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garas before you start again
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thank you sure okay so the says like
thisa by the way um if you want to let's
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you're on okay so says like
this Rapa was going up a
ladder we should all go up ladders
that's life life you're climbing a
ladder but Rapa was literally going up a
ladder
is the leg gave way it's
slipped his leg
slipped his foot
slipped he was primed to
fall he was about to fall off a ladder
now for a papa falls off a
ladder it's probably a little bit more
dangerous than if a regular person fell
off a ladder rap Papa we find in many
places in ch was a balasar he was a
heavy
individual he said as he's sort of
slipping
now that this has happened then the one
that hates us is it's euphemism for
himself like a Sabbath desecrator and
like a idolator
idolator in other words papa is saying
basically it looks like he's suffering
the fate of a ofil he's falling off a
ladder we know part of skila is they
would throw someone off a building
said Papa no you're not suffering the
Fate necessarily of
aab and you may not be suffering the
fate of
an maybe an came to to you and you
didn't support him maybe the reason why
you're falling off a ladder and your
foot is giving away and the ladder is
breaking maybe the reason why the ladder
is breaking is because you did not
support an H now we're in the
world dream
up that if somebody doesn't support an h
a ladder gives way and the foot slips
where where does this come from you know
you can't just uh tell somebody who's
suffering well maybe it's because this
maybe it's because that I mean it seems
a little
farfetched of all the in the
all where did he he get that maybe you
had the opportunity to support an on and
you didn't so there's a famous gr one of
my favorites there's
a so I got an email somebody said you
know RAB when you Lan it's very
distracting why are you laning in middle
of the
she so first of all what do you mean I
can't have a good time also I'm not
allow to have a good time what's you
know it's great it's great okay so there
so again I don't know what people think
thinks it's good the other guy doesn't
think it's good you know so it's 50
against but anyway the the trp is very
important sometimes and here's the key
what it's more than 50% more than okay
yob also goes for it
fine okay you know the gamar Milla says
that
uh you have to learn with a niggan in
fact not only does have a but mishna
also has a nigan they say that reel used
to learn mishna according to the ancient
mishna in fact there's
a who who says that when the
says that when the when thear says it's
missing words and this is what it means
to say what do you mean it's missing
words that the mishna had to fit like a
trop a certain tune and sometimes you
know to fit the tune they would have to
word it a certain way
anyway so on these
words the TR
is says
the the wants to know
where come off telling Pap maybe an on
came to him and he didn't support him so
it says the gr it's brought the
that the
TR
is to be that anyone who hides their eye
from s the stairs break under them D the
step severe
breaks wow D severe the steer Breaks by
the way I'm going to add something to
this because there's another instance
there are many instances of Dar s but we
have a an amazing that was discovered
okay by the way in the of the a student
of the of
course the
um the quotes his rebi the he
says
from that where did he get that because
of a failure to give sadaka the stairway
breaks in and uh it comes from the Trum
of
fine so what's amazing is that rapapa
was not the only
person who encountered such a situation
where the stair fell in where the ladder
broke but we H we find something similar
by one of the
greatest uh individuals who ever lived
by none other than d thear tells
us God teach me my
end tell me how many days I
have teach me my
mortality mean wanted to know when is he
going to
die King David said before God
God tell me my
end God says you know that's against
protocol we don't give out that
information that's uh you know exclusive
in so um
so
says let me know at least what
dayas you're going to die on
chabas he said let me die
Sunday you can die on uh Sunday because
it's ready time for Solomon to take over
so he said em
wanted to die on Friday God said
no one day of your service in your T is
more valuable than all the thousands of
that bring you got to die shabas can't
do it on Sunday it's ready time for SCH
Friday I don't want L that a of
your so what
happened every shabas he sat and he
learned K the whole
day he did not read the Mish he did not
read Ami he did not read and we don't
have to go through all the papers that
we usually go through didn't read any of
them he learned the whole day on
shabas now and if a person's learning
the Mal can't get them
on the day he supposed to
die tried to get him couldn't get him
they'll have a didn't stop
learning what should I
do there was an orchard
the he went he started rattling the
trees out to see
he went up a
ladder the step gave way me from
underneath him and D fell and D passed
away now I once saw in the saer of
pedman
theas what is a significance that the
malas went rattling in the
trees idea is like this that why does
