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Okay. The garra in
brings
what the sources
learns it from
says no. It says
29 times. [snorts] The garra never asks
why raasa why barpada doesn't learn it
from the gumachia. Gumar never asked
that question. The Gmorra just asked why
Ra Masna doesn't learn it from the 29
mentions on the zeros.
Fine
this dinner of gamatria
we spoke out the rush. The rash says
it's a tradition that is 30 days
they only leaned it on the gumatria.
Gamatria is not one of thehat.
[snorts]
So it's not really a question. Why
didn't
learn it from the gamatria? I know
you're talking about learn it from the
gamatria.
We we have uh
and I and I'm not using that as
it's not compelling.
The rush learns gamach is not when
okay Rabbi say let's start this topic
with the rama said what the rama yep the
rama wrote a safer
toy
is a perush
on inyan carbonos alaba theoia
of the rama
okay let's start with that
the rama says
And is a Nuzer a good guy or a bad guy?
See, on the good guy, he's a good guy or
a bad guy. Is it good to be a bad? On
the one hand, we call him a kadesh. On
the other hand, we call him a a
um a
says Rama,
being in a state of nazeros is not a
good thing. Not to drink wine. How could
that be a good thing? It's not a good
thing. How you supposed to make kdesh?
How you supposed to drink? How you
supposed to make havdala? Wine in
moderation is good.
However, if a person is in a situation
where his tya is pulling him and
controlling his life, you need to take
control back. So what you do is you take
upon yourself in the zeros for an amount
of time that that amount of time will
ingrain within you the habit of
discipline.
How long does it take for a person by
practicing certain uh activity for that
activity to become second nature? It
takes 30 days. It takes 30 days. says
the
if a person sees that his pulling him in
a particular direction
you need to separate yourself to the
other extreme
with great distance
until they Say,
"Go, go, we say to the
encircle, encircle,
do not approach."
There's no greater than distancing
yourself to the other extreme.
The point is that since you were first
on the extreme of immersion in ta and
then and then by 30 days going to the
other extreme of not going near wine
when the 30 days are over you'll be able
to go back to the middle path.
So is a nuzzer a good guy?
Yes. Is another a nuzzer a bad guy? No.
What do I mean? He is a good guy when
it's over. When it's over. I'll give you
an example. I'm not saying who. There
were once big sadikim
grandparents and they would come in out
of town to visit their grandchildren.
And if you would ask them how was
Yamtiff [snorts]
when they left and they went back home,
Yamtiff was unbelievable.
You get the drift. while they're at the
kids' house, you know, it's not always
so pushed. But once they go home and
they're back in their home, then the
Yumpt was amazing.
What's the analogy? The analogy is while
the guy's in Nazir. [laughter]
While the guy's in Nazir, it's a rotten
state of being, not to drink wine, but
that what what that does is it ingrains
within him the mida of discipline. So
that when he goes back when the nazer
says over he's a while he's a nazer he's
a when the nazir says over he's a
okay you got that this is very important
because we're just starting says
he says why 30 days he says
many people train themselves in 30 days
in In order to be considered a resident
in the city, you need to be in the city
for 30 days. Like we say in Baba Basra,
you're in the city for 30 days, you
start paying the taxes. Or if a baby
lives for 30 days, we say he's a bar.
Why? If he's able to stick around in
this world for 30 days, that means he
has the he's vital enough, he has the
vitality to be a
he obviously has the wherewithal to
endure. Like in shi we say that if you
said the correct feel for 30 days, after
that you could assume you said it
correctly. Doing something for 30 days
means you're by the way what we're
learning now is
what do you think is
>> yeah what do you think is you get your
act together 30 days you show the look
you know this is I'm for real I'm for
real
this is not a this is not a fake this is
who I am like the po can
Therefore, it's 30 days says
you ready for this is going to say
something miraculous. Now
gamatria 30 days says you think it's
like a random gamatria. You know why the
source of nazer sist
because presently
you're a
you're
only a
in the future while you're practicing
the nazir you're it's
only holy when it's over. When it's over
and you and you go back to drinking wine
that's when you're holy. When you're not
drinking wine you're a sinner. When you
are drinking wine, you became holy
because you're able not to drink wine.
Hear that?
So says listen to these words of the
Rama.
