Rabbi Dovid Goldwasser Revealing Secrets Of Life Through Pireki Avos Part 9

what a great schools that we're all united throughout the entire world on virtually every continent in the study of pair keovos i would like to thank torah anytime that wondrous organization that has spread torah throughout the entire world their efforts on behalf of the torah lahag del toro la dira are unsurpassed by anyone may they continue their work may i would also like to thank hazak that organization which has performed miracles the organization like the naveem of old go to communities spread torah bring people closer la vie and shabbat shamayim take children out of public schools and put them into yeshivas and basiaco how wonderful it is that this organization that cares about cloud israel and does not stop night or day their efforts on behalf of the community may they continue our missionary today is perciovo's was from the great tanoyan he was from the great talmudim of raviyag when they saw him rebbe said on him happy are those that gave birth to this great on this great sadiq we know that he had great chocolates and torah and even in hezbollah tara he was also quoted many times the gemara tells us in tinus that the daughter of the khesar of the caesar once saw him and she said to him i don't understand how can such great such wisdom be in such an ugly vessel she made a disparaging remark concerning the looks of rebi yoshua at that time rebel yeshua says let me ask you a question your father the caesar has great great wine correct she said of course the best what kind of vessels does he keep that wine in well uh he keeps it in like plain clay vessels ruby yeshua said ugly clay vessels the king royalty he keeps his wine in those types of vessels go home and tell him he should use the finest silver and the finest gold vessels that's where he should keep his wine so she went home and she said listen i just came back and i was told that you should not be storing your wine in those clay vessels they're ugly they're unsightly put them in silver put them in gold and so the king did and you know what happened to the wine it all turned sour the casa said to his daughter who gave you this advice she said it was that great wise man of the jews rebel yeshua so the emperor summoned him and rebel yeshua came before him and said why did you tell that to my daughter we need to have the simple clay vessels in order to preserve the wine in order to keep it you have to be very careful with how wine is stored rev yeshua said i only wanted to teach her a lesson that it is not the outside it's not the external it's not the gitzonius that one has to look at it's what's inside she got all bent out of shape all upset when she saw that there was great in me and reb yeshua said maybe i am not the most sightly vessel that there is on earth but you can believe me that the satire is stored very well within me how we understand that it is important in our world in the hashkafa of torah through the torah lens that we only give importance to that which is panemius the inside the internal not the external not which is the gitzonius i was in yeshiva so there was a man and he was a worker in the area and he had a son the son unfortunately in those days had already gone off the dara he left yeshiva he was out in the streets needless to say he was drifting further and further away from yiddish skype the father came in one day he saw me learning in the basement it was about seven o'clock in between sadorim he walked over to me and he said could i ask you a question i said yeah sure he said i tell you the truth i don't know what to do i got a son the son's not interested in davening the son's not interested in learning the son already left yeshiva i don't really know what he's up to and what he does but i can tell you one thing i see the twillin bag the zechal stays in its place it does not leave meaning that he doesn't wear to fill in i said to him maybe your son could learn a little bit if he could learn a little bit torah so the light of torah we're told by khazal can bring a person back he looks at me you're learning yeshiva right i said yeah that's what i do he says you don't understand he will not learn he's not interested in it and even if he was interested who's going to learn with a guy like that i took the opportunity i said to him i would be happy to learn with him i would be happy to if you will tell him that somebody is waiting in this building for him maybe it will have an effect on him the father said are you you're telling me the truth you would really learn with him it would be my honor the father ran out about a week later i almost forgot about the whole incident sure enough about seven o'clock in between sidorim i was in the base madrid i happened to be sitting there learning something all of a sudden i see the father come to the door with a young man needless to say the young man had a rough look about him he certainly was not dressed as the other bohum in the yeshiva he came in he brought his son and he said to him i don't even know your name but this is my son my son is a very very good guy he may not look like it i wish the father didn't say it but he is a very good guy in fact his name is the name after my grandfather who was a very big sadik i said what was his name i will tell you his name was ruvain and i have a special spot for him i said rouven i can't tell you how happy i am to meet you would you like to sit down i'm just about to learn something we can learn for five minutes six minutes whatever you'd like reuven said well i tell you the truth i told papa would sit down but you know okay as long as it's not too long i'll sit with you he sat down the father left i don't know exactly what happened but we hit it off together i learned with him and in fact i learned with him a shayla in a chuva a question and answer from the famous rav ashri of shiloh succubus things that are very gripping things that are omega rumor shalom shailas that can inspire a person for an entire lifetime that's what i chose to learn with rouve we learn five minutes 10 minutes 15 minutes we learned about a half an hour and i noticed that the father was standing by the door peeking in he couldn't believe that his son was still seated there and so rouven came back we made it for twice a week one day i was sitting there in the basement and one of the balabatham came in and asked at what time we're going to have marav when are we going to dive in and i told him what time it was going to be he