Rabbi Daniel Travis speaking at Scheiner's - Guaranteeing Parnasah and Tranquility in 2026

Today's sh is guaranteeing panasa and simka right success for 2026 which is we're at the threshold of 2026 a new uh a new year which uh in it has very little significance but psychologically something new is always enticing and possibility to change so I just want to tell you a little bit about myself 33 years ago had a baby first baby daughter and I was going to buy food for a kdish. It was inim and I was crossing if any of you know that it's near the bus station and there was a car in the wrong lane because he thought he could save time driving in the wrong lane which is never a smart move. Never drive in the wrong lane especially in Israel. and he realized he was about to hit a bus, which a car and a bus, usually the bus wins. So instead of hitting the bus, he made a quick swerve. He hit me. I was thrown about three meters in the air and landed head first on concrete. And I was run over by a truck which was containing watermelons quite heavy. And on the spot, I was pronounced dead. I recently uh met the ambulance driver who took me to the hospital and I asked him, "Was I was I really pronounced dead?" He says, "Yes, you were officially dead." So I always say if you get pronounced dead especially in Israel get a second opinion because it might be wrong. Look here I am to tell you a story. But anyway they took me to Hadas in Kim and they said um to me oh I came too right the dead person came too said you have nothing to worry about. You are in the best hospital in Israel. That's when I got really worried and um they told me that uh you know they told my wife either your husband will be a vegetable or a dead and I lived through it when I came uh got a little better I went to and I asked him two questions my first question is do you make the of in such circumstances and the said no you don't make the braha I said what do you mean I said I was hit by a car thrown in the air, land on my head and run by a truck. That's not a miracle. He said, "No, no, that's not a miracle." So I asked him then, "So what's a miracle?" He was 83 at the time. He said, "If a lion jumps on top of you, that's a miracle." So I said, "Wow, uh, but I feel like I had a miracle. I I feel I need to change my life." He said, "You need to change your life." What you do? He said, "Do something. Hashem will give you a braha." So I I started writing. I opened up a uh many many things I started doing. But what I want to talk about today is something really really uh life-changing. Yeah. Is there and I believe that this is the most important. Is there a mish here? >> Thank you. Right now look, there's many many I I'm I I try to teach people how to be postkim. That's my goal in life, one of my goals. And there's many many important. But if which is all-encompassing every single second of the day, which can really transform every single difficulty in your life and make it not a difficulty anymore. And it's right here in um in the B. In fact, it's so push the Mishna doesn't even say anything. He just floats it without anything at all. And it's here in Simmon. It's the last in at the end of the says the top of it. Yeah. A person should be margle him to self to say right roil all the time everything that the merciful one does he does for good and if you think about this everything means without exception it means getting hit by a car it means no matter what happens to you in your life it's all good everything that does good and it's very very mad over here we don't find the lion of Hashem's name too often. Yeah. Well, why punct here and we find it actually um it says but why here is using the word and the answer is like this that everything hashem does is good nothing kazal tell us medish many places everything that comes from is good when we have a difficult situation we're in a quandry right we're in a quagmire actually that we are now facing potentially a big um weakening in our weakening arm and it looks like Hashem is being with us person gets hit by a car or um one time I was in Rio de Janeiro and because my wife's from there and I was attacked by two muggers they choked me um for quite a long time until brother Hashem the thought ano mubato came into my head and and they ran away but when we have these sort of trying circumstances we're coming face to face with own amuna and it looks like Hashem is not acting with to us. It doesn't look like Rakman right at that very moment when we are facing very extreme difficult challenges we are meant to say raman the merid and you know one of the big challenges I find about traveling on an airplane or in general being here in America is the way that goyam talk you know a lot of usage of uh nlpen foul language and but but what's that really all about When something bad happens to us, people have to say something. Some say like, "Oh my gosh." Or they'll say, "Darn it." Or, you know, maybe they'll say something improper, whatever it might be. But Kazal [clears throat] understood that that's human nature. When something really, really terrible happens. Yeah. When something really, really terrible that appears terrible happens, our instinctive reaction is to say something. Yeah. To say something. Yeah. Soal gave us exactly what