Rabbi Avraham Chaim Feuer - Rosh HaShanah - Born Again/ ReBirth through Humility and Surrender

thank you very much rather post them nice to be able to tonight and this is a wonderful preparation for the new year for Shoshanna great way to start that's because of the size of the audience's the quality of course a hood is my three of the camels lovely sure I've never I can bid on these streets over here so to luda ladamus you shall I for me I'm very very delighted to be here you know rabea so cylinder had invented the law of spiritual thermodynamics I believe in the world of physics it was lord kelvin who discovered were formulated the laws of physical thermodynamics about heat transfer etc energy and the coins of the regular laws of thermodynamics if you take three lukewarm cups of tea shall use their coffee and we take the three luke warm cup of each one is 90 degrees and we put them all in a bit cup so you'd imagine that three times 90 you'd get a cup that's really boiling hot 270 degrees because you did three x 90 doesn't work that way it coins the laws of thermodynamics but that's only physical thermodynamics the law of spiritual Torah neshama thermodynamics does your soul cylinder if you take three lukewarm Jews they put them together they put their heads in the hearts together seek searching fresh out so they will indeed there will be a synergy and will be 270 degrees of far far far more and the sum be far greater than the parts of the whole be grain of the of all the parts so we get here tonight and we're essentially looking for some desirous some real excitement before Shoshanna we should know that again if we accommodate a sense of working together and spiritual thermodynamics we are building up to a crescendo add to a very red-hot force of change now the title of tonight's chat is dynamic chuva born again through humility and surrender born again through humility and surrender what does this mean now obviously the subject of tube is a huge subject and hundreds of thousands of homes have been written and Hebrew alone of course about Juba it's one of these very essence it's at the very core of Yiddish types of Judaism is chua chu is really our essence because the good Lord who made us those of Archaea for not know and ravine Jana the great classic of Juba and the home is Allah vamos they both posit that God knowing are very quirky nature being made of both dust flesh blood desire lust and having a spiritual component called the neshamah this is a very that it's a recipe for prefer for problems because we have two very diametrically opposed powers within us we are animals and angels and one entity together we are higher than angels watauga neshama we have we have we are hiring angels we go much higher angels I shall has much more pleasures must as a matter of fact angels cannot power God angels cannot add anything to the good Lord he can only add to them we however with human angels can give power to God to lose little Kim give power and energy to God so that loves our prayers are mitzvos means alot them as that's how God created the world and us that we can literally empower God makes a difference however it is always the animal nos the two-legged animal that's always trying to get in the way and that is a big problem the stool exam was very powerful and it's lost the desire and / dishes pneus and the quirkiness of human nature of the flesh is such so therefore say the great scholars of tumor that tube is a must it's like embedded in the very existential matias of human the human existence that there has to be a path retrouver to when we slip and wait to return has to be because we're going to slip as well as lip is Muslim and therefore here tonight it's before Shoshana and we know that we slipped in the past year and not only have we slipped we certainly haven't lived up to our own expectations and a God's expectations and it's time to return to God to return that the plan that God has for all Jewish men and women how to capitalize on our rich resources the other very rich resource our angel our angelic cells our souls which are sliver of God himself God wants very much we should return to him give hits trim and the Jewish people want every Jew to return because it makes that a ripple effect and gas supplies oh so a few people here tonight will be inspired even the smallest way to improve it will have a ripple effect the butterfly effect and the flapping of our wings will literally drink drink us closer to our em bring the whole Jewish people closer anymore it says clearly that gazzola chua-chua is Greg admonish is mazaaq in the entire world so this is a very important thing no matter how the numbers don't count is this necessary it accounts so being that you is such a huge subject an important subject and it's very much intertwined and rosh hashanah you know the weights that are Saracen in chula the trooper you must direct appear for each other's length it's really late and of course what can accomplish is 50 minutes it's like cheating this country this wonderful country here again your your driver's license you have to take 28 lessons extensive lessons and usually flunk the test once or twice so to become a driver getting 28 serious lessons which you're paying you have an individualized coach to learn how to drive that's such a big deal to drive the Merrick you don't mean died and Emerson driverless Barbra Jean oh well here to tell the story and one or two tickets may