Tu n'es jamais perdant - Vayimaen (וימאן) - You'll Never Lose Out (FOMO) {French Subtitles}

[Music] why do we have such a hard time guarding our eyes what are we afraid of it's like fomo we're afraid to miss out on the enjoyment we're just concerned maybe we'll lose the opportunity let's have the following perspective we're familiar the gar tells us a well-known account about someone who is careful in the Mitzvah ofus however he heard about a certain Z he made up to meet her at a certain place place at a certain time he came at the time he was allow entrance the gar tells us how he climbed up chevo seven beds but upon his Ascent he was hid in the face with his tius and he then went to sit on the floor he realized that his four tius would serve as four aim four Witnesses who would testify against him and she asked him did you see an imperfection in me tell me what was wrong with me and he said actually you're the most beautiful person I ever saw she said what happened he told her the story she said tell me what B medish do you learning who's your rebi he gave her all the details she wanted to convert so she gave a third of her money to the Roman officials a third of her money she gave to the poor a third of her money she took with her she went to the Bas Med of she said I would like to convert R said you can't convert maybe you're converting just to marry someone she told Ria the story how she was was inspired by this person's self-control R said in that case go marry him says the gamar there's only one item she didn't give away she didn't give away the linen that was going to be used for that AA what do we learn from this gamara the writes in the Evan schma any pleasure that somebody thought that they would have in an illicit way Hashem will make sure that you'll have that very pleasure in a permitted way you never lose out in life the stier writes that sometimes it's very hard for us to overcome sin cuz we're afraid we're losing out says the stier you never lose out in no short time Hashem will make sure that you get that very pleasure in a way that is M now not only is this comforting but this is empowering because we could tell ourselves there's no reason to have fomo there is a guarantee that that very sensation Hashem will make sure that he makes it up to us so next time we're faced with a Temptation let's tell ourselves we have nothing to gain