'm left with. It's amazing. I
don't want to take the time that we
have, the limited time we have, and it's
the middle of the night. We're so
thankful to you. People should watch
your TED Talk. People can find online
the story of how you founded Hatzalah.
You're on the journey through something
you experienced, and your promise and
pledge to never uh watch somebody
wilt away before you again, and
therefore you started United Hatzalah,
and now it's it's really all over the
world. It's extraordinary what you've
accomplished, and and you really are a
man hero in so many ways. And I know you
don't rest. I know that you are
constantly raising funds to be able to
support it, and you are constantly
enabling people to go out and save
lives, and for that, it's really
something truly amazing. Who's the most
interesting donor you have? Who's
somebody who nobody would predict
dedicated one of your ambucycles,
dedicated one of the ambulances. Who is
somebody Jewish, non-Jewish, well-known,
nobody ever heard of? Who's the most
unusual person who donated something for
Hatzalah that people would be surprised
to hear? And mine is supposed to be
anonymous. You don't have to talk about
me right now.
I have a lot of interesting people I
know. It's one of the
luckiest
things I have is knowing incredible
people, really incredible people.
I'll talk about one You know, you
mentioned the Halperns. They're good
friends of mine, so I'm really excited
about waking up 4:00 in the morning and
knowing they sponsor this program, so
it's great.
I spent Shabbos by their by their home.
They're incredible people, but if you
want to know about really someone
interesting, uh
someone who lives in Boca Raton.
Unfortunately, he's not there anymore.
He doesn't live there anymore.
Um my friend Leonardo Farkash. Oh.
Um he lived in Boca Raton.
Uh he has long blonde hair. Some of you
probably saw him in Boca Raton, long
blonde curly hair.
And yesterday I opened the Jerusalem
Post
and I see that he was just announced
like the most popular guy in Chile.
He's from Chile. He never even thought
of running for presidency there.
But, um yesterday the
they they did a poll who could be the
president, so he came out number two.
And he didn't he didn't even announce
his name
for presidency.
And the reason is is because he's such a
generous person.
He walks around Chile giving out people
just giving out money all day.
And
he just helps people. He loves helping
poor people and hospitals and good
organizations and he helps United
Hatzalah very much. I met him many years
ago.
And one day when he came to Israel he
says, "Ellie, I want to go to the Kotel
to give out some money to the doctor the
people." I didn't think what's going to
happen from it. And we're very very
friendly for many years and he was
anonymous besides the fact that
everywhere he walks walks people looking
at him because he looks like
he just walked out of a fashion show. Um
he comes to the Kotel and then all of a
sudden he starts pulling out $100 bills
and starts giving people. You can
imagine what happened at the Kotel that
moment.
It was one of my scariest moments in my
life.
Hundreds of people are running towards
him, hundreds. And they are
coming from all directions and he's just
pulling out more and more and more
money. He came He just He's just such a
generous person. So he's a Bukharan boy.
Um he's one of my most interesting
people I know.
It's amazing. He's got a big He's got a
big plaque next to the great synagogue,
right? For United Hatzalah. Yes, I took
him once to uh
to even went to go see the
the shul, you know, the most interesting
shul in Jerusalem. So I took him to the
great synagogue.
And they they have a choir there. So
they called him up for an aliyah, but
the whole choir called him up for an
aliyah.
And he couldn't get over it. It was like
never had that before. Like 20 people,
Ellie Jaffe the conductor was doing this
whole yamo yamo yamo. It went on for
like 20 minutes.
And he got up there and he pledged a
couple hundred thousand dollars there
and he says, "I want to do a plaque in
honor of United Hatzalah volunteers all
around the world. So, outside of the
Great Synagogue in Jerusalem, you see a
huge plaque
Massive.
with his name on it. Listen, Eli, next
time you come to Boca, we have him for a
Shabbos, we'll bring in three choirs,
we'll give him all seven aliyahs.
We'll we'll we'll we'll build a Kotel
also if that's what it takes.
We'll make it happen. Eli, listen, you
Tell him it's
a Zoom call, I'm sure he'll come.
Perfect. Perfect. You know, you're
you're not only obviously the founder of
United Hatzalah, but now you've been on
the other side. Now you know what it's
like to be in desperate need of help and
medical attention, love, support, and
care. You weren't of course in Israel
when it happened, you were here in South
Florida on one of your missions um
trying to build this life-saving
organization, but you know what it was
like to be in a crisis and to rely on
others and you came as close to going to
the other side as a person can and came
back. And I'm sure you have a lot that
you've learned, a lot to share. I don't
want to get too personal if you if it's
uncomfortable, but um you know, did you
see a bright light? Did you see
something on the other side? What was it
like to confront your own mortality, to
not know whether it'd be another day?
What are the lessons that you learned?
What can you tell us about that
experience?
Well, first of all, I was just saying it
was the worst experience in my life.
But also a lot of good things happened
from it and I'll explain. Uh
when I came into I was in Miami, very
close to you and uh for Purim.
And right after the Purim, I didn't feel
well.
Now, I'm not sure where I didn't
where I got it, where I got this COVID
uh
disease, but I felt like something was
wrong with me, so I went into uh
quarantine for a few days.
And then
I self-quarantined myself and then I
went to the University of Miami.
I was probably one of the first people
there. They didn't have even enough
tests to peop- to test people.
So, I came, they said, "Oh, no, we're
not testing anyone yet. We don't have
enough tests."
So, I said, "I feel I I feel something
really wrong."
They checked me and they do a x-ray of
my chest and they tell the doctor says
go get two tests fast.
Like they went to the safe to get this
the the test.
And they tested me and uh they put me in
the ICU right away.
Next day they had results that I was um
I was I was
COVID-19 uh positive.
And it took a few days.
And the beautiful thing then that
happened which I saw was unbelievable.
The Jewish community of Miami, and not
only Miami, many people of the shul of
your shul of your community in Boca,
many people in Florida were worried
about me so much.
I was so sick. I couldn't breathe. I
couldn't talk.
I was just laying there in bed waiting
to get better and I was getting flowers
and getting
uh I got enough food for a wedding in
that room. I'm not kidding. These
doctors went crazy. Every 5 minutes they
call from downstairs. Someone just sent
soup and challah and fish and gefilte
fish and you know you name it I have it.
And uh
then like 5 days later the doctors say
um
they have to put me the uh into a coma
and doze me into a coma and and intubate
me.
And it was very very scary moment. It
was like I I know what intubating people
is. I did it for many many years with my
volunteers in Hatzalah.
It's You know when you intubate someone
you know that the situation is really
really bad. You have no other choice.
It's not the first choice you have. It's
the last choice you have.
And uh I called Danielle, Danielle David
who represents United Hatzalah in
Florida and
I said Danielle, we need to find some
doctors to help me out here and first
thing she did is called Joel Joel
Sandberg. Joel and Adele Sandberg, they
live in uh Miami and
he's a doctor and
he really took responsibility and said
okay, I'll I'll make sure if they do it,
they do it because they really need it.
