Rabbi Dovid Goldwasser - Moments That Make us Stronger

[Music] good evening everyone I believe we shame a chef it is wonderful to be here on such an occasion of the earth side the Amish are not of such an incredible woman that was a Duke I am a living example to everybody just to hear from her sons and her daughter and to see the pen a Torah that they are there is no greater not had grew up no greater pride that any parent in this world can add than having a family like this big olive otoshi I believe because of the sake of the great mother great Father's the children should all have a photographer with Tommy Google Ali's name they have and the grandchildren should all be great and growing the wonderful huevos Papa I would like to just note that we have the Great's of food to be together with rabbi and Eve who I would say in this world is an individual that performs miracles the numbers of people that he was able to get to go to see both in to Beit Yaakov and the people that he affects throughout the entire world it's incredible cos øx ago may find enough oil our own car thief of course our great baby Leo the great jewel that serves us that Sonia I've been here a couple of times before there is such a special appearance but as special atmosphere here it is conducive to learning toward outlets law we liked also note that Ravi Ava is a very very important principal rod he helps in every possible way he spreads Torah and an amazing way with great humility a chef should reward him he should have everything girl feel to the gosh Meera we start today particularly with it in young of how to recognize the moment the moment to shine the moment to take note the moment that a person can grow a lot of times things happen and they don't even realize it an individual goes through the day something amazing happens there is an opportunity forgot Luke to reach greatness and it just sort of passes us by and individual will never know interesting thing I would sit watching to DC in the Kennedy Center and believe it or not I'm walking on this on the whole and all of a sudden I see what looks to me like a precious jewel however I see a lot of people passing it by so I thought for sure this must be like you know a child that had a little ring for a quarter fifty cents and it fell down so everybody left it however as I get a little bit closer I've been down there pick it up and I say you know what I'm not a Jew or have far from it but this thing looks like it's worth something I take a look at it I go over and I say to a security guard I think that somebody lost this I want to return it the security guard says where'd you find that I said man fellow he said well do you know who lost it I saw fine he said okay we'll take it that little tool that everybody just walked past was $18,000 $18,000 everybody just walked past it didn't realize it must not be real just left it on the carpet in Kennedy Center we don't realize it but every single day there are opportunities $18,000 $36,000 hundred thousand dollars and we let it go because sometimes were not able to realize what we can gain from the moment let's just take a look for one minute in the FAMAS motion a bagel right he saw a bush that was burning he saw a bush that was burning my snare and that's Ned and it stuck the bush get burning and it didn't go out all of the sudden he looked at it for a minute when he looked at it for a minute he said wait a minute this is not something normal a bush that burns like this it doesn't go out there must be some message for me it must be a servant for my channel sure enough a chef calls out to in my own remote Shamu chef a chef comes out motion motion by gone there and most sharknado says he named ain't ready to serve the great emotional a basic said we learned from this an unbelievable you saw the foundation a fundamental in life there are special moments that all of us have in this world those special moments are moments that we can achieve greatness that we can achieve para nós a livelihood energy Bushido that we can achieve all the rough coat that we wanna add momentum that second comes to us but we have to know how to recognize them and to seasoning I would like to go over several of those moments and how a person may be able to recognize it and even change their life and understand their life to a different prison through a deeper death than before the first is when a person is individual we're walking in the street and we see something and we see something that maybe started Lee what do we do from it from that we know it's a time for children and you to run develop a high shot maybe a Chevrolet the reason that the Thunder was created was to straighten out the crookedness of my heart so when I see something that's a little bit scary when I see something that's a little bit shocking what I do at that moment is I say this is a second for me to do chuhwa it's a second for me to contemplate if someone breaks something in the house you have the most expensive dishes the most expensive China Krisha buy and all of a sudden one of the children are not careful and they bump into the main serving track even know what that puffs and it falls on the floor and it smashes so persico's see it why are you always fooling around look what you did look it happen look at this and you get upset you better go completely the other way when such a thing happens you say well this is wonderful I needed a cut but something had that happened I should've had it happened in a really easy way the dish fella it broke I lost money but borrow fashioned I'm home I'm everything is good with me no problem everything is wonderful we