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I have an interesting theory that I want to I want to run by the guy like an interesting theory mayor really. I have a cash azi I have a cash on that I'm struggling with. It's a cash that I've learned with guys here and from guys here. The ma that the yeshiva is learning this year is kadush. It's anar kadushian. The cash bothers me a lot. It's not like a little cutesy kasha. I want a deeper shot and I have a thought mayor to resolve a plan a thought. So I wanna I want to share it's relevant to the para it's relevant to our garin. So I want to share the in paras in paras this past week's para is the parish of the guml says says the following it the garra says the following there's a mitzvah to stand up for that's a mitzvah it's a it says may stand up for an old and the face of a zumar said what's a zak and the obligates standing up for an old man and a scholar person of shouldn't say the word scholar so you stand up for an old person and says the gim that you don't lose money for this mitzvah you don't have to pay for it. You're not obligated to lose money. From here, we learn if somebody has a business does not stand up in front of now that he's not obligated to stand up is because you don't have to lose money for it. You give honor sunny to you don't have to lose money. So if you're middle of work, you do not have to stand up. But the lion of kazal is you're not allowed to stand up. What does that mean? Why can't I stand up for him if I'm working? So, Tyus explains it means you're working for somebody else. So, if you'd be obligated to, tough luck. You're working for somebody else. Since you're not obligated to, you're not allowed to. So, Judah, if I'm working for somebody, I have a job and I'm hired for a job and a comes in the room. Normally, comes in the room. you have a mitzvah to give honor to the and you stand up. However, if you're in the middle of working for somebody else, so it would be a loss of money, you're stopping to work. If you work for yourself, you're not, but you're all if you work for somebody else, it's you're not let him lose money for standing up for because you're not supposed to lose your own business. If you want to, you can. But somebody else, you're not allowed to. So that's what it says. I don't want to just read this kimar and like truck this kamar. It's rather amazing. I'm not allowed to take a dollar from somebody else. It's rather amazing. I'm in the middle of working and you can't get up in the middle of working. I very much appreciate this. There's a book called the holy woman about a husband and wife. He was they lived in the satire said that Sadik had they had no kids. She was a victim of manga, right? They had no kids. She couldn't have children. They raised about 22 kids nobody else wanted to raise. People would have a child with deformities. People that have a child special needs and the parents couldn't raise them. They sent them to this couple. I think they raised 22 children like this crazy sadikim. They had kids in their house who parents couldn't raise. They raised them. They were like a husband and wife. Now he worked his name this Yid worked. His name was Rabbi Kramer. He worked and he um he was a huge sadic and in the book it describes as a worker how careful he was not to steal from his employees. He was hired for something to be honest to his job in it. He was like he was just tremendously honest to his job. I'm paid for something and I deliver what I'm paid for. I've actually moved I'm moved by this that if you're paid to work and comes in, you're not allowed to stand up. I'm working. I'm sorry. I'm not allowed to stand up. >> Money lose money for >> So Yehuda says if there's no loss of money, if there's no loss of money standing up, we're talking about that you're in middle of working that it would literally be a middle of something. You're not allowed. You're a middle of something. I'm not allowed. It's rather remarkable. A bal you'll appreciate the question. And I'm going to ask I think but don't appreciate cuz I said so. We're going to see. So it says if you're in the middle of working for somebody else and by standing up for the is a loss of money for your boss to stand up. You're hired for a job. You're in the middle of a job. You're not allowed. It says in a Mishna cold valley of noise people in middle of work when people came to your shalim bringing bikurim there was a whole procession and a beautiful march to if you're in the middle of working you stand up for the people bringing you say tough luck to your boss and bal and they ask you engage in a conversation great to see it's great to You ask the people who came with how are you doing? You say our brothers from such a place. You greet them beautifully. So, so says that you stand up people doing a mitzvah. >> The garra assume that you stand up to them. You also stand up. are bigger said no you stand up for such people doing a mitzvah you do not stand up for that's what said come and see you don't realize what it means a person while he's doing a mitzvah we have a fact if You have a mitzvah to stand up for. If you're in the middle of working, you don't stand up. But a person's in the middle of a mitzvah, you stop and you stand up. So that's remarkable. I What's going on here? For a person doing a mitzvah, you stand up. Not says, you see how powerful it is when's doing a mitzvah in the middle of doing