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okay friends I would like to finish up
per we discussed the statement of
H don't trust yourself until the day you
die but how do we connect the next
statements don't judge your friend until
you get to his place
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don't say something that I tell you
nobody will hear about
it it will eventually be heard you know
that means if you have a secret don't
say n I'll tell Yan and Yano won't tell
anyone pal if you want you could tell
Yano but just know if you tell Yano it
will be posted on a billboard in Time
Square everyone will know that
don't ever say nah I'll just tell him
but nobody else will hear you could tell
him but we're letting you know the
moment you breathe a word everyone will
know and then the mishna
says don't say when I have time I will
learn you may never have time these
sound like a random collection of advice
First Hill says don't trust trust in
yourself until the day you
die then he says don't judge your friend
until you get to his place then he says
don't say something won't be heard it
will be heard don't say when I have time
I will learn you might not have
time so explains like
this last time we learned that RAB
understands don't trust in yourself
until the day you die it's regarding
your level of uh spirituality don't say
I'm already an old man I'm already a big
sadic I've never sinned I'm good to go I
can now so to speak take it easy let my
guard down and uh yahar will never get
me no never trust yourself theara is
lurking in Ambush every single day of
your life he's waiting for the moment
that you let your your guard down the
moment you let your guard down you're
dead meat
the moment you let your guard down
you're
done and says similarly to learn Tyra
from people of who are aium don't say
well I'll just take the good from them
and I won't pick up the bad say no don't
trust yourself you may you may be into
ued
adversely you know we see from this we
see that when it comes
to you need to be concerned for remote
possibilities you know how it is in life
people take out all kinds of insurances
they take out life insurance long Health
long care insurance old age
Insurance uh renters
insurance people take out all kinds of
insurances why
they're afraid of remote possibilities
are they really afraid the answer is
they're not really afraid it's just they
can't take any chances because if
something happens it will be a terrible
loss so even though the chances are
nothing will happen and that's how
insurance companies are billion dollar
Industries
nevertheless a person has to be so
careful because the stakes are so high
but the truth is that when it comes to
the spiritual
world we don't take extra precautions
you know if you had to get up for an
important business meeting and if you
miss this meeting you'll uh lose a lot
of money you'll probably set two
alarms so do you set two alarms when it
comes to
theisha do you say well theisha is
coming I I don't want to miss it it
would be terrible if I miss it so
therefore
for uh I'm going to set a second alarm
no people people don't do that people
don't do that but the truth is when it
comes to we have to take extra
precautions therefore
says this is a similar theme to what
we've learned so so far so
far uh namely don't trust yourself we
said earlier don't trust yourself until
the day you die part of not trusting
yourself is don't be so judgmental of
your friend you look at your friend and
you say oh you know he comes late to
shakas or he doesn't learn so much I
don't understand that what are his
challenges already you know if I were in
his shoes I would definitely do the
right thing n don't be so quick to think
that if you would be in his shoes you
would do the right thing because you
have to be concerned that if you were in
his shoes you wouldn't do the right
thing you have to be worried about the
remote
possibility that maybe you wouldn't do
the right thing be happy you're not in
his shoes this is all part of not
trusting in yourself don't trust
yourself till the day you die and part
of that is don't be so judgmental of
your friend maybe you wouldn't pass the
test that he's not passing
person should not believe in
himself don't be so confidence in
yourself when you see your friend in a
very high
level in other words when you see your
friend means he's very successful he's
very wealthy he's very
popular he's not acting correctly
never
say if I were in his
place I would never do any of his sins
no you don't know what the next day will
bring like you like him will be the fate
of man me May meaning maybe one day you
will also face that
Challenge and maybe when you become well
Todo and popular you won't pass the test
either only when you're in his place and
on his level and you overcome the
challenge
then then you'll have R and permission
to question the way he's acting now the
M says another thing another remote
possibility you need to be concerned
about don't say this matter will never
be heard because it will
say a person needs to be concerned for a
remote
possibility if you have a
secret don't repeat it
even to
someone who you're you're Soul bound
to don't
say don't say that it's impossible that
this will be
heard there's no stranger
here meaning if you have a secret don't
say I'll just tell it to my best friend
because the end will
be everything will be heard
even if you're going to talk to
yourself don't let your own ear hear
it
us don't talk between the
walls the walls have ears this is all
part of the general idea the general
idea is that you have to be concerned
for remote possibilities
the bird of the heavens will carry the
sound and the winged creature will speak
the
word don't
say don't
say when I am free when I
am available never say yeah when I have
time I'll learn you may never have time
and again this is another illustration
of how you have to be concerned for your
remote possibility person might say yeah
I'll start learning when I
retire and what's going to be until then
I'm too busy I'm too busy until then no
no you think you're going to make it to
retirement yeah 80% of people make it to
there you know what if it was the
physical world if you were saying I'll
play golf when I retire then you have a
right to say I won't play golf until I
retire because chances are you'll make
it but this is too important not to have
an insurance policy the same way nobody
says n why should I buy insurance 80% of
people make it to 90 years
old so I should I buy insurance does
anybody act that way people have all
kinds of insurances they have lawn care
insurance Health Care
insurance life insurance even though
you're you're you're creating billion
dollar Industries who they know that the
they're playing the odds and the odds
are you're not going to ever collect it
but the answer is when the stakes are
high you can't rely on the
odds the only real thing in life that
the stakes are high
on is your and therefore don't say when
I have time I'll
learn you don't know what the next day
will
bring and even
tomorrow new things will come to
interfere with your
schedule and you'll have to go and spend
time in those empty
things there is no dir
of eventualities that could occupy your
time
and if you wait till till you have time
you will leave this world
without make your tah study fixed and
established even now so the this whole
mishna is this whole mishna of the
teachings of Hill is
really thematic and the main theme is
when it comes to you need need to be
concerned for remote possibilities
therefore don't trust yourself until you
die you never know don't judge your
friend until you get to his place don't
think you would be any
better don't say that I'll tell him and
nobody will hear about it you got to be
concerned people are going to find out
and never say I'll start learning when I
have time you can't leave such an
important thing and bet on the odds that
you will have time okay have a
wonderful my grand