be too little speeding the bottle shelf here this is a very careful we're very mach pedir at 28 dominion coiffed lesson to become drivers genki 20 lessons they love getting the americas that is a function of a few times it's a great source of income so learning how to drive on the streets of Israel yeah i think twenty eight lessons to learn how to drive ourselves on the streets of life on the streets of God and the cosmos and the universe of God who takes 28 lessons from a private driving lesson teacher forget the derrick on your shirt there's no such as doesn't I haven't seen anything a Shannara that you have take 28 at least giving a quiet lessons learn how to navigate all of the highways of by ways of this world which are really very complicated there are not blind dead-end alley is a lot of lines the side streets so get creative you so it's it's presumptuous the same in a few minutes we're going to give you a pathway to children but but everything counts so what I'd like to do with tonight my dear friends and thank you for coming because I gained even more than you from this and that is I'd like to focus on one detail one good character trait one meet the Toba which I think can be a real key to making a change in our lives because again chuba is very important choob is not to be better the purpose the truth is not to be better the purpose of sugar is to change better is not enough that doesn't mean very much have to change and the causes of officers actually that there's three kinds of juba only one is acceptable the first kind is called revulsion I did sin I have done a few and I'm sick of myself I'm really discussed it with myself I blew it I'm sick I'm Amish sick of myself I'm disgusted I feel very low and I say I can't I can't do this again that's a fun of others it's not true that at all nothing only natural get a sim he satisfied your desires did what you wanted you sick yourself now you'll do it again what's to stop you what is nothing has changed the second level is called revolution revolution is now that I'm changing immaculee I'm not going to just roll over the next time the 8th or comes to me and that's gonna say okay I'll do it siska schmuck i'm on the fact i'm going to remember book result and rebelled against the supremacy and the dictatorship the dictatorship I don't do it she'll have sat on this sounds not going to push me around anymore i'm gonna put up a fight I will 45 record gonna let some whatever part me baruch attah adonai eloheynu melech alla shikaka he did 40 send the house of others that that that revolution is also insufficient because you slap nap provide yourself with weapons to fight very nice you say you're not just stick yourself you're there Pike next I would watch you have weapons do you have strategy I can affect us up something smarter and stronger than all of us put together in a strategy be something some way so revolutions not enough either when these is resolution resolution is I'm going to study ways to change the balance of power said the oath of office between my neshama and my body I guess my body I see and I feel my the Shabba they tell me I have one I don't feel it so powerfully my body is very powerful its desires and sensual desires are very powerful and real my neshama is so so come see come saw so the resolution must be says the commons of all this is to see ways where i can intensify my spiritual awareness to that my spirit become slowly stronger than my flesh and my body the angel becomes stronger than the animal so i would like to focus tonight on 11 meter tova which I think can help us begin the long journey to chula to return to God and his wishes and is done and that means is another humility genuine humility and humility is really a meter that is not well understood and people to understand it really with what not what I love it means or what Geiger means because yes a bit personal vows guy huh you're like about guys are you about rival me I won't think I'm great you think you're great well people if God means great the report is how you think you're great I know you're great but what do you think about yourself no I don't think you'd great if you did your wife is disabuse you of that very quickly often oi yes we know the kid sir but you don't think it great but you still about guys off by the way yeah you're also balls geyser but don't feel bad you're good company with me I'm right here all right on the head of the guide the club of the guidance right at the head of the guy the club because why is it mean let's discuss a big one but arrogance means that what you building so I have the scooter right so it's about the 27 years ago a very nice little safer quote the letter of Ages a parish on the Garas are about which I should look at more often but today I just decide on the pole daughters off the shelf see what i wrote 27 years buts about time he peruses so here I know that says the same from me those he say from vivo predicts but the world witness is a renaissance of the quality of ANOVA humility mankind can't begin to expect the arrival of the Messiah the madera some more is that at that time the pre messianic age the humble folk will be healed hailed as the true heroes humanity and this written we say this all the time you're right side gonna be on boy you fire i'm not going to be sure he said that he saved up suga zebra can people cook meth pet possum valid 149 for key right side IBM is born of Yeshua when I