left later at marath he came over to me and he said what was that other man inside the basement for so i told them we were learning together so he said to me do you think that you should bring him inside the base matters i said where should i learn with him on the football field where would you like me to take him on the street corner to talk with him i i know i know but the way that he looks i told that man our gemara our piece of talmud you can never tell what a person is by the outside you can never tell the depth of their neshama the godless the greatness that could be inside of a person merely by looking on the outside the external that which is sonia's one of the memories one of the things that rebbe yeshua said was when the basa miktus was destroyed so the home said from that day on no meat and no wine there won't be meat for claudius well anymore no wine corbin however of yeshua protested and he said no leficia ain't going gizer allah you can only be going so you can only decree something on the zebra the community that they can withhold that they can do that they can upkeep but this they can't so yeshua won and today we're allowed to eat meat and to drink wine now there are certain things that we don't do zekelah corbin in bez hashem we will have a chance to get into that in the coming weeks also a very interesting idea that the great review was able to institute and that is that we have an idea that the individuals should always be careful during the time of horme sa mikdos in order to make sure of course to fast on the days that we have to and that one day that is very important is of course tisha b'av now actually it was that tish above should be two days the ninth and the tenth because the majority of the basal mig-dos burnt on the tenth it's a question do we go after the haskalah or do we go after the end which is more bitter so actually we should have to fast two days however in goysri and gezera latsibor there was never a decree made on the tzibor shaheen that the majority of the community would not be able to hold to and because of that we only fast on the ninth above and then the tenth above we have certain restrictions that remain in place either until the morning or until khasis so what did he say ayan hara we start with ayan hara the evil eye we have to be very careful with our eyes even our eyes our makshavas khas shalom can harm another person lo alain about kobe's israel we have to be very careful ayan hara means that an individual is jealous of another person an individual forgives another person they don't like that that person has atlanta and they concentrate on giving that person an evil eye now it's not so simple to give someone an evil eye hustle and the person that does give an evil eye though elaine about co-bases well that person will suffer that's not simple but be that as it may we are careful in terms of iron hara one we're not ostentatious if you're going to buy the car don't buy the car that is screaming while it goes down the street and everybody is doing annoying when a person does certain things in this world they should be extremely careful not to attract too much attention it should be nice but not as it says in hebrew it should not be taking out the next person's eyes we have to be very careful we want to do things that are quiet that are humble things that are going to show our modesty not things in which we show off a phenomenal shuttle was asked of the great going rebellion the astrobar yoshima father came in and he wants to put his son in the chidon is a tanakh major major exam a contest in which people come from all over the world in order to participate the winner of the gidon is considered to be an unbelievable that person is considered to be one of the most outstanding in the generation so he comes through yahshua when he says i would like to enter my son that my son should compete in the khidon however he said i am afraid that should he win perhaps it will be ayan hara ayan haraj hashem gives him a lengthy chuva and at the end says if this is your consideration and there is a hashash so perhaps he didn't ask him that he has to perhaps it is better not to put him in to the competition to begin with a great singer a singer that is known in claus israel today murder ben david once told me that there was a son that came to him together with his mother and he wanted to go on the stage and he wanted to make a whole thing he knows how to sing well murder ben david says if you will do your son a favor you'll make sure not to put him in the major spotlight there's a lot of khachma we want to be careful we are a people at snail aches that we go quietly and we go with modesty so the first is that we try to avoid the public eye in terms of everybody talking about the individual everybody talking about the car or the house or whatever we are careful in that the second is of course that we don't call up two brothers you make a simcha so you have a problem because you want to call one brother up after the other you got a lot of brothers or the father the brother we don't call them up the aurachaim says the reason is because i in hara they say oh look that guy and that guy and that guy oh very nice khashoggi shouldn't be an eye in horror evan or ezra says we also don't make two hassanim at one khopa for the same reason how unbelievable this is that even it goes so far as the minigame of up sharon up sharon to kat the little boy is here when he gets to be three years old they're all different min hug him i wish we would have time just to give a share on up sharon but we don't have the time so what happens it is a mini gyoshan it is an old and cherished minute it's a custom that they take the child they wrap him up in a talus and the father and the parent brings the child to the shader to the room where the rebbe is going to have the honor to take a few cuts of the hair to make the up sharon and there are different things that are done the child reads the olive base gets the pair of tits's wash nutellas yadayyam says shema torotiv it's a beautiful beautiful idea and at one time we should discuss it however it's interesting you cover up the child with the tallest why very interesting it's brought down in the safer atamim so that there's no eye in horror everybody sees oh look the beautiful child with the locks coming down whoa unbelievable in order to avoid iron horror you cover up the child the gemara tells us that we should also be in the habit that an individual should not arouse any public envy any