Building Character (Ep. 172)

hi this is dominowski and welcome to the ravioli show and whether you're watching with our friends over at tour anytime or wherever you watch or listen to your podcast as always thank you for joining together with us for this special experience um and we are in spirit ima we are counting every day because every day counts i didn't make that up has a nice ring to it don't you think so um the uh the period we're going through now is the period of preparation for tobacco and uh that's it this is this is from schwarz in fact it's amazing the ramban says that surasa aimer is like a longhorn mowing going from pesach to schwes it's sandwiched in between which which is a a way of approaching it that we know that we're counting from pesach to schools it's connected so therefore the days of severus are not just counting but there's work to do and what is the work to do we've spoken about this in the past these days are the derek eretz carmilla tiger you have to uh work on yourself in order to be able to receive the torah now i may have pointed this out uh before right i feel like i have but uh you know sometimes you have that feeling of deja vu where you feel like you've said something and you're not really sure so i feel like i've spoken about this before i'm not really sure you know sometimes you get that feeling of deja vu where you think you've said something before um so uh the story of ruby akiva is an absolutely astounding story on a lot of levels and i'm just gonna focus on one small aspect um every kiva has no yikus he can't read olive bays he's a shepherd which is not like you know one of those careers with a big future you know um most people when they're considering their career path don't think shepherding maybe that's for you so he really didn't have a lot going for him and comes ruckle who is smart and she's from and she's rich and she's beautiful doesn't say that but if you're rich and and you're smart then miss tommy you're beautiful because i'm thing and she's ready to get mad she wasn't already married which means that she had just must have come of age those of you who are doing euvomas and duff yomi uh so you know that a girl is supposed to get married when she's a naara between 12 and 12 and a half after 12 and a half she's about garrosh she's already over the hill you know people are getting desperate talking about the sugar crisis you know some establishment must have been about 12 this guy's 40. and uh she could get any shadow in the world her father is a famous guy he's rich kabus you know she has everything going for her and she decides she wants to marry this akiva and uh he says listen um i'll marry you but i want to marry tom hoffman so you have to agree to go off and learn torah she says look i'll tell you the truth it's really the best offer i've gotten today you know i haven't obviously gotten a lot of offers uh yeah okay [Laughter] so she goes to break the news to her father and uh and her father says absolutely not it's not a chance you know i want you to marry a guy with yiklis i want you to marry a atom i want you to marry somebody from a good fail all the things that go with it that we look for in and she says i'm going to do this anyway he says you do and i'll disown you she says well then i'll sell my hair he says you know that's not like a steady income you know it's only going to take you so far so she does it anyway and we teach this story to our daughters in school now picture for yourself a girl comes back from seminary she's in shidduchim and she says you know tate when i was in their cell i happened we were on a teal and i met the shepherd and i think i'm going to marry him he's 40 years old can't read but he seems like a really nice guy and he agreed to go off and learn torah if i marry him so right away the father calls up the seminar seminaries are you people crazy what are you doing because no of course nobody really expects you to do that [Laughter] then why are we teaching this story if it's if it's not something that we would endorse for our own children it's something to think about you always got to be careful when when you have these stories yeah this uh mother son went off to israel and became very frum and she goes to the rabbi says i don't know what to do he dobbins all the time and he's learning all the time and he won't uh shake uh you know in sylvia's hand that he won't uh you know go with us to the beach club he's just he's just like he's crazy so the rabbi says well you know i you know i do all those things he says no but he means it [Laughter] so why are we teaching these stories if one of my kids tried this we'd kill them and we'd kill the seminary and we'd kill the teachers what is the story there so there's an unusual set of circumstances you know sometimes the gemara will bring a story and they'll point out that this is an unusual set of circumstances let me give you an example and as mr wizard used to say kids don't try this at home the gemara ksubis discusses what they used to do by akasa and one of the amaryam used to pick up the collar on his shoulders and dance with her very unusual very unusual thing and um uh and the uh the tell me them said rabbi can we do that and he says sure she's like a piece of wood to you do you think she's like a piece of wood to you um [Music] maybe balzer no i mean oak you know so you bring in a story and the gemara is quick to say and we don't do that yeah there's a message the message is that you're supposed to be missing and you have to know how to draw the lines yeah sometimes the dancing at weddings can get a little crazy where um certain gadarim literally are broken down i don't mean figuratively sometimes they break down the guidance figuratively but sometimes they broke it break them down literally