shemesh shows favorite to his nation he will glorify the humble at the time of the issue of the salvation so when you see a preponderance of humility of the world no mushy us on the way have you noticed the preponderance of ability of the politicians our army officers are candidates for presidents in the US of A humility is not even under the time you two talked about you lose this incident mama it's a pejorative be humble humble candidate seriously leadership so about absolute roar gaia arrogance ripping down other people to your own your own advantage of benefits disgusting no machine might be coming but that's not the place to look for this meetup not the place to look now another quotation another quotation is here in this very same safer that Damiri relates the following thing the miry says is once a righteous King you have got one major fault he was angered very easily to overcome this tendency wrote three lines on a sheet of paper and the point did one of the servants to show him when every star to grow angry and lose control the first line red always remember that you are merely a creature and yourself and not to create toward the second line red always remember that you are flesh and blood and you will eventually perish the final line grando and remember that you will there will be mercy for you in the future only if you have real mercy of others save Romney those page 239 very important points very important points and finally there's a beautiful story here this is really a very very beautiful story of this story and the Savior the medical ages is on page 74 there's lots of Jewish Taylor living near the town of schist on Poland and local parts that's the local nobleman who owned the area he called them the paler to make them a barman from the most expensive silk fabric they just purchased the past amazingly expensive exquisite exquisite the fabric making those gorgeous garment never made and the nullam worn details to take pains to create a masterpiece the tailor laughs and protested he said sire why do you say such a thing am I not known the most expert tailor than the entire province you have to tell me what the dope when the table presented the finished garment to the parts nothing business is this nobleman with the satisfied the squire have used the tailor claiming yet ruled the precious fabric threw him out of his house told all those friends never to use them again desperate the table stood out the Council of gravitas mio the son of the year that partnership shisa you the approach of was the rabaa and rub your ass feel the same advice this is this undo all of the stitches that you put into the garments and sew it back together is exactly the same time as before and then bring the club back to the parts that you should do tailored understand what this means he did it what the reconstituted garment back to the parts for whom he had so did originally to the tailor's great surprise the squire expected the light with the finished product and he sang the table praises to everyone as a bonus to his original Street mystified by the turn of events the tailor returns of exotic and this is what happened gently rub your ass me explain originally when you showed me your handiwork I could tell that when you first made the cloak you made it out of arrogance it was full of diaper you would convince you the greatest tale of the world Geiger and arrogance has no shame whatsoever it's the most repulsive thing there's no grace as though has no grace has no pain no attraction and that's why the party rejected your work because of the outside might look pretty but the inside the essence of this garment was repulsive so therefore this very rebuff of the nobleman made you humbled and brokenhearted and that's why I told you undo all the arrogance ditches and resold the cloak again in humility and that's the cloak acquired grace and elegance and you're perceived ruined I've the parts because now you sewed it with another and another is very beautiful very true what is the full the real definition of the ability listen carefully I hope you what you don't come to a shoot with that pen and paper directing you download what's gonna remain if you know right now truly ability is 150 phrase pull back from serving yourself another means I'm here to serve God at the serve mankind to serve others i'm not here to serve myself every 1s how can motion without most humble of mormonism in the world did he know how great one cory season up Grady was ocean ave grow the grain is the great is not a regular personal but humility means he was pulling back from serving himself he was serving a shell of course he was great but everything he had used to serve I shan't he wasn't serving himself guided to serve me and my agenda and my ambitions and my plans and now he's up serving God parsha you get the italic on the books and Phil Collins are cooler and learn gunshots Bob do you show me everything but you're an arrogant route because you're not certainly god you serve yourself and I and your wife to be supporting you to finish I bother you shall me I'm putting you through cold up but she wants a trophy husband actually supporting i wanna on a trophy husband to get your lawyer chimerical or da from taco finish a soul so wow what a trophy of all of us administer shots and he gives a sheer every day but it's about her agenda my god agenda again write this down true humility pull back from serving yourself ego is Russia