a mitzvah. You stand up. You don't stand up for that is the first opinion of the Garra. Every bear with me. Bear with me please. Everybody the first opinion of the Garan is a guy in the middle of doing a mitzvah. You stand up for him. Even though you do not stand up because that's how powerful in the middle of a mitzvah. It makes him bigger than a middle of a mitzvah. Whoa. He's holy. He's connected. He's He's a precious person. He's in the middle of a mitzvah. He's bigger than a That's the Gar's first. >> The Gar's second approach. Perhaps it's not that way. And this is really what I want to focus on today. If everybody could bear with me right now what we just learned is that people come by performing bikurim bikurim is a town comes from their city bringing the first fruits to your town >> a because people join the farmer. There was whole procession a lot of people join a lot of people came along. So when they come up to bring bikurim, you stand up. You stop working and you greet the farmers and all the friends, the families that are coming up. If aim would come, you don't stand up. So the garra's first approach, why is that? Is that bigger a year doing a mitzvah than a middle of >> what? >> No, they're working. >> They're middle of working. >> That's a mitzvah. >> No, people are middle of working. If a Tam comes by, they don't stand up. If the people come by, bring bikur and they do stand up. The garra's first approach is a mitzvah. Bishait mitzvah is bigger than a >> Yeah, that's crazy. That's amazing. We could talk about that a long time. That's amazing. But I I just can't I want to speak about the gumar second ter. We won't talk about it right now. We could we some there's what I don't want to like in learning a gamarra sometimes you have your own agenda and I get I do that sometimes you like run through things that's pretty amazing what we just read I don't want to truck it that's actually amazing you know you we're going many of us are going to tonight and when the kala come in the minigan to stand up why so some claim because the is a melik and the kala is a mala the problem is that probably a melik and mala after the after kadushin are they a melik on the way debatably are you ever seen at a you've had you've had siblings get married what happens when the comes in the room the entire crowd stands up why >> except >> a kala comes in they all stand up why >> there's always that from me like but the kala not standing up I don't know I'm not you can stand up the ka comes in don't be afraid they want to We're not trying to look here. Just stand up. Be like a yid. Everybody stands up. When in Rome the comes in, everybody we stand up. The kala comes in, we stand up. So why do we stand up for them? >> Azie, you ever wonder why? You've had many siblings byem and all the siblings should find their quickly. >> So Azie, you walk in. Azie, why do we stand up? uh for like respect >> as what are they old it's their you know wedding their moment okay >> we're there because of them >> I that's I like that it's nice that's nice like what's the I hear it's like just not like what's the yins study our people >> says says come and ask you could disagree with them yakov said it's the same way people be on the way to a mitzvah, you stand up. They're on the way to the mitzvah of Peru rev of having a family. It's one of it's the first mitzvah, the Torah and we stand up to on the way to the mitzvah. >> It's not doing the mitzvah. It's even on the way to >> the way to the mitzvah's on the way after we said you stand up. >> Yes. On the way just on the way down when there's doing a mitzvah >> on the way to >> if I'm going to put on you should stand up. Is it there? The only thing I would say to that hemo Yehudas a guy walks in here to get his we don't stand up. I would just say that's not a mitzvah. It's called part of the mitzvah. Here the parents bringing them to is part of the mitzvah that it's part of the mitzvah. They're going to perform their mitzvah. The film I could have put on out there and here said that the reason Israel stands up because they're on the way to a mitzvah. That's what said remarkably. All of it's good to know. I like know why I'm doing things. There are two theories. Study our people. Don't fight our people. Don't do different than our people. Israel stands up. Study why we do it. Either because it's the day of the so you stand up for the king. What's debatable is he's not really a mel. You could say he's on the way. >> That could be. How come you don't like that rezi? Why? >> Cuz not yet. Oh, you like that? It could be >> like the >> right. Oh. Oh, I like that. I like this. So, if he says it's possible that was standing up for the king all rise, the king walked in. Very cool. That could be a theory. >> David assume that they're on their way to doing something. >> It's that's very cool. Beloved by a there's two is a that you stand up for that's a you stand up there's a separate that if a person is doing a mitzvah says you stand up for the people bringing bikurim because they're on the way to a mitzvah I love your question ya I don't like I don't like David I don't like pushing away the truth yuda asked very nice I don't even like I realize I'm like dismissing you said I have a big A guy comes in the B medish to get his filling. Maybe you should stand up. Maybe you should. I don't like pushing things away. You might be right. A guy comes here to get his