What If They Won’t Forgive You? | Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky

You go to somebody after Yom Kippur, and you say, "You might as well come in the says, "Yes." They don't mean it. They just know that that's what they're supposed to say. They don't really believe it. And you didn't really get machila. And uh the person is still bears a grudge. So, if the person is honest enough with you already to say, "I'm really, really hurt, and I'm not ready to let go of it." That's a good sign. I mean, sometimes we do some really bad things. And it takes a lot of time. And sometimes it could take a person a very long time to choose to forgive you. But that doesn't mean you give up. Sometimes people might be very angry. And you have to be real. Someone may not forgive you that quickly. But that doesn't make excuse me from doing everything I can to win them over.