public jealousy and because of that we should say belia and hara when something good goes on we should say belian or can i in hara as my bubba would say shouldn't be any iron horror that is a person that is careful and it's also created from us we always want to be on the good side of people so that they should have positive thoughts we must follow that all makshaba should be good from everybody else when we walk down the street when we're out in the streets of this world a very interesting incident happened with baba sally baba sally the great sadiq and going started in morocco came to eretz israel nativo so when he was a little child he came home and his father saw that he was very upset so he asked him israel what's the matter she says i have to tell you today that one of the children picked a fight with me in the class and the child insulted me the father said and what did you do baba sally lowered his eyes he said i cursed him the father said israel your mouth has a power in your entire life never give a klala never curse only bless and for the rest of the long and productive life of the great sadiq babasali he never ever cursed he only blessed claudia israel and his mouth had a great power because those brachot those blessings came true so we should be careful because the words of our mouth our thoughts have a profound impact on the world a schoola for a person who wants to be careful from ayan hara is to say i in your abundant mercies hashem with your great khesa to everyone another school is that when a person leaves or they come in and they go to kiss the mezuzah they should say ben parrat yosef then parat alay that is another schooler a third schooler is that whatever we do it should be lesheme shamayim many times people will ask me what could they do if they're afraid of an eye in horror so there are many things to do there are many things to do i have a two-line thila that could be said as it says that an individual can speak away an iron horror we shouldn't be nervous we shouldn't be upset about it we should always be careful in everything that we do but there is a little tv just in case a person is upset so the first is i in hara the second that we come to is yet sahara yet sahara the evil inclination a person has to always be careful about the eight sahara because the eight sahara is somebody that wants to get into our life it can get into our life in the craziest ways that we may not even understand that it's approaching us it's like the guy that comes to the door and the guy that comes to the door knocks on the door and says excuse me i want only to be able to keep my hat i don't want to saw him i just want to put my hat i see that you have some nails in the beginning of the house i just would like to put my hat up inside do you mind going that's claudius all the guy wants to do is put his hat on the nail inside the door what harm in that say of course please put it on the guy puts his hat on all of a sudden throughout the day we get a knock on the door excuse me could i get my hat okay uh excuse me could i put my hat back yeah okay excuse me all time during the day all time during the night there it says that the person makes himself so habitated in your house that soon he is toy face malcolm he has a place in your house soon he's there more than you are and then he has a place where he can occupy the house even to the point where he might make it so uncomfortable that people of the house are not comfortable staying there anymore so he ate zahara he comes and he says i only want a little bit i only want you to do something small when you were little so you used to do this minig it's very important whenever you had a villain on you never said the variable talent you're always very careful you never said any words that were not necessary so if you say a couple of words it's a theorizer it's not an isotheorizer it's so you need to say something so you say something so no big deal so the person says okay i'm older now i could say a few words and the individual does or the person they're on vacation somewhere and they're very careful when they're in their house they're makbid on whatever their mochabid they're very careful they're insistent on a certain thing when they're away so all of a sudden yetso says you know what you're on vacation right now come on chill out live a little bit oh your mocha been in the house of course everybody's mocked it in the house everybody's very careful but you're on vacation you're able to do what you want so the person is a little bit less nissar they're a little bit less careful that's all the yatzer needs that is all the inclination needs in order to enter into a person's house and take them over the balchemto said that's the way of the sahara in the beginning he just wants to have just one aver the little finger okay and by the time he's done he's only happy when he's taken over the entire body a person has to be ever vigilant to be on guard from the eight sahara any machination of the etzara any entry that we give the eight sahara into ourselves into our lives he's not happy you give him an inch he takes a mile believe me he is not happy with anything that is the modus operandi of the etzara and you can never tell because the talmud says how does the eight sahara look give me a profile let me see his picture so it says you can't tell sometimes he's old sometimes he's young sometimes he's looked like a tzadik sometimes he looks like a russia sometimes he's this way sometimes he's that way he's constantly alluding he's constantly not allowing us to understand exactly who the eight sahara is so the way that a person has to control the eight sahara is to be vigilant is to be on guard to know if you give him an inch he's going to take a mile if you give him the littlest space he's going to move in there was a individual that came into me and that person was such a good person and the person i knew for quite a few years i hadn't seen them in a long time he comes in and he says i'd like to talk with you i said yes how can i help you he says well i have a little problem with the sahara most people don't frame it that way but he says i have a little problem with the eight sahara i said what happened she says well i tell you the truth i began to look at technology technology in the world technology is a bracha technology brings tyre into the world but there's also a second side to it it's what is it it's a the tree of knowledge is great it had a great side to it but also not such a great side so i allowed