filling. He's saying you should stand up. It It's not so far. It's not. >> It's not crazy. It's literally It's funny. I'm like saying no. Is there a sadic who stands up every time he gets his filling? Is there such a thing? I'm not. I like real things. Maybe he's on his way to a mitzvah. It's not crazy. That's great. >> Pretty embarrassing to stand up every time. >> That's it must be in the name. They're worried like a guy comes at six. That's joke he made because it says how precious is a mitzvah in its time. So he said in its time. He's late but he's making a joke. The whole day is kasher. Soi was making a good a good line. But you I like your cash a lot. It's funny that it's funny in learning a gar you want to make your point. You like truck the whole gumar. I have to stop. It's a bad habit. Well, learning a gar you ask a very good question. It's honestly in a serious way an intelligent thought and maybe he's right. You don't just push away. No, no, no. What do you mean no? Maybe yes. It's very very intelligent. A guy comes in to get his fill and maybe he should stand up. Think about that. It's not a it's an intelligent question. A real question especially Jacob Kamki David Yakov said the reason we stand up for the kala is they're on their way to do a mitzvah. Now it would be debatable then the kala because the is commanded in puru the kala is not but the only ver is she still gets a kumis of purvu. She's not mu but she has a kumis and and besides a kumis of purvu she's also helping him with his mitzvah. So you could hear two yidd on the way to a mitzvah said that's why we stand up kadush is not a mitzvah puru is a mitzvah. So there's no there's no mitzvah not getting married itself. >> Having children's a mitzvah that would be a mitzvah because he's not let together without there's no say that >> there is a I don't want to say no there is a but the assumption is kadush is not the mitzvah the mitzvah it's not so simple because we make under the on marriage. So that's the shitz on the mitzvah. It's debatable. There's talk. There's real talk. We're learning. Yeah. We're learning second parent now realize that >> there's real stuff. >> I like this guy. >> Yeah, he's right. Let him drive. [laughter] >> You're asking good things. Honestly, it's funny when you learn a gimmar. I have a tendency when I learn a gimmar like I want to bring something out. You're like truck the whole gamarra. It's not like chill out kish. like let the garura talk a bit instead of you talking kaish it's like a bit bit of a loud mouth let the gumra talk so I like what he's asking he asked first of all walking in for fillain should you all stand up I think that's highly intelligent question if we really stand up person do the mitzvah so a guy comes in here that's like a serious thing very serious thing I don't I don't take don't take these things light don't even be like it's funny it's not a weird question a very strong question very if you stand up for bikurim for mitz mitzvah any mitzvah asked that if you stand up for so he said anybody comes we should stand up I thought it was an intelligent question I don't know it's not necessarily do we not pass and I told them that said that we stand up they're about to do this mitzvah so and this is The what would you say >> and are both mitzvah that are that are very infrequent >> very >> that's cool >> maybe that's the bish even like a mitzvah oh my goodness this is the time so a daily mitzvah you don't stand up >> you don't see people standing for mitzvah also like that's a good call you don't see everybody st every guy a guy's doing you know a guy gets a call from his dad we all should a guy in middle of this here goes to the hallway. My mom's on the phone so we should all get up. He's so Raas is saying a mitzvah means infrequent to give cover to the mitzvah but has to be infrequent infrequent. Maybe that's even like the [clears throat] bish in its time means when there's like a unique time. Whoa. This is the moment of the mitzvah and because you could put on fill in the whole day. It's not like a mitzvah of not the hadash of what time of is there like a ship maybe that's a nice terret and you say smartly that you don't see every time the guy you're talking to a friend my mom called you should stand up for him you're both sitting he walks out he's doing a mitzvah stand up >> so that's I like that ter >> any that walks in the room is there like >> so that's the two times not all day each time but there is time like >> yeah that's we should study these there's real to this standing up to study these nice to see you welcome welcome guys welcome welcome [applause] first name Yetsi >> Yity I'm so happy you're welcome yet >> is from Baltimore and I'm thankful he's in Ysi Vinyamov right >> did I say the last name right >> yeah [applause] Welcome. So, but I I want So, now I want to get Ari to the second terret because there's there's something I want to share with the Kevra thought. I'm really interested if you like my thought. The cash I have a strong casher that I had last year. The cash is old. I have a terrace that like I thought of over this past year, but I want to share it. You first. Let me ask the question. Everybody got the fact a middle of working you do not stand up for and you do stand up for and that is a very thing is a mitzvah. This guy is that should be bigger. So one terret the gumar is you misestimated a mitzvah is bigger than a but