have those opportunities alike but we better know how to frame it without a love how do you see it a fascinating idea have been fascinating every chance that you have to do a lesson every chance that you have to give sadaqa every chance every moment we don't know the greatness that's going to happen for us in this world into the next the fact that a person is moved to give cherry on whatever level will bring great blessings into their life they don't realize it sometimes we won't realize it for years but no great sadaqa no small sum up is ever going to go without a huge reward and so Rabbi Ari Levine the great sonic of you shall I rabbi are you Levine he went to bheemavaram : b corporal lee it's unbelievable you visit somebody who's sick the Talmud says in the diary you give them life you get them back to their help you go to visit anybody even it's hard it's difficult you see someone who's ill and you go you visit them and sometimes it's not easy and sometimes it's not easy to talk with them I was this morning in their Columbia in the Washington Heights I went to the Columbia hospital I have to show anybody that would like to see afterwards I can show you something a picture and wrote a few words to it the person they said he's not up right now he's in an induced coma you're gonna go to visit him I said yes says but he won't know that the rock is here does that matter no said the rock is here the neshamah knows that I love that I care so I went there happened to be its wife was sitting there all of a sudden in the middle of there he opens up his eyes fully I run over to it and I talk when I give my brother he couldn't but he did see who knows me go there this is look the merit of doing offensive survey ie Kaplan went or Valentini went that he visited this ill person in the vehicle new hospital in your celaya and there it happened to be that this man used to be on the staff of the vehicle Hospital at Sonic wonderful man Rabbi Ari Levine went boom in the middle while he smokey that was very ill all of a sudden the man passed out lost consciousness immediately reviving the beer and he got the medical staff he was huffing and puffing the doctors came in and the nurses and they began to work on it for two hours they had to work on it two hours finally they brought her back to life he opened his eyes up reveille Avila being said tell me what happened he said they took me I was already standing in front of the baby shall by Allah the heavenly Court and there they were asking me about my life the mitzvot came all of them dressed in white all of Allah theme all the angels came and began to testify I went to shake your and it's fine I prayed I think she lost that pain for the mother bird I've put on to be leaning I did everything cause you're beautiful however after that there was some a lot people that came just a black but that came and said one time he wasn't careful when he ate one time he said something just what word that was not proper one time in the middle of tila he was distracted it happened to be for such a person that they were weighing it out and this was about 50/50 and things was difficult all of a sudden at Sonic of your shall I comes in to the meeting shall my love to the heavenly Court and when he came it everybody took know he was a person that was lived two years ago and he said I testified for this man he were at the be carefully Moscow he did his work and I loved it he did it boylee he was medicated he was a true person that they did shove I looked the heavenly court not skip that he could come back into the world to fix his deeds to correct what he had done wrong and so they put him outside there were mountains and there were valleys and he was completely lost he didn't know how to get anywhere he was so confused he was terrified he began walking all of a sudden he hears his elderly man sang reveal said rip Yeltsin break up said he turns around and he sees this elderly man Devin Levin says do you recognize me injustice is no they said I want to tell you you were a young boy eight years old you were together with your father in sure it was a little Shabbat all the poor people everybody took home everybody hosted them ethnos after him they took them home nobody wanted to thank me for whatever reason I was left by myself and you and your father were the last ones to leave you told your father ha we can't leave him either he's by himself he don't have anything to eat he looks like he started and your father was gonna go he said please I cannot leave that lead without food without anything for survival your father said ok the token home but so it Shabbat they kept the double Shabbos but so Shabbat when he was leaving that man said Theo say I would one day repay your kindness I never got the chance he said and then it was mister what can I do for you now Yosef said I'm trying to find the men began to leave me and then I woke up here a person can never tell one minute of doing Tessa how that will impact on an individual how that could change the bus out of the person how that could bring brocco lessons to us that we are not even aware of but it takes a person that can recognize the greatness of the minute the greatness of the second in front of us it's not only simple and sometimes we're human it sometimes we give up sometimes we say I'm the eyes look I try the guy didn't listen to me I tried somebody I tried my wife would want to listen how long do I have to try I give up what what it is what they say it is what it is right I try with my Houseman you don't listen these most of the person on this earth I can't change it I give up let him over there let me