man have to die because of the sin of
Adar of course was the Gil
ofar stands foram and Mah so why did
David die because of the
tree he was rustling in the tree in
other words he was drumming up the sin
of theas but what do we find over here
we see
that died
why if
the step gave way it caved in if the
step caved in now that's not a common
way to
go and
therefore it would seem that we're
entitled to question and ask what is the
significance of the fact that passed
away similar to what the Fate OFA was
going to be if now here's an important
rule we are not allowed and entitled to
attribute any deficiencies to
our we are not entitled to attribute any
deficiencies we cannot
criticize we cannot criticize tan we
cannot
criticize not only that we cannot
criticize any of
the there's a cha from
the on
the do not touch my anointed ones where
somebody asked the benai about some of
the personal habits of the rashash and
the Ben writes we don't even discuss is
as if as if they were regular people we
don't discuss their behaviors they're
not a topic the way they conduct
themselves in their personal life is not
a topic of conversation we don't discuss
them certainly not attribute any fault
to them so to say
that passed
away because of a failure to do to give
s we would not be entitled to do that
but I once heard a Shear from a great R
Rabbi Isaac Bernstein of England
originally from
Ireland um and he sort of uh drew the
audience's attention to this Kamar and
chabas in light of the GR in light of
the gr who says that R Papa was
suffering the Fate of the D because he
failed to
fulfill and here the gamar is saying
that that's what happened to DAV so even
though we're not entitled to attribute a
lack of giving Saka to DAV but if we
were to find somewhere in kazal where
kazal have already revealed to us this
type
of uh
lacking then it would be most
Illuminating that which the
says so that is exactly what RAB
Bernstein did and maybe at the end we'll
add one or two small
points we know we're all familiar that
was not allowed to build the
B why not wasn't allowed to build
because the
says you spilled a lot of blood you wage
a lot of
Wars you spilled a lot of
blood so we sort of understand that
intuitively to mean the b m is a place
that makes peace in the world it brings
peace between God and the Jewish people
and waged War and he can't build the
temple his hands are full of
blood but upon further analysis this is
quite troubling I mean could a not build
the B mikdash because his hands are full
of blood I mean it's D of Mitzvah you
say okay but a is not killing people
yeah who who was David killing already
he was killing amim he was killing
people who occupied Israel
it'sah you know there's an amazing shw
in can a Israel soldier who
killed the enemy in battle and let's say
an Arab can
they we know that is not allowed to
because can an Israeli soldier who
killed the enemy
who
and no revers brings in one of his
far his hands based on uh the idea that
cannot
however has a absolutely he could his
hands are not soiled in Blood of of his
hands are Sanctified
with and that's the
of and in that in in that vein can we
say that D couldn't build the base of
because his hands are full of blood I
mean he killed the enemy
that's
a let's say somebody kills they can't
they can't build a base on M mean the r
says three mitz upon entry into Israel K
build the B
mikash and gather and build the
Sanhedrin so who kills amik he can't
build the
bikash so we have to investigate this a
little bit
further in the P says
and I in my poverty I prepared for the
house of God this is D
talking
gold H Kikar
Talons 100,000 of
silver
LF a thousand thousand talents
how much is a thousand a thousand a
million no thousand a thousand a million
Talons of
silver the copper and the iron forget
about
it too
much and the wood and the stone I
prepared and added so said I am my
poverty I prepared all the resources for
the B
says I don't understand that's basically
says and I in my poverty prepared
billions and trillions of dollars for
the b mikdash w you know everyone should
be so poor
as how does it make sense that he in his
poverty he prepared for the
bikash so the the says
can an sanctify all these
talents on the day David killed
Goliath the Jewish girls threw to all
the silver in the
gold and then there was famine three
years the Jewish people wanted to do to
give give them his money because David
had tremendous storehouses from
defeating
Goliath and when there's a famine the
Jewish people asked David give us your
money says I don't want to give anything
I dedicated to
the you didn't want to accept upon
yourself to revive all these Souls
I swear not be built through
you so the is
saying Struck it big when he defeated
Goliath and then later on there was a
famine and the Jewish people said no
give us some money and Dav said
no no I'm not uh I don't give out
welfare go go make a
living so here already find fault with
DAV for not adequately
giving but we have to ask why didn't
want to give the
money the answer is the med
says mikash he didn't want to give the
money because he already Sanctified it
for the B of mikdash he couldn't give
the money he Sanctified it
so Sanctified all the money that he got
for beating goli for beating goli
to the B mikdash and he couldn't give
the
Saka okay but that now we have a
