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progress okay good morning friends we're
continuing
in we're in
Sim and we're talking about the and the
parameters of someone who is sleeping
with someone
else
regarding talked
about two people who are sleeping
together even of the same gender then
the rule is like
this that if they're facing each
other they need to have tal even if
they're not touching if they're back to
back then if they're not touching it's
okay if they're touching you need to
have
tal SI bz was talking about of somebody
s sleeping with their wife sleeping with
their wife is more lenient there's an
opinion because of
K it may not lead to
her so therefore
you could face
away you could face away from each
other um even if you're touching each
other some say you
need um and that we don't apply the rule
of giml was talking about if you're
sleeping with your children when they're
Katan then according to every
one you don't need have tal even if
you're touching if you're back to
back okay because by a child we
definitely say regarding this inan that
they're like kagam and it won't come to
he
her um as long as you're not touching
their
AA now we're up
to to turn
away back to back
however if the of the male child is
opposite one's
backside you should be careful that your
flesh is not touching
their the proof would be
from that if you're flesh is touching
the AR of your
friend now if they're good
and your back to back you need
have likewise if they're children who
are not but they're not your sons also
you need
have
in other words let's see if it's another
child but the boy is 8 years old so then
hisa is not considered Ana and it would
be M to say sh
obviously societal Norms also have what
to say about this inan
okay for how long is someone considered
a cuton that we say that if you sleep
with them and your back to back you
could say sh and we say but if you
need a child a male child to um 12 a
female child
11 even if they brought two hairs before
it's in the
13th year of a child that's when he's 12
and up and the 12th of a a female if
they bring two years it's without
a they
didn't
we so basically we say like this when
the kid is over 13 it doesn't matter if
they bring two hairs if they're under 12
and 11 respectively then even if they do
bring two hairs it's m if they're in
from 12 to 13 for a male or 11 to 12 for
a girl then it depends if they bring or
not
says when they start the first day of
the 13th year meaning 12 in a
day you don't need 13 years and one day
just 13 complete years and a
moment
the day of birth is
includ let's say kid's born the end of
the day
on when he comes to the beginning of the
night of the 14th year that he was born
when he comes to
night he's 13 years
old the same thing byah by the way this
is whether you
need or as soon as you get to the
beginning of the
13th you do not need like the quotes as
well as in fact in his that he published
he
brings that you do not need because many
say why does
begin because the first the first mitvah
of a 13-year-old child is kishma and if
you're gonna say that you need 24
complete hours so then that's the first
mitzah if he was born in middle of the
day then his first Mitzvah would
be maybe the fact that
uniformally always begins with what they
consider the very first Mitzvah that
means soon as the Night
Comes
number one we Pas that once the kid hits
12 you cannot say sh back to back with
them even if they did not bring two
hers that age you cannot
be
nowadays as we mentioned the societal
Norms would have what to say about
this okay thank you very much for uh
joining we are now up to date next week
on Monday we will uh we will start with
Simon AAL and Friday allowing we might
do Fridays because this way we don't
fall behind PES we'll see okay everyone
have a great shabas
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