we're meant to say. We're supposed to say this is also good, right? This is also good. Now you might ask like, okay, so you just got hit by a car and pronounced dead. Is that good? Right? It's good. Look, it's 33 years later and I wrote 33 and I opened up a coil and I did a lot of things. So everything does is good. We're just trapped in time. We're trapped in time. We can't see what's going to be in 5 10 years from now. So we don't see it. But the more a person really understands and internalizes. Yeah. Everything that the merciful one does, he does for good, he realizes that it's all heading in that direction. It's all good. It's all amazing. Now I was my wife and she made over 100 and I made in my life one. was um by Rashiva Rafi Kushvki. Maybe heard about him. They had a baby recently at the young age of 88. Yeah. And he taught me a lot of things Rafi Kushki. But one thing he taught me was a beautiful mushel which really brings this concept to life. And the mushel goes as follows. There was once a king who had a very very precious emerald and it was it was priceless. It was very big and very beautiful. And one time somehow the emerald got scratched and king was devastated. Like can you imagine? You have the most valuable emerald in the world. It just got scratched for months and months. He was just iceb until one day an artisan came through the kingdom and he said, "You know what? Let me sit 10 hours with this emerald and I'll fix it for you." Yeah, I'll fix you. So what do he do? You have any idea? You know, you know what he did? Anybody? Yeah. Anyone can guess what do you say? >> Oh, excellent. Beautiful. What's your name? >> Yudin. So, what review is saying is he took the scratch and he made it into an etching. Yeah. He took what was a mar was a scratch on the on the emerald etching and said Kushki he said that's how we have to live our life. Yeah. We get scratches all the time, right? all the time things are seemingly going wrong and that but if you could take that and turn into a an a a an etching your life becomes so much more beautiful. Yeah. The most difficult situations in your life are all for good. Look he was 65 years without a child. Yeah. For 65 years he ded he was to a big kashm when at 88 he had a baby. And every single situation in our life, the more difficult it appears, the more hard it is, the more trying it is. Theor says something amazing. Yeah. Theor says the worse it looks, the better it is. And why is that? The says in in asan it says um it says um is a we think at night it gets dark. That's no is a bria. Hashem creates is a kipa. It's a kipa on the ore because is constantly trying to bring wants to bring into our life tremendous tremendous ore. Tremendous light. But we can't just grab it. We won't appreciate it and we have to earn it. Hashem wants to earn it. So Hashem the sofur says this. He says it's a remn can happen in this world without first you need darkness before light said if there's anything good that Hashem wants to bring into your life he will first bring darkness he'll first bring darkness because you have to accept the darkness and then the light comes in you have to peel the darkness away he was by accepting it the zora says because that's uh because Hashem wants a true relation relationship. He wants complete love. And complete love only comes from first accepting the challenges, accepting the most difficult situation and understanding it's from Hashem and saying even so, right, Hashem, you spark. I love you. Even though it seems really difficult situation right now, you put me into a real pickle. Yeah. But I accept it completely and I have the greatest for you. Right. that says the um theor says that's that's why brings difficulty into our life. Yeah. And the more we internalize this and the more we live it and we more we understand it will transform our whole life around because we won't be upset anymore when something difficult happens. We'll realize it's yeah it's complete and true love. My wife and I, we have different sleeping schedules and my wife likes to go to sleep really late. I like to go to sleep early, wake up. I d every morning the coastal by the way inside the tunnels right right next to where the kesh kashim is. That's where I stand and it's amazing shaw. If you ever have a chance to go to your shalim um called shuva the floor cost $1,000 an inch. It's made of pure onx. It's unbelievable. It's like walking to base magdosh. I dive in there every morning. I daven for people for Yeshua's 40 days straight that people should have Yeshua's and um so um laa um it's unbelievable experience um so I have to get I I get I leave to 3:30 in the morning I have to go to sleep early so one one night at about 12:00 right which is like in the middle of my sleeping time my wife walks in and says you know I need some medicine from the pharmacy ever happened to you? I need some medicine from the pharmacy. And I told my wife, but I am sleeping. My wife says, "But I need medicine from the pharmacy." So like I said, I have a share. My wife needs res but I'm sleeping. What should I do? So I posing I should get up. Yeah, because that's the right thing to do. Um if your wife needs medicine. So I got up, I got dressed, I went to the pharmacy, still open, you know, and came back