myself once a week just to use a technology for something that i thought was not a great breach just a small little thing unfortunately it began to get me more involved and more involved and more involved and now i got a big problem how do i get out of it so there are many things that a person can do one great way is as it says in ghazal in kedushin israel hashem said my children binay israel you who are living today in our generation but rossi ate sahara i created the eight sahara the eight zahara is here in order to make hashtag in order to make us grow the eight sahara comes and when i can be misca bear when i can overrule the eight sahara when i can be strong and get the eight sahara weak at that time i am given the greatest scar in the entire world a person that can be omeg an individual that is able to withstand a test trials and tribulations that person will be given skyla al-mayyad barasi ate sahara hashem said i created the eight zahara ubarasi low torah tavlin i created the torah as the antidote to the eight sahara if a person has he hit sahara let them learn no matter how much they're going to try to control it they need the koak of torah behind it they need the power of learning the power of learning in our lives even for two minutes even for five minutes helps us to grow that power of torah is bigger than anything in this entire world when a person learns the entire world becomes theirs they're learning the torah and they mention rav ashi they mention rav and abaya raven abbay is sitting together with them and learning when they're learning mesilas yasharim the ram khao the ram khal is together with them when they are learning the normally melech the heilig is sitting together learning together with them when they're learning kedusha's lady rablavian medicine comes to their home miyo daya the great surrounds in all of this they're learning from the altar and the varduk the altar from the verdict is staying with them the bonus shalom is learning with them at that time anything that they would like to ask for they can ask because that is the power of the torah that they learn all of the israel it wasn't the fact that they were miracle workers come i'll do a miracle i'll show you this i'll show you that it was the kayak of tara my great rabbi rab simcha wasserman the rosh shiva of yeshiva oral khanon he told me that his father the sainted going wasserman the great sadiq when someone would come to him and ask him a question and he didn't have an answer right away he would take out a safer he would begin to learn he would be ma'ayan when he would close the safer he would have the answer to give to the person torah gives us our power and finally we end up sinner sabrius this is the third thing in the mishnah cine sabrios what is sido sabrios ceno sabria says hate it's when a person does not love their fellow people with the love that they should have it cena sabrios is when a person understands that the second base of mikdash was destroyed what was the reason because of sinister it's equal to the three average hamuras of the first base of mikdash equal to avail me murder gilo arroyos immorality so who thinks you know what i hate that guy why i just i never liked him someone told me i never liked that guy when he was younger i didn't like him you know what i don't like him today it's the same whatever they told me right is not something that a person is allowed to have cena is not i'm allowed you know i love most people but that guy that girl i i can't stand it when they walk in the room i just got to get out i can't remain aina neva hollow i can't stay in one place so i gotta get out of there i just can't take them what that person is doing is worse about azara bowing down zeus mecca all of that vinosaurs it's worse she has going around killing people certainly not a good idea right cinema just as bad gili arroyo's immorality how terrible is a corbin for the world yet sinasinam equals it so how do i look at it i gotta love everybody in the world i have to bring the love out in my heart my heart has to be overflowing with that great love for everyone everyone who is my friend everybody who may not be my great friend i gotta outpour my love i gotta make sure that my heart is overflowing i'm not just gonna do a hesed a nice thing a favor for those people that i like for those people that are close to me those people i grew up with those people from my city i have to be close and give myself and give of my hesit to everyone even the person that i don't like even the person that does not find rein in my eyes that is the important idea that is stressed in cine sabrius especially during this time when we got to work on it we got to love every year anybody who insults another yidd who thinks bad about another year even if they think that they have a reason for it that person is over and aveira the person goes on the blogs the person that writes about others the person that says or writes editorial or sends in that person is ivory surim in the place that prints it and the website that contains it is every surim don't go and then say [Applause] don't cry don't cry if you're destroying it if you're taking it down so then don't come back later and cry build the base of love every year love everybody love the person that you can't take love the person that just rubs you the wrong way love the person that irks you you'll be surprised if you show them love they'll be a lot different coming back to you the helicopter said that not only do you feel a person's love when you talk with them and they love you you fill it back combine them just like the water elephant queen levodo melodo just like the waters to face so is the heart of man to man you got to know that the customer says if somebody gives to you a present they gave to you a present there is an individual that lives in lakewood new jersey and they send to me a very dear present and they always send to me before yom to a special saver says the kosovo when you use that safer when you use even the dover gosh me that the person the materialistic item that the person has sent you you feel their love and that in turn makes that you love them back we should always work in this world on loving each other with love we can accomplish a world of good ava turns two people into one it's the same gematria as erhud may all of us work during this time to achieve greater levels of aavas israel the gare rabbit once said i wish that i would love the greatest sadiq as much as hashem loves the greatest russia