What are you busy with these days?

[Music] foreign [Music] and I have noticed that as every year most people half the month almost passed and they didn't do anything towards nothing towards the month of elul you guilty no very good very impressed so you must be listening to me so uh a few very quick important things to make sure that you follow a rule of course we know that zone it's a suspicious time and etrotson means that you can get something easier that's that's really what it means now when comes the question why would Hashem have times that things are easier or harder I mean why should I have to wait 11 months to the end of the year so if every moment of our life would be an etraton which means an auspicious time then we wouldn't value those times and not only that we will be double lazy because we would know that I can get everything for free the proof to that I mean there's many different proofs but I can tell you the proof to that from my point of view is when I look at my kids if I give them everything because I'm a loving father then they get used to getting everything then they turn to demand everything and if something is missing then there's going to be a problem even though I didn't do anything I'm pouring on you love warmth clothing whatever teach you spoil if one day I take a break then they feel the lack and what's going on here if they don't get my full attention all year round they they strive to work for it they strive to work for that attention and when they see an opening then they know now is the time to to how do you say in English hit the metal on the how do you care what it's hot it's dry strike while it's hot thank you so the same thing is with us on our calendar and Hashem has his reasons but the fact is that the reality is that all people are busy with their life with their challenges with everything that they need to deal with they don't focus on their chuva or their service to Hashem on a daily basis some people it's uh very repetitive action some people it's not but it doesn't really matter the point is that then that's the fact that most people when they're busy with their life they don't have so much free time to focus on their spiritual growth and on Hashem and that's how Hashem designed it because Hashem is the one who's giving us all these challenges but the the the point to take from this approach is that the Kenosha will always put the challenges only for me to strive and to grow it's not about right now what if Hashem likes me or not so we're not going to analyze the the system of Hashem how he's working but it's pretty simple to figure out that throughout the year we're busy with whatever it is some people are busy with their making ends meet with paranasa with the livelihood some people are struggling with health and other people struggling with the educating their kids you're you're busy all day long you don't have a real good mind frame to sit and focus on your Chua or focus on your spiritual world you do that when you go to Yeshiva or you do that if you're older you go to some shabbaton or to some two-week retreat can't do what I'm talking about when you're dealing with life several times in my life in the last 20 years the only time that I can say that there was really a very big spiritual jump is when I was isolated from my reality if I would go to three months to Yeshiva or if I was just an Yeshiva if I would do something that is involving just that spiritual growth and I have no other concerns so that's really the way to do it so Hashem says this and I know you're busy and there's reasons why you're busy busy throughout the year so I'll give you one month where you can kind of uh Center all the year into one month and if you put your effort into that about one month then retroactively it will cover like as if you did it the entire year that's really the approach we're not going to get into uh uh all the details about elur because in the last 20 years I gave enough lectures and enough classes not that there's enough there's a lot work to learn a lot more to teach I just don't know don't want to repeat myself in future classes we'll learn new things now I just want to emphasize the importance of of how you're doing your true value it doesn't matter right now because a lot of people say I don't like that approach a lot of people say that nice might be your last Rosh Hashanah before the Gula and okay I've been hearing that for 20 years and even if you do survive you don't do that because it's the last year before they go live before the Redemption so there's a lot of work to focus on in this month in the previous years uh we we we had what we call then the tuba boot camp somebody told me that somebody else has that name I have the Chupa bootcamp name for 20 years if somebody has an issue with a another person has that name somebody email me oh you know you copied so and so I said so-and-so copied me because I've been running the tuber bootcamp for years somebody took the name and copied it which is fine it's Torah you can do whatever you want but the true boot camp that we did a few years ago it's still valid due today you rinse and repeat I doubt that anyone remembers what they learned last year in the Chupa boot camp to do it off my heart this year I even listened to my own videos believe it or not and I even laughed through my jokes [Music] not too long I'm sitting I'm laughing my wife walks he's like what's funny I said me she was like what I said no I'm watching an old video of mine and I was like I'm good I'm good no wonder this video got a lot of views so yeah but but the fact is I also sometimes listen to my own videos and I was like I scream at myself who told you that what's the source of that no no but I'm saying with the chuva bootcamp I do myself you rinse and repeat it's short videos if you didn't start it this year it's never too late you can always catch up but it's very very important I'm going to summarize the entire entire boot camp uh at the end of this short class in one short message that's how I handle my Cuba but before I do that then if you didn't start the juvenile boot camp this year and started you missed 12 days it's for short videos you can catch up in a few days and even if you don't want