and I said, "Ah, now I see that you love me." Right? Now I see you love me. So I realized Hashem does this to us every day. That's Hashem wants to see if we really love him. So what does he do? He puts us into very uh trying circumstances and to accept them. Anything that happens to us is difficult to accept. For example, what day is today? Thursday, right? So, Monday night I went to um I came here for a few days because one of my tamidum is getting married. I asked me to come. So, um Monday night I was at the airport and it was tent was what time was 11:00 and the gate closed at 11:45. In any event, I um before I left, I went into my drawer and I took out my passport. the place where my passport always is. That drawer, the top drawer on my desk, I took it and I put in my pocket. I didn't even look at it like why should I have any suffach that the place where my passport is always kept and there's a passport there is not my passport. But when I got to the airport and I took out the passport, it was my son's passport. Yeah, my son. He should be gazant. Yeah, it was his passport. What had happened? My wife had uh put the passport there. My passport happened to not be there. So that was the So it was um 10 it was 11:00 and you know I had a flight in 45 minutes. Uh the gate closed in 45 minutes. I called the taxi driver. He came brom it's impossible to get 27 minutes but he did it. He broke the you know world record you know uh Indie 500 getting to from from Tel Aviv to Tel Aviv and Rosh wasn't right. But I knew look I said look it's a test. Yeah. Just four days ago, I have a Talmed who um he during Corona um he was put into a corona hotel, he had a stroke. He um he uh they didn't find in a few hours and his was brain dead and um I went and we were dabbing for him for a year and a half this this uh this this and it wasn't working. His wife said maybe you have to stop dabbing. It's an ace. I went into Ramo Sternbach. very makur to Ramos Shernbach and there was a video about this to told me like three 400,000 people saw this video um that um I asked Ramos Shernbach I said can we keep domining for him it's an ace he said no no after 10 minutes he said it's not an ace medical knowledge is constantly changing but kit sir the next day got better and I asked him what I said my high like what happened exactly he said I have a kabola from the brisker oven and and is melt that if an if a post gives it's right if declares a woman to be a um sorry even if a girl turned three already she goes back to being two the basil grow back the oft changes the mits of the world and that's what happened anyway so this person he had a miraculous recovery he still needs forma But I met him four days ago and he told me an amazing thing. He said the word gift is an acronym. Anyone know what the word gift is an acronym for? Gift. It stands for um growth is from tests. Yeah. A gift is growth is from tests. You don't grow without having the tests. Yeah. It's all about growing in amuna. Every single thing that happens in life is a test in amuna. If you have a difficulty, it's because Hashem is testing you at that moment in the way to pass the test is right here. The answer is hey. Yeah, my daughter, she has six children now, but when she was in, we got 40 nos in a row. 40 people said no. Why? Because someone started a rumor about us and this that and the other. Um, everybody was talking to this person and I was sitting in the suka with two friends of mine and I said, you know, it's hard but it's all tested amuna. And um then at that moment I banged on the table. The phone rang. I had my hand in the table. It was a sh and 11 days later my door was a kala, you know. And I realized then it's just a test in amuna. Whenever anything bad happens without exception ever it's a test in Hashem wants like the zor says how much do you love the bi do you have complete love of the bi if you have complete love of the bam and he puts you through a situation right where you know people are st speaking about you and starting rumors and this that and the other it's all good it doesn't matter it's painful this but it's from the bum Everything is from the bum. There's a gro. They have a safer here. Mish with a they have it. I don't know. They maybe they don't have it here. A lot of the mashim don't have it because um it's too hard to learn it. But yeah, you have it here. Okay. If you find it, >> they have it girls. >> Ah, it's in the maker's girls. A lot of them. Yeah. So, if you have it, look up parakeid ales. Let's see. They have the gro. Let's see. Sometimes it's the back. >> I'll let you find it. >> Okay, let's see. Get out of here test. Okay. M here. Oh man, it looks like this one doesn't have it. It looks like this one doesn't have it. Yeah, they took it out a lot of them because people just um it's too much for most people. But anyway, look it up over there. paragraph says something which is unbelievable and Rav Gerson Elin made me his personal to tell this to as many people as possible. Yeah. Dra says like this. Nobody ever does anything bad to you. Nothing. A person could destroy your life. It has nothing to do with them. Yeah. Yeah. It's Shamayim says, "There's no reason ever to get upset with anybody ever." Nobody. Yeah. Right. One of my tummy called me up. He