be over there we'll go our separate ways he will say marriage yeah yeah who said that a person could do that you said I give up on the child I gave up and gave you a lot of problems right got himself kicked out of school did that I gave up on - up I try I went into this business I went into that it did it go yeah obviously it's not meant to be so that's where it's at the person should know in this world there is no such a thing as a Koosh there is no such a thing as the spirit there's no such a thing as giving up there's no such a thing as this it has to be I give up it's not going to be that way so I give up right now there is no such a bit serious there is no such an essence in Torah in fact let me tell you something interesting it happened to be that none other then you shall I love you I say the Prophet one of the greatest of all the prophets comes into his ki Abu the greatest he own any sense of this he owned by the other way no you shy of an emotive of e then ugly comes into him by Omar a mob listen to what he said my son the base sample he makes something you go you're going to die below Sofia you will not live the words Manavi it's the words of the Prophet what better more honest more sincere truth in a person here in the world then ugly Toby's going to die that must be it give up say your final three my lower leg safety going but you're done huh his field says no I'm not gonna die how do you tell him the VBS relic prophet you're not gonna do what he said he said upset does not be brought the words no because the CEO said kakapo bloody I have accepted it from my tradition in my home people have had that even a sword the shark sword rests upon a person's neck LT is never ever give up Hashem will come at the last second and help a person that means it's already finished that means the knife is there that means he's in the enemy's hands that means he's surrounded that means he's given up this year's setup well done by us a his he Oh Ella care kiss you then turned towards the wall before she said why did he turn towards the wall the reason is because he wanted to be concentrating to be loved but he's gonna pray he wanted that full concentration pool country to reads whether a person is praying or doing s it or this year then this are peeled to what's going on when they pray there is nothing else in the room other than borio love that i've seven them when they're learning they're learning and every single drop of all of their car is into the learning nothing else for anything whatsoever he pray so he turned toward the wall in order not to see anything in order not to be distracted and at that moment by his belated election he prayed to a chef by Omar Pasha Hashem he said remember I did all these things I went before you in truth and sincerity I went with a good heart I went in with good eyes I did everything and he began to pry them apart some say he didn't even have the car he didn't have the voice tried but he praying by he devoured severally Schiavo blame are you sure you had already left he was in the courtyard he has left the seal he was going home all of the sudden the devar hashem said go and tell peace he'll call about a shekel okay the visa the the Hashem have done with your father Shema t st low sample i heard the prayer release see as people sample I saw you tears he may be Yosef IMF up kamesh astray shut up I give you 15 more years the Navi said he's not his you said I would accept it he prayed and he got 15 more years how interesting it is that an individual that does not accept the years that it builds minutes when we feel like giving it all up and those minutes when we feel I don't have to try anymore I'm done I give it I had a young woman that came into me and she gave to me the story already got spread around she gave to me a check a huge channel and she said I want to give this to stop I said this is a huge check she said yes I had it I was saving it for the day that I get married because I'll need to make a wedding and they'll need to buy things and I'll need to set up the house but I gave up I've gone out for years and it's gone so rarely I would like you to take I put in the drawer they didn't cash it she returned up recently with her laptop because I told her the south of Russia like that there are all kinds of sores in life even the sword is resting on your neck al tth don't you ever give up pareo love as somebody for you she came back to introducer I said one minute I have a gift for your wedding I took to check out a video feed an individual that has beat the club that even when it's the last second and they gave up and they say it's not gonna happen anymore never ever give up because as long as we don't give up we still have a chance for it to happen another very interesting thing that goes on in life that sometimes we don't even realize the great opportunities that we have everybody knows of course that the morale says when the sea was split Chris Young soo so we know why was it split I'm gonna show you upset yo se yo se is coffee his role was in the water as soon as the water cycle said they said that's it we're gonna split the inner water split and at that moment they split why was it why did he have mastery over the physical water you know the reason because when you said was it the house if you remember HS 55 when that woman came and tried to get him to do another I tried to sing and the tongue would said she were all kind of clothing all kind of clothing not bits Neil and she would change in the morning and change the afternoon to try to entice him you're safe stood strong you'll see to the challenge you said I'm gonna put you