and uh there's uh you know all this kind of uh mixed kind of dancing going on which is as the casual newsletter says uh not recommended so uh you know so what's the point of the story what was rachel thinking she's a smart girl you know she knew he would become a tom clark why because he had outstanding middles and she was able to see that he was so good that he would uh for sure if he learned terubi konatara now i mentioned already my friend rory redmond has a whatsapp where he'll send you one of the medos that we're supposed to be working on during experience armor we're towards the end but i'm sure you still have the opportunity to sign up and um and every day the forty-eight the various attorneys ban that you need to be able to acquire terror they're supernatural these are not study habits yeah you don't need semica to be good in math that was the book a beautiful mind where this guy was nuts but he was a very good mathematician you could be very depressed and and and crazy and be a fine mathematician you know um the tahara is not going to help you if you want to learn english literature yeah my wife was had a minor in english literature and she had to ask the professor to be excused from reading certain books yeah so these things are supernatural because torah is supernatural and it's not talking about techniques to learn torah it's talking about changes to making yourself and the more that you're misaki and your midos the more torah you will be able to receive right it could very well be we said these points in the in the in the past i mean where did 172 of these that's a lot you know and um it taught me an amazing thing i could just talk forever [Laughter] you know at the beginning i thought you know it's probably gonna be hard to just keep talking and it turns out no it's really very easy and so people complain i repeat myself yeah i repeat myself of course you know what have i got writers [Laughter] i heard a comedian say that a good comic over the course of a year could maybe develop an hour of good material and then you stick somebody you know on tv and he's got to do in you know an hour every single day it's impossible right so they have writers uh the top comedian in america when there was radio before there was tv that was radio was jack benny and uh he had very good writers he paid a lot of money to get the best writers in the business and he had this ongoing feud with fred allen who was very good at making up his own material so they were in one of these feuds and they were yelling each other and fred allen was wiping the floor with him and finally jack benny said you wouldn't say that if my writers were here i don't have any writers i don't have any staff yeah you know there's just mccoyle and then i show up and that's it that's the entire staff you're looking at right here yeah of course if there's anybody who would like to help the rabiolowski show move to the next level uh if you want to take a look uh to uh the interview i just recently did with art school you can see they have even bigger big green screen than we have they make it look even more realistic even me i look like i'm i'm actually there anyway so uh uh you know happy to set up a rubiolovsky studio and we'll name it after you and um you know uh or you can just give me the cash and i'll maintain the same level that we're doing now which i'm also okay with you know i can go either way [Laughter] but the fact of the matter is that the more you're mataka in yourself then the more torah you're going to be macabre because it's kabbalah who is going to give you torah on schwarz he's going to pour it down on you and all you can do during this time is make yourself the best person you can be yeah okay so it could be i've given this idea over in the past but um i always like to try to give something that i know nobody's heard recently this is a story that just happened this past week so i know nobody could say oh i read this story already no you didn't just happened um me those are an interesting thing and i've established this in the past and we know it to be true there's no such a thing as equality people are not equal yeah um there are people who are born with unusual intellect and unusual drive i have a uh pretty good intellect i don't have much of a drive i had a guy in yeshiva when i was there used to complaining goes i wish i had your head i said it's better to have a broken down carriage and four strong horses to pull them i've got a beautiful carriage and i've got a puppy you know i mean it doesn't move it very far so it's a it's a whole different thing but some people have some people have different kind of challenges now those you who are parents you know this right one kid comes out and they smile right away they're very sweet they sleep about 12 hours at night you know what i mean when they get up they're like i think he wants a bottle yeah just absolutely delightful you can't wait for another one and then the second one comes they're made of different stuff and every paragnosis right so i was born with a serious anger problem i used to have temper tantrums uh as a kid and a young adult and an old adult that was one of my nicianos one of the many challenges that kurzweil gave me and i have worked on it i really have you know used to get upset a lot and it's very seldom that i get upset very seldom it happens especially since my heart attack since my heart attack and my bypass operation when two doctors told me i should have died it's changed my position in life because well how important is it you know and you realize uh things that used to aggravate you and things that get you upset who cares the other day who cares and i've made reference to this in the past there was a movie with bill murray a famous movie called groundhog's day where he has