Rabbi Dovid Cohen Your Kiruv Questions Answered at 9th Annual Project Inspire Convention

yeah I'm I'm ready to answer questions that I'm able to answer so please go ahead dad please speak loudly I don't hear well you came to learn so you should ask how are you gonna learn if I'm sorry did you ask all right fine fine I'll be upstairs please you speak the Russian Jews that you deal with and many of the men are not not come out take one at a time you you else take there were to a locust here a lot of taken and then there's our locker that it's not only the individual three of a Bruce Miller or the father's fears when the child when he's a cotton but it's Claudius Royals fear there's a special din that if father is not Mullen business believed best meaning there's a demon claw Israel so he really of course you must leave to talk to them but you gotta talk to them at the right time because the whole concept is they should do the right not that you should become a pest and they don't and you're bringing a closed-off the spigots of of good hush wah so you got a time it properly if your own time it probably you're gonna ruin it do you know what I mean only you know the answer when you deal with them I'm terribly sorry that's not true because the bum bum says that the Korean have a den not the original Korean but the the latter generations of Korean are not considered to show him there tonight some SHINee's boo so therefore the ramen Baskins if you see that he's shacking properly even though amumu had a you kharkom is like a guy shafted and even though he sheltered properly it's Novella I saw the dinners Moomin Alejo kharkom is also novela whether it's a de-icer the opponent the llama says if the children of the quraíam shouted it's not navale it's kosher if you watched and he did the right thing why there tonight solution is well they brought up that this is the true religion so after they're brought up it's a religion you are arguing with them that makes them a motifs you told them how many times you have to tell him that you're wrong you're wrong you're wrong you're wrong there becomes a moment now because I told him he's wrong who are you I was brought up by my parents that what I believed in that only Taurus Shevek Saab is the true Torah and you are telling me not like that therefore I become a Momo because you said why should they accept what you said so the tension is but remains sure you're telling him and so it there may be a point when he's beginning to accept hey you're right you're right so then he's ready to hear if you're right he's ready to hear what's the real what are the midst is that I have to perform now Alexei is his name what do you mean it you what is it you know no a name is a name it's a name is a name there's no such thing hey from now on your yoke safe that doesn't make you yo safe does it then you have to be called Joseph for thirty days a name is not just because I told you a new name so it's name is Alexy Ben dude Oh Alexandra whatever that's his name no that's not our luck minik Israel is to give a name by a bris there are people when the for instance if you know you can't do a bris for a long time so you can give them the name that's a minute Israel via colors might be thrilled by the bris it's not enough favorite if you gave them the name before or if the Sun on of its Minich Israel but someone who's not gonna get a bris at the age of 8 day or very young sort of people some people wait some don't but it's not out Walker this is what I have to do and he'll cos named like October if this is the name this is the name you know what I mean if it's a guy you should have a name but that's what it is sorry sorry rather than giving me even a mattress no I know I never said that I said give me no give him a me without a Bruce was it he's old enough to have a good name but tell them in order for you to have this name tell your friends to call you this not everybody you should be for 30 days then it's his name technically yes he's not a mullah what if may sue acts of mass mass Mila and he's still a person that it's a Kannada beam out because he's a hemophiliac let's say he can't get a bridge they can't get it all here I mean why not but that's another welcome that's the Kirov not even the Cohanim that that's another din but that did that's something that's something else what about a nun from couple that that they don't keep toss some vodka what's the difference between that and this the same thing well that may be a problem but it's the very same problem in the example that I gave you have the same question you're giving him at attempts of intimacy which is shallow LT din is that listening even I doubt it I mean because it's giving them a room doesn't mean that your marks show them but it's the same question and I would leave out even though it is to waver but this is not the sole case with the total corset Oh Ava so you know it's my favorite sort of the label toeyvah doesn't necessarily and halakha changed the complex and the complexion of the question if the children don't know that there's nothing detrimental because if they don't have the muslim there to learn how many times men shared apartments it's only if they did the closet was open that people became aware and it's not always that way there are many men who kalila from the men have nothing to in michigan soccer but it's cheaper to share apartments just because women members always that girls that go to school together so used to share apartments happening they're lesbians I mean this is the way it used to be but now it is like a shod because everything's out in the open yes please meaning I want to be McCarver I want to buy their first shot of this meal but her husband's not Jewish it