And we started calling doctors all
around the world. Is this the right
thing for me? Because I was looking at
research
uh and things that data that was coming
in from Spain, from Italy, from
from China.
This is a you know, this in Florida they
didn't have enough experience about this
yet. Right. And I said you know, what's
the right thing? And then I called my
friend in Israel, Dr. Rifkin, and he
says
if you could not take go into an get
yourself intubated, so that's the best.
So, he says don't go in it. And then I
said, "Okay, take the phone." I gave it
to the doctor who came in dressed
Everyone was dressed like you know, like
they're in in the space suits.
And they started fighting on the phone
about me. It was like the funniest
thing. I'm laying there in bed. I could
hardly breathe. And the Dr. Rifkin said,
"Don't put him to sleep. Why are you
putting him there?" They start arguing
about things. I said, "Okay, I'm going
to call a third doctor." I called Dr.
Zev Neuwirth
from um
Miami. A great man. He lives in Bal
Harbour. And he says to me, uh
"Do they have any ventilators in the
hospital available?" I said, "Let me
ask." I asked him. He said, "Yes, we
still do."
So, he says, "Grab one while they still
have one."
Wow.
That was a moment that I realized that
we are in a real big trouble about you
know,
a real pandemic. In New York, they were
starting to talk about not having
ventilators.
I told the doctor, "Get me one right now
before it's too late." And that that day
was erev Shabbos. It was uh
a week after Purim.
And the doctors put me in into a coma.
Took a 10 seconds. And that I mean, I
asked him, "Could I have
a few minutes to just speak to my family
before?" It was Shabbos in Israel.
Right. Hm. I called my wife and kids and
everyone. They're all on a cell. Oh, my
wife runs after emergencies all the
time. I call her up five times till she
answered finally.
I said, "Gitty, this is serious. They're
putting me into a coma. They're were
inducing me into a coma.
And she started crying. I said, "Listen,
I want to be strong. You'll see." But on
the other hand, I was very realistic and
I said, "You know,
I I said I never really thought about
maybe dying."
I said, "This could be the moment that I
have to say goodbye and I have to say
goodbye to the kids."
It was a very hard moment that I had to
say goodbye to all my children.
And I told them, "Listen, all these
years you saw me running out to
emergencies and helping.
That should be your continuation of your
life. Always do hesed. That's the most
important thing for me. Whenever someone
needs your help,
just stop everything you do and run help
that person.
Just do that. That's enough for me."
And I went through all my kids, five
kids,
and my son-in-law. They were all home
and for Shabbos.
And uh
and then I went to I did a video. This
was erev Shabbos. I did a video saying
goodbye to all my friends and
supporters, all the donors, including
you. Sent a video just continue
supporting United Hatzalah because I was
scared.
I was so scared that chos v'shalom this
organization would not exist if I wake
up. And if I don't wake up, even worse.
I just wanted people to know how
important Hatzalah is. I don't know
what's going to be in the world if this
world will
be the same world
as it is now when I was erev Purim.
When I went to the hospital after Purim,
I thought it was when I if I wake up, I
don't know what's going to be. I hope
people remember to support this great
organization.
And that was my last words. And the
doctor comes in and he says, "We can't
wait anymore.
My numbers of oxygen my level my body
was so low."
So the doctors just decided to do it
right away and they they put the you
know, the medicine in my body to put me
to sleep.
Took maybe 5 to 10 seconds. And that's
it.
Wow. And do you remember from any time
when you were in that coma, anything
that you remember? When you woke up, do
you Was there a sensation, a feeling,
was there anything that you saw, any
dreams, anything you overheard?
It was the worst
one almost 1 month of my life, the
worst.
It was
I can't explain it. It was like the
miseries that I was going through while
I was sleeping. It felt everything real.
It felt like I was in my outside of my
body in a
very, very difficult situation of
trauma I was dealing with. I was really
dreaming terrible dreams
that felt like it was real and
I was fighting a huge um
um
earthquake and uh floodings in Europe.
And a thousand volunteers of ZAKA were
going with planes from Israel to help
out the European people, just random
random people that needed help.
We went a thousand volunteers from
Israel. I was with them. I was wearing
this vest and I was pulling people out
of the water, children and women and men
and intubating them. The same thing I
like that's all most of the month was
helping people, trying to save them and
so many people died.
And I went through a lot of miseries and
that was that's what I felt the whole
time and when when the doctors woke me
up eventually.
The first time was after 18 days and
then a few hours later they had to put
me back to sleep. So I don't remember
that day. It was a a really a really bad
day because
they thought I'm better and then I got a
uh uh fluids came into my lungs with the
you know, just got my lungs in the
in a very bad
um pneumonia.
So they had to put me back into a coma.
So eventually they woke me up and they
asked me, "Do you know where you are?"
And I'm looking at them and I'm saying,
"In Switzerland." That's what I thought,
Switzerland because I remember I got
hurt in Europe
and they put me into a hospital in
Switzerland.
And I couldn't believe them when they
said Miami. I couldn't remember how did
I get to Miami? Maybe they flew me from
Switzerland to Miami. I couldn't
understand.
And then my misery started of two or
three days thinking I was kidnapped.
I woke up
I woke up out of nowhere. No one was
there. No one none of my family. I'm all
alone.
My phone I didn't have. I couldn't I
couldn't figure out nothing. Like I
didn't remember how to use the phone.
And
I thought they kidnapped me. And finally
they put my my wife on the phone and I
was
hardly holding the phone. I had no
strength to hold the phone.
And get to you my wife says Elliot, you
okay? You okay? I start talking Hebrew
to her.
But they shouldn't understand the people
there. And I said call the FBI. They
want to kill me here.
And my wife thought like are you crazy?
I said no, no, I'm serious. And I I'm
not making this up. I hear the screaming
in the other room. They're killing
people.
And they had a lot of people couldn't
breathe. So they were just screaming
outside in the other room. And I thought
they're going to kill me soon.
But um a doctor there, wonderful doctor,
Dr. Maria
she comes to treat me. And she saw my
panic. She saw my worries.
So she she took my hands.
And she started holding it. And then I
see she has star of David on her chest.
She wore and it was Dr. Maria and she
had a Magen David star like a star of
David on her chest.
And uh I said you know maybe she's one
of ours. She's coming to save me. You
know like I thought it's okay. This
whole operation of the FBI is working
and
I really thought they want to kill me
there. I was already to I told my wife
call an Uber. I'll run downstairs and
I'll run into
And uh it was really bad. And then she
really helped me a lot. And it she
explained me the whole situation where
they am. I couldn't even walk. I was
like I lost all my my I lost 17 kilos
which is
How much is 17 kilos in pounds?
Probably 30 something pounds. You you
have an excuse. Yeah, it's 4:00 in the
morning for you. We don't have an excuse
why we can't answer that.
