Kedoshim - ואהבת לרעך כמוך | Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky

hi this is dski and welcome to the paraa in five para's kadim ah you know there's so many places that don't even learn VRA I've gone to girls high schools which are four years high schools and I say so what do you learn braa SM midbar it's almost like one of those hypnotist acts where they make you forget you know the number six you say y count to 10 1 two 3 four 5 seven eight nine 10 you know you don't even know it's there and a lot of people have only four books they don't really do VRA but if they do doik they basically do K I remember towards my end in teaching in seminary I said I'm going to teach a course on VRA they said oh you're GNA do K you I said no the first semester is going to be Kim and the second one's gonna be tumara it's part of Judaism but uh but kados everybody learns kosim so I will focus on one of the most famous says it's a cloud GLE it's interesting it doesn't have a lot of ramifications basically when you kill somebody you should always give them the nicest death because but uh but it's a cloud GLE because it applies to everything and that's why hillo restated it when he said uh anything that is um that that you find uh detestable don't do to anybody else treat people the way you'd want them to treat you this is this is an important concept of course it implies that there's a CA remember reading a long time ago a guy says he was suicidal and uh he went to kill himself and so he you know opened up the Bible and it said do unto others as you would do unto you so I killed someone else obviously in order to I have to have a certain amount of Love Now how do you do that now most people have a sense of self they love themselves even though there are those who may engage in activities that give them a sense of self-loathing but they still uh they want to live person doesn't want to live we know there's something wrong with them person wants to live person wants to wants to continue on in life so um uh I love somebody like myself so the M when he talks about bearing a grudge so he says the yahar is going to try as much as he can to get you in on some level he'll say okay you know he didn't lend you your his lawn mower and now he wants to to borrow your uh you know your shovel if you have no choice but to give it to him at least uh you know don't don't be there just leave it outside for him says no go and give it to him okay but you don't have to smile fine here's the shovel uh no put on a pleasant face okay even if I decide I'm going to overlook what he did but uh you know I'm not going to be a friend to him no you have to be his friend okay says if I'm going to be his friend but it'll never be the way it was you ever hear people say that okay I can forgive you but it'll never be the way it was and that's why it says [Music] mamish that he has to be as much of a part of your life as you are you know takes all kinds of people to make a a world and there are people who are limited just a fact and uh you can spend your life rejecting people because of their limitations again I'm we have to obviously we're talking about a you know a good person we're not talking about an evil person but uh but there are good people who unfortunately make mistakes and do bad things and when a person comes and says you know I'm sorry accept them bring them back build Bridges we we need each other and the words of Benjamin Franklin gentlemen if we do not hang together then we will surely hang separately we need all of CLA together I'll end with one last story Rabbi Lev told me he was on a te wa flight to gives you an idea how old this story is and they were making a minion and the steward came over and said the seat belt sign is on you have to sit down and this fellow who was with the group he was a politician a Jewish politician he said you're an anti-semite he says how could I be an anti-semite I'm a Jew he said we don't need Jews Like You So after the minion ended I went over to him and he said he's wrong we need all Jews even Jews like him we should all try to be the that we're supposed to be a good Chas