Titus you know everything as Richard Davis ego Josh integris he's God out think I on the picture here to serve me evil means on the center egocentric world humility means if God's planet legen planet God's plan shall prevail it's only plan that counts did God's plan it let God glad to hear that mark got that okay am I cheering squad near the back so what would be again closer inshallah why is michellendave judgment cuz that's the day the original sin Adam was created anyway went up the dentist right away within three hours he was God has every show our Zeta with haba she seduced them and the knowledge to do sir didn't last very long the garden would be great place great beautiful place the whole world was bears everything anything and yet they was off the derech rebelled against God they would judge I'm thrown out Ganesha and that's why that day the first of Tishrei air shabbos 680 week Nationstar the 25th of them next week and on the sixth day out of Tishrei of the macabre sin and the creation was earlier raffaello and they were thrown out getting and every see me here god says okay let's have a state of mankind evaluation and see where means holding have they learned the lesson from the original sin or not was the original sin of the macabre were created of the macabre to serve as the guard gonna according to the wishes of God you give God novice to cultivated in the instructions of Russia to give a chef kaya and knock us from there they're God's children Satan the novelist came along and said huh you're going to waste your time serving God what's in the plus i'm making stuff your Amendment says insider there's nothing says God the trade of you he's your arrival don't serve God serve yourselves right now you'll know for a cleft you do everything what God wants me two legged ass beat this this tree of wisdom you will have the wisdom to do things your way go make your own choices you're such a width of the Makana he's such meds that you're gonna take instructions from God you can be God yourselves serve yourself and not God hush it's very simple mama lucia what happened on the first rosh hashanah that's are you serving yourself get out of here I'm very happy to serve you if you'll serve me but if you don't deserve me let's take yourselves and then help me that's what's the purpose of my clothes so every Shoshanna so coming in tuesday tuesday monday night in the week tuesday two weeks from now things old in the headsman this can be you organist and before God every single one of us passes before God like sheep being counted by the shepherd and godly ask you and say yeah what are you doing this whole year who are you serving we're serving me for you serving thee who were you certain that's all gone astray so it's not complicated very simple question of our answer be who we serving the whole year will humble if you are humble you pulled back from serving yourself if you were arrogant you follow the ways of the dosh the slip slide slippery slimy serfdom and you serve yourself like he seduced you to believe Russian it's okay our religions really very simple so we have just now condemned and I bridge almost thousands of Muslims for at the 150 question which God asks he has the daughter mission with other slipped and sin he said a yak hora where are you on them where are you holding what's your agenda are you serving me or you're serving v yourself every year is your Shan the glass the same question what are we going to answer most people don't really care it's really sad even very religious people accomplish your shutter I'm prepared you're not stuck in this year left back tomorrow I might have told you latta nice things and I'm okay I'm not scared traveling or Shoshanna questa Michigan Verdes down from the result that the person who doesn't travel even wants our Shoshanna there's not like a quicker of tears when if somehow we're overwhelmed by trepidation and tears that these are the Shamas dancing before God being judged if you don't feel there is you're selling these were very far I'm very estranged but this is the question the question is have you pulled back from serving yourself the question we at the high school year is who is using the who who is using Who am I using God where is God using me when I garbage one that's right three times a day I say to God God giving my marching orders for the rest of the day copy nature of you let's say shema yisrael adonai eloheynu i dunno y hard am I asking God God I'm your agent I'm you represented guide me give my knee some instructions how I can serve you and glorify your name that's caballo so much Shania or am I using God there is God using me if he's using me that's good if I'm using him it's not good then nobbling zambia shopping list and shema is just the empty hollow proclamation in order to another question as I said what does it mean the answer is God using me before you lift one hand and will you take one step and before you say one word and for you look one way yet they ask who am i serving now meet or god and whatever happens to us you have these two questions who created this problem who was the capital w who and the second question is what do you with a capital y want from me now right what happened you're not just yes just happening is stuck in traffic you'll have to be aesthetic down there don't happen to get to a fight with somebody you don't happen to have a definite end up in the hospital who made this happen it's clearly