away you're gonna suffer in prison you're gonna die wait until I tell my master my husband what you did you'll save sin I don't care I want to stand strong with a chin I believe me got better over than they say oh you're sick once and believe me it was handsome table talks about how handsome he was and she probably was also pretty did that matter no he stood strong and so what happened with the water of both sides the water said we don't have mastery over him since he ruled over tena now he's going to rule over us in the waters are going to split we see this on a daily basis on a daily basis there are times for the person season to makes world scenes that are not to do scenes that we should not see things that are inappropriate it's my simple young a person doesn't want to see it unfortunately it's out there they see it and so the shunga ramudu's says that anybody was confronted in that moment so what happened to that if the individual can turn away from a moderate looks of the well from something that isn't proper they could turn this way book in that moment they can ask us yet for anything that they want anything in this world and be granted just one time turning away from something that's inappropriate now you tell a person that to say just one time show Mary Mooney you south if there is something that's not right we have the power to turn away and not see it then we have the power itself over Taba it was about set that happened a very interesting incident that went on and I have to tell you that happened to be that there was a guy he was in the city Manhattan a lot of things inappropriate in the city he calls me up it was in the middle of the night and he said read me I answered the phone in my sleep and he says hello I said yes he says I would like a rock I want to say it I said how could I help you hit what I didn't realize I said to him right now come to my house right now Bradley I'm in the city I said you have the who ought to call you have the strength to call when you are tempted by temptation out there come to my house he said to me now it'll take me time I gotta take the train I don't even know if it's running I said I give you a hahaha you come right and you will get you stuff you'll get you to work I waited up for him he did promise me to come I waited one hour I waited two hours the third out diseth up in the door I open it up there's a young man cried he said to me had I not told him to come right now his life was going to be changed forever I said you realize the side that you've got you realize the reward that you've got that is huge that a person does not even imagine how great it is the one who is Miss Kabira let me say on the one that can overcome a challenge is huge and so that individual to me is it subtle and I gave him a few things that he should do in order to be strong in order to help him that he doesn't get any warm in a bad situation and he was Makai Bell that's what I call somebody who at the moment realizes what to do how to look at this life it's an interesting thing that our eye has two parts to it there is white and then there's also black what we see out of is the black is the pupil the white is not what we see either when an individual see something if it looks good if we think it's right if we think that it's a positive impression then I say it's good if it's black if it's dark if there are things that are a little bit scarier then I say it's bad little do we know that sometimes those times when it's scary when it's dark if I take it look and I see with my own eyes I can see greatness at that time of the darkness of nights at the time when it's the darkness in this world there are great things that a person can get there are things that a person does not even realize wonderful Bravo but a person has to have their eyes opened in order to see it very fearful incident happened with rubbing Anita contrato ravika Niederman Tribune was osika Torah he learned Torah and it was a problem what was the problem involved the problem was that the government the Roman government had out ruled that nobody is allowed to learn that nobody is allowed to gather people to have Torah and there all of the sudden he could not hold himself back he gathered people together the Romans took in they marched him to the marketplace they took a sacred barad and they wrapped it around him and inside they dipped it with sponges of water they put it close to the skin because when they lit the tar on fire they wanted it to burn slowly to torture the great belief ended up in childhood and so they lit the fire and he stood there in front of everybody thousands of people watching him in this old comedic scene their great Rebbe and the fire began to burn it was burning slowly it was a slow torture and he was standing there Tommy to serve everyone you see he said I see that you believe me so feeding at the paper the parchment is burning malicious worthless bother however the letters are in that this fear and the proportion st. lous defeat the letters for that Monsieur the before should say that adult moment that there was in the atmosphere an ability to come close to a chef at that moment in the atmosphere it was charged there was spirituality at that moment in the atmosphere a person would come posted to eyeshadow a weapon what happened was the executioner was looking at it the executioner the one who lit the fire the executioner the one that killed me he was standing there and it was watching while he was watching he saw the great relief Alina Machado and it had an effect on him and it had an influence and it began to influence such an evil person begin to have