had a company that was worth $10 million. He brought two men in. They stole a company from him. He made a legal settlement. Okay. Finished. He calls me up. He says, "What should my cabala be for this year?" I said, "You should forgive your partners." Yeah. For doing that to you. He said, "You're crazy." I said, "Maybe you're right, but that's what you should do." He did it and he was very happy at it afterwards. Yeah. Says never be upset with anybody about anything ever because it's Yeah. These people only Okay. They'll be punished for it. But that's not your business. Yeah. If you live your life like that, nobody will ever upset you ever. Your life will be all. And by the way, every day in right, we say inhimits. No, you say that every day, right? What do those words mean? You know, who was it? Raam before he would give us he would ask people what does Yorush mean? Yeah. He would ask the guys if they didn't know what Yor Malush was, he wouldn't give because you're not. How could you be a Yeah. So, but what does it mean? Everyone know what means? The late reigns and the early reigns. Okay, good. So, you could all be rabbis. Um, but so what does it mean? What do those words mean? Like days. Well, what does that mean? Anybody suggestions? Yeah. Anybody? You look like a smart guy. What? What do you say? Are you a shiner, by the way? >> Oh, is there a shiner here? Sh. Okay. Um, anybody know anybody suggestions? >> Live here like heaven. >> Oh. Oh, very good. So what does that mean? >> But what does it mean? What? Like so like so what does that what does that mean? >> What does it mean be like you're like heaven? Are we in heaven now? The answer is yes. The answer is for a person who lives his life alerts. You can have in this world. Yeah. And how do you get to that? There's a safer which not everybody learns called to I think it is. He says this. He says this for he says if you keep this you'll have all in this world. Yeah. Your life will be olam haba because nothing will bother you ever right the only thing which stops us from having a life of complete bliss in this world is things get we have problem we have uh my rebi zatal used to say it's either panaso or it's um sheld bias or it's um health or it's your children yeah everyone has one of those problems but if you just say like I have no problems my life is perfect Yeah. Every day in Suki to de Zimra. Yeah. How about a sitter? Sitter. Can I have a sitter? >> Right. >> Yeah. It's either way. Usually it's the same. Actually, not exactly, but everyone says this, I believe. Even as far especially um in we say like this Hashem is very strong and his tuna has no misbar. What does that mean? It means you know if you have very smart person your IQ is 200 but Hashem's IQ is infinite. His IQ is infinite. Hashem's IQ is infinite. That means every time he does something for us, anything that happens to us is based on Hashem's infinite IQ. He thought it through and he decided like this is exactly what has to happen. It's the most perfect possible thing that could happen in this world. That's what it means. And if you're able to internalize that and live this, then your life will be extremely extremely different. you'll be really really happy. Um, and that is okay. I have I speak uh on trying time. I give a share every morning at the coastal and I record it. I have about 2,000 shar when things look bad because the more you can accustom yourself to live your life like this, the happy you'll be. So that's simra that was the simra part. But this was advertised as two things, right? Not just simp. And probably anybody who came here is probably because of their pasa. Right? So I want to tell you something else, right? Is that clear? Let's just quickly go over what I said. I said, um, I got hit by a car, pronounced dead. I went to and he said, um, I should do something with my life because I got saved by a car crash. So I decided to try to figure out why bad things happen. And what I realized is that nothing bad ever happens. Life is perfect. And the way you tap into the perfection of life is by saying of it. We mentioned this m about the jewel the scratch turning into an etching and we mentioned the gro the gro says nobody ever does anything bad to you ever. We mentioned IQ is infinite voker darkness is creation and that um that it's covering up the light. It's like and we mentioned also that the grass says that no one ever does bad to you it's all good. Okay. So those are a few things that we mentioned here today. But what about perasa? Right? When I got engaged, my um Mashiach in Yeshiva, he told me, "Right, what's the first question in Kadushian Nolan?" Right? Where's the money going to come from? So, like, how can you guarantee your panasa? Yeah. How can I guarantee, right? People get very upset when I say you can guarantee your ponasa because they say like, "How can you guarantee panas?" You know, like it sounds like a scam. It sounds like a pani scheme or something. But let's see. in most sidur if you look at the back um there's some sukim which is called param let's see they put it in this one uh oh yeah here it is param what does it say here uh bashi call right okay but it leaves out the main words here you know and my wife and I we got married and learning cola and had