to catch up start where we're holding if you don't want to do the tuba boot camp then go anyways to the to the website to the little page what we prepared and you have all the information there that's why I don't see any reason to repeat or to to say it again there's all the information there which key limit you want to read every day what day and we even prepared it so that you don't have to do much you you have with today's day 12 you click on day 12 everything is there you don't have to to put any effort what to read what to listen to and what to do so that's first of all I highly highly recommend and we are going to have in the next three weeks more classes and I really really hope and I urge everybody to really find the time to do that minimal chuva that you can of course if you can go the whole way I mean by all means but nevertheless uh definitely take advantage of the months now I wanna uh before I uh give you my short message for this class I also wanna say a few announcements and I'm using this little class just to use this announcements because a lot of people don't listen to the announcements they listen to classes and then we get 5 000 emails about the questions and we refer them to the announcement and I wouldn't listen to announcements so I'm going to use the class to the announcements so first of all uh for the ones who are using at smooth.com we had a few issues on the website if you're experiencing problem we know about it we don't need to get 11 362 emails every day that the video is not working I know it there were some issues we're working on it the whole site anyways is going through upgrades so hopefully within the next few weeks everything will I mean the matter of the the bugs that people are experiencing that's a matter of days but in a few weeks we're upgrading the entire uh platform so I'm just saying that because we are getting millions of emails this video is not really working this video is not working we know the video is not working we we're working on it so that's first of all uh uh there's a few other announcements I'm actually thinking I'm going to keep it to another time uh for different reasons but a lot of people also asking us about the cruise that it's being advertised so first of all and most important I'm not organizing the cruise people think it's my cruise so I'm not Captain stubing I am Alona Nava salmon some got the joke okay I'm not running the screws it's not my Crews I come to speak in the cruise okay you're welcome to come it's going to be an amazing Cruise there's going to be many other speakers uh there is a website with all the information about the crews the ladies who are running the cruise they will help you with all the questions first of all there's a website for the cruise you can go get all the information about there but the most important thing I wanted to to to first of all say it's not it's not me people calling my wife we want to book a room she's like excuse me room I'm the wife I'm not there's nothing to do with this I'm just preparing my bathing suit so it's going to be five days November 5 to November 9 leaving Haifa going to Greece and Turkey uh needless to say it's kosher uh there's going to be classes all day long in lectures and a lot of interesting things but the most most uh uh I have to say the special part of the cruise this is the whole point of the cruise is to get like-minded people who are seeing where this world is going to and getting the right tools to prepare the right way and networking and anything that has to do with that times uh uh a thousand I can tell you already that I think it's like 10 months ago or at some point in the past I'm sure you noticed I stopped talking okay so many different reasons uh mainly because I don't want to see the other side of svat from that direction if you know what I mean you don't know what I mean right the cemetery is on the other side of spot I don't want to be looking at this direction of class okay so I decided to be more quiet but on the ship we're going to be on territorial Waters international waters No cameras I can say whatever I want as much as I want so you might hear some pretty interesting things if you want to come but anyways the point is and even if you can come we're gonna see if there's a way to maybe broadcast it I don't think there's going to be any uh it might be an issue on the water to do such a thing but it's going to be a very very uh valuable trip not because of the the food and the surrounding round because of the information I don't know what other speakers are going to talk about I know uh healers are invited uh anything that has to do with information and one needs to know to live their life according to how Hashem really wants us to live our life and not according to how we're being driven to live our life and the change is coming very very fast the ones who already will be able to to to I don't want to say survive we'll just be able to live normal because it's just a matter of time before things are going to start shutting down and if you don't know how to run your life and to be self-sufficient you're not going to survive you're going to be dependent on others and others are not going to help that's that's how it's going to work so another announcement that I wanted to make and I told you that a few months ago I was debating if to come out with it or not but now because of the cruise yes I told you a few months ago that I prepared a whole series of classes and lectures from A to Z how you get yourself ready from today to what's coming to us whether you agree or not it's your problem if you want to agree or not uh uh and on that of course we're going to elaborate many many things because really what's going on in the world around us right now even what you see with your own eyes then then you can doubt the the validity of it okay I'll give you an example I never been to a woman okay woman I tried many times to go I was in Kiev three times never worked somehow never worked so somehow it worked out in some type of a way whatever that I might go to woman this year okay uh and I tried many times don't don't think I didn't try anyways I'm going to save some words but the point is that this year I might go and there's