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hi Dei welcome to the par and five where
we give you a little insight into the
para that you can use for five minutes
now my father used to give us
BR that's the only time he gave us bras
but some people have the minut of doing
it every Friday night so uh whether you
do or not so you know what's the BR we
give our
sons what's the we give our daughters
you should be like like sah Rifka ra
Le well if we say to our girls you
should be like sah Rifka ra Leia why
don't say to our boys you should be and
yob why do we
take now of course you could say because
Yakov said everyone's going to bless
their children to be like a manasha but
that just begs the question why what's
the significance of aim and manasha over
anybody
else so you know the story
Yosef brings his children and he puts
manasha on yacob's right and he puts
ephra on his left because he wants him
to put the right hand on the older one
and the left hand on the younger one and
he's setting it up for him because he
knew that Yakov had a problem seeing and
Yakov does the old switcher rooni and
switches the hands and puts his right
hand on Ephraim and he puts his uh left
hand on
manasha and yoseph says oh no not
again you know what I went through
because you decided to tell everybody I
was the B when I really wasn't you know
let's not do this again Dad and he tries
to move his hand and he lets him try he
doesn't stop him and yoseph cannot budge
yakov's
hand because yakob used this hand to
fight a Malik with to a
standstill now so you going to move this
hand go ahead
y don't worry I already know what you
know yeah I'm not making a mistake I
know which one is a FR and I know which
one is masas and I know reverse my hands
but that's because epim is going to be
greater than
masas because well manasha was busy
working with you in the palace and
dealing with all the politics and the
economics Ephraim Sat by me and
Lear and so therefore he has a certain
advantage over his brother and that's
the reason he's is going to be
greater
now Ken felt that he's younger brother
had an advantage over him because he was
born with two twin sisters and Ken was
born with only one the idea being that
was the only available girls at the time
so he says now my younger brother got
twice of what I got I'm the older one I
should have gotten it so he kills
him is is jealous of his younger brother
y he takes him out into the field and
starts shooting arrows at
him asov who was the older brother but
yakob took the bras from him he says I'm
going to kill my brother yob says I
believe you and he ran
away yeah among the shtim themselves
because they felt that Joseph was being
elevated over the older brothers this
led to a underlying jealousy and
contempt that they weren't even aware of
they weren't conscious of it but it
colored their decision
making the first case in history of
where a younger brother was elevated
over an older brother was a manasha and
they loved each
other what better BR could you give to
your children than that he should be
like AEP and
manasha my father of sh always used to
say you know the one thing a parent
hopes is that all their children get
along together you know that after you
leave this world everyone's there
everyone's together you know everybody
keeps up with each other you know uh I
have a daughter who lives in America you
know when she comes to visit she says
it's it's it's so hard because I see how
the cousins are so close they all get
together they all play they all you know
get to spend time together it's a
special and it is and every one of us
should hope for our children
that they should be a manha and share
that love with each
other we will be to from our children
and our
grandchildren and all of Cl Isel should
share that
love good
shavas