Ara
see wonders from the
main in the future.
It was only enjoyable once it's over and
you're not there anymore. [snorts]
What about
while you're a sinner? Because you went
to the opposite extreme.
You're a sinner. Why?
And the Rama is uh discusses your
question at length. What about other
forms of nazerus? But
while you're
look just I want you to pay attention.
Okay. Fine.
So now that we got the philosophy of it,
let's come back to what we said that
gamatria is not one of.
So first this comes from the safer nar.
Um, Ner Aram
I believe was written by
maybe Rabbi Abram Zelic Cone
maybe Rabbi Pesakron's brother even I'm
not sure I think so okay he someone
who's learning in the mir yeshiva
he brings
the rush who says that
is only an
also says
but
fine.
However,
if you look in
something called Safer Hakissus,
and I printed it out, but I don't see it
made it to the sheets.
The Safer Hakissus was written by Rab
Shimshin Mikino.
Yeah, I have it here. It just didn't get
make it to the photo copies. It's in the
he says.
So he's bothered. So why didn't
in one of the asks on the Bishm
why didn't the brightish include
gamatria
he says
gamatriaish doesn't daratria
he doesn't darian
he holds like bara that he learns and
zeros from Nazer and Israel. Therefore
in the brightish he doesn't list
gamatria but would list gamatria. That
means argues on the rush. He holds
gamatria is from the
not like the rush.
He says
why is gamatria not included? He says
maybe doesn't darian gamatria he holds
like bara. So we see that according to
Mikino and Raasna Darian's gumria
and that it's a full-fledged Russia not
like the Russian the Rambam
and they would say the reason why it's
not in the Bishma is because uh
because Gamachri is not one of the
but that's not where says he says
doesn't
Barbada.
So in the safer it asks it could have
brought a toada
from the Bishmada
must be right that we learn it from
Nazar
Nazaris.
Why? Because from the Bishma we see we
don't dash in Gumachia.
Okay. But that's not so many times we
could have brought
from a and we didn't. So this safer says
that he brought this to
us
that the rush learns that even that
according to Raatria
is not a real li it's only and
says no it's a real li
says
even if you hold gumria
is one of the midhat
like raccine
mistabra you only dash in gamatria if
you have a kabala from from kazal from
your raim because otherwise how would
you know when to dash in a gamatria
meaning it's still different than the
ram the rush and others the ram and the
rush hold all there is a kabala
kazal on their own brought up a support
from a gamachria. According to
Shimikino,
there was a cab from Kazal to Dar the
Gamachia of Yah.
Okay, just pointing out there are two
ways of learning this gamarra. The rush
learns that [snorts] gamatria is not a
serious lim.
It's this
is a
no is one of the
but said you still it's not up to any
individual
you need to have a it's like sha that
you need to have a kabala which words
uh shaba and which words gamatria
so Just want to add that probably
according to mik
in order to dash the gumatria there must
be a lot of other factors other than
just the numerical value of the word.
One example the Rama revealed to us
namely part of the is not just the
numerical value of the word yeah it's
the Tory's understanding that presently
the
and the is going on the what will be in
the future in other words it's not just
the numerical value of the word it's
also the meaning of the word meaning you
can only denumerical value if the
meaning of the word also supports what
you're learning out from from the
numerical value of the word. The word ya
is saying that the kadusha is going on a
future state not a present state.
He brings that he the ram and say for
[snorts]
says that a person has no authority to
derive any
concept from a gamatria. It's a
that it was given to Mosha
of what to learn out from like we say.
Okay. So that that's also interesting
how you interpret
the rush and others say it's completely
there is no there's no midra involved in
that in that li other say no the gamachi
is also one of the
okay have a good day everyone
>> I was going to say another
is that We don't blow scheer and kishes
more than 30 times. 30 times because a
person gets used to it,
>> right?
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Similar idea.
>> Excellent.
Okay. Have a good day.
>> You need according to you should
challenge people to do it. I mean,
sorry. You should challenge people to do
it for 30 days. Oh,
>> if you challenge for 30 days, then it'll
stick.
>> Very good. Very good.
>> 30-day challenge.
>> Recording.
>> Well, we're still recording. You got on.
Okay.
>> I'm ready. My daughter.