the gumar is a second ter is a mistake in the first ter. >> Yes. Yeah. in in the in in the first a mitzvah is bigger than a says the Gar no maybe really is bigger than a mitzvah. So why do you stand up for the guy? You know why you stand up for bikurim? They won't bring bikurim next time. Explains Rashi explains Rashi. They're not they're going to say this is so embarrassing. The the people are bringing little fruits to you. And if everybody doesn't stand, it's going to lead to a problem. The people are going to be like shamed. Oh, it's like we're coming to bring some fruits. So, we give them respect. We stand up. Really's bigger. >> Uhhuh. >> But it's a big problem not to give them respect. They're going to feel like small. So, give them cover. >> That's [clears throat] what the second you hear. That's the terrorist. Ask Stan Kish and this cash. You don't have to me it's a bomb casher. This there's my nobody that's a bomb cash. It's it bothers me. Bomb cash is a stupid language. I promise you this question bo It bothers me. It troubles me that what does it mean give cover give respect. Do you respect them and you're tricking? Let's say they learn this. The farmer's like I know you're tricked. Just all knock it off and leave me alone. It's a bunch of babies like really then we don't stop guys in the middle of and you're if you're working and comes in you don't stop to stand up. So why are you standing up for the people? Because it's dangerous not to >> the next time they won't come. >> There still is a >> so fake it. >> It's not a So basically you're not me. shouldn't be doing this. But listen, we whisper to each other. When he walks in, everybody covered means respect. Covet is a real thing. Respect. How do what's what's the energy? What does this look like? What does it mean? How do you rally the people when they come? I know they're like, we really shouldn't be doing this. Listen, you know, they might not bring bikurum again. What's the energy that covers? Not really. You're not mad. Really? You're not. What's happening here? The next time they won't, it bothers me. True. Any any waterberry guy learns this if guys learns his he's bothered by he's he's a rebu. He'd be bothered by this because they're going to be shamed. So, let's all stand up. What's the energy of that meeting? So, we all we're a bunch of trick. Let's say the guy learned this and he just says, "I know you're just trying to make me feel good. Come on. because you be so we have to what's happening here what's happening here what's going on what's this energy of this really we wouldn't be so if they really be big we wouldn't stand up that we' never and Rashi says by the way Rashi speaks it out Rashi says if you read the Rashi if they were recognized as and They Isaac in the mitzvah, you wouldn't stand up. But they're not recognizable here. Nobody knows them. They don't have such a reputation. So to them like, you know, make them feel good. >> What is that? >> If they would be asuim here. So it's here. This whole mitzvah is set up for an outsider. They're not from this city. It's a farmer from another city. So they come as like, who are you? to give a cover cuz Rashi is saying for a regular mitzvah you wouldn't stand up for a mitzvah from a guy who's nick or you don't stand up >> and that's like oh >> these guys are yeah these guys have been out of the city and it's a total fake so what's going on what's the energy yeah so what's the energy of this as it's like such a shame you don't want to learn a gimar and be worse so off for it it's like a shame so now we're in on the secret hat when we all stood up for that guy like if he really like it's just nab like get him to come now I don't want to sell I don't want to sell the cash I'm not I don't want to be a salesman so I'm going say no no we have to like really show them it's very important >> yeah mock I can't even say it with a straight face what does it mean I'm I'm trying to learn I'm really bothered by this >> what does this mean like show so a guy comes here picture the speech before he walks into the door's going to walk >> [laughter] >> Wow. [laughter] >> You're such a nice boy. >> What's the What's the energy? >> I'm not really sure [laughter] was like >> you like the cash you like. >> Cash is there's a that says that in he wouldn't stand up but he's not going to come next time. That's what it says. He won't come next time. >> So, what's the reality of it? Yeah. What's happening? What's >> at first? Like when I first heard it, I thought we were standing up for the mitzvah. Like, yeah, that mitzvah is kash. It's not like for them for their shame. It's like, yeah, that mitzvah is like you think it's not. No, that m is enough to stand up. >> It's not that like for you that like, oh, I'm embarrassed. No, that is >> so. >> So, what's the energy of that? Cuz they're not they're not used to what what are you saying? What's the what's what are you saying here? Like, if they know just cuz you're now when I become an insider, you won't. Let's say I know your behaviors. I saw you didn't stand up for him. What are you saying? What are you >> pretty sure did not appreciate? >> I think he did. >> Oh, he's handling this. Did he's handling the leg? [laughter] >> I don't think they'll appreciate that. as he what do you hold of this cash >> the cash bothers you it doesn't have to bother you a cash holding of a cash just means it bothers me or doesn't when