86: Tale for All Time

hi everybody is double offski and welcome to the special face-off program of the Ravenel outski show wonderful and as I mentioned in my last podcast we're gonna be spoke focusing on the Haggadah this year and I'm just gonna go through share some insights things that hopefully will be relevant and meaningful to you and whoever it will be joining you for the Seder and even if it's only three people me myself and I so you should all enjoy it well yeah so last time we got up to our there my you know and that was the answer to the four questions and then the Gemara says lol see I could Asheboro voice I was cinemates ryan-murray unreal open a new oven a banana we should put the money into the pockets right if God did not take us out of Egypt then we and our children and our grandchildren would still be enslaved in Egypt okay how does that work so technical answer first originally the first made in Japan 400 years got shortened it to 210 years how much is that a hundred and ninety years short says into Elam the life of a person is seventy years so two generations would be a hundred and forty years and what age do we start counting Jews from the age of twenty so if God did not take us out early then we another fifty years our children another seventy years and our children's children in another 70 years one hundred and ninety years would all be slaves Egypt okay that's cute that's what we going that's what my my son Yakov likes to call up shuttle shuttle yeah but like I say whenever you're doing the Haggadah you're trying to find meaning in it if I shame did not take us out that we and our children our grandchildren would be miss you bug him to pyro not above him miss you bud him what's the difference masu bed means that I own you I'm assuming to you because let's say Baro Abraham Lincoln would have come along and freed us in the end we would owe a debt of gratitude to that pyro for freeing us a chorus burn who did not want us to be in debt to anyone how courage borrow who took us out of Egypt himself so that when we look at the Egyptians at no point did they experience a change of heart even after we left they came chasing after us to try to destroy us it was only because I couldn't bear who himself took us out of Egypt that we had the liberation and you have to remember that sometimes because sometimes we see people doing things and we think oh isn't that nice but the truth of matter is that at the end of the day if you're honest about it then you could see tomorrow in communist Russia so that we're trying to break the Jewish children get them to abandon their faith so the Russian teacher would say to little Jewish children pray to God to give you a candy and I'll pray God says you didn't get a candy now ask the Russian country Mother Russia Soviet Union to give you a candy they say so he knew he was a candy and he gives everybody it can't be so he turns to the children says you see you prayed to gardening the prayers weren't answered and little my Sheila said of course they were you gave me the candy because I prayed to God you think you did it on your own but is that true I prayed to God and he gave me the candy and you know you look at the situation and you think you know who is it gonna come from who's gonna do it Kurdish bar who is how to make food from the mahkum like Mordecai says to Esther if you save the Jewish people that's great if that railroad cell over the disobey shall come from someplace else don't ever flatter yourself to think that if it's not you it's not gonna happen it's not true because burro who runs the world not you and if it comes brothel want something to come about if you is a that you'll be the shal yes somebody wants this relationship arrow what should be our attitude when we do ketover hogan and he said try not to get in god's way how cuz borrow who is going to bring back all of the jews that deserve if you are lucky you will be zypher to be one of the hookin correspond who will allow it to come back to you but it don't flatter yourselves I worked in Karen for many years and I used to hear people say how many people did you make from I said me nobody he said really I said don't you understand if I speak to somebody they become from and I take credit for that then I have to take responsibility for the people I talked to who didn't become from and frankly I can't deal with that much guilt I don't make people from and I don't make people not from I'm Misha Lea I try to present a college bar host IRA in the best possible way or as with no who ever used to say we have the best product we just need you know packaging and marketing and that's it I just try to present it in the way that people will hear it and if they if they hear it and they decide to incorporate in their lives that's great I'm Ashley outcome justice Lea I haven't advise I always tell the story over it advises Steve diamond and he was the perfect advisor he was he spent time with the kids he used to remember their birthdays and send them cards he used to take kids at the ball games I mean you couldn't ask for better and he would work with these kids bring them to shop as if the Shabbos and then somebody what else with doing for them and say you want to go to your shaver the kiddo say yes so I said to him in my