regret over his whole life he's standing in front of the Sun leaking he looks at him he had a father how many of us could stand in front of a sunny and I much bother to change her life completely he made a hundred eighty degree turn he wanted to do to survive so what did he do he said it to the great relief indeed of entrapment if I'm going to remove that sponges of water from the fire and you will be able not to be tortured and you quicker will I get reward can you imagine the executioner is asking a Shayla a question about Scarborough Mitch to repeat the need of it charlie but if an independent says yes can you remove the sponges I promise you you will have stopped you remove the sponges but if Anita man Charlie who was standing there his vinyl was epic away the executioner did Shiva execution did you go over everything that he did in his life he jumped into the fire together throw an event rider execution that's true there's a possible a heavenly voice rings out in Somalia yes Colombo the shot Danny person can acquire their entire world in one moment in one second and when he said that at that moment the possible set both of ethylene of each other in the executioner are miss ilaha il-allah my ball that they are invited to the next world reading heard it and it says both already ready began crying so that's a question why did we be crying you should be very happy the main column above the executioner as bad as he was this too much labor and he himself got over my buck so what's bad what's wrong read me said how many of us in our daily life sees great things how many of us in our daily life no matter what chances we have no matter what moments there are we miss them and we let them go by when we could be gonna cut my ball when we could have fire in the next world that's why he cried because there are those that just let those moments pass by the movements of wreckage the moments of feeling the moments of emotion it says when it comes to capacitor on such a fascinating thing it says my yard that I shall silent by Anu and they were moved by a Lumira phone and they stood far away so what is it saying it says great cut skirt via buy you know they were moved it was a great scene Kabbalah Torah by Noah so the persons move when they hear something when they see something when they're exposed to something and they have a chance to change they the chance to be inspired they said it's nice sounds good I understand that it was very moving i watch the clip it was ugly very moving but right now I'm not ready let me tell you a few things people that will become ill at the time when they realized that a hawk robot was necessary few people few incidents a mother came into me a mother a father they have six girls to marry not one American six girls to marry they're getting bolder they've got nothing nothing little prospects the mother says six six if I had three okay six it's a big thing I told her together with her husband people cut they'll accept the point yourself something which like said accept do something every week you want to give to an eve every week I'll do it Thursday night I got under the door and I love you secondly couple of months it will taper off first year second year to come third year fourth cup fourth year she still wouldn't every single Thursday night ruble died they all got married it shut up let's lock that all beautiful she do it but you know the strange thing I'll come home tonight underneath the door after they're all married and all children and all children growing up I still get down the door that's a person that changes they know the moment they know what they got to do they make talked about it takes a little sacrifice it takes us to go out of my comfort zone I got to do something give me give to one more I have a butler had a difficult time very difficult life he wasn't making kind of Sun so there are two things that they talk about that will help a person's mind also one to be the doctor in Fela to be very careful in prayer it means a person is careful and at the time of prayer they don't say anything in the Beit Midrash they don't say a word not a word that's how nuts up that's likely that's money in our pockets I said to him try it do that the second thing it's about God okay fine he's a therapist he does a sarahfey doesn't have clients I said you don't have money fine give some people underprivileged kids give them free therapy put it out of the paper read me no one puts an ad with free therapy I'm supposed to charge you to give up I said you've got clients right now no cut baby I want to give you a lot of class you go and put a free-thinking believe me they'll be lining up outside the door he said okay you tell me to do it I'm gonna do it but I don't see it so he did they lined up outside the store I said how's business this is like a lot of people no money as this okay keep on keep on there today he is one of the most successful therapists in Europe a lot of people kid cannot get to children in because there's a waiting line with a high span robot you've got to make some sacrifice you got to do something in order to be able to get somewhere that's what it takes that's individual another fellow came to me he is ready comes up the last moment they don't come to me early on question of show by they wait until it's already in the bottom half of the ninth-inning and the Yankees are down and that's it it's a third out of the two two outs already and two strikes then they come in rebby T Lanie save me tell me how difficult is it to you together with the process which involve in it nice try you're still my wife it's just you can't work with her it's