really hard pronouncing problems. I was sitting in Shawl and there was a safer next to me the Tashbots Tashbots Cotton Tashbots Cotton was written in jail um by uh a Talmed of the Marenberg and he wrote down the sucker when the when the um Tashb was in jail and I opened it up. I said, "Hashem, we need Yeshua." Okay, I opened up and it says there, "If you say every day, your pronounce is guaranteed." And then it brings it it says van right it's quoting the lion of dishami dami says in the name of yeah the milk the milk rabbi yeah that your pas will be guaranteed if you say param every day then your pas is guaranteed that's an incredible um incredible promise you know oh and then he says oh he says so I asked many I said are you meant to take this USI literally and they said yes says an what does it mean I don't know how you collect exactly you go to shmayim and get the money from but I've been doing it for 30 years and things have been pretty good um so uh I'm um suggesting you know because you can't tell anybody in this generation can't tell [clears throat and snorts] anybody ever what to do because that's like religious persecution but I'm suggesting that saying param every day and okay people say well you know maybe it's labka but I asked many I asked Mo Stern asked David Ko I asked about you say I asked many many uh is it literal and they told me they all said yeah it's literal it's a gammor so um but you have to really believe it number one and you have to do it every day yum it has to be and what's the idea so this is a really important idea >> quick question sorry >> yeah sure >> on chabas >> also on chabas Yes, also in Chabas like Shabas is the most important day because that's when when it was made have a so the thing is like this but that's a good question um so oh so how does this work exactly right how does it work exactly is this hocus pocus if I say these then like the money will drop down from the sky um so the idea is like this I think it has a lot to do with the first part of the shar also about the isuram I have a theory Idesh let's call it which I found afterwards emis says the same thing yeah and other other also say close to that yeah is that you know how we say carbonos oh by the way has anybody ever like looked at the first 20 pages of the sitter you know he has something called carbonos you know about that tell me all that you say carbanos okay but there is such a thing called carbanos and the guarant says that carbanos is instead of bringing a carbon you learn about it it's like you brought a carbon so I thought you know what we had so many serum right and I told you a few but like [snorts] we went off the charts I said you know what maybe if I learn about it's like I had maybe I went to said you know it's not but it's why don't you see how it goes I started giving a every day thanking when things look bad and learning about these different about and Hashem does it etc. And I saw things got incredibly better. And that's um and the idea is like this. The idea is like we said everything is a test in amuna. Everything every difficulty is test amuna. If hashem brings you difficulties it's because he's testing your amuna. So if you learn about it and you strengthen your ama without needing the difficulties, right? So you don't need the difficulty anymore. If you elevate your amuna yourself, right, and work on this, then the whole point was to get you a higher level amuna. So you got there so you can finish, so you can move on, right? And I believe that param is the same thing. If you really believe that the mun and the money is the same thing, right? Just m money saying, right? Then Hashem's giving you mud every morning, every day, okay? You have to do, you have to go to work or go to col or however you get your money. Yeah. Um from Yseph Zonfeld his wife said we don't have any money for Shabas. So he wanted he walked out the door he bent down he picked up the money and was on the floor. Okay, but we're not on his madrega. Most of us need to do some. But the thing is is that it's all about amuna. It's about raising your madrega of amuna so that you see hashem more clearly. And that's why he brought the difficulty, right? Remember um and hashem is you know is he doesn't want us to suffer. He created this world. So we should have simra and we should be um um masonic listen. Yeah. So if you raise your level of every single day by saying then you don't need as many difficulties. You still need to do some that's if you're not on the major of which most of us aren't you need to do but you don't need the difficulty. You don't need to have difficulty in pronosa. Yeah, difficulty in prona is to raise our level of ama to get us to go higher to see in all situations. You don't need those difficulties. Yeah, we don't need it. And that's how can make this yeah that if you say one every day then you'll have your pronunci right how can you say that right the answer is because the whole point of the difficulty is to raise your ama and kazal gave us param in order to raise your ama that's the best way to do it according to their okay so I spoke a lot today and um I appreciate everyone who came out on this cold uh winter today um to hear what I have to say. I have some books over here. I have an interesting book