made it happen and what do you God want raphy novel that is the question that us is for the time twenty percent that's called humility harrigans means a and God knows me i don't know God arrogance is a sense of entitlement mugilan hey I deserve it has not only a good person a very good person but also I keep the Triple R to actually almost a religious person I like that so God always be a lot my dearly and they don't say it they really believe it arrogance is that we have expectations remember that word expectations and we have expectations how God the man should treat us Maggie ali raffiq expectations are not met we get very very angry we get bent out of shape now listen to this very important one and that is write this one down expectations our resentments under construction you got there a bit poster expectations are resentments under construction we have expectations we don't get what we expect to get resentment and now the key word here is code red critical bloomin Karnas Code Red red stands for resentment which comes from unmet expectations are II and that expectations comes from dependence we depend on people I need you to and he later on after the sheer Furby postman series without drinkers also me if I walk out of here I post i can say that was great you're not going to give me a big hand chicken see why that was awesome I need you for my ego so I have dependence on you to validate me I don't get it then my expectations aren't dead and if the excitations aren't met represent them because expectations are resentments on the construction so it's not just word games of playing with you this real that's code ribs that's arrogance now hear him back to my safer again I think we have it here on page 39 the alley sure that's rough Lama Volga wrote that the Masters of mustard teach that the angry person suffers from a sense of if you argue one who craves attention mothers have not yet found himself he's unaware of his own true worth lacking self-esteem II depends on the opinion of others depends on the opinions of others he hungers for the phrase without their appreciation he feels worthless when people fail to applaud it becomes helpless and therefore hostile angry the angry man cannot be a humble man his anger devastates his resentment that the events of life have failed to conform with his expectations his pride is wounded and he seeks to compensate his esteem by putting his personal opinions of for others his anger the sleeves in front of a display of arrogance in this instant himself from this anger resentment the really serene man or woman subdues arrogance and in time has led towards truly ability and he seeks the striper what the Bollywood called his top would his tablet means equilibrium all is equal ultimately makes no difference to the truly humble person whether he is praised or insulted by others his self-esteem come solely from within himself from Hashem period the humble person find serenity but the one who seeks on the recognition expected cultivates the life of an evitable frustration have to talk about now you know what means a person is totally self-effacement have a lot of examples of my safer here my favorite example is someone who always open to meet my lifetime live their own death same planet come on everyone here everyone here is over most almost everyone's over 30 years older so so promotion finding then started to died the 30 years ago I was on Oprah so well at least I heard of my new woman and Dale this one story the story's batting around Legion but one story blows me away becoming safe what's my kind who was a fellow butter schuyler he was this Randy whether house is really rad like this in the shower you like your answers what do you do you search for the other rapper go rabbi shopping so he called them besides holder promotion feisty in America we got the answer you want thank God now just happened to be he's cool girl Moshe ten o'clock in the morning is real time which just happens to be three collective learning American time but here's the thing about those things because he has to have his answer so he calls a remote you're finding ten o'clock annoying Israel bright lights hours a day Israel but just three o'clock in the morning and errands to show happening America but Israel it's only so is America's three o'clock in the morning pulls up the revised answer the phone fice think he's sleeping answered the phone because you're much used to sleep link usually slept before clock in the 120 / 12 and I got before so you pull free so it was three o'clock religiously to fix up the phone Weinstein I mean it's ready I'm a big shout esq please that must be a Soviet is that really I I gotta get your answer which is yo yo yo about the course but just give me a minute to wash my hands and yet ready you know so there might those watches mega buster does whatever he has to do it comes back to the phone about five minutes later I says okay then it brings the Torah what's your question me answer this question when she gives him an answer and the end of the conversation how much is has them please give me your name and address till I heard the story I was wondering why did you want his name of the dress I had some thoughts on the matter i figured he said there may be a letter the worcestershire was in the letter anyway everybody asks for his name and address which the man gives them a week later the main gets a letter in Israel for emotional feisty opens