you know there's certain people we could work we can't work with her where the wife will come in and save my husband he was not meant he was meant to be a part he was not meant to be married I understand that as just his is my tip he's a nice guy but just you know not husband material that's usually when they come here and so a husband and wife came in and they're ready to go finishing I said well tell me what did you do to try to make things good again well we went to marriage counselor and we had bigger fights in the marriage council that we do at home so we stopped because we were yelling back before it I said that's not what either one of you did to make not prabha to try to sacrifice something that you have that you can get tell me what you can do it well I don't know I said no but you could do in your house could you have a party over could you have people come over will we fight so I said you have to make an agreement when you'll have your commode with during those meals you won't fight you schedule your fight for Friday night Shabbat in that they're gonna be okay you be the city won't say nothing bad no inner votes will work out I said so how's your house tell me how's your house we have a nice house I said yes it Thursday night go gets it for poor people let them pack packages in your house you don't have that in your community let the better how do we start be very easy I'll give you the number for Muncie they have a professional place over there he'll tell us start I think I said ready you give a half out do you promise I said 0.2 right now to guarantee we'll have another Republic ceiling our youth not don't try it you was scared you did it Thursday nights their whole house is filled with packages people come in they drop things off they pack them up they have word to send it to some people volunteer with the cars they don't have that much time pretty suave they don't have that much time to find them Sewell to find something wrong with their husband of life shoulder by it became great individual that knows how to recognize the moment it changed their entire life but you've got to see that that moment you have to hold yourself another one a shape similar cannot go counting the barcode on the rock but a person sees something and it doesn't go so good so right away we want to say that it's bad right away I want to say that Shannon I've been so good why is this happening instead what they should be saying is boring oh love I understand that everything that happens happens for recent Ciotti Maddie you are with me at every moment what I'm waking when I'm sleeping when I'm walking when I'm in trouble when I'm down when I'm up I shouldn't you're always with me the baal shem tov cinnamon this is off shemesh when the sun is shining where the stocks go down when everything's great in the family when the kids are doing well in school when I have everything that I needed my health is good on all of us for 120 years B's up seven Oh Dan thank you i Shannon I should use grace I should be my king Melik well hey I'm up here how about when it's not so suppressor short so the baal shem tov sense may be selfish I took a walk when the surgery was done when there's some dark times in life when this storm hits you when they're going is not so easy it's rock with a little shake at that time you think I shall at that time you said Shannon I know that you're doing great things for us I can't see it right now and it doesn't matter because of my eyes the flesh I'm not able to envision it individual disabled to say that we'll go the entire other way that person will bring a lot of rough coat into their life but it's just like you have a dream you've got to be careful someone will say oh that dream I can interpret it and not such a good way rope of the Louisville team I thought I had you've got to be careful never say out your dream only to somebody that you trust only to Aqaba because you've got to hear a good interpretation line and when it's interpreted for the good then everything happens well why would they all afraid to say something tomorrow whining you're sick run tomorrow immediately because it was good at Ellen that there's going to be seven years of famine Paro may get upset the colour mode go after the person's mouth enlighten the dreams also go after persons like you see a little guy and the little guy got in trouble that day he got thrown out of school a parent called me today they sent them home what should I do to him what kind of punishment should I give I said they tell you you tell him when he gets home you want to learn together with him because you missile in school after that you say when you grow up you're gonna be my rabbi I'm gonna come to you from Allah God then you take about he feels better batting up about himself and you getting nicer and you talk with it and you tell them about some babies when you were little maybe you count some that happened then you weren't so good one day and you grew out of it and you became good and you became a productive member of society Teledyne then the child was an entirely different way then it's not the same but that moment when the child gets into trouble that is the exact second when you have to see the right way to deal with them because that's the moment that that child is already in Indi say oh how precious throw in it's a moment that they're at the crossroads you handle it right you've got it for life you handle it wrong it's a portunity that you never forget every individual has a chance of this world to do greatness every individual of this world has a chance at different moments of our own life moments when we get