you read this we do it to make sure they come next time we give them cover as I give them so you're not then if you hold no nice to see you Joshua nice to see you good to see you David Sim no strike one zite is here. Welcome, Zman. Welcome, Zman. >> I haven't seen Zelman in six months. [applause] When did you come last year, Zman? >> Um, I came around I think it was May. >> Wow. It's been a long time. Okay. >> Welcome home. Welcome home. Excellent. Excellent. You got your room. You got everything. >> What about David? >> I said hello to David, but David, I saw David's been here already, >> but we didn't. David Grey Jawer is from Florida. >> Oh, I know. Oh, I know you >> David and Zalman, two friends of Joshua, friends of us. Thank you, Josh. >> Thank you. All from Boa. >> And they brought Eton, who's also from Bokeh, the Bokea. Do you David, you, Zman, Josh, and Etan live near each other? >> Neighbors. >> Oh, your neighbors. You and Josh and we we have parties on the block all the time. Zman, how far away from Josh do you live? >> Five minute walk. >> Oh, so you'll be part. We have wild parties on the way. >> Maybe this year. [laughter] >> Yeah. >> Josh, you're inviting the whole this year. >> Thank you. I think it's on and off every >> I have to leave to the There there's a thought ar I want to share with the that I'm like wondering is is there room for this following thought there's a basic covered you know there's there's every single one of the questions we're asked after 120 is you treat your friend like a king there is a den to every single now that doesn't exclude that there's an Indian specifically to be there's some of there's a every single is the one of the first questions we're asked after 120 did you treat your friend as a melo there's a basic to be at every single now there's an extra level to you don't stand up for aid but there's a to every now has a basic he's doing a mitzvah serious it could be certain times where there's an exclusion the extra cover you give to a you're in the middle of working but you're not allowed to express that coven means there's a real cover that exists but he's working hold back what you feel the came in it's like whoa we should be getting up we're except our middle work and geneva the basic cover for a year during a mitzvah you don't hold back there certain times there'll be a tour from expressing the cover you have a certain layer of coverage is is the is the of that but the cover that you have for aid. This is what real and Yehud was saying this. You're not showing you're doing >> now because I'm learning I because I'm working for somebody I would have to stifle the covet I have the the you you'll cause him not to come is not why you're giving cover. You're giving because he's doing a mitzvah. The is we're people don't a guy walks in there to put on films like whoa except I'm middle of learning maybe I won't get up I'm in the middle of working for somebody else I won't get up >> you're stifling a certain and which is you could stifle that you don't stand up for the when you're working your him your oh my gosh now keep working note to selfstif you feel a covet Just don't stand up. You're middle work in geneva. What you're feeling, what you want to express, you can't. The guy who came for a mitzvah, you're not let stifle that cover. A yid in the middle of a mitzvah deserves cover. The energy to the meeting is not say it's going to get him not to come. The energy is that covet to ever stifle. So you're doing a mitzvah. >> That's what it means to stifle that cover. You'll cause bad things. That covet you're never allowed to stifle. Aid's doing a mitzvah. You're not allowed to stifle. That's like an elementary covet. You can never stifle. Av you could stifle the cover. The energy of the conversation is not let's be of the energy is doing a mitzvah. We're middle of working. So maybe we should stifle it. Don't stifle it. The cover is the cover of a y doing a mitzvah that that exists. That's real. This Y's in the middle of a mitzvah. Hello. Alo is the middle of a mitzvah. That basic level you don't ever. Now there are times on that there'll be a we have to hold in what we're feeling >> on this one. Never hold in. There'll be time there'll be time even the of every there'll be time to say that is cover. Not right now. Right now don't do that extra cover. I'm the basic cover of aid. The basic cover. So the conversation before they come is he in the middle of a mitzvah you know he's coming from you know he's come we're not like showing we're not shallow people like let's show him something he in the middle of a mitzvah everybody get up are you crazy now the say it's true stifle it right now we're working we can't steal so even though we're all experiencing something and there's a cover that's owed to him we're actually taught that something trumps that covet even though the covet's there. So the energy you stood up is don't stifle the covet of a regular yid. There'll be time on the extra covet you'll have to stifle the coven [snorts] on a regular yid. You don't stifle the cover of a mitzvah that mitzvah you should never stifle that that coven. So the energy is not a trick. You're standing up to get the energy. This is what Yehuda and both said. You're not standing up to get him to come a You're standing up because he's involved in a mitzvah and a mitzvah is a maxim tremendous. They're not to lose money. These are so you're working