up the letter this opens up the envelope is a letter inside the old of the letter and inside the linen is a check and reverse you're right like this when you won't be up at yet when he called me at three o'clock in the morning I was happier watch Nega vassar happen said Rick Zatara wasn't ready so I took about five six minutes to get ready Neal I helped her on the line to me that caused your loss of money because it costs more money on the long distance phone call we're talking in 45 to 50 years ago so I checked it out with the telephone company they told me that six minutes of time from Israel to America of course doesn't us money so please accept the check I'm standing as a reimbursement for your time that I wasted at the time I wasted on the phone from you thank you very much please be much help me do you hear these a cube ility or is that humility exact ability that's right it's the god of my door that's where it make sure to go to love door and a friend of mine told me this year a story hurts for the ball my sand lake with a rabbis simple rhythm coming that ribbon coming we still alive well like with bazookas has been a lot of time in motion the last few years was life because people who want to know how long time it's been quality time very feisty me Masha Masha the sea of an action so what remote you would with with their peers little speech for showers should this and the achieva on his way walking from his home with FDR Drive in East Side and came to the Shiva one week he didn't have anything to say she said your Silver Bullet condom the beginning of shower sugars maybe you have something say nothing to say maybe you like to speak of course he's probably here to get my sir Sir movement said they grab a knish monsters are nothing to say towards it done what's going to be so LaRussa pabulum consegue knows the rap on your young rabbi whose wife just gave birth of Beth Israel Hospital and came here without men cut and wrap on always have a dress in their pocket right behind rails rep on the hoist avid Russia ready for all occasions so so much this fine askim so when office the rallies going to do maybe you say something to volume for shallow sugars that part irises I'd love to bother ya the only copies that I only speak English I don't speak it is really fine since big huge see when service implement back to NYC she said he only speaks English know Yiddish research what's the problem he says I always be giddish but everyone else because English so it's all of that in English because update the be Donell crushed a dozen will have a nice right tired fine so he sits next your emotions very shallow shudders at the head table this rabbi and then when he gets up to speak your mind your property picks up his own chair goes all the way around the table sits right in front of this a bike so it should take some while speaking you have a full full attention like you're giving me right now full attention and during the speech that might share is laughing and smiling a shake his head and Mama closing his eyes off the speaker enter the speech Rebeck Campos alter equation says rather happy you're shaking your head the smiling and laughing you understand the word of English you know maybe a word but not much so he knows what's going on your might show looks at him like what of course have a look at him smile and shake my head participate that's Darren Harris there ahead of Carmela Tiger someone speaking a different order given respect anything to speaking up to get respect if you don't there is no tired no purpose of tires Derrick Harris he says tonight have a whole pile of shy was the answer if the shopas is out how do you think i'm happy i finish maya fancy deshyla's only by having their apparent their apparent commentary has done a nice nice etiquette if the essence of tireless be humbled and give proper dara parrot to a speaker and anybody and pay attention to them and give them a car trip you're asking such a question that's Hawaii was the garlic door humility humility your building or expectations of others only over the self but if you give to others that's another however most of us don't have that level and therefore the emphasis that every sin that we perform rough unfortunately is really an act of revenge and rebellion against God God you disappointed me you're gonna give me the wife I really wanted the husband I wanted this what I wanted the kids I wanted for those I wanted the house I wanted hey god you're here to serve me here's his appointed me I'll disappoint you we don't realize when I wanted to admit it that every single sin pardon the expression please fire the expression is spitting God in the face and saying you know what you don't care so much about me I expected better meet when I was a girl I expected who knows why when I was a boy I expected who knows why I've life and this is what you gave me ha ha wherever you I needed you got where were you when i eated you that the antithesis of humility the antithesis so therefore my friends I'd like to conclude and tell you the following that tuba is a long process but it starts with humility it starts with the from the roadmap the roadmap is to the stand what life is all about that humility is is putting God in charge of our lives and pulling back from serving ourselves if we start with that one little change that one mental change pulling back from serving ourselves that's cool cabela's Oh habesha life every day and the