would be honest to me like I'm pulling apart a couple a little bit it feels like she comes closer to Judaism let's say down the line what happened is in their relationship is that the truth is that your job is to do the best you can to be my SPEA 'let OV usually the best Ashbaugh in fact I believe that this whole revolution of ballet shriven came about when our community went into the business I don't say business world went out and and became part and parcel of people working for a living with other people that's when it happened you have to understand the psychology of those people who know very little their lives are very empty and they know it very wealthy people known as the Jet Set why did it become Jet Set because what's life what's life what is it all about and it bothers a human being what is this all about more stank more ice cream after a while even that becomes banal so these people are looking very very much looking so become a jet-set doing things or doing things which are dangerous or doing of going visiting going all over the world they they they have to find some sort of instance an empty life when when when when from the taper so how did I rationalize in order in order you know to keep going on with life oh those Orthodox Jews that's it they're from another planet and the moment that they meet these people and they see what the textures are human beings I would hope most of them are very decent human beings hey they're not from another planet they're real and they were nice I remember in our community we had a very Orthodox few block and our block where we lived there were 30 suckers we weren't afraid that our children will go you know to any other all the Jewish homes were from so I remember we had a tenant an Indian doctor an Indian doctor who I think he was he was no he was Muslim and he married a woman who came from a Buddhist family you could you could imagine the upper coolsis because the muslims believing in in one god and the buddhists are if they have a desire according to them so they weren't too religious but he told me his grandfather was a very religious man this person was so overwhelmed by Orthodox Jews first of all one of the people he worked with he used to tell me you know would a Jew he says he's gonna win the Nobel Prize it was a very bright fellow who retired and is now sitting and learned he can everett's Israel but he had such a it was overwhelmed he's on the marketplace he sees Jews they're highly intelligent they're nice people he was overwhelmed this is a this is a good he was overwhelmed with Jews and that's exactly where this whole ball sugar revolution started Jews went into the marketplace hey the Friday people felt they have a purpose in life these Jews people were I remember I are many many years ago there was a doctor that many of the yeshiva and Kol people went to he was he was very special and how much he charged it was very very he appreciated the from a community but he was not from and some people he felt a little guilty he grew up he he used to say when I see the right boy what about walking with his son to show he used to go to shul Shabbos this fellow he says what I see where he relates to his son his heart goes out I don't have that relationship with my son so he saw something that it's it's a wonderful thing and then when people spoke to him said he says look rabbi I was in the Navy you know what I mean like he just felt he's too much and demented Shalit older but but at the same time people become overwhelmed just for you because you you not because of what you preach because what you are they'll ask you questions you know I understand partners and Torah a very successful the rules are don't preach and sequester's just learn Torah and somehow it works that these people start asking and a lot of them become fruit they're learning they're learning they're learning event but what do you do for this what do you do people become from that way no preaching it's what you are and you're gonna eventually open up the Wellsprings of of a human being what am I here for not quite as simple for me what is the rule about so eventually it works you have to be the judge not to jump start in our community we had two or three such situations women that were married to with families they don't know they moved into it from the neighborhood they got an apartment who who became their friends from a women so before you knew it they casted if the husbands of course how to be tolerant whether the husband they trace us out of the house however it was worked out they cash in their homes next step they want to go to the mikveh so I passed condone the no circumstance are you allow to accept such a woman the mikveh and all she knows you know that she's married to a guy so that means it's okay to be to a guy go to the liquor there's an arcade this year's cook that says and I'm not sure I thought you're him I'm pretty sure he doesn't mean it happened but he just wants to explain something he says that there was a house of ill-repute and they were Jewish girls there so that our bottom got together let's build a mixer Vera so kalila kalila because by building a mixer you telling a big Lashon is fine so that's a message which I shall like it in so you you have to use your judgment at which stage to you know to talk but they're gonna ask you questions first that's the way it's gonna have [Music] whatever it is you did your job I mean whatever you did but you did your job I mean of course these things happen there are many such situations that I know of yes of course that's why it's your job to befriend them I am against this phrase Orthodox establishment simply because it never existed it never existed and I don't think it will ever