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Chofetz Chaim Yomi Hilchos LH 7:1-2 Believing Lashon Harah Said in the Person's Presence {Day 57}

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progress. >> Okay, good morning everyone. You know, we just learned that said it's the to be others to give other people an aliyah cuz to buy yourself an aliyah is cheesy. By the way, you know what else is cheesy? To have to announce by every single she about the campaign. Really? One of you guys should do it. Why do I have to do it every time? Maybe I have to have a volunteer, but you know the if if nobody's going to buy flowers, you always have to you got to buy it for yourself. So, I don't know if we have a volunteer. I'm very happy if somebody wants to take over and announce tonight's campaign. You just let me know. I'll be more than happy to to let someone else do it. In the meantime, while you're all fighting over it, I'm just going to let everybody know that tonight we begin the annual campaign for really all the listeners wanted to jump in and announce it that you can make a team page, which is really the best way to help out or you um go to charity.com/mh. Okay, we are continuing in we are up to Zion. Clal Zion and we're going to have a double header today because it's very brief. In this cl we're going to explain the prohibition of if it was said if it was said in front of three people said in front of the guy if you heard it from many people let's say many people told you the same or their rumors swirling you heard it from a guy who said it in the course of conversation or let's say you heard it from a guy that you could believe like two people. Let's say a guy gets up and he makes an announcement of in front of many many people. So you say, "Oh, obviously it's true. Otherwise, he wouldn't go out on the limb and say it in front of many people." No. May maybe it's not true. It's not true. He would lie in front of a thousand people. Yes, he would without a problem. We we should assume he's lying. Even so, you should not definitively assume it's the truth. You could be concerned for it. You could investigate. If it became clear, then rebuke the guy. Let's say a guy announces, you know, he turns his phone off, but he has his phone in his pocket in the shul. And let's say he made this announce in front of a hundred people. You shouldn't believe it. You should not believe it. Why? Why would you assume a Jew would be Malish? It's bad enough that the B mikdash was destroyed and now this Jew wants to jeopardize the welfare of the Jewish people by bringing his phone into Ashul. No, you should not believe it. But you could be and if you find out that it's true, you should call up your friend and say really, you know, it's the three weeks we're mourning the mikdash. The only way really Hashem could bring it back is if we show covet to this thing that says please do me a favor. Leave your phone out of there's no to speak to believe. What if the speaker told you about what plane does in his presence and you look at ply and ply turned white like a ghost and he doesn't say a word. So you assume No, if unless he says yes, I did it. You can't believe it since you never heard any outright admission of certainly if the speaker is not saying it in front of him. But he says, "Believe me, I'm telling the truth because I would say it in front of him." He's saying that I would say these words in front of him. you're not allowed to believe him and in our many sins people are very uh stumble in this greatly even if he is silent when they're relaying this derogatory information say oh he's silent it must be true he cannot take from this any indication that is true even if it's his nature always shalo not to be so what if this guy is a hotthead and anytime anybody says anything bad about him he gives it he lashes back and now all of a sudden he became quiet like a mouse it must be it's true what if this guy's nature is never to be silent now he's silent no you can't take it as a that it's true because Now maybe now his nature he he overcame his base nature and he decided not to respond to a quarrel or he's a smart guy. He knows that there's nothing that he could say that will in any way minimize what people think about him. So he figures I'm only I'm only going to add insult to injury if I open up my mouth and say it's not true. the other guy is going to say, "Oh, really? It's not true." And he's just going to insult me more. So, like the bad custom in the world, then people's mind, they've decided that anytime somebody says bad information in the person's presence, even if the guy who it's about contradicts it a hundred times, they'll never believe him. They'll never believe the person who it was spoken about even if he says it's not true. Therefore, he decided it's better to remain silent and to be from those who are insulted. Therefore, you shall not take a from this to the side that the matter is true. that the matter is true. Okay, that's um Juan Limud, don't go anywhere.