Rabbi Chesky Kauftheil

mentioned we were here just two weeks ago at another organization shabbos big shabbos called kev tuning and this shabbos has been something completely completely different and trying to say a few words about it so in this week's parsham to communicate the claudius role before the shyness of goula there are four different mushings we can afford it from on that the first one now traditional classic interpretation of civilized is the burdens the suffering hashem says i'm going to try to take you out of the the suffering the burdens the challenges the hard work that didn't wear machame but the imran khayim has a different view on it explains it differently he says that civilized also connotes apathy hopelessness resignation being so evil just going with it with the status quo that he didn't try him were just hopeless i'm just you know giving in to what what was going on at that point and hashem says betayci eskem civilization from the acceptance from the tolerating of what was going on in the triumph so by saying when the otd virus hit claudius row many years ago maybe you can call it the ddp pandemic the the different dera pandemic kids going on their own or different there most parents were just in hopeless shock our institutions were sorely inadequate unprepared almost impotent and inept in the resources and in doing anything about it as the onslaught of cases came up of rahman's children that weren't finding their connection in yiddish sky many ended up just hiding in lonely confusion and very undeserved but very painful shame the rest of the jewish world just looked on with rehmanness and resignation was commenting there are no solutions there were a couple you heard them that heard the cry of either civilization they would not settle for just tolerating and crying and hopelessness rabbi say let's all say thank you hashem for the incredible unstoppable world-class capologist avi fishoff avi said no to the status quo he developed his own twisted language to help parents communicate with hurting and twisted children and to date he has miraculously and selflessly redeemed brought to goula hundreds if not thousands of suffering families without any personal financial gain and then there's the incredible gedalia miller who as a parent himself just refused to be soluble the loneliness the isolation the lack of access to resources the mithsaram the mitsrayam that the families were existing in and he created the wonderful kesher nafshi organization what an amazing and unbelievable organization and i thank akur they had us here to be there with him in the beginning to get this off the ground what an amazing shabbos what a beautiful artistic shabbos a shabbos of delicious food super accommodations powerful and sp inspirational speakers an incredible team of volunteers that are mama smith nephesh for claustro so the second civilized that there is let's say civilization is you keep them that get up and say we will not be civil the status quo but there's a third shot in civilis i heard this from a review decline he says that siblings was actually being soluble that despite the tsar and the torment the suffering that kaiser was enduring in mitzrayim they never lost the hope and faith that what was happening wasn't just mere happenstance it wasn't just like fate just happening we don't know why it's happening it's just happening they didn't believe that but rather they displayed the middle of savannas that means the savannas means it's a paradox of suffering and simultaneously while suffering having the courage and the patience and the wisdom to know that mace hashem who is his voice there's no happening this is all happening from hashem that is all part of hashem's master plan this is how our ancestors our of us and our parents survived in the chime and ultimately they were redeemed hashem took them out from a time rabbi sai the third group that this civilized refers to is you incredible incredible parents of keshianovshi i was just here shabbas and just marveling at the beautiful parents that were here participating in the shabbos this is safe for seder hayam that says the hashem hand selects parents this is important to know i just heard this on friday from merov hashem hand selects parents to be entrusted with shepherding the special neshamas that are destined to have to endure and overcome beyond belief challenges and and and hardships there are certain shamans especially that have to come down and they have to go through certain things and before hashem sends them to this world he selects parents that can treat these children with compassion and and and guide them and help them through their journey as i was looking around here shabbos i was thinking wow this is i'm looking at a select group of people they were selected by kurdish by hand to be able to deal with incredible responses on challenges that you're all dealing with parents that will deal with it with a munna with love with savvlinus the paradox we talked about before the paradox of suffering but believing the paradox of of dealing with issues but having hope and continuing to believe what i saw here the openness the courage the sharing it was just incredibly heartwarming and heart rendering at the same time i could just imagine what's going on in shamayim during this whole shabbos hashem pulls together pamaya shamalia and says look look at my special emissaries down in oil look at the harvest havarium look at couples parents sitting and talking and trying and meeting with with inspirational speakers and advisors couples are building a strong and unified front a confident immunity no blame kind of environment for these children building houses of shalom so that the environment in the house is unified in the shalom as it says you want to see children for your children you want to see this in office show them all you throw if they show them in the house and the house is stable and the house is together and and the child comes whatever the turmoil that the child is going through you'll be able to see nachos from the children and i have parents coming here to this organization to this chaperton to learn that they're looking for tardical solutions so i want to end just with a bracha first i'd like to give a bracha that this kalani rava used to give me every time i went to him especially on shabbos there was him he always finished me al heim and i also want to give a broker first of all just to know that this is we're going into an incredible month of shavat shwat stands for shamrom taharam from shimram hashem besheimer these children barghe bench them bless them they should see the way that they should feel good about themselves that they should be comfortable wherever they are who knows tara you may tire them so to all those you know that are waiting and hoping for simches and naches from your children man hashem some children that you have that are not fully with the program from the other children that are with you in this quest to build a home that could support those children i'd like to give my other broker which is who took us out we would say civilization he ultimately took us out there so we asked him of rights the loss of of of opportunity which so many people here are now going through the children are going through that the parents are going through that who yoga son of karaf he should regale all of us but mostly we cabbage nidokenu hashem should collect should bring together the children that are neducam that are out there wandering floundering someplace but arbor conflicts are it's many of them are not even here as i said before thailand or wherever they might be do you know how you'll get that you know how we get that chavarrian call israel the neymar romain [Applause]