What's a kilo?
I don't know. It's like 2.2, so it's
probably 36 pounds that I lost in 1
month.
It's an amazing story.
Yeah, one of most of it was my muscles.
And uh it took 2 days or 3 days and
then, thank God, to all the help I got
in Miami. Daniel was incredible and the
Jewish community there was unbelievable.
I said, "I have to get back to Israel."
I I couldn't stay there. I was so scared
to be there.
More and more patients were just coming
there. I said, "I have to be out of
there."
Right.
It's a It's an amazing story.
We're and we're we're beyond grateful
that you're here. I know the other
rabbis have questions. I just want to
make a point before I hand it off to
them is again, and first of all, thank
you so much for being with us in the
middle of the night. We couldn't be more
grateful that you're here. Clearly, you
still have so much to do and Hashem has
so many plans for you. Your best is yet
to come and your new lease on life is
the greatest and the greatest
endorsement, the greatest contract
extension that you can get. But the one
point I want to make before I hand it
off to them for the next question is
it's an amazing part of your story that
when a person is sick, there's not only
the medical attention they have to be
given because you had wonderful doctors
consulting, but in fact, it wasn't a
medical decision. It was the wisdom and
the strategic thinking that said, "You
know, maybe you think you don't need it
now, but if you wait, there may not be
ventilators." And I know that that's
what you do in United Hatzalah, too, is
it's not just about the medical care,
but it's the ability to think
strategically, right? Cuz that decision
about going on the ventilator or not was
not just a medical decision. It was a
decision of will there be ventilators if
you wait? And it took his insight, and
without that decision to put you on
then, if you had waited and you needed
it later, it might not be available. And
I think that's that's what you do. And
and you know, please God, you'll be here
for many, many, many more years to lead
Hatzalah, but I know you've also
undergone a great effort. And our
listeners, if anyone wants to get
involved, right? You have a campaign to
endow every single day of Hatzalah to
ensure that every day the organization
can be supported because there's an
endowment that spins off enough for the
cost of running each day. So, you know,
please God, you'll be there and grow it
till 120 and beyond, but that's your
strategic thinking and wisdom to be able
to do that. It's really something which
is extraordinary.
I I appreciate you saying that because
really my biggest worry over the years,
starting Hatzalah was incredible. It was
the best years of my life, really it is.
So, this things coming up to life, more
and more these motorcycles were
uh driven by incredible people who want
to stop everything they do and run to
save people. And I saw it growing from
100 volunteers or starting with earlier
15 volunteers till over 6,000 people.
And responding now to almost 2,000
emergencies in one day.
Shh. Um and the incredible stories
coming out of it, a baby yesterday was
saved in a terrible accident, terrible
car accident. My son-in-law on the way
to the bris with my daughter and the
baby. They were driving, my son-in-law
was driving the car near the old city of
Yerushalayim. A terrible accident. And
we had to do the bris exactly on time
because today they have Zoom. You can't
be late in Zoom.
So, I told him, "Be on time." Guess
what? He was the first one to treat a
terrible accident in Yerushalayim and it
was and it was they're working and doing
CPR on someone and many of you are
doctors in this Zoom.
CPR on a trauma victim is almost
impossible to save. And they they worked
on saving him.
And uh there was a lot of people a lot
of people there afterwards came more
Hatzalah people. Once he saw he didn't
he wasn't needed anymore, he continued
to the bris of his own son. Wow. And uh
he says to me, while he was working, he
says, "I didn't think about my son. I
didn't think about my wife. My wife get
my daughter Pnina, they were in the car
and the air conditioning and I was just
working on on the on this man.
And then one day a few years ago I said,
"How do I get the Hatzalah
to continue forever? How do I make sure
that if something happens to me, this
organization will not stop?"
And I said, "I must get people to
sponsor every single day of the year."
And and they have the ability to be
partners in Hatzalah in one day, in two
days, in three days,
or more.
Um in this way this organization
continue forever. If people could endow
that day,
which is $18,000 a day, they can endow
it in in advance 360. This way they have
every single year for the rest of ever
uh uh saving lives in their honor or
memory or of someone.
And thank God, baruch Hashem, a lot of
people realized that moment when I got
sick, more and more people realized
you can't have Hatzalah depend upon one
person. It has to be depend upon a lot
of people.
And
that's the good thing that happened out
of this thing. It's amazing. It's $400 a
day to keep you up.
No, we don't want to keep you up much
later, but we must go ahead. A couple
more questions and we'll let you go back
to sleep.
I just want to say I'm going to go to a
cocktail now. What are you talking
about?
Going to a cocktail. Anyone want to join
me? Only $360. Put Rabbi Brody down for
two for two for for two years.
Rabbi Brody 360, 360 dollars which means
a lot to United Hatzalah.
When I get out,
it costs $18,000 a day every year.
So people say I'll endow one day through
Rabbi Brody. They take
And if any any amount of of money that
goes to Hatzalah goes to a good cause,
so Of course it does. Absolutely.
I want to I actually want to I want to
stay on the topic of fundraising. Uh you
are a magician and a master of
fundraising.
Um and to really see you in your
element, whether it's up there on a bema
in front of a shul, whether the last
time I saw you was at AIPAC, which was a
week and a half before you got sick, and
to see the way
I wouldn't say work the room cuz that
has a pejorative sense to it, but the
way you're able to engage people and
draw them into the cause is really
amazing. Um, what do you think the key
is to your success? Um, there are many
great organizations, a lot of
organizations that save lives, but
there's something about the way you do
it and what you do that resonates
profoundly with a lot of people. And do
you ever get nervous when you get up
there and you're asking a person for
$360,000
for for $500,000?
Do you ever get the jitters? Do you ever
say to yourself, you know, maybe I'm
over stretching here, maybe the person's
going to say no, maybe they're going to
reject me. Um, take us behind the scenes
of of your mindset during the
fundraising process. Behind the Bema.
Behind the Bema.
I'll tell you something I never said.
And you'll first of all, you you
I'm not a fundraiser. I never knew how
to fundraise and I didn't come from a
fundraising background, but my father
who he had another great great grandson
named Ethan today.
My father was a young boy in America. He
grew up in the Lower East Side. My
father told me an incredible story that
helped me all these years.
He said that during the Holocaust, he
went around to help an organization. He
was 12 years old. He went around a Lower
East Side and different places in New
York City
raising money to Vaad Hatzalah. They
were organization, a Jewish organization
trying to help Jews run out of Europe.
And my father said he was a kid. He went
around with a pushka
and trying to raise some money for them
because they were trying to save Jews in
Europe.
And he said it was the hardest time of
his life. He said people would kick me
out of the store. He he used to knock on
a store and come into a store and say,
"Hi, I'm here to save people in Europe.
Could you donate a dollar or whatever it
is?" I don't know what it was then, a
cent or whatever.
And he said people said, "Jews in Europe
are not our problem." Not everyone, God
forbid. A few Jews
kicked him out of the store.