you know I had such wonderful tact back then when I was younger I said does it bother you that you've never made anybody from and he says of course not because my job is to do rots in Hashem I'm not responsible for the results so coach broker knows that you you know you're not that dedicated to the course and given the opportunity you know yo you'll quit and go back into your father's cellphone business you know a man and make a good living so he has to keep showing your results so you stay here otherwise he knows that you're not gonna stick it out it's it's an amazing thing that people forget sometimes coach Burfoot runs the world not me and I have to go out and do the best that I can somebody once asked Reverend refs it isn't a video show I'm a cult and he said no because in a cult yeah yeah the leader sits in his ashram and meditates and he sends his little followers out to raise money thing so I leave my followers in the ashram and I run around and collect the money myself but somebody asked me this when I was in NC is why you know and I said are you a cult that's in a cult so I'm an educator I teach people I'm not responsible for the results the person makes a choice right a guy went to its gel you learned for a year and came back he was wearing a hat you know he was learning having every symptom he was brainwashed he said you know I had a friend from my day school he went off to college he came back with a ponytail and an earring nobody said he was brainwashed well that's okay he's experiment so I'm not experiment I'm not entitled to try new things and new ideas if I shame didn't take us out then we might think that it was pyro but I might think there was somebody else who was responsible for it so and so made me from know I could've burrow who decided that you were one of the people that he wanted to bring back and he just used this person as a shalyah for that you let her coach borrow clothes so to speak do his job the better off you're going to be next line I'm feeling alone okok home in Colona to vote on Columbus Academy other mr toura Mitzvah literally seven meters that's right even if we were all Cohanim navona m-- zoo Canaan and Manila Hotel so from him was a hokum as a person who knows a tremendous about right you accumulate a tremendous amount of information the volume of people who understand ya gonna be tough Dava I can figure out what to do with it it used to be this website called jeomsun and Remy Tendler would answer halakhah questions and I would in Sahaj got four questions so girls sent in a question and said the very tender it was a lot of question but he felt it was really a nice graphic question so he said what to me and he says this is a house graphic question so I said no problem you tell me what the sack is and then I'll explain that that's why it is the hedak later I heard this story again I never verified it ravenna flavor words he said if I ever had to do a bass didn't my Basin would be Reverend Levine rabbi friend and let me connect those anchors and stark who still wanna crush them with us he says why is Ruby Levine an unbelievable baqia tremendous buguese he would bring every source that there was on this subject and her friend had tremendous uncas he could tell you every possible shot and every my remark of the very living for American Eric was another Mercia he'll tell you which one is correct yeah so call him know a lot navona Marv able to manipulate the information that they have maybe Dava talked of Clara's acade him there are certain things that you learn from experience and from age I remember one of my I was having trouble with the teacher and and I went to remit the wine bar that's how to discuss it with him and he said she's a young teacher and all the teacher wouldn't have done that you pick up certain experience I was a young teacher young teachers when they make tests they like to try to catch people you know show how clever they are we had an old teacher they just want you to know the material and all the questions are designed just to see whether or not you know not to see whether that you can see how clever I am age brings whether to certain patients age brings with it a certain perspective and so there are certain things you can only gain by my age and if you gain that you'll get that insight that will help you chlorophyll cotton corn the Ronin colognes a Kanan clone Emmure Duma cetera even if we know the whole Tyra we know everything it would still be a mitzvah to tell mr. Beauty Smith's favorite thing because this is not the purpose of this is not to just to say a finish it's experiential the process of telling the story is what allows us to recreate the experience for ourselves that's what we're supposed to try to do MYSA reverently as reviewer verbose when Isaiah review Kiba never be terrific show you my super with Bnei Brak famous a Vinicius for him cause someone like Laura Archibald timed am the odd rule ahem but I was saying oh he is my creation master Chavez a stellar cast of characters and they were all doing the Sailor together and from him niveau neum yoda miss a tyrant Herbie Kiva who not only Darsh were in the Torah and every letter in the Torah even - in the Crown's and type of water letters you were intimate a condition that they were going to say but