which is a little bit different uh than norm. This is a novel. It's a novel. It's really a mushel. Everything I said in this year today plus like about 5,000 other things are in this novel. Yeah. Just we instead of uh telling people like a discourse put into a story and this whole story is a mushel. Um it's very well written. I didn't I wasn't the writer. I was the author but not the writer. But um and most people read it in one night you know uh it's very very interesting and well written. Um but the point is one is that to come to this crystal clear perspective that everything is good no matter what happens. And this guy you did like he gets a really a thrashing you might say. Um and um so I have some copies here. I have some copies here. Um I also have some saram I wrote sh and chas um on uh ebanzar right that that's my kind of thing I I teach postk and chas and um that I also I'm offering to for people 40 days of the coal for if you have any need for yeshuas for anything I ask for $85 a month for a year which is $1,000. Yeah. Um, and um, I have uh 40 of and I'm paying them $1,000 a month. So, um, I'm always looking to help people with Yeshua because that helps us to run the coal. Um, and I'll leave you with that last uh idea is that the more you work on your ama, the more you will have and your life will be amazing. I'm telling you, right? I always say to people, let go. Just throw everything in Hashem's hands. Let go. He will take care of everything without exception. The more you let go and put things in Hashem's hands, the more that he will take care of everything and that you just have to have a right. The whole point, the G said, the whole point of the Torah was to come to everything, every mitzvah, everything. It's all about that. And the more you have amuna, by the way, what does amuna mean? Does anybody know what that word means? Anybody know? Any suggestions? What? >> That's what people say, but it's a it's it's a mistransation really. The word amuna comes from the wordim or on chabs of a mu is a professional act. Yeah. You look in the taram on um blem right is professional. It means training. Um in when I was younger I was training for the Olympics and they have em that's training. Emun is training. We are every single Jew is in 120 year uh course training to serve Hashem. Yeah. Training to serve Hashem. And you train by like we said a gift. Growth is from tests. That's how you grow amuna, right? It's training. Hashem is constantly training us to be higher and higher and higher in our level of amuna. And the more you're successful in your training, right? The difference between the guy who's going to win the gold medal and nothing in the Olympics is the guy who trained more, right? And he had more um some has to do with talent. It's true. Or you know, strength, but it's training, right? And [clears throat] Amun is the same thing. Yeah. And is training every single situation in life [snorts] and there are many many every single day especially if you're married right says shabas he says men and women have nothing in common zero nothing not one thing ears nose mouth [snorts] no connection man and woman right every situation in marriage is a training it's a training to to um to believe in a kesh and understand like the way a person's supposed to act when he's um he's Right? So we're constantly training to go higher and higher and higher in our and the success in the training is how much you let go to put thing. If you let go, if you open your hands and let go, Hashem will take care of everything you need without any exceptions. So it's a it's easy to say, but it's hard to do. But Hashem, she gave us the adish. I'm going to finish off with one more story because interesting and um I see like a few more people walked in. So like this, if you ever come to the coastal, please join me. I have this beautiful minion inside. It's like dominating the base of Mikdash. The floor cost $1,000 an inch in Shuva. It's like walking into the base of Mish. Maybe some of you have diamond there already. But I record my sharim there every morning to put on time about thinking when things bad. So it was sheer number 1,367. It was a few years ago. It was right before Purim and um I was talking about let's say a drunk guy walks into your house and starts breaking the windows like what do you do right? So what you do is you escort the guy to the door because you want to don't want to break all your windows. But um um it was uh okay that was the sh I was recording. I say the luck is you're not supposed to get angry. Not supposed to get upset. Complete amuna. In any event, like as I was giving the shir, this like really weird looking guy comes up to me and he was very upset. I was at the coast with a computer. Wow. Like he thought I had internet there just recording AND HE SCREAMED to me. You have an MPI computer. Anyway, he took the computer and he threw it on the floor. And if you go online, you see the sh you'll see like splat. That's the end, you know. So, I'm thinking, oh my gosh, like I just gave a shir on not getting angry on PM. Someone's drunk. They break your windows. Like, what am I going to do now, right? I don't want to be hypocritical. So, what I decide, not decided, is that I just started giving him braas. I said, "You