different reasons for that so when I told it to a certain individual he told me what are you crazy there's a war there really that's what they say about Israel for the last 60 years when you hear North Americans Europeans you're going to Israel there's a war there okay so when were there's more everywhere that's first second of all you really think there's a war in Ukraine you really can call it a war no come on so all everything that you're telling us the fire is here uh earthquakes there you really believe half of what they're telling you so ninety percent of what's really they're telling it doesn't really happen so Point made is that uh uh one needs to really prepare themselves the right way I do believe that's my personal opinion many many people woke up right that's how people were calling it that the crews they think it's called the something waking up or whatever uh uh you know the 95 of the awake people they're they're they're awake they don't know nothing 95 of the awake people that they see more or less what's going on they're still under the spell they're still hypnotized they're still brainwashed they're think they're awake and they don't know what's going really on with what's going on that's 95 by the way five percent are awake and are detached from the system I call them the nails right I I left the Matrix 95 of the awake people are still in the Matrix they're still brainwashed they're still in the system they might say I don't want to take a vaccine or I don't believe in the government but they're still doing what the system is governed governing them so it's actually waking up the Wake the wake people it's not waking up the sleeping people the sleeping people the chances are out that's it you had three four years because that's it whoever's asleep is asleep but even the waking the most of the ones who call themselves awake they're still asleep so there's a lot of information to discuss talk about I'm sure you noticed in the last eight months my YouTube channel was penalized eight times and every time it's penalized the YouTube channel is blocked I can't do anything you can watch the videos now on my last threat so if I do one wrong thing on YouTube the account is completely deleted and I actually have a personal request from each and everyone who's watching my videos because I can't go back 2 000 videos and listen to them and to figure out if YouTube is not going to like what I'm saying there to penalize me and remove the video so if anyone listens to a video and hears me says something that can get me in trouble let us know we'll remove the video and because people are uh people are actually telling on us it's unbelievable people watch a video they report to YouTube minutes 37 and 20 seconds he said ABC if you hear I'm saying something that will get me in trouble let me know I'll take manually the video down but I'm on my last penalty with YouTube so I'm gonna do one more mistake they shut down completely the accounts thousands of videos millions of views tens of thousands of subscribers because I said something about somebody so unfortunately and now people tell me put it on Rambo put on it's all the same junk by the way by the way people think oh we're saved we have ramble and beetroot I mean the classiest trick of the deception is to pretend I'm like you and then I have you very close to me right if I want to have you close to me if I want to know who's my enemy I need to mark them very easy right we're going to have now for the 722 time elections right they want to know who you vote they have a profile on you so and the votes are all rigged anyways it's one big hoax but they know who you like they know who you vote they know your opinions that's why I told you that even the awake people are asleep because they don't even know that they're being turned around their finger as they're believing they're awake so the the I lost my Chain of Thought wasn't what I was saying a second ago before the elections ah when when the enemy wants to know an enemy when you want to know your enemy's status you don't fight him you bring him close to you right so I'll fight you I'll never get anything but if I become your friend you'll tell me all your secrets and I will know exactly where you're holding so that's what they're doing so don't think that big shoot and Rumble and all these websites are your friends they're Gathering the people like they did in concentration camps so the Concentration Camp right now is a website you're not surrounded with barbed wire so don't think that all the ones who are on your side are really on your side okay so this is not so easy to put people tell me put your videos here put your videos there it doesn't work we try it on a private I'm telling you a few ins okay last year I moved all my video to private servers in Brazil that cost a lot of money to move them and a lot of hours to do that so the videos will be safe on my personal server in the middle of nowhere that you'll never find I'm telling you it was Brazil okay and don't you think they found it hacked it and destroyed the survey and all the videos why do you think now it's smooth half the videos are not working go now to atsmooth.com half the videos that are under the silver membership you'll see video not available are you experiencing that I in the last two weeks I got like 5 000 emails because hidden servers were found hacked and destroyed so and if I tell that Donald per person Oh no you're you're neurotic you're crazy okay I see but that's the fact so I can't put videos wherever I want Point said that I preparing for a long long time I told you that many many classes uh I don't want to call it a course or whatever a series of classes and it's not only about Torah by the way I'm going to come to learn to love but you're going to learn many things most people don't know basic skills of minimal survival in any situation not talking about major things and needless to say listen we didn't discuss Juicy's information for two years two years ago if you remember we were sitting here and all day long so you know much information came up in the last two years that was not discussed online most people don't really know what's going on or even if they're they're hungry for