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The secret of Adar Alef! What do we know about this 13th month? - Rabbi Alon Anava

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[Music] this coming Shabbat is going to bees just that this year we have a little bit of a change since we are celebrating two months of Adar what is called a leap year sh every few years if we looking on our calendar an extra month is being added to the 12 months of the year which is of course Adar Al big question which one is added ad Al or ad is always the dominating one Al is the addition on a regular year Adar when there's only one Adar then there's no additions and there's no issue in the year in the leap year when there's two adars then the second Adar Adar bet is always going to be the original one so if somebody was born on on ad and it's two years and it's for B Mitzvah purposes and birthdays we always go by the original which will be a darit which again somebody contacted me not too long ago uh to do a certain event this coming next week for zadar the birthday of Moshe and I told him we're doing it the second Adar no no no we have to do it now I said but we're doing it on the second Adar that's the seventh ofar of mosu but nevertheless the second Adar is always going to be the original one what's interesting here is that this concept is called sh in Hebrew it's not called a leap year in Hebrew it's called the pregnant year which makes it a completely different ER focus and for sure a different meaning now what does it mean uh uh a pregnant year or pregnancy what what is the concept behind it that the month the months of the year on the Jewish calendar correspond to the moon it's called Moon months and why because they go by the cycle of the moon sometime the moon is full sometimes is Moon the month is full some time the month is missing so we'll have in the 29 days in the month and 30 days in the month but the months of the year and so forth they go in the cycle of the moon what happens is that the 12 months of a lunar cycle or lunar months they're not equal to Sun months the time of the Sun that is turning around is 365 days in the year and if you take the 12 months time them the 29 or the 30 days per month you don't get to 365 days so you're missing days if we're going together in a cycle of the moon and the sun together I'm talking about cycle when they turn around and complete a full cycle so lunar time is much less than suntime suntime is 365 days of the year so we're missing days every couple years we have to add a month to catch up on these days that's the concept of the sh and filling the the the missing days because if you calculate it with a calculator or with your head or it doesn't matter and you'll do the calculation in a year of the full months and the missing months 29 days and 30 days you're not going to get to 360 days 365 days in the year even if you have full months of 30 days that's already 360 days so you already missing five days and there's no such thing as full months every year we always have some months that are full some months that are not full I'm not talking about a full moon and a not full moon I'm talking about that we celebrate 30 days in the month and we celebrate 29 days in the month so the concept of the leap year or the sh is every few years to catch up to catch up that the days of the months the days and the months of the moon and the sun cycle we'll meet together okay very simple now behind that stands a a secret of course a a mystical secret a message and this is called in our terms s the secret of the I now for you it might be familiar because we've been learning about I impregnation in shulim for the last two years so it's the same thing it's the same impregnation it's the same concept same word but behind it stands some type of a secret this is called sod I if you're looking at the entire cycle and we want to analyze it we always going to have a cycle of 19 years 19 years cycle which if you are H H comparing it to the the the cycle of a Jewish calendar and a gorgian calendar then it's the same thing they'll meet every 19 years the your birthday will be on the same day which means if I was born on October 10 every 19 years they'll meet right because my birthday is the Hebrew birthday and the non Hebrew birthday always they never meet every 19 years they meet why 19 years 19 years is the cycle of the pregnancy of the impregnation and in that cycle 7 years will always be pregnant will always be a leap year so we're going in cycles of 19 years that within the 19 years there's always going to be seven leap years and there's a a a set order it's not that it changes so it's every third year every six year every 8 years every 11 years 14 17 and 19 that's the the the the order and it never changes Now by 19 we not going to get a full answer why 19 but we're going to get some hints here that are pretty interesting about the cycle of 19 19 is the numerical value of the name Kaba the first woman that was ever pregnant in this world so we already see some type of a concept of pregnancy already corresponding and connected to the first woman in the world okay that's the first thing now why is it a h looked at or H called pregnancy okay could have been called many other things but specific L pregnancy so the the year of the moon and the year of the sun they're not together but when they meet like a man and a woman then there's pregnancy so there's some type of I and impregnation when the moon and the sun meet together beyond that comes even a more interesting question out of nowhere we're getting another month now if you've been following me and I'm sure uh some other teachers online and or you learn yourself when we learn about the months in the last decade they always explain for every month is a certain energy a certain sign from the Zodiac corresponding to one of the tribes corresponding to one of the senses and a letter that creates the the month through theph I mean I mean so many things that are set for each month and we know that each month is a total different total different colorful colorful entity so I don't know where we're getting a 13th month now comes up all the questions how how are we suddenly adding this addition that seems completely not in order and now what's going to happen is AD Al created with the same letter that what says that is created which tribe what's the sense so something's like kind of stuck in between out of nowhere we don't do anything much different on a leap year just that we have another month the concept is a little bit unclear so we need to find out what's behind the Adar Al because this coming Saturday on this Shabbat is now it's not thees because the second is always the original so the of this year which will be in a month that's the dominating rodes so thises is I wouldn't say less different and then I have a whole month of an additional month like an additional creation what's standing behind it okay I I understand understand the lunar and sun cycle but must be something a little bit more deeper than that so first of all as I have taught many times and many of you already know the teachings of the book of formation theph or the book of creation some people quite different it says that every month was created with a certain letter a letter of the Jewish alphabet which of course we know Are Spiritual tools of the master of the universe for revealing a certain type of light here the letter K was used and it was created and it created the month of so again we see here another interesting hint because if you're counting on the alphabet the letter K what number is it on the alphabet 19 if we're already stuck on the 19 then might as well be stuck on the 