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Can A Chosson Go To Shul During Sheva Berachos? Mishna Berura Daf Hashavua Siman 131 Seif 4

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Okay, good morning friends. We're continuing we're learning. We're middle of the Rama. We're in the said the minhug is not to in the house of in the house of ines and not when there is a the says when the or the is in that sh but if the ma is not in the basic necess even though it's in another basic necess you Say see the mission vers of this is going on the words. Oh no. So, so far but if the if the is not in the basicus even if it's in a different one you do say then the continues on the day of a circumcision that we don't say that's only in the morning when you circumcise the kidn but even though you're dabing by the child that is circumcised. You say as opposed to that we don't say the whole day when you d next to the it's only called on the day that he is. So let's see the here the Rama said that by that we don't say only in the morning when we did the circumcision by even though we're next to the child we say says the opinion of a very eminent list of the and the is that you Don't say when you dive in next to the raimal. Okay. What does that mean? that um that the Alvi explains that the sim of a is only the actual mitzvah after you finish the mitzvah. So the simka has uh ceased. So it's not that the baby is like a bala. It's that the the performance of the mitzvah is auda yet the suda of the bris. So it's so to speak the is still present or you're middle of the after benching you're going to say and for this the also explains that the suda is the main expression of the sim of the wrist. Therefore, when you're still headed toward the suda or middle of the suda, you're from okay. That's only if you're diving near the child. If you're diving in a different house, even though the bris is there, So like this you the child was circumcised and the the suda didn't happen yet and the babris the the father or the sand is present at a min and they're headed to the suda. No, then you would not say it's only because another important is the sand the and they never say even after benching of it's like a y for them for them it's like a yumptive Now this is very interesting. Why is it a yumpt for them? answer is because a brisma is like a carbon doing a brism is like yeah and uh when the day you bring a carbon is like like the says that's why the first 12 days of we don't say because it was the of and therefore it was considered a so that's interesting that a balbrris a sand a will not say takan the whole day. What if the the balis is an a and he's ding before the and he's not saying taken he should make a separate minion and no one should say everyone is but is however if he's not a he should avoid being the he should just be a private citizen okay um Now the meaning will not exempt from saying that's what the Rama says. However, the the quoting the other is that we don't say for all seven days of even if the seventh day is really the eighth day from the I guess that would be the guy got married before the the seventh. Even if the seventh day is the eighth day from the what does that mean? We don't count like the chuva says this says but the mug says since it's we're more lenient. So even if it's the um even if the seventh day of is the eighth day from the so technically it's not really and they're not even making a let's say the was a little bit before evening on a Sunday you don't say until Sunday at that exact time even though technically let's say you got mar a person got married um on Sunday so that's day one then it's Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Shabas. So Shabas is technically day seven but it's not seven days because Sunday was only an hour still even though Shabas will be the last day still regarding it would exempt you on Sunday until you reach the on Sunday of the time you got married. This is only if the or the but a widowerower who married a widow they only have three days. So the same would apply for says therefore says should not go to during why because he's causing the shul to lose a he's an it's a terrible thing that he's causing theore not to say and imagine a guy who gives a clap on the beimma it's the yard side of the the minus So therefore we shouldn't say he also shouldn't come to sh that for sure he shouldn't come to sh in other words um if you cause the not to say you're doing you're you're doing an to that's what the mish says should not come to however the argues says that the um the does not have to refrain from coming to and revshinberg says that a kassan could go to shul where they don't recognize him. So this way they say and he doesn't have to tell them. What about so what should you do? I don't know says you shouldn't go to yeah of course that's what the says better. Yeah. Then call it to talking about the day of the also, right? Not not just is it talking about because the said and was discussing he's saying that he shouldn't go to when he's there they shouldn't say they shouldn't say but he shouldn't go. Yeah. But the whole discussion was if he ends up being there, this is all of them. Yeah. You know the some say that uh if you could find that that's and they're that the guy should come then uh then he's allowed to come. You know I don't know if you'll be able to find a sh like that that they for causing them to miss most they're very mbed you know about their but if you could find one somewhere that the guy okay now what about says that a should not refrain from coming to he's not like because anyway some say that during He's from so therefore even though we're not for him he might not be and that's the opinion of Caral that is different because why is that's his specific Now what if a balabris walks into a sh and he's not interested in making a big commotion? Is he to tell the or is he allowed to hide the fact that he made a bris says he could hide it because if the doesn't know they're not happy they're not happy there's no reason for them. It's not like he's being them and saying they p don't know that they need to say. Okay, we'll hold it over here and um just I need to set up for the Mishna. Second.