exist there is no Orthodox establishment the rabbi's Excel you I'm what that's not the establishment do you really feel bound I don't know whether you're from one or the other do you really feel bound when they tell you no this is what you got to believe and this is what you got to do do you really feel bound or do you have your personal Rebbe you are moderate or you feel you have your own sense and you do what you understand certainly if you don't that means there's no Orthodox establishment because among do they like to give the image that there's only one does Torah yeah yeah ruff hood nazar sell my Rebbe once said a very one of a good witticism we all know the Gemara and Magilla dr. Samir Allah for tau Maya Melek he want us where the Septuagint came from that they translated the Torah into Greek so he took 70 people locked each one in a separate room and told them translated and it was miniature Mayan that they all translated at the exact same way they left out certain passages which would have been difficult to explain to the Greeks right it was like an S so a foot thing was to say I admit an S if there would have been all in the same room and said the same thing that would be there is no such thing as Orthodox establishment I'm telling it doesn't exist the rabbi's accept if you well-read and the protocols of the Elders of Zion then you could believe it but that there's no such thing you can you can avoid them for Shabbos yeah sure you're not going to enhance their relationship as a result of the invitation you just being friendly with them don't preach be friendly and talk and everything you know don't you see the Shabbos so then they're inspired because hey we don't have something like this we don't have where the whole family gets together and the kids say something hey this is a real nice thing and that that leaves a very positive influence that's what it does that's your job I just I think it was one of the sessions the toughest Khayyam I mentioned this that the person used to say to the person came to the office cryin I keep telling my son to learn and I keep telling it them and he's not listening so de la vez crime says you were accomplishing something when he'll have a son he'll tell him to learn so you want your son to learn learn in other words by seeing it that's what the way a person is influenced yes sir but it has to be loud front door established to a society what can be done big situation with the children going off to Dara - we're here this job is put your project inspire and we're here to be inspired how do we get the achievers they do they give the message but the this malady called children at risk has nothing to do with the message the achievers giving I must tell you this malady is about 30 years old and it's a people don't realize these kids and wherever there's a large Jewish community Flatbush Muncie Lakewood of all places like what has a huge contingent of these children back an alien war jeez you wouldn't believe it what goes on literally Bakken alien or Gore geez it's not the belief and that's why I mentioned last was I last night I mentioned that people were involved originally el that there thirty percent women were sexually molested and after a year or two sixty percent and I know of people who recently two years ago 300 are involved with these kids they say over 90 percent was sexually molested so what does that got to do with the message the achievers giving we don't know what happens okay if I leave me coil varnish oh I remember about seven eight years ago I read an article in the science times where they said that science held that we know everything there is to know about the brain and all of a sudden they realize they know nothing about the brick there's total turnaround with what we know and the psalmist you could say it's a fact we don't know what happens in let me give you an example stuttering stammering Jewish mothers are guilty of a lot of this stuff stuttering because it was part of the tradition a left-handed person a link of our you know it's sit with the smaller in Cibola you know so mothers did whatever they could to make them into righties we found out it's it's a long finger at either something in the brain where speech is connected to the motor you know so by doing that they they they did something where the person started to stammer at the stutter but we didn't know what you know way way back so but it's something we do know this we know that children are molested to some children evidently its water off a duck's back nothing happened but there's some children they go this trauma sometimes the media trauma their you know the big novena right away when a child acts out one way to the big moving them will have experience could tell this kid was molested this kid was molested but it doesn't really matter because the way that child is acting because there is someone in one way the other and many at times it goes undetected but something happens up here in the brain I personally I'm very much involved in this as a love of Oh L of nefesh so I've been involved with this for a very long time I know of so many cases first of all we know there were cases of monoliths lon of suicide by adolescence that when they were molested even if it was total Misha gives Elsa certainly this happens suicide and when it's not suicide totally disturbed I know of a few cases where people of authority mind you a Rebbe or a principal who molest a child of a certain age the child knows he's being molested he no it doesn't say anything cuz it's the Rebbe or a principal so the child is holding it in but he knows it's it's wrong something's wrong over here few cases that it should children how to go on psychiatric drugs a few years later