inflammation I'll give you one thing okay you all know that you're trying to hurt agriculture it's that's already not a uh a secret burning Fields destroying crops and seeds poisoning poisoning whatever in the last few months if you haven't noticed the Chemtrails are different chemicals and the chemicals that they're using now are destroying home plants did you notice that you see remember two years ago when I planted all the some of you made fun of it when I planted all the flowers and stuff in my porch and everything remember it was all flowers and everybody was laughing at me wrapping up is becoming a gardener became a gardener I planted two flowers but the point is the whole thing was flowers and beautiful Lush Greenery check out my backyard does it look lash and green did they do anything different no everything I plant you look my daughter planted everything outside you saw the outside the entrance of the building half of what she planned tonight why why would he die because they're killing also a urban green how would you say the agriculture but home stuff destroying a Forest that's one thing I've been doing that for years but when you start destroying your your people's backyards then how are you going to grow your own vegetables in your own backyard when they don't have to come and do anything they just spray some chemicals this is facts go outside now to the to the entrance of this building rivka planted a few weeks ago a bunch of stuff half the stuff is grinded why how come half everything that I planted in my house nothing's wrong nothing is growing and if something is growing and you see also the deterioration of the quality of the fruit here I haven't had one good fruit this summer and besides the specific Farms that I know where to get specific things when you go here grapes are disgusting Tomatoes everything's disgusting and if you find good fruit then tell me where because we barely find good fruits because everybody is being hit from that so why am I saying that one needs to know how to avoid all these these uh challenges so you can grow your own fruit and filter your own water and and do whatever whatever you need to do so to cut a long story short Hashem at the right time in the right way will do whatever we need to do but the the the screws that I'm talking about I think it's going to be I don't think it's going to be very very amazing informative and all the rest of the stuff so if you are interested don't don't don't talk to me go to the the website of the cruise and we're going to see how we can see how to record the whole thing I can't hear well the thing is that you don't you never have a full control over it since it's not a lot of people I think it will be easier to well nobody's gonna do a background check but to kind of recognize who's coming the reality is that there is a very good chance that there's going to be some moles coming on the cruise but uh most guys will just uh feed the sharks but uh excuse me oops uh listen you you can't hide a hundred percent can't completely live under a shadow and but whatever listen I uh I think a lot of interesting information is going to be pulled out in public and the point is to get the right like-minded people all in the same uh not necessarily the same area but people people need to start a to networking because after Corona I started learning a lot of things so I'm not going to be dependent on anyone but the reality is that Hashem is going to make it that we are dependent on each other so one is the doctor one is a pharmacist one is a medicine medicine maker another person is uh works in the field another person everybody has some type of trade everybody has what to offer you need to know many things by yourself you need to be self-sufficient but Hashem is going to design it in a way that we depend on each other and I have to give you what I have and know you have to give me but you want to start making some type of a network in a community and and that's going to be sabotage too by the way don't think we are going to be the ones you know many probably hundreds of groups in the last three years have tried to form a group and groups try to go to the desert and grow to hear and do this and do that all the groups failed because all the groups get infiltrated by the other side and they they destroy the group there was a at the time of the green passport at the time they were organizing three four groups got together and they're organizing a big demonstration they were hoping to get a million people in Jerusalem against the vaccines and all that is the Secret Service and destroyed all the groups needless to say people got arrested there but they destroyed the whole organization of the groups under fake names and like fake accounts and all the rest of the stuff like I told you two years ago don't believe anything don't listen to anything nothing it's true Everything Is false and find your way in the dark foreign it's not as scary as it is because when I told you that five percent their eyes are open and they're actually awake those are the ones those are the ones who are the Hashem like their eyes then everything works out in all directions because that's the the the the candle of Hashem in the Darkness so just to go back to where we started so I I there's a more announcements I think I'm just going to cut it short so we can go to the next class and if the other announcements they'll just add them I had a few more but I don't remember right now so again pay attention to it if you want information about the the crews go to the website find information don't call me I don't know information call the people are organizing it and last but not least I just want to leave you with one quick message because I'm doing my own sugar uh uh during a little and every little is an interesting it's an interesting process because every law is different because one year I had to do Cuba for this and a different year I had to do chuva for that and one year was actually more successful spiritually and another thing was less successful spiritually so every rule is different but there's one rule that I constantly follow and if you follow this rule you'll probably be much more successful in your repentance in your chuva and