contradiction because the med says he
couldn't build a base of because he
didn't give s and yet the says he
couldn't build a base and make this cuz
he had blood on his hands so make up
your mind is it like the medish says
that he didn't give enough Sak he didn't
give away the money that he was m to the
b mikdash or is like the PK says that he
had blood on his
hands so to answer the contradiction
between the and the we have to
see there was a
harp suspended above the bed of David
when
came the north wind
came and
blue and the harp played on its
own he stood up and he involved himself
in
learning learned the whole
night when the morning
came the wise men of Israel came to
David the Jewish people
need livelihood you have a lot of
money so David said
okay I don't know open up a dry cleaning
business sell used cars sell life
insurance what do you want from my life
get a job the Jews need parasa okay what
else is new so let them
work basically they said there's not
enough parasa to keep it in house
they're not enough dirty shirts from yam
to support the dry cleaning business and
not enough Jews who need used cars to
support the used car business and uh
life insurance it's not going to cut it
so D said I don't
know so go ahead and a wage of War you
know War always boost the economy how
the how did the United States of America
get out of the Great Depression World
War I that's it so go wage a war and
you'll boost the economy o says look at
this
gar the came to D and they said David
support give Saka and David said no let
them support themselves they said
there're not enough jobs to go around so
said go fight a war
so why was DAV not to build the is it
because he didn't give or is it because
her hand his hands were sullied in blood
the answer is because he didn't give
Sedaka he encouraged the Jewish people
to wage a war which was not a Mitzvah
and that war which was not a Mitzvah was
on the uh that was innocent blood so to
speak that was on D's hands that because
of that said your hands are full of
blood you cannot build the temple that's
what it
means you spilled a lot of blood it's
not talking about when DAV beat or when
he conquered Israel or
wag it's talking about when he didn't
want to give the money that he put away
for the bikash and instead he told the
Jewish people to
wage in the
you spilled a lot of
blood so what he had blood on his hands
what's that guy do with the
temple but says quoting
the
onedin when the
rose entered why did David say I'm not
going to support the the
CL and what did mean CL needsa so what
they want from David David's a head
hunter David's going to find everyone a
job what they want from him but the
answer is David put away a lot of money
to the B mikdash and he said I in my
poverty I prepared a lot of bik money
for the B mikdash and the med asks DAV
apparently was not poor if he uh saved
all that money but when he killed Galas
the Jewish women threw him all the money
and he separated for the bdash and there
was a famine he didn't want to support
them the Jewish the Jewish sages
requested that he give to the anim from
the money in his Treasury and that's why
they
said otherwise say what were the just
saying hey David the Jewish people need
parasa okay very nice what do they want
from him the answer is they wanted him
to open up the
treasuries he refused and what did he
tell them go to war that's what God
meant you wage many discretionary Wars
because of the
David could have avoided it by
supporting the Jewish people this is
what it
means you waged discretionary
Wars you didn't need
it you should have supported them from
the treasuries and you were stingy and
the the an were swooning in hunger until
the war was over and in the interim they
suffer
and therefore you will not Build A
bash
therefore I say in somewhat of a
humorous vein this is what it
means when you will eat bread
in I will place peace in the land
because when doesn't have
parasa then they go out and they wage
Wars oh but when you have have food then
there's peace in the world you ever
noticed that when people are successful
there's peace when they don't have Fe
food they go out to War by the way how
do you say bread in
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Hebrew fighting how do you or matah
striving because it's all about if you
don't have food you go have to boost the
economy and go out to war
this is what it
means if you're not missing anything you
don't need to go to
war but better to give s than build a
bikash s is greater than the
bikash
but
especially to
uphold is even greater than build
building
now what ever happened with that money
interesting thing a little little known
fact
so had a big Storehouse and he put away
the money for the B mikdash was that
money ultimately used for the B mikdash
no it
wasn't the
says so they finish the job
so Sho took the money and he put it in
the
storehouse
say this is what schlomo said there was
famine in the days of my father for
three
years and he should have given the money
to
the and therefore scho said we're going
to keep that money in the storehouse the
next time somebody needs money we're not
using it to build a temple we're going
to use it to
support the money was already it was
going to be used how could you give it
to if let's say people gave money to a
to a sh you're allowed to use that money