19 the whole way so the letter K that creates created the the month of AD happens to be the 19th letter on the alphabet if you count it now we do know that and again based on the teachings of seph that the the emotion the sense of the month of ad is laughter to to remind the ones who maybe weren't in the classes but we we are familiar with five senses really there are 12 senses and every months has a sense that is connected to that months and the sense that's connected to ad is laughter now what do we get we get 60 days of laughter instead of 30 days of Happiness we get 60 nothing wrong now if we're going one month back to the month of shat the letter that was used to create the month ofat is the letter sadik okay every month has a letter the secret of the connection of is very interesting the uh 19th letter on the alphabet isad is K that means that the 18th letter on the alphabet is sadik if you put them together 18 and 18 and 19 then you get a numerical value of 37 which is the numerical value of the name Heaven the son OFA the first well not the first but the one of the first born CH children of Kaba and more than that if you take the sadik of shat and you connect to it the K of Adar because they're back to back right ad shat finishes Adar enters so the the sadik and the K are connected the sense of ad is laughter so when you put in between these months another element then you get the laughter and what's the element is the letter the letter why the letter why I can add why because when you laugh at least in Hebrew what do you do right right even now in our generation that everything is abbreviations and emojis and all that one time I sent a message to my daughter and she sent me three KS back like and I was like that doesn't sound nice that sounds like another word that St starts with the word with the letter which in English will start with a letter S I was like why are you answering me like that she was like no that's like haaha like LOL so I was like okay so but nevertheless that's not invented for no reason because it's true that's what our Tor says that the laughter how does the laughter will be pronounced in letters or in English you do so when you add the between the sadik and the K you get you get laughter so laughter is good everything is great to laugh I know we all like laughing that's why I try to be not so serious uh most of the time like I mentioned many many times people have an image of Me based on what they see on the camera they don't know I'm completely different person on the camera I'm serious I have to be serious we're talking about Tor and we're talking about the end of mankind and all these things but really I'm a I'm aik you know that's what you call it in Hebrew I like laughing laughing is very good I go out of bad situations with laughing because there's something very powerful with laughter so lucky for us now we have two months of laughter the problem is that most people go after the laughter that is called heav heav laughter that is empty it's not real laughter it's all that laughing Shalom with somebody else you know the most watched videos on social media are videos of people falling crashing breaking their bones all these that's the most popular videos that you'll find on Instagram Tik Tok Facebook why cuz people people find it funny when other people fall and and things happen and and the reality is that people are constantly looking to some type of a uh happiness now if you don't get happiness true happiness from your soul then you look for nonsense to give you a quick laugh to make you happy for 3 seconds and that's it so it's not real laughter or definitely not good laughter and uh really the reality is that smartest man in history says clear that laughter in many times can be negative SCH says in Co chapter 2 verse 2 of laughter I said it is mingled and concerning Joy what does this accomplish so according to SCH this this laughter is not such a good thing it's not such a good thing where do you get a certain example that it's not good you know a man a woman they work hard they finish their job at 6:7 in the evening that's a kind of customary in many many places in the world where do they go to the bar to the bar to get a few drinks and relax and talk and that's pretty normal in most countries in Israel it's not so normal it's not such a we don't have alcoholic ER attitude in Israel but in many other places that I lived that's a normal thing I lived in Canada that was a normal thing I lived in Australia total normal thing I lived in Denmark total normal thing you finish work you go to the bar you drink 12 Beers come home like that so you can deal with reality and what do you do with in the bar you laugh okay so that's uh one example out of many that the laughter can be negative in many times in Our Generations it's less of ours it's more Netflix and other stuff like that people come home glued to a screen and they they need to be entertained by fake shows so what we need to make a very important point is that laughter is a very important and good thing but laughter can also be H negative where do we also see that laughing in the Torah is a negative thing if you're going to the story of Ishmael and and and if you remember that Ishmael was a bad influence of on it and Sarah didn't like that came to abrah aino and told him get rid of this woman and what does it say in the Torah that is and is was now when you're reading it it sounds like oh great he was having fun no no no no no ishma was doing illegal immoral and bad things and the Torah called it he's doing jokes and it's it's kind of funny because in in the Hebrew the slang is when you want to make fun of somebody or when you're doing something that is it can be legal immoral or just not the right thing in Hebrew it's called to make laughter you know in English it's the you don't hang out with a friend say hey let's let's make laughter won't make sense in Hebrew that's how you would say let's H do like uh mischievous things or bad things it's called let's do funny things or let's do so the Torah also called the interaction of and is is as laughter negative another placees you find in the Tor in the golden cfel look in the Tor it says the same thing it's calling it like when you you you making fun of something so first red light that you need to understand that not everything that causes you to laugh is healthy and good H in general laughter is a very important thing it's important to laugh every day you do whatever you need to do that you make sure that you laugh either you tell tell of jokes or watch a show that makes you laugh or whatever it is it's extremely important to laugh and to be in a joyful State and I can tell you already that in all the bad situations that I was ever in I went out of it with with humor and la and laughter and I don't need to tell you how many researches and and and information are out there how joy and laughter helps a sick person a person in a bad situation so laughter is very very good but we're now focusing on laughter that is negative so when I want to acquire we'll call it now positive laughter which you can call it Joy you can call it happiness you can call it however you want I will choose to call it positive happiness or positive laughter because I can be very very very happy which if you focus on me being very very happy I can be very happy both from something negative and something positive normal is that you're happy from something positive but how many times are you happy because you heard something negative about something else somebody else then you're very happy if somebody would ask you why are you happy right now and you would have to title it you would say some did a car