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Okay,
we're finishing now.
We're going to try to do two days uh
only because uh the next two days are
pretty hectic. I don't know Monday what
the schedule will be. So, let's uh let's
take advantage of the time we have now.
Okay.
Um,
we're up to
if he recognizes based on the context.
Let's say you know that the father of
the girl is tricking the regarding the
money that he promised
regarding the food.
You have to consider very greatly
before you reveal this to the
you need many details before you tell
the that you know that leather bound sh
that the the the
promised it's a yeah it's a leather
bound sh but it's leather from uh from
fez and it's still it smells like the
tannery and the shas it's uh he made a
photocopy from uh from a photocopy from
another photocopy and the whole thing he
found it in Sheamus after somebody else
disposed of it. So you have to think
very well. Number one,
you have to contemplate well that he's
really tricking him
that he recognizes clearly his bad
nature or his extreme poverty.
That he heard explicitly from him
that he's only giving an external
promise. Basically a fake promise.
Do not decide immediately in your mind
to think about the that just because
he's not uh strong in his standing he
definitely will not give him the dowy
or the food that he promised.
And we see many times
people like these
They pay their obligations more than
wealthy people.
Meaning don't just decide because the
person is not of such strong financial
standing, he's not going to give what he
promised. We see many times that people
who are not wealthy, they're they make
good on their promise more than regular
people. Number two, you need to know
you need to know that if the would know
that his father is not going to give the
money that he promised, he won't go
through on the
many times is likely
very often just wants to get as much as
he can.
But it's not like it's make it or break
it. It's not make it or break it. In
such a situation
definitely
this is not
saying to go and tell him. In other
words, if you know that the wouldn't
want to break off the
it just he he would like to get as much
money as he can. You're now to go tell
him because it's not like the the is
riding on it.
Unless you see
that the matter will be
unless he'll see that his words will be
a to the he'll try to
uh scheme how to get out of the mutan
as much as he can or promises to uh that
he'll come through on his on his pledge
that from the vantage point there's no
trickery because if yes the
father-in-law is deceitful but the is
also being deceitful if the let's say
was playing himself as a big lambd and
turns out he's ana
so even though you not allowed to tell
the about that but you can't tell the is
not rockefeller either
if the is tricking
Then
they cancel out.
In other words, the only time, this is
very important, the only time you could
tell one side that the other side is
tricking them is if
only one side if A is tricking B. But
if, let's say, that's not the case. If A
is not tricking B, but I'm sorry, if A
is tricking B, but B is also tricking A,
then you can't tell anybody cuz anyway,
they're both tricking each other. So, so
it's a good
besides that you need all the other
details before. Therefore,
do not hasten to reveal
until after you contemplate this well
that all of the matters that we
mentioned before are fulfilled.
If they already made the was already
made
and he recognizes based on the
and you recognize based on the is
tricking the regarding the or the food.
Meaning if the is ready made depends on
the following.
If you see that your words will not be
accepted in the ears of the
only to be concerned
that he'll take advice against
that he can't deceit that he can't trick
him
or he knows meaning a if they already
made the and
the the father-in-law is not going to
pay the nadan
So if you know that all the will do is
he'll do some kind of so the father
can't trick him or he won't do anything
on his own
you could tell the
you have to be careful
you have to make sure you're not missing
any of the details that are earlier in
base
it also seems that you
The third detail that we mentioned
before
that is that you know
there's no deceit
if you see
that the matter will be revealed in the
ears of the
and
he'll be the on his own. Meaning if you
know that thean will believe what you're
saying and even though the was already
made he'll break the engagement believe
without any without any explanation
to reveal to him you can't tell him
it's not common that you'll fulfill all
the details
look in okay that is
which is
Tomorrow's limode. We're going to do the
final one now.
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