He Wanted a Divorce. Then Rabbi Orlofsky Asked ONE Question! #shorts

Guy came to me with me, he said, "Should I divorce my wife now or when I get to the new city?" He said, "Why are you divorcing your wife?" "Oh, she's terrible, she's this, she's that." So, I did the first thing that I always do. I said, "Tell me three good things about her." He stood there a very long time. Then he said, "I can't think of anything." I said, "You can't think of three good things about her? I can meet somebody in the bus and tell you three good things about them. You want to go into cure for Hoken? Are you crazy? You can't find good in anybody? You have to love people if you want to bring them close to talk." I used to love this when I used to work in cure and people would say to me, "How many people have you made from?" "I've made 35 people from." They say, "Interesting. I never made anybody from." "Really?" I said, "Nobody. I have spoken to people over the years and at times something that I said inspired them to make changes in their lives, but I can't make anybody from. I meet somebody, I have no expectations of them whatsoever. I find people fascinating. That's the first step."