accident and that's what's making you happy well I hate the person that did the accident so it makes me extremely happy so that's not positive laughter this is not something positive I see somebody falling on the floor and breaking their their their bones and happens to me that I dislike them so I'm happy the Mish tells you don't rejoice when your enemy fall okay don't go that way don't don't go that there that you are wishing for something bad to happen to your enemy and your enemy can be your mother I'm not talking about I'm talking about your neighbor your spouse your child that now in the argument is your enemy or the disagreement don't be happy when your enemy is falling or losing that's the will of hem and in a second Hashem can flip it and you'll be on the the falling side so happiness and laughter Joy can in a second go from good to bad so how do I find the real good positive laughter because I want to be a positive individual I want to be happy and joyful so I will constantly look for for for that and by the way 50 to 90% of your actions in your life Life is In Search Of Happiness so that in itself is a big I don't even know how to define it cuz what I was about to say is not not wouldn't come out nice in English in Hebrew it's how we would say it in English you have to excuse me but uh running constantly after happiness that's as they say in slang a a big but and that's the reality is most people run all day long after happiness and it doesn't matter how they do it legal illegal moral imoral good bad according to the Torah permitted in the Torah it doesn't matter most of our actions every day every week every month is pursuing happiness looking for happiness nobody wants to be sad nobody wants to be depressed and we all have that depending of course of the elemental structure of the soul of each one of us but a person that has a very dominating element of Earth in their n they're going to be their tendency is going to be going for depression and sadness like sand that you put in water the sand always goes down the element of Earth always will pull a person down and we all have it it's not that one is different than the other one have more and some have less and then of course it depends on the surrounding of the person and how much chemical imbalance they have in their body from all the junk they're being they they consumed in the last 50 years of their life needless to say chemicals radiation food and the rest of the junk that we are attacked with one would not be surprised that half the world are depressed not because something wrong with them it's because all the elements that are being opposed on us that will cause a person to be depressed that's it that's part of the goal by the way to get the whole world numb so they can sell them the magic potion to make you happy whether it's ZX or whatever it is ecstasies it doesn't matter it's the fact that I need something to make me happy for 10 hours and then I run after another one and it doesn't matter if it's chemicals if it's a from the earth doesn't it doesn't matter if it's it's swallowed in a pill or inheld with a drag it doesn't matter most most people in the world need something to focus themselves in a way of being relaxed calm happy and content I'm not pointing fingers at anybody in Fr trying to find who's guilty we're placing a fact that the majority of people are not really happy uh they blame it of course of what happens around them I don't have money I don't have a spouse I don't have kids I don't have a place to live I don't have this I don't have that that's the blame to why I'm not happy which of course can cause you to be very uncomfortable but I I I I I was homeless for half a year I wasn't unhappy I was in situations that are very bad I was in a uh not in a good place but not unhappy or depressed your physical situation can affect your happiness but shouldn't and doesn't have to you choose what affects your reality I mean literally I've been in places in my life that one should jump out of a window but I didn't never let it affect my inner peace which if you have Inner Peace by default you're happy and if you are that centered you are happy even with the bad things cuz you understand that's the path you have to walk on to get to the next station to the next step that's what you need to do so the right attitude is to seek for the true laughter I can make you laugh now in a second if you want right you've been to enough classes you know that if I let go I'll make you laugh that was my job for the last 50 years I was always the how do you say the the what pound that's for sure my poor my poor teachers what I used to do I used to crack the the class up you can't even imagine how far I would go but but H now I was about to say something else now I lost my Chain of Thought but I I I I I might seem like a very serious individual I'm I'm I'm not uh yeah Class Clown ER I I always looked for exciting things that as we say in Hebrew is let's laugh like real laugh it's sad that in our generation the laughter comes through through a screen it's on one way it's a genius plan for the ones who planned it but it's sad to see that that's where people get their happiness now if it's not from a stupid video in Tik Tok of a a person falling from a I don't know what from on a bicycle or whatever whatever junk they have there so if that's not your thing then you get peace and your entertainment from all these shows on Netflix they're done geniusly unbelievable stories quality I I can easily see how people are glued to the screen all day long and now every now and then I I deep my legs in cold water to see what's going on I see how Netflix can be the the center of a life of a person needless to say what junk ideas are being implanted in that person person but nevertheless so we can continue one needs to constantly focus on how do I find that positive laughter if you're sad right now cuz you got fired or your boyfriend left you or you lost money or whatever it is H some people will go to find their their uh happiness right away to a meal chocolate whatever it is another person will go to drugs another person will go to another woman every person will go to wear their getting their fix so to say but very few will say how can I get true happiness so I can forget about the event that just happened the loss of the money the loss of a loved one whatever it is where do you go then you have to go to the source and of course the source is the Torah there's no other way to find the source for anything so if we're going to the Tor as a source what is the source of laughter in the Torah our forefather first time that laughter is mentioned in the Torah s says that in the laughter made for me in his in his name 75% of the name is laughter move the you have so the source of laughter in the Torah is which is a little bit of an irony because Corr responds to is how is that laughter I would take it maybe yob or AB but is laughter but nevertheless as I've saidak was the first time the Tora is talking about joy and happiness when isak was born what did Sarah say God has made joy for me whoever hears Will Rejoice over me you know what happened when was born the zor says that thousands and thousands of barren women got pregnant thousands of people who were sick got healed thousands of people who were blind started seeing in the with the birth of so Sarah said whoever hears that is was born Will Rejoice over me so the birth of it brought unbelievable Joy to the World joy happiness and so forth so laughter comes in connection with the first birth of saru our first matri not that we already passed that but the first B first birth birth of Sarah so Sarah is our beginning of our chain our first