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Mishna Berura Daf Hashavua Siman 124 Seif 7-8 The Sin of Speaking By Chazaras HaShatz

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okay good morning everyone welcome back reell on behalf of everyone we should send you and only okay we're continuing in so you should not engage in mundane profane conversation when the is repeating the if you do talk you're a sinner your sin is too great to bear and we yell at you you should teach your children who are young to answer cuz soon as a child answers aain he has a share in the world to come there's a lot of uh discussion about why the of all the a uses the L of God which is of course the L that the T what that um Cen used when he killed his brother he you know what ises talking by Kar sash have to do with Cen killing his brother so perhaps the connection is as follows you know what what exactly happened that Ken killed he it says it says said to he what did he say to him what did he say nothing nothing he didn't say anything nonsense he just it was idle conversation why does the tah tell us that they had an idle conversation dor is saying that sometimes idle conversation you think it's innocuous you think it's innocent what could be harmful look what it caused it caused murder it caused death same thing a person thinks he's talking to his friend by what's he doing already he's a good guy he gives Saka he learns it's innocuous conversation no you know what kind of Devastation you bring to CLA because of your innocuous convers you had the opportunity to answer aain you had the opportunity to be mpal for yourself for cl and you gave it up okay say you can have conversation even if you want to be careful and answer I see that those who are have reverence for the word of God they put the s in front of them B their eyes are there their heart is there they don't look out of the and they're for every single word like we learned earlier that from a helps for kavana um but there are those who do that for as well woe to some people that speak bying I've seen many shs were destroyed because of this you should appoint designated people for this to make sure people don't talk to rep remand people that speak by ding the sh says that um so the question is like this does that mean you should publicly humiliate somebody that talks by ding so the opinion of the is you rebuke the person privately and you speak to them gently the ramb ads that if the guy does not change his ways you embarrass them publicly so um the same thing when it comes to talking by you should try to rebuke them privately nicely otherwise publicly however the sh says there are some instances that there's no way to achieve uh theorum if you don't take a public stance and uh if you're not able to otherwise um then sometimes other measures have to be taken okay the okay I I know of a particular R who would drive his children throughout Long Island and point to all the churches and say you know these used to be shs and uh today they're churches because they used to talk there so when says this is what we're talking there this is what we're talking about what if they talk in the sh you're not to D in there you can't D in in that sha you have to go to a different show very simple if anybody would go to Miller with an issue the first question he would say say is do they talk in your sh so he said I don't talk so Miller would say I didn't ask if you talk I asked if they talk in your sh he said well you know uh you know it's pretty good Rosa just answer the question yes or no are there people are talking or not if the answer is yes you need to D elsewhere anyway uh let's continue here you have to teach kids to stand with fear and very young kids they run around better not to bring them if you want to know who are the people at the kdes club these are the people who their parents brought them to show when they're 5 years old to get lollipops you know if you come to get a lollipop now when you're 30 you don't want a lollipop you want alcohol so there's no inion to bring a kid to sh if they're sitting there sucking on a lollipop actually there is an inion that's called um negative you're training them to come to to eat okay they also bother people a father brings his little kid to has to make sure their clothing are clean so that he's not does not cause trouble um because if anyone is in the of the kid they're not okay that is not as relevant today because uh back in the day there was real problem with the clothing or or shoes of children being soiled do not answer a grab what's you have to pronounce the under the which is also you don't want to hurry to answer before the finishes you know you don't want to jump the gun A lot of people like to jump the gun people don't have any patience don't cut off the that some people swallow or are are missing the anunciation of and they do not articulate it also you can't interrupt the middle of the word don't answer an orphan one and is making that so this is talking about if you don't hear it though you know what it is if you didn't hear it if you don't know so it's like this since you didn't hear it don't answer aain okay now what is this talking about you're in a and made that okay let's see we're going to have a regarding the definition [Music] of because in all these cases it does not imply that you're verifying what you're listening to it should be before the you have to wait until the sh finishes the entire last word some people they start answering when the still in the final syllable and that is prohibited okay so let's try to get clear what is the opinion of the M the says don't answer which that means you're in one and and you don't hear it even though you know what it is since you didn't hear it don't answer on me says the opinion of is only if you want to be then it's an issue [Applause] but if you're not even though it's you're not inherently to hear the actual and certainly if the is just a regular you can answer even though you don't even know what it is this D of the that even though you know the bra since you didn't hear it you don't answer it's talking about that you're but if it's you're not according to you can answer it even though you don't even know what it is theama argues and he aswers any bra if you don't know what braa you're answering but if you know what braa you're answering you just didn't hear it then you could answer I mean so in other words when is where you're the and the makes the and you don't hear it so then don't answer aain but if you're not the you could answer I mean even though you don't even know what it is that's the opinion of and ra is going to say no if you're you can never answer a if you don't know what it is if you know what it is you could answer a as long as you're not in it okay we're going to hold it over here next week is a a different uh schedule I'll we'll post what the schedule will be uh next week right now there's no share on Monday and Tuesday okay okay everyone well