because there is something there that goes or or I I mean something happens so science hasn't been able to pinpoint it yet maybe someday they will but we know something goes out something happens so I and I believe these people who are in the field when they're telling you that I believe them they that they say they know they interview when they find out I'm not saying this guaranteed I'm just saying well the station leads to who knows what that doesn't mean you that risk that means there could be many or the reasons there may be many different ways but it's almost like asking me what's a great formula in life and I say buy low sell high if you know what I mean if I had the answers I would I would package it many a time it's not one answer many a time in fact in a way we learn from key sickness of it every Maru Destin so the rationale that the shining get a man stole right a man stole or a man was so desperate that he sold himself as a slave as inevitably so the concept of what he's supposed to do and how to live with him again only by ever every Michigan avid lots my Connaughton Lots my one till oh we heard about it you gotta give it to him and he sees the way the family lives this is the way this is the real way of what the criminologist would very much like that instead of locking them up in prison hand them out to people who are doing clean living and that way they learn and that will be - bar and that's the really the job the job is to be a living example of a lover of a person who's doing the right thing and living we hope happily that's really what it is louder please I mean if you can if you feel that a curriculum would help in these things and you have the ear of people in education more power to you I'm not against it you would have to of course test it and show that your curriculum works it could make a lot of sense but if it doesn't work big deal you know what I mean if you can do it more power more with you I'm for you but you have to have some sort of studies made that it works by only you go to a conditioned shoppers up front there's something definitely wrong but this is a parental job don't sit in the front let the older people sit here but this is this you're right but you also see it a kiddush lately that the adolescents are drinking heavily so it's not because all of a sudden they became alcoholics is because their parents and this is an old story I remember reading a commentary it goes back over 50 years 60 is that I read it it was a commentary from the 30s why are there no Jewish alcoholics and they went into all kinds of sociological reasons but now and this is after many generations now we're holding Baruch Hashem that was so well integrated that they were Jewish alcoholics so what happened that children see the appearance discussing hey this is this is good stuff you know so when children see that but just like children and might go for we started smoking very young because that's we even wanted a first Yom Kippur way before our local dictates it because it's being an adult right so we started to smoke what with the movies the hero was O's with a cigarette you know the way he inhaled was something so it was part of you know I want to emulate him that the poison comes from the parents so that's really what you have to do that's the biggest - boy I'm not I don't understand how do I explain the Tara character or what we call the Schwartz's of nattara cart that go to Iran right so much to them I say they're crazy haven't you ever met crazy people you know the guy that shut up that's cool isn't he crazy so isn't that an answer they're crazy - about what they call the Schwartz's of nature' cows are not normal people and we have a model on quite a few of them they're not normal if you want to know the Terra Cotta it'll take some time for me to explain it to you but I'm ready to explain it I'm very tolerant just as there are people in medicine you have different opinions I know of cases well we went to one doctor there was a special wound that the person had one doctor says keep it wet at all times and he went to an end he was suffering went to another doctor keep it dry at all times what do you do then huh so even in medicine you have different opinions and each doctor all the other guy's crazy he doesn't know medicine right so why are we not entitled to have different status in Yiddish guide your Rebbe says this my Rebbe says this there's always a third Rebbe that's tolerant of both so but we a lot of times you don't choose reveries the Rebbe you get into the right class at the time when you're influenced but that's what it's all about it's a shame to buy your dish kite I mean I I have deep admiration for ruff cooks itself it was not popular on my deck but my Russia Shiva itself was very close to ruff cook when he was young then it became politically what is the word and correct so in the sukkah there was always a huge portrait of ruff cook one year it was missing was never put back on the wall again because was politically incorrect but so but I will so a very great admirer of this the late shot know that is that so who was it's a Dickey side Island this was his schita please we had the dog let me after understand each one was entitled to his shaitan and there's a miss Oelrichs let me give you an example love sham shall fall here say that sonic was rocker do you know that remote couldn't again as ever the first girl ever said he's a walking muscle safer and there's an apocryphal story which I don't believe to believe it that he once came among to see them and they gave him something to eat and as soon as he ate a bite they grabbed the plate nature Ryan so he had of the question mark over his head and he says he turned it he says they're