matriarch that's the first birth in the Jewish Nation okay let's call it the first birth in the Jewish Nation that's and to top on that that's not a regular pregnancy that's not a 30-year-old woman having a child that's a 90-year-old woman having a child getting pregnant from a 100y old man that's not a regular birth that's not a regular pregnancy to a point that Hashem had to make it look exactly like Abraham ainu that nobody will say that that SAR got pregnant for from you remember Sarah was by hasem made look exactly like AB that nobody will come and say oh she was with is the son of so the birth of Beyond nature it's not a normal birth needless to say the people in the generation who looked up to Abraham ainu Abraham ainu was a celebrity everybody looked up to Abraham ainu him having a child was like a celebration of the Century as they say no such joy and the reality is that abrah ainu did throw a big party and abrah aino I'm not joking when I'm saying he was a celebrity abrah aino he's already 9 100 years old that's after that's after all the stories he was already Chief Rabbi of the world yeah either people liked him or didn't but he everybody liked him who wanted to even deal with him can you imagine abrah ainu going with 3170 men and defeating four huge armies who wanted who had the the the courage to even look in his eyes so he was literally one of the top top top leaders of the world it's almost like you'll ask now anyone in the world who's the president of the United States they might laugh a little bit before that but they'll say Biden because he's a I was about to say a great leader no he's a leader of a great nation so everybody knows the leader happens to be here it's not so great but uh that's the Americans problems not my problems I have enough leaders in this country to deal with I need to deal with other leaders but nevertheless uh abrah aino was a dominating figure so the birth of was a massive event more than that if you're taking the concept there is the idea of the joy coming to the mother after birth and I'm not talking about that she's finally happy she got rid of the of the over overweight cargo there's certain Joy I had the the the Merit the honor to welcome seven souls to the world so I always looked at the face of my wife the relief I can't even imagine the relief of having a child coming out stuck in your body for 9 months okay the first few months you don't feel it but the the other half being stuck with that overweight cargo bumping into things can't sleep it's like you can't even see your feet feet and then pushing it out so H but nevertheless H every time I would look look at my wife's face and see Joy like real joy and she would like stick it into me she was like you'll never feel that Joy I was like I don't need to feel this joy in Hebrew we say when we're talking about a a bee don't give me your honey and don't give me your sting okay so I don't need this Joy famous verse in that we read we're going to read ones of explaining us the joy of a mother is of course chapter 113 what we read in Hallelujah right the the the he seats Barren women of the House of the house as a happy mother of children 113: 99uah referring to this deep joy that a mother gets after delivering the child now when we want to find the positive laughter then I need to know how to recognize the negative laughter if not I will be confused and swallow the wrong pill how do I recognize empty laughter or or this negative laughter that it's called emptiness there's nothing there there there's a as as a coet will say heaven it's air that's how you recognize the negative laughter if it doesn't have anything behind it says in in chapter 7 verse six he says for the sound of the Thorns under the pot so is the laughter of the fool and this too is Vanity and again I'm not so crazy about the English how it said in lash KES is the right way that the the this L this laughter is Vanity and if you're looking at most of the things that causes people happy happiness and joy in this life is Vanity is a new handbag for $1,500 or new shoes for9 900 shekels or whatever it is there's nothing wrong with buying nice clothes I also wear nice clothes but I won't spend five times five times the much the the the the the amount because it has a name on it or some logo or something like that and how many people find their joy and happiness with buying new clothes and all the accessories that come with that and again nothing wrong with spoiling yourself nothing wrong with being dressed beautiful and there's definitely nothing wrong with wearing expensive clothes that means you're wearing good quality but it all has to be done in a normal manner in a normal manner the other day I don't know even where it was somebody bought something I don't remember what they told me this shirt is 1500 shekels okay that's exaggerating 1,500 shekels for a t-shirt 400 shekels for a beautiful dress shirt 1,500 shekels for a dress for t-shirt cuz it had a name on it that's the vanity dressed nice is not vanity the problem is that our life is surrounded with this vanity with this nonsense all day long I'm not going to give you enough example sorry I'm not going to give any examples you you you if you don't see that then then that's already a problem the true happiness that you're seeking for by the way is the birth of something new you seek happiness you have to seek for a birth of something new that's where the happiness will be if you are not feeling happiness right now from the fact that you're breathing or that you are alive or that you can walk or that you have teeth and you can chew or they can have you have eyes and you can see and you have kids or a house to live in or or whatever job you have if you're not jumping up and down from that you have a serious issue with yourself but I'm nobody to intervene in your life but if I'm already looking for happiness then I need to search for New Beginnings for something new that was born and to do that I have to uh jump out of my Dimension and to go into a different type of Dimension the dimension that is called time now I'm not in the dimension of time because I'm bound to it if I'm bound to time then I'm not in that Dimension imagine how you jump into the dimension of time a different reality okay the dimension of time that's the what's called sod The Secret of this impregnation and I'll explain explain myself but when I I had 20 plus years ago my own H experience one of the first dominating things that I felt after feeling my soul jumping out of my body and go to all my videos I is it's not something that I'm inventing you'll hear me saying that forbid in every lecture that one of the first things that I felt is that there's no time the first thing that I felt there was complete darkness there was nothing no no existence wasn't Darkness black it was just darkness now will come another hard way to explain my daughter asked me the other day what was before the world was created so I told her nothing so she said so it was just dark said why do you think nothing is dark she was like because if there was nothing there it was all black right dark I said why are you coming up with the idea that nothing is dark have you ever thought of that what was here before the world was created nothing right but what was as to my 8-year-old daughter question was it black I told her why you think black she's like because when I close my eyes I see black nothing is not dark darkness is not nothing I mean so when I first left my body the first thing that hit me besides the darkness that was wasn't any time and we are stuck in this reality that is called time that I'm controlled by time time doesn't stop you can't catch the time the a