a terrible day and he wakes up and it's the same day groundhog's day and he keeps reliving this day now uh somebody made a heisman of what he finally accomplishes on that one day it would have taken him 40 years which means for 40 years he wakes up you know to the same song on the radio goes for the same exact day goes to sleep wakes up he can't take a choice killing himself he wakes up the same thing it doesn't matter what he does and he finally decides i'm going to embrace it all i have is this day i'm going to make it the best day i possibly can and he does and at the end he says this is the best this is the best day i ever had and then it's tomorrow and because does the same thing to us he gives it to you over and over and over again until you figure out how to make it the best day that you can and so you have to keep going through the same this yonos so i had to work very much on learning i am not in control of events and that's one of the reasons people get angry because they feel like things are out of control and you know you try you try as best as you can not to get upset and to keep things in perspective and uh it's it's challenging uh those of us who have an anger problem so uh i i really haven't gotten upset in a very very long time um they redid the pipes in my building and somehow i no longer have access to my duchemis now if those are in america you may not be aware of this but here in israel we have a lot of sunshine so everybody has a solar heater on top of their roof that heats up the water they can use it's a certain amount now if you have a large family and you're into i don't know hygiene so you're going to run out so people often add in like a gas instant hot water burner so uh they redid the pipes in my building and somehow i no longer have access to uh to my solar heater all i have is the instant hot water fine so someone put in a unit and uh it's not like a big company you know it's like uh bob's heaters you know and there's like one guy working there you know so it stopped working but no hot water and uh this was uh [Music] whatever it was it was a tuesday we caught the company right away and they said well you know your mastermind is thursday i don't know if we can get there sunday we'll be there sunday between 10 and 12. okay and then we get a message says no no tuesday that's an entire week without hot water that's not a good way to go into shabbos yeah um i would i would do what i used to do um when we had a lot of kids living at home and so we'd always run out of hot water you know everybody was fighting for the showers so that's when i started going to the mikvah of shabbos and there's lots of hot water there you know and if you get there early enough when it's still translucent if not actually transparent but at least it's not uh murky you know and you go in there and there's like i always go to the hot mikvah you know there's four or five people there and there's this sort of like foam at the top and when it's really hot you know you're throwing a couple of carrots and an onion you know and yeah anyway but uh be that as it may so this would be great and i used to follow the dictionary of salmonella used to take a shower before he went to the makven afterwards they asked him why he says i go before i go to the mikvah because i have to recommend you don't want to go dirty into the mikvah and then i go to the after i come out of the mikvah go to the shower because ushmartim is not sure you have to watch your health and i don't know what i picked up in there so i'd like to wash it off so you know so you go early enough you know it's very nice the problem is uh for the past four months i have been battling a issue because uh you know i am a diabetic and one of the things about diabetics is that we are the opposite of wolverine wolverine has this super healing power so like you know whatever happens to him he like he could shoot him and you know he he gets better you know stuff like that but i i diabetics are the exact opposite things don't heal so i was trying to open a uh high riser and i couldn't find where it was so i turned it on its side and active brilliance and i finally found the latch and it shut out and hit me in my two shins now the shins are the worst place to cut yourself because uh there's only bone underneath there so that coupled with my lack of healing factor um it's months now that i'm dealing with these so the nurses keep telling me not to you know go to the mikvah because you know you don't want to get anything inside of the wound so i didn't have that option so okay so you go through all week so you're waiting comes tuesday we get a message the technology came already is that how could he have come already it's a quarter to ten he came at 9 20. now i give a share till 9 30. i said we were told between 10 and 12. so the guy calls me up and he says no we said from 9 to 12 i said no you said from 10 to 12. you know he says no well that's it i said what do you mean that's it we haven't had water for over a week how can you leave people like this what are you getting upset for you know what i'm not talking to you i i became very very upset i really did i haven't lost it a long time but i was like that kind of an attitude it's not like let's see how we can solve this and i was saying to myself okay so what happens now because i don't know i don't know you know listen i appreciate customer services look i'll go just a little tangent here you know i may have talked about this during our alley as a series that i remember but um there's not necessarily a customer-centric attitude in a lot of the businesses here because it goes back to the founding of the state you know the founding of the state there wasn't uh there was shortages of everything like america today but uh there were shortages