And my father said I used to cry outside
of the store
with the pushke, how how could someone
not
want to help a Jew in Europe run away
from Europe? And some Jews said, "The
problems in Europe are not our problem.
They have Jews in Europe, let them
support the Jews in Europe."
And my father then said he got up from
his crying and he and he got up there
and he said, "I have to continue and
find the the people who do care."
And my father said, "I didn't give up
and I raised money. I don't know how
much, but he raised
and he was happy to be part of this
organization. It was Vaad Hatzalah,
saving lives. So, Reb Aaron Kotler was
one of the people raising the money. On
Shabbos, he was driving. On Shabbos, he
was driving from shul to shul to raise
money to save Jews in Europe.
And I heard these stories from my father
and I said, "You know what?
It's the hardest thing to raise money.
It's really you know what it is. You
have a huge organization yourself that
you run.
Sometimes I get a no,
but I never get frustrated.
I get embarrassed many times. People
would embarrass me. I had people say to
me, "Israel,
I don't give I don't care about Israel.
I'm an American. I'm Yes, I'm Jewish,
but I don't I don't care about Israel.
Israel had Let Israelis help Israel."
I never give up and say, "You know what?
I can't do this anymore." So, when I
stand there in the bema and I remember
coming to the
to the Boca Raton Synagogue many times
as a as a speaker and as a guest in the
shul,
and
I don't think about the $500,000. I
think about the $10, the $18.
I look at every person, every Jew, and
every non-Jew even,
as a
I'm giving them the opportunity to
really save a life because I do it every
day when I'm here. And I know what it
means. I'm not asking them to
help me build a dream of myself to build
a a a museum or a park, which is
important. Everything is important. I'm
asking them to help me save a little
2-year-old boy who's right now having an
asthma attack in Haifa.
And and he needs to be saved.
And that's when I go to Boca Raton and I
I will never forget a story that I had
in Boca Raton and I was blown away. So
many people in Boca Raton want to help
Israel.
And they see this opportunity about
Hatzalah, they say, "You know what? We
want to be part of it." A lot of people
it's not in their agenda. They have so
many other organizations are good and
great and do good work and have better
PR than
than we do. So, they don't they don't
support. If I come and I talk about it,
so they think about it. And a woman
comes over to me
and you guys know
this woman. I'm not going to say the
name her name because she's very
anonymous. She's not a
She's not a billionaire. She's a simple
person.
And she heard me talking and I talked
from my heart about my own experience
what it is to
to rescue someone from a fire or from a
bus in a in a after bus bomb attack.
Taking someone trying to save that
person's life.
And she heard that story
and she says she walks over to me and
she says, "I need to talk to you." And
she takes me aside and she says,
"Listen,
I don't know if I could do this. I'll
try my best, but I want to do something
in memory of my own daughter."
One daughter she had
passed away in a very tragic way. Very
very tragic. She loved her daughter
more than anything.
And she says, "I need I want to do an
ambucycle, donate an ambucycle." Which I
told her it's $36,000.
She says,
"I have nothing in my life besides my
daughter and she's not here anymore.
I want to make sure my daughter saves
many more lives. My daughter was a
firefighter.
And she used to save people. And now
she's not alive anymore. I wanted her to
continue saving people."
She was an EMT paramedic in a fire
department.
And
and we spoke about this. I I was crying.
Look, I wasn't talking to Bill Gates
here. I was talking to a woman
who cares about her daughter more than
anything and she gave that money which
I'm sure it was very hard.
And she dedicated an ambucycle in
Jerusalem.
And in the box, not only we have her
name of her daughter, memory of her
daughter, that every day the volunteer
that saves people does it in her memory.
We have a picture inside the box of her
daughter.
So, the volunteer takes out the bag with
the medical equipment, the
defibrillator, and everything every day.
First thing he sees when he takes out
the bag, the picture of his her
daughter.
Wow. And it's an incredible thing when
this woman gets an update all the time
about her ambucycle.
And that's why I do this because I want
to fulfill the dream of people helping
people and people getting help.
I'm just in the middle. I'm just somehow
I should put me in the middle. That's
amazing and and knowing who the woman is
makes it even more extraordinary. So,
thank you.
Absolutely. Yeah, I was late. We want to
let you go to my brother. Do you have a
quick one? Quick question on his way
out. I have a quick one and a yeah.
Well, first the first one is I got two.
I got but it's quick. The first one is,
you know, you go to Israel, you see
these ambucycles all over the place. You
also see those pizza motorcycles which
you don't see in America. Pizza
motorcycles, you don't see ambucycles.
Which came first? The pizza or the
ambucycle?
Uh actually, the pizza came first. Okay.
You know, the Israelis I always say the
Israeli the Israeli guys, they finish
the army.
They want to have a few shekels to go
out to South America
to uh to India and have some money to
spend for half a year traveling.
So, they go work in a pizza shop. You
see all these soldiers, they wear
soldier pants. They're old soldier pants
and they wear pizza delivery, you know,
pizza patata.
And uh
they need to get there fast because
Israelis don't give tips. It's an
obvious thing. They give tips only when
they get good service.
So, when they order a pizza,
they want to get it in 3 minutes or
less. So, these guys take the pizza,
they jump on the back of those they jump
on the ambis on the mo- on the
motorcycle. They they're driving in
between people, they go on the
sidewalks, they hit a few people on the
way, but they get there in less than 3
minutes.
That's how they get 20 shekel tips.
So I said to myself, you know, wow, this
is many years ago, over 25 years ago, I
was a kid.
I said, you know what? We're trying to
get there in 90 seconds. That's our
goal. If these guys get there so quick
and I see them all over, they're like
zooming around.
Um we can get there in 90 seconds with
medical supplies. And my friend says,
how are you going to do this? I said,
we're going to put a siren, we're going
to put a light in in on the front. It's
going to be like an ambulance on two
wheels.
And uh they said, how are you going to
get the police to agree to this, the
army, the you know, the the Department
of Health of Israel and everyone of this
and what do you they said, you have to
go get permission. I said, what are you
crazy? If you ask permission in Israel,
you get to 95 years old, maybe you'll
get permission then. I said, you first
do it in Israel. And then afterwards,
you have to ask for forgiveness.
And that's how we started with four ambi
five ambicycles we started.
And um
How many are there today? One of the
first people who donated an ambicycle
many many many years ago
is uh Mervyn and Elaine Jacobs from Boca
Raton, Florida. Sure.
Sure. Sure. And uh they kept doing it
every year, which is amazing. And today
we have over a thousand of these
ambicycles all around Israel.