being Muhammad you so he stood up acid danke Schoen I know thank you so that's the story it's a good story anyway right but they held he subsonic as I'm sure like diskin said he's a Russia you know why because the presumption for he has held that shaking woman saying you can even offer you him because it's not there a paper that's this hellish kite and Eric Harris has nothing to do with Derek Reba so when he offers his hand to mrs. disken probably surely disk and says he's a Russia okay eat that he gets the answer the story so what was he was he a sonic or a Russian look a day is how many times the Avenue good mother where once said to the other monoliths lemme die to the dark on the lake hamana let's let me die today dog there's such a thing is most likes and say fail is Khayyam you won't sell you won't solve it because these are my legs / Engstrom are you okay see you want to go back to the civil to the Civil War where Jews had to answer religious jokes at answer then not only religion the Bible speaks about slavery I don't know if they but the by ban there were very religious people the Bible speaks about slavery what's wrong with slavery and if you wish many people who are employed are no less slaves than the indentured servants of yesterday in believe me this slavery you got to make a living you bet if you got to make a living and you're limited you better listen to the boss and many at times he's a very unreasonable person isn't that slavery how do we explain it what's wrong with it why do you take it as a given I have I have servants working for me so we don't call them slaves all the people working here in the hotel why don't you Colette call them slaves from now on oh it's not a nice word but the Mongols will call them slaves what's the difference tell me the difference if a harsh voice can say what are you doing here get to work or what are you doing here you should have done that and he opens his mouth and they take it cuz they lose their job sure they can so what who tells you you've been you've been brainwashed that the most delightful thing in the world is democracy well look what's happening now in the last few years with democracy when we all see that it's all show cut and even with the judiciary everybody is being bought so that golden thing democracy is kind of being tarnished isn't it but we've been brainwashed democracy democracy because the Greeks believed in democracy who tells you that that's the greatest ideal our greatest ideal is theocratic monarchy isn't it okay but even among kings you have Kings that will - I remove them as we see and turn out good the human being could glitch but because we've been we have been bearing what democracy he could quit yeah he could quit there are so many people that can't quit look at all what's making the news of all the women whatever whatever the story was that were used that were repressed what do you mean they could quit why did they stay on in the job what are you answering there cuz they were slaves to their job so theoretically they could quit but they didn't quit they suffered you incident cuz they're slaves so just because he's called a slave we've been brainwashed so what's wrong with slavery tell me what's wrong with slavery it's a label but that's exactly what's going on today why didn't all these women quit they're complaining complaining because I need a job I gotta make a living yeah beacon got a job elsewhere hey who says I can what am I gonna do until then right and and and third of all you know who says it's gonna be any better cuz aren't all men slobs how do I know they're slobs cuz look at my employer why should she think that there are some nice men out there who are the women to do whatever is necessary so that's what it's all about so it became the label as objectionable for kept Evatt Kanani so first of all there certain limitations what a boss can do we're not going down to the south where there were rocks ilium among where where you know the Simon Legree's whatever you know Uncle Tom's Cabin whatever ever whatever the book showed they were hidden when they had an effort Kanani who's Malia the missus cassia they treated him nicely and you're my leave to treat your as it cannot be nicely so what's your problem because he has a label big deal what's wrong with labels if you I can indoctrinate a person then it's a wonderful label if the rule aren't we all supposed to be off today Hashem slave yeah Tashia yes how would I explain I should explain about sting and terrorists how do we understand here some more like give me a theological answer but you're not gonna be happy with it the theological answer is how do you explain a doctor that's taking off a foot from a human being just because it's you know it's gangrene he's taking off the foot from you and being the suck sorry that's right say yeah no but it's gonna kill the person so theologically I'm Oleg is the co Hara right and I know some Russian the tough without exception is rye and if we're not going to deliberate them the lab initially them who should know alright says they're going to come to kill your children if you obliterate them because this is rah don't you know the famous joke the Tammany was walking and he just came Terrance Israel but he's coming from a few thousand years earlier right and he's walking on train tracks and he is dudu doesn't know what it means and the train hit something breaks every bone in his body takes him a year to recuperate and he's home and his wife is him can I give you a cup of tea sure so she put some one of those newfangled things and all of a sudden he hears a whistle he runs over and takes off her shoe and starts beating it says wife says what are you doing threesome la musica maluca