they did it the whole night so the tell me them came and said it's time to dive it there were those who say they did that on purpose so tell me they would see that they were staying up all night and saying the Seder which means that the Seder is not about sensation somebody throw today like relationship hero SATA and he aimed the whole thing at the children telling them to rush and telling them stories somebody said they were by report enough it was the same thing he spent the whole sailor talking to the children the purpose of a sailor is not to say a kiddush purpose of the Seder is to understand the story it says by Marcus Arbor I say hey Sal LT Dumas Ryan says Rashi sahak T buddy how I made fun of Egypt with the markers I said oh comments I would think about the Marcus and on each one he would he would start to live he built it up in a way that you had to laugh at what was taking place I'll be at the absurdity and that's why I'm gonna be hearing abstract many years ago why specifically by Arabic because the borough came and destroyed everything except you know certain grains that were that was still young and soft and so they didn't get crushed because they weren't tall by the or the ice yeah Jeff ela saying which Rashi says could either mean that they were soft I guess so the hail bounced off a bit or he'll employ him it was a miracle because even if the grain is soft when the big piece of ice falls and burst into flames it's gonna be bad don't be a bad thing so it was a miracle that it survived and so pyro hardened disheartened by the way even though it's the last five markers Rashi says he hardened his own heart and he says that it's not so bad we still have enough Shem said sure otherwise what will the Arbor have to eat you don't realize that I did this quest for you so that you would have an opportunity but that's okay in any event things will always work out the way that a curveball wants it to go so this case the characters reveal Kiva was a gear his forefathers were never in Egypt but be sure was it going be time for mr. Cohen yeah the the the the story over here some of them were Cohanim similar with levain they didn't they weren't even in Egypt so much they were an enslaved but it doesn't make a difference because the story it's isness Ryan is a story that is in the heart and soul of every Jew and on the Seder night we don't remember it we recreate it that's right at the end this is kind of called the lyricist odds Moe every person has to see himself as if he came out of Egypt yeah and that's that becomes the challenge the challenges can you see he'd say this rhyme is relevant for you 3,300 years ago I remember when 9/11 took place I spoke about this in my 911 video I remember when 9/11 so one of the magazine's interviewed various leaders to get their reactions and one was the nobleman's Karev and ahead of me a good and he said the world will never be the same this was September 11 November November 11th give or take I was speaking in a girls school I said which I talked about this is just not 911 and once tired of hearing about it and I said the world will never be the same for less than two months then we'll go back then I'll go back and I'm focusing on an event to be able to remember it but not to remember it to make it experiential that UTS for him has to become a part of me and my life I'm Raposa messiah i already conventions tion of it was a pc today we he see if it's Ryan balelo such inertia pins a machine a moment is cozy updates her in order to try and call you many for yeah he says I never had a source that you should say it's his mister I'm at night what's he referring to the third partial of SHM on the partial cities and one of the main reasons we say that is because at the end we mentioned he's Jesus right so it's a siesta Mia is Australia bleep I'm wrong Jim I took you out of Egypt says okay the first paragraph or the second paragraph I know we're supposed to say morning and night because it says it was shot or hung Kumail and I know I say during the day because of you - because I don't say that's right what about at night do you have to say it's is the sermon night and Benzema Dyson's call you - uh-huh all of the days of your life to include the nights look at home say no yeah call you make my efforts to include even your most mushiya Ben Zoma did not say that because what's the difference the difference is that when you sit down and you look at our lives miss Elsa charme says that I wrote with social charm to remind us some things that we forget by nature because the nature of this world is that we forget and so by really safer to remind you of the things that are important that you tend to forget it is miss Ryan when we wake up in the morning and when we go to sleep at night we're supposed to remember yeah there are a lot of mitzvahs that are all there to remind us of it's his mess Ryan it's supposed to be something that's constant in our lives all the time because it's so central and in fact how does a coach mark who reveal himself to the Jewish people not I am the Lord your God who created the heavens in the earth I'm the Lord you gotta take your land of Egypt it's something that's so fundamental to us call you make a yeah every single day yeah Miska straight it has to be a part of our