Amazing. So it started as copying the
pizza delivering things and but we were
the first in the world and now many are
copying us. It's amazing. Eli, it's it's
uh 4:30 in the morning and we're going
to let you go to sleep. Thank you so
much for giving us your time. You're
really a hero. You've transformed not
only here, but your technology I know is
saving lives all over the world. You are
a shliach, you're a messenger of Hashem,
you're a role model to all of us. It's a
privilege to call you a friend. We're so
grateful that you're a friend not only
to me and to my family personally, but
our community proud to be supporters. We
walk around Jerusalem, Israel and we see
the names from our community on
AmbuCycles, and it's with such pride.
Whenever I do, I take a picture and I
send it to the members of our shul, and
you've given us the ability to partner,
to be small, tiny, junior partners with
the work that you do. So, on behalf of
everybody listening and well beyond,
we're so grateful to Hashem who has
restored and given you back life. A big
mazel tov on your grandson. You should
have many more. And a huge thank you for
being the wonderful role model and
friend that you are. Thank you for being
with us tonight.
Layla tov everyone in Boca Raton
Thank you, Ellie. Great to see you.
We love you. Get some sleep. Take care
of yourself. Stay strong. Be well.
Thank you. Toda raba.
Bye. Can I just say something?
I didn't expect him to answer that
question.
I'm kidding. But, no, the question I
wanted to ask him was, you know, you go
through a near-death experience,
has anything changed?
You know,
has your relationship with your family
changed? Has Has Has the direction of
Hatzalah changed? Is there something
significant that I guess we'll get him
back one day. Listen, after your first
question, I figured it was a good time
to say goodbye to Ellie.
Could you use If anyone would like If
anyone listening would like to tutor or
coach Rabbi Brody on some of the
questions
Okay, you know what? that he was We
could just like go in for
What's your question? Okay.
I think it's time to get into It ended
It ended up being a great setup cuz he
ended up having an amazing answer to it.
He's phenomenal.
Ellie Ellie's great, and and you know,
we can say because we know him, and I
can tell you I knew him when cuz I knew
him before Hatzalah was a was a big
thing. You know, sometimes you encounter
a guy like this, and you're like, come
on. Is he the real deal? It's too much.
It's too much. You see the social media
posts, and you see the celebration, you
see what's written about him, and you
say, "Come on. Is he real?" Ellie builds
He's He's the real real. And what he
says, he means, and he wears it on his
sleeve, and you can't make up that story
he told us about, you know, what he went
through, and and Hashem obviously still
has big plans for him, and and we're
grateful he does cuz he's doing amazing
things. And Remasco, weren't we looking
to engage or we're still talking about
partnering? How can we bring that
technology to us?
What's that?
Yeah, we were looking. It's
It's been on the back burner for a
little bit of time, but he has amazing
technology that um
that the technology that they use to be
able to summon volunteers um could be
very useful for communities, especially
communities that have large populations
of medical professionals. Um in a place
like Montoya Circle, Boca Raton, where
we have an enormous amount of doctors,
nurses, nurse practitioners, physician's
assistants, to be able to have a
technology where if God forbid right,
God forbid someone in my development
were to need in a medical emergency, why
would I have to wait to hear for an
ambulance to come, for my wife to be
able to go out and be able to help? Um
and wouldn't there be a great way if our
community could have the technology that
if a 911 call goes out for my
development, it could trigger on my
wife's phone, and she'd be able to be
there within 5 10 seconds, um and save a
life possibly. So, we are looking into
that technology. It's a little
complicated with uh with the 911 system,
but uh but please God, eventually we'll
we'll be up and running with that, and
and I'm hopeful because I do think it's
a it's a very easy, low-cost way um in
our community that we could be saving
lives. Yeah, the brilliance of his
system was that most most of these
things work. Um
they they should work based on GPS
coordinates, right? I mean, his whole
point was that you could have somebody
in the apartment next to you while
you're having a heart attack, and you're
calling 911, someone's coming from 6 mi
away, and they don't even know. So, if
it would track your GPS, and it could
alert the closest person, that's how you
cut down the time. It's brilliant. It's
really brilliant. Hopefully, we can make
it happen.
So,
boys, what else is new? About Rabbi
Brody, what's going on in your home?
Everybody healthy, well, coming back?
Yeah, everyone's doing well. I mean,
welcome to my uh Little messy behind
you. Well, you know what happens when
you move into a living room.
For our for our listeners, we're looking
at Rabbi Brody has been living in his
living room at what many of our families
have had to figure out based on being
exposed to uh people sick and and
quarantining and all that.
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So, please do. But, anyway, so for our
listeners, they don't see behind Rabbi
Brody, but you know, we live We've all
been going through. Florida's spiking,
its numbers are are going in the wrong
direction, and it's complicated. It's
complicated things for everybody.
But, I got some good news today.
I woke up to the news
that my uh son-in-law, Jake, made aliyah
today. He became a
Mazel tov. Mazel tov.
Simone said to me, she said to me she
woke up, she she said,
"Did Did Jake tell you he's making
aliyah today?"
Like, no, I didn't.
Speaking of aliyah, you you know who's
watching on Facebook live right now is
Aaron Schonfeld. Aaron Schonfeld, who
has been in Israel for about 5 hours, is
already tuning in. He must have serious
jet lag. But, uh the Schonfelds are in
Israel right now.
He's drinking that good coffee.
The Schonfelds are among the heroic Boca
families we talk about and preach and
promote aliyah all the time. For us and
our families, it's not an if, it's about
when. And the Schonfelds are among those
heroes who took the plunge this summer.
They went. And Aaron, we love you. I got
to tell you, he got to Israel and he
sent me a picture on the balcony. He's
in Bedouin. He has to be in quarantine.
And he sent me a picture from the
balcony in Modi'in, a beautiful
background. He's wearing a big New York
Yankees t-shirt, and he says, "I wanted
to I said I wanted to come to Israel,
the land of the winners, wearing a
winning logo." So, Aaron, we love you.
You got it right.
Yeah, I don't know about that, but his
parting gift to me was actually a
Yankees bag that I'm supposed to save
and only open on Purim. So, I'd sitting
in my sitting in my living room, big fat
Yankees bag. I don't know what's inside
of it yet, but uh Purim 2021 will will
break that out.
Rabbi Brody, remind me Purim when Rabbi
Moscowitz is in Libre yet to come claim
my new Yankee bag.
You could you could have it. Schonfeld,
apparently the whole family is still
wide awake and listening. Schonfelds, we
miss you already and mazel tov on your
aliyah. Everything should go smoothly
and well. You are among our heroes as
well. Really amazing. Really fantastic.
Really fantastic. So, what else is going
on? I am actually in an undisclosed
location as I've been mentioning in some
of the shiurim that I've been giving. We
thought it was just another fake
background.
No, I have no fake background at all.
is a fake background.
I wish it was a fake
You wish it were a fake background. By
the way, again, thank you to Larry and
Deborah Haber for the generous
sponsorship tonight.
We actually
I'll tell you about the trip location.