second ago is already the past at the moment that maybe wasn't even never existed who said that the past ever existed maybe you're only living in the present and in the future and so there's no past right okay I'm not going to now drive you crazy with so Thoughts with no with no Solutions we are not in a dimension that is called time because if I was in the dimension of time I would be able to relate or near minimum control the time so I have to go into the dimension of time to understand two things a that I'm not in that Dimension but B The Secret of a giving birth to new things and it's not only children can be a business idea can be a relationship that just started you just birthed a relationship it was never existed Moshe and never knew each other and now they met and they birth a new relationship something that never existed in the world the relationship between these two people but the trick here is that to give birth into new things has to be in this reality because I can give birth to new things in my mind all day long in Hebrew it's called diot all these imaginations all day long how are you going to win the lottery huh we all have that come on come on we all have that how I win the lottery and I come and then then they're and I'm like wow what am I going to do with the money and after an hour you fantasizing you didn't even remember to buy even a ticket but everybody's living in these fantasies all day long so you're not in the dimension of time you're in the dimension of fantasies and most people live in fantasy land or as it would be called in Hebrew di not imagining things now you have the imagination of how much you want to be rich and the Beautiful house you want to live in and the gorgeous husband that is just going to come and sweep you off your legs with that Convertible Mercedes these are the DI sh but then there's also the Deon this this this imagination that she's talking behind my back and he's cheating on me and he's trying to cheat me out of my money all day long these imaginations in my mind and what is birthed from that everything but happiness so the birthing to birth something new has to be in this reality reality not in this imaginated reality now don't be offended I'm including myself here too most of us imagine things all day long that are not connected to the reality there's a very fine line when you are a dreamer when you think of things and you develop them that's a whole different things everybody made fun of me when I was a little kid you know that I'll confess now it didn't hurt me emotionally okay I'm not emotionally broken from that but everybody laughed at me when I was a kid you'll never make it you're not good you really think you're going to do that which I didn't care luckily I have a personality that I don't care what people think luckily but the reality is that almost everything that I did in my life it doesn't matter from where it came from it it was marked okay which is in one way good gave me the drive to say okay I'll show you not nothing here to argue we'll live and we'll see so there's nothing wrong to have a a dreamy attitude if it's in this reality that I'm not going into imaginations that will never happen and when I said I'm including myself I also Imagine in my mind a lot of things like you most people imagine all day longs but I'm saying imagining it can be wishes can be prayers can be and I'm saying about wishes about very very simple things vanity things not wishes that I wish now for the the Redemption to happen talking about basic day to day I'm jumping into your brain right now and analyzing that we're all thinking all day long of this di di it won't happen won't happen and I was a teenager I was in love with a beautiful girl and I used to look at her every day I never walked up to her and at some point I was like it's not going to happen she's not going to look at me I'm not her type I only 14 don't go far with that but nevertheless it won't happen at some point I understood it won't happen stop dreaming of her you need to sometimes realize this is a dream or this is an imagination it won't happen puppet birth ideas that are healthy now that we're talking about laughter joy happiness all that wonderful things now in the month of they made even a a jingle for that it's a jingle they wanted to sell something probably it's a catchy jingle it's not the the Russian worker in the bakery Misha it's m but nevertheless why do I increase in joy I wanted you be happy in k no The Secret of impregnation or the pregnancy what's called iur is a I'll say it the secret behind the secret of the pregnancy and I'm not translating it right I'm actually translating it not explaining it is not the secret of pregnancy is the concept behind the impregnation but let's focus on something here the word secret of the pregnancy is numerical value of 353 let's pull out from our hat another word that has the same numerical value which is Sim Sim is happiness right I'm sure you heard the name Sim the word the name numerical value of 350 353 sem numerical value of the word s joy and has another interesting numerical value that will shed light on the matter there is a verse in chapter 20 5 verse4 in the book of and the verse goes the secret of the Lord is with those who fear Him Now ignore the English let's go to the holy language and the words the and again I can't translate so I'll just say the word okay I'm sure you're familiar with the verse cuz we read chapter 25 a lot in during our prayers the verse in the verse there are three words again the translation I read I'll read again the secret of the Lord is with those who fear Him okay kind of close to but the numerical value of what do you know 353 so the secret of pregnancy which we know is s how do you get to that the and I'll read it again the secret of the Lord is with those who fear Him so the secret of the joy is and was mid Joy will come from not from anything else the real Joy so the revelation of the secret so to say will come only by joy and the condition is God-fearing but I explain to you that the title is God-fearing but I'll elaborate I explained that three times in the last three months in a few of the lectures has the same word same letters and can be read the same for the word in Hebrew I see is that I see sh hasem everywhere that's don't walking like that like I'm afraid of God that's not is that everything that happens sh means we call sh right shamai means sky or Heavens or firmament but we also call hasem Sham so the secret the true secret will come only through joy and to get to that has to be and erase now the idea that I have to be afraid is that I see the hand in of God in everywhere that's do you see the hand in God of God in the Holocaust okay if they don't get quick answers then you have to start asking yourself about your I'm not afraid of God I honor God I respect God I am afraid let's cut to the chase but sh is not that I'm afraid of God and I'm not going to say now because I'm afraid of G or something that's very low level is it any event that I see I see that it was the hand of God that did that whether it's the Holocaust 7 of October the death of my loved one it doesn't matter it's I see that God did it not you not you and not you that's the condition to real Joy now why why is fear which is a direct descendant of mid of judgment why is that going to be the source of happiness because the guards me from the evil laughter from the vanity laughter from the nonsense that's what guards me not anything else the right fear that I'm applying creates a new space in my soul to to just reject this false Joy just think of the mechanism that the Tor is giving you nature your your impulse is to go to something