headquarters of a lot obama's reminds of the year is when we hear the chauffeur blast karunanidhi god is the king of Shonda we are again part of the expansion we are spitting back in the Sun you shuttin guys into trouble Irish on the 5700 uh how many 777 years ago and you told us not to serve God to serve ourselves well we're going to change things this year I'm pulling back from serving myself I'm serving Hashem that's a good beginning but you can't improve overnight [Music] it's ridiculous one little chatty of nine is hopefully powerful it meaningful as it was enough to their friend pleading with you are recommending to you and telling you if you want to make this meaningful you really have to eat the daily diary I write down every day like this the question ask yourself every single day is what must I change of my life today and why what must I change in my life today and why exact must they make this change now the change to be very well just say for now and I'm going to pull back from serving myself there's many things have to change have to speak more likely to your wife that's your husband with more your ability you can see the big arrogance not nice nasty nasty nasty feet are chilled children fasting get more generous pay more attention to people so unfortunately to the I really pay attention listen what's the word in English they say listen the gods of the good word attentively the better worth of that epiny is also good looking for certain words but there's a certain is that the listing which is the active listening that's humility listening to somebody and say to them I can't I don't I to help you wish I could back I feel your pain wow that's so accurate people who said didn't but they don't believe that you know sexy thing because everyone thinks doesn't fix everything for you don't fix anything you just say wow that must be so painful I wish I do it that could help you but I certainly feel your pain but you listen maybe if you'll be paint you only listen here partly you don't feel a nice thing so there's lots of things we could change and sure if you think you might have a hard time going home like where you buy the book Star Trek every single day the next 300 for the rest of your life yeah yielding notebook for the coming year five seven seven seven five seven seven seven you're right not everything what do I have to change today and why the how is easy once you make me why easy to how why why can't go on living like this putting down in my heart put down my wife oh what a mistake what a mistake I made why was they gardening putting on your husband probably one of the steaks on some mixed things up and show my I don't know what God was thinking this is what i end up with that's terrible because you think like that that's exactly the message you give the unheard message is heard very loudly and everything your whole body language your emotional language is everything you say but if you really say you know what to gift my shell look at look like whoever good kids but chef maybe not perfect maybe I exactly expected maybe this is not the greatest that's nothing raised up on us another drink no bottle our microphone chef accomplished on the line and I will do it together my life's partner and thank you God thank you God thank you together we served you we want to serve you right there shall teach me how to serve you better by serving the loved ones in my life with respect them with with love and attention reframe everything what do we have to change today with lots of things just take one thing every day one thing write it down you can reevaluate when you're putting go to sleep what you did and then you go back the next day again and again you'll be different people my next Richard Sharma this is a Charlotte you started right away tomorrow but the little late but did you compare us to eat to this before you something you'll be ready you're ready ahead of 90 like when I percent of mankind you're ready pretty good you definitely better than all the candidates and you hump more humble to them I'm really serious really serious my friend Jack see we will live in our comfort zone you know that ninety-eight percent of the people were only live in their comfort zone they don't want to change they say they do over there afraid not comfortable to change it's risky it's scary it requires effort two percent of humanity have the guts go I have a conference on and dilute things things that the little risky is gone but you know the rule they say go out of the limb that's where the fruit is got the Navy go give a through train from your house they're go out on a limb that's roll the fruit is if you don't want to go out and live and take a risk you ain't going no place and you will go to the gahanna reserved for the people in comfort zone Congress all people issue it's not good special place again a very comfortable toasty warm there are you want very difficult adjusting no get conditioning here just not very hot hard to sit down on the radiator it's like a Cat on a Hot Tin Roof very very hot up there my dear friends I wish you all a shana tova masuka she will be inscribed for regular shana tova you can say misty disabled and I'll be wonderful we thank you for coming we thank reposted for putting so much effort into organizing this little event god bless him and is anxious Kyle as a result the brunt of Malacca he bought that he won that Nick tachibana Claudia so thank you good here bye-bye