I'll tell you about the trip We have a
lot to talk about still cuz I want to I
want to mention the
totally give out the address and just
have everyone in that community go and
visit the Goldbergs. You can't. We're in
quarantine, but I tell you there's so
much we want to still get to and we're
running out of time. I want to talk
about an interesting phone conversation
I had last week in an attempt to uh try
to break
that. It's much more interesting. But um
but anyway, we had um two of before we
left Boca a couple weeks ago, two of my
kids got Corona and I'm there's nothing
to be ashamed. I want to model for
others. There's nothing to be ashamed or
feel guilty or bad about. Two of my
children were in a in a camp that was
following wonderful protocols. Wasn't
the camp either. And um so, we
quarantined in Boca. Quarantined in Boca
and then we quarantined mobile to get
here and then we're quarantined for 14
days. So, we're doing I think it's like
28 or 30 straight days of quarantine.
Were you nervous getting getting closer
and closer to the wedding?
I'll tell you baruch Hashem, can I now
we have a large family. It's a lot of
us. So, you know, we're thinking about
making like a reality show. You know, 11
people, 14 days, one house. And uh try
to raise some money for the shul in in a
reality show, but we're trying to do it
right. So, we we quarantined on that end
and then we got here because we have to
quarantine my daughter, please God, 2
weeks from last night is going to be
getting married in Sham with God's help.
And it's been a you know, every two
steps we take forward, we take a step
back. Every time you feel it's a little
bit smooth sailing or we can plan. We've
planned weddings in in New York and
Florida. We've planned all over. Please
God, it's up to Sham. It's all in his
hands. It's all going to go smoothly. Uh
we had an interesting drive up. We got a
flat tire blowout in North Carolina on
the side of I-95 late in the afternoon.
And that in itself is a whole story of
how we got out of there. And uh thank
God we did. So, we're grateful to be
here. Always focus on the positive and
grateful to Hashem. And it's been um
it's been an interesting ride. But if
people if people are sick or or have
been exposed to someone sick, don't be
ashamed. Don't feel guilty. Um and most
of all, don't keep it to yourself. You
got to follow the rules. If you need to
quarantine, quarantine. And if you need
others to help you, when we were in Boca
and here, the Lazarus family who were
helping us out, I I can't speak highly
enough about the family that have been
helping us in their home. And this is a
family of Hesed like I've never met.
They've an entire network of Hesed that
they've done to set us up, us shop for
us, do all the things. And this is when
you know what it means to be part of
community and the Jewish people and
Jewish family to be there for one
another. So, if you need it, don't be
shy. It's not your fault. Unless it is
your fault, but hopefully it wasn't your
fault. And um and and rely on other
people. But do it right because we got
to keep one another safe. That's a great
point. And you know, I was on a call
with uh one of the schools earlier today
about some of the protocols that are
going to be in place next year. And the
underlying message was if parents are
responsible and parents are honest, then
the system's going to work. The system's
going to break down if parents start
hiding and they don't want to tell and
they send children, you know, they they
pop two Advil and Tylenol in the
children's mouth on their way to school
so that they could fake the fact that
the child had a fever. That's when the
system's going to break down. So, if
everyone's just responsible, doesn't
just look out for themselves, but look
out for others also, and is truthful
with one another, then uh then it's then
it's manageable. So, I I commend you for
your honesty and for publicizing that so
that people can break the taboo and
realize that there's nothing to be
ashamed about. Exactly. And and we're in
this together. We're all in this
together. We're in this together to ride
it out, please God, to keep one another
safe. And God forbid we'd be in it
together. You know, it's the the Orach
Chaim in the Kadosh and Chumash tells
the story when you talk about the the
Jewish people's areivus, the notion of
being guarantors to one another. You
know, you're in a big boat. If one
person drills a hole under their seat,
and the other person yells at him and he
says, "It's my seat if I don't wear a
mask." Or "It's my seat if I don't
distance." Or "It's my seat where I'm
drilling the hole." It's not your mind
your business. You're in a boat. You
drill a hole under your seat. It's all
of our business. And this is no
different. So, everybody's got to step
up do the responsible thing. And it's I
have to tell you though, it's tempting
not to because, you know, it's a lot of
lives and it's a lot not I don't mean to
do the wrong thing if you know that you
have a positive test, but I mean even to
not quarantine. We got tested when we
got here. We're all negative, thank God,
including the two of my kids who have
been positive. We're all negative. And
uh first of all, it's unbelievable. If
you get tested in Florida, maybe by your
like 70th birthday you'll get the
results of the test. I know somebody who
I know somebody who finished quarantine
before they got the result of the test.
Here, they have rapid test. There's no
line. Moves quickly. You know, New York
is just a different world what's going
on here right now. So, but you got to do
the right thing. That's the only way
that we get through this. That's the
only way we get through Does it feel
weird to be off the circle? You hadn't
been out of your house other than shul
since Purim. And all of a sudden you're
you're driving through America. You're
in New York. How does it feel different?
What do you What do you notice
different?
It does. I will tell you this. It's just
weird to not be in your own home, but
you know, we were in quarantine in
Florida. And then we went in what I call
our quarantine mobile into quarantine
here. So, we've just been in quarantine
and and with Zoom. So, you know, giving
shiurim, working, having our meetings,
trying to plan together. And and life
has been shut down physically for the
most part anyway. So, as long as you've
got an internet connection, then you
have the ability to continue to roll.
So, um it's definitely different. I
think once we come out of quarantine and
we're able to I know that in this area
in particular, um there is a post
quarant a post Corona mentality. There's
no masks. There's no distance. People
have moved gone back. So, when we see
that, it'll probably be really
really startling the first time we see
it like landing on another planet and
like well, you know, life looks so
different here on this planet, but not
judging every place has its own numbers,
its own rules and guidelines and people
have to follow them based on where
they're at.
It's crazy. I hear I hear one of the uh
big concerns now is that a lot of the
schools are saying you got to quarantine
for 2 weeks before before school starts
and with a lot of people thinking
they'll take vacations finally after
Tisha B'Av, doesn't really leave you
too many days. I think you get like a
day and a half before you would have to
come back and be back on time.
Little challenge.
a lot. You know, here
I can't speak for all the schools.
But I know No, I know the schools are
trying their hardest. Um I do not and I
do not admire the situations that the
schools are in. They're trying their
best. They're facing literally a rock
and a hard place. You have health issues
with the students, health issues with
the teachers. You have trying to
balance, you know, maintaining a healthy
environment with the fact that if you
are over stringent perhaps, then you're
going to hemorrhage kids to public
schools and if you start an open
virtually, what's that What are the
implications of that going to be? So, I
do not admire the situation. I think
they're all trying their best and I give
them a lot of credit for that. I was on
a call today, you know, one of the
schools trying to figure out what it
should do and do you take the
temperature of the students? Well,
two-thirds of people who had corona
didn't have temperature. So, we were
saying half jokingly, what you should do
actually is you should have like a
scratch and sniff at the at the door and
the student has to identify. You want to
prove that they can smell, right?