of everything so i remember when i came here when i was first married in 1982 it was a five-year waiting list for bezek to put in a phone in your house so uh so you wanted a refrigerator so you signed up and when they got a refrigerator they sent it to you if it wasn't the color you ordered if it was dented you took it anyway you know because that's it there was there was shortage i have a cousin made eleanor 1969. she says there was like one textile plant so you'd go and buy a dress and then you'd see a man walking down the street and his tie was the same as your dress and then you go to a cafe the tablecloth was the same as your dress and you walk into the bank the drapes were the same as your dress you know that burnt orange look the things that happened in the 60s and 70s if you remember anyway so uh so that's it so shortage so therefore they were always doing you a favor if they sold you something so a lot of people still have that attitude anyway so i got upset i didn't i admit i i lost my temper and uh i wasn't happy about it because i'd gone a long time you know when they have those things like 132 days without an accident you know so see how long i could go without uh without getting upset and i've got a very long time but but this was a problem yeah it was obviously it it it pushed me every now and then something will push you but that's because i have that middah of course now i was discussing this with somebody once around my age and he said to me you know that's so interesting what's it like to get angry i've never gotten angry in my life there are some people when they learn about oddsless laziness they can't relate to it girls tell me when they're in seminary sometimes you have one of these roommates who are always happy they get up and they're full of energy oh look the sun's rising anybody want to see let's open all the windows and let in the fresh air and all the girls are lying there in that dead position you know their face epoxied to the pillow and they look at each other and they say tonight she dies but they don't know what it is to be lazy they're full of energy excitement it's not it's not a it's not any sign for them so here's the thing and i've mentioned this life's not fair so everybody has given me those and me dose is from the lotion of measure me those are measurements because everybody has different levels of medos and you have to decide how much of it i'm going to use in which situation and some of them i need to fix me taking your amigos i have to adjust them it's so interesting um people with borderline personality disorder they say they're not regulated they have to learn how to regulate themselves so that's what meteos are i have to work on the thermostat so i have enough guyva that i have a sense of self-worth but not so much that i look down at other people and think i'm superior i need enough passion that i care about things without that turning into anger because the opposite of that is apathy people are apathetic don't get angry i have to have enough of a drive for money to make sure that i make enough money to support my family but not so much that i chasing a dollar that i become cheap and i'm afraid to spend anything which is the opposite and all middles have to be there and every everything has a purpose what's the positive side to oslis next time you want to do an average say yeah i'll get to it not right now so every meter that you have is there for a purpose for you to be able to use it to be able to develop and it's not fair and certain people uh have to work very hard so there's a famous story with marcia feinstein where he had finally gotten a copy of a very rare safer and uh i have to explain this for people even in my age group when my mother went to school every desk had an inkwell now you didn't actually have a quill but you had a a pen that just had a point and you would dip it in and you wrote that's how mankind wrote for all of writing history for thousands of years until about 50 years ago when they finally came out with the ballpoint pen that actually works and they had a fountain pen where it would hold the ink inside but if you pushed it too hard then the whole thing came a big splat but the fact that you could regulate the amount of ink that was coming out that so when i grew up that's all they had i never saw a fountain pen i never saw a uh an inkwell the only thing i ever saw but okay that's it when you look at these classics and you realize my thousand page book was written with a quill and an inkwell filling it in absolutely amazing so um so okay so he of course was writing troopers and uh his son said that you know he'd be in the middle of writing a chuva and somebody would come to speak to him and he'd put down the quill and he would talk to them and then he would pick up right where he left off so he had the inkwell and he had the quill or the pen whatever it was that he would dip in and that's how he wrote all of his troopers and um somebody comes in to talk to him and they knock over the inkwell all over this rare safer he was so apologetic and he says okay okay it happens you know and he tells the gal but you have to get some we'll clean this up etc now the garbage was horrified because he knew what to say for mentor would mention and uh finally you know the fellow leaves the company says rabbi i don't know how you did that i mean i know what this meant how did you not lose your temper now it's it's like you're not a human you're a monk marshall looked him and said you know how many years it took me to be able to do that you think i just started now i've been working for years and years to learn that self-control elijah lopez had to go to hadassah for an operation and he's waiting by the bus stop and mayor charming the bus isn't coming and everyone's getting