for somebody else. Your but the covet is there. The of the seriousness, the heaviness, the weightiness of a mitzvah is very very real. Even when you're not standing up, it's the question only are you expressing that which is there. The comes and I don't stand up. So you don't have the cover inside your body. Don't express that. Don't say the expression of it. The cover we have on the regular yid to stifle it would be bad things would happen. Kazal said don't stifle what you're feeling. Let it out. Just stand up. Ras is that that's I think but but I think it's >> also >> Rashid just says by a guy doing a mitzvah who's from the city so wouldn't be mashim so stifle the cover of the the fact that he's doing a mitzvah here he's from out of town and it's going to have bad repercussions don't stifle the cover that exists of a you're doing a mitzvah so you're not In nutshell, you're giving cover like wink wink wink. You're doing a mitzvah now. Normal. What? >> Right. Because you'll stifle it because you'll stifle the mitzvah. You're supposed to stifle. There is there's the respect of a mitzvah here. I'm not stifling this. It's there is a mitzvah but working for somebody else would trump the of mitzvah the geneva of working because here it will cause them not to come. So the the covet of the mitzvah is not trumped by the fact that you're working because it will have bad repercussions. So go back to the co you're doing mitzvah there's bigger it's too dangerous to not be right I want before you leave there's a song's been singing that I want him to sing for the I want David to hear this David gra I want you to hear this song lights fresh to yes did you hear sing yet wants her heartman The main thing Hashem wants is our heart. He wants us to be passionate, to be connected to something. I don't want to be a body without a soul. I want to I want to function [music] as somebody connected to my Yehud. You heard this song yet? >> Back at it. >> Oh my gosh. You should hear. Did you meet Zman light yet? >> Zman, this is Yehuda. Raise your hand. Yehuda. [applause] to say happy years. You were classmates in >> elementary and high school. Joshua, >> just which school Joshua got offensive >> does sound like I want to hear this. Want to make sure I'm not >> What's the name of the place to powers? >> Yeah, >> I'm leaving now. It's going to go [music] bad. >> [music] >> Thank you. [singing] [music] Raana [singing] [music] [music and singing] [singing] Oh [singing] yeah. Ra. [music] [singing] [music] [singing] The eyes get shana. [singing] [music] [singing] [music] [singing] [music] [singing] Ra. [music] [singing] [music] [singing] [music] [music and singing] might go [singing] the shish. [singing] [music] [singing] Amazing. [music] [applause] >> Josh, you've heard this song already? >> Gorgeous. [music] >> New Isouch. It didn't come out yet. >> You've heard it before the last couple days. Beautiful song. [music] I don't know what I did. >> Ellie wanted to know the song. >> You want I did Sounded like something else. >> That's funny. Not a bad idea. [music] >> You know this song? [music] >> No. Yeah, I know. I saw that. >> Still heard it. >> I don't even know if I remember the live. They have like a bunch of recordings. I want to I want to I want to say to the done with this done I want to I want to share something David I want to tell you something I don't mean I'm I'm not going to I'm not saying this from a tough place. I'm saying from a place like means something to me. There are people that say I'm not so good with names really. There are people like say like I'm not like I don't remember I don't have such I don't look at being good with names like how good your memory is. It's not a test of memories. People like excuse themselves. Oh, I'm sorry. I'm not so good with names. What's your name again? Now, I want to say is it takes a long time to learn all the guys' names for each other. That's very real. Takes a while. You're allowed to ask a guy a few weeks in, "What's your name?" Again, we're all human. I do want to say that I care about your name. And your name matters a lot. I would I don't want to say this. I would if a rebby called a guy by his last name and that was his type, he would never get hired here. Never. Never. Never. Never. And I think it's disgraceful to call somebody by their last name. They deserve a name. So, what's your name again? Now, I'm not making it awkward to ask people their names here. I am saying that it's if you don't, guys, I'm just not into Oh, you don't value people so much. I feel bad saying it's so tough. I think you don't people don't count. When we value people, you don't know the guy's name. You don't know his name. I I feel bad. We're all human. And sometimes it could be. He just wasn't. He only was casually in my life. We're human. I don't say we're geniuses. We meet somebody once. If he was of enough, you'd remember we're human. And I admit that it happens. You meet somebody once. Should it be? Could it be if we were on I suspect like somebody like the lobba, by the way, reportedly. Now, you could say this. What a genius he was. Reportedly, if he met you once, he knew your name the rest of your life. Reportedly. I can't say it as a fact. I don't know. Ask aid. reportedly he met you once the rest of your life he knew your name. I believe there could be somebody who's so moved by Nishamus that you don't forget his name like wow >> for the I