minute and irrelevant to get your quick fix cigarettes drug alcohol food sex it doesn't matter you need a quick fix everyone has their thing you're I need to relax and then of course the next level quick not a quick fix Quick Fix will be a shot of of whiskey okay or something that will take you 2 3 minutes a a longer a h relaxation session will be a movie for 2 hours or a shopping spree for 5 hours or a vacation for 3 days it doesn't matter the the fear that I have from God and I'm choosing to say don't let's not call it fear right now let's call the my eyesight that is what will guard me from going to the wrong place because that will create the right and new place in my soul that over there will will appear the true happiness so again let me H do the order again the revelation of the true secret comes by joy and happiness which the condition is that the reaction or the result of is you you is creating a new place or thank you or the right place in my neish in my being that when the real true happiness shows I can see it do you understand the fine line here because many times false happiness came your way and you accepted and you enjoyed it a good meal or a good movie or whatever it is or good also a good gossip by the way sometimes talking 20 minutes with their neighbor you got 20 minutes of Juicy information that's your fix I don't I'm home I'm happy now cuz I just heard that she's getting divorced he's cheating on her they're broke I got my fix I don't need alcohol or drugs I just need to hear the suffering of others so the true happiness sometimes show up and you don't even give it the time of day you don't even recognize that that's what's going to give you the happiness so doing what I just told you will give you the ability that when the true happiness shows which is the positive happiness coming from the place of Tor you recognize it it's kind of a cycle cuz that will cause you to also increase your because you see how hasem is working on your behalf now let's go one step forward before I told you that let's take the month of shat in the month of Adar and connect them so we take the sadik of Adar and the K the sadik of shat and the K of Adar and put them together so let's take the same concept of a a leap year a pregnant year and if this is the order then the month of shat gives birth to the month of Adam th this is a a term in cabalistic teaching that what comes before or precedes the next gave birth to him so my child came after me so obviously I gave birth to my child well my my my wife did the hard work I just paid the bills but nevertheless from from me came another generation that's after me so in most cases we use the word give birth when something precedes H another concept like we're learning we learning now sh and I keep telling you that every mid birs another mid right Pride will birth anger and so forth so in this this case shat gives birth to Adar the energy that funnels from shat will roll over to Adar saying in other words that the sadic of Adar birs the K of sorry that sadic ofat birth is the K of AD so the sadik and the K it hints us on the laughter like I told you thead and the do the in the middle you have the and I didn't make it up by the way this this is this is coming from the Torah and the same thing with you have the sadik and the K in his name now pay attention Sarah gave birth to when she was 90 what's the numerical value or which letter has the numerical value value of 90 sadik how was AB how old was abrah when he gave birth to 100 which letter has the numerical value of 100 K so again we see the sadik and the K if I would have to ask you what is the significance of the period of the month of Adar how would you define this significance of the month of in two words and it's written in the Miga I'll give you a hint it's not something that you need to think of the the energy of a D in two words good answer but not the right one no she's right but it's a good answer but not the right one or not the one that I'm looking for the energy that I'm talking about is called That's The Power of a is we flip it ham made a lottery that when he should annihilate us okay and it fell on so the entire concept of puim why is it called puim because is a lottery like a it was a they made a lottery what happened it says in the in the in the script in [Music] the and it got flipped over so ad has the energy the K to flip things around you have an issue that needs to be dealt in a court do it in N you have issues with the government police IRS whatever do it in N Go to courts in in n a very powerful month to deal with anything that has to do with courts and and and situations that you need the situation to to totally flip so if the energy of so let's first was thead who gave birth to the K right so let's switch right now right I want the to be first and the to be last so what do I get called no no no no the was the order of thead and the K okay now I'm using the energy of so now the K is first and the sadic is last what word do you get cats cats is the end what is the last month of the year come on what is the last month of the year excuse me Nissan is the first month of the year so the last month of the year is AD listen we don't have to be here on the mathematical level the first month of the year is Nishan is Nissan I'm not talking about January and I'm not talking about is the seventh month in the year Nissan is the first month of the year that makes ad the last month of the year so when you then what do I get I get Kats the end excuse me you have to understand that every month gets connected to the next month and pushes the energy to the next month it rolls over AT&T and Verizon didn't invent the rolling over system this is a 3,000 year old system that the energy of the month of shat rolls over to the month of AD where do we see how things work the the month of they meet so the noon ofan which is the last ofan it means the it meets happens to be here we're not going to explain it in depth but the noon of ofan gets attached to the of and what do you get an s a miracle so one thing has to attach to the other and it always carries from the previous month so let's focus on the word Kats for a second many many times I've explained that the word ks in our Torah is referring to the end of days k right that's the end of days now end of days sounds bad right it really has to I mean you have to say the word as it is but really when you're looking at the concept it's not the end it's the beginning so H when a woman is pregnant and the child is born then the pregnancy is over if the pregnancy is over you're going into the next stage in reality so K is referring to the end of days which is what we are focusing on most of the time right now a lot of the topics we're talking about what is we seeing unfold in front of our eyes we're at the end the end is not negative we're just at the end at the end of the race is actually pretty positive you're done with it so the end is actually a good thing but Kat refers to the complete and Final Redemption there's going to be many redemptions there was also a Redemption 3,000 years ago in MIT we're talking about the complete Redemption which means it's completed and there's no other Redemption after that that's what's called the real Redemption and complete it's finished so going back to the complete Redemption what's going to happen in the GMA what's going to happen when we finalize everything and by the way it's going to be a a period it's not the Messiah appears and everything goes perfect it will be a period but what's going to happen at the end at the end at the end G what's going to happen many things I know you I I know you're thinking cuz many things are going to happen