you're preparing to watch and if you take this approach for the entire year or your entire life then that's a very very healthy uh uh productive way to better yourself so there is a quote in the talmud interacted a ruvin page 18. it says go after a lion and not after a woman now on the surface doesn't make sense I have to go after a line I'm a man I pursue or how would you say a nice way of going after a woman pursue okay why would I want to go after a lion a lion will turn around and eat me that's the common sense of I'm reading a quote why would I want to follow a line not to follow a woman so the answer is very simple the month of Av the Zodiac the sign of the month of Love is a lion the month of elul after the Zodiac the sign is a Virgo the woman our sages tell us go after the lion do the chuva after the line after us don't do it after the woman when the woman passes because after the woman you know what comes Libra scales and on Rosh Hashanah everything is on the scale I don't care what you did the entire year how good you were how bad you were because sometimes we're going to learn this right now in traveling sometimes you do a sin this big and you get punished like as if you did a sin like that for whatever reason so time of of elul is to do chura because after a lul your actions are put on the scale saying in other words you know you always have to weigh everything and I'm going to tell you a very personal story you might not like it many won't like it but I'll tell you and I'll explain myself and I'll be honest with you and blonde I don't care if people like it or not one time not too long ago I was introduced to a very important woman okay she wanted to meet me I was brought there and as I'm coming there to meet the lady she puts her hand out nice to meet you 99.99 of the times I say thank you I don't touch women's hand sometimes they make a joke over it sometimes they serious depending who's in front of me this woman took her hand out and my quick Instinct was to put my hand out and to shake her hand later on the person who brought me there he was like you have to explain to me why you did that he's like I'm impressed but why did you do that so I said hurting a person's feeling in public and insulting a person's feeling in public is worse than a minor thing that happens to be right now the minor thing that I decided to do is to shake her hand because it was done publicly and everything I mean was on cameras it was a certain situation that my quick decision was I rather fail in shaking a woman's hands and to fail in hurting her insulting her and greatening the damage in a way that that's actually a real Sin okay I can find you all the loopholes not only to find loopholes they can find you all the sources that I can touch a woman okay if I need to as the wording in the Allah you heard that once in Allah don't do that but if you have to yeah means you'll find the source that you can count on and this is the exact same level I told you that story many times at the time of the semester this is the third generation lineage in Chabad right this grandson of the balotanya at the time of the time at there was a lot of issues with the with the Russian what was his name I forgot the name doesn't matter there was a with there was a lot of issue of the Russian how do you say the Tsar I forgot his name is Alexander no there was somebody local doesn't matter it's not important the point was that he came and he took all the boys from truly a result of the army okay 12 year old you go to the Army I think for 40 years something like that 45 years thanks till 45. at 25. long story show they took all the Jewish boys I want to make the story short because I told you that a thousand times they took all the Jewish boys and they were more camps and so forth so the temer saidek used to send his khasidim to those camps and to you know come with me tomorrow bring them some some kosher food whatever so one time they uh they said to the messenger we have a very important question that you have to bring over to the rabbi and we're going to do whatever he tells us but we don't know what to do she says okay what's your question so they say they're feeding us here pork on purpose should we not eat the pork refuse to eat the pork and die on kids Hashem because they'll kill us or should we eat the pork so of course he went to the questions said very clearly eat the pork but don't lick your fingers you have to eat it it's a greater sin to die for not eating pork you'll be judged for that you're only allowed to kill to get killed for idol worship forbidden relations and bloodshed right so pork eat it but don't enjoy it don't lick your fingers ah man I'm sinning sometimes you have to do a sin to prevent a greater sin that's what I mean when they have to weigh everything if you weigh everything in your life then then you always not always but most likely most of the times you'll do the right thing when I say just stay don't follow follow the line and don't follow the lady then we finish with the line Ave is over the heat is over energy changed besides that I told you already the energy of the Moose is worse enough at the moves is the worst monthly love I was a good month but I was passed then don't wait to follow the lady because that's what happens three days before Rosh Hashanah everybody remembers what they didn't do I didn't do this they didn't do that you know that last Rosh Hashanah minutes before Rosh Hashanah I pulled out a piece of paper and I wrote down minutes before Rosh Hashanah everything that I regretted that I did that year everything that I was happy and satisfied that I did the last year everything that I want to do the next coming year everything I don't want to do the next coming I mean I I wrote a long list of things I just remember that a few days ago so later on I'm gonna pull out that piece of paper and see what I planned myself for the coming year and if I achieved it in the last 11 and a half months I can tell you already that probably half the list that I made it didn't it didn't come out I didn't do it but I can tell you as a Libra I'm a Libra if you know how to weigh things right you know how to juggle good and bad in the right way and yes sometimes you have to you