should have panasa, you should have um health, you should have shalas because you really need it or unless your wife is like you." Um I didn't say that by the way but um and the guy like didn't know what to say. Yeah. Anyway, the next morning I get an email from one of my tam in California. I said, "Rabbi Travis, I saw your number 1,367. It looks like you need a new computer. I'm sending you one today." So look at that. You know, it looked like I lost my computer, but it was really Hashem was just preparing me to get me a new one. That was the way it had to happen. Um so broke Hashem. I have thousands of stories like that. could keep you here for the rest of the day, but I'm sure you have important more important not more important things too, but important. And um you know, you can't tell too many stories because then people think you're just a storyteller. But I can promise you that if you read this book um you know, and you could say, "Yeah, I bought it for my wife, you know, but you could really read it that um it will have an impact on your life." And then I have some chas. And I wish everyone and again if you have um if you're interested in my coel um option so I could take your name and credit card number and I wish everyone you should have but the most important thing to grow an amuna my man came. Yeah. Any questions? Questions comments. Okay. >> Oh you have a question. Okay. Okay. >> Yeah. I just want to be something. >> Beautiful. Beautiful. Yeah. And that's especially prasa, right? That's uh that's why because the main thing is is going on. Beautiful. Thank you. Take a look at that. Yeah. Yeah. >> What? >> It's pericuided olive pic. It's very It's like two lines. I'm telling you, I I give a sh to ladies. I wouldn't have capped it even. But because he says it like so tur yeah and it's unbelievable, you know. Um I'm telling Rev. Gersian Alstein almost every single shear he gave was on this topic. Yeah. And he told me it's pushets. He said, "Push it. If everyone in Clyville would do this, then Michelle would come today." Yeah. And in fact, when this tragedy happened in Meron, so um it was like it was on a Thursday night, right? My son was there. I was so scared. Anyway, Friday um Friday afternoon, I got a phone call from the good Israel. He said, "Oh, Travis, we want you to come to America to speak about um the reaction of the the gurum have to say about this." I said, "But it's Friday afternoon." Yeah. And it's co, right? Said, "Yeah, we know you. We think you could do it." Anyway, so um I had to go in Arab town to get a COVID test. You know, the guy like stuck the thing in my arm. I bashm it went through. But um in any event and I went and I said this idea from Gersh he said Hashem wants us to move to the next level and the next level is not to get upset with people when something happens it's me it's Hashem okay you don't have to hang out with this guy you know if he's causing you problems but don't get upset differentiate between the person and the yeah he's a right okay is that's not your responsibility. You're not that's of that's to hate a person because he did something bad to you. That is included in being of the gula, right? And it's such to people. Yeah. It's such to people. But that is what's holding up the gul. You understand says the test it says because the was hidden so the the soap is hidden says is so deep we don't even know what it is yeah and that's what the is saying what it is is even if something is justified it's still you're not allowed to upset with a person so it's very very hard but the again it's practice the more you mar yourself if somebody does something to you, you say of and just, you know, don't brush it aside. I'm telling you, it's the best thing because so many people, they live their life upset with people all the time and it's just not healthy and it's just ruins your life. In anyway, um any other questions, comments? Yeah. >> So, if someone does something wrong, you say, "I accept it." But you should still speak to the person in the future. >> Yeah, for sure. Look um accept >> first that's excellent point you're making. Yeah. One thing you have to know is it doesn't help Bashas messa because you're usually too upset. Yeah. It shouldn't be vasa. That's number one. Number two like it might not help if you speak to them. It's always better to get like a rv or rebbitson or somebody who has [snorts] a with this person. Yeah. Number two. Number three, look if he's to cause you these problems then you know it could be that it's really not going to help. But the as we were saying it says right is that you know and a lot of times you just don't understand. It could be a misunderstanding. You thought the person said this and really said that it was it was based on that. So it is always good to try to clear it up but it might not work and it might even make things worse. You know the might person might just like justify themselves. So it's not um it's not so it's not simple but it's certainly a good idea to try to make peace you know whenever um whenever you can just not when the person is uh upset that's what Kazal told us but for sure if you can make shalom that's always the best thing yeah okay to everyone and um I have this book here and um I'm open to um comments Sorry.