shame Catan in the Taylor says key shame Catan him they're gonna grow up to be Rustom that's for homologous and since the varnish layer knows will and that's what he's telling us so you're cutting away the foot that's full of gangrene to save the rest of civilization that's the rationale if you were believing Jude you accept it because God said so and that the rationale was built into it you know do you really feel Hitler didn't really hate the Jews and feel that they're the scourge of all evil to mankind they think it was just politics he hated the Jews with a passion he had Jewish blood in him all the story ins know this that his I believe his father's father was Jewish who was intimate with the may was a Jewish rich boy a spoiled Jewish rich boy was intimate with the made this historians I'm not telling you about my son do you know the turquo mother who was really the ranan with a cross to Ferdinand and Isabelle and said that yashka was sold for thirty silver pieces and Celie you know he was Jewish his mother's mother was Jewish Lenin's let him K from Jewish stock not revive Masao Kume revive you Shia says they would choose that is Jewish blooded but are you just because Hitler really believed it therefore how do we finish that sentence they really believe that they're gonna get Olam haba by killing Jews even if it's only gonna be one-on-one which is really non profit right that's non profit but they're ready to do it cuz they're ready for you in my book so what do derive from this that's part of the you know it's part of being a narrative but so where do we go from there what we what we shouldn't say is that all Saini Israel or I'm awakened that's not so we have no right to say it because animal occurs and a mother no by ever every I did say that by of atrani I said wherever every the ever every who glitched whether he stole or according to some Alex well don't the person who sold himself a wave it karate but we spoke about every degree before if it's Canali I'm simply saying if we weren't brainwashed that there's something intrinsically evil and having the slave I don't see why something's objectionable I say we have slavery today without the label but that's exactly what we have many many employees are slaves they're worse than indentured servants I'm telling you it's just up with the word slavery wow that's a terrible word it became a terrible word because we grew up that way there's nothing wrong with it at all please I believe that you can only give anyone an allele or a keyword by sheva brachot you know he's an uncle is that if he believes in God if he doesn't believe in God your Marshall and what a broker we're all about tell us what he broke etosha but if he believes in God you can give my broker creator creator technically you can if he's a moment if he's a minor counting and a minion is not push it but past us yes the technical issue but my ship finds things that sell held that even a real woman because he says how do we know that you need 10 for a minion at masala a de arroz ice yachts ooh call a venir schewe he says they were all a bunch of upper Colson and everything else and we line out minion from them of my show that you can be mad saref even a mother and up Icarus to a minion yeah yeah that's Azariah you know the famous witticism that someone but it's big not like a someplace gonna missus ELISA has it's over there many chose so one said to the other yes the gomorrah says colton ashamed balmy pushy israel a night itis shall they kelvin or lake later and yet you know it bit and enhances all the other of the sudden so he says he is see you could mean you can use Kelvin on says yeah but there were other cell to summon you know that Seraphin to the minion okay yes what's one thing got to do with the other what's the difference if that lock is you you can give them another year give me cuz that Shabbos he was Mahalo that's a reddish that's not a circle ah that's a reddish I I'm not disagreeing with the reddish it's a wonderful rubbish but you know a lot of times when you're forced to do a keyboard give them to see so Sauron that's a good idea I was once I say I'm sebat close to fifty years I say a fear for abundant from Long Island so I'm semi-retired so now they come to my house five years ago I went to a place among Island where they met and of course I had a deal with a lot of problems that rabbis have one of the great problems they have is when it's usually the president's daughter that married without again at Imam zero and then you have to go in there you know make ameesha barek so I have written a mission barrack in Hebrew and in English without saying nice things about the moms er but rather you know me and the presidents were very happy with - Weiss they didn't understand that so that's what a love has to be able to cope with right things that they don't understand yes I'm not hearing you I'm sorry he want me to explain the rustle and it's very interesting it is so anyways they fine what tell me what they're doing that's dangerous please tell me the only thing that they do is dangerous is that their young mother Lila Bible by decorum you know so yeah but tell me what's wrong or what you find objectionable I'm not a brass of a gusset but I can defend all the signals it's you see it's attracting very rational people there's something there it just as there are foods that you were poor there are other people find delicious would you tell me hey I don't get it right but you have different tastes right it's the same thing with all kinds of thought would the welcome and avoid this Hashem it's a Daris on avoid accession and because it's based on your dish kite there's some very delicious things there that attract different people what's wrong