have to go down you have to sin degrade yourself whatever but it's I don't want to say for the greater good okay but it's for a much more important cause and now it's not the class if you want I'll do it another time and I'll point out all the places in history when one of our greatest leaders decided to do a sin so in order to prevent the bigger sin so what you want to do on on on elul [Music] I heard it sorry I'm gonna I I just remembered I heard a beautiful story from that once he was invited to some Museum or something and what they did is they covered all the walls with the how do you call it when there's little Stones mosaic they covered all the walls with Mosaic about the zodiac signs and it was a secular place so they made it look like interesting like not you know so traditional so you didn't recognize the the shapes so he tells them what's that so they tell them that's a lamb the Zodiac lamb so it's like oh okay and then he sees some something weird and he says what's that so they tell him it's a Libra he's like oh I did I didn't recognize because it was probably like uh very modern or something so he says something so interesting he says the lamb the tele will always come before pesach why to to remind us about the koban pesach and the scale will always come before Rosh Hashanah to remind us that all our good things are being put on the scale and all the bad things are being put on the scale you can have 99 good things but one bad thing can tip the scale so bad but that works both ways you can have a lot of bad things that you did this year three four good acts are placed on the scale and the whole scale tilts favorably foreign healthy happiness life just sway everything the right way put everything on a scale you have to be very in Hebrew it's called shakul in English I don't know the way the word because shakul is something that was weighed and it's not said on something that it's a sunset on somebody that is a calm it's set on somebody that is very calculated in Hebrew the word is shakul okay the translation if I take the action word I can say how would you say waited in the past how would you say past tense for weight no let's say forget people I weighed my suitcase before I I boarded the plane Wade so it's the same weight ah so it's in Hebrew it's you have the past tense so what I'm saying the word in Hebrew is either past tense that I I already waited or for an individual that very there's a word in English forgive me not calculated that knows to put right away everything on the scale what's the benefit what's the what's going to come going to be good what's going to be bad if you apply that to Your Arsenal you you'll be successful person and you'll be happy and calm and and not get into any situations because you know when to press on the gas and when to release and when to be strong and when to be weak and when to be firm and when to be loving and when to be completely this way or completely that way sometimes you know you can look at such a person he's saying this is like uh how do you say a gecko how do you call the lizard the thing changes the colors chameleon thank you the other day listen I'm a very tough father I'm very loving I give my kids everything I love them I'm they're my best friends I I I keep them very close to me but in a switch like that I become like uh I don't want to say like watch that's what that video says it's not a tribe it is a tribe Chevy is a staff let me Shane it is this the back of the chair says your staff when you hit me but also your mission both are my conference I need both I need your staff and I need your your what I lean on so I do the same thing with my kids so the other day my daughter did something bad the volume went up and I gave a show and a half and a second later I turned around go to the kitchen and she's like looking at me like that and uh and and we had a guest at home and I said it's all a show you know man it's just the show my daughter needs to see a firm father putting his foot down and raising his voice but it's a show that a second later the frowning phrase became smiling she didn't see that right she turned around and left and somebody was there and said you really think I got upset it's a show so you need to know constantly how to weigh things and knowing how to weigh things the right way is know when to give in when to back off when to shut your mouth when to move away and when sometimes there sometimes to do a decision you know now I my son just got his driver's license amen thank you may Hashem protect him I now I understand with older people told me that they they have kids that drive and they're very worried now I understand but anyways luckily in Israel they have a law that when you get your driver's license for the first half a year you have to drive with an adult I didn't even know how they let us get into a car when you're 16 and just take off so I'm teaching my I taught my daughter now teaching my son and I see that the driving lessons they're very basic they don't know how to drive they don't really know how to drive why am I telling you that because I'm constantly I have to teach my son this is how you pass cars this is how you do this don't move Lanes don't do this cars can't see you from here don't go do it don't do this but constantly I'm teaching him that on the road you are going to run into situations that you have two seconds to decide how are you crashing the car are you crashing the car on the wall not to kill the this pedestrian are you crashing the car off the ditch not to run into that car and kill a family how are you crashing the car you have two seconds to think about it I'm I'll tell you a personal story that you know I used to drive trucks 30 25 years ago I had a trucking company I used to drive tractor trailers in America and one time I had to make a decision like that was either running a few cars over I came very fast 80 000 pounds of weight uh and I was probably like I don't know 80 miles an hour you know what 80 pounds of weight driving at you at 80 miles an hour and suddenly you know how it is on a highway that suddenly there's traffic within a split second I see cars traffic at about three seconds to think either I'm going straight and I'm probably going to