believe there could be such a thing reportedly on the labb was that way did anybody ever hear that about the rebba >> I heard about it >> I heard it on the rebba that if he met you once for the rest of the history knew your name >> that's like a sense of I'm not >> it's true you've heard this in >> bezi by Russ. You ever heard that about the ra heard that? >> But I don't I don't want to accept I'm not trying to shame people. >> Is there going to be a >> I don't I but I maybe but I I'm not saying it ar to shame people cuz we're he's obviously not. We're human. We're human. [music] I want to say that it's worthy of learning a person's name. Like we're learning sis of respect to people. A person's like significant. We met a big godam god. You remember his name? It's like whoa. I'm not trying to make shame. I'm expressing that people are worthy of knowing their names. It's a big deal. A guy's worthy of know. So I'm not trying to shame anybody. I think it's weird a few months in not to know all the names. Him. Him him. I don't think you're right. I happen to like in Yeshua the last night sometimes a guy speaks. I've seen this and guys in yeshiva are like sh and I didn't have shias to that guy. I love that response as I have seen this long as the last night a guy speaks and you see like 50 you could watch people think like a shucks that's a guy I should have connected to you're missing out when you don't have sh when you don't know the guy's name I promise you're missing worlds I promise after 120ish when at the end you hear this guy's story you'll be like oh gosh the guy who becomes a billionaire the guy Mamish was you're like he was by the way was your classmate. You're like well he became what? Like shucks. I I shouldn't you want to rewrite history? Yeah. You want to go back? Oh, we were good friends. No, we weren't. I want to express that a person's a big deal. You might not see it. And we're human. And I'm not trying to shame us. I am trying to express that it's to learn somebody's name, but I don't ex I don't accept just I'm bad with names. That's like a narrative. People I'm just bad with you're not bad with names. cuz you don't value people and you're a le or not. >> You're can't help it. The guy doesn't see why he's valuable. I don't I don't There could be an honesty to that. I don't see that people are so valuable. Okay. Okay. I hear I'm just expressing that it's worthy of knowing people's names. That it really is worthy of knowing people's names. That people are very valuable. I think if we learned this like if we learned how valuable people are, we would know their name. Getting the name could also help us. A person is a name. I promise he's a name. He's somebody worthy of knowing. I just don't accept the narrative. Now, somebody can catch me. Kos, you forgot his name. You don't value him enough. You're probably right. Now, guys, should that's just my stupidity. I don't accept Josh. Like, I'm not good with names. Now, that just means that you mean you don't really value people. What is Who is that guy? Right. I hear I hear what you're saying. Right. I'm really here and it's not like it's not a it's not a shameful. We're just trying. But there's a sa people are really have people have a lot. It's not a pretend. It's not like a cute thing. This place is a bastion of cover. We just learned this morning a we're talking about something. This is the afternoon. But this place is a bastion of covenant. People are worthy of knowing their names. I like that Gabe wrote a song and this Yeshiva, heaven knows my name. My story counts. No, I mean songs of a place come from a place. A place impacts. The whole world took this song. Heaven knows my name. People matter. They have a name. Like really matter. Their story matters. Their situation matters. Don't run over people. I'm asking find out people's name at a basic level cuz I promise he matters. It's a big thing. [music] You meet for a minute Z shalom Z. I'm not it's just the truth. You meet David Gau people. People people Joshua people mean something. I'm not trying to I'm we're all human mish or is just new here. Mish mish just [music] came. It's a big thing. Zevi is new. You'll all hear Zevi. The whole world will know his name. The two Ezis. The two Rebzi and Schla. Are you into that, mayor? When people say I'm not into I'm not good with names. >> It's not It's not a thing. I'm not good with names. >> Yeah. I'm not good names. I don't think people count. I hear I hear just to understand what you're saying. I'm not good with name just means that it's hard for me to value people. Okay. I I'm I don't mean to be harsh like a mean guy, but just like when I'm not good with names, it's not like a good memory. >> If you don't memorize like the if you don't know all the president United States, I don't give a about it. I don't care. It's not it's not relevant to me. >> Don't make don't make it like I'm not good with names. I'm not so I just don't I'm sorry. I'm just not People even said I'm so sorry. I'm not good with names. What's your name? But they really say I I don't really care about you. I'm not tangling on you. I like honesty. I I totally but that's that's just what I'm hearing. I'm not so good with names. It didn't register. I And trust me, I ask people I will ask guys here, remind me your [music] name. >> I really want to learn that. It means I don't know you yet. It means I don't know how great you are. I'm not like