but the major major thing that is going to happen when mashiah is going to come excuse me you're all right but what's really going to happen the the wisdom at the time that mashia is going to come we're all going to be gen like we're going to be like and the the people the the humans who live they we knew we know Hashem that's like what does that mean that we see godliness everywhere saw the Matrix he saw the power of God that enens the world that's what we're going to see when mashia comes we're going to see Hashem so how can I say that in simple language we're going to see hasem how do I say in simple language how how do you say that in simple language all the secrets will be revealed that's it that's what's going to happen when mhia is going to come now you can say it in a fancy word or any other way but the reality is that when the Final Redemption is going to happen we are going to be in such a high level of a spiritual being that to advance days of the Redemption we're not going to be eating food we're not going to be relating with each other how we relating we're going to do everything completely different to Tora is going to be our food we're going to live like Adam and like it was in ganeden and the most dominating thing is that we're going to see God we're going to understand God we're not going to have to see it from the from the text we're going to understand everything that's saying in other words all the secrets will be revealed it says in the book of Danielle 12: 13 that's a different concept but you are you are right the seventh Millennium I mean we are the world was created for 7,000 years and after that it's going to be destroyed 6,000 years is when the world exists as we know it and once we hit 7,000 it's going to be a thousand years of G that's six days of the week correspond to 6,000 years of creation and Shabbat corresponds to the seventh Millennium a thousand years of yum Shabbat now it's not that we're going to be sitting around the table and eating H it's a idea of shabbaton no creation no doing Shabbat and so forth so what was I saying is that the time of the G is everything will be revealed you going to understand everything we our mind will be blown away from all the secrets that will be revealed but let me finalize so we can so we can uh understand everything behind that it says in the book of Danielle in chapter 12 verse 13 and you will rest and rise to your lot at the End of Days End of Days always goes to the days of the G so when we have the word Kats that's referring to the end of days the end of days the coming of Messiah but the complete Redemption not the beginning cuz I can tell you now Messiah is already here the Redemption already started you maybe didn't see the mssiah yet but the actions we're already in the Redemption we're already in the process the Redemption in Egypt took 84 years so we're in the Redemption when exactly Messiah is going to come I don't know but we're already in the process the revelation of all secrets what's the major secret that we would all want to know is when mashiah coming when is the Redemption if you would tell me when it's coming I will take a deep breath and hold but if I don't know when how long do we need to wait another 100 years another thousand years we don't know when mashiah is coming if if we would have a date then I would be like okay it's coming in 40 years let me be efficient and I don't have to you know be under pressure but nevertheless is that the main secret of the Redemption that we're all H looking for and waiting is something very simple we read it in chapter of B right our mouth will be filled with laughter right we're talking about the return of to to and then how does it end right we were as dreamers but what's the the bottom line right as then our mouth will be filled just with laughter so what we're just going to be walking stoned all day long what are you imagining here that's what I imagined 25 years ago we're going to be drunk all day long drunk High wasted laughing all day long well what's going to all day long we're going to be laughing how are you I'm great no our mouth will be filled with laughter is that the state of redemption is the state of happiness that it's explained as laughter but it's just going to be high level of Consciousness that you all you're just going to be full of happiness and joy now you can't really laugh so much sorrow going around you you feel bad to laugh even I feel bad now enjoying myself or laughing and why so much sorrow in the world people are like what people are going through and I have the to laugh right now it's very hard to laugh when you seeing what going on I had an argument recently with somebody the famous argument I said in one of the classes lately that many think that everybody will be included in the Redemption and I said the the forget about what you think let look at the fact the fact is that in the last 30 years many people have died so they didn't make it to the Redemption so don't tell me in the everybody will make it yeah every everybody who survived will make it but that doesn't include everybody and the fact is that in the last 30 years 40 years 50 years not talking about 3,000 years let's just narrow it down to the last 20 years how many people died made it to thei made it to the Gul why are you telling me everybody will make it to the Gula why you living in that false concept I can die today I'll make it to the G everybody will be redeemed what kind of what nonsense is that you know who will make it who will who will be the the ones who be redeemed the ones who made it and they'll say we all made it all 300 of us that's who's going to make it the ones who are really going to make it I read to you from the zor a month ago only the ones who are holding on to hem that's it that's it you don't need to laugh right now real laughter is within but the ones if you are asking yourself who will survive the coming of msia the turbulence of only the ones who holding to that's it needless to say you have a lot of sins you're going to have an issue but the test will be is how much you believe in Theos but in the meantime we don't have that we don't have that ability to laugh right now we want it we're looking for it we're working on it but right now we're at the end interestingly when it says I and we had this argument already many times I don't want to do that because people you know really troll me on my videos when I say that but the reality is that not everybody's going to make it to the complete Redemption right that's the fact you waiting for the G you're waiting for the Gul if Shalom one of us should die soon can you say he made it to the Redemption no when do we believe that everybody will be included in the complete Redemption is in the resurrection of the Dead I told you already you know who saw the resurrection of the Dead while he was alive many other maybe others but the ones that we know of when he was on the altar about to be a sacrifice the Torah says that later on was blind one of the commentaries says that while he was on the altar the heavens opened and the tears of the angels went on his eyes and made him blind that's one of the commentaries another commentary is that the wives of asav they used to do idol worship they used to burn incense and all sorts of stuff like that and that made him blind that they shouldn't see what they're doing but saw the at the time of the why because has in his name two letters sadik and K which we just did the the but he also has another two letters you and if you take these four letters you form two words KS what does it mean that the laughter we're going to understand only in you're going to understand everything you're going