iron 15 cars all right I mean I'm gonna go over them and and kill them oh I have to pull the whole track with me off the road and I will probably get hurt and car check and everything you have two three seconds to think about it you know what I mean and the right decision you saved 40 people's lives I would I will I will demolish 20 cars easily that's how fast I came and you come in with weight and it's not it's not a matter of whose fault it is it's that that's the fact right now so it was a split second to take the track off the road and turn over with the chocolate so I'm telling my kid the same thing sometimes you have two seconds to decide not how to save yourself is which damage is going to be less here or here am I smashing the car on a wall or am I smashing no car on a on a going down a ditch and like this is like this and everything in life sometimes you have two seconds to react and most times you react wrong now sometimes you don't react you think you reacted the right way you come home and you're like I should have said this so the recommendation and advice that I have to give you is learn how to weigh things the right way and if you know how to weigh things the right way you are minimizing the chances of failure and in most of the situations you'll be able to kind of walls over all situations without getting bad reactions you know one of the most severe sins in the Torah is stealing through weight right when it says in the Torah a lot ignore the Torah wasn't very specific about what not to steal it doesn't say what not to steal just says don't steal it doesn't say specific things but commentary says right away ceiling uh uh nephesh I'm stealing somebody's Soul kidnapping whatever but nevertheless all the stealing is prohibited now go and ask now an average individual uh you know I take it back not an average individual I learned Torah observing Jew hey not really learning maybe average and ask them and why am I saying that specific question in that example because I with my own ears heard that numerous times are you the Torah says you know to steal right now Ten Commandments am I allowed to steal from magenta why would you think that I'm even allowed to I'm allowed to steal from a dog no I'm not allowed to steal it doesn't matter from who and even if you steal weapons from the Hezbollah you might be still accounted for the stealing yeah but it's a their organization and install the weapons to save my life okay we'll weigh that but you still stole but that's when I'm willing to do a sin for something much greater I'm willing to take the theft charge me with the theft and don't think it won't be charged by the way but in Shaman they might weigh it and be like ah okay you actually stole the weapons to save your in other people's lives so we'll we'll remove the theft but the reality is that you're judged for everything Master how to judge things because I told you in in the Torah Hashem really doesn't look good at a person that tricks in way in a scale okay I know it seems like a minor sin Hashem doesn't like it it's because it's more than stealing it's more than guessing you have to get into the mind frame the entire year but do it during a lull put it to the test put it to action is that you putting everything on the scale I woke up today in the morning my wife came into my office not in a good mood she said something not so pleasant right away the alarms go off put it on the scale don't answer don't answer right now don't react you hurt you're upset put it on the scale that's it because the reaction that I was about to say and and forgive me that I'm giving you for example for my personal life I don't have examples from other people's lives I only have my life and my wife signed a document that she's agreeing that I will tell about her in my classes my reaction to that in the morning was something along the line like good morning to you too something like that but after being on the scale for three seconds I was like it's gonna annoy her it's going to make her more upset I don't know what what was in the morning I don't know something she loved broke I don't know somebody said to do something you know I I just see an angry face so if I would say good morning to you too or some stupid comment like that that won't fly well at all maybe in other times it will a different type of reaction needed and one might say oh probably the best reaction would be to in Hebrew a focus upside down upside down upside down to come and hug her and tell her I love her but not those don't always work you know it says in the mishnah so when a person is real Angry don't try to calm him down move it doesn't say in the mishna I tell you move away tells you you see the person is angry don't try to come to please him don't worry it's be okay the person is angry right now just leave him be so the reaction that I chose after being on the scale was a total different reaction and the reaction just for the Curious ones of you was just in a nice turn what upset you this morning anything that I can answer help guide or two and I take it off your shoulders what got to you this morning that's it three seconds on the scale prevented Slumber tissues because I could have turned around and say something you know nice and even notes are not something not nice something is good morning to you too or whatever I don't have to tell you we all been into relationships and this is one example of five thousand weighing everything putting it on the scale will give you the true outcome but now there's a side note that is very important most scales are not true you have to I'm not sure I'm telling you most skills are not accurate and they're not true physically but your skill has to be honest you can't you can't diverse the trial to whatever is good for you you will always find all the excuses why to do something you want to do yesterday again I'm bringing up my wife we had a discussion about the laws of Separation while the husband and wife are well the wife is Nida and the husband and wife have to be separated she read some book excuse me she wrote a book she asked me a question we started discussing it and she didn't ask it as wondering why she can't do it she was asking it as a question for her why is