I'm not shaming that. >> Telling a guy. It's true. >> Folks, I don't know him yet. It's not It's not a shame to say I really didn't meet you yet. Eat was upsetting me early in our friendship. I didn't know your name. You were right. But it's not because you're right. You're right. When you're upset, you don't remember my name. And it wasn't because you're not the best in the world. And by the way, you can't be pretend. We meet people. We're not in a second. You're the best in the world. But if a guy doesn't know your name, it means something. >> Yeah. Not saying so. It's not like, oh, I'm so sorry. And it's not a timer. as he's walking out. I said, "Thank him." I'll see what's his name. >> He has >> I'm not trying to be ripping and I'm not saying it's it means some and we're all human and we don't every guy we see Oh my gosh. That's why Ari see bedazzled everybody. I don't know him. I don't know him. It's fine. It doesn't speak bad on him. It doesn't speak bad on you. I'm just saying that learn the guy, get to know this. People are worthy of names. They're worthy of seeing. They're worthy of knowing. I see an environment where people know their names is an environment where people count. They matter. Revei and I spoke about Camp Monk. Revei was in a camp. People had a big space because there was somebody who valued everybody there. He like knew their history, their story. I do a lot of trivia in Yeshiva. I'll be honest. I actually like our guys. I I like it's like fun for me. This guy's from Houston because people's stories matter. So I like sharing. It's not a trick like this way. If we do trivia, people value guys. I actually like the guys. So I'm just going to let out my life and I play trivia. They're from Boka whose cousin's brother was from Bokeh. To me, these things matter. Reank and Campa and Camp Monk would say over guys history. guys would have stories about the guys because he really cared about them. There's a big ladal for anybody who's a Met fan. The Mets have an announcer, a Jew, who was the announcer since season 1, since 1962. He doesn't just know his name's Howie Rose. He's here. He doesn't just know the Mets history, he actually makes the history. He actually he doesn't just know the history. He makes the history because it's valuable to every player ever played like three games. He's like, "Remember Butch Husky? He played dy just died a former med. The reason anybody knows is cuz Harry Rose cares about it. It matters to him and he gives it things work like that. I want to express that theor of it's we do is Hashem cares about all our activities. That's just the truth. Hashem cares about we actually are significant. The main thing I would say about Den that hits me I'm not afraid. Hashem likes me. Not afraid. It's not it's not oh my gosh our activities are significant. That's the main thing that hits me. We're significant. It's like pretty wild. There's like somebody who like tracks us, like cares about us. We're very significant. People are significant. Please don't say if you forget names that don't shame to ask a guy name. It's not embarrassing to say I don't know you yet. Not embarrassing know you. >> Well, I want to know you. Please tell me your name. I might ask you three more times, but I really want to know you. >> I don't want to know. >> What? >> What happens if I don't? >> You're mistaken. You're mistaken. Then you're underestimating then you're underestimating what a Y is a Y's is a big thing. I like in yeshiva Josh there are moments in yeshiva that people we overlook. I promised the last night this happened. A guy you a lot of people overlook spoke and the whole place like jaw drops and it's like shoot we we missed a guy who's like huge. There's a guy whose was last night yeshiva an alltime great yeshiva giddy whisman. We wisman. He's an all-time great and the people that know him are amazed by him. He's a he's quiet. He's very thought out guy. He spoke the last night. I watched people in the crowd. He spoke lowly. I better leave. A lot of people in the crowd were like shoot that I didn't like get to know him like oh my gosh. I should I like that's a truth. It's a truth. So I'm asking the inquire somebody's name. It's not it's not bad that you didn't know his name. You had no reason. You didn't know him. But inquire, learn names. Don't settle for this statement like I'm not good with names. People count. You could say you don't seek Shivas to people. I hear >> what number he knew. He knew but he said I can't remember. There's no there's no meaning but the number I don't know. He didn't he couldn't remember any. >> I like that. >> That makes sense. It didn't matter. >> I'm happy to show >> what about like after 10 times I keep asking the guy name just embarrassing. I'm basically telling you I don't care about you. >> I don't Why are you asking him again? No, but I don't ask you to tell. I'm ask cuz I do care. I want to get to know you. Trust me, that first significant thing that blows you away. The guy dominates in the game all of a sudden you never forget his name. So it means I didn't see yet. That's not embarrassing. 10 times takes time to know each other, to see things. I'm not pretending. We're not bad cuz I didn't see anything that blew me away. I'm refreshing. >> I better get basically saying Kayla, you need to be on time. And he's absolutely right. Okay. Thank you. We're going to dab now. Thank you. Say thank you. Thank you.