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recording in progress. Okay, good
morning
friends. We're
continuing we're
learning. We're in the middle
of the said that
after the is but during the he should go
out. The Rama says for 12 months he
doesn't we learned yesterday in the
mission of Zion that
fundamentally but it's a
minim like it
says we discussed does it actually say
that either
Okay. He needs to leave so they don't
call him up because if they call him up,
he's going to have to go up since he's
fundamentally obligated. Even on Shabas
and he's the only he still
shouldn't. But if he didn't go out and
they called him up, he needs to go up.
Okay. Even up to 12 months.
even
on he's not considered dwelling in
happiness he's now to go
to so the question is so what since when
does he have to do it all we saw so far
he has to do
it but now the Rama holds more than
that. You need to have a certain level
of someone who buries a
relative. So he's not
even he's not have throughout
the says that means he's
not like it says
ina but he
is why
And likewise
in all
the he's not dwelling
in since when does he have to be
dwelling in simka? Where does it come
from that the of that the has to be
dwelling ink? It
says
who maybe the
very if you look in note 161 remember we
asked yesterday that what does the mish
mean it doesn't say that anywhere the
lion
is the rama uses this expression in sif
meal one of the miry of the rama is the
morai The cites
the so just
like has to
be that would indicate the also has to
be so if you're
not then the is not to
be bro has already said they call him up
since he's fundamentally
He has to go
up. Some say even if they call him to go
up, he doesn't go
up.
Why? But I thought he's fundamentally
the
brings
since
is therefore
he's because anyone who can't do the is
not like it
says similar to what we had earlier
inkl and that's the reason why you can't
do
the so for the same reason in
the in this is aim but that would be the
reason of this the is the
tict the maharam ticken
Okay.
What?
On my Does he have a din
on? No, not really.
I mean you have a din of an but you're
inv I mean you're called but the
ramifications don't play out on Shabas
right because you can't do the kur but
let's say would not be able to do the
avoid even on chabas right
if someone was in they wouldn't be able
to do the on
chabas so too we can't do the
Okay. The mish
continues. If someone's within for other
relatives to mourn
over if there is not in the two besides
the wow says that in order to ensure
that you have what we
call that there are two khanim
So even though the Rama says does not
for 12 months he
would if if the needs him to be not only
one but even the second
kayen I don't think know that I don't
think know
that this comes from
the
brings not like the mug
of and the says you could be make like
these peskim. Why? Because this whole
thing is a minhug. The whole concept of
noting when someone's is a minhug. It's
a minhug. It's a good minhug but it's
not it won't
override. Okay.
a
single you would think you know maybe
he's
not the garra the garra says so if anel
can't maybe someone who's single can't
no he he could do it there's no such
min says some say he
And
what the meaning is that he does.
I don't know. I have a five.
Just uh Rabbi say you might want to mute
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you might not want that. Okay. So
um the Ram says
to the a single
person if a single doesn't want to we
don't
protest just make sure not to be there
when they call him or they tell him to
wash his hands.
Okay, let's see
the someone who's married and his wife
is not with
him. What does that mean? He's not with
him. Is not at the is not in the sh is
not at home. He's away. He's traveling.
So everybody agrees
he even if he's the only
one.
Why you
see it's not only a lack of positive
it's also there's a negative. He's in
pain.
That's interesting.
Someone who's single is not but he's
not they're
not
okay truth is says they have to go
out like we mentioned many times
Not only do they not need to be do they
need to be out when they say so that
they're not violating the command to go
up, they also need to not be present.
Meaning you would think maybe after they
could come back into the sh. So the
Ramos says no they cannot be there
during because it's going to create a
pagam like we said
in we
said
Okay. Now,
um we will pick it up here tomorrow.
Tomorrow is a big one about why they
don't. Okay, we'll hold it over here.
Have a good day
everyone. Bye.