in MERIS moment so we got a shame moments when somebody disturbs us and we can answer back oh we are gifted with sharp tongues oh we're gifted you called me that I want to tell you I'm gonna cut you down to size right now I'm going to let you know exactly what I think you the person can hold back at that moment the whole vote can say such a mess before us so it says it shows day I show this once the lovely are like when the Sun goes out of its strong and you hold your tongue and you don't say anything and you don't in survive and you're somebody shaved you or someone embarrass you or someone make you feel like the fool or someone said your interweb such a good answer or you did something wrong all of us have that I want you to know the top drawer on the left side of my desk I keep it to be like a special prayer that's a prayer of a person was embarrassed that's a prayer of a person that was ashamed and they should be it's about that they should not say anything and say that special to you look I'm willing to share it with anybody here and that's the love when a person says it has advances because that's a moment when a person was able to control their demo I'm going to tell you I had one time I had to hold back I'm gonna share it with you I went back there was a cluster of color I didn't know them they came to the house they said ready you don't know us we came to some of your Shirin would you come with getting married I said leave my greatest daughter they were getting married not too far from my house again they called me to the hoop up I was I saw that there could have been any bigger present for that cut time kala you think that she cared about that dress the tiara about this about the shoes about the band about the whole thing about the flower every kind of deserves the best but not this comedy she could care less her and both steps from where they were supposed to be indecent read me thank you so much for coming I never had that in my life no matter how happy they stepped back I had to leave I had to give this year I ran downstairs however everybody was first it was a small outer room and they were waiting for their coats to put the coats on everybody had to take it to give it me at the color and I'm standing there in the middle of everybody they haven't elderly couple giving out the coats I think it took all that and they're giving the coat like this in the person's opinion was all time anyhow my guys have stuff to me rebel was us against he said I want to ask you but HeLa I said about good no I wanted to tell you what I did know by this time the entire room must be like 60 70 people are often G what he threw back we want to hear about this one grab your bosses don't tell it to be quiet I said now I may look like garden but pushes you out you know in front of like the whole thing I just went up a minute bro huh it's really nice I just came here as a favor okay I sit there please don't say anything no but it wasn't nice what I did I said they don't say if you say I'm not will tell you if you don't say I can't believe something I forgive you but the company art that it's the only thing I could do could get that guy quiet some very wonderful time put the dick out of my hand ran up to the front gave them like ten dollars I got the code I ran out of there into the snow like crazy why Lucia in that moment a person has to know how to be quiet when you're upset when somebody gets you though when somebody thinks you are and they light your fuse that's the moment you gotta know how to keep it controlled you've got to say I am here if that happened to me there is a reason for it it's not that person it's not that thing it's not that one it's I gotta look into my self introspection see heroes I gotta figure it out why is it happening ready not about of Breslau the great look goofy about said something so beautiful Mia hopital Rafa the mofo you love you a friend like yourself he says a little differently Oh politically via half of the Rafa when things happen that are a little unpleasant sometimes when that happens that I have to love why come over because of who you it's to fix your life it's too great you at home with something not so what happens should be I'm happy when I will be better I will try and wear my life I will learn my lesson that is he very great idea that all of us have and understanding the greatness of every moment that we have I would like to if I had the the coop I would pop over and then so much to say on it every moment of our lives is so full with so many Bravo all I can tell you is that if you keep your eyes open and you keep your ears open can you wait for every second if you ever hear somebody that needs help help them immediately if you ever hear Torah listen if you ever hear somebody in sober stand up to take action if you had rather chance to give sadaqa give anything give something if you ever have a chance to speak up their child they could not speak up for him or herself speak out for them if they're ever bullied don't stand for it for half a second if they ever have a bad time in school you going if they ever can get into school because they have a difficulty don't rest until you are able to get that child into school if there's some things are should you put their name on the door you don't take that name down until they're ugly looking but these are moments in life that we all have that make us great everybody here in the school of the great seasoning we should have an Alicia life you should be a good intercessor let's see a show for everybody and everyone here should have great outside brother everything gives a got your man [Music]