Because I know so many people whether
it's a lighter strain that's going
around right now, uh at least in Florida
it was, where all the people lost was
their sense of smell. You know anybody
like that? All they lost was their sense
of smell.
you something. You know where people
figure it out? It's Havdalah. Havdalah.
Passing around the besamim, all of a
sudden it's
You have a second one?
I know a family I know a family that
tested they had antibodies, but they
were never sick. And then they
remembered, oh yeah, a few months ago at
Havdalah, everybody was like, "Is there
something wrong with our besamim?" And
they realized when they tested positive
for the antibodies, there was nothing
wrong with the besamim. There was
something wrong with them. So, yeah,
everybody's trying to figure it out.
But that's complicated.
want to shift the conversation because
it is the nine days. It's a time of
unity. It's a time where klal Yisrael
puts aside our differences and and tries
to see the best in each other. And you
referenced both last week and just now a
conversation that you had without
mentioning any names, but but I'm sure
our listenership would be very
interested in knowing how rabbis are
able to overcome some of those
differences, see past them, and and
really work for the betterment of the
Jewish people as a whole.
Uh you know,
maybe getting into details, maybe not.
Let's see, it's 9:51. I've got a few
minutes left and I'm getting a lot of
texts from people close to me
trying to encourage me in a certain
direction here, but so I'll so I'll
start out saying like this. I think that
as rabbis, I think as people, I think
all people, we go through a struggle
saying
or what we're supposed to ask ourselves
in each and every moment is what does
Hashem want from me? Is this a fight
that is a machlokes l'shem shamayim? Is
this a not a fight cuz God forbid we
should never be engaged in a fight.
Takes two to fight and we should never
be engaged in a fight. Is this an
effort? Is this an agenda? Is the
difference of opinion here one which
Hashem would be proud of, that God wants
me to stand up and to represent and to
fight? Maybe there are victims. Maybe
there are people on the other side and
and and to create some resolution or to
create some reconciliation is unfair to
people who've been hurt on the other
side that you're not entitled to. Maybe
Hashem wants us to stand up and fight
right and remain firm and oh have they
Hashem sin urah, if you love God then
you'll confront what you think is bad.
And on the other hand you say, you know,
we're small people in the world and
we've got a lot of enemies from the
outside and maybe we've got different
approaches and different ways that we
speak and different ways that we
communicate, but you know, if if we'd
like to believe in the tzelem Elokim in
everybody, then then people deserve a
second chance. And if they're willing to
come clean and say that I I pledge and I
promise that I'm not going to attack or
call names to specific people again.
I'll fight for my ideas and I'll express
my ideas strongly because that's my
tradition of where I come from, but I do
commit to you that it was a mistake and
I apologize and I won't I won't attack
names anymore. So, maybe Hashem wants
you then to say, "Okay, that's a big
step forward. That's progress. That
means something and maybe let's
reconcile and let's move forward and
let's hope for the best and I'm going to
hold you to that promise." and that
would represent a good a good
breakthrough. So, I will say on this
call that I struggle. I I don't know
which of those is the correct answer,
but nevertheless, I did have a phone
call
um last week for a good hour 20 minutes
um and um and I remain I was conflicted
before the call. I was conflicted during
the call and I'm conflicted now, but I I
will say that I I do hope for the best
and I take someone at their word and I
hope that it's true. So, Rabbi Yosef
Mizrachi and I spoke for a little over
an hour last week. It was convened by a
dear friend and mentor of mine, Rabbi
Howard, the head of the OU, who asked us
to get together, have a conversation and
if something could be worked out. And uh
you know, I still have enormous
disagreement in the style and things
that were said and the impact that it
had. I don't take back any of that. I
won't stand by any of that, but I will
say that you know, he apologized to me
personally. To others he's hurt, he
would have to reconcile directly with
them. I don't represent and don't don't
um
pretend to represent anyone else, but in
my conversation, I took him at his word
in the spirit of the three weeks, the
nine days and wanting to rebuild the
base of the mikdash, I accepted apology.
Um I had a specific issue that I felt
that I should be accountable before, for
which I acknowledged um and uh wanted to
move forward and he he acknowledged to
me that you know, it's a mistake to call
people names and to attack them
personally and he will continue in his
tradition of where he comes from to
speak strongly about topics that maybe
we avoid, schar v'onesh, reward and
punishment and not only ahavah that
Hashem loves you, but yirah, you better
fear if you get it wrong, lightning's
going to strike, you're going to burn.
That is a tradition and it is a
tradition that he comes from, that he
feels comfortable with, and I guess he's
entitled to it, but he's not entitled to
um treat people a certain way. And so,
I, you know, going into Tisha B'Av, I
hope that he will follow through on his
word, and I hope we can take him at it,
and we'll be watching carefully, and I
hope that we can I hope he would
reconcile with anyone else that he's
hurt or has felt hurt by him. I hope
he'll
he'll change his way in that way. I hope
he'll uh accept uh my heartfelt uh
comment to him about one thing that I
think I could have done differently, and
in that spirit, I hope we can bring the
Geulah, cuz that's what it's about. Have
Have you been in touch with anyone else
on that list, the other 13 rabbis? Have
they reached out to you, or
Uh I've had contact. I've had contact.
And And what I introduced this with in
saying that it's a real tension. So,
those who are going to follow through
and weigh in and give me all their
opinions, including those I might be
quarantined with right now, I I remain
very conflicted, and I'm honest and
transparent about being conflicted about
the two approaches to it. But first of
all, when your good friend asks you to
do something, then you got to do it, and
you got to make that effort. And um
And And in the spirit, you know, if we
want Hashem to forgive us, give us a
second chance, then maybe we have to be
willing. Is it Are we entitled? Are we
the only one who can grant that
forgiveness? Or there are other injured
parties who have to give their own
forgiveness? So, it's complicated. It's
complex, and I don't want to in any way
oversimplify it. I can only speak for
myself. And I don't stand before you
with a sense of a Kumbaya, it's great,
we're going to have a Kumsitz,
everything's going to be good. Um
although it's possible we're
geographically near each other right
now. I I don't mean to suggest that
whatsoever, but I do want to say that in
the spirit hopefully of Hashem bringing
redemption to the world and
reconciliation and a sense of Ahavas
Chinam. Ahavas Chinam means even when
it's not deserved. Rav Kook famously
said, "If I have to err on the side of
either the too much Ahavas Chinam,
baseless love, or too much Sinus Chinam,
baseless hate, then I'm going to err on
the side of of baseless love." So,
Kapdei over Hashdei, I do so somewhat
reluctantly and carefully, and um I hope
that it is a productive and has a
productive outcome, and and it'll be
what it'll be. I think the most thing is
to demonstrate. If he demonstrates it, I
I've never
I did sign a letter that I I
in retrospect should have called him and
discussed with him directly before I had
signed that letter, but in the several
years since whatever public clash there
might have been, I've never said a word.
I've never said a word. I've never dealt
with it. I've moved on.