it so bad that when the woman is down that the husband and wife it should be so distant because too many they take the extreme that while the wife is Nida Nida means that the wife has recycled and the husband and wife are separated that the husband and wife are not even like barely talk not nice to each other no and not like mean or rude but when I was a young husband a rabbi that taught I didn't like him I moved to a different Rabbi but the rabbi that I went to talk to learn about the laws of Nida he was telling me things that I I I think he had added that and I didn't like I understand don't touch your wife when she's neither and don't be close or loving but he was like you can't even give her a compliment you can't even say a nice thing and I was like no no no no no no no no me saying to my wife accomplishment that's not breaking any rules that's maybe a humra it's good for you go ahead but anyways so we were discussing uh the severity and the importance of all the rules my and what not to do while the husband and wife are separated and the answer was very very quick and I told my wife the second at the first gate is open the first line of defense is open you'll find all the excuses why to justify your desire or your action so our Sage is not for nothing new how to build the the fences to build the fence is not a big deal is how to build the fence I have a dog I have a two but somebody told me build a fence and I send my job my dog jumps over it the fence won't work so what would the fence work so not always the fences work and sometimes his defenses are very easily you build a fence sorry let me rephrase it you build your own friends but you build it it will be easy to jump over it okay that's it so when I had to build a fence for the dogs I said okay I'll Build It Low you're happy here's your fence you didn't achieve nothing because the dogs will jump over the fence but I built a fence I made you happy so you have to understand that's why I told my wife if there's a sin France and you're bending it you're cracking it and you're going through it you'll find all the excuses all the rabbis in the world you'll find how to justify your own action so just don't do it just keep yourself in the perimeter of where you're safe so alone again I I recommend you to to take this to the rest of your life not just for a loon but knowing how to weigh everything and when you're doing chuva yeah you put your sins in one side put your mitzvot on the other side and and weigh it wait see where you're holding now you don't know you can do one sin that will be great worse than a thousand uh vice versa we don't know but the point is that we all want to be blessed with a good year we want to be blessed with true happiness with true Health strong Health our livelihood should be easy you should not stress over livelihood our kids should go on our path and and we all want good things health wealth whatever it is so I will wish you already a happy I don't want to say Happy New Year but take the next three weeks to really apply your time in elul there's so much information online I'm sure there's enough information to keep your entire month busy but I like more practical it's not just learning and reading we read every year the king is in the field we're very excited and okay what are you doing about it so the king is in the field what did you do the last 30 years not to insult anybody but I you know do something Hashem already shifted the entire universe that he's not impressed by Bob kiss he wants to see the little acts that a person is really putting their effort to so you really want to take this time I know it's hard there's a lot a lot of spiritual pressure there's heavy energy in the world right now before they go out hard to get your your yourself up I know that it's not you it's it's the status of the world right now very hard to get up and to do chuba so use my little trick and every little thing that you do put it on a little scale and try it and you'll see that it works so you'll fail a few times but when you weigh everything the right way I can also give you a little end that the kadoshburg who sees that you're busy with that and that gives you credit points I had an argument with somebody not too long ago uh I'm not gonna tell the whole story but on one side was a religious man that was born religious from day one never ate something not Kosher never desecrated Shabbat never was in a mixed crowd women and women never anything okay a real foreign that's not the definition of real but uh a very religious man and on the other side was another religious man but about juva that's for 20 30 years God knows what he did and now he's uh struggling not every day he wakes up to the minion and on every day he makes it to the minion he prays at home and not every day he is he's not the other one was like a machine never misses anything never late to Dominion everything is like a lot of other guys trying his hard his hardest and the argument was who's a better like who is a better model as a individual as a God-fearing individual not personally because that we don't know and I said of course the the other one the guy who's baluchova this guy is like a like a robot it's it's from day one he doesn't know how it tastes here he doesn't want to he doesn't even have the desire it's a totally different breed of a Jew but to my opinion based on many sources the other one is more favorable in the eyes of Hashem and not because he's successful or he's failing because he tries that's it the other one doesn't need to do anything it comes in natural that guys puts effort wants his effort that's it that's what Hashem wants to see the efforts the struggle he wants to see that you failed 50 times and succeeded once that's the greatness for the ones who are watching online share the video like it subscribe do all these things I heard it helps I'm gonna wish you shanata because we'll go back to regular schedule of classes it's a very very powerful time not only on the year because it's a little it's a powerful time in the time limit of the world take advantage of it should bless you with all the good things and we'll see you in their future classes in the meantime I'll take the opportunity to issueva [Music]