to understand why the Holocaust happened and why SE SE I said September so I'll throw September 11 on it or October 7 or January 2nd or March 13 I know you're asking yourself March 13 I just invented a date okay now we don't understand nothing I don't understand why my brother my partner my fellow Jew can stab me in my back I don't understand that I do not understand that I do not understand a lot of things which drives me crazy and when it drives me crazy it takes me off my focus of what I need to do learn T do be nice to other people don't don't try to figure out things right now you won't figure it out then you're going to understand to conclude every month has a a corresponding tribe what with Al what's the corresponding tribe to Al the corresponding tribe to the month of Al is the tribe of Lev Le explains that Adar Al is Chev Levi and the tribe of Levi they are known for their talents in music in Singing in playing and in order to be a good singer or a good musician you need one basic thing if you don't have that you won't you won't make it what is that thing that you need Soul you said well that's we all need a soul but what does a good musician need I'll ask you differently if you don't have that you can't be a m a musician thank you very much Rhythm no rhythm you're not a musician musicians are known to have rhythm good Rhythm to have a good Rhythm that that's a a a talent that's a a a a very special talent to have the right Rhythm now having the right rhythm in music that's important but having the right rhythm in your life then you really surpass most people people if you're able to have the right rhythm in your life you know when to dance when to stop when to laugh when to be serious interestingly rhythm in Hebrew is called KV KV if you take the root of the word KETV means to cut like a butcher it's called katav KETV the root of the word KETV is to cut and to separate by measure but nevertheless we add a SE instead of a so it's K not k k is rhythm it's great to be a musician and to have rhythm but I'm talking here about the right Rhythm the Rhythm of Life the Rhythm of Life is that one time you up and one time you down and rinse and repeat up down up down up down that's why somehow they decided that the monitors in hospitals to show the heart rate goes up and down that's the Rhythm of Life you inhale you exhale you inhale you exhale you don't stop if you stop then will'll say nicely goodbye excuse meat we said it's K and aad the cats two adim we have two adim right now how do you say two in Hebrew BET right time is not correct two is bet so I have a and aik of shat and Adar now I have two adars what do I get with a kadik and a bit get him I get the right Rhythm right you need to get to the right Rhythm most people how do you call that thing in English I don't know the word in English that does tick tick tick tick tick tick how metronome okay same okay I didn't know you need to find the metronome of your life the tick tick tick tick I have to maintain my inner rhythm and that's a system in my soul that my soul knows how to choose the right thing in the right time that's called and that's the secret of Al the month that comes to visit us every 3 four years has the ability to give you the right Rhythm to put you in a place that you have a mechanism in your soul tick tock tick tock right wrong right wrong a system and a mechanism that makes you understand and gives you the tools how to choose in the right time the right thing and that's the Rhythm this is called the right that's not the right thing to do right now that's mid when and how much do I stop you or myself and that that if you want to translate it is knowledge but that I would choose more to say Consciousness so you have the right Consciousness and that guides you to the right actions and to the right mid so when you want to summarize everything into one one concept then Al with everything that I just explained to you is now an opportunity that comes every 2 3 years depending on the cycle that when I will apply the the request of ad that would be the result what is the request or the order or the Commandment of it's not a commandment it's not even a request it's a recommendation you have to increase in Joy but not in Netflix and Tik Tok and all that stuff the real happiness so how do you get to the real happiness if we go backwards and everything that I just said I want when we just said that the happiness is the is the fear of hem and not me being afraid is me seeing the hand of hem in everything in my life and when you apply that if you reverse engineer what I just told you then that's what you will get true happiness and your Consciousness is Right which would lead to the right actions and the right mid one month in a year can cause so much change so what is required to do the increase in happiness and doesn't mean put music and dance that's nice that's very nice to put music and dance that's not you increasing happiness in the month of adab I see the increasing the happiness in the month of ad is not through music or through some substance or some party that's not increasing happiness I will reverse engineer what I just told you I will go to the cuz the is what's going to birth the the true happiness why because I choose the right thing at the right time and I lead my life to bring myself to the complete and the Final Redemption so enjoy this powerful month double Rejoice on roses because you're going into a very powerful month happens to be that this year is going to fall on Shabbat on Shabbat double the power like I told you that when we have the sadik ofat and we have the K of but we have two adim so we have the bet the two then I have K and with that KV with that Rhythm then I know how to enjoy and to benefit from the energy of Al that is a rare energy for us to to be acquainted to so take advantage of that what to do and how to do we'll learn next week a few more things but now at least you have the the understanding of the rhythm of how this month works and why Adar is that special and why Adar Alf is so special because usually Adar Alf doesn't get any of the credit all the celebrations are pushed to a darit if it's a birthday B Mitzvah whatever it is it will be pushed to a darit the celebration of the birth and death day of mosu is not celebrated next week on Z we do something so that extra push that we get that's the month that you can really focus your on and the Practical practice is that you just need to get used to that everything that you see is the hand of God good or bad the good is easy to see search in the bad how can it be that in the bad the hand of God is in there and when you find find the reason of God why he did it whether it's clear or not or whether you find it or not then you understand that this bad is not bad it's part of the system it's part of the process then you can keep a true smiling face on your on on on on your expression even if bad things happen and like I told you I got out of the most hardest situations in my life through happiness and joy and laughter understanding that's what hasem wants from me right now right now hasem wants me to be ill poor sick single whatever he wants I I'm not happy with that but that's what Hashem wants right now that's the diet that I have to go through that's the medicine to cure me from my junk then I should be happy that Hashem is designing for me the exact way for me to clear myself from my from my from my poisons so we'll conclude with the famous state I would say even in the month of shat starts increasing joy and understand that hasem has our back everything is going according to plan let hasem do his thing you sit back and relax and just enjoy the [Music] show [Music]