I'm against na na na na na rush kite but what's it got to do what's it got to do but they'll explain it we look there are a lot of enigmatic enormous every field of thought there are difficulties let me give you an example a person has a problem comes to a doctor we're talking not a fly-by-night he's coming to a medical doctor he has 15 Smithers on the wall right what should I do doctor to the doctor breaks him out of prescription the u.s. the doctor why is it gonna work I'm not a doctor what do I know so what am i doing by taking his pill it's a pill who knows what's in this bill but I am relying on the fact that people said this man knows medicine he must know what he's doing does every patient the doctor would shop wolf the head of most of his patients if they were discs and now what's gonna do a doctor explain the pill to me he has to give a lecture every time he does a prescription I'm a doctor and my opinion this pill probably will help you no guarantees so I'm giving you a prescription so do you question it most of the time and every different field of a fighter session you have things that are delicious and delightful because it's Tyrel it shouldn't be Tyra's very quiche mock there are sometimes difficulties which many people will understand the answer many people won't yeah but he's a doctor he must know what he's talking about that's the answer so of course there are a lot of difficulties with every sadist with a sadist in general you have people who are still laughing at see them I'm a rubbish a nickel but I'm very tolerant of those people because sent many at times you know every year of Shabbos different see them give you out and different iris and stories and what have you and I lift myself at a lot of the publication's because there's what delivered some very tolerant that people who live I'm telling you I'm very tolerant of them because there's something to live for that so what but I gotta tell you that my youth and even today I reach something which is a at least the Suffolk Bubba my sir but I feel I get you're a survivor from it but you're like Talia so there's something there right okay as something dear in every did and every debtor come of my destruction and was not raised why is it lucky Nora if the parents what tonight Shanshan is boo it's not Russian all right or of course I do have a fiddle Allah I really would puss Kim this way I've arrived from a Gomorrah it's a kadish invariably parents that know nothing and this usually happens that the person has a sibling that is marrying out of the faith right then the soyun of all each other and the parents say honor thy father and think that they know you and I know that plastic huh what do you mean I'm telling you to go to the wedding no so what the Posten is one thing but I must tell you that I hold there's a dim that if a parent is a Russia there's no benefit of aim that's a block of wood but we say my Sam ha nul see bomb Holly Sawyer and the concept of covered nasi is because he is the father of the generation so to speak of theologically and the terrorist says only below say my sambar so therefore if the fees of Russia I'm not Merkley if to give covered to enough see who's a Russia therefore we learn out from that I'm not Muslim to give cover to a parent that's a Russian fine but we just spoke to Nixon there is not a Russia so I hold la loca that it doesn't say Russia nice of my son that says a parent that's not eisah my son who even if their denotes yueshen is boat there's no heave of Kamarov a my have arrived from Marcus tough customer base I don't want to go into it but I have Araya and that's the way I would pass him there is no fear of Kippur other aim if they're a nice and my son even if they're not reassure him but it's a different it's a different color show it's a nicer my son sure cuz he's not a Russia it's not a Russia that's it not only that the Rambam brings with people our very own immune to it for Kirov so the dusky want to give me see does what a Jew supposed to do a Jewish i'ma Shabbos he's never not a sham Chavez the only time we say never is from the random that's the way is up time but it's not Porsche thorium is not partial I know I wrote a safe I never say foreign it emits in our recent work but that of crime said the ramen gives us the you'd given victim of a muna so the prime useless and the ramen writes about people who make mistakes because the way they interpret enough they think but there was that that's wrong and therefore would seem no alum haba because you don't believe if you don't have the quarter to get into the theater you can see how outdated I am from the fact that I said a quarter right but if you don't have the admission you can't get in so what do you mean if you don't believe you you can't get into it that's the way the ramen seems to say so how crime used to say he ain't I he's making a mistake to POSIX sounds that way so he's never sent up a careless never gonna believe this is like another curse but it's not push it I must tell you that's not a push the thing but that's that said a day and with the ramen seems to say that connection is but but if you don't believe you don't believe you don't have the price of admission you got at the price loud please technically yes but it's terrible behavior because you're giving them a message that being from the end is to be a you know not a nice person which maybe he'll Hashem that's how bad it is it's been a pleasure of eyesight I just I do cheesy thank the rough for coming for the shop stern Rebbetzin their incredible suppose that we had it took a little bit of work it was an Reverend and somehow we were able to work together rather than decay and we have the rubber joy you know the power behind the power