nervous and i was nervous i was looking down the street what time do you have what time do you have where's the bus never know where the bus is at he's sitting and learning and the time is getting later and later by now he already passed the time for his operation he looks up the street for the bus like everybody else and he goes oh the out of kelm would have been so disappointed in me so little self-control but you have to develop that that's not natural and having said that everyone has different meetings and different challenges so it's during this time we're supposed to be working on our middles and some things are harder for other people and that's how you have to judge yourself from sarah aguero it says in percyavos as much effort as you put in that's the reward you're going to get and so uh this is our voter during this time to try to make ourselves into people who are ready to be macabre the turret to be a clay keyboard where there's enough room for the turret to be able to go in okay now we move to the question and answer uh section of our program anonymous asks are you allowed to use mice and money for things like shiurim shuldus let's talk about shira because i just got this question you know we started a new fila series um which i'm a biased bystander i've asked other people and they said it's really very good so so somebody wrote to me and said can i pay for it with my some money the answer is absolutely i don't know about other children but definitely mine [Laughter] what do i mean the mitzvah of my success comes out from my sushini it's not my auntie it's my sashini what's my sashini my sashini is that you would take your money and bring it to jerusalem and buy food to eat in jerusalem because we wanted you to have the ushalam experience to uh to fortify yourself spiritually essentially you were spending the money on yourself so if you're using your mice or shiny money bonagee to pay somebody to learn with you or to go to a class or anything like that for sure you can use my some money for that and that's that's ultimately the best use of it is to be able to use it on yourself anonymous asks how do you make your coffee well i've made this very clear many times i drink folgers um i have to like folgers everybody in my family drinks taste is choice which as far as i'm concerned you could just get some brown food coloring and add it to water it's the same exact thing yeah with a splenda i i i i it's it has no taste people say to me uh you know it's bitter i said it's not bitter it tastes like coffee that's why so what do i do but i had a set of silverware i got from my mother and one by one it disappeared self-aware is always disappearing i finally figured out why taking me a long time to figure out why because for example when you uh scooping things out sometimes you leave the spoon inside and then when you dump it the spoon goes with it or when you uh we're peeling vegetables and things and you leave the little knife with the or the peeler there and then you brush it all into the garbage it goes with it so uh that's why i think i lost it anyway i've lost them all i'm down to one teaspoon and this teaspoon has exactly the right amount of coffee i've tried other spoons i i guess i could fill it up and put it into a measuring cup and do this i've tried this a couple times but you know i'm not a scientist to be able to get it just right but this is exactly it has to be heaping and then you shake off a little i don't know exactly how to how to describe this and i put it into the cup i used to put in a splenda but i finally uh returned to my roots i used sucrazi which is actual saccharin which is probably the best of of the sweetness without that as much of an aftertaste i add water about three quarters of the way and then i add milk and i wait for it to cool off and this way i'm different than my wife my wife gets a boiling hot cup of coffee and finishes it it drinks it right down i i can't do that it's too hard for me i have to let it cool off a little bit and then i drink it um that's more information than anybody deserves okay anonymous asks is every jew hive to know first aid because of indishmartem is not i i don't know if i want to say if but the story goes that the reason the rambam became a doctor is because he saw his brother die and he didn't know how to help him and that inspired him to be able to uh to learn medicine to be able to help um the uh the story that i heard is the fellow who started hat solo was because he had a neighbor who was dying and they were waiting for the ambulance and by the time i got there it was too late and he decided to create something where he could get people there fast enough so i don't want to say hive i think it's a good thing i think we have to set up something like a hat seller something where the in i live in harnoff we have something called the chaves which is a similar organization where we can get people medical care but not everybody has a hush for it so to say that everybody has to do it and i'm i'm always hesitant to say everybody david bressler asks does the fact that ruby kiva had 24 000 tail medium die reflect on him at all why couldn't he give them musa so they could do chuva and help prevent their death um the short answer is yeah of course it reflects on him the fact that they say ruby kiva's 24 thousand tell me them died it's would be achieved with 24 000 tell me that means there was something that rebecca was not able to impart in them of this video i have to reject and uh i'm sure i'm sure he tried now i'm talking on a psychological level it could be on a metaphysical level the 24 thousand tal medium were in place of the twenty four thousand people who died in the magefa by uh uh by zimri and pinchas um it could be because these twenty four thousand tell me