lives as be saying that we live with we were slaves and a ship took us out and therefore I don't want to be a slave I don't want to suffer it I don't want to be locked up I don't want to have any of these difficulties yeah yeah you have to remember took us out of Egypt they have a sense of appreciation remember seeing a bumper sticker years ago decades ago said god what have you done for me lately since that's fine and 3,300 years ago he's saying you know and he pulled you out I may have told this story to pay sucker own story this guy was in the hospital he had a heart attack so the doctors were rushed over and they were pumping in his chest over the river they could they couldn't save him one by one they all gave up except this one from doctor he kept working on the guy and eventually got a heartbeat and he saved his life and later they came by in the room to visit on him a few days later and he says doctor I guess you thought that I was gonna say thank you I'm not gonna say thank you for saving my life thank you is what you say to somebody who passes you the soda at the table could you pass the soda thank you it says I sat down with my wife and with my children and they all said you know this doctor he gave me back my husband respect our Father he gave us our grandfather Beyonce thank you for that so we decided as a family that you're the guest of honor and every Christmas dinner and every Easter dinner at every christening at every birthday party and he's SIL every wedding you can't make it then we're gonna take out a few minutes to publicly thank you for the fact that you kept me alive Chris Branca took us out of Egypt an entire nation with signs and wonders Oh sir smoke sim with with unbelievable things because a comb is running a two-year with the strong hand and outstretched arm we remember it every single day we live with it is this right that's something that we have done something that we have to incorporate into our lives and that's what Ben Zoma is telling us the malbim says the way that a good is set up is yeah however the moreno tells us that's the story and at that point we're done I would ma you know and Shem took us out of Egypt and then we say but the more you tell the story the greater it is and here's a story with five great sages and they kept telling the story the whole night and then husband is how you go so far as to say and every night and every day you have to remember it and the hymen go even further and say Eva and mushiya comes and the Fazal tell us that the miracles that are going to take place from chef comes compared to UTS miss Ryan it's his moment we're like a candle in front of the Sun and still we're gonna remember you see is this right because he says with Ryan is something that is so central to the life of every Jew we can't forget it and it comes up over and over again zip Elliott ciassmates Ryan came on it's everywhere it's in Shabbos it's in kiddush it's in the shoulder Gollum always have to remember you tears much right meniscus youngjae's camara de triomf oh yeah every single day okay more to say on the subject last year we spoke about the four sons so we'll pick up after that and our next podcast and that's the the story if you want to find out more about to show you can go to my website if you're lucky that time you can email me make it we messages if you perfectly you know fun of my official school as you say it's the upcoming events but obviously there are no upcoming events and in fact I just have to give a shout out because I've got this email from a couple different people but I always give this you know this line I said you know I said well my friends who were speakers you know so you know they're things were canceled and I said me I was wise enough to you know to you know the fact that my career collapsed already so there were people worried about me don't worry be happy Hershberger who runs the world I affirm this kind kindness it's the persistent what do you mean I said well you know I the first you know decade I've been a speaker and the last speaking engagement I got was in August and the one before that was in January so that doesn't really make you much of a speaker I don't know why no no why something was suggested it was my podcast why should anybody bring you out to speak when they could just watch it for free on the internet and I was like I know how many people get physik from this so it can't be that a coach Burke was going to punish me by doing something quick so it could be more people will join my online chairman you know that'll be that'll be where things are going at this point I really don't know but I'm not worried every now and then being pretty give me eight system you should do this make sure to that I said God knows my name he knows where I live he knows what I need yeah I don't have to worry son I'm not worried yeah so so that's why hey you know just saying that don't don't check the upcoming events is in front of my computer so but in any event so that's the story for this week I shouldn't say this week because we're doing multiple ones now with a stock coming that's it for this episode and we'll have more episodes talking about the Hagaddah and that's it for this episode my name is dr. 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