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Sefer Ahavas Yisroel - Hatred Is Part of the Human Condition So How Can You Love Jews? {Day 1}

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Okay, good morning everyone. Welcome to the inaugural shar on safar aas. This year this series is dedicated by the Harris family of Cleveland Nishmas Ravish Hower Ramos Ben Harammen who embodied and personified the ideals of Israel and loving uh the Jewish people. Okay. So similar to Yeshua, I can't really find information about when wrote this and what the conditions were, how he wrote it, but let's begin. Let's learn the safer and we'll see what information comes up uh as we learn the safer. Okay, so it's really a contress. It's not a separate safer. Uh maybe you'll remember when we visited the and it listed all the he wrote this safer was also absent from the list. Okay. So it's more of a compendium. It's more of a in this chapter we will explain the great sin of baseless hatred. Do not hate your brother in your heart. That's a puk in parasim. Do not hate your brother in your heart. Well, what does that mean? Does that mean I can't hate him in my heart, but I could tell him I don't like him? Pretty much. Pretty much. Viselum. This is the language of the reinam. Maybe tomorrow we'll we'll uh learn about who wrote this mitzvah that is quoting. It seems to be an abbreviated addition of the 613 mitzvah. We'll talk about it maybe tomorrow. Say for me, you should not hate in your heart a kosher Jew. So, I know what you're thinking. Good. I'm I'm glad that he added it has to be a kosher Jew. Well, we'll have to see what a kosher Jew is. But you should you're not allowed to hate a kosher Jew in your heart. Do not hate your brother in your heart. Thera is only warning in this animosity in one's heart. Someone who hits his friend and he shames him does not violate this love. You're violating other love. In other words, if you're physically abusive to somebody or verbally abusive, you're not again, we're not we're not downplaying that and we're not trying to minimize the severity of that. We're just trying to identify what is the love of don't hate your brother in your heart. The love is an internal animosity. Now, if you remember in when we learned The said if through your animosity that you have you're going to that brings you to speak lash then actually the lash that you speak that itself is a violation of which doesn't seem to jive with what he's saying here because here he says that if somebody hits their friend or shames their friend you're not over this Okay. So we'll have to define what exactly are are the the parameters of if one person sins against the other men who believe you should not hate them in your heart and be silent. It's a mitzvah to tell them to say to them why did you do this? Now, not only is it recommended, it's a mitzvah. It's a mitzvah to ask the person, "Why did you do this to me? Why did you insult me? Why did you say it this way? Why did you why didn't you invite me?" And then and then forget about it. It applies in all places and in all times. meaning it applies in it applies um even in nowadays. This is the language of the so a few things we need to clarify here. The seems to be quoting the safer mitzvah that the Torah only prohibits internal animosity but physical or verbal hatred is not included in this lab. So the first thing is that seems to fly in the face of what wrote in that if your lash comes as a result of that is a violation of he says that both by the of and if you remember he says that in the opening page of the to where the garra says that the Bikdash was destroyed because of the says no it doesn't mean it means because it can't be that the B mikdash would have been destroyed because of it means that emerges from the sah which seemed to indicate that one would violate by speaking lash it's just says that it's worse than that it's also okay we'll have to clarify that Now what is the definition of your brother? Who is your brother? Your brother is any Jew. Don't say I love this kind of Jew. I love Jews from Ru but I don't like Jews from Shim. I love rabbis but I hate unlearned Jews. You have to love all of them. Now that nowhere does it say that this is easy. It doesn't say it's easy to love Jews. No, it doesn't say anywhere. It doesn't say by the mitzvah of loving Jews. No. No. It says it by chuva. So that implies that this is not this one is not easy otherwise it would have said it's easy. So don't be alarmed. Don't say how am I supposed to do this is very hard. Okay. Sometimes you have to go out of your comfort zone. Now you should hate. Likewise, David said, "Those who hate you, God, I hate." What is a min is called someone who denies the of Hashem and God's providence. Okay, we're we're let's discuss one point here. The is quoting from is saying don't say that you'll be selective in which Jews you love. You need to love all of them. But he says but hate the minim asked to add that point but hate the minim. This is supposed to be a very positive upbeat loving message. Who asked to add in the end but hate the minim? How does that contribute to the mitzvah of Israel? Okay, so I want to just advance um an important idea and I actually think it's true that this is not just a relevant uh tidbit but hate but it is necessary in order to fulfill the mitzvah of Israel. Let me explain. There's a time to love and there's a time to hate. By the way, doesn't mean there's a time for snow to fall. Okay? Let's say you say as an O. It doesn't mean there's a time for snow to fall. There's a time to love and a time to hate. That means hate is part of the human condition. Hate is part of the human condition. And therefore if there is never a time to hate then you will not be able to fulfill the time to love. Or an example of that is what says those who love God hate evil. So I happen to see over yumptiff a um passage from the writings of and he says as follows every Jew has streams of hatred. If you're able to expend this hatred on, you will have no more hatred to others and then you are vouched not to violate the prohibition of but contrary. Conversely, if you use your strands of hatred for others, you will be lacking in your hatred for instead of hating, you'll hate Jews. So, he's saying this principle that every human being has strands of hatred in them. And perhap and the reason why the Torah commands us to hate Amalik is to facilitate love for the Jewish people. And I would apply that to what is saying as well that when it comes to minim when it comes to those who uh deny the Tory and Hashem's you should hate them. You should hate them. Now, I'm not getting into does that apply to people who don't have an education. I'm not talking about that now. That's a different subject. But let's say somebody will who had the benefit of knowing what Tory is and knowing what hasha is and they chose the wrong path. Let's say they're a fullfledged accredited um min. So then the is saying that you should hate them and by hating them you'll be able to love. So the mitzvah of Israel is reserved for that and that's the majority of the Jewish people or should be the majority of the Jewish people and the the add-on is to facilitate uh being able to say you know what I don't only love my I love shine I love I love okay so what do I do with the that you need to reserve for the minim. Okay, that's uh our opening lim of have a good day everyone. >> Recording stopped.