learned a torah that was outside of this world it says ruby akiva not only darshan every letter in the torah he darshan the tuggin on top of the letters the little crowns but mushroom sparrow said once what are the crowns on top of the letters it's things that are out of this world this world was created with the torah the tuggin are things that are out of this world so they were mailer out of this world and that was a torah that that the world couldn't handle the gemara says that uh used to sift the words of ruby kevin 13 times to remove the psilos do you think there was playlist in the words of rev akiva no but it means that it was on a level that people are not ready to hear and those of us who work in habits the satori know very often you have to be careful what you tell to who because not everybody can handle hearing everything so uh you know whether it was a metaphysical reality or a physical reality uh obviously this was a tragedy for ruby akiva and when something happens you always have to ask yourself why did this happen to me right one last one anonymous asks should a boss mitzvah present be something that has to do with mitzvahs like a knock or can it be jewelry i'm asking specifically about bas mitzvah presidents and not bar mitzvah i think most people agree that a bar mitzvah president should be a safer or money although the question is asked on the premise that giving presents for bahrain but mitzvah is a thing yeah um there's no mention of a bat mitzvah celebration or ceremony in it's uh it's never been a thing it's a more recent vintage so if you're looking for the safer but i don't think it's been written yet it might there are no halachas while you're giving a gift the reason you always give a gift the gift is to make strong between people so you're giving a gift that will make the person happy and so um i say the same thing by the way by a bar mitzvah if you're going to give a safer try to find a safer that the kid might actually want to read it was an old joke that like you know a bar mitzvah boy you know goes back to this farm store with his 19 mesh that he got to like uh you know cash them in for something he might want but uh i always try to look and say what might this person actually want and if the kid is someone who to whom sperm are not going to speak to them you could argue it's still an advantage because maybe one day he will and he'll have them um and if you give them something that's going to have meaning to them that's also a possibility when it comes to a girl the best gift is something that she wants to get and uh that's going to depend on the person i know a young lady whose husband gave her a gift in the yichud room well this is sometimes they give you a necklace sometimes they give you a watch there's different things gifts that they give he gave her a set of missionaries now that says something about this girl [Laughter] more so than it does about anything else yeah my brother-in-law of david lichtman um my father-in-law or when i got engaged he says and i want to get you a gold watch no i didn't know anything uh having never been married before um evidently that's a thing you do i didn't know that i just thought just he he was so impressed with me and liked me so much he wanted to buy me a gold watch yeah uh no that's because it's very this protocol considered protocol and uh that's the protocol so when my wife's sister got engaged to david lichtman so my father-in-law said i want to buy you a gold watch and he says why he says cause you buy a gold watch you know he says what am i gonna do with a gold watch i'm embarrassed to wear it he says could i get that money in swarm that's far more more meaningful to him than the gold watch i sold my gold watch in the safe um and the last time i wore it was 1983 i think i remember anyway but uh you know so what the gift that's going to have the most meaning to the person that's the gift so if a the young lady would appreciate a piece of jewelry yeah uh and ain't isha although the gemara says yeah jewelry is and you have gemara is about you know the significance of jewelry for women and what it means and things like that so uh if she would like jewelry that's great if she would like um going back to uh beverly lichman since uh we're talking about him a lot this week um every one of my kids when she came back mitzvah he used to buy her a set of machs arm with their names on it which uh you know it was something very meaningful all my kids still use those you know something like oh he would get them a city with anyone depending on how much he liked the kid but uh but just kidding but uh you know it's something that they have forever because their name on it so they can't return it so if you get a michelle make sure to describe it they'll be stuck with 16 copies but anyway so you have to know the person you have to know what the what the person is and that's always there's there's always a challenge and it's more of a challenge today because our kids get so much that they don't have a chance to want something i spoke to someone from old jerusalem and they said shabbos we used to get a treat you know my father had a bag of shikety marach and at the sood they used to give each one of us three shike de morak three soup nuts what a treat and today kids don't have a chance to even want anything before they even have a chance to think about it they already have it so uh gift giving becomes quite a challenge and try to figure out what the person wants all right that's it for this episode if you want to find out more about the show you can go to my website rubyalovsky.com you can leave a comment you can send an email you can sponsor an episode uh you can join our new tv series and maybe just say a quick word 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