Beshalach - Hashem Is Always With Us | Rabbi Dovid Orlofsky

hi this is damski welcome to the paraa in five where in five minutes we give you a little idea about the paraa that you can use uh hopefully in your everyday life at your shabas table in sh when you're telling people to stop talking as you're busy talking why is it the people who are always talking the ones who are shushing everyone but anyway um so so uh the concept of par I'm going to say is like this yeah's bow is what that's where uh we agree to marry God yeah where we say the love of the SL I didn't need the second part of the Pu but I just wanted to show you my high note anyway we follow him like a Kala and then we come to Har and there are many many kazal that compare har to a marriage which means that if para's Bo is when we agree to get married and uh pases y is where we get married par bash is the engagement and this is in fact the engagement of the Jewish people um it's interesting I said this to somebody once and they said well that makes sense because then the Es maros are the [Laughter] dating how appropriate in any event uh the uh the what is there that comes with the engagement what what do we have to accomplish between the uh kadushin and the Nan that process that has to be learned what has to be accomplished is to trust the person that you're going to marry that I know I can depend on them you hear sometimes couples say I don't want you to take me for granted really you want me to come home every day and think you might not be here of course I should take you for granted I take it for granted that you're going to be here every single day how many times have I spoken at a uh at a ver where I'm there on the side of the the girl so I'm speaking and there's the H sitting there you know briey and bushy tail still a little wet behind the ears and I say it's so beautiful because marriage is forever forever and forever and forever and he start sweating but you have to learn that I can depend on the person I can trust him and that's why everything that goes on here comes down to trust mosu says let's go backwards now and put ourselves against the sea so we have no place to run away and that way when parro comes he'll think he's going to destroy us and they said a what are we going to do got to trust Moshe over here we got to trust somebody and uh they uh they wander in the desert and they find water and it's bitter and mosha takes a bitter stick and puts it in and becomes sweet because they didn't realize that bitterness and sweetness is all coming fromes and then they said we have no food to eat and the next morning food falls out of the sky but you can't hold on to it it melts if you try like dust in a that it becomes wormy and disgusting you're going to wait every single day to see whether or not you get your food and otherwise you're in the desert millions of people with nothing to eat and hope for the best had a little uhit little grocery store he only kept it open each day so that he had enough money for that day there's a pizza store in B vagan called Trevor's Pizza I don't know if this is still true I know years ago it was true because I heard it from some of his customers that uh he only opened in the afternoon in the morning he learned and he hman how many pizza boxes he needed to make because that's how many pizzas he had to sell to cover his expenses and have enough money for that day and he would make that many pizza boxes and after he sold build it he would close the store and go back to the B medish this is what I heard I'm not PES Crone I never checked it out but I have enough for today and that's what the Jews in the midbar had to learn and until they learn this message they're not ready for mat Tyra and that's why at the very end after the whole story with the water where mosha has to use his mat to break the Rock and Bre the water yeah so they said and refed him is God really with us or not and the result of that was a mik attacked and anytime we're not sure if God is there he will provide us with an opportunity to remember that he's there otherwise you cannot become the Jewish people without that basic B that trust that is always with us as the poem of the little girl in aitz that was found said I believe in the sun even when I don't see it shining and I believe in God even when I can't see his goodness we should prepare ourselves for mat to by building on ourem everyone should have a good chabas