But so I you know, I hope I don't have
to demonstrate any peace cuz I've never
demonstrated any conflict. But hopefully
he'll demonstrate a follow-up on what we
talked about and we'll take it from
there. But I would I would urge everyone
without belaboring this point, anyone in
your life that you have a conflict that
you think you can't reconcile, you know,
we think of Rosh Hashanah and Kippur as
the time to do that. The three weeks,
the nine days. We want this pandemic to
end. We want anti-Semitism to end. We
want hatred between people to end. I
think it's it's a good time. If we want
to not be sitting on the floor on Tisha
B'Av to try to reach out and find
somebody and and reconcile to the
ability that you can.
Well, you know, we say Tommy the Marvim
Shalom Baolam, that our job is to to
create and foster peace. And so I thank
you for modeling that. You really just
used your Tisha B'Av night speech. So
you'll have to come up with something
new next week. I couldn't talk about
Tisha B'Av night. It would be too
distracting and that's not what Tisha
B'Av is about. I wouldn't want to
distract people. It's not It's not a big
story. There's no big headline here. I
don't want it to be. I'm saying it in
passing as an update and I hope it's
something that will actually work out.
And like I say, I share it not to focus
on it or for it to be a headline or a
story, but more for all of us and in
other areas of our life to be able to to
try to for the sake of shalom. The
Klimax Bracha, you know, our tradition
teaches us that there's nothing There's
nothing that brings blessing in our life
and who doesn't want and need blessing
right now in their life more than peace,
more than shalom. It has to be real. It
has to be genuine. It has to be l'shem
shamayim, but if it can be achieved or
we can try it, then it's worth it.
Is there anything we need to work out?
Three of us?
I don't know. That question is for to
Eli Beer, but I think we're good.
I think we'll probably be good at this.
Okay.
Yeah. I saw one other interesting thing.
We got a couple minutes left. So, my
friend Rabbi Shmuel who's a great
friend, a great rabbi, and great next
shared with me a very interesting thing.
Should I do a screen share here? Hold on
a
runner.
Is he a great runner? Does he run? Big
runner. He and I ran at the OU
conference last year. We went on a
little run together. He's a
That's amazing.
My future machatainista, in 2 weeks who
will be my daughter's mother-in-law,
shared with me the other day. I won't I
won't say the age at which she completed
her first marathon, but pretty much put
me to shame. I thought I was somewhat
athletic, but she ran a full marathon,
Philadelphia, finished it in amazing
time, and they are workout beasts, the
Minskys, my new family who I love so.
There's still hope for me then. There's
still hope for me. We just need the
marathons to start up again before I'm
50, and then there's hope for me. I told
her your story. You could do it. There
are marathon runners who run at 60 and
70 and beyond. You got this. I might do
virtual. I might go virtual soon.
Okay, I'm not I'm not screen sharing
this. I'm not going to screen share. I'm
just going to ask you. You ready? It was
a website. Someone wrote code to search
the web for instances of {quote} during
these blank times, since the beginning
of March. So, it was a like an
algorithm, a code that searched the web
for whenever someone used the expression
during these blank times, since the
beginning of March. All kinds of
adjectives to describe what these times
are, right? So, we know that Yoli
describes them as the unprecedented
times. So, how would you fill in that
blank, Rabbi Brody? During these what
blank what times? What would you say?
I just was actually reading something. I
lost you for a second.
What are we talking about?
Crazy, insane,
crazy, insane, unprecedented. Those
would be my three. During these blank
times, our fact checker says uncertain.
During these uncertain times.
Rabbi Moscowitz said his. Rabbi Brody,
how would you during these what times,
these blank times? He searched the
internet. He created an algorithm, a
code to figure what were the number one
terms during these blank times
Challenging times.
During these challenging times.
checker.
During challenging times. Rabbi
Moscowitz, what did you say?
I said crazy, insane, and unprecedented.
Those would be my three.
Crazy, insane, and unprecedented. Okay,
so I will Can I screen share here? I
don't want to take too much time. There
it is.
Do you see that? So here is internet
search results from during these blank
times since March 1st, 2020. So we have
I guess the bigger the size, the more
that it appeared on the internet.
Unprecedented, trying, difficult,
challenging, uncertain, tough, and then
you've got a whole bunch of other ones.
Troubled, stressful, crazy,
extraordinary, unusual, critical,
very interesting, chaotic, crucial,
unpleasant, shocking, torrid, scary. So
many different words could fill in that
blank.
What was fascinating is
whoever filled in the blank with that
word probably says so much about them,
right? If you called it extraordinary or
new or important or uncharted.
Financial versus the people who used
hopeless and bleak,
turbulent, unfamiliar,
adverse,
unschooling, unsettled, extreme,
notable. Right, some of these are
neutral words, some of them are positive
words, and some of them are negative
words.
Oh yeah, what were they by the way? Now
that I stopped screen sharing. Nothing I
would be embarrassed about. I'm just
Let's see what else did I have open
there.
I had a couple Google Docs open.
I had Facebook which we're going to. Had
a great article from the Wall Street
Journal about uh the science of prayer.
Some other tabs, but that's for next
week. We have reached the end of our
night. And uh want to thank Ellie Beer
for being with us 4:00 a.m. This is our
first our first guest from Israel who
woke up in the middle of the night. The
pressure's now on some of the other
guests we've invited from Israel. We've
got some invites out there that are
really amazing. He's so real. He's such
a hard working guy. And it's amazing,
Rabbi, you were you and I were with him
at AIPAC a week before that happened.
Right. Sitting in in
downstairs in the big hall room and
he's he's a good guy. He's really one of
the game changers of our time. Phil, we
took a picture on one of those
motorcycles, remember? We did. That was
many years ago on a trip to Israel, our
first one together.
Incredible. Definitely a very special
guy. So, um we are off next week. Next
week is Tisha B'Av evening.
Tisha B'Av night, inappropriate for
Behind the Bima, obviously, on Tisha
B'Av night.
We are on. Everyone is invited to come
8:35 p.m. Tune in to listen to Rabbi
Goldberg's introductory words
the keynotes, which I promise you
promise you, money back guaranteed, will
transform your Tisha B'Av.
Yeah, I wouldn't I wouldn't guarantee
anything. And I guess now I know what I
can talk about at Tisha B'Av night since
you said that that speech was given.
But, listen, I hope that we will be on
next week because hopefully we'll be
broadcasting from Eretz Kodesh with Eli
Beer or live and in person with the
arrival of Mashiach ben Tzidkiyahu ben
Meir Amen. Please God, we'll all be
together. But, if he doesn't come and
you and I have not yet brought him, then
we'll be off next Wednesday night and
please God continue from there. Rabbi
Moscowitz tonight will be giving a
running commentary of your commentary.
Next week.
We should totally do We should have a
show.
Until then, everyone, stay happy, stay
healthy, and stay holy. Have a wonderful
night.