to give Saka as long as you pay it back
but once items were purchased with
it then you cannot switch
it so I don't know oi
oi oai uh he borrowed against it in
other words he used other money to build
the B mikdash and that money he used for
the an you could swap the money as long
as nothing is bought with it but I don't
know now let's go back to the fate of
thear chab says that D on his last day
was shabas and he spent the whole day
learning but then Satan made a racket so
David went to the back door he climbed
up the ladder
and the latter gave
way now although we are not entitled to
say that David suffered this fate for
any
reason because we cannot attribute any
deficiency to
nevertheless have already identified in
the that David was criticized for not
giving Sak and that's why he was not to
build bdash so said RAB
berstein that it's quite compelling then
if kazal have found this very minuscule
albeit a deficiency in David's giving up
Saka it's quite Illuminating that in
fact David suffer for the fate of what
would what occurred to Papa
of as the reveals the Trum on the
words
is so if we could humbly add two things
I saw in
the page gimel where it says that a king
should have a saera
he should have it with
him and he should read it all the days
of his
life so he could learn to
fear so he could live
long and he
quotesab that in fact was going to use
this gar to lengthen his days as he knew
he was going to die in chabas and he
spent the whole chabas
learning
says that the Trum on the
words
daro here's the remz the king should
have with him the sa all the days of his
life and he should learn without he to
live long because then the M can't get
him but when the time comes d
s sometimes the step could fall beneath
him and he'll stop learning and then the
Mal Hamas could get him
so this p is also a to who spent his all
all his day learning he
was but the Trum on those words
are and that also what occurred to David
was
daro so I can't I couldn't help but
think the as
follows there is
a in tanak in specifically that talks
about the foot giving
way if I said DAV says if I
thought my foot was going to cave
in the kindness of Hashem would support
me and in light of what we learned I
believe we could interpret the p as
follows the med tells us and the quotes
in
the the matter
says come and see the strength of those
who give charity and perform
kindness that they will take refuge not
in the wings of a cherub and not in the
wings of the Sun and not in the wings of
the Morning Star but in the wings of God
himself anyone who does SED will take
refuge in the wings of himself
how dear how beloved is your kindness
Hashem so asks I don't understand we're
saying that people who do
kindness they will be protected by the
wings of
the the PK is saying how great is your
kindness Hashem that people take refuge
in your shelter how can we learn from
there that great how great are people's
kindness that they take refuge in your
shelter the PK says God how great is
your
kindness says the way you read the is
how great is your kindness hasem but
when is hashem's kindness
aroused hashem's kindness is aroused mid
when people are acting and are going one
to another
May how precious is precious it is when
people are your kindness Hashem when
they
do your kindness hasem is a reference to
people's kindness because people people
only arouse your kindness when they
are how precious it is when people do
kindness and arouse your kindness
likewise we interpret as
follows DAV says when I thought my foot
would cave
in when when does one's foot in if they
are
not but when does hasem support our
feet your
kindness which is aroused and evident
when I do that is what sustains me so to
ensure that we remain
standing with security and with
assurance and
with to ensure that our are not M we
say what gives our feet stability
is when we arouse the through our
kindness that is what supports us and
this is alluded to in merely the Trap
itself it's amazing thing
you
know the uh the gim were familiar not
only with uh the words of tanak but with
the TR as well The Story Goes that rakov
ketki had cracked the secret
of the
trop which means that not only did he
know all the of tanak not only did he
know the TR all the he understood the
meaning of and the significance of a
particular TR in fact he once gave a
Shear that whenever you
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find it means a certain
thing and heard about this principle
that ROV said and he asked but in Danel
there's
a and it doesn't mean
that and rakov wrote back or sent back I
heard this from RAB
that ra very nice you know the TR on but
what about the the changes the TR on
those words to a different Trum So here
you see
that they were familiar with every
nuance and every detail I'll just end
off with one question on last week's
para some food for thought we know that
whenever you have a
p like M you know in Milla it's always M
unless it's at
or there happens to be one exception to
that there
it's in I'll just end off with one
question it
says huh should
be it's not it's
not and